
Learn four new things to say in English
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Sometimes we use expressions in English physical.
Michelle Kaplan
But we don't mean them in a literal way.
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Today get four things we say that you should not take literally.
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Michelle Kaplan
Hey Lindsay, how are you?
Lindsay McMahon
Hey, doing great Michelle.
Narrator/Announcer
How are you?
Lindsay McMahon
How's everything?
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, I'm doing well. Lindsay, did you ever have lice as a kid?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, I think I had a couple of bouts of it as a kid. It goes around with kids, you know, like sharing hair brushes in school. And yes, I do remember a couple of bouts of lice. Unfortunately, it's very common for little kids.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, I, I. Every once in a while I'll get a email from my daughter's school saying yeah, a student has been found with voice.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
So nervous. I haven't. Knock on wood. I never got it as a kid.
Narrator/Announcer
Lucky.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
But I, I know at some point it's coming coming from me. I'm almost afraid to talk about it, but I am assuming. Did you scratch your head a lot? Sure.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, absolutely. As a kid you don't know what's going on.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
And so and you have to use that special comb and a special kind of shampoo. I think my mom had to spend. You know, I was really young. My mom probably had to spend hours just picking them out. Oh, gosh. Awful topic.
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And people.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, I know. Hello, everyone. I hope you enjoy this ye today, but we're not talking. Don't worry, guys. That's not what we're talking about today. We are. It doesn't have anything to do with lice, but we are going to talk about an expression that has to deal with the word head and scratching. It's more metaphorical, though. So head scratcher. Lindsay, what is it? If I say something's a real head scratcher, what does that mean?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, it has nothing to do with having license. Goodness. So we could stop talking about that.
Michelle Kaplan
We're done. We're done.
Lindsay McMahon
But it's that something. You know, there's another reason we might scratch our heads. Beyond head lice. It's actually when we are maybe a little confused. Although I don't do that. I don't actually scratch my head when I'm confused. But this is what this means. Something that is a head scratcher is something that is hard to figure out.
Michelle Kaplan
Right. That is interesting. I don't think that many people actually. No, I do this, but it just came to be, this expression, oh, it's us. A head scratch scratcher.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. I don't know where it came from. I don't know.
Michelle Kaplan
But you say this. Oh, it's a head scratcher.
Lindsay McMahon
I. Yeah, I probably would. I probably would. This is a real head scratcher. I gotta think about this a bit more.
Michelle Kaplan
Right, right. Yeah. Is there anything you can think of that is a head scratcher for you?
Lindsay McMahon
I. Yeah, I mean, I think a lot of sports rules. I actually went to a hockey game last night, and we had amazing seats right on the. Right on the ice. We got them through my partner's work. And I wish that I understood the rules a bit better of hockey. I guess hockey is a little more straightforward than football, but I still don't know all the rules. So I was just there watching it back and forth. You know, you watch the puck flying around the ice, and it's fun, but you're not totally in it because you don't know the rules.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
So sports can be a little bit of a head scratcher for me. Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, I would say that about football.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
What's happening to my voice? Okay, guys, we're gonna talk more about this, but sure. Be sure to hit the follow button wherever you are listening to all ears English so that you never miss anything from. We have bonus episodes. Just make it easy. Have the episodes come to you. You don't have to go looking for them.
Lindsay McMahon
Yes. Good stuff. All right, let's get into some examples so our listeners can actually take this term and start using it in their real lives. So are you ready for the first example, Michelle?
Michelle Kaplan
I'm ready.
Lindsay McMahon
All right.
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I want to build my own furniture.
Lindsay McMahon
But the directions are a real head scratcher. Oh, my gosh. Following instructions. When you get something in a box.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, my gosh. Yeah. And a lot of times people might say, a real head scratch. Right. It's a head scratcher or a head scratcher. But if you want to be more emphatic, you can say are a real head scratcher.
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Lindsay McMahon
Yes.
Michelle Kaplan
Actually, my son. My dad just got my son an early birthday gift of this marble run.
Lindsay McMahon
Okay.
Michelle Kaplan
No, I took it out of the box. I was exhausted. I had a headache. And he's like, oh, can we open it? We opened it. There's no words, only pictures.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, no.
Michelle Kaplan
I have no idea what it's asking me to do. So I. I built the E. I chose the easiest one to start off with. There's many you can build. And I. I did it. And he kept on, like, coming in and going out, and I just like, okay, I'm just gonna do it.
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And then he.
Michelle Kaplan
I finally get one, and he's. And he goes, oh, I think that one's a boring one. You should do it.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, no. You spent all your time putting it together. Yeah. And then he was bored with the game. Yes.
Michelle Kaplan
He was bored with that particular course that I made because I chose the one like, you do it. Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
You should have had him put it together. He.
Michelle Kaplan
I did. I know, but then the. Then my daughter was around, and they were fighting. Anyway, it's a whole thing. Here's another example. She explained the situation to me, but honestly, it was a head scratcher. You may want to call her.
Lindsay McMahon
Yep. So something that just was really unclear. You came out of it pretty confused. You're still confused about that situation. Yeah. Here's another one. The outfit she chose is kind of a head scratcher. I don't think she took the weather into consideration. I do that a lot.
Michelle Kaplan
I was gonna say. I know you've talked about do that a lot.
Lindsay McMahon
I just did that. Let's see. I just went somewhere that was cool. Where did I. What was it recently? In the last few weeks, I guess I went to the mountains, and it was you know, 25 degrees again, and I just went in jeans and just not. Not smart. Not smart.
Michelle Kaplan
Would you say this is a formal or informal expression?
Lindsay McMahon
I would say this is probably pretty informal, Michelle. You know, so. Yeah, but it's common. I think It's. It's. It's not slang, but it's pretty informal. Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
And we're gonna go. We're gonna take a quick break, but then we're gonna go over some more with you right after.
Lindsay McMahon
Okay.
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Lindsay McMahon
All right, Michelle, we are back. So are there other expressions that kind of. Yeah, tell us.
Michelle Kaplan
So. Well, what I thought we could do is talk about some more, like, physical expressions that have more of a metaphorical meaning. So again, you're not really. It's not really like, oh, I'm scratching my head because I have lice. Sorry, knock on wood. But it's more, oh, this means I'm confused, even though you're not really doing it. So I thought we could go over some of these similar expressions with a similar idea. Right. So the first one is hit me with something. So, Lindsay, is this actually saying hit me?
Lindsay McMahon
No, no, it's really not. It's. This is interesting. Right? So it's basically saying, give me the information. Tell me something. Even if it's something that's going to give an impact. Right. That's going to be difficult. Let's do a role play so our listeners can see exactly what we mean.
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Lindsay McMahon
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Michelle Kaplan
All right, hit me.
Lindsay McMahon
Okay. And then I would proceed to tell you the story. Right. So you're basically just saying you are braced for impact.
Michelle Kaplan
Yes. Yeah, exactly. It's when. When something, you know, it's a little bit more intense, Right? Yeah. And it's very important for us to know what this means, because I am not actually asking Lindsay to hit me.
Lindsay McMahon
So if somebody says to you, oh, my gosh.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, hit me.
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Don't.
Lindsay McMahon
And there's other ways we use this, too. There's actually. I think we could do an entire episode just on hit me. Right?
Narrator/Announcer
Like, it hit me.
Lindsay McMahon
Finally. I was trying to figure it out, and then finally it hit me. The idea came to me another way of using that phrase. So, guys, maybe hit the follow button. Hit the follow button. And we will see if we can come back to that. This expression. Yeah, okay.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, Definitely a good one. There's a lot there.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
What's the next one, Lindsay?
Lindsay McMahon
Drop it. Right?
Michelle Kaplan
Drop it.
Lindsay McMahon
So this is. I'm sure you may say this to your kids sometimes when they're being annoying and they want ice cream. You're like, drop it. We're not getting ice cream today, Right? Oh, yes.
Michelle Kaplan
Every day.
Lindsay McMahon
Let something go. Right. Stop talking about something is what this means. Right. So what would be an example, Michelle?
Michelle Kaplan
I really wanted to ask him about a raise, but I'm going to drop it until next year. So I'm not feeling physically dropping something. I'm, you know, this is more metaphorical. I'm letting it go metaphorically and not physically.
Lindsay McMahon
You're setting it aside until later. Exactly. You're stopping. You're not going to pursue it at that moment.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
Or here's another. I'm still a little upset, but I'm going to drop it. But it's too much negativity for me.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
I mean, sometimes we have to make that decision in life, right?
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Whether we're going to hang on to something, keep a chip on our shoulders about something, be offended or upset. Upset forever. Or are we just going to get over it and move on?
Michelle Kaplan
And sometimes I think in the moment when. When something happens, you feel like, oh, I could never drop this. This is going to be, you know, always. So because you're still dealing kind of with the impact of whatever just happened. But as time goes on, you can start to let it go.
Lindsay McMahon
I totally agree.
Michelle Kaplan
Yep.
Narrator/Announcer
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, exactly. And then. I love this one. Spit it out. Yeah. Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
Are we actually talking about spinning?
Lindsay McMahon
No, guys, please don't spit. When someone says this, you.
Michelle Kaplan
Right y.
Lindsay McMahon
Please don't spit. This is when you tell someone something that may be tough for you to say. They will say, come on, just spit it out. Just say it.
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Right.
Lindsay McMahon
So say spit it. Saying spit it out is saying say it. Just say it.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
Okay.
Michelle Kaplan
Right. So here's a little role play.
Lindsay McMahon
Okay. Okay. I don't know how to say this.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, come on, Lindsay.
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Just spit it out.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. And this is very casual. I would never say this in a formal work scenario. Right. I mean, maybe you and I would say this because we're very casual at work, but in, like, a boardroom meeting. No, I wouldn't avoid this. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. All right, Michelle, shall we mix it all up into a role play?
Michelle Kaplan
Let's mix it. All right. So here we are, friends, and we are trying to build furniture together.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, geez. Yeah. Just over the weekend, we were trying to assemble a fire pit for our front. You know, our little front area, sitting area. Luckily, it wasn't too bad, but it could have gone really bad. You know what I mean? It's. This kind of thing can really just. And then you start throwing things, and it's not good.
Michelle Kaplan
Yep. Yep. Exactly. Do you typically look at the instructions very thoroughly first, or do you kind of feel it out?
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I don't.
Lindsay McMahon
I don't want to read the instructions. Like, I just want to get into it, you know? But then I'm halfway through, and I realize I use the wrong screws for something, that I have to do it over, so it takes longer.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, I know. It's so hard.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
All right, Here we go. Okay, so what do we do now?
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, gosh.
Michelle Kaplan
What?
Lindsay McMahon
Michelle, Spit it out.
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Lindsay.
Lindsay McMahon
We made a big mistake. The piece should go here.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, no. Let me see that.
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I wish these directions were easier to understand.
Lindsay McMahon
They are a head scratcher for sure. Okay, so what do we do? Hit me. Do we have to start over? I would ask Hazel to help, but she's still mad at me.
Michelle Kaplan
I wish she would just drop it.
Lindsay McMahon
Me too. So we're going into our side conversation about Hazel, right?
Michelle Kaplan
Yes, Hazel. I'm always trying to come up with different names.
Lindsay McMahon
Hazel, Right, right. What was the name that you used to use in, like, every role play for a while?
Michelle Kaplan
I don't know, probably.
Lindsay McMahon
I can't. I can't think of it now, but it was fun.
Michelle Kaplan
I don't know. Now I'm always just.
Lindsay McMahon
Lots of new names. Yeah. I love it. Yeah. So here we go. So we're. This is casual. We're friends. We're assembling something. So we're okay to use Spit it out.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
Because it's not for. Not a formal situation.
Michelle Kaplan
Yep. So, yeah, you said spit it out because we're figure you. You realize that we made a big mistake. And you're right. But it's hard for you to say.
Lindsay McMahon
And I'm afraid to say it. I'm like, oh, Michelle. Oh, I don't want to tell you this, but.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. And then you said, I wish these directions were easier to understand. I. I swear, Michelle, they try to make the directions hard and complicated on purpose and drawings sometimes are impossible to understand.
Michelle Kaplan
Gosh. I know, I know. And then you said, they are a head scratcher for sure.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. See, I'm just saying. Yeah. They're really confusing for anyone.
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Right.
Lindsay McMahon
And then you said, we're not so sure what to do. And then I said, again, you're hesitating to say something. And I'm saying, come on, hit me. Meaning just say it.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Right. Yep. Right.
Michelle Kaplan
And then we move on to Hazel being mad. And I said, I wish she would just drop it. So let it go. Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Nice. And I feel like this is a pretty realistic role play too.
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Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
You know all these. Because these are very different expressions. Right, Right.
Michelle Kaplan
This is not really all about, you know, scratching your head, but it's just about these more metaphorical physical expressions that don't actually mean what it says. We don't actually spit something.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, that's the. That's the rul thumb from today's episode. Do not actually spit when someone spit it out.
Michelle Kaplan
And don't hit.
Lindsay McMahon
Don't spit and don't hit. If you don't do those things, you'll be just fine. Yes.
Michelle Kaplan
Okay. Exactly.
Lindsay McMahon
Where else can we go to keep listening to Allers English?
Michelle Kaplan
All right, so we did a great series on Allers English. It was start out with part one.
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Michelle Kaplan
Yes.
Lindsay McMahon
And what is our final takeaway for today? Where shall we leave our listeners? I mean, I love what we just said. As long as you're not spitting or hitting, you're good. Pretty much. Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
That's. That's pretty much the takeaway for today. But yeah, these are all common, useful. So yeah, throw them in. They're kind of fun and, and yeah, enjoy.
Lindsay McMahon
Good stuff for today. I like how I mean it's true. I, I know that it's true in our listeners languages too. Not everything is literal and you one key piece of fluency is understanding what is actually literal and what is what is not literal because sometimes you might be at know a boxing gym and someone might say come on, hit me, you know what I mean? Like or in football or something, I don't know. They say they use the term hit. I guess he got hit. But yo, this is totally different. Right.
Michelle Kaplan
So if, if you, if you are not in a situation where that would make sense then yeah, figure that probably means it's being used in the more metaphorical sense.
Lindsay McMahon
All right, good stuff today Michelle. Guys, if you love our show and you don't want to miss any of the ideas that came up for today's episode. For future episodes go ahead and hit the follow button. All right, good stuff Michelle. I'll see you very.
Michelle Kaplan
All right, bye guys.
Lindsay McMahon
All right, bye.
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Title: Don't Take It Literally! Four New English Expressions
Hosts: Lindsay McMahon and Michelle Kaplan
Date: November 25, 2025
In this engaging episode, Lindsay and Michelle explore four common English expressions that don’t mean exactly what the words suggest—expressions you should NOT take literally. The hosts break down their meanings, usage, and share stories, role plays, and cultural insights to help English learners sound more natural and fluent. They focus on using everyday idioms and metaphors that are common in American English, building language skills around “connection, not perfection.”
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If you want to speak more like a native and connect, not just perfect your grammar, these expressions are a great place to start!
“As long as you’re not spitting or hitting, you’re good. Pretty much.”
— Michelle Kaplan (17:49)