
Learn how to use this phrase to build connection
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Michelle Kaplan
This is an All Ears English podcast. Story of my life. How to resonate with people in English.
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Lindsay McMahon
Say that you experience the same thing.
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Lindsay McMahon
Hey there Michelle. How's it going today?
Michelle Kaplan
It's going well, Lindsay. How are you? Good.
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Michelle, do you, when you were a.
Lindsay McMahon
Kid, did you like to read bedtime stories like with your parents? Were there a lot of stories you were always reading at bedtime?
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, yeah, I, I did like to read bedtime stories as a kid and actually just last night we were trying to, trying to do a whole family bedtime story thing but then my, my. So my son knows how to read now.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh wow.
Michelle Kaplan
And yeah, and so I was trying to get him to read Amelia Bedelia to my daughter, but then everything kind of got out of hand and then it just wasn't, it wasn't the dream.
Lindsay McMahon
I, I imagine sometimes you have a plan, an idea and I'm sure our listeners can resonate with this of how things are going to go and it'll be so adorable at all. Yeah, yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
But it's okay. So yeah, we try and do some reading. Do a lot of reading around here. Can. But what about you? Did you like to read bedtime?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, I remember reading the Polar Express, Some, some favorites. Right? I mean Good Night Moon was always a classic.
Michelle Kaplan
Polar Express.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh for sure, for sure. But story, I think that's the thing about stories. We like stories throughout our entire lives, not just as children. We tell stories as adults, campfire stories. We lean in when someone is going to tell us a story, especially if they're a good storyteller, right?
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, exactly. So today we're going to actually teach an expression using the word story that can help you relate to someone with a little bit of personality and maybe even a little sarcasm, because it's kind of funny and relatable. Lindsay, what is the expression?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. I'm so excited that we're going into this today, Michelle, because it really is everywhere. So the expression is story of my life. Story of my life. And here's where the episode's gonna veer away from storybooks and children's stories and into another way of using the word story. I am excited.
Michelle Kaplan
Exactly. Yeah. So, Lindsay, this came up in a recent episode. We did a role play, and we realized it's one of those where we said, oh, that's a good one. Let's do a full episode about this.
Lindsay McMahon
That's how you know you're getting real English. Right, Michelle? Is when it comes up naturally.
Michelle Kaplan
Exactly. So we're gonna get into this in just a second, but first we want to say thank you so, so much to our reviewers.
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Michelle Kaplan
Definitely. Love it. All right, so let's go through this. Yeah. So when somebody says, story of my life.
Lindsay McMahon
Yes.
Michelle Kaplan
What is this mean?
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, my gosh. So what this means is that basically someone has said something, and if I respond with story of my life, it means I've experienced the same thing probably many times. I'm very familiar with what you're telling me. Right.
Michelle Kaplan
Right. Exactly. It's something that they've experienced enough or. Or so frequently or so strongly they could write a book about it. Right. They could write a story about it.
Lindsay McMahon
Lindsay.
Michelle Kaplan
But do you. Would you say. I mean, would you say that this is used for more positive pieces of someone life or.
Lindsay McMahon
I would say more. A little more negative or let's say annoying. Yeah. Right.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah. Annoying.
Lindsay McMahon
Yes.
Michelle Kaplan
Something tough. Annoying. Whether it's something really extreme or just a small hindrance. Right. I wouldn't necessarily say, oh, story of my life for something that's just super positive.
Lindsay McMahon
Exactly, exactly. I don't think it's something tragic. Right. It's not.
Michelle Kaplan
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
You know, true.
Michelle Kaplan
So that's another good point.
Lindsay McMahon
It's like inconveniences things that just, you know, just trip you up a little bit in life.
Michelle Kaplan
Right, Exactly. So. Well, let's give some examples.
Lindsay McMahon
What.
Michelle Kaplan
What could be one thing. Let's go through some ideas.
Lindsay McMahon
We've talked in past episodes. We just did a series on the laundry and we've.
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Yes.
Lindsay McMahon
We've both shrunk something important. Right. I know I did this when I was a teenager, and I still do it sometimes. I'm not better than that. The thing comes out, it looks like a baby's shirt or something.
Michelle Kaplan
Right. Yeah. Like, oh, no. Or getting lost. I could say story of my life about getting lost.
Lindsay McMahon
Getting. Yeah. If you don't have a good internal navigation system. This happens a lot when I travel. I'm definitely not the one. Like, my partner always seems to know the orientation of our hotel immediately. Like, I don't know how you're finding the way back to where we're staying. I don't get it. But getting lost, losing things. This is.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Narrator/Announcer
Annoyances.
Lindsay McMahon
Irritating. Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
Or being disorganized or just. Or sometimes if you have to go to a lot of doctors and you're like, kind of. Yeah. You know, any. Anything else you can think of that comes to mind?
Lindsay McMahon
Maybe traffic. So if you spend a lot of time sitting in traffic, that could be. That could be. Right. Someone has come to work and they've said, oh, my God, I spent three hours in traffic. Oh, story of my Life on the i5. It was really bad today. Right.
Michelle Kaplan
Your resident, right?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
Yes, exactly. Yeah. So again, it's generally used as a response to what someone says to relate to them.
Lindsay McMahon
Right.
Michelle Kaplan
So. And it could also be used when you're sharing something. Comment that this is the story of your life. Yeah. So. Yeah, go ahead.
Lindsay McMahon
I was just gonna say that's why this is a connection episode and a connection skill. Because what Michelle said is really important. It's not just to say, I have that problem too, but it's to relate to the other person.
Michelle Kaplan
Yes, exactly. And it's. And it's kind of fun, though, because it has kind of this little sarcastic, little sassy type of undertone for the sassy Saturday episode. Yeah. And. And then. But it's also important to have the right intonation. Right, Lindsay? How. How would you say this? How would.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, let's do it. So here we go. I haven't been reading because I get too tired at night.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, story of my life. I also am guilty of doom scrolling when I should be reading.
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Y.
Lindsay McMahon
Your intonation was kind of very familiar. You're very familiar with what I'm saying. You're really resonating and you're kind of like G. Right.
Michelle Kaplan
Story of my life. Story of my life. Right?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
Or here's another mini role play. Oh no, I forgot to get gas. I'll have to stop before I get on the road. I always do this.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, Michelle. Story of my life. I'm surprised I haven't had to get my car towed for not having any gas. Yeah. Has that ever happened to you, Michelle? Have you ever run out of gas on the.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, no, not that. I mean, no, I actually it's funny because yesterday I was just connecting with someone about that topic and I had already written this and I forgot, but yeah, they were telling me, they said I. I coasted on E to work. What does that mean?
Lindsay McMahon
Scary. You were on empty. Your gas tank was on empty and basically they didn't really use the gas petal.
Michelle Kaplan
Yes, right, exactly.
Lindsay McMahon
I don't know if I understand how that works. Yeah, yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
So yeah, I was just talking about this. So definitely a tech connection topic. Or one more. Let's do another little mini one.
Lindsay McMahon
How's it going, Michelle?
Michelle Kaplan
It's okay. I've just been so busy getting ready for school.
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Oh, I bet.
Michelle Kaplan
Story of my life.
Narrator/Announcer
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
So this is interesting, right? Because here, like, you're the one who shared the thing and, and so far the examples we've shown the other person responding. Right. And resonating. But here you're just resonating with. You're just furthering what you're saying, right?
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, you're resonating with yourself, but it's still connection. Right. Because you're just emphasizing you're making it stronger, which gets the person to know you better and like, see what's going on in your life. You're sharing.
Lindsay McMahon
Exactly. And because I said, oh, I bet you get the hint that I get it. Right on. I didn't have to say story of my life. Then you could continue say, yeah, story of my life. Right. So then that's key because when the person resonates with us, then the conversation can kind of continue on that theme a little bit longer. Right. It's really about taking cues from what.
Michelle Kaplan
The Person says, absolutely. Yep. Love it.
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Lindsay McMahon
Okay, this is good. So we've got a lot of. We've got a few other things we might say, and they are. One of them is very modern too. Right. One of them is I can relate. Right. I can relate. So, for example, I feel like I'm.
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Always forgetting something at home.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, I can relate. But a lot of the time I am, so.
Lindsay McMahon
Meaning a lot of the time you do forget.
Narrator/Announcer
You do.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah. It's not just the feeling that I actually do.
Lindsay McMahon
I see, I see, I see. I didn't quite get it at first.
Michelle Kaplan
But now I get it. Yes. Yes. All right.
Lindsay McMahon
What's another?
Michelle Kaplan
Another one is just same. Right. I think we've talked about this a little bit. Or you could say, oh, same. Yeah. So I've been eating sweets every day this week. I should focus on eating healthier.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, same. It's so hard, Michelle. So maybe here it's the holiday season and you know, there's always like sweets in front of you in the holiday season. Right. You're always at a party or something.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Narrator/Announcer
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
So it's funny, I feel that there is always something. It used to feel like, oh, just the holiday season, but now there's always something where there's food.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. It's just like some sort of party.
Michelle Kaplan
Or some sort of. I don't know, maybe it's Something about having kids and like a lot of, you know.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, maybe.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah. So anyway, it's kind of true for my life this day.
Lindsay McMahon
There's always snacks and sweets around then, right? Yep.
Michelle Kaplan
Yep, Exactly. Or what's another one?
Lindsay McMahon
You could say, that's exactly what happens to me. Or that's what it is for me. So, for example, I've missed the train twice this week.
Michelle Kaplan
H. That's exactly what happens to me. Especially when I wake up too late.
Narrator/Announcer
Yes.
Lindsay McMahon
Yes. And so that one is a little more wordy, maybe a little longer to say. But we want to give you guys lots of options here, okay? Yes. Good.
Michelle Kaplan
And guys, if you were wondering which episode we used this story of my life on that inspired this episode. Well, we already touched on our laundry series, so this one was actually in episode three, part three of the laundry series. So check out all ears English episode 2487. That was laundry in English part three. Overwhelmed by laundry. Make it a connection moment. So check that one out.
Lindsay McMahon
Nice.
Michelle Kaplan
Love it.
Lindsay McMahon
Michelle, shall we go into a role play to bring all this together into one conversation?
Michelle Kaplan
Let's do it. So here we are, friends, and we're supposed to be on a coffee date and. But I just arrived and I'm late.
Lindsay McMahon
Okay. Okay, here we go.
Michelle Kaplan
I'm late. Okay, here we go. Lindsay, I'm so sorry. I actually thought it was Thursday today and that we were meeting tomorrow.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, it's okay, Michelle. Story of my life. It's hard to keep track, especially in the summer.
Michelle Kaplan
Okay, thanks. I got so disorganized.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, I can relate. I missed a get together with my friend and I wasn't even in town, so I couldn't meet her. I felt so bad. I just forget and get distracted.
Michelle Kaplan
That's exactly what it is for me.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Narrator/Announcer
Once I have more structure, it'll be good.
Michelle Kaplan
Oh, same. Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
I bet a lot of parents. Parents feel this way and people feel this way in the summer. Especially if, like, your schedule is a little less structured. Right. Not as.
Michelle Kaplan
Yes, exactly. You know, when you're. Or do you ever. When you're on vacation, you can't think of what day it is.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, totally. Which is a good thing, I think on vacation, you know, you should forget what day it is, I think.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Moments to do that. I'm going on a vacation soon to Norway and I need the vacation.
Michelle Kaplan
Whoa. Yeah. Yeah, Definitely. That's so exciting. Yeah. So here we go. You said so it sounds like I totally messed up the day we were meeting and I. You said you used as a connection Moment. You said, oh, it's okay, Michelle. Story of my life.
Lindsay McMahon
Exactly. So I'm saying it's okay. And I do that all the time, too. Right. I'm saying this happens to me a lot, too. Being late. Like, you were right. Yes. And then I. And then you say, oh, I get so disorganized, and I say, oh, I can relate. I missed a get together with my friend, and I wasn't even in town. Oh, geez, that's not good, dear.
Michelle Kaplan
And then you said, I just forget and get distracted. So I said, that's exactly what it is for me. So that's the lengthier one, but very useful, too.
Lindsay McMahon
And then you.
Narrator/Announcer
I said, yeah, once I have more.
Lindsay McMahon
Structure, it'll be good. And you said, oh, same. Oh, same. Right, That's.
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
There's something very human about resonating with what someone else has said. Like, I think it just. Like our brains are so wired for it, for this feeling of relating to someone else and sharing that you've had that same experience. I feel like there's, like, chemicals that go off or something.
Michelle Kaplan
It's true. Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle Kaplan
And especially in this kind of situation where I'm feeling bad, I made a mistake, and you using all of these and kind of saying, you know, it's showing we're all human, right?
Narrator/Announcer
Totally.
Michelle Kaplan
And we're connecting over that. So these phrases really help us do that.
Lindsay McMahon
You got it. All right, so I'm gonna remind our listeners one more time, guys, if you love our show, our style is all about teaching you English.
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Yes.
Lindsay McMahon
But it's not just about the language. It's about human connection. So we try to bring every episode back to human connection, how you can use it to connect, to be happier, ultimately, to have better relationships in your life. If you like that style, go and leave us a rating and review, and we'll try to read your name out loud on the show. Okay, good.
Michelle Kaplan
All right, all right, all right. Well, Lindsay, this was. This was fun. I'm glad we could talk about, you know, just really relating to people and not. Not taking ourselves too serious.
Lindsay McMahon
It's so true. We all have our faults, our challenges, our, you know, our mistakes. And so that's how it is. That's how we are. That's what makes us human, right?
Michelle Kaplan
Yeah, exactly. Love it. All right, well, thanks for chatting with me about this today. And, guys, we'll talk to you next time.
Lindsay McMahon
All right, talk soon, Michelle. Bye.
Michelle Kaplan
Bye.
Lindsay McMahon
Thanks for listening. To all ears.
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Hosts: Lindsay McMahon & Michelle Kaplan
Date: October 18, 2025
This episode dives into how English learners can connect naturally with others by using relatable expressions—specifically focusing on the idiom "Story of my life." Lindsay and Michelle discuss ways to communicate shared experiences, why these moments matter for building relationships, and introduce other useful connection phrases. The episode features role plays, personal anecdotes, and practical conversation tips—always emphasizing "Connection, not Perfection" in language learning.
Hosts present other modern and natural ways to express shared experiences:
“It’s not just about the language. It’s about human connection.”
— Lindsay ([17:10])
“We all have our faults, our challenges, our mistakes. And so that’s how it is. That’s what makes us human, right?”
— Lindsay ([17:41])
“It’s so true. We all have our faults, our challenges, our, you know, our mistakes. And so that’s how it is. That’s how we are. That’s what makes us human, right?”
— Michelle ([17:50])
Warm, informal, and encouraging—Lindsay and Michelle use humor, personal stories, and mini role plays to keep the learning lively and relatable. They model conversational English as it’s really spoken and emphasize that meaningful connection always outweighs perfect grammar.
Story of our life? Helping you learn English through CONNECTION, not perfection!