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Brian Stewart
Jamie Laity disappeared. Doesn't make any sense. She's a college graduate from the University of Michigan, respected within her community. People of her background and stature don't just come up missing for 10 weeks and nobody hears from them.
Gwyneth Newman
How can one of my best friends have been missing for 10 weeks? How did it come to this that she could be gone so long and nobody reported it? I couldn't believe that it had been that long that nobody had noticed. It was absolute craziness.
Marlena Buffa
Phoenix in the metropolitan area is the sixth largest city in the country. It's a big valley and it's surrounded by desert on all four sides.
Brian Stewart
I believe Jamie lady came to Arizona to establish her own identity.
Marlena Buffa
Jamie was a very private person. She kept to herself. She wasn't close with her family.
Gwyneth Newman
She just kind of had a don't ask me about my parents kind of thing.
Marlena Buffa
So the only person that saw her on a daily basis was her live in boyfriend, Brian Stewart.
Rick Valentini
Jamie and I dated for nearly three years. She's always refused to talk about her past or her family. Every time that Jamie saw her parents, she was terrified.
Marlena Buffa
It was a very different case than just about everything else that we work. There was no blood, there was no body, there was no evidence of a crime scene. There's no smoking gun in this case, but there is a lot of burning matchsticks.
Gwyneth Newman
Jamie's lost. We don't know where she is and it's really sad. She was a good person and she didn't deserve this.
Brian Stewart
I believe Jamie was murdered because there's no clear explanation as to where she is now, what happened to her and.
Rick Valentini
Why Jamie Lydy is alive. She took $100,000 of Daddy's money. And she left the state of Arizona.
Marlena Buffa
He's a very convincing liar.
Rick Valentini
Bring it on. I know she's alive.
Erin Moriarty
I'm Erin moriar. Tonight on 48 Hours. The Stranger beside me. When Jamie Laody disappeared in March of 2010, none of her closest friends noticed for weeks. The truth is, Jamie had been fading from their lives for nearly two years.
Gwyneth Newman
After your friend stops making an effort, you kind of stop too. But I never thought Jamie would have been the one to stop making an effort.
Erin Moriarty
It was completely out of character for the sweet California girl. They all met as freshmen at the University of Michigan.
Gwyneth Newman
She was a good friend. We were a support network for each other.
Erin Moriarty
Gwyneth Newman, Sheila Dubes, and Jennifer Langoot say they quickly formed a lasting bond with Jamie.
Gwyneth Newman
Kind of like we had this rock, we had this family of friends that we were so connected with. And I remember leaving Michigan, it was just so reassuring that you were just a phone call away from feeling like you belong somewhere again.
Erin Moriarty
They call themselves the 516 girls, referring to the address of a house they shared in Ann Arbor their senior year and where they were passionate supporters of Michigan's Big Ten football team.
Gwyneth Newman
We were obsessed with U of M football.
Erin Moriarty
No one was a greater booster than Jamie, I think.
Gwyneth Newman
Just I always picture her in my mind on football Saturdays, you know, charging out to the stadium.
Erin Moriarty
Sheila says that she and Jamie had a special connection.
Gwyneth Newman
We were both from immigrant families and.
Erin Moriarty
Both were under heavy pressure to succeed.
Gwyneth Newman
I think our fathers were kind of the same. They put a lot of pressure on us to do really well in school, but I think she just wanted to make it on her own.
Erin Moriarty
Vani and Jimmy lady came to the US From Thailand in search of a better life. They admit they pushed Jamie to go to medical school. You think that because you were pushing her to go back to school, she might have pulled away a bit.
Gwyneth Newman
She said. She's a big girl.
Erin Moriarty
After graduation, Jamie landed in Phoenix, Arizona. The big valley was booming. The perfect place to blend in and make her own way. She eventually found a high paying job selling medical supplies. And while it consumed her time, she managed to maintain her now long distance friendships.
Gwyneth Newman
We emailed each other a lot. Even though we all ended up in different locations, I think we still looked to each other for support. The weddings were the big thing that kind of kept us together.
Erin Moriarty
But far away in Arizona, Jamie was lonely. So she joined a local University of Michigan alum club where she found friends who shared her deep love of Michigan football. Marlena Buffa was the group's president.
Gwyneth Newman
She was enthusiastic, but still, she was reserved and quiet.
Erin Moriarty
But when she caught the eye of a handsome young fellow, Michigan fan, Jamie found romance.
Rick Valentini
She was hot. I mean, how else do you put it?
Erin Moriarty
Brian Stewart says the attraction was immediate.
Rick Valentini
She had a really good smile and really got enthusiastic about the football games and would jump up and cheer and would sing with the fight song.
Erin Moriarty
They started dating in the fall of 2007. About a year later, Brian moved into the home that Jamie owned in the trendy Phoenix suburb of Chandler. She was the breadwinner, making well over $100,000 a year. Brian, a personal trainer, made much less. Did she pay most of the bills?
Rick Valentini
Most of the big ones, yeah. But it's not like I was dependent upon her.
Erin Moriarty
Did you love Jamie?
Rick Valentini
I still love Jamie. You know, I just want Jamie to be happy. It's hard because I don't know if Jamie knows what it takes to make her happy.
Erin Moriarty
In August 2009, Jamie suffered a crushing setback. When the economy took a big downturn, she lost the thing she valued most, her high powered job.
Gwyneth Newman
Her career had been going so well for so long, and I think this was a pretty major blow to her.
Erin Moriarty
She searched for months in Arizona, Florida, New Jersey. But Jamie couldn't find another job. When the real estate crash hit Chandler and her property value plunged, Brian says she became despondent and even more withdrawn.
Rick Valentini
You know, it was like, when it rains, it pours. For Jamie, it was pouring.
Erin Moriarty
Brian says all of it took a toll on their relationship. So he rented an apartment in Scottsdale and planned to break things off. And on the night of March 17, he said he was going to tell Jamie he was moving out. Instead, he says, she surprised him.
Rick Valentini
She came in, asked me to take a week off from work, and she's like, we're going to go to Denver. We're going to get a house. You know, I've got a job offer up there. It's time to go. I want to go. I want to get out of this state. Basically, I told her, no, I'm not leaving Arizona. I'm not going to marry you.
Erin Moriarty
Brian admits Jamie was upset and that they argued. Still, he says that when they went to bed, things had settled down. At the crack of dawn the next morning, Brian left for work.
Rick Valentini
She was laying in bed and I gave her a kiss, told her I loved her, and got in the truck and drove to work.
Erin Moriarty
But later that morning, Brian emailed Marlena Buffa and told her a different story.
Gwyneth Newman
And said, jamie dumped me. She moved to Colorado.
Erin Moriarty
Did that surprise you? At all?
Gwyneth Newman
No. I thought good for her.
Erin Moriarty
Did he seem upset?
Gwyneth Newman
A little bit. He was more angry that she left him alone.
Erin Moriarty
At any point, did it even cross your mind that something could have happened to Jamie?
Gwyneth Newman
No. I knew she had means. If she wants to pick up and leave, good for her.
Erin Moriarty
That day and for weeks to come, no one realized that Jamie had disappeared. When is the last time you saw.
Rick Valentini
Jamie, physically saw her? 3:15am March 18, 2010.
Gwyneth Newman
There she is.
Erin Moriarty
Jamie Liety had always been fiercely private, but by the summer of 2009, she was practically reclusive, cutting herself off from nearly everyone except her live in boyfriend, Brian Stewart.
Rick Valentini
We never had anybody over for dinner. We never had any parties. Nobody came over to watch television or to just hang out.
Erin Moriarty
Why not?
Rick Valentini
So one of the great mysteries, I don't know.
Erin Moriarty
Even Jamie's parents say she was more distant than ever.
Gwyneth Newman
My husband said, well, you know, she's a busy girl. Don't bother her.
Erin Moriarty
That's why. It took nearly three months for anyone to notice that Jamie was missing.
Gwyneth Newman
I think people were just respecting her privacy and her space. And that was unfortunate.
Erin Moriarty
Then on May 28, Marlena got a call from Brian.
Gwyneth Newman
He said, you know, I'm starting to get worried about Jamie.
Erin Moriarty
Marlena was also worried. So she and another member of the Michigan alum club called a private investigator, Burke Files Files, did a background check on Brian and found nothing. Although one thing did stand out. About 10 years earlier, at two different addresses in Michigan, Brian had lived with a man named Rick Wayne Valentini.
Rick Valentini
It could be a roommate, it could be a close friend, it could be a relative.
Erin Moriarty
And then Burke files went on to trace Jamie's credit to see where she was now living and working. He came up empty.
Rick Valentini
And nothing. There was no activity. All nothing.
Erin Moriarty
Jamie had disappeared into thin air. So files sounded the alarm. Marlena urged Brian to call Jamie's parents, who then called the police.
Brian Stewart
I immediately thought something was wrong. People of her background and stature don't just come up missing for 10 weeks and nobody hears from them.
Erin Moriarty
That afternoon, Chandler police got a warrant to search Jamie's house, home and started calling Brian. But he seemed to be ignoring them.
Marlena Buffa
To me, that was alarming. It just showed a lack of concern.
Erin Moriarty
Later that same night, when detectives were searching for Jamie's missing Ford escape, they found it in Scottsdale with Brian behind the wheel.
Marlena Buffa
The detective said, well, I'm here in regards to your girlfriend. And the first thing he did was say, my ex girlfriend.
Erin Moriarty
The detective felt that Brian was being evasive and seemed nervous When Brian asked to use the bathroom in his own apartment, the answer was no.
Marlena Buffa
We didn't want to risk losing any evidence. If there was something in there, his luck would have it. He had a warrant for his arrest for driving on a suspended license for a traffic offense.
Erin Moriarty
So the detective used that warrant to take Brian into custody.
Rick Valentini
Brian? Yes.
Marlena Buffa
Hey, I'm Nate Moffat.
Rick Valentini
How are you, man?
Marlena Buffa
It's B R Y a N, right?
Erin Moriarty
Yes.
Marlena Buffa
Last name is Stuart.
Erin Moriarty
Detective Moffat interrogated Brian.
Marlena Buffa
How long have you and Jamie been dating?
Rick Valentini
Give or take three years.
Marlena Buffa
Okay. When did you guys move in together?
Rick Valentini
Honestly, I don't know.
Gwyneth Newman
Okay.
Marlena Buffa
Were you cheating on Jamie at all before?
Gwyneth Newman
No.
Erin Moriarty
While Detective Spielman searched Jamie's home for clues.
Marlena Buffa
Walk me through what happened around March.
Rick Valentini
It was simple, really. She hated everything about the state. She wanted out. Now. She'd been up there for interviews. I suspected that she would get the Denver offer.
Brian Stewart
So, you know, he's saying she went to Colorado, yet all of her suitcases are there and her passport's there. All these things that she would need to travel are there at the house.
Erin Moriarty
But Jamie's wallet and driver's license were missing.
Marlena Buffa
I was concerned, but the possibility did exist that, you know, she just left and she doesn't want to be found.
Erin Moriarty
But at Chandler pd, Moffatt smelled a rat and started pressing Brian.
Marlena Buffa
Did you hurt Jamie?
Gwyneth Newman
Okay.
Marlena Buffa
Did you have anything to do with her disappearance? You have nothing to hide?
Gwyneth Newman
No.
Erin Moriarty
But things just didn't add up for Moffatt. There were just too many inconsistencies. Brian gave a birth date to the arresting officer which didn't match the date on his Arizona id.
Marlena Buffa
I have no friggin clue who's sitting in front of me. And it's extremely uneasy for me as I'm investigating a case of this magnitude.
Erin Moriarty
Moffitt had no idea how right he was until the next day when Brian was in a jail cell and detectives were searching his apartment.
Marlena Buffa
While we were searching his new residence, we located a manila envelope with a Michigan driver's license in the name of Rick Wayne Valentini. And that picture was Brian Stewart.
Erin Moriarty
You're not really Brian Stewart at all, are you?
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Erin Moriarty
On the night of May 29, 2010, as he interrogated Brian Stewart about his missing girlfriend, Jamie Laity, Detective Moffatt knew that Brian wasn't telling the truth.
Marlena Buffa
I mean, you're talking to a woman who's been gone for two months now. And I have a person in front of me that has different Social Security numbers, a couple different dates of birth.
Erin Moriarty
You're not really Brian Stewart at all, are you?
Rick Valentini
To me I am.
Erin Moriarty
But not legally, are you?
Rick Valentini
Well, legally, I'm not anything.
Erin Moriarty
Actually, legally, Brian is Rick Wayne Valentini. Remember the roommate that private investigator Burke Files noticed in Brian Stewart's credit history? Well, there was no roommate, just this guy, Rick Valentini, who was preparing to change his identity.
Gwyneth Newman
In our modern world with the databases.
Rick Valentini
You just can't turn on a new name, a new taxpayer ID number, a Social Security number.
Marlena Buffa
You have to age it.
Rick Valentini
You have to season it.
Erin Moriarty
In October 2001, when the name Brian Stewart had enough of a credit history, Rick Valentini disappeared from Michigan. Days later, a man named Brian became a resident of Phoenix.
Rick Valentini
Driving from Michigan to Arizona. That's all I did. Brian Stewart. Brian Stewart. Brian Stewart. Brian Stewart. I was always saying, listening for Brian Stewart, Brian Stewart. Because it's a new name, A new.
Erin Moriarty
Name and a new man, according to Rick, the kind of man he always wanted to be. And he insists that whether legal or not, he is now Brian Stewart and would only agree to an interview if we would use that name.
Rick Valentini
And if you don't want to accept that I don't want you around, I don't want you in my life, why.
Erin Moriarty
Not change your name legally? Why go to the trouble of forging a birth certificate?
Rick Valentini
Well, it was my understanding that to change your name legally would take years.
Erin Moriarty
Brian claims he wasn't running from the law, just leaving behind what he describes as a tragic childhood.
Rick Valentini
Everybody takes their name for granted. Your name is the very core essence of who you are, of what you are. And you find out that it's all a lie. And then you find out that your own father doesn't even know you exist because your own mother didn't bother to tell him.
Erin Moriarty
His mother was 18 when he was born. His real father reportedly walked away.
Rick Valentini
He just wasn't loved.
Gwyneth Newman
Just didn't have love. That's why he loved us, because we loved him.
Erin Moriarty
His aunt Donna says she believes he was physically and emotionally abused.
Gwyneth Newman
I think the other children were, too, but not like him. He always knew there was something different about him, and he didn't know.
Erin Moriarty
What, do you think? That he created this different name, different Persona, because he just didn't want to be who he was.
Gwyneth Newman
Exactly. Exactly.
Erin Moriarty
But when detectives started looking into Rick Valentini's background, this is what else they found. Three ex wives and two daughters. Hello? Hi.
Gwyneth Newman
Is this Cynthia? This is. Hi, Cynthia. Detective Dave Selvage from Chandler Police Department.
Erin Moriarty
One of his exes told Chandler police she thinks Rick is just a deadbeat dad on the run. He owed, from what I understand, quite a bit of back child support from Wendy, his first wife. His oldest daughter, Amy, was a baby when he left.
Gwyneth Newman
He never called. He's never talked to me, never contacted me.
Erin Moriarty
When your mom finally told you about your dad, what did she say about him? What kind of guy? He was a really bad guy. A liar.
Gwyneth Newman
She told me that he always lied. All the time. He lied about lots of things.
Erin Moriarty
In Phoenix. His whole life was a lie. He told everyone, including Jamie, that his parents were killed by a drunk driver. He pretended to be eight years younger than he is and boasted a hero's military record. That was complete fiction. When you talked to Detective Moffat, when he sat you down, he asked you about your military record, and you said you'd been to Iraq and Afghanistan. You hadn't, had you?
Rick Valentini
Mm. Mm.
Erin Moriarty
No. You lied.
Rick Valentini
I was.
Erin Moriarty
You lied.
Rick Valentini
Yeah.
Erin Moriarty
Rick Valentini, AKA Brian Stewart, was an enlisted man, but he was dishonorably discharged after going AWOL and stabbing two military officers in the hand and leg. He served two years in a military prison. He never mentioned that to anyone either.
Brian Stewart
Freeze it.
Gwyneth Newman
Breathe it.
Erin Moriarty
You tell a lot of stories, though, don't you?
Rick Valentini
I have a lot of stories to tell.
Erin Moriarty
But you tell a lot of lies.
Rick Valentini
Um, lies mixed in with the truth.
Erin Moriarty
Like the lie that ultimately made Jamie Laity trust Brian with her life. You never actually went to the University of Michigan, did you?
Rick Valentini
No. Mm. Mm.
Erin Moriarty
But you let people think you did.
Rick Valentini
Sure.
Erin Moriarty
Why?
Rick Valentini
It was just a tie in to my home state. And it was just part of the pride that I had. I've been a Michigan fan since I was a little boy.
Gwyneth Newman
He was right in there, and, boy, he was a Michigan man.
Erin Moriarty
And it wasn't just that fanaticism that conned the alumni group in Phoenix for four years. Brian also had a fanatic fake diploma.
Gwyneth Newman
He's fooled all of us. We're talking hundreds of people here and 20 or so board members, many of them attorneys and judges.
Erin Moriarty
News of Jamie's boyfriend's double life went viral and made her disappearance even more alarming.
Gwyneth Newman
This doesn't happen to your friends. No. This does not happen to people you went to college with that you call your sister. This doesn't happen to your family. You don't have friends who meet people who. Who have double identities.
Erin Moriarty
Did you begin to think that maybe Jamie was dead?
Gwyneth Newman
Yes.
Erin Moriarty
And did you think he might have killed her?
Gwyneth Newman
Mm.
Erin Moriarty
Did you kill Jamie?
Rick Valentini
No. I've never killed anybody in my life. Not ever.
Erin Moriarty
Did you two fight that night? Were you angry with her?
Rick Valentini
No. She told me that she was gonna be leaving the next day.
Erin Moriarty
And where was she going?
Rick Valentini
It was my impression Denver.
Erin Moriarty
But detectives who had already discovered several suitcases in Jamie's home couldn't find any evidence of Jamie ever leaving for or arriving in Denver. Brian says that's because Jamie didn't want to be found.
Rick Valentini
I taught Jamie how to create a whole new life for herself that included a new identification, a whole new Persona, a whole new way of looking at things.
Erin Moriarty
Are you saying that you helped Jamie change her identity?
Rick Valentini
Yeah. I showed her how to do it. The only thing that she ever lived for was to be free of her family. She wanted to be on her own.
Gwyneth Newman
He's too smart. Why would he have stayed there for 10 weeks if he killed her? Why wouldn't he have just left? He'd done it before. Why wouldn't he do it again?
Erin Moriarty
Isn't it possible that Jamie's doing the same thing that Brian did, just vanished the same way, and no one's been able to track her down?
Marlena Buffa
Are you asking me today if I believe that's possible? Absolutely not. I wholeheartedly believe Bryan Stewart, Rick Valentini, whoever you want to call him, murdered Jamie Lighty on the night of March 17.
Erin Moriarty
But a year and a half after Jamie disappeared, there is still no body, no blood, no sign of a struggle, no physical evidence of a murder.
Brian Stewart
We just didn't have what you would consider a traditional crime scene. So we went with more of a virtual crime scene.
Erin Moriarty
They started investigating the digital record of Jamie's life, and this little White envelope contains several pieces of the puzzle. Prosecutor Juan Martinez says it was enough to convince him that Brian Stewart should be charged with murder. This is a really telling piece of evidence. Oh my gosh. In this many pieces.
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Rick Valentini
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It's starting to look that way.
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Marlena Buffa
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Erin Moriarty
See mint mobile.com In June 2010, Bryant Stewart was charged with fraud for forging a new birth certificate and changing his name illegally.
Rick Valentini
If you think using the name Brian Stewart is fraudulent, hey, we're going to fight it out in court.
Erin Moriarty
But while detectives suspected he was responsible for the disappearance and death of his girlfriend Jamie lady, they couldn't charge him with her murder. What did the two of you think happened that night?
Brian Stewart
I think they had a fight.
Erin Moriarty
But wouldn't there be some sign of that in her home?
Marlena Buffa
Not necessarily. I mean, strangulation or suffocation or anything like that. There's going to be virtually no blood.
Erin Moriarty
With no physical evidence. They would have to build a strong circumstantial case to prove that Jamie was dead and Brian was the one who killed her.
Marlena Buffa
We literally dissected all of Jamie's financial affairs, all of her accounts, all of the transactions, his email, her email.
Erin Moriarty
What they saw was a very responsible woman.
Brian Stewart
I mean, she Was a person that stayed up on her emails. She returned phone calls, she paid all of her bills on time until March 17th. Then she didn't do any of those things.
Erin Moriarty
For the next three months, detectives realized that the only person who appeared to be using Jamie's credit cards was Brian Stewart.
Marlena Buffa
The only transactions on one of Jamie's accounts were Internet purchases and dating websites.
Erin Moriarty
He used her cards to meet other women.
Rick Valentini
That's right. Basically, he said the same thing. He was a graduate of the University of Michigan, never been married, didn't know if he wanted kids or not.
Erin Moriarty
That's nervy, isn't it? Yeah, it's pretty nervy and pretty insensitive, too, isn't it? Um, yeah.
Rick Valentini
You know, a little. Because. Well, let me. Let me explain.
Erin Moriarty
You used her credit cards to go on dating sites to meet other women?
Rick Valentini
Well, you know what? Look. Jamie was leaving.
Erin Moriarty
But nothing alarmed prosecutor Martinez more than what detectives found when they searched Brian's apartment in Scottsdale.
Brian Stewart
Her wallet was lying on his desk. There was a number of her credit cards there on the desk. And then on the back filing cabinet was her personal telephone that he said she had with her.
Erin Moriarty
So was this small white envelope. And when police got a warrant to open it, they found pieces of cut up ID and credit cards. When they put them together, they had Jamie Laity's driver's license, her Michigan University alum card, and several credit cards. Why did you cut up her driver's license?
Rick Valentini
I didn't cut them up.
Erin Moriarty
Bryan claims it was Jamie who cut up the cards after she changed her identity and ran away. But when Chandler police tested the envelope to see who sealed it, the DNA belonged to Brian. Even when you had that envelope, it still took a year before you brought murder charges against him.
Rick Valentini
We were tying up all the loose ends. When you don't have a body, you have to be very careful because you only get one chance.
Erin Moriarty
That chance came when an inmate at the jail where Brian was born being held agreed to testify that Brian had confessed to killing Jamie.
Rick Valentini
He went to this particular individual and said, do you think that they can charge me if they can't find the body?
Erin Moriarty
On March 24, 2011, a grand jury indicted Brian on charges of second degree murder of his girlfriend, Jamie Laity. He was also charged with the fraud for using Jamie's credit cards without her permission. Who is technically, legally on trial here?
Rick Valentini
An individual by the name of Rick Valentini, also known as Brian Stewart.
Erin Moriarty
But isn't this a little odd? Because even through the trial, you're calling Him. Brian Stewart.
Rick Valentini
That's the name that he preferred. I'll use whatever name he wants to convict him.
Erin Moriarty
In October of 2011, Rick Wayne Valentini, aka Brian Stewart, went on trial.
Gwyneth Newman
State's first witness.
Erin Moriarty
The first witness to testify for the state was Andrea Aardsma.
Rick Valentini
What does your husband do for a living?
Gwyneth Newman
He is a professional baseball player.
Erin Moriarty
Back in 2010, she and her husband David, then ace pitcher for the Seattle Mariners, were in Scottsdale during the off season. Andrea worked out at Gold's Gym five days a week and her personal trainer was Brian.
Rick Valentini
And did he tell you whether or not he had a girlfriend?
Gwyneth Newman
Yes, he had a girlfriend.
Rick Valentini
And did he tell you her name?
Gwyneth Newman
Jamie.
Erin Moriarty
Andrea testified that for months before Jamie disappeared, Brian had complained about his souring relationship and what he really thought of his girlfriend.
Gwyneth Newman
Whiny, naggy bitch. Sugar mama. Nothing. Nothing positive at all. I don't know if he just thought I was a good listener or if he really did think that I was stupid and that he could tell me all these things and nothing would come of it.
Erin Moriarty
In one of the trial's most disturbing moments, Andrea stood up and reenacted Brian sharing his nickname for Jamie.
Gwyneth Newman
Jamie the Gut. Jamie the Gut. I'm like, man, if you hate her so much, just, just break up with her.
Erin Moriarty
The jury also heard from Jamie's parents.
Rick Valentini
Have you received any emails from her?
Gwyneth Newman
No.
Rick Valentini
Has she shown up at your house?
Gwyneth Newman
No.
Rick Valentini
Have you been hiding her just so that Mr. Stewart won't find her?
Gwyneth Newman
No.
Erin Moriarty
But some of the mother. Significant testimony revealed that Jamie had found a new job and not in Denver, but right here in Phoenix.
Marlena Buffa
She's very excited about her new job.
Gwyneth Newman
And we're looking forward to working together.
Erin Moriarty
On March 18, David Beauchamp, a lawyer and friend, testified that he helped Jamie negotiate the contract for that job. What's more, he saw Jamie two days before and testified that he saw bruises.
Gwyneth Newman
She was exhibiting many, many of the characteristics of a battered woman.
Erin Moriarty
And she absolutely broke down on day seven of the state's case.
Gwyneth Newman
Thank you. Please be seated.
Erin Moriarty
The jailhouse snitch took the stand.
Gwyneth Newman
The whole truth and nothing but the truth.
Rick Valentini
So I'll be God, I do.
Gwyneth Newman
Thank you.
Erin Moriarty
At his request, the judge ordered us not to reveal his identity. He also got a deal for testifying. A two year sentence for fraud was reduced to one.
Rick Valentini
He was very agitated, talking about how the police know that I killed her.
Gwyneth Newman
That he needed to get it off his chest.
Erin Moriarty
By the time the state rested, prosecutor Martinez and Detective Nate Moffatt were sure they would get a conviction on the fraudulent schemes charge. But had they convinced the jury that Brian had committed murder, I think a.
Gwyneth Newman
Lot of people would have a hard time convicting. With no body, we really had to be careful and listen to both sides.
Erin Moriarty
Knowing his life was on the line, Bryan was about to do something that would shock the entire courtroom. Were you expecting the defendant to take the stand?
Gwyneth Newman
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Erin Moriarty
Pieces of a driver's license and credit cards. A closet filled with shoes and purses. The evidence at trial is a daily reminder of what Jamie laity parents have lost so hard.
Gwyneth Newman
Every time they mention her name, it's hurt me so much. I think that I'm not going to see her anymore. Then.
Erin Moriarty
And as the defense begins, Jamie's mother has one wish.
Gwyneth Newman
The whole time I've been praying that I hope he take this stand.
Erin Moriarty
Why?
Gwyneth Newman
Because then they can see through him.
Erin Moriarty
Her prayer is granted. Despite his fifth amendment right to remain silent and very much against his lawyer and most any lawyer's advice. Stand up.
Gwyneth Newman
Raise your right hand.
Erin Moriarty
Brian Stewart boldly and defiantly takes the stand.
Rick Valentini
I am the only human being who knows what happened. I'm the only human being who knows why things happened when they happened.
Gwyneth Newman
What was your relationship like?
Rick Valentini
It was I would say 95% great.
Gwyneth Newman
Did you argue?
Rick Valentini
No, not really.
Erin Moriarty
He appears confident and relaxed. But after all it is his lawyer asking the questions.
Gwyneth Newman
Did you kill Jamie to use her credit cards?
Rick Valentini
Absolutely not.
Gwyneth Newman
Did you have general Permission to use her credit cards?
Rick Valentini
Yes.
Erin Moriarty
Brian insists he didn't need to steal from Jamie.
Gwyneth Newman
Why do you feel that you had permission to use the cards?
Rick Valentini
Even from our first date, it was literally an instruction to use them.
Erin Moriarty
And then he drops a bombshell, claiming that long after Jamie disappeared, she was still in Phoenix and would visit the house they shared and his new condo when Brian wasn't around.
Rick Valentini
Because I would get back to my condo and things would be moved around or things would be left behind.
Gwyneth Newman
Okay. Now, how did she get into your. Into your apartment?
Rick Valentini
She had a key.
Erin Moriarty
But that's not all. He also claims he continued to communicate with Jamie long after that morning in March 2010 when she vanished.
Gwyneth Newman
How did she communicate with you?
Rick Valentini
Email and telephone.
Gwyneth Newman
Okay.
Erin Moriarty
You have told people that if you had a computer, you could find her. I've got a computer here. You want to try? I've got my iPad here. How would you find her?
Rick Valentini
I would have to look on mine.
Erin Moriarty
I mean, if I got this whole thing set up, could you. I mean, if you could find her.
Rick Valentini
No, because I need to get in a. Because there's a special email site that we were working through.
Erin Moriarty
You must know, Brian, that that sounds a little crazy that you would have given this information to your attorneys and they wouldn't go looking for the one person who could save you from going to prison for life.
Rick Valentini
You know, I told them that, and I never heard anything.
Gwyneth Newman
Did you murder Jamie, lady?
Rick Valentini
No. Jamie Lydy is a liar.
Erin Moriarty
She would just let you go on trial for murder, go to prison for the rest of your life?
Rick Valentini
I don't know. I don't think that. I don't think either one of us ever expected it to get this far.
Gwyneth Newman
Would you be at all surprised if I told you that she was about to walk through that door?
Rick Valentini
No.
Erin Moriarty
But prosecutor Juan Martinez wasn't buying any of it.
Rick Valentini
You didn't actually talk to her in that condo, did you? No. You have not seen her at any time, and she hasn't walked in now, right? Right. And she won't walk in because you killed her, right? Wrong.
Gwyneth Newman
I don't have anything else. Thank you.
Erin Moriarty
One day before Thanksgiving, 2011, more than a year and a half after Jamie Laity disappeared, the prosecution and defense rested after presenting two very different stories. It was now up to the jury to decide, and foreman Leon Lead was worried.
Gwyneth Newman
As we were moving to deliberation, I wondered how difficult of a decision this is going to be for the 12 of us, knowing that there's no body.
Erin Moriarty
But just four hours later, the jury returned with a verdict. Did any of you look at him when you walked in?
Gwyneth Newman
No, I did not. No. Thank you. Please be seated.
Erin Moriarty
Brian Stewart was reassured by deputy sheriffs guarding him.
Rick Valentini
Oh, yeah. They're like, yeah, you're good. Anytime a jury comes back that quick. And I was like, okay, well, wow. All right. That's pretty good.
Gwyneth Newman
We, the jury, duly empanelled and sworn in the above entitled action upon our oaths as to count one, second degree murder, do find the defendant guilty.
Erin Moriarty
Guilty. Jamie's parents were overcome.
Rick Valentini
Are these your true verdicts?
Gwyneth Newman
So say you want guilty. That's all I heard. And I just. I lost it. I was so happy.
Erin Moriarty
And then there was more.
Gwyneth Newman
As to count two, fraudulent schemes and artifices, do find the defendant guilty. Sign four person.
Erin Moriarty
Brian Stewart couldn't believe his ears.
Rick Valentini
I just sat there. Like, to me, my life was over with. I just couldn't understand, you know? I mean, if I would have killed her, I would have admitted to it.
Erin Moriarty
Do you think Brian Stewart, Rick Valentini, is a dangerous man?
Gwyneth Newman
Yes. Yes, yes.
Erin Moriarty
Absolutely. No question in your mind?
Gwyneth Newman
None. None at all. The first 10 minutes of his testimony, any doubt I had that he was solely responsible for the murder of Jamie had been sealed at that moment in time.
Erin Moriarty
You've told so many stories, it's hard to believe you.
Rick Valentini
Let's look at the army, okay?
Erin Moriarty
No, let's look at what happened to Jamie. That's what really matters.
Rick Valentini
Jamie took $100,000, and she left the state of Arizona. I've said it for 18 months. I say it now, and I'm gonna say it for the next 18 years.
Erin Moriarty
But investigators say there was no money and his story is just another lie. And for her friends and family.
Gwyneth Newman
I just feel so bad that we weren't there.
Erin Moriarty
The one remaining question may never be answered. Is it hard because you don't really know where she is? You've never been able to bury her.
Gwyneth Newman
That's right. That's right. I still have what they call the receiving blankets of Jamie from the hospital. And I carried it with me all the time. And I intend to use that blanket to carry her home. It'd be fine, too.
Erin Moriarty
In 2011, Rick Valentini, aka Brian Stewart, was sentenced to 54 years for murder and other charges. In 2018, Jamie Laity's remains were found in a construction yard in Chandler, Arizona.
Gwyneth Newman
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Erin Moriarty
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Gwyneth Newman
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How you doing?
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48 Hours: "Living with a Stranger" – Episode Summary
Release Date: June 16, 2025
Host: Anne-Marie Green
Producer: CBS News
In the gripping episode titled "Living with a Stranger," CBS News' award-winning series "48 Hours" delves into the mysterious disappearance of Jamie Laity, a promising University of Michigan graduate, and the unraveling of her seemingly perfect relationship with her boyfriend, Brian Stewart. This detailed investigation uncovers secrets, deceit, and ultimately leads to a shocking revelation that alters the course of justice.
Jamie Laity, a vibrant and independent woman, vanished in March 2010 from Phoenix, Arizona. Her disappearance puzzled friends and family, especially given her respected standing and close-knit social circle. The episode meticulously traces Jamie's last known months, revealing her growing isolation and the strains in her relationship with Brian Stewart.
Jamie moved to Phoenix post-graduation to carve out her own identity. Despite her success in a high-paying job, the economic downturn in 2009 led to her unemployment, causing significant distress.
Jamie became increasingly reclusive, and her friends initially overlooked her absence, attributing it to her desire for privacy.
Marlena Buffa, the president of Jamie's University of Michigan alum club in Phoenix, became suspicious when Jamie failed to show up, prompting her friends to hire a private investigator, Burke Files. Their investigation revealed unsettling details about Brian Stewart's past, including his association with a man named Rick Wayne Valentini.
Detectives soon discovered inconsistencies in Brian's identity, including mismatched Social Security numbers and birth dates. Further investigation uncovered that Brian Stewart was, in fact, Rick Wayne Valentini, who had forged a new identity to escape his troubled past.
In October 2011, Rick Wayne Valentini (alias Brian Stewart) stood trial for Jamie's murder and fraud. The prosecution built a case based on circumstantial evidence, including Jamie's missing wallet, driver's license, and Brian's unauthorized use of her credit cards.
During the trial, testimonies revealed Brian's deceit, including his false claims of a military background and fabricated personal history. A jailhouse informant provided crucial testimony, asserting that Brian had confessed to Jamie's murder.
In a pivotal moment, Brian chose to take the stand, appearing confident yet evasive. His testimony failed to provide clarity, only deepening suspicions.
Despite lacking a body or direct evidence, the jury convicted Brian of second-degree murder and fraudulent schemes based on the amassed circumstantial evidence.
Rick Wayne Valentini was sentenced to 54 years in prison. However, the mystery lingered until 2018, when Jamie Laity's remains were discovered in a construction yard in Chandler, Arizona, providing closure to her unsettling disappearance.
The episode underscores the complexities of identity, trust, and the relentless pursuit of truth in the face of deception.
Identity Deception: The case highlights how forged identities can conceal heinous crimes and complicate investigations.
Circumstantial Evidence: Demonstrates the power of thorough investigative work in building a compelling case without direct evidence.
Personal Impact: Reflects on the profound effects of disappearance and loss on friends and family, emphasizing the emotional toll of unresolved cases.
Gwyneth Newman on Jamie’s disappearance:
"How can one of my best friends have been missing for 10 weeks? How did it come to this that she could be gone so long and nobody reported it?" (01:15)
Marlena Buffa on the investigation:
"There's no smoking gun in this case, but there is a lot of burning matchsticks." (02:25)
Detective Moffatt analyzing Brian's inconsistencies:
"I have no friggin clue who's sitting in front of me. And it's extremely uneasy for me as I'm investigating a case of this magnitude." (15:16)
Rick Wayne Valentini on his new identity:
"Everybody takes their name for granted. Your name is the very core essence of who you are... and then you find out that it's all a lie." (19:00)
Prosecutor Juan Martinez on the evidence:
"This is a really telling piece of evidence. Oh my gosh. In this many pieces." (25:26)
"Living with a Stranger" serves as a compelling narrative on the depths of human deceit and the relentless pursuit of justice. Through meticulous reporting and in-depth interviews, "48 Hours" brings to light the intricate web surrounding Jamie Laity's disappearance and the ultimate downfall of her deceitful partner. This episode not only recounts a tragic story but also underscores the importance of vigilance and integrity in both personal relationships and the justice system.