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Ashley Flowers
Some cases fade from headlines, some never
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made it there to begin with.
Ashley Flowers
I'm Ashley Flowers and on my podcast
Private Investigator RJ Decker
the Deck, I tell you the stories
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of cold cases featured on playing cards distributed in prisons designed to spark new leads and bring long overdue justice. Because these stories deserve to be heard and the loved ones of these victims still deserve answers. Are you ready to be dealt in? Listen to the Deck now, wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome Back to the 2020 True Crime Vault. That awful day, December 31st.
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Shelly's last day. You see the last time she's captured on video, which is entering the building at about 8pm Rod says his daughter called him, said, something's wrong with mommy. He sees his wife face down in the bathtub.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I got a call from Shelly's babysitter. She said to me, there's been an accident. Shelly slipped and fell. And I said, rose, is Shelly alive? And she said, no, I heard that
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she had slipped in the bathtub and died. Obviously that was beyond shocking because she
Private Investigator RJ Decker
was young and she had little children.
Ashley Flowers
As a detective, you could understand why this did look like an accident.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Absolutely.
Ashley Flowers
Your sister's 47 years old, pretty healthy.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Did it make sen?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
But there are some things that seem inconsistent with a simple slip and fall.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She says, I may need to drop my kids off by you. I'm afraid for my life.
Narrator/Reporter
They don't dust for fingerprints. They take any DNA evidence.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
At this time, the family objected to an autopsy.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
I hate to say this, but without
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an autopsy, sometimes people can get away with murder. Good morning America on this New Year's Eve, December 31, 2009, we're gonna go for high in the city's 38 degrees today.
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It's December 31, 2009, and New Year's Eve preparations are underway in Times Square.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
In just a few hours, Times Square is gonna be transformed into the biggest New Year's Eve party in the world.
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Meantime, a a mile and a half north, a tragedy is unfolding inside a Manhattan luxury apartment building. The unexpected death of 47 year old mom of two, Shelly Kovlan.
Narrator/Reporter
There's a lot of shock at this Upper west side address. Shelly was a healthy, vibrant woman in the prime of her life.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I was living in the building at
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the time when I heard the tragic news that a young mother had lost her life by slipping in a bathtub. Shelly was an acquaintance. I knew her from the lobby. She seemed like a very lovely person and very attentive to her kids.
Narrator/Reporter
People describe Shelly as very warm and a really kind person. She's very beautiful blonde, very petite. She's five' four.
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How did you see Shelly growing up as the older sister?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
She was a great sister. She was very loving, she was fun, she was energetic, she was electric.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She would walk into a room and
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she would light it up.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Shelly was the glue that kept us all together.
Narrator/Reporter
Shelly was an Orthodox Jew. Her religion was very important to her and she lived a traditional Jewish life.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
My father came from a very religious home himself and we were observant. Modern Orthodox family.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
After studying marketing in college, Shelley later develops a passion for numbers and begins to climb the corporate ladder of New York's world of high finance.
Narrator/Reporter
Shelley was very driven. She worked at Merrill lynch with her father and her brother as wealth manager, and then they were recruited to ubs.
Ashley Flowers
What was it that made her so good at what she was doing?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Such an honorable person and a reliable person. In our business, to be trusted, to be, you know, a valued advisor is so important. In addition to her career success, Shelly was longing to start a family.
Ashley Flowers
You had found love and got married to Mark. Shelly in her early 30s, still trying to find, you know, that right person. What was that like for her?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I'm sure it was very frustrating. She was looking for Mr. Right. She wanted to be married, she wanted children. That's what she wanted.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I met Shelley February 15, the day after Valentine's Day in 1998, at a Jewish singles party at a place called Le Barbette. We started chatting and, I mean, we hit it off.
Ashley Flowers
What was it about her that sparked interest for you?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
She was smart. We wanted the same things in life. There was just an instant connection.
Narrator/Reporter
They met and just fell head over heels for each other.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
He was a Much younger man, 6, 2, good looking, blue eyes, solid muscle, and he completely swept off her feet.
Narrator/Reporter
They had this whirlwind bromance, even though there was this significant age gap. He was 25 at the time, she was 36.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She called us probably around 11 o'. Clock. She was giggling and she said, I met a guy and we're flying to Las Vegas to elope. And I said, oh my God, Shelly, please don't do this, please don't do this.
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He said he met this most wonderful
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woman in the world and he proposed marriage that night. Rod is a graduate from Columbia University with a degree in civil engineering, and he lavishes Shelly with attention. Just six weeks after they meet, Rod and Shelly are engaged.
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So he was smitten. Said she's terrific and I guess she felt the same way because they got
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married within six months early on things were fantastic. We did everything together and we enjoyed each other's company very much.
Narrator/Reporter
They moved into a very nice apartment in the Dorchester Towers on the Upper west side.
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It's located in an affluent area just blocks from Lincoln center and Central Park. This is the same neighborhood serving as a backdrop for Only Murders in the Building, the popular Hulu series about a trio of true crime fanatics intent on solving a murder in their own building. I don't lock my door. Never have. That's insane. Neighborly.
Ashley Flowers
I mean, a murderer probably lives in the building.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I lived in the Dorchester for 15 years, 24, seven doorman. I felt very safe there.
Narrator/Reporter
It's a very family oriented part of Manhattan.
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Shelly's younger sister knows that she desperately wants to start a family.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She didn't get pregnant right away, you know, she was in her 30s and so she knew she just wanted to go straight to ivf. And the first one worked.
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They have a baby girl, Anna. How happy was the family? Everyone was thrilled.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She was elated. She loved being a mother.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
When we finally had Anna, it was fantastic. I always made her birthday cakes for her parties. We did science projects together. I mean, it was great. I taught her how to make balloon animals. We'd go to the playground and she would make balloon animals for the other kids.
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Rod and Shelly want to expand their family and soon she's pregnant again with twins. But there are complications. The babies are born prematurely at just six months.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She delivered them. One died at birth and the other one died several hours later.
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How did that impact her?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She was devastated. She really was.
Ashley Flowers
That heartbreak had to be tough on the marriage.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
It was.
Ashley Flowers
How did that affect your son and his wife? They were all very, very upset for quite a while.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
A year and a half later, Shelly gives birth to a son who they name Miles.
Ashley Flowers
This is the four of them. That's very sweet. Very, very sweet family.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She had her girl and she had her boy. Yeah.
Ashley Flowers
And the family was happy for her?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Absolutely, very, yes.
Ashley Flowers
Did the happiness return to the marriage?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
You know, initially, sure. But I think that it unfortunately didn't change things for very long.
Ashley Flowers
I think at that point the marriage was deteriorating. Rod had barely worked at all.
Narrator/Reporter
He always had a bit of difficulty with steady employment. He was a stockbroker at one point. That didn't quite work out.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
She really would have loved to stay
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home and be with the kids, but
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she saw that was not in the card. I mean, he couldn't hold a job.
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And just as Shelley and Rod's relationship seems to be crumbling, her family Says he makes her a shocking proposition.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Backgammon is not simply a matter of shaking the dice. It's how you use particular role that you get. And it appeals to people who are very mathematically minded.
Ashley Flowers
What was it about the game that attracted you?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
There is plenty of math and there's a lot of deep thought required, which again is very surprising given the fact that there are dice involved in the game.
Ashley Flowers
Fair to say it became an obsession?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I don't think so. I think if I'd say a passion. Rod spent a lot of his time and whatever money he was making on his dream of becoming a professional backgammon player. Backgammon's Rod's main focus. So Shelly's the major breadwinner in the family. And according to her family, it takes a terrible toll on their marriage.
Ashley Flowers
Whenever we would have family gatherings, he would sit on the side and either play backgammon on the computer or have a game going.
Narrator/Reporter
He is online at all hours, pulling all nighters and just constantly reaching out to women.
Ashley Flowers
Were other women starting to catch your eye?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Sure, sure. I definitely dated.
Ashley Flowers
Even though you were married?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Correct.
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So you began to see other women.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I did, I did. Rod often liked to take his dates to a place called Lure Fish Bar. It's an upscale restaurant in lower Manhattan known for its yacht like interior decorated.
Narrator/Reporter
He went on dates with numerous women. He favored this location because I believe he said, quote, they had yummy drinks.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
As Shelly and Rod approach their 10 year wedding anniversary, their marriage unravels.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She discovered that Rod was having an affair. It wasn't just one affair, it was several. He had left up an email from one of the women and so that's how she found out.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
At a certain point there probably wasn't very much love between Shelly and me. We were, I guess, out of love and, you know, we had two kids.
Ashley Flowers
Yet Shelly doesn't say anything to Rod at the time. And the couple celebrate their 10 year wedding anniversary. Shelly tells her sister that's when Rod makes a stunning proposition.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He said to her he wanted to have an open marriage. He still loved her, but wanted an open marriage.
Ashley Flowers
Ten years after they've been married. Yeah. How did she respond to that?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Oh, she was disgusted. She said, this is not okay for me and it's not okay for my children to see it. That anybody should be treated like this.
Narrator/Reporter
Here's a traditional Jewish woman and her husband wants an open marriage. And she swiftly rejected the idea. But that really caused a lot of problems. Not long after that, he returned home at 6am smelling of perfume.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
A few days later, Shelly tells her sister Eve that she had gotten fed up with Rod, writing in an email, I confronted him about my suspicions of him being with other people. And he confirmed and admitted to cheating. In March of 2009, Shelly contacted me because just wanted to get an idea of what her options were, how she could protect her kids, how she could protect her future and really prepare herself for the next step, which would be actually filing for divorce.
Ashley Flowers
Shelly doesn't move forward with the divorce at that time, but her family says that her husband's cheating and his constant absences were becoming unbearable for her.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
He was having these affairs. She just didn't want to be anywhere close to him. He came up with the idea that he would leave the apartment if she would sign the lease next door. The apartment across the hall became available and the kids wouldn't have me out of their life any more than was absolutely necessary. So there was always this thought of doing what was best for the kids from both of us. I did not feel it was the best idea having them in such a close vicinity to each other. But Shelly thought it might provide a little bit of consistency for the children. She loved her children, and that was what she lived for. Ann and Miles, in every fiber of her body, she loved them.
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In April of 2009, even though they're separated, Rod and Shelly take their kids to New Jersey for the week long Jewish holiday of Passover. They stay in the same hotel, but in different rooms.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
The four of them had gone away for Passover week together and Rod left. Midway through the holiday.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
He leaves his family to head to Las Vegas with another woman to attend a backgammon tournament. Though they're no longer together as a couple, Shelly's family says Rod is still incredibly demanding of her.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
When he came back and Shelly had come back from Passover, his suitcase was not unpacked and his laundry was not done. He flew off the handle. And mind you, he was already living in the apartment across the the hall. At that point she called me absolutely weeping.
Ashley Flowers
He expected her to unpack his suitcase.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Good morning America and Happy Mother's Day
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
to all the special women in our lives.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Thank you.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Happy Mother's Day to everybody out there.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
On Mother's Day, Shelly organizes an outing with Rod's family, hoping to maintain a relationship for the sake of the children.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
They had gone to the Botanical Gardens as a family together with his parents in public, Rod went into this major explosive temper rage and was screaming at Shelly. And he was calling her every ugly name in the book.
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In front of the children.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
In front of the children. And that's when she communicates with me and says, I may need to drop my kids off by you. I'm afraid for my life.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
She was texting me and calling me frantically. It's hitting the fan. Said he's going to move back into my apartment and kick me out at Botanical Gardens. Ready to proceed. And she followed up with a what should I do? That's the last straw for Shelly. She decides to file for divorce.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She changed the locks immediately once she knew that the papers were being served on him. His divorce papers.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Rod had pretty standard visitation with the children. He was seeing them on a regular basis.
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But soon there's a fight over custody of the children.
Narrator/Reporter
This is where it really gets extremely ugly. One night when Rod is supposed to return the children, he doesn't show up. Shelly is in a panic.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Every possible horrible thought was going through her mind.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He was charming, very charming, intelligent, funny in a quirky sort of way. And he was a good backgammon player.
Ashley Flowers
It's the 4th of July weekend in 2009. Shelly has already filed for divorce, and Rod is now in Michigan at a backgammon tournament. Here he runs into another backgammon player named Deborah, who he had become Facebook friends with. Deborah asked 2020, not to show her face during our interview.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
It never occurred to me that he would be attracted to me. I'm a lot older than he is. But when Rod wants something, you know, he can be very aggressive. The first time we met, he, you know, asked me out for a drink, asked me if I wanted to play a couple of games. After we walked back to the hotel, and, you know, went to his room, and I went into the restroom, and when I came out, he was, like, nude from the waist on down. And he came, like, came at me, and, I mean, I didn't say no.
Narrator/Reporter
He begins the relationship with Deborah Ules. She's a woman from North Carolina and about 14 and a half years his senior.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He said that he had been separated for, I think he said, seven months at that point, and she had filed for divorce. To me, it was just like what you'd hear of a typical divorce custody battle.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
But after Rod comes back to New York, things take a dark turn. During a scheduled visit with the kids
Narrator/Reporter
one night, when Rod is supposed to return the children, he doesn't show up.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She called me, and she was frantic, and she said, I don't know what. I said, is everything okay? She says, no, I don't know where my children are. And Rod was supposed to return them. He's not answering any text messages. He's not answering phone calls and I don't know where they are.
Narrator/Reporter
Shelly is in a panic. She is beside herself. She calls the police, she calls hospitals. She doesn't know what to do.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Shelly has no idea where Rod is. All attempts to reach him go unanswered. And she is desperate. I received frantic phone calls and emails from Shelly. She was crying. She was extremely concerned that something really bad had happened. God forbid there was an accident. She thought maybe he fled with the children. Every possible horrible thought was going through her mind.
Ashley Flowers
But in reality, what had happened was something Shelly couldn't have even fathomed. It turns out Rod had taken the children to a nearby hospital, claiming that his wife had sexually abused their two year old son, Miles.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
One, two o' clock in the morning, Child Protective Services got involved. They were up at the Columbia Presbyterian.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
ACS was interviewing them to make sure that there were no concerns about their safety. And until all these interviews and medical examinations were done, the children were not returned home to her.
Narrator/Reporter
There was an investigation and it was determined that there was just no basis for this at all.
Ashley Flowers
This was getting ugly.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She said, his hatred for me is stronger than his love for his children.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We immediately began to draft an application to suspend all of Rod's visitation based upon his behavior.
Narrator/Reporter
This really backfires on him. The judge is so outraged that she now says, you can only visit with the children now with the supervision of someone else.
Ashley Flowers
You had to be present for him to see.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
They had to be supervised after he took them to the hospital. Despite the custody issues, as the months go by, Shelly seems to be finding herself again.
Ashley Flowers
Though the divorce wasn't legally finalized yet, Rod offers Shelly a religious document called a get, which terminates the marriage under Jewish law.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
The GET allowed her to start dating. And so she started to kind of get out there and she was on J date and just meeting other men.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Shelley also begins meeting friends at the Friars Club. It's a private gathering spot in Manhattan that's known for those televised celebrity roasts. The Friars Club has a long and
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
distinguished tradition of paying tribute to the
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very finest entertainers in our nation's history. Tonight, they've broken with that tradition and are honoring Jerry Stone.
Narrator/Reporter
This whole new chapter of her life was opening and she just looked really, really great. And it seemed as though she was very excited about her future.
Ashley Flowers
Were you starting to see a different Shelly? Yeah, a lot more of the old Shelly.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And it was like this really bright
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light and it was Showing again after being dimmed for so long. Yeah, it was sparkly again. Was she happier from what you could see?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I think she was hopeful, yeah.
Ashley Flowers
Hopefully she was helpful by the end of the year. How was she?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She seemed fine, you know, getting on with things. She was just on the phone with work. Another call coming in was a fella she was dating and, you know, things were, things were good for her. Things seemed pretty good.
Ashley Flowers
So it looked like she was about to get this divorce and move on with her life.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Exactly.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
But on the morning of New Year's Eve, Shelly's nine year old daughter makes a gruesome discovery.
Narrator/Reporter
Rod says his daughter called him very distraught, said something's wrong with mommy.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
It's the morning of New Year's Eve, 2009. Rod Covlin, who's living across the hall from his estranged wife, says he gets a frantic call from their nine year old daughter, Anna. I got a call from Anna in the morning and she stuttered out something about mommy and the bathtub. And she was distraught. I mean, clearly distraught.
Narrator/Reporter
And he rushed across to the apartment
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and he told her to let him in. He said he came into the apartment.
Ashley Flowers
Inside, Rod says he heads into the bathroom and finds a horrific scene.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Shelly was floating in a pool of dark water. I mean, bloody water. Yeah, I grabbed her, I pulled her out.
Narrator/Reporter
He says that he pulls her out and then he eventually calls 911 and they tell him to perform CPR on his wife.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
On surveillance footage, you can see members of the New York Fire Department arrive, followed by paramedics. He continues to do CPR until EMS arrives and they come in and pretty quickly say that she's. She's gone. She's been dead a significant period of time. I get to the scene, I walk back to the bathroom. I observed the victim, Shelly Kavin, laying on the floor. There was a blanket over her. There was bloody water.
Narrator/Reporter
In the tub above the bathtub, there is a cabinet door. And when police come in, the cabinet door is halfway off its hinges. Rod tells that he thinks his wife had a terrible accident
Ashley Flowers
that awful day. December 31, 2009. How did you get word that your grandchildren's mother was dead?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Rod called us. I have never ever before or since seen my son in that state of mind. He said, they told me I had to keep doing CPR until they got there and I did it.
Ashley Flowers
How distraught was Rod?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Horrible. He was completely, completely and totally. I've never seen him out of it before. That morning, Shelly's nanny arrives and is stunned to learn of her death. And she immediately reaches out to Shelly's sister, Eve.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I got a call from Shelly's babysitter and she said to me, there's been an accident. Shelly slipped and fell in the bathtub. And I said, rose, is Shelly alive? And she said, no, I just had this involuntary scream that came out and just extreme grief.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Eve had said that there was an accident.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I think I didn't believe it when I heard it. And I just wailed and I just cried.
Ashley Flowers
Your sister's 47 years old, pretty healthy.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
God, it didn't make sense.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And it could have been a slip, could have been a fall. She had bruising to her face, like a scratch mark, some bruising to her hands. It didn't really look consistent with a fall, but a lot of people fall in the tub and die in New York. I wanted a second opinion, so I called over to the homicide squad, asked Detective Mooney to respond, over. My boss called and said, can you meet me at this address? The TUO has got a suspicious death. I walked down the hallway to where her. Her body is. But I. I'm paying attention to what the rest of the apartment looks like. It's clearly a lived in apartment where there's two little kids that are there. And I get to her bedroom and I can see that there's some disarray in there. The bed is not, certainly not made, but it doesn't even look like anybody was really sleeping in it. This is because Rod took the, the top sheet and the comforter off the bed to drape over her body because he didn't want the kids to see her is what he, what he said to us. Anna was trying to shield Miles. I was trying to shield Anna. It was, it was a nightmare of a. Of a scenario.
Ashley Flowers
Did you get to talk to Anna?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I got to sit in on her interview with one of the detectives.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And he started questioning and she told them that mommy had tucked the two of them into bed in her bed.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She said that she woke up at either one or three o'clock in the morning. She doesn't really remember.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Heard the bath running, went in and looked and saw her mother in the tub.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
And she thinks her mother is washing her hair. So she goes back to sleep. When she wakes up at 7 o', clock, she goes back and she sees her mother is still in the bathtub, though this time her head was submerged. And so that's when she said she realized something was wrong.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Rod opined that she must have been standing in the tub and slipped and grabbed this cabinet Door and yanked it out and fell down and hit her head and then drown it in the bathtub.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Detectives had no reason to believe that it was a crime scene. There's nothing there that would say, hey, this wasn't an accident. Father, daughter story matched up. And looking at the scene and listening to what the husband had to say, it made sense that she accidentally fell.
Narrator/Reporter
They have a crime scene guy coming and take pictures, but they don't take any forensic evidence. They don't dust for fingerprints, take any DNA evidence at this time.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
This was pretty much of an airtight surveillance system that was set up on that building. So this eliminates any possibility, in my opinion, of a stranger having come in and done this.
Ashley Flowers
You're a private investigator, but you were a detective with the New York City police for six. The thinking was that she may be grabbed for the cabinet. So as a detective, you could understand why this did look like an accident.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Absolutely. It would have been obvious if there were gunshot wounds, stab wounds, some type of ligature mark around the neck, something that would indicate that this was anything other than an accident. None of that was present.
Ashley Flowers
The water in the tub though, is bloody. Why would it be if there was no sign of any foul play, if
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
she accidentally slipped, fell, landed face down in the water over the course of time after you pass away, blood pools. Gravity pulls it down. The blood would start to seep out through the nostrils and discolor the water.
Ashley Flowers
No forced entry.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
I looked at the lock photos. We have no forced entry, no stranger in the apartment, no sign of a
Ashley Flowers
struggle in the house.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
No sign of a struggle. I mean, just a normal apartment.
Ashley Flowers
She's got two children in the household. Presumably they would have heard if there had been something that happened.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
That's correct. The nine year old daughter had a very consistent story with Rod Covlin's story.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I need to do an investigation to try to figure out exactly what happened. But until I had anything concrete, I had to go with an accidental fall. But there's a big problem. Before detectives can determine what exactly happened to Shelly, the scene would be scrubbed clean.
Ashley Flowers
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Ashley Flowers
As Shelly's family grapples with her death, they can't understand how a day that started, like any other, could end in such a tragic way.
Narrator/Reporter
December 30th, Shelly's last day. She has a hairstylist come to her home to give her a keratin treatment, which is a hair straightening treatment. There's surveillance video in the building and you actually see her leaving for work at 11am after her keratin treatment
Private Investigator RJ Decker
at around 6pm, Shelly leaves work and heads to the Friars Club, hangs out for
Narrator/Reporter
a little bit, chats with some friends, and then she goes home to see her children. You see the last time she's captured on video, which was entering the building at about 8pm talking on her cell phone.
Ashley Flowers
Shelby says goodnight to her nanny and apparently begins helping her daughter Anna with her homework.
Narrator/Reporter
One of the last Google searches on her computer was for long division. She goes online onto JDate at one point to see if she has any messages. And that's the end of her online activity.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
The morning after, Anna finds her mom's body in the bathtub. Jelly Danishevsky Covlin, 47 years old, a mother of two, found dead.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I pretty quickly heard that she had
Ashley Flowers
slipped in the bathtub and died.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Obviously, that was beyond shocking because she was young and she had little children. I had two little kids as well, and I quickly ran out and bought
Ashley Flowers
nonstick bath mats for the tubs.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
The thought of something like that happening
Ashley Flowers
to my kids or to myself or,
Private Investigator RJ Decker
you know, was really, really a scary thought.
Ashley Flowers
I don't think they had a rubber mat in the bottom of the tub. It could have been just a tragic accident.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Yes, but to police, there are some things that seem inconsistent with a simple slip and fall. I look at her body and I see things that are suspicious to me. She has some scrapes, but I didn't see her the day before. Whatever they are, there are questions that need to be answered, and those questions can be answered by a pathologist. Shelly's body is taken from the apartment to the medical examiner's office for further examination.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
So once the detective left the scene that day, the door is being guarded by a police officer. I mean, it's still technically, you know, a potential crime scene. It's being safeguarded. During the time that the officer was there, a member of a religious organization showed up.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We have an organization that helps families in time of need. In the Jewish custom, it is customary to collect all bodily fluids and to be buried with the deceased. The same way that God put you on this earth is the same way you should go back to God.
Ashley Flowers
Remember, Shelley's family belongs to a form of Judaism called Modern Orthodox, and this is one of the practices they observe.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Shelley's rabbi reached out and called us that there's a cleanup that has to be done. I went down to the apartment. There were police officers there. They allowed me in. He was let in at some point, which I had no idea about. More than likely, had I still been at the scene, I doubt very seriously that I would have allowed him to go in there. The bathtub was the bulk of where I had to clean up. I was in the apartment that evening for approximately an hour and a half, two hours.
Ashley Flowers
The notion that a scene is cleaned up so quickly due to religious reasons, have you seen that before?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Yeah, absolutely. I investigated, you know, many Jewish natural causes deaths, accidental deaths, and this is common, this is part of their religious belief. All parts of the body have to be buried with the body. Whether it's blood, tissue, hair, whatever might be there, it can gets cleaned up and it all gets buried with the body. The body gets buried whole.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Meanwhile, down at the coroner's office, the medical examiner, Dr. Jonathan Hayes, had just finished conducting an external examination of Shelly's body when he receives a call from Shelly's family. We called the medical examiner who at that point wasn't sure. He'd only had a cursory look at Shelly. So we asked him, how does a healthy 47 year old woman suddenly die like this? Tell us what could have been cause of death. So he said, well, you know, I don't know, it could have been a fall, it could have been a heart attack, it could have been a drug interaction, it could have been any one of those things. The only way we would know is by doing an autopsy. The medical examiner, Dr. John Hayes, would later say that as he's about to make his first incision, he's told to stop. The family initially wants an autopsy, but then the Jewish official who cleaned up the scene calls them. And this individual had called me, said, listen, I heard that the family are looking to do an autopsy. It's a terrible mistake. It's a terrible mistake because I've just come from the police and I spoke to the medical examiner and both of them say it's an accident. Under Jewish law, if it's an accident, you can't do the autopsy.
Ashley Flowers
By that point, Dr. Hayes, boss, the chief medical examiner had determined that there wasn't enough that was suspicious to warrant overruling a religious objection. If there's no autopsy, then there's nothing really for the ME to do than to be able to say there was a cause of death.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
No, the medical examiner, without conducting an autopsy can't assume anything other than whatever the police say.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
The family objected to an autopsy. Shelly was buried. After the body's buried, we kind of slowed down because we really didn't have a cause of death. An accidental death has no meaning to the homicide squad. We got plenty of other work to do. You know, there was no reason for me to continue with this. So I just went about my business. The children had been living with Shelly during the couple's contentious custody battle. The question now was, where would they go? Initially, we had thought we were going to be taking temporary custody of the children. Police officer in charge said that the children would have to go home with their maternal aunt and uncle. Upon hearing that news, Anna threw the mother of all fits.
Ashley Flowers
She wanted to stay with her daddy.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
She wanted to stay with her daddy. Unbeknown to us, the Covlins, that's Rod and his parents, had called Child Protective Services. The woman from Child Protective Services said, sweetheart, who do you want to go home with? Anna raised one hand and pointed at me, raised her other hand and pointed at my wife. And she said, those grandparents. The bottom line was the children were signed or given to the Senior Covenants. That's where the women live.
Ashley Flowers
A week after her death, Shelly's family goes to the funeral home to pick up the death certificate.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And when they read it, that's when everything changes. I opened the envelope to look at a death certificate, and I see the cause of death. Death is listed there as undetermined. And my heart lost a beat.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
We were absolutely stunned. I mean, we buried her based on, you know, the initial thought that it was an accident.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
I hate to say this, but without
Private Investigator RJ Decker
an autopsy, sometimes people can get away with murder. The family sees only one way forward. They need to exhume Shelley's body.
Ashley Flowers
What they find and what we learn Inside A replica 2020 built of Shelly's bathroom. Does this bring back your memories of the scene?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Oh, absolutely.
Ashley Flowers
Would help answer the big question. Was her death truly an accident?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Was it possible? Sure, it was possible until I actually got into the bathroom. My.
Ashley Flowers
You're finding your wife dead in the tub. The children are there. What do you think has happened? Why is she dead?
Narrator/Reporter
This is such a sensational story that at this Tony Upper west side address, you now have a murder.
Ashley Flowers
But this is your wife. This is the woman that you fell in love with.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I was administering CPR to somebody who was a corpse. I mean, it wasn't my wife anymore.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She said to me numerous times, if something happens to me, he is your number one suspect. You look into Rod Covlin.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
We want her out of the ground. We want her body telling its story.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And Amy looks up at us, and he goes, this is gonna be a homicide.
Ashley Flowers
So this is kind of a replica that 2020 built of Shelly's bathroom. So you had suspicions right away?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Oh, yeah.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
The whole cabinet looked staged.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Red flags were going up all over
Ashley Flowers
the place you began to think that she had been murdered.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We're talking about absurd, ridiculous murder plots with zero evidence. It's Several days after 47 year old mother of two, Shelly Coughlin is found dead in her bathtub. And rumors are swirling around Dorchester Towers, her luxury high rise in New York's Upper west side. What started as a slip and fall turned into rumors of possibly a murder involving her ex husband who lived right across the hall.
Ashley Flowers
Shelly's family is devastated and struggling to come to terms with her death.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
We were in this fog of pure shock and just extreme grief.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And it's not until after they received Shelly's death certificate from the funeral home that they learned she had suspicious scratches on her face and that her cause of death was ruled undetermined. I called up a private investigator and I asked him what does undetermined mean? And he said, case undetermined pending police investigation. In other words, it's a suspicious death. And my heart sunk.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Mark actually took charge. Mark took it upon himself to play detective and he did a very good job at it. He went out, he spoke to people, he never stopped.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
A lot of information was starting to come in and it was, was very suspicious. Red flags were going up all over the place and a lot of it was pointing to Rod. Rod and Shelley were going through this incredibly contentious divorce and a brutal custody battle for their two kids. But now there are new revelations about how bad it had all become. For instance, they learned the night of her death, Shelly was telling friends at the Friars Club she was planning to remove Rod from her will.
Narrator/Reporter
She, she had told several people that she planned to change her. Well, she'd reached out to an estate lawyer. She'd even told her doorman that she planned to change her will.
Ashley Flowers
Do you think Rod knew this?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We really believed he knew this. You're talking about five and a quarter million dollars.
Narrator/Reporter
Another suspicious element here is that her iPhone's nowhere to be found in the apartment.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
She was observed on surveillance video walking into the building, talking on that cell phone. How did the phone disappear from the apartment if in fact this was just an accidental death?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
This information adds to what they already knew about Rod, that Shelly feared him. She would regularly say she was afraid of Rod. That was consistent from the very beginning.
Ashley Flowers
Shelly's family says that Rod actually assaulted her during that argument over his laundry.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She called me, absolutely weeping because he pushed her to the ground in an argument in front of the children.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I was getting very loud and, you know, angry, and she started pushing at me and I took her And I. I mean, I put her on the floor, shoved her. No, I. I specifically, I did not shove her. I grabbed her, held her, and in a controlled but, you know, quick fashion, put her on the floor. So, yes, there was one incident that got physical between us.
Ashley Flowers
Yet Shelly seems to have become so frightened of her husband. She's granted an order of protection during divorce proceedings.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
She said to me numerous times, if something happens to me, he is your number one suspect. You look into Rod Covlin,
Ashley Flowers
there was no acceptance in your mind that this was an accident. You began to think that she had been murdered.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We absolutely believed she'd been murdered. And in our heart of hearts, we believed he murdered her. I hired private investigators to help with the investigation into her death.
Ashley Flowers
Former NYPD detective Mike Swain was one of those private eyes that Mark hired to begin investigating Shelly's death.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
The NYPD was basically closing the case. Without an autopsy, there is no cause of death. And this was going to be a very, very uphill battle. We would need to exhume the body.
Ashley Flowers
Shelly's family took this video after they were allowed into the apartment with Swain. It would later be used in court.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
I needed to get into the apartment. I needed to see the scene. Maybe something was missed.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
2020 built this model recreation of the bathroom where Shelly was found.
Ashley Flowers
So this is kind of a replica that 2020 built of Shelly's bathroom. Close.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Very close.
Ashley Flowers
Does this bring back sort of your memories of the scene?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Oh, absolutely.
Ashley Flowers
What did you notice right away when you got here?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
First thing was the cabinet. The story was that she slipped, fell, and possibly grabbed onto the cabinet, yanking it off its hinges and winding up deceased.
Ashley Flowers
Did that make sense to you initially?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Was it possible? Sure, it was possible. Until I actually got into the bathroom through myself. I realized how high this cabinet is. I realized how far away from the tub it is.
Ashley Flowers
There are little knobs here, too. Does that make sense that somebody who's relatively short, 5, 4, could actually catch that knob for support?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
It's not like a doorknob where you're actually going to grab onto it with a hand. It's a little, tiny knob. She wasn't a very big woman. I don't know if I could take this knob, put my hand on it, and put all my dead weight and yank that out of a wall. I certainly don't think she could have done that.
Ashley Flowers
So the idea is that if she's in the tub and she's fallen and
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
she's grabbing for this, imagine trying to grab that knob. Look where you look where you are. The distance to the cabinets. Why wouldn't you try to brace yourself on this?
Ashley Flowers
Horses. Yes, exactly.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Why would you reaching up.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
The family came out of that apartment feeling that we just have to continue to move forward. We want her out of the ground. We want her body telling its story and we want justice.
Narrator/Reporter
The police get permission to dig up her grave so they can now do the autopsy. That should have been done from the beginning.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We actually watched them dig the body up. They harnessed a rope around it. They pulled it up.
Ashley Flowers
It must have been the pain all over again.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
It was. I remember sobbing all night. I was not crying.
Ashley Flowers
You'd put her to rest and then she had to be disturbed.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Exactly. Exactly. It was for good cause.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
We're actually in this room with the medical examiner when he's doing the autopsy. When he looked up at us, it was shocking. Holy mackerel. I was shocked. Friends like these the Murder of Skyler. Nice. Is now streaming on Hulu and Hulu on Disney+911. Do you have an emergency? I have a 16 year old daughter. Can't get a hold of her. I am scared to death.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
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Private Investigator RJ Decker
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Narrator/Reporter
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Private Investigator RJ Decker
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Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
We had a killer amongst us.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Murder at the U. Listen now. It's now two months after Shelly Coughlin's been laid down to rest and investigators have exhumed her body to complete an autopsy. We watched the body be rolled into the medical examiner's office to do the autopsy. Dr. Jonathan Hayes, the medical examiner on the case, begins the autopsy by noting those same scratches on Shelley's face that had raised suspicions during the first, first examination before the autopsy was stopped.
Ashley Flowers
The fact that there are scratches and lacerations to the face is an indication that there may be more afoot. Then the medical examiner notices a new injury. Two pinpoints in Shelly's right eye, known as petechia. A petechia is Like a red spot or a dot in the eye.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
And that was a telltale sign assigned to him.
Ashley Flowers
Petechia are not typically seen in a normal person. Petechia, though tiny, have major medical implications. They're very often caused by pressure applied to the neck or strangulation. It raises red flags, but obviously it's
Private Investigator RJ Decker
gotta be looked into further.
Ashley Flowers
You can't draw conclusions just from the petechia. Then, as the autopsy continues, the medical examiner makes a shocking discovery. There's a bone in Shelly's neck that is completely fractured. The hyoid bone. The hyoid bone allows you to chew and swallow.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
It's very easy to break. And if it does, there may be a chokehold here.
Ashley Flowers
When you put together all the evidence, the scratch marks to the face, the petechia in the eye, and the broken
Private Investigator RJ Decker
hyoid bone, there's no way this is not a chokehold. We're actually in the room with the medical examiner when he's doing the autopsy, and he looks up at us and he goes, this is going to be a homicide. I was. Holy mackerel. I was shocked. Six weeks later, the official autopsy report is issued. The cause of death is listed as neck compression. The manner of death, homicide. Shelly Kovlin's death is now officially a murder.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I remember exactly where I was. Mark called me and he said, the results are back. It was murder. And I remember I just kept saying, oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Narrator/Reporter
There's a lot of shock. This is such a sensational story that at this tony Upper west side address, you now have a murder.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I was horrified. I mean, just the thought of somebody murdered in the building was really awful.
Narrator/Reporter
So this is now a homicide, but the DA doesn't feel like it has enough yet to bring an indictment. Rod's the suspect, but they have a very circumstantial case.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
June 2nd was the day we finally got a warrant to process the apartment.
Narrator/Reporter
Investigators for the first time treat it as an actual crime scene.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I obviously knew we were six months behind the eight ball for the investigation, but I was pretty excited by then. The apartment has been badly contaminated, Forever tainted. Remember, the bathroom has been cleaned by a religious official. They allowed him to go into that apartment and with peroxide, wash down the bathroom. You got to be kidding me. I had no idea Patrol let somebody into that crime scene. If it was my decision, nobody would have been in that apartment.
Ashley Flowers
The crime scene had been compromised. But police did have those original pictures that were taken on the morning of Shelly's death. And those photos now raise several red flags.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Some of the things that might not have looked very suspicious when you thought that it was an accidental death. Now you take a different look at it. This is no longer a slip in the tub, which would mean that the tub itself is part of the staged crime scene.
Ashley Flowers
There are clothes on the floor. There's some water on the floor. What's leading the DA to think that this is suspicious?
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Picture a lot of water coming out with that body.
Ashley Flowers
But there is some water on the floor.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Yeah.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
There's obviously dry blood. So there obviously was some type of bloody water that came out of the tub.
Ashley Flowers
There was talk about Rod's clothes being dry.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
For somebody that had lifted a body out of the water moments earlier, why wasn't he wet?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I had pulled Shelly out. I was soaking wet. So I raced across the hall. I stripped my clothes off, and I changed my clothes.
Ashley Flowers
Even in this moment of distress, you're thinking about changing your clothes.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I'm thinking about comforting my kids. I couldn't fathom the idea of hugging Anna and Miles and, you know, soaking them with Shelly's blood.
Ashley Flowers
We went back to that bathroom replica to get an idea of other red flags that stood out.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
The only towel was a towel on the rail, which a hand towel wasn't a bath towel. If somebody's coming into to take a bath, I sort of would want to see a bath towel someplace.
Ashley Flowers
But many people go to the bathroom, forget their towel.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
Absolutely. This is all just basic speculation. It's all circumstantial. The other thing was there was shampoo conditioner out. The way the story was presented was that she was going to be washing her hair.
Ashley Flowers
Not many people wash their hair while taking a bath.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
And that came out from the nanny, that the positioning of the shampoo and the conditioner. It's always in the shower, because that's where she washed her hair in the shower, not in the bathtub. So all of these little things, when you put them all together and add them up, it creates a picture. The district attorney was going to have to build a circumstantial case.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
So two weeks later, investigators decide to pay a visit to one of Rod's confidants, his girlfriend, Deborah Oles.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
When I came home, detectives from New York were behind me in my driveway, and I talked to them. I just gave them whatever information I could.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Oles gives them access to her online backgammon records. And that's a gold mine for investigators, because she'd been playing backgammon and chatting with Rod online. The night of Shelly's death, he was
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
actually very quiet that night. He didn't have a lot to say.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Once Rod and Deborah Oles finish gaming online, about 1am he tells her he's gonna go do some work for a backgammon organization he was involved in. But security cameras would show that Rod was up and active in the middle of the night. What would surveillance footage show about Rod's movements the night of Shelly's murder?
Ashley Flowers
As the investigation into the death of Shelly Covlin continues, detectives begin to retrace her husband's actions the night of her murder. They learned that Rod and Deborah Oles had been playing backgammon online that night.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
We finished our matches 1.03am I wanted to play a little bit longer, but he said he had to go.
Narrator/Reporter
Then he goes completely dark online. There's no activity, nothing on his computer, nothing on his phone. This is a guy who usually was up all night online the whole time.
Ashley Flowers
Why did you go dark after 1am?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I took a nap. I know it, it certainly sounds strange, but it wasn't unusual for me to catch a three hour nap in the middle of the night and then get up and start being active. Sometime around 4 o' clock in the morning, Rod comes downstairs. He engages in conversation with the concierge,
Narrator/Reporter
says, hey, what do you want? Can I get you something? And this kind of struck the doorman.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
He doesn't speak to the employees in the building in a friendly manner ever.
Narrator/Reporter
So the doorman finally said, okay, get me his Snickers.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
So he came back with a candy bar and gave it to the guy on the desk. It's a feeble attempt to sort of visually alibi himself.
Ashley Flowers
Rod leaves the building one more time at 5:02am to go by seltzer, and then isn't seen again until first responders arrive at Shelly's apartment. Deborah Olds remembers the phone call from Rod that next day.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
It just seems so surreal. I'm like, what? What do you mean she's dead? He said it was an accident.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
In the months after Shelly's death, the relationship between Rod and Deborah intensifies. She frequently drives to New York to stay with Rod, who had now moved in with his parents, but they say was a tense situation.
Ashley Flowers
He had brought Deborah into the house, so that was a source of some concern.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Oh, that was a source of huge conflict.
Ashley Flowers
We just didn't think it was a healthy situation for the children.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Anything could set him off. He could be charming. One minute and seconds later, he could fly into a rage. Rod got so mad, he shoved his dad as hard as he could. His dad went flying into to the next room and hit his head on the floor.
Ashley Flowers
So there was sort of a volatile situation happening.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Yes, there was.
Ashley Flowers
Were you worried? Were you scared of your son? Not really.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Not really?
Ashley Flowers
Not really, no. Yet. Rod's parents filed a new custody petition arguing that he was an unfit parent. In your October 2012 custody petition, you even painted a picture of kind of a violent man saying that he had assaulted you both.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
If you take two alpha males and you put them in the same house together, you're gonna have conflict. It was not a happy situation. Carol and Dave are granted custody after evicting Rod from their house, accusing him of suddenly spending his kids college savings, as heard in this dramatic audio recording that would later be played in court. I know how much money you've taken from your children, you steal from your children you stole before you're stealing their college money. No, no, I'm not threatening.
Ashley Flowers
By October 1st, okay, you were frustrated.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Extremely, yes, extremely.
Ashley Flowers
Rod told us that he left the house willingly, but Deborah Olds says that he was extremely upset that his parents were granted custody of his children.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He was enraged. His parents took custody of his children away from him, took control of the money, and he was enraged.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
According to Deborah Oles, Rob proposes a horrifying plan right as superstorm Sandy is hitting New York.
Ashley Flowers
It is happening right now. Hurricane Sandy corner crashing on shore. Winds now at 90 miles per hour.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He wanted to go over and kill his parents. She said that because electricity was off, their alarm system would be off. And he wanted to kill them, set the house on fire. I'm trying to think of something to say to stop this lunacy. And then I said, how are you going to explain your presence there? You miraculously just happened to be there to save Anna and Miles.
Ashley Flowers
In the midst of this investigation, some shocking revelations. Authorities say that your son had actually plotted to kill you both. Did you believe it? No, no, no, no. We were laughing because they were so absurd.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Rod also denies ever trying to kill his parents and no charges are ever filed. But to Deborah Olds, it was no laughing matter.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
It doesn't matter how much I care for a person, I'm not going to sanction cold blooded murder.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Deborah ultimately flips on Rod. She comes forward to police with several hard drives from Rod's computer that he had given her for safekeeping. She explains to us that he would give her these hard drives and say, take these home with you and put them in a closet.
Ashley Flowers
Investigators combed through nearly 2 million documents on these hard drives, building a case against Rod Kovlin.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
At the end of the day, there was no smoking gun there. You just keep piling up rocks until you have a pile big enough that you think that you can win a case with it. Prosecutors have spent years building that case, but it's largely circumstantial. Still, they finally feel they have enough evidence against Rod to bring an indictment. Almost six years after the death of his wife. We had to Scarsdale train station. He had pulled up in a car, said, you're under arrest. Handcuffed them, put him in the back of the car. He looked shocked.
Ashley Flowers
The 42 year old's house of cards came crashing down here at the Metro north station in Scarsdale yesterday morning. After six long years, his world was just turned upside down and he never saw it coming.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Mr. Covlin is stunned. He's stunned by what has happened.
Ashley Flowers
What was that moment like for you to hear that he was arrested for your sister's murder?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I started to tear up. I said, I've just been waiting so long to hear those words.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
It's the backgammon champions match of his Life, the People vs. Roderick Kova. But it's no slam dunk. Remember, there's still no physical evidence tying him to the murder, so prosecutors plan to play their ace card. Rod's former flings under oath and oversharing.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
His face, his eyes, they were getting glossy like, almost like psychotic.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
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Private Investigator RJ Decker
RJ freaking Decker. As I live and breathe, he's a private eye. It's not a standard murder. Some binger and a public mass trying to get sent back to prison. Today you go to prison one time and suddenly it's all the jokes. RJ Decker. Series premiere Tuesdays on ABC and stream on hul. A little over nine years after Shelly Kovlin was found dead in that bathtub, Rod Kovlin is about to face a jury opening statements underway today in the trial of Roderick Covlin. Prosecutors say he staged the scene of his wife Shelley's strangulation back in 2009 to make it look like a drowning.
Ashley Flowers
People of the State of New York versus Ronald Rick Coblin. You attended the trial every day.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Every day, Every day. We all did.
Narrator/Reporter
And then you have Rod's mother who sits on the opposite side of the gallery.
Ashley Flowers
What was the hardest part for you? The first time I saw him walk in with handcuffs. That had to be difficult.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Yes. This was not an accident. The defendant did it.
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Leading the prosecution, Matthew Bogdanos, a former boxer and a war veteran. His nickname, the Pit Bull.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
The question was never, is he going to kill Shelly? The question was always, when defending Kovlan is Robert Gottlieb. No one will ever know the truth. A former prosecutor who now represents many high profile defendants, one fact is undeniable. There is no evidence whatsoever proving that Mr. Kotlin had anything to do with his wife's death. This is very much a circumstantial case. Seven weeks of testimony, much of which had little to do with what actually happened that night. This is one of the main reasons he murdered his wife. The money. She was going to change her will. In lieu of any hard physical evidence, McDonald's tries to paint a character profile of Rod Kovlan, one of an obsessive, dangerous man. To do that, he calls to the stand women who Covlin courted online. One is Patricia Swenson.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Defendant kept asking me out on dates and asking me to travel around the country with him.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
The jury hears about one of those dates. Go ahead, hit play. A weekend in Gettysburg. And they see a video Kovlin shot on that trip. Oh, I'm getting you. No, I so have you. It's video. It's video. I got some video going. I am the good stuff. Scenery. Don't worry.
Ashley Flowers
Coughlin may sound light hearted in the video, but Swenson testifies that totally changes later at brunch when he begins talking about the wife from whom he says he separated.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He said that he wanted to kill her or he wanted her dead.
Narrator/Reporter
Obviously, Deborah Oles testimony was very significant.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He had a mercurial temper. It didn't take much to set him
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off to make that case that Rod had an explosive relationship with his own parents. Prosecutors present a video that Deborah Olds recorded.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
What are we looking at?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
That's a picture of Rod approaching his parents front door.
Ashley Flowers
She testifies that the video shows Rod finding himself locked out of his parents house.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
They changed the lock. What just Happened.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He said they changed the lock.
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She tells the jury about that plot that Rod allegedly had to kill his parents during Hurricane Sandy.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
More than a million people in 11
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states are already without power.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He said that because there was no electricity, the alarm would not be on. He wanted to go see through a window in the basement, kill his parents and set his house on fire. I was not about to be a party to murder. I tried talking, talking him out of it.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Were you able to talk him out of this?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Yes.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Oles testifies about three other plots she claims Kovlin revealed to her. And incredibly, one of them supposedly involved his 12 year old daughter.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
He wanted his daughter Anna to poison Rod's parents. He said that if Anna was able to kill his parents because she was a child, if she got jailed at all, it wouldn't be for very long. And I said, you cannot do that to your child.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Were you able to talk about.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Yes,
Private Investigator RJ Decker
we're talking about. About absurd, ridiculous murder plots with zero evidence. You don't have any audio or video of any of those incidents, Correct?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
I do not.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
When you spoke to Detective Mooney, did you not say. I just thought it was typical of a bad divorce.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Yes.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Other witnesses discussed Rod Covlin's behavior the night before the body was discovered. Rose Reed, the former nanny, testified Rod asked her if she would be staying in the apartment for a sleepover. Had he ever asked you if you were going to have a sleepover before?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
No. No.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
That's the first time.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
That's the first time he asked me.
Ashley Flowers
The defense portrays it as an innocent question since Kovlan knew that Shelly was coming home late. But the prosecution says what's really strange is the idea that Shelly would have taken a bath that night at all.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Why don't you stop it?
Ashley Flowers
They called to the stand Adam Amonoff, the stylist who did Shelly's hair earlier in the day.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Tell us the instructions you gave Shelly. No wash, no shampoo, no gym. Be careful from the rain.
Narrator/Reporter
Anybody who's ever had this treatment done knows you cannot get your hair wet. It's this Legally Blonde moment in this case.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Had you ever gotten a perm before?
Ashley Flowers
A Legally Blonde moment? Because of how similar it was to this scene in that famous movie?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
Because isn't it the first cardinal rule of perm maintenance that you're forbidden to wet your hair for at least 24 hours after getting a perm at the
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risk of deactivating the ammonium thyglocalate? Because someone gets a hair treatment, it doesn't mean that you can't clean yourself for 72 hours. You didn't tell her that you couldn't fake, did you? Yes or no? But as the trial focuses even more on exactly what happened in that bathroom, what will a video recorded in jail reveal?
Ashley Flowers
Today, Rod Covlin seemed dazed as he
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sat in a courtroom charged with second degree murder.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Nothing, absolutely nothing was done on December 31st when they were there inside the apartment.
Narrator/Reporter
I think that the testimony about the police investigation was really stunning to a lot of people.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Did you make any handwritten notes of any of the interviews you took that day? I don't believe so. While you were there, you didn't have any indication that Mr. Coplin would not speak with you, did you? No, sir. Fair say that you considered that this could potentially be a homicide? Yes, sir. No, the lack of investigation on December 31, that's a legitimate complaint. But what's the point? What would have been found?
Ashley Flowers
Remember, there was a delay before an autopsy was done, which the medical examiner, doctor, Dr. Jonathan Hayes, testifies concerned him.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
When I opened up the bag and saw her, I turned to my colleague and said, she needs an autopsy. Because I was. Why did you say that? I was struck by injuries she had on her face. She had scratches on her face, which I considered suspicious. And then Dr. Hayes tells the jury about his findings during the autopsy and the conclusion he reached about Shelly's cause of death. The cause of death was neck compression, and this fit well with a chokehold. One of the most striking things was the scratches on her face. As the person is put into the chokehold, they're going to fight back. And they fight back by trying to claw the arm away from the neck. And in doing so, they will sometimes scratch their face. The hardest part is just to get underneath the chin.
Narrator/Reporter
And that was a really significant part of the trial, is when this martial art expert got up there and performed the choke hold on a skeleton.
Medical Examiner Dr. Jonathan Hayes
When I'm here, I can just put
Private Investigator RJ Decker
my hand under or over the top, depending upon which way you grab, and you can just start to pull back. And it's really that simple.
Narrator/Reporter
How you could have that kind of neck compression and would be able to, he said, Within 10 seconds, kill somebody.
Ashley Flowers
Rod Koblin had posted on Facebook that he had studied taekwondo for 11 years. But did he know how to do a chokehold? That's where a video becomes a key piece of evidence.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
You've seen this video before? Yes.
Ashley Flowers
Bogdanos introduces this recording from when Rod Covlin was in jail awaiting trial. That's him talking to another inmate. Watch what he does with his arms.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Did you see that? Yes.
Ashley Flowers
He's making two distinct movements.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Is that particular move consistent or inconsistent with the chokehold that is taught in martial arts? It's consistent as taught in martial arts. It's a single armed chokehold.
Narrator/Reporter
I believe that was quite damning for the defense.
Ashley Flowers
Gottlieb dismisses that tape.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
All he is doing is demonstrating to this guy. Another inmate in jail a few months before the beginning of the trial. This is the way the DA Is saying, I killed Shelly Covlin. But prosecutors have more. They bring in Shelly's estate attorney, who tells the jury about those plans she was making to change her will. Just before she died, she said, I need to change my will. I want to make sure that Rod doesn't get any part of my estate.
Ashley Flowers
And how would Rod have known about her communications with that lawyer? Rod's friend testifies that Rod told him he installed a keystroke logger on Shelly's computer, which allowed him to spy on her.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
On the very day she is going to write the defendant out of a will for $5.2 million. On the very day she has a fatal accident. Are you kidding me? The defense denies a keystroke logger was ever found on the computer. You are the final arbiters of the facts.
Ashley Flowers
After prosecutors rest their case, who does the defense call to testify? No one.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Once you call a single witness, you change the entire dynamic of the jury deliberation. It's no longer an evaluation as to whether or not the government proved its case, as opposed to do we believe the defense.
Ashley Flowers
So the trial moves straight to closing arguments.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
You may detest him. You may not even be able to stomach him if the proof isn't there. It is right. It is no to stand up and to say not guilty, even if it hurts, even if it's difficult. Justice has a single voice, and that voice tells you he is guilty. Not because I say so, but because he is. Thank you.
Ashley Flowers
As the jury heads off to deliberate, nobody knows what they're thinking or that there is still a big shock ahead from none other than Shelley's daughter, Anna.
Narrator/Reporter
A lot of us were very surprised by how quickly the jury came back.
Ashley Flowers
I couldn't breathe.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I was terrified, really. I'll say this is the first count
Ashley Flowers
of this indictment, charging the defendant, Roderick Hovland, with the crime of murder in the second degree. Guilty or not guilty?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Guilty.
Ashley Flowers
What was the first emotion for you? It was relief.
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
It was justice for Shelly, and she can rest. And that guy is hopefully Going behind bars, please God, for the rest of his life.
Ashley Flowers
And behind bars is where I talked with Rod, where even now he maintains his innocence. You sit here convicted of murdering your wife.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Correct.
Ashley Flowers
Did you kill your wife?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
No, I did not. I absolutely did not.
Ashley Flowers
But a jury of your peers are convinced that you did. Why should people believe you?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
You don't have to believe me. You have to believe the actual evidence. There just isn't evidence that I did this thing. The murder ten years ago, the conviction last month, the sentencing today for 45 year old Roderick Coughlin.
Ashley Flowers
And at that sentencing hearing, a surprise.
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I'm going to be reading this for Anna, Rod's mother. Carol reads a statement from his daughter Anna, who by then is 18 years old.
Ashley Flowers
I love my mom and I will always love my mom. My father has never hurt anyone, nor has he committed a murder. My mom passed away. My dad has been taken away for so long already.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
Please let us know that it will
Ashley Flowers
come to an end. What was that moment like for you to hear your daughter essentially defend you?
Private Investigator RJ Decker
It was overwhelming. She's the only person in the world who knows for a fact what happened that night. The only person. And she knows that I didn't do this. The judge sentences rod to 25 years to life in prison. I mean, the appeal was voluminous. It was over 350 pages. And there were many independent bases for the appeal. There was some prosecutorial misconduct. There was the admission of the video from prison which should not have been permitted. The character assassination. It was impossible for Rod to receive a fair trial.
Ashley Flowers
The district attorney's office rejected those claims. And in May of 2022, that appeal is denied. District attorney Alvin Bragg says he hopes that it'll bring closure to the family. But Anna then sends him a follow
Private Investigator RJ Decker
up letter saying, I am Shelly's family. My brother is Shelly's family. And this decision has not brought us closure. My grief is not aided by the malicious, unjust imprisonment of my father. That is an open wound caused by your office.
Ashley Flowers
How worried are you for Miles and Anna going forward?
Shelly's Sister (Eve)
My concerns are for them to grow up to have wonderful lives.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
I think it's important for the kids and for the world to know she hands had a tremendous mission in this world. Between the way she cared for her kids with every fiber of herself and just, you know, a good, honorable person. She was someone who had that light and spread that light in this world. And that's, you know, that's what makes the tragedy that much greater.
Ashley Flowers
Difficult for the family. During my prison interview with Rod, Kovlin. He told me that he speaks to his son Miles every day. That's possible. And we've also learned that his daughter Anna has gotten married.
Private Investigator RJ Decker
On the legal front, we should mention that Rod Covlin's lawyer tells us that they have filed a motion to vacate his murder conviction. We'll stay on the story in the meantime. That is our program for tonight. I'm David Muir.
Ashley Flowers
And I'm Debra Roberts. From all of us here at 2020 and ABC News, good night. You've been listening to the 2020 True Crime Vault Friday nights at 9 on ABC. You can also find all new broadcast episodes of 2020. Thanks for listening.
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Podcast Summary
Date: March 10, 2026
Host: ABC News
Episode Focus: The unexplained and ultimately tragic death of Shelly Danishefsky Kovlin on New Year’s Eve, 2009. The episode unravels the true crime mystery through family interviews, investigator insights, trial coverage, and reflections on justice.
This episode explores the chilling case of Shelly Kovlin—a vibrant, accomplished mother of two—who was found dead in her Manhattan apartment on December 31, 2009. Originally ruled an accident, Shelly's story twists through religious, familial, and legal challenges, leading to her body’s exhumation, a homicide ruling, and the eventual conviction of her estranged husband, Rod Covlin.
The episode meticulously traces the transformation of an apparent tragedy into a murder case, highlighting the tenacity of Shelly’s family, the intersection of faith and law, and the enduring emotional scars on all involved. The pain of Shelly’s loss lingers, underscored by the profound divisions and lingering questions within her family, especially as her children seek closure in the aftermath.