Acquiring Minds Podcast – Episode Summary

Podcast: Acquiring Minds
Host: Will Smith
Episode: Family Offices for Searchers: A Primer
Date: September 25, 2025
Guest: James Bohannon, Senior Vice President at Bellsberg & Co

Overview

This episode delves into the somewhat obscure yet influential world of family offices and their growing relevance to acquisition entrepreneurship. Host Will Smith interviews James Bohannon, Senior VP at Bellsberg & Co, who provides a thorough primer on what family offices are, how they function, and why entrepreneurs—especially searchers and small business owners—should consider them as both funding sources and potential buyers or partners. The episode moves from foundational definitions to nuanced strategies for building relationships with family offices.

Key Discussion Points

1. Why Family Offices Matter to Entrepreneurs

[04:05] James explains that family office capital is essentially private wealth being directly invested, often belonging to former entrepreneurs. Their experience and capital often find their way back into private markets, including direct SMB investments.
Family offices can serve as investors in, partners to, or acquirers of small and mid-sized private businesses. Their flexibility, long-term outlook, and lack of formal mandates make them ideal partners in many scenarios.
Quote:

“Family office capital can be the best capital for family-held businesses.” (James Bohannon, [05:58])

2. Family Offices vs. Private Equity

[07:01] Private equity (PE) dominates mindshare due to its “offensive” sourcing, well-known brand, and systematic playbook; in contrast, family offices are often bandwidth-constrained, less outward-facing, and more selective.
Many family offices have PE roots, and operationally, the approaches are sometimes similar, but capital and mandates typically differ.
Quote:

“The private equity playbook has done an incredible job—it's the model that created this whole sort of opportunity set… PE is always outreaching.” (James Bohannon, [07:36])

3. Family Office History and Trends

[14:22] Family offices stem from old economic dynasties (e.g., Rockefeller, Morgan) and have multiplied rapidly since 2000, paralleling massive wealth generation.
Many began as investment vehicles for family wealth. Over time, they evolved to have dedicated teams managing both the family lifestyle and investments.
A recent trend is the shift from passive investing in funds to direct investments and co-investments, with some single-family offices becoming multifamily or even quasi-institutional.

4. Defining Family Offices

[12:31] “It’s just somebody’s money—a rich person or a rich family—a dedicated pool of capital over $100M.” (James Bohannon)
Differentiators: Ownership of capital, no outside LPs, flexibility, opportunism, and lack of fund constraints.

5. Investment Appetite and Structure

[19:44] With longer time horizons, family offices can invest in illiquid alternatives. Many have shifted towards direct investments so they can exert more control and exercise greater flexibility.
Family offices are increasingly building out direct investment teams, sometimes even co-investing as GPs or creating their own in-house funds.

6. Family Office Tiers and Internal Operations

[29:11] Strata explained: Small family offices ($100–400M) are typically lean, while mega offices (billions AUM) operate much like endowments, writing $100M+ checks and managing complex family needs.
Org Chart: CIO (Chief Investment Officer) at the top (sometimes also the principal), supported by analysts, legal/admin, and various investment specialists.
- Quote:
  
  “Role number one is always the CIO... that's the head honcho.” (James Bohannon, [39:52])
Family offices must manage not only investments but also family lifestyle, estate, taxes, and even “buying homes and tax estate planning.”

7. Deal Processes, Check Sizes, and Constraints

[34:43] Check size usually correlates with AUM and annual deployment targets, but is also dictated by bandwidth and strategic goals. Big offices deploy in large chunks; smaller ones may write sub-$5M checks, especially if they see long-term platform potential.
Quick decision-making is a strength due to less bureaucracy. Conversely, lack of deployment pressure means more selective and sometimes slower-moving.

8. What It's Like to Work for a Family Office

[47:36] Family offices attract talent from private equity and finance due to flexibility, no fundraising, and relaxed culture. Potential downsides: misaligned incentives, dependence on whims or changes in principal’s strategy, or family “drama.”
Quote:

“It sounds great... until the son-in-law comes in with no experience and is suddenly in charge of half the assets…” (James Bohannon, [47:36])

9. Relationship Dynamics and Network Effects

[53:36], [58:43], [64:37] Family offices are intentionally private, “underground,” and reliant on trust-based networks. Breaking in requires authentic relationship-building—one trusted introduction at a time.
There’s collegiality and collaboration between family offices, often clubbing up on deals and sharing diligence to overcome resource constraints.
- Quote:
  
  “You have to build your network in the family office world one at a time... One strong contact leads to another.” (James Bohannon, [58:43])

Tactical Takeaways for Searchers & Entrepreneurs

a. When to Seek Family Office Capital

Searchers at very small deal sizes ($400K SDE) may struggle unless there’s clear runway to grow—preferably visible operational experience and plan for scaling.
The ideal window: after substantial growth (to $3–7M+ EBITDA), when you'd typically approach PE, consider family offices as exit or recap partners.

b. Approaching and Building Relationships

Best entry: warm introductions, alumni networks, previous investors, or personal referrals.
Conferences such as the McGuireWoods Independent Sponsor Conference in Dallas serve as one major formal “on-ramp” between independent sponsor/searchers and family office capital.

c. What Family Offices Value

Good alignment, a proven or compelling operator, a trustworthy introduction, and a pathway to follow-on deployment.
Openness to co-invest, long-term orientation, and flexible deal terms.
They can be “all the capital you ever need,” participating through multiple rounds or providing operational support via their networks.

d. Family Offices vs. Private Equity as Buyers

Family offices can match or exceed PE’s resources and value-add but provide more flexible partnership structures, longer holding periods, and less operational interference.
Quote:

“Think about family office capital as a solution for the next ten, twenty years of your business.” (James Bohannon, [70:58])

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On why to care:

“It’s my belief that family office capital can be the best capital for family-held businesses.” (James Bohannon, [05:58])
On the family office experience:

“Once you’ve met one family office, you’ve met one family office.” (James Bohannon, [27:19])
On breaking in:

“You can’t break into it, you have to build it. Build your network in the family office world one at a time…” (James Bohannon, [58:43])
On partnership fit:

“If you build a great business… you can go to family office capital and recap your business as an alternative to private equity.” (James Bohannon, [70:58])

Important Timestamps

[04:05] – Why entrepreneurs should care about family offices
[07:01] – Why PE dominates the narrative
[14:22] – History and evolution of family offices
[19:44] – Trends in direct investing and multifamily offices
[29:41] – Family office tiers and typical check sizes
[39:52] – Org structure and investment process
[47:36] – What it’s like to work for a family office
[53:36] – The “shadowy”/private nature and desired privacy
[58:43] – How to break in, the trust network, and relationship building
[64:37] – Family offices collaborate more than compete
[70:58] – Family offices as an alternative to PE for mature searcher businesses

Final Takeaway

Family offices represent a capital source that is often “off the radar” for searchers and SMB entrepreneurs, yet holds the potential for deeper alignment, longer-term partnership, and greater flexibility than private equity. While access is earned through relationships and trust, family offices offer savvy operators diverse and creative paths to both growth and exit—far beyond the default models.

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Acquiring Minds Podcast – Episode Summary

Podcast: Acquiring Minds
Host: Will Smith
Episode: Family Offices for Searchers: A Primer
Date: September 25, 2025
Guest: James Bohannon, Senior Vice President at Bellsberg & Co

Overview

Key Discussion Points

1. Why Family Offices Matter to Entrepreneurs

[04:05] James explains that family office capital is essentially private wealth being directly invested, often belonging to former entrepreneurs. Their experience and capital often find their way back into private markets, including direct SMB investments.
Family offices can serve as investors in, partners to, or acquirers of small and mid-sized private businesses. Their flexibility, long-term outlook, and lack of formal mandates make them ideal partners in many scenarios.
Quote:

“Family office capital can be the best capital for family-held businesses.” (James Bohannon, [05:58])

2. Family Offices vs. Private Equity

[07:01] Private equity (PE) dominates mindshare due to its “offensive” sourcing, well-known brand, and systematic playbook; in contrast, family offices are often bandwidth-constrained, less outward-facing, and more selective.
Many family offices have PE roots, and operationally, the approaches are sometimes similar, but capital and mandates typically differ.
Quote:

“The private equity playbook has done an incredible job—it's the model that created this whole sort of opportunity set… PE is always outreaching.” (James Bohannon, [07:36])

3. Family Office History and Trends

[14:22] Family offices stem from old economic dynasties (e.g., Rockefeller, Morgan) and have multiplied rapidly since 2000, paralleling massive wealth generation.
Many began as investment vehicles for family wealth. Over time, they evolved to have dedicated teams managing both the family lifestyle and investments.
A recent trend is the shift from passive investing in funds to direct investments and co-investments, with some single-family offices becoming multifamily or even quasi-institutional.

4. Defining Family Offices

[12:31] “It’s just somebody’s money—a rich person or a rich family—a dedicated pool of capital over $100M.” (James Bohannon)
Differentiators: Ownership of capital, no outside LPs, flexibility, opportunism, and lack of fund constraints.

5. Investment Appetite and Structure

[19:44] With longer time horizons, family offices can invest in illiquid alternatives. Many have shifted towards direct investments so they can exert more control and exercise greater flexibility.
Family offices are increasingly building out direct investment teams, sometimes even co-investing as GPs or creating their own in-house funds.

6. Family Office Tiers and Internal Operations

[29:11] Strata explained: Small family offices ($100–400M) are typically lean, while mega offices (billions AUM) operate much like endowments, writing $100M+ checks and managing complex family needs.
Org Chart: CIO (Chief Investment Officer) at the top (sometimes also the principal), supported by analysts, legal/admin, and various investment specialists.
- Quote:
  
  “Role number one is always the CIO... that's the head honcho.” (James Bohannon, [39:52])
Family offices must manage not only investments but also family lifestyle, estate, taxes, and even “buying homes and tax estate planning.”

7. Deal Processes, Check Sizes, and Constraints

[34:43] Check size usually correlates with AUM and annual deployment targets, but is also dictated by bandwidth and strategic goals. Big offices deploy in large chunks; smaller ones may write sub-$5M checks, especially if they see long-term platform potential.
Quick decision-making is a strength due to less bureaucracy. Conversely, lack of deployment pressure means more selective and sometimes slower-moving.

8. What It's Like to Work for a Family Office

[47:36] Family offices attract talent from private equity and finance due to flexibility, no fundraising, and relaxed culture. Potential downsides: misaligned incentives, dependence on whims or changes in principal’s strategy, or family “drama.”
Quote:

“It sounds great... until the son-in-law comes in with no experience and is suddenly in charge of half the assets…” (James Bohannon, [47:36])

9. Relationship Dynamics and Network Effects

[53:36], [58:43], [64:37] Family offices are intentionally private, “underground,” and reliant on trust-based networks. Breaking in requires authentic relationship-building—one trusted introduction at a time.
There’s collegiality and collaboration between family offices, often clubbing up on deals and sharing diligence to overcome resource constraints.
- Quote:
  
  “You have to build your network in the family office world one at a time... One strong contact leads to another.” (James Bohannon, [58:43])

Tactical Takeaways for Searchers & Entrepreneurs

a. When to Seek Family Office Capital

Searchers at very small deal sizes ($400K SDE) may struggle unless there’s clear runway to grow—preferably visible operational experience and plan for scaling.
The ideal window: after substantial growth (to $3–7M+ EBITDA), when you'd typically approach PE, consider family offices as exit or recap partners.

b. Approaching and Building Relationships

Best entry: warm introductions, alumni networks, previous investors, or personal referrals.
Conferences such as the McGuireWoods Independent Sponsor Conference in Dallas serve as one major formal “on-ramp” between independent sponsor/searchers and family office capital.

c. What Family Offices Value

Good alignment, a proven or compelling operator, a trustworthy introduction, and a pathway to follow-on deployment.
Openness to co-invest, long-term orientation, and flexible deal terms.
They can be “all the capital you ever need,” participating through multiple rounds or providing operational support via their networks.

d. Family Offices vs. Private Equity as Buyers

Family offices can match or exceed PE’s resources and value-add but provide more flexible partnership structures, longer holding periods, and less operational interference.
Quote:

“Think about family office capital as a solution for the next ten, twenty years of your business.” (James Bohannon, [70:58])

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On why to care:

“It’s my belief that family office capital can be the best capital for family-held businesses.” (James Bohannon, [05:58])
On the family office experience:

“Once you’ve met one family office, you’ve met one family office.” (James Bohannon, [27:19])
On breaking in:

“You can’t break into it, you have to build it. Build your network in the family office world one at a time…” (James Bohannon, [58:43])
On partnership fit:

“If you build a great business… you can go to family office capital and recap your business as an alternative to private equity.” (James Bohannon, [70:58])

Important Timestamps

[04:05] – Why entrepreneurs should care about family offices
[07:01] – Why PE dominates the narrative
[14:22] – History and evolution of family offices
[19:44] – Trends in direct investing and multifamily offices
[29:41] – Family office tiers and typical check sizes
[39:52] – Org structure and investment process
[47:36] – What it’s like to work for a family office
[53:36] – The “shadowy”/private nature and desired privacy
[58:43] – How to break in, the trust network, and relationship building
[64:37] – Family offices collaborate more than compete
[70:58] – Family offices as an alternative to PE for mature searcher businesses

Final Takeaway

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Family Offices for Searchers: A Primer

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Summary

Acquiring Minds Podcast – Episode Summary

Overview

Key Discussion Points

1. Why Family Offices Matter to Entrepreneurs

2. Family Offices vs. Private Equity

3. Family Office History and Trends

4. Defining Family Offices

5. Investment Appetite and Structure

6. Family Office Tiers and Internal Operations

7. Deal Processes, Check Sizes, and Constraints

8. What It's Like to Work for a Family Office

9. Relationship Dynamics and Network Effects

Tactical Takeaways for Searchers & Entrepreneurs

a. When to Seek Family Office Capital

b. Approaching and Building Relationships

c. What Family Offices Value

d. Family Offices vs. Private Equity as Buyers

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Important Timestamps

Final Takeaway

Summary

Acquiring Minds Podcast – Episode Summary

Overview

Key Discussion Points

1. Why Family Offices Matter to Entrepreneurs

2. Family Offices vs. Private Equity

3. Family Office History and Trends

4. Defining Family Offices

5. Investment Appetite and Structure

6. Family Office Tiers and Internal Operations

7. Deal Processes, Check Sizes, and Constraints

8. What It's Like to Work for a Family Office

9. Relationship Dynamics and Network Effects

Tactical Takeaways for Searchers & Entrepreneurs

a. When to Seek Family Office Capital

b. Approaching and Building Relationships

c. What Family Offices Value

d. Family Offices vs. Private Equity as Buyers

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Important Timestamps

Final Takeaway