Podcast Summary: Abundant Practice Podcast

Episode #748: Why You're Counting Down To Time Off
Host: Allison Puryear
Guest: Rebecca Smith
Release Date: April 11, 2026

Episode Overview

In this episode, Allison Puryear and guest Rebecca Smith tackle a common pain point for private practice therapists: the feeling of building a practice you want to escape from. They answer a listener’s question about constantly counting down to weekends, cancellations, or vacations, and discuss how to make a private practice genuinely sustainable and enjoyable. Their advice centers on realigning practice structures to fit therapists' actual lives, setting boundaries, and proactively reassessing work-life balance.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Identifying the Real Problem

[03:02–04:13]

• The listener’s question resonates with many therapists who started private practice for freedom but end up feeling trapped.
• Rebecca Smith: Raises the possibility that niche mismatch or burnout, especially for trauma therapists, could be at play:

  “Sometimes we take on... trauma therapy because they're great at it... then that can really burn you out.” [03:30]

• Alice: Suggests it might be about boundaries and structural issues more than just clinical fatigue.

2. Aligning Practice with Life (Not the Other Way Around)

[04:36–06:13]

• Taking time off in private practice often feels financially risky, causing therapists to under-schedule vacations.
• Vacations might be infrequent (“in 2034, I said I was going to go to Europe... we got to do this something in 2026.” – Alice, 05:09)
• Rebecca: Encourages restructuring your caseload to fit your life and not the reverse:

  “... instead of restructuring your life around your caseload, encourage this person to restructure their caseload around their life.” [05:43]

3. The “Big Rocks” Metaphor for Scheduling

[06:13–07:30]

• Alice: Proposes seeing life’s priorities as “big rocks” in your schedule:

  “If you have a jar and you're trying to fill it with rocks... most therapists, your caseload is the biggest rock. But it doesn't have to be.” [06:56]

• Rebecca: Reiterates the importance of putting life’s priorities first:

  “Your life should be... the big rocks.” [07:03]

• Sleep, health, family, relationships—these go in the schedule first; the caseload fills in around them.

4. Avoiding Burnout and Re-Evaluating Regularly

[07:34–09:30]

• Real talk: You may not want to interact with anyone after a full therapy day—acknowledge it and plan accordingly.
• Regularly schedule “non-clinical work days” to think and plan—not just see clients.
• Alice: Suggests an annual calendar review:

  “I always do have a note every year in my calendar... that's like what does next year look like?” [09:30]

5. Planning for Predictable Life Seasons

[09:48–11:02]

• Rebecca: Shares her calendar strategy of blocking out time in especially busy seasons, e.g., May for end-of-school-year activities:

  “I have a note for myself in my calendar... that I cannot miss that's like, remember that May is so busy and you need to scale back on work stuff...” [09:49]

• Normalize changing your work plan from year to year as life circumstances shift.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Your life is more important, period. I love being a therapist, but my family's more important, my sleep is more important.”
  — Rebecca Smith, 08:16

• “You can have what you want. You just have to know what it is.”
  — Rebecca Smith, 09:23

• “For a lot of therapists, your caseload is the biggest rock. But it doesn't have to be.”
  — Alice, 06:56

• “If you're taking one of these non clinical work days, it's a good time to go through this worksheet. It's free.”
  — Rebecca Smith, 11:42

Actionable Takeaways

• Assess if your niche or client population is burning you out. Consider shifts if needed.
• Prioritize personal needs and set your caseload and working hours around them—not the other way around.
• Schedule personal priorities as non-negotiable “big rocks”, then fit clients around them.
• Reassess your work-life balance at least annually (or even quarterly); adjust your schedule proactively for busy life seasons.
• Take actual, frequent breaks and vacations—price your services to enable this without financial hardship.
• Use available worksheets and resources (linked in show notes) to clarify what you want from your practice.

Timestamps for Important Segments

• [03:02] – Listener question and initial reactions
• [03:30] – Burnout in niche populations, especially trauma therapists
• [04:36] – The income/vacation problem in private practice
• [05:43] – Advice to restructure caseload vs. life
• [06:56] – The “Big Rocks” calendar metaphor
• [09:30] – The importance of annual (or more frequent) work-life reassessment
• [09:49] – Planning for life-specific busy seasons

Overall Tone & Style

The tone is supportive, candid, and practical, mixing well-worn therapist wisdom with real-life examples and humor. Both hosts openly share their structures, challenges, and strategies for living well as therapists, making the advice relatable and action-oriented.

Additional Resources

• Limitless Practice Program: For therapists wanting tailored help correcting these issues ([link in show notes])
• Free “Build the Right Practice” Worksheet: Guided questions to help therapists realign their practice with their values and priorities ([link in show notes])

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