
Finally get clear on transitive verbs
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Aubrey
This is an Allers English podcast. Episode 2636. Don't forget about grammar. Transitive versus intransitive verbs.
Lindsay
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Narrator/Announcer
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Lindsay
Hey, Aubrey, how's it going today?
Aubrey
I am great, Lindsay. How are you?
Lindsay
Good. But I have a question.
Aubrey
All right.
Lindsay
Are you forgetful? Are you a forgetful person?
Aubrey
Would you say I didn't used to be, but more and more I. I am, you know, I'm not sure. I've got some brain fog going. The other day, this was funny. I. So I was out of town. I was in Sea Island, Georgia, which is a beautiful area of the south, right on the coast, right just south of Savannah. And they had a spa there at this resort. And I was all ready. I was planning to go to the pool, sort of the hot tub and do like the steam room, the sauna. And I got all packed everything and it was sort of far. The grounds were quite expansive and I had to walk at least a half a mile to get to where I was going. Got all ready, got my locker, everything's ready. I realized I hadn't brought a swimsuit. I had forgotten to pack a swimsuit. And this is all public. Everything's public. So it's not, you know, you definitely would need. I would need a swimsuit for all of this. So I just had to pack it back up, go back to the room, get a swimsuit, walk back out. Yeah. So frustrating.
Lindsay
You just need to have a sense of humor about these things, I think. Right.
Aubrey
Because it's gonna happen. What are you gonna do? Oh, no.
Lindsay
I'm sorry to hear that. Well, at least you were on vacation, so you had the time, maybe a
Aubrey
little extra time to do it. Thank goodness. But it does have. Often I'm forgetful when I don't have the time. And, you know, things are. There are higher stakes, and it can be extremely frustrating.
Lindsay
Totally. I took my dog out this morning, and I put his gentle leader on his. It's like. It's kind of. It's not a muzzle. It looks like a muzzle, so people get confused, but it keeps him from pulling. It's just this thing that goes around his nose that's so I can pull him back easy. But then I forgot to put his collar on, so if he ever got off, like, he needs a collar so people know his name and that kind of.
Aubrey
Right. You do not want to lose a pet without their collar.
Lindsay
Oh, my gosh, no. Yeah. Really bad. So we all do this. I think our listeners are going to resonate right away. They'll have their own stories. And this leads us into a great question for today from Caio, one of our longtime students.
Aubrey
Right? Yes. She noticed something interesting about how we use the word forget. Do you want to read the question for us, Lindsay?
Lindsay
All right. Hello, Aubrey and Lindsay. I was actually listening to the Allers English podcast for nearly two hours on my commute the other day. Awesome.
Aubrey
It's amazing.
Lindsay
I really appreciate you creating such awesome podcasts, and it makes my day. Learning English as well as learning American history has been such an incredible experience for me. Well, thank you, Kyle, and we appreciate you as well, as a member of our community.
Aubrey
I know, right? Shout out to Kyo. She is awesome. And this is a great question.
Lindsay
So I'm a curious mind, and it'd be fantastic if you could explain some of the transitive verbs. I recently learned that the verb discuss is not followed by about. So I looked up other transitive verbs, and the verb forget was one that caught my attention as I frequently hear forget about it or I forgot about it. It might be an idiomatic expression, but this is the only exception. Is this the only exception, or are there any transitive verbs that can be idiomatic that doesn't follow the grammar rules? Right. Looking forward to talking with you. It's just fascinating for me to learn your language as well. As culture. I really love the podcast episode about Native Americans and not saying reservation and and so on. All right, good question, Kyle.
Aubrey
Yeah, and I love that shout out back to that episode. I thought that was really interesting. I learned a lot as well about American culture. And I love this that students recognize this. It's not just about the language. It's also interesting cultural pieces. There's so much to learn, and I love that we are able to share all of that and that KYO and listeners out there appreciate it.
Lindsay
Exactly, exactly. And I love that KYO is just observing and taking in the language and then asking good questions. So, guys, if you have a good question, send it into support@allenglish.com we want to feature your question on the show, especially if it's very specific like this one.
Aubrey
Exactly. And this is such a great observation. Caio is spot on. Discuss is not followed by about, but forget can be. So why is that, Lindsay?
Lindsay
Oh, my gosh. Well, it's not an idiomatic expression, Aubrey. It's a grammar rule. Let's talk about it a little bit.
Aubrey
Yes, it all comes down to whether a verb is transitive and intransitive or can be both. So we're going to break down each type of verb so that you can understand and use them correctly. And we'll discuss words like forget that can actually be both, depending on how they're used in a sentence.
Lindsay
Okay, looking for. This will be a heavy hitting grammar episode today, so we're looking forward to getting into it. Um, but first, guys, go ahead and hit follow on the podcast. Or if you are a more of a YouTube person, you could be watching us on YouTube. Hit subscribe on our channel. Okay?
Aubrey
Yes, absolutely. All right, let's dive in. So first, transitive verbs like discuss. Right? These follow a pattern. It is a verb plus a direct object. So, for example, let's discuss the movie.
Lindsay
Yes.
Aubrey
So discuss is our verb. The movie is the direct object. What should we discuss? Let's discuss what? The movie.
Lindsay
Right. Or another example. Right now we're discussing a grammar rule. So your verb is discussing and the direct object. There is grammar rule, Right, Exactly.
Aubrey
But there are intransitive verbs like talk, for example. These verbs cannot be followed by a direct object. So for example, she talked when you just mean she spoke. She was speaking. She talked. There's no direct object.
Lindsay
Nothing else coming. Yeah, exactly. Or they talked all night. Right.
Aubrey
Or we talked for hours. Yeah, exactly. But we can use about with both transitive and intransitive verbs, but in very different ways. What about with Transitive verbs. Lindsay.
Lindsay
Yeah, about here in this case is used before the direct object when it talks about the amount. So, for example, it kind of means approximately.
Aubrey
Right? Exactly.
Lindsay
She spent about $50, right?
Aubrey
Right. Exactly. Or he invited about 10 people to dinner. So this is a very specific use of this where it means approximately. That's why this word is so confusing. It can mean something different depending on where it is in the sentence.
Lindsay
Oh, what about when? About. What about when about introduces a topic.
Aubrey
Yeah. So, for example, what do you think about the song? Or let's talk about it here. It's intransitive, Right. We're using about to introduce that direct object.
Lindsay
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Aubrey
Yes. Because some verbs can be both transitive and intransitive, depending on how you use them. We call this ambitransitive, like ambidextrous. And the transitive. It's a mouthful.
Lindsay
It's a really good term. I love it. So let's give some examples of ambitious transitive words. Yeah.
Aubrey
Yeah. So forget. Forgot. I forgot my keys. It's transitive there.
Lindsay
I completely forgot. Is then intransitive. Right?
Aubrey
Exactly. Or I forgot about that night in transitive.
Lindsay
Or lose would be another ambitransitive. I lost what? I lost what? I lost my keys. That makes it transitive.
Aubrey
Okay, Exactly. Or I lost about 200 gambling last night transitive again. What did you lose? About 200.
Lindsay
There's clearly something that was lost. Right. So that's transitive and then intransitive. I'm super competitive. I just can't lose.
Aubrey
Okay, and so we're not saying what you lost. I'm saying I can't lose, period. Full stop here. It's used intransitively.
Lindsay
Okay, give us another example.
Aubrey
Aubry remember is another example. I remember her name. Transitive. And also I remembered about half the words on the test here. It's also transitive.
Lindsay
And then an intransitive example. I just can't remember.
Aubrey
Okay. There's no direct object there. Right. We're just in general. I can't remember.
Lindsay
I mean, we might know what we're talking about, but we're just stopping the sentence there. So it's not clear exactly what a
Aubrey
direct object can be implied.
Lindsay
Implied.
Aubrey
It's not stated like this. It's still transitive. It's still rather intransitive.
Lindsay
What about no. Is that another one?
Aubrey
Yes. So, for example, do you know Spanish is transitive? We have a direct object there. What do you know? Oh, I know Spanish, but so many
Lindsay
times in daily life, we just say, I don't know. I feel like I say it a thousand times a day.
Aubrey
Right. I don't know, or I know about the scandal. Right. These are intransitive.
Lindsay
Okay. All right, let's put these all into a role play for our listeners here, and let's see what it looks like. So, Aubrey, you and I are at a party, and there's a woman approaching us to chat. Okay. Yes. Oh, that woman is walking over here. Who is she? I know her, but I forgot her name.
Aubrey
Same. I remember her face, but I don't know where we met.
Lindsay
Do we know her from the concert?
Aubrey
Wow. I completely forgot about that concert, But I don't know if she was there.
Lindsay
This is bad. I've totally lost it.
Aubrey
Don't worry, it happens. If she asks, just say, sorry, I forgot.
Lindsay
That reminds me of the scene in Devil Wears Prada where, remember, she had to memorize the names of all the politicians and donors.
Aubrey
She has them all. Memory. She just whispers them to Meryl Streep. Yeah. And then she.
Lindsay
She freezes. She forgets one. The guy's walking towards her. Just remember. Reminds me of that scene.
Aubrey
Exactly. But let's go through these. We used a bunch here in this role play. So first the transitive verbs. Remember these take an object. So first we have no, I know her, and then forgot. I forgot her name. These Are transitive. We have that direct object there.
Lindsay
And again, I remember her face. So we have a direct object there too. Right. So transitive. What else?
Aubrey
And then no, do we know her? Forgot again. I completely forgot about that concert. No, I don't know if she was there and then lost. I've totally lost it. These are all transitive because there is a stated direct object.
Lindsay
But then the last one, we don't really have a stated direct object.
Narrator/Announcer
Right.
Lindsay
We said, sorry, I forgot. Right.
Aubrey
So that's intransitive. Same verb used in a different way. It's intransitive when there's no direct object.
Lindsay
Okay. What else do we need to know here? Aubry? Anything else?
Aubrey
So this is interesting. When it comes to this type of grammar, it's very easy to let it keep you from connecting. Right. If you are so worried about using the correct verb and is there a direct object? You can see how that could really stunt your progress. It could keep you from joining the conversation at all. So this is the kind of thing that it will sound, right, whether you should have a direct object or not. As you are taking in and being observant of language, these. Whether a verb is transitive or intransitive, it's going to just fit correctly in what you're saying.
Lindsay
Yeah. As long as you're continuing those connection moments. Right. You're having more conversations. If you freeze up and decide, well, I don't know if it's transitive, intransitive, so I'm just not going to have the conversation, then you will not continue the learning that you need to build that intuition.
Aubrey
Absolutely. I think Kaya is a great example of that. She had this question, question. But we have both observed how much she is connecting in English, diving in with the language. She's not letting these doubts, these questions, things she doesn't quite totally understand, keep her from connecting in English. And that is the goal. Like, yes, it's interesting to know this grammar, to know why. Why do we have these verbs and they're so. They seem to be used differently. And it's one thing to let that keep you from connecting in English.
Lindsay
Yeah. So what we're looking for is that positive snowball effect where we're open to connection, we're getting into conversations that's leading to better questions that we can ask native speakers or teachers. Then we can then learn the lesson, observe it in the next connection moment. Right.
Aubrey
Absolutely right. And yes, you do want to be doing this correctly. These are glaring errors that sound really off to native speakers. If you include a direct object when you shouldn't or vice versa. But if it will come as you are taking in English, being observant in English, having those conversations, because it will sound right, right? As you understand and listen and and different chunks, everything sounds correct.
Lindsay
Yep, that's the philosophy we keep here at Allers English. And if you guys agree, be sure to hit the follow button on the show and go check out an older episode, not too old, just a few episodes back. 2566 learn roughly five new ways to stay broad in English. All right.
Aubrey
Amazing. Awesome. Thank you again, Kyle, for the question. So interesting to dive into this grammar. And now that you have this very clear explanation of transitive and intransitive verbs, you know more than the average native English speaker that if you ask them what's the difference between a transitive intransitive verb, they're going to say a what now? Most of them will will not know what you're talking about.
Lindsay
Oh, and that just gave me a great episode idea. Why did they say now after that? Why would they say now? But that's another episode for another day.
Aubrey
Love that.
Lindsay
All right, gu, we are off the mic for today. Aubrey, I'll see you back here soon.
Aubrey
Awesome. See you guys next time.
Lindsay
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Hosts: Lindsay McMahon & Aubrey Carter
Date: June 17, 2026
In this lively episode, Lindsay and Aubrey unpack an important yet often overlooked aspect of English grammar: the difference between transitive and intransitive verbs. Drawing from personal stories and a thoughtful listener question, they break down how recognizing these verb types enhances both grammatical accuracy and conversational connection in English. The episode delivers clear grammar explanations, relevant cultural insights, practical examples, and a signature blend of humor and encouragement.
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This episode arms listeners with practical tools to recognize and use transitive, intransitive, and ambitransitive verbs correctly, all while emphasizing the greater goal: fluency through genuine human connection. Through stories, listener interaction, and real-world examples, Lindsay and Aubrey make advanced grammar accessible—and fun—to learners everywhere.