Your Money Story Is Running Your Life | How to Rewrite It - Ep. 149 Part 2

What happens when a simple conversation about remortgaging triggers a full emotional breakdown? In Part 2 of this conversation with life and leadership coach Rose Latham, Rebecca Robertson digs into the moment Rose realised her entire financial identity was built on fear, inherited money stories and a self-worth wound she didn't know was there. They explore how to uncover your own money story and start rewriting it.

Picking up where Part 1 left off, Rose shares the kitchen conversation with her husband that cracked everything open. A routine chat about remortgaging triggered a flood of emotion that revealed just how tightly her financial worth was tangled with her identity as a mother, a partner and a professional.

Rose walks through how she started unpicking that story, from reading Barbara Stanny's "Overcoming Underearning" to having honest conversations with her mum about generational money patterns. Rebecca shares her own parallel: a father who grew up in genuine poverty after a coal mine accident left his family with nothing, and how that shaped her own relationship with money without her ever realising it.

The episode closes with two practical exercises anyone can do today to start understanding their own money story and what's really driving their financial decisions.

What You'll Learn:

- Why a routine money conversation can trigger a disproportionate emotional response - How to recognise the signs of underearning (it's not just about salary) - The generational money stories that silently shape your financial behaviour - How to separate your self-worth from your bank balance - Two practical exercises to uncover your hidden money beliefs

Connect with Rose Latham:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/roselathamcoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rose.latham.127 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roselatham.lifecoaching/

Chapters

0:00 Cold open: "My heart started racing and I started crying" 1:43 Welcome back to Part 2 2:34 The door in the wall you didn't know was there 3:08 Self-worth and finances: the connection Rose didn't see 4:26 The remortgage conversation that broke everything open 5:14 "You make a terrible coach, but you're completely right" 6:00 What success actually means as a family 7:17 The challenge of pricing yourself as a new coach 8:54 Building confidence to charge what you're worth 9:21 When the work has nothing to do with you 10:46 Discovering "Overcoming Underearning" by Barbara Stanny 11:28 Having an honest conversation with Mum about money 12:50 Rebecca's dad: growing up with nothing after a mining accident 14:01 "If you don't shine a light on it, it runs you" 15:41 Spending money as fast as it arrives 16:20 Top tips: tell the truth about your numbers 17:21 The "Money Is..." exercise 18:10 Where to find Rose and her money exercises PDF 19:15 Outro and subscribe

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Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be construed as financial advice.