Renee and Susan discuss the benefits of centering love and empathy in the work with so many negative voices and forces in the world.

How do we continue to show up as advocates when the world feels increasingly polarized and heavy? In this episode of Advocacy Bites, hosts Renee Sekel and Susan Book of Save Our Schools NC step away from the logistics of policy and primaries to have a vulnerable conversation about the emotional heart of advocacy.

Renee shares a powerful experience from a recent conference in Washington, D.C., where she encountered the work of Valarie Kaur and the Revolutionary Love Project. Together, Renee and Susan explore how we can move past feelings of hatred and exhaustion by reclaiming love and empathy as tools for social change.

In this episode, we discuss:

The Revolutionary Love Project: A look at the philosophy of Valarie Kaur and how viewing "others" through the lens of wonder can transform our advocacy.
Rebuking Hatred: Renee's personal journey in trying to live in a world where she doesn't want to be driven by anger, even when facing opposing viewpoints.
The "Labor" of Change: Why advocacy is like the labor of birth—it is painful, it is work, but it is necessary to bring something new into the world.
Sustaining the Everyday Advocate: A candid discussion on the "emotional spend" of activism, dealing with burnout, and the importance of finding a community that shares your core values of love and empathy.

Whether you're feeling "emotionally spent" or looking for a reason to keep going, this episode is a reminder that the way we show up for others starts with how we choose to see them.

(1:14) - Revolutionary Love Project

(2:18) - See No Stranger Framework

(4:13) - Rage and Listening Safely

(5:49) - Minnesota Story and Doubts

(8:33) - Susan on Love and Boundaries

(9:53) - Repairers of the Breach March

(12:16) - You Are Doing Enough

(15:04) - Data vs Ideology and Stories

(18:40) - Don't Let Officials Gaslight You

(21:33) - Empathy as the Core

(22:58) - Closing and Listener Check-In

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Learn More: Check out the work of the Revolutionary Love Project and stay connected with Renee and Susan at saveourschoolsnc.org.

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Keywords: Advocacy, Revolutionary Love Project, Valarie Kaur, Empathy in Politics, Save Our Schools NC, Social Justice, Activism Burnout, Personal Growth, Community Organizing.