
On this week’s edition of “Happy Hour,” Emily Jashinsky takes up a series of questions about issues in the news including the problems with arguments before the Supreme Court on transgender athletes in sport, media coverage of the Minneapolis shooting, the situation in Iran and Venezuela, and the Trump administration's role. Emily also addresses several questions about the split on the right, discusses when emotionalism and tribalism get the best of people, the aftermath and trauma of Charlie Kirk's assassination, she explains why it's easier to have a strong coalition when you're in the opposition, and she discusses how she stays sane dealing with the news cycle while also being on social media, plus an encouraging new study on Gen Z ditching smart phones. Emily also tackles great questions from listeners on the importance of local politics and school choice, if Hip Hop is actually conservative, and happiness in America versus other countries. She rounds out the show with some th...
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Also, because I love just doing audio, there's something about just you and a microphone in a room that I particularly love. So Emily Care Media is where you can send in your emails. Also on the After Party Emily Instagram feed. As a reminder, I am reading all your emails live. I'm reading them live. What I do in my inbox is just separate them as they come in. It looks like, okay, that's a happy hour one. I flag it and I read them. I just think it's much more entertaining that way. So frankly I can't like sort them out ahead of time. It would just make it more boring. You can also submit those questions on the After Party Emily Instagram page. Also subscribe on the YouTube by the way, if you haven't done that yet, that is one of those things that helps us a lot. Helps us a lot. All right, let's get to the emails today. Here comes one. This is from Ken who says, emily, I enjoyed your segment with Black Pill Blake. Blake Neff, producer over the Charlie Kirk shows. On the show Monday he says, Ken says lots of good sense expressed with good humor. Listening later to Supreme Court cases, coverage by various outlets, I was struck by how disingenuous the recurring idea that males claiming to be females are being excluded from sportses. They are not at all excluded. They're fully eligible to participate and enjoy all the benefits of sports on the basis of their sex. Amen Ken. Great point. They may choose to not participate in the correct sex based category due to their discomfort, but that is in no way exclusion from sports. If some argue that males claiming to be females are not comfortable participating in male sports, that is too bad. But why would such feelings mean those boys should be allowed to join the girls competition? Ken goes on to say, why in the world would their feelings of discomfort override their often expressed feelings of discomfort of females as well as overriding the clear competitive fair unfairness, the stolen spots and girls teams, the lost awards and scholarships and the real safety concerns. Really, really good point, Ken. So basically the argument here is if you are a boy, you are not being excluded from sports. You can play on the boys soccer team. You are arguing. And this is actually a point that Jed Rubenfeld, who's a Yale professor, a Yale law professor, made in the Free Press when he was explaining the problems with the left's argument in the Supreme Court case on transports. That was the oral arguments were of course, on Wednesday and there was a lot of coverage of it. And Judd Rubenfeld, again Yale law professor, he's writing in the Free Press, he was saying that if the states do not accept the premise that a boy can become a girl because the boy identifies as a girl, then the entire argument about sex based discrimination falls apart completely because they aren't buying that a boy can become a girl. Therefore it is not sex discrimination. And again, that's why the quote unquote mainstream media, the mass media, corporate media, legacy media coverage of this issue is I think, really, I mean, first of all, it turns people off, makes people not trust the outlets. But it's also just so detached from the median American's analysis of what's happening because these outlets do buy into, they do truly buy into the idea that it's a boy should be put in the girls category because the boy identifies as a girl. And that is diminishing a bit somewhat. I think there are people with more open minds. I mean, you've seen some really interesting coverage in the New York Times over the last year. Were so I think the Cass review over in the uk where obviously Hillary cla Cass reviewed the literature and all of the studies about the main points that the trans community continue claimed to be capitalist science and then laundered into the mass media for years because, you know, people who are, who are sympathetic to the cultural left and to the progressive cultural left just bought these arguments hook, line and sinker. Change the style guide. And the Associated Press, which is in charge of the way that basically every media outlet covers this, they changed the style guide to Say, you have to refer. You have to use preferred pronouns. You have to use the plural they. You have to use woman when someone identifies as a woman. And I'm just. I've stopped saying biological woman. I mean, I still slip into it sometimes accidentally, but I just say woman now, if someone is a woman, because even saying biological implies that there's some other type of woman. And I use it all the time in my coverage, just because it distinguishes between the language being used elsewhere. And so it can just be more clear as a writer. But at this point, I don't think it's helpful to even use that marker. So this is a great point, Ken, that it is not. And this is a legal argument as well as Rubenfeld wrote in the Free Press, but it is not. You heard this a lot with marriage as well, that, you know, man, it's not sex discrimination. This was the argument from Christians. They were saying, it's. There's no discrimination on the basis of sex. Certainly happening here. A man is still free to get married. It's the difference between, you know, saying a man is free to get married to another man and saying this. This is. It's. It's slightly different, but it was actually a similar argument. Um, but in this case, again, you have to. In order to say that this is sex discrimination, you have to actually buy that sex is interchangeable. And that just isn't true. It's just. It. It isn't true. I don't know. I mean, I have a lot of. A lot of theories on. On why it was laundered into the discourse, but, you know, that's. We can get into that later. Here's a email from Shea, who says, grateful to you and Glenn Greenwald for showing me that I'm not, in fact, getting dumber. A monumental psyop is taking place, and the normies are trying to articulate their stance while the ground shifts beneath them. Again, I did not vote for regime change, for policing Venezuela or Greenland, and most definitely not Iran. We don't even do America. Well, the hubris to think we can do better at Venezuela than Venezuela can. I want off this crazy train. Che goes on to ask, how do you stay sane, Emily? I have to check out delete apps, podcast news sites. I feel that I must detach from the world in order to focus on my sphere, my own sphere of influence. My kids, my husband, my church, those I mentor. Is it only me? It feels more difficult every passing year to be in the world but not of the world. God help us keep our eyes Lifted to the only one who saves. That's a great message, Shay. Thanks for the email. How do I stay sane? I can't. I like, I actually want to delete apps, as Shay says, and podcasts and news sites. Obviously I can't for work purposes, but I do think it probably helps the average person. I just, you know, this is a personal. What's the right way to put it, bugaboo that I have with Elon Musk and certainly Mark Zuckerberg trying to say that he's on the Trump train or whatever else. I don't think it's appropriate for the right to embrace some of these guys because their products are responsible for a huge, like mass poisoning of our brains. And we don't have all the research yet. It's starting to stack up. But short form video and memory, there are already links and scientific papers about what short form videos are doing to our memory. And it's not good. It's not good. The mental health research is not great. But even just cognition and memory brain functions, we have exported so much of our social lives onto these platforms and the way the algorithms are changing our interactions with each other that are changing our politics. I mean, Musk's X has been poisonous to our discourse, period. Yes, it has a better approach to free speech here in the States and I'm grateful for that and I think it has made a difference, but I can't at the same time say that it's okay that X is great and wonderful because Elon Musk did that when he's claiming to be a conservative who wants to rescue Western civilization while profiting off of and encouraging an algorithm that continues to reward extremity. So I do think deleting apps is a really great idea. I wish that I could do it. I mean, I probably could, but I just wouldn't. I wouldn't be as good at my job. I don't think I would be able to do this well because it just. I unfortunately have to be really zeroed in on, you know, what people are saying and all of that. A lot of what I do is cover the media. So best place to do it is on X. No question about it. I don't have TikTok, though. Maybe that's the only reason that I have any sanity remaining is I never ever downloaded TikTok. But now Instagram Reels is just TikTok. So I don't know, maybe that's not right either. It's tough. It's tough. And I agree, Shay, that it does feel more difficult every passing year. Here's a hopeful note though, just to end my reply here on I saw a study the other day. It was actually a book company that had commissioned the study and it found that members of Gen Z were intentionally carving out time in their day to be off of their phones. Isn't that interesting? People who grew up with smartphones are intentionally creating space in their lives where there are no phones and it's not necessarily surprising. I think Covid was a tipping point for a lot of people in that generation who just became hyper aware of the problems with social media enabled smartphones and having wi fi like the air. But that's hopeful because it shows that maybe there's a the our human nature is starting to reject the anti human influences of the social media enabled smartphones. And I do find that hopeful because it's a kind of gasp of humanity in a transhumanist age, anti humanist age as it's, you know, I'm not even just talking about smartphones and social media. I think it'll that could be more broad, right? Like that could be people starting to get, get outside, work out, eat real food. We're I think finding ways to push back against this big business of anti humanism, transhumanism and and all of that. So here's a message from thanks for that email, Shay. Here's a message from James who says Now Dave Rubin has gone after Megan. Why does the entire Israel first right wing commentators want to drive every Republican under 60 away from supporting Israel? Mark Levin has always been an angry little troll, but to see Dave Rubin turn on her. Revolting. Yeah, they go on to say I hope she flames all of them. They're shattering the Republican Party calling her Grandma Groper or whatever else. Dave Rubin I think got mad because actually I was on this Megan Kelly show when Megan talked about something Reuben had posted. I think it was in response to JD Vance that kind of implied Vance was complicit in some of this like anti Israel stuff. It was, I don't know. But that's where again being on social media, that's where I think I first noticed there was a breach or whatever. And it's since I've seen Dave who I think unfollowed me on X, I think he's been going after Megan more and more. I don't know. It is all unfortunate because it's easier to be in the Biden era. It's going to be of course easier as we're seeing right now for the left, it's politically Easier to have a strong coalition when you are in the opposition, right? Because there's nobody making the policy decisions. You're strictly opposing those policy decisions that are being made. And when people are vying for, you know, in. What's the right word? Like when people are vying for positioning or influence or whatever it is with, you know, some of the folks who feel like the support for Israel is slipping away. One of my big things is just. And I know a lot of people have said this, so it's hardly like unique to me, but I deal with a lot of students, I talk to a lot of students. And just like it's the. It's the relentless gatekeeping and tone policing that even when it is rational, you know, even when it is important the way that it's done, you know, because I. I'm not one of those people who thinks it's crazy that, you know, a movement would have to gatekeep itself. I don't think that's crazy at all. Or, you know, there should be some policing of. Of language. But young people just came off of 10 years of relentless policing of language and gatekeeping from the left, and their hackles are up, right? Like, their radar is up. It's really, really strong right now. So I think there's been some very counterproductive efforts, like, even by their own goals, counterproductive efforts. And that makes me sad because they've basically pushed everybody who could make that point out of their kind of circle of serious people that they listen to. And that's what happens when I think, honestly, emotion and tribalism gets the better of folks. And again, I actually understand why that happens to people. It just all sucks. And people would disagree with what I'm saying right now. But I get it. I mean, I'm just saying spent a lot of time with young people, I spent a lot of time with the left. And I think I have an audience that is persuadable people, people who are listening to different arguments and all of that. So I hear from a lot of you guys as well. And just to me, my sense of all of this, that it has sadly been counterproductive from people who are understandably trying to make sure America remains relatively supportive of the Jewish state. So I get it, I get it. Here's another message actually on that. Someone says, okay, this is okay. This one says, it's not for happy hour, not for happy hour, but it is a similar thing for this. Talking about Tucker and Candace and all that. I have gotten a lot of emails about this. Oh, I just clicked on another one. This one's from Dan, who says I'm a relatively new listener to the show, although I've known of you for a while. Due to breaking points in YouTube, I found myself extremely blackpilled by the conservative libertarian podcast cast sphere ever since Charlie Kirk's assassination. And so, as someone who considers themselves quote, woke right on the issue of Israel, it's been disturbing to me to see how many people I used to greatly respect push the increasingly absurd conspiracies about Charlie's death. It's pretty obvious to me that Candace Owens has a bona pick with Ben Shapiro and the Zionist right and is using Charlie's death to push her agenda. While I'm not surprised by her behavior, I'm surprised by how many people like Tucker, Dave Smith and Clinton Russell have either bought into her story completely or at least seem to tacitly support her because it aligns with their own agenda. I am greatly disappointed because I thought these were people who were committed to the truth above all else. But the last few months have proven otherwise. I find myself listening to Nick Fuentes more and more, even though I often disagree with him simply because he seems to be the only one lately who is willing to call out both the Zionist right and the Candace cult. I'm curious for your thoughts. Even though I didn't listen to him much prior to his death, I miss Charlie. I didn't realize until now how much of a glue he was for the right wing Dan. That last point is critical. I think that has been that has become very clear in the last couple of months, sadly, is that there was that Charlie Kirk really, because he had personal relationships with Candace while also having personal relationships with Ben Shapiro, that there was something he did this ideologically too, through his punditry and substantively through his activist work at Turning Point usa. But I think part of it was also just personally he was able to mediate these disputes behind the scenes, sometimes on air and all of that. So I do think that's an important point. And another important point about Nick Fuentes, this is one that I've been making for a while, is people underestimate the degree to which folks who have zero interest in bigotry, 0, 0 interest in bigotry find themselves listening to Fuentes because he's doing criticism of the right. And he's doing criticism of the right as somebody who has no allegiance particularly to any person or whatever. Like basically everyone has rejected him and again for good reasons, but he does a fairly honest assessment of the Right. In ways that other people don't. And I'm just, when I say honest, I mean he is, you know, not hampered by who he's going to run into at this event or that event because he's not going to the events. So he doesn't have any like, so honest in the, in the sense that he's just saying whatever the hell he wants to say. And there's an appetite for that. From my perspective, there's a real appetite for that. He criticizes Trump a lot. He obviously criticizes J.D. vance and in some ways I find awful. But the point is, even as he makes some non substantive criticisms, he will then tack on a substantive criticism of, for example, the tech right in his criticism of J.D. vance. And you don't see a lot of that in right wing punditry spaces or in right wing media. And it's something that people actually care about. And so if folks want to stop people from turning to Fuentes, one of the ways they could do that is having more critical coverage of the Trump administration and of other people on the right when they do something that they shouldn't have done. And again, I'm not saying Fuentes is coming from a good place on all of that, but I'm saying it's why people turn to him. And I think this listener question gets to that for sure. On the Candace point, I talked about this in the last few episodes of Happy Hour and basically you could go back and listen to the last two for more of what I said. But yeah, I mean, I've listened to yesterday, I listened to one of the full episodes of Candace recently and just in the last couple of days. And my position on it is that she is not doing well. Do I think some of it is maybe exploitive? Like maybe using this for an anti Zionist agenda? It's possible, but I really do think she is not well, not well. That's just my personal assessment of it. I do not know Candace. I don't know her personally. I don't think I've ever talked to her. So this is totally from a distance. But I don't know how much of it is honestly like intentionally exploitive and how much of it is. And I know some of you disagree with me on this. I always get emails when I talk about this. But I think, you know, it was, it was certainly right for Erica Kirk and Megan, as we now know, to try and diffuse the situation behind the scenes. That's my understanding of it. It's only I haven't talked to anybody about that just from hearing publicly what was happening behind the scenes. Now, I think that was the right approach, and a lot of people. Have misunderstood that. And I just really think everyone will be better served if there's a mentally healthier person in the chair over at Candace, and I hope it's her. I also think people underestimate the extent to which seeing someone people knew really well. I don't know how good of friends Candace and Charlie were at the end. There's disputed reports on that, but I don't. I honestly have no idea. But even you know, someone that you knew so well, you traveled with, that you've been very good friends with. I think people have underestimated the trauma that has visited so many people on the right. I think it's very true about Candace Owens, even some people, by the way, just on the left, like you saw some of those podcasters, reaction to it as it was happening. Hasan Piker, Dean Withers. But especially people on the right who were friends, close friends with Charlie Kirk. Everything, I mean, I think to some extent, everything people have said for the last few months who were close friends with him should be viewed through the lens of they just watched a friend of theirs get taken out in a cloud of blood while he was speaking to college students. And that just. I feel like it's faded from everybody's mind how traumatic and awful it is to see that. So have some people handled it better than others? Absolutely. But, yeah, you can go back and listen. I talk a bit about it. I do listen to full episodes of Candace because they are entertaining. Sad, but entertaining. So I think that's also an explanation for why her podcast is doing well. I mean, the threads that she's trying to tie together. And as a presenter, she's a compelling personality, certainly. So I don't know that everybody who's watching or listening is buying the story. I frankly still think we're. I hope this FBI gets us a lot more information. I'm willing to wait if they say they need more time to tie up the case and to have a legal Sam Dunk and make sure it's all done in order. And that's fine. But yeah, I think there are still questions about what was happening behind the scenes and about the official story. But yeah, people could go back and listen to the Candace stuff I've done. That's my theory, having listened to recent full episodes, not just clips about what I think. All right, here we go. Jesse says, will, I wish the ICE officer involved in the Renee Goode shooting had the Presence of mind to make a different decision. I can understand how he was legally permitted to defend himself from a perceived threat. With that said, do you feel the media has created a false sense of privilege for individuals who insert themselves into law enforcement questions? I firmly believe in the idea of civil disobedience, but it needs to come with training and discipline. It's an interesting question about the media because I was watching the coverage of it as it blew up that day. And they always have a lot of law enforcement like ex law enforcement on media like they really are right away when the breaking news happens on FOX and cnn. And I was not watching msnbc. I'm sure they probably did have some on msnbc. They always have FB on msnbc. But. That was happening. There were people right away who were even talking to law enforcement sources. And what was it, what's his name? Tom Winner at NBC. I saw him right away say lawful but awful. Looks like it might be a lawful but awful situation. My big frustration, I mean, I think that's a legitimate point, that people underestimate the extent to which a law enforcement officer has to make a split second decision. And then we nationalize a split second decision into a big story, weeks long news cycle when the reality is that in this case, this is a trained ICE officer. It wasn't a new kind of ICE officer who had just been trained. It was new on the job. This guy had been trained. He's been doing what he's been doing for a long time. We know that he is now, according to cbs, at least as of Thursday afternoon when I'm recording this, that he had internal bleeding, which would, you know, say that, that would pretty much be definitive proof, assuming it's true, that he was hit by the car. So yeah, there's, there's something about it where it's like you don't understand. I mean, if that was your father, your brother, your son, and you put yourself in the shoes of a loved one of the law enforcement officer in a situation like that. It was the same thing with Michael Brown and George Floyd and the Derek Chauvin trial turned into what it turned into because there was this drumbeat of right versus wrong, right versus wrong, right versus wrong. And I agree with you, Jesse. I wish, like Jesse says, quote, I wish the ICE officer involved in the shooting had the presence of mind to make a different decision. I totally agree with that. But then you also have to consider, and that's why this is so much more complicated than the narrative that's emerged. You also have to consider. He doesn't have all of the time in the world that we have to luxuriate in pontificating about what could have been done, what could have been done, what could have been done. And yes, he gets paid to make the right decision in the moment. That's not always going to happen. And it doesn't mean that the tragedy has national implications for the bigger ICE question. And I think that's where some of the coverage goes wrong. I also think some of the coverage goes wrong by underplaying the threat that exists right now because of the Biden administration. This is not cope at all. I'm talking about a current threat. I'm not pointing to deflect to the Biden administration talking about the fact that average American citizens now live in neighborhoods with non citizen criminals. And depending on what city you live in, those are non citizen criminals basically being shielded by sanctuary laws. And so that is a significant problem that exists. And Democrats say they, you know, you got to do better than what ICE is doing. No, these protests would be happening if ICE was perfect. And I wish ICE was perfect. And I think there are things that could be doing that could be doing better. But it would be happening anyway. We know it'd be happening anyway. And one of my big frustrations with the media since this story bursts into the national scene is that big picture, Bill Meluchin, for example, posted on X this long list of criminals that had been convicted criminals, violent convicted criminals in Minneapolis or in Minnesota that were being targeted by dhs. And the media needs to cover that. It needs to cover that. It needs to cover the fact that ICE has a legitimate duty to deport convicted criminals. And we can talk about other cases as well. We can talk about non criminal, non citizens that also should be in positions where they're confronted with what happens next. Nobody in this country wants a path to citizenship except maybe the far left. That's it. But there are literally there's a safety question here. The safety question is not just about ice. That's the point I'm making. The safety question is not just about ice. It's about the threat that ICE exists to confront as well. And there's so little of that in the media. Here's a question from Justin. In your last episode of Happy Hour you said there's an inequality between which, between white and black Americans in the pre civil rights era. You mentioned generational wealth and redlining. What is your prescription for this? A big thing I feel we don't talk about enough is the level of debt and spending from the government. This applies to federal, state and local. Some generations going to have to man up and deal with austerity measures or higher taxes. Goes on to say what is a realistic way to address this. We can't even get agreement to try to cut waste, fraud or funding illegals. Finally, in my hometown, Iowa, we have a public school board meeting Monday. Board announced likely cuts to music in business departments. A lot of people are blaming ESA Republican leaders. Goes on to say it also goes back to what I said previously. Justin writes about how people complain about cuts and seem to prefer overspending. I'm considering speaking at the board meeting. Do you have any suggestions on how to present what I expressed? What is your opinion on it? This is a. These are really, really good thoughts. Yeah. Justin says at one point if the public school was doing well, less students would be open enrolling. Also my town would just spend a stupid amount of money on building a quote, alternative high school and elementary school. So it tracks that if we overspent on building, they would need to make cuts. It's so sad how in localities some of these things can't even be figured out. Now that's my politics can be defined to some level by, you know, the Jeffersonian instinct for self government in small communities. Like I really, really, really believe in that. And part of me now feels like the national discourse has just made it so much harder to have these conversations even at a local level. I really believe the death of local news has left so many local decisions in a total shadow where there's little oversight or less oversight than there should be and less kind of local bickering in a good way where you hash some of these things out. And I think that's a problem. I'm just, I do not. I really don't know. I really, really don't know. This is extremely tough and I hate seeing, I hate seeing what happens to public schools. This is something I think about a lot because school choice is a reflexive position for many of us on the right. It does liberate kids instantaneously from awful circumstances in failing public schools, and it does in theory force those public schools to become better by competing with the private schools. If kids can take their public money and use it to cover private tuition and families can do that, then it should in theory force the public schools to be better. But it's. I'm not going to lie and say I've never been conflicted about it because. And I think people have been involved in school choice will tell you this too. But it just is so sad to give up on public schools. And it's not giving up on public schools to say that they should have some competition. But in a sense, you know, it does bleed public schools of money. And so I think school choice in general, and I know this isn't a direct answer to your question, Justin, but I think school choice in general needs to be equally focused on paying teachers more money and getting better talent into those public schools while it's creating competition. I think those two things should be seen as necessary and symbiotic and harmonious, and one shouldn't fall by the wayside. That's my best kind of big picture answer to this. But it's crazy. It happens on the higher education college level as well. Just spend money on the dumbest things and then basic stuff gets cut and everyone suffers because the basic functions don't function or don't even exist anymore. Like liberal arts schools should in theory, actually liberal arts at the high school level too. Music, for example, should in theory be part of these curriculums. But because, you know, there's the stupid spending on pools and whatever else you end up, or administrators, all that dumb stuff, you end up saying, well, if we're going to cut something, we got to cut music because we need more money for math. Okay, well, you just created problems. Yeah. And the question, Justin's question about plans to address the debt or balance the budget that isn't tax the rich. What is a realistic way to address this even if we can't get agreement to try to cut waste, fraud or funding of illegals. Huge black pill over the last year with Doge, because, and I think a lot of people experienced it once again, just the resistance to making smart cuts at usaid, which by the way, the left would have supported for a long time. But then you had the left like rallying around usaid. What world is this? Obviously there's a difference between liberals and the left, but there are some left people on the left who were like, what? Like leftists who were supportive of usaid, like, oh, you can't cut USAID like that. Okay, what can we do? What can we do? Yeah, the debt, deficit, interest on the debt right now, it just disgusting. The only thing that will fix it is an emergency. And that's the black pill. It's never going to get fixed without that. And what worries me about the right leaving this issue behind, there's been a lot of spending in both Trump administrations, unfortunately, what worries me about that is you leave it to the left and Left gets elected and does have a taxation level that genuinely hurts innovation and is unjust rather than The Trump administration 1 and 2 put so much political capital behind the tax cut bills. Paul Ryan was originally talking about postcard level taxation when they were working on that tax bill in 2017. Well, it didn't happen. We didn't simplify the tax code, certainly not to that level. In some ways you could argue the tax code got more complicated. We don't have a. I mean everyone's political capital should be behind like a flat tax on the right if we're ever going to deal with this, because that closes loopholes. You force corporations and wealthy individuals to come from offshore accounts and not to take advantage of these ridiculous accounting schemes. You force everybody to pay the taxes that they owe. And yes, we are going to need some form of austerity. Unfortunately, at some point, I don't know what it's going to be. There is no such thing as modern monetary theory. There's no such thing as the facts of the theory behind it. The theory is bunk, but that's what a lot of people on the left believe in. Look it up. If you haven't heard of mmt, that's one of the big problems right now. That's why there aren't a lot of people on the left who really care about debt and deficit is many of the thought leaders have come to this idea that you can just spend and kind of spend your way out of it and print money and all of that. It gets complicated and nuanced, but that's my short version of it. So, yeah, I worry that the lack of vigor behind the rights concern over debt and deficits and spending is going to leave it to a place where you just have a even more unjust taxation system. And it does turn us into Western Europe, essentially. Good question. It's a good question. Here's one. Jesse says, what do you think Trump's position. What do you think this will do? Talking about a potential. Oh, let me just read the whole email here. It says Trump decided against striking Iran, at least for now. Again, I'm recording this Thursday afternoon an action which I 100% understand from a strategic perspective. However, his posturing in the days leading to that decision and is now blinking in the game of chicken made him look incredibly weak internationally, overturning the sudden strength he had regarding Maduro and likely resulted in the deaths of thousands more Iranians who believed help is on the way. As he said himself, I genuinely feel bad for them. And now they'll Mostly die, be imprisoned or worse. What do you think this will do to Trump's position on the global stage and in his own party? I don't know. Again, this is a fluid situation. We're talking Thursday afternoon. I do not know what precise number to believe about protester killings in Iran. I do not know what to believe about the Trump administration's goals in the region, the movements, the evacuation of the Qatari base. Again, I'm talking on Thursday afternoon. So this situation may change. I genuinely think it's too early to say. I actually even think it's too early to say since the June strike, to be honest, and again, not cope. But just because the situation in Iran is like under the Trump administration is fluid and that strike will always have an effect on what happens from the regime, what happens from the people. And so I think the wisdom of it is still on the table. Even though in the short term he was totally vindicated and I was totally proven wrong in the short term? Well, I guess not not proven wrong. I mean, my point was that the risk calculus was too high. I still think the risk calculus was too high. But his near term goals, the risk calculus, he kind of defeated the odds, or what I would say the odds were, and it paid off. But in the long term, I don't know how that's going to play out. I just think it's really early. Israel can make a decision that forces us to make a decision which basically happened last time around. So I think in when we have more information and maybe it'll be like six months from now, this question will be easier to answer. But we also don't know what was happening on the ground in terms of, and is happening on the ground in terms of, like Marco Rubio reportedly was pushing, quote, unquote, non kinetic options. So we don't know who's been armed by who. We don't know what's being done on the ground. Sometimes you don't learn that stuff for years, unfortunately. But I think we'll, we'll know a lot more soon. All right, what else do we have here? This is a comment from Wes, who says he's hoping once we kick out the Cubans and the Iranians from Venezuela, he'll be able to visit and says if we don't blow it, it could. All of this makes for great headlines. But I think if there's a bigger story around the strategy to develop a Pax Americana for Latin America that would also include economic miracles similar to what we saw with the Asian tigers in the 80s and 90s. If we don't blow it, it could significantly reshape how we see Latin America. And there's an interesting Christian evangelical component to it. Yeah, that's a pretty interesting point. There's a, you know, there's been a lot of missionary work, obviously in South America, Latin America, that would be enabled more easily in Venezuela, certainly. But there's also an argument that a prosperous South America and Latin America will be better for the United States. The problem here, though, is that they want their sovereignty respected. And it does influence Latin America, South American politics to have the sovereignty of Venezuela, potentially. Colombia looks like Gustavo Petro is going to come to the US soon. That sovereignty be, as people feel it, encroached by the United States that does influence their politics. And they do have, not in Venezuela, of course, but other countries, democratic systems. And the pink tide recurred recently, actually, in some ways because people of Latin America, there are a lot of nationalist leftists like AMLO types from AMLO in Mexico. Sheinbaum In Mexico, those leaders have a big constituency. And I just have little confidence in, even as great and powerful as the United States is in our ability to control outcomes in those countries in the long term. And so I don't think we should violate the sovereignty of those countries, even if it's with like CIA activity to try because it's often counterproductive. Again, I keep saying this. There's a Sandinista, currently president of Nicaragua. So in the long term, you may have some success in the short term, but in the long term, are you really increasing the odds of prosperity and cooperation with the United States when other countries feel bullied and messed around? And can you even control the outcomes when they have democratic regimes and not regimes, democratic governments in places like Chile or, you know, different like Mexico and all of that. So I get it. I think there is a. An idealistic outlook about what could become of the hemisphere. And I think we do have a lot of people who would like to be partners and would like to have better relationships with the United States and all of that. And I hope it plays out that way. I'm just. I lack some optimism on it, to be honest. Erica says. Emily I'm in Palm beach right now, driving through. We are from Kentucky. We're passing through Palm Beach. It's not creepy. I think it's so awesome. I wish I had time to take a pic with Mar a Lago in the background while I sport my 47 turning point hat. Best purchase of 2025. I already told myself to not over fangirl. No hiding the bushes near Mar a Lago for a peek. Lo, I love you bunches would trust you with my life. But your assessment of Palm beach is so off. Lol. Okay, I want to say don't think these two position are mutually exclusive. I do think Palm beach is beautiful. Do not get me wrong. I think Palm beach is beautiful. I also find it creepy. These two things are true. The beaches in Palm beach are fantastic. And it is, it is just gorgeous. I just mean you walk into the breakers or you're on Worth Avenue and the level of, of wealth and material consumption, the level of. It's just such a concentration of wealth and power and you see it manifest literally in people's like faces and clothes and cars and you know, it's. I don't, I don't enjoy that. I don't enjoy that. And I feel like Palm beach is one big version of that. It's like everywhere you go now it's nice because it's like pristine. You know, the nice areas of Palm beach are just utterly pristine. It feels like you're almost on a movie set. And it is gorgeous. It is beautiful. There's a lot of really good restaurants in Palm beach, as you can imagine. So I don't think these things are mutually exclusive. I do cling to that. I think that's. I, that is my point. I. That is my story and I'm sticking to it. Sue says. I'm so glad I discovered your podcast. I appreciate your right of center political point and viewpoint and political insights. Listening to your discussion about the shooting in Minneapolis, I found it interesting that you seemed willing to believe a witness account without any vetting of the witness. I remind you that an eyewitness to the Michael Brown shooting was quoted without betting and his hands up, don't shoot account turned out to be bull. Sue, thank you for the email. I think that's absolutely right. I can't vet a witness that Minneapolis Public Radio, which I think is what Sue's referencing. You know, I don't, I don't actually even know who that person is. I think it was a first name only or anonymous in that NPR account. But, but my memory, and I genuinely apologize if I didn't do this. And one of the times I mentioned it, I know for sure that multiple times I mentioned it, I said I still have questions because there is one witness saying this. And so I want to know in a full investigation. I'm pretty sure this is how I said it every time. But again, I apologize. If it's not, I want to know with the full scope of the investigation and all the information that comes, if it was true that Renee Goode was getting multiple pull instructions. And so far from the video, I haven't seen that. I haven't seen anybody saying in that moment both get out of here and get out of the vehicle. But if there's an eyewitness saying that, I would hope that is thoroughly investigated. And it does give me some pause because that changes the calculus for me. Like you still shouldn't turn towards a law enforcement officer and ever accelerate, even if it's 5 miles per hour. But it changes it. If Renee Goode wasn't listening to one person, only heard the other instruction, couldn't see anything, was happening quickly and all of that. So I was just saying I'm open minded to all of that happening. Abe says I had to laugh out loud when you mentioned the White Stag as one of your favorite restaurants in Wisconsin. I grew up in St. Germain. Awesome. And we never actually ate there, but drove by it many times. Amazing. Classic Northwoods supper Club. A lot of those hidden gems where you'd never expect to find them. I've also never been to Paul Bunyan, even though we spent tons of time in Aqua. I wanted to go to the White Stag over Christmas. Didn't get time to get up there. But man, that's a great spot. I love those supper clubs. Love a good old fashioned at a supper club. One of the most fun things in Wisconsin. Buck says there have been a handful of videos widely available online related to the shooting for Nate Good in Minneapolis. The latest one I've seen was recorded by the ICE agent. And another individual is identified as Good's wife. Is seen interacting with the agent holding her phone in a matter which leads me to believe she is recording a video of the interaction. Whereas that video has been released. Keira Spines wants to see it or know why it has not gone public. Great point, Buck. Julie Kelly was reporting that they weren't actually married. So I think the other one, it's Renee and Becca. I think Becca is the partner. I would love to know where that video is. We got the officers video from Alpha News. So obviously that leaked somehow to Alpha News, which is a publication, I think it's probably fair to say, right of center publication in Minneapolis. And it's. I would love to see that video too. I'm sure it exists and I would imagine if it's helpful to the goods case, it will come out sooner rather than later. But I would imagine investigators are probably already do have it. So I think that's a great question. I'd love to see that video too. And I haven't heard many people talk about it. Dylan says your recent segments on Kelsey Ballerini and Nicki Minaj made me curious about your thoughts on a long time theory of mine that hip hop is actually one of the most conservative lowercase C musical genres in American popular culture. Back when the National Review style conservatives reigned supreme, I think there was a lot of not entirely unjustified pushback against hip hop due to the glorification of hedonism. Explicit, explicit implicit endorsement of crime as well as racial element. However, the core of the music has always been pro capitalism and making money. Pro gun and self defense, deeply, suspiciously establishment religion friendly or at worst neutral and maybe most importantly but also least notedly deeply communitarian and based on place. This is a super interesting email. It goes on and on. Really. Dylan, I think you should write about this. I'll respond to you certainly, but that is a very very interesting point. I'm gonna have to think about it more. The National Review style conservatives, of course you had a reflexive reaction to hip hop and not unreasonably so. It's why people had. I think about this a lot actually. This like reflexive reaction to Elvis shaking his hips, breaking norms at the time and. And hip hop is just there is the norm now. I mean the way that it's all talked about. One of the obvious ways to push back on this. Dylan, you've probably thought about it and I'm just doing this in the moment as I'm reading the email. But the pro capitalism and making money element of it tends to be very materialistic as it's emphasized in hip hop. It tends to be pro music and making money for the sheer sex appeal of are pro capitalism and making money for the sheer like sex appeal and power that comes with money and the material benefits that come with money. So that's one thing I push back on that there's a lowercase c conservatism, but they are certainly capitalists. I think that's a great point. Pro gun in self defense. My immediate pushback would be the important thing that the second Amendment lowercase C conservatives care about is legal and orderly gun ownership. But the libertarians would probably agree with you. Dylan. I have to think more about this. Deeply suspicious of the establishment. Great point. Conservatives have not always been as suspicious of the establishment as they should have been. Religion friendly or at worst neutral. A lot of pro God content in hip hop music. Sometimes it's actually defensible and like Christian. Sometimes it's mixed in a really, I think, unfortunate way. But communitarian as well. That is an important point. Communitarian and based on place. That if I were like an editor right now, which is what I miss doing a lot at the Federalist, but if I were an editor, I would say that would be the core of the argument. Deeply communitarian and based on place. I'm going to think more about this, Dylan, and I'll get back to you. I think that's a super interesting question. All right, this one is from Zach who says love your show, appreciate your brand of comedy and voice of reason. Have you heard of the Pentagon Pizza Index? It's a theory that suggests when pizza orders increase to the Pentagon region, major world conflict is impending. Pizza orders are currently spiking. This was back on January 11th. It feels like everything with Trump is doing more and more conflict that's going to ensue. This seems to me like a major departure from the American first agenda I voted for. Do you think America is headed for more world conflict? The Pentagon Pizza Index is interesting. It always pops on X around times of conflict and understandably so. It's kind of a funny thing to see. It does seem to be anecdotally one method of determining what the heck is going on at the Pentagon if there's about to be some kinetic action. There have been some interesting connections between the pizza index and that. I really doubt that they're ordering pizza at the Pentagon anymore though, to be honest. Like what the index does is looks at like the dominoes and Papa John's and pizza bullies or whatever next to the Pentagon and tracks their level of busyness. It's very clever. But I feel like they're also right now since Uber eats it just makes it so much easier. Like Uber eats doordash, whatever. It just makes it so much easier to get any kind of like you just don't have to go over to the fridge and be like, oh, this is the, the local pizza boli's number, the local domino's number. So I feel like maybe it's losing its relevance to be honest. So just a. Just a thought, Ryan says. I'm not sure if this question has been asked before. What was your main inspiration for wanting to be a journalist? When did you have that inspiration? I always just like writing. I've always been fascinated with media. I talked about this with Megan on her tour stop in San Antonio. But I love writing. And I'm fascinated with television. Television. Fascinating. With media and television, I've always found it to be like, very romantic. And, you know, growing up in Wisconsin, I didn't really know anybody was on tv. And to me it just sort of seemed like this kind of fantasy land. And I really, really have been pulled towards that, so. And I really like writing. So for me, that was a big, big, big part of it. Just love those types of. Yeah, I love that type of stuff. You know, it's just, just fun. And I forget who was saying this recently, but you get to, it's. It's barely a job. You work really hard in journalism, but you get to think about and do all kinds of really cool stuff. So it's every day as your job. So let's get to a couple of these Instagram questions here. Ryan says, do you think Israel wants Iran to have a truly democratically elected government? Wouldn't they be concerned that the Iranian people will elect anti Israel leadership? That's a good point. I don't know. I just like, I don't know what Israel knows about what's possible in Iran. I don't think anybody truly knows what's possible in Iran, and I don't think anybody knows truly what the mix of different opinions inside Iran actually is. Israel seems to have pretty good intelligence in Iran. I don't even know that our intelligence is as good in Iran. And I don't know what the sharing of the intelligence is there. But we don't really have a deep familiarity with the sentiments of the Iranian people. And I don't think we know what Israel knows about what the sentiments are of the Iranian people, what they think about politics, what type of government they want. Is there a majority position or even a plurality position? What does that mean? That's one of the reasons that this makes me very, very nervous, is that you just don't know what comes next in a power vacuum. But that's a very, very good question. I don't know that they know what would happen in the next steps. This is from Ann Joy, 1993. Why do people in places like the Netherlands have a higher standard of living than Americans? Kind of depends on how you're measuring that. That's my understanding of the statistics. Americans certainly have more access to cheap material goods. But also you do see happiness indexes that find Scandinavia kind of at the top. But I've also seen people question those. I love Arthur Brooks's work on happiness. He's kind of fisked some of those indexes and Tried to explain them. So I totally recommend checking out Arthur's books on this and his writing on this. He's done a lot of good stuff for the Atlantic in his own books on standards of living and happiness and all of that. One thing I would say is we are a massive of country with a huge level of ethnic diversity, religious diversity, geographic diversity that doesn't exist in a lot of those countries like the Netherlands, which are much geographically smaller and much more ethnically religiously homogenous populations. And so it's. It's much easier. People are just coming from similar backgrounds in a way where their. Their politics are more harmonious. Like it's. And that's not going to last forever. I don't think think that's been one of the kind of immigration storylines in Europe, but I think that's. It's just genuinely the Republicans, lowercase R Republican project is much, much easier in countries like that. So that would be my response. But there are some things I think we can certainly learn from those countries. I wouldn't discount that. But yeah, it's always worth thinking about. But. But I would check out some of the work on those indices too. I need to. Actually, that's a good reminder for me to go refresh that. One of my. One of the things that I look at as a North Star study on happiness is the survey of research on happiness in indigenous communities. You can Google it, you'll find it. But it was. I mean, that is a really interesting one that shows happiness levels in indigenous communities where they don't have. Have. Obviously people live relatively similar lives, right? Like there aren't people living in McMansions and then people living in, you know, on the streets or anything. You know, like that's, that's something that comes in the modern nation state and definitely something we experience in America. Wealth disparities in America. But what's correlated with happiness is health. So it's an argument for Republicans, by the way, to take health care very seriously. But good health and having community. So not feeling lonely. So that's one of the things that I think about a lot. This is from FVR07, which I wonder is like a farve. An invocation of farve. Any super bowl favorites? I said all season, I like the Colts, so obviously that's not impossible anymore. But I really think if Daniel Jones had stayed happy, it might have been the Colts. No, I don't. I mean, maybe the. I don't know, maybe the Patriots. I don't know. I don't know. It was it was a really heartbreaking end of the packers season. Just such a terrible game. A terrible game. But I don't think the Bears the Bears looked, looked all right. Caleb Williams looked all right. But I don't know that that is. I don't know they're gonna have the longevity of some other teams, but they're having a, having one of those lucky seasons. Cardiac Bears. It's like the packers had in like 2010, where a lot of things just go your way. Like even McManus missing a couple times in that game, things just go your way. And when that happens, you can, you really do have momentum. So I'm not gonna make predictions right now because I just don't have a strong gut instinct about anyone unless I'm forgetting something off the top of my head right here. I'm trying to rack my brain whether I'm forgetting something. Yeah, I'll stay out of the prediction game for now. Augustinian Alexander asked Blade Runner or Dune? And why? You're asking the wrong person this question. I've neither seen I've not seen Blade Runner or Dune. Yeah, no, I actually haven't. I was going to say maybe I've seen Dune, but no, I haven't seen Blade Runner or Dune. I could be wrong about this, but when I have to make decisions about how to spend a couple of hours of my time, I've never, like even before the smartphone era, been a movie lover because I'd rather watch tv. I like the pace of TV better than the pace of movies, and I like the longevity of TV better than movies. I love some movies, of course, don't get me wrong, and I watch many movies. But when I'm trying to make the cost benefit analysis about how I spend my time, the odds that I am going to like a movie like Blade Runner or Dune are so low that I choose not to take the risk. Even though I believe that they're good movies, I'm not saying they aren't technically excellent and entertaining films. I just do not dabble like it's just like anything that's science fiction or fantasy, I generally choose to watch something else. It's never at the top of my list. The only way I do end up watching that stuff is if I My boyfriend wants to watch it and I think he saw Dune with his with his friends, so I missed that one. This one is from Dayev Trechne. I'm definitely pronouncing that incorrectly. Name the person who does your eyebrows. They're the best with your expressions. Very funny. Comment because I'm telling you I have like the worst eyebrows in the world. One of my nervous habits is picking at my eyebrows and tmi, but that is one of my worst habits. And like up close it's really easy to make eyebrows look good for a camera. That's one thing I've learned. But up close, different story. I do really think that the I've always used Anastasia brow products. I just think they're the best. But the one that I discovered recently that people I've I've started getting a lot of comments about having great brows after using this product is it's the Natural Volumizing Tinted Brow Gel. It comes in a little thing, but yeah, it's the Anastasia Beverly Hills Long Wearing Natural Volumizing Tinted Brow Gel. I just looked it up. To be precise, after I started using that, I was amused by it. I started getting comments being like, you have really great eyebrows. And I'm like, well, trust me, I don't. But that gel has helped a ton. So I highly recommend it. And this has been your beauty recommendations for this lovely Friday afternoon. I'm taking the course on Thursday. Man. I went on for an hour today, but I've gotten a ton of emails lately. I didn't even get to all of them, I don't think. I think I got to almost all of them, but not quite all of them. So thanks for sending those emails in. I really appreciate it. EmilyEvilMyCareMedia.com is where you can reach me. I reply to almost all of them and I love answering them on these editions of Happy Hour, as you can tell because I went for an hour. Also on the afterparty Emily Instagram make sure to give us a subscribe if you haven't done that yet. It helps us so, so much and I'm really bad about remembering to ask. So smash that subscribe button on the podcast feed and on the YouTube channel. Helps us a lot and I hope everyone has a great weekend. We'll see you back here with more afterparty Monday night at 10pm Eastern. Momento se no frecido porriquea encuentre en supas interior ordenando surropa interior que organizar cada cajon se a como una. Con un nuevo armario. 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Episode: “Happy Hour”: Tribalism on the Right, Ditching Tech, and Trump’s Goals in Iran: Emily Answers YOUR Questions
Date: January 16, 2026
Host: Emily Jashinsky (for MK Media)
In this interactive Q&A “Happy Hour” episode, Emily Jashinsky responds thoughtfully to listener emails and Instagram DMs on a spectrum of political and cultural topics. She explores tribalism and infighting on the right, the effects of technology and social media, U.S. foreign policy (especially regarding Iran and Latin America), media narratives around current legal and law enforcement controversies, education funding, and even her own career inspirations. The conversation moves nimbly between the personal and big-picture observations, always in Emily’s candid, media-savvy, and occasionally humorous style.
"It's just so detached from the median American's analysis of what's happening..." (08:40)
"Their products are responsible for a huge, like mass poisoning of our brains..." (16:07)
"...maybe there's a the our human nature is starting to reject the anti human influences of the social media enabled smartphones." (19:30)
"...relentless gatekeeping and tone policing that even when it is rational... young people's radar is up..." (24:31)
"...folks who have zero interest in bigotry... find themselves listening to Fuentes because he's doing criticism of the right... he does a fairly honest assessment..." (32:34)
"We nationalize a split-second decision into a big story, weeks-long news cycle..." (47:35)
"...I was just saying I'm open minded to all of that happening." (1:10:14)
"...so sad to give up on public schools. And it's not giving up...but in a sense, you know, it does bleed public schools of money." (54:17)
"The only thing that will fix [the deficit] is an emergency. And that's the black pill."
"I genuinely think it's too early to say...sometimes you don't learn that stuff for years, unfortunately." (1:04:02)
"Are you really increasing the odds of prosperity and cooperation...when other countries feel bullied and messed around?" (1:08:52)
"I've always been fascinated with media. I talked about this with Megan...I've always found it to be like, very romantic." (1:23:10)
On style guides and language:
"I've stopped saying biological woman...I just say woman now, if someone is a woman, because even saying biological implies that there's some other type of woman." (10:00)
On tech and sanity:
"Musk’s X has been poisonous to our discourse, period...Yes, it has a better approach to free speech...but I can't...say that it's okay that X is great and wonderful..." (16:07)
On why tribal policing fails today:
"Young people just came off of 10 years of relentless policing of language and gatekeeping from the left, and their hackles are up..." (24:41)
On avoiding Nick Fuentes:
"...if folks want to stop people from turning to Fuentes, one of the ways they could do that is having more critical coverage of the Trump administration and of other people on the right when they do something that they shouldn't have done..." (34:00)
On the difference between U.S. and European happiness:
"We are a massive country with a huge level of ethnic diversity, religious diversity, geographic diversity...it's much easier...to have harmonious politics in countries like the Netherlands." (1:24:30)
On movies vs. TV:
"When I have to make decisions about how to spend a couple of hours of my time, I've never...been a movie lover because I'd rather watch TV." (1:17:40)
Emily maintains a friendly, approachable, and somewhat wry tone throughout the episode. She’s open about her uncertainties, acknowledges listeners who challenge or correct her, and avoids absolutism. Her style is personable, analytical, occasionally self-deprecating, and always media-aware, positioning herself as a guide for thoughtful center-right and independent audiences navigating a chaotic news and culture landscape.
This episode offers an engaging, comprehensive look at how a right-of-center commentator can address controversial issues with candor, context, “big picture” optimism (sometimes), and media literacy—directly engaging the questions of her audience with thoughtfulness and honesty.