20/20 (ABC News)

Episode: Bad Romance: A Dangerous Game (Revisited)
Date: December 24, 2025

Episode Overview

This episode revisits the gripping true crime case of Tim and Becky Bleifnik—a seemingly perfect couple whose marriage turned into a high-profile, chilling murder case in Quincy, Illinois. The episode explores their relationship, the events leading up to Becky's tragic death, and the subsequent investigation and trial that captured national attention, especially due to Tim's infamous appearance on Family Feud, where a joke would later gain haunting significance.

Main Discussion Points & Insights

The Bleifniks: The American Dream (02:33–06:09)

• Tim and Becky Bleifnik were respected community members, described as energetic, outgoing, and focused on family and career.
  • Sarah Riley (Becky's Sister): "My sister Becky was a people person. She can walk into a room and talk to anybody, and they would be her best friend by the end of the night." (03:02)
• Tim was a "charismatic performer" and star athlete; Becky was academically accomplished and practical.
• Their pragmatism extended to their marriage—foregoing luxuries to build a stable future.

Mounting Pressure and Marital Struggles (11:23–13:16)

• As Becky's career advanced, stress mounted. She returned to school to become a nurse while balancing two (soon three) children and work.
• Tension built as Tim took on more parenting, and Becky, with deep faith, made career sacrifices to sustain the family.
  • Friend/Family Member: "She was willing to sacrifice her own happiness really for the stability of the family." (11:42)

The "Family Feud" Moment (07:28–08:13; 12:03–13:05)

• Tim and his family appeared on Family Feud. When asked, "What was the biggest mistake you made at your wedding?" Tim replied, "Honey, I love you, but said I do."
  • Tim on Family Feud: "Honey, I love you, but said I do." (07:51)
  • Steve Harvey responds: "I'm gonna get in trouble for that, aren't I? Yeah. It's gonna be a lot of hell to pay at your house." (07:56)
• The joke went viral and, in retrospect, became a dark foreshadowing.

The Breakup and Escalation (13:16–15:49)

• Tim filed for divorce. The split was acrimonious, with both parties requesting (but being denied) restraining orders over claims ranging from harassment to threats.
  • Becky expressed documented fear for her safety:
    Becky (in a text): "If something ever happens to me, please make sure the number one person of interest is Tim. I'm putting this in writing that I'm fearful he will somehow harm me, come after me, or will try something to me that takes me away from the kids." (15:16)
• Custody battles fostered resentment and anxiety for the children's wellbeing.

The Night of the Tragedy (16:33–18:48; 19:23–20:13)

• In February 2023, Becky failed to pick up her children—unheard of for her—which raised alarms. Her father discovered her dead in the bathroom, shot 14 times.
  • Debra Roberts: "She had been shot 14 times through her hand, in a lung, in a paralyzing shot in her spine." (18:39)
• The killer had broken in by scaling the roof and forcing a second-floor window.

Investigation: Clues and Circumstantial Evidence (20:13–23:16)

• Surveillance footage showed a "ghostly figure" on a bike near Becky's home around the time of the murder, but the image was too grainy for ID.
• Police focused on Tim due to Becky's warnings and the custody dispute, but hard evidence was elusive.
  • Detective: "Tim was compliant... He didn't talk to the police. He didn't have to talk to the police." (22:48)
• No fingerprints or murder weapon were found, but shell casings at Tim's house matched those from the crime scene.

The Trial: Rushing Towards Justice (26:01–29:58)

• Illinois law required a trial within 90 days due to Tim being held without bond, placing pressure on both sides.
  • Defense Attorney (Casey Schnock): "In my career, 17 years in homicide, I never even heard of a murder trial going... as quickly as this one." (26:01)
• Prosecution built its case on:
  • Ballistics link between shell casings.
  • Tim's suspicious internet searches (such as inquiries about opening doors with crowbars, police response times, and how to wash off gunpowder residue).
    • Detective: "The most chilling one was, can I just wash gunpowder residue off my hands?" (30:55)
  • The presence and activity of a figure on a bike matching up with shutdowns of Tim's phone and computer.

Key Evidence: The Bike and Digital Footprint (33:21–34:19)

• Investigators found Tim (under a fake name) had recently bought a blue Schwinn mountain bike—matching the one seen in surveillance—without reflectors, as seen on video.
  • Detective: "The bike purchased by that... John Smith is just like the one on that ghostly surveillance video." (33:52)
• Still, the defense argued the evidence was circumstantial: no DNA/fingerprints definitively linked Tim to the murder.

Closing Arguments and Verdict (36:46–39:00)

• Jury deliberation was tense and emotional.
  • Sarah Riley (Becky's Sister): "It's the longest four hours of our life. Time went by impossibly, slowly." (37:33)
• Verdict: Guilty of first-degree murder.
  • Jury Foreperson: "We, the jury, find the defendant, Timothy Blick, guilty of first degree murder." (38:53)

Sentencing and Family Reflections (39:42–44:42)

• Tim Bleifnik received three life sentences; the court labeled the act as meticulously researched, premeditated, and brutal.

  • Judge (paraphrased): "You planned this murder. You broke into her house and you shot her... The court believes that the appropriate sentence would be natural life in prison." (39:50–40:10)

• Becky's family and friends shared moving statements, highlighting the profound impact of the loss and what Becky meant to her community.

  • Sarah Riley (Becky's Sister): "Maybe you should have Googled childhood PTSD in between your Internet searches for homemade silencers and VIN numbers." (41:00)
  • Friend/Family Member: "Even though she was murdered, like, Becky didn't live life that way. She was this incredible, capable, amazing mom and friend. And she was a whole person before that." (41:34)

• Becky's parents gained temporary custody of her three boys and vowed to raise them in her spirit.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Tim’s "bad joke" on Family Feud:
  "Honey, I love you, but said I do." (07:51)
  In hindsight, this viral moment became a grim touchstone of the story.

• Becky’s chilling message to her sister:
  "If something ever happens to me, please make sure the number one person of interest is Tim. I'm putting this in writing that I'm fearful he will somehow harm me..." (15:16)

• Prosecutor’s closing:
  "After he executed Becky in cold blood and left her there on that bathroom, he went back to his house, where police would later find 27 shell casings that exactly matched the eight shell casings that were fired by the gun that shot and killed and executed Becky." (35:21)

• Sarah Riley (at sentencing):
  "Your children's future will be forever impacted by your crime. They are already suffering. Maybe you should have Googled childhood PTSD..." (41:00)

Key Timeline Segments

• 02:33 — The Bleifniks’ backgrounds and idyllic early years
• 07:51 — The infamous "I do" joke on Family Feud
• 15:16 — Becky’s written fears of Tim
• 16:33–18:48 — Discovery of the murder and early investigation
• 22:09 — Police focus turns firmly to Tim
• 26:01 — Legal battle and compressed trial timeline
• 30:37–30:55 — Prosecution’s unveiling of Tim’s incriminating internet searches
• 33:21–34:19 — The "ghost bike" evidence
• 38:53–39:00 — Verdict is read: guilty
• 39:42–41:00 — Family and sentencing statements

Episode Tone

The episode maintains a somber, investigative tone, with moments of deep empathy from family members and friends. The interplay of methodical legal reporting and emotional testimony provides a full portrait of the tragedy and its aftermath.

Summary Takeaways

• The Bleifnik case is a harrowing example of how strained relationships and hidden fears can escalate into tragedy, even in the most picture-perfect communities.
• Circumstantial evidence—digital footprints, surveillance, and behavioral patterns—played a decisive role in the absence of direct forensic ties.
• Becky Bleifnik is remembered not as a victim, but for her kindness, resilience, and community spirit.
• The story also highlights systemic challenges in protecting individuals amid domestic disputes, and the devastating impact on families left behind.

This summary is intended to provide a comprehensive guide to the episode for those who have not listened, highlighting the key narrative arcs, emotional moments, and evidentiary details that shaped this unforgettable true crime story.