
What does it mean when natives say 'having a moment'?
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Aubrey Carter
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Michelle
What do weighted vests Wicked and Taylor Swift have in common? They are all having a moment today. Learn four useful ways to use this phrase to comment on life and bring you closer to the person you're talking to.
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Michelle
Hey Lindsay, how are you?
Lindsay McMahon
Great. Michelle, how are you doing?
Michelle
I'm good, thanks. Lindsay, would you say Taylor Swift is having a moment?
Lindsay McMahon
I would say that would be safe to say yes, Michelle, but a very long moment. I feel like she's been having a moment for the last like 10 years.
Michelle
Or something like triple quadruple moment. Yeah. Now she just came out with a new cd, so she's definitely now she's having a moment again. She had a moment with her tour, now she's having a moment with the new CD and being engaged and she.
Lindsay McMahon
Got engaged and that that right there was a mini moment within the moment, you know.
Michelle
Yeah. Oh my Gosh, I can't believe how many moments she has.
Lindsay McMahon
But yeah.
Michelle
Lindsay, what is something else that is having a moment? Maybe like a piece of workout equipment or something like that?
Lindsay McMahon
Well, I've noticed that weighted vests for women and I guess for men too, actually are having a moment. So I'll see in my neighborh. I'll see people.
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All of a sudden, they came out of nowhere.
Lindsay McMahon
People are strapping on weight onto their. As a vest. And, you know, you could. I suppose you can swap in how much weight you have on your vest. Is that right? Michelle, are you into.
Michelle
I don't know if I don't. Well, so I do have one, but I've only used it a couple times. I wouldn't, I wouldn't say it's like my big thing, but, you know, but it's. It's okay. You do want one Kind of.
Lindsay McMahon
I think.
Aubrey Carter
I mean, I think.
Lindsay McMahon
Well, I think weightlifting is probably having a moment right now for women. I think we're gaining more understanding of how important it is if we're a woman in our 30s and 40s, maybe 50s even, to gain muscle mass, like super important for the body's health. So I think that's where it's coming from, Right?
Michelle
Yep, Yep, exactly. Oh, here's another thing. Ozempic.
Lindsay McMahon
That's having a moment. Absolutely. I mean, it's everywhere. Things are always having moments. And, and that really. What does that mean then, Michelle? Like, if something's having a moment, right.
Michelle
It's. It's getting the spotlight. Right. It's. I mean, there, There are many ways we can use this expression, and that's what we're talking about today, to have a moment. So we'll talk more about this in just a second, but make sure that you hit the follow button wherever you're listening to the All Ears English podcast, because we teach you about a lot of different things that are currently having a moment.
Lindsay McMahon
Right.
Michelle
Different ways, different expressions, different cultural phenomena. Definitely hit follow to learn about all these moments.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. I mean, if you observe someone wearing a certain fashion trend, I mean, I think fanny packs are having a moment. Maybe they're coming out of it now. Maybe it was just the last few years, but I know I, I used, I remember my, My aunt used to wear fanny packs back in the 80s, and I think she wore them her whole life. And we used to make fun of her.
Michelle
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Wearing a fanny pack back in the 80s. And then they became really popular. They. So they're having a moment again. And when we say having a moment, you know, it's. It's. It's not just that people are participating in it. People are also making commentary on it, let's say on Instagram. Right? On Instagram, on social media. So people are. Are doing the thing, talking about the thing and making content about the thing. Right? So it's.
Michelle
Yeah, yeah, it's everywhere. It's kind of like you can't. You can't go 2 seconds without hearing about it.
Lindsay McMahon
Exactly. So our listeners need a way to talk about this thing. Right? That's.
Michelle
Yeah, yeah. So to have a moment. So. Yeah, the way. So we're going to talk about this expression in a few different ways because there are different ways to use it that are all very common. And so. But this first one that we're talking about, again, it's about getting the spotlight, attention, success. So Taylor Swift, right? There's a lot of people. People are talking about her. People are listening to her music. People, you know, just. She's everywhere. You cannot go, you know, a day without hearing about Taylor Swift.
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Lindsay McMahon
For sure. Another example would be Wicked, the play. The movie was. Or still is having a big moment in the last couple of years. Everyone was seeing the movie. Everyone was seeing the play. Right.
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Michelle
So, yeah, you could say Wicked is having a moment. It's everywhere.
Lindsay McMahon
Or Stitch, the movie is having a moment. It's everywhere.
Michelle
Yeah. Stitch. Yep, that's it. Because they came out with a live action version and now they're gonna come out with a Moana one. It's. Yeah. Okay, let's say that. Yeah, yeah. Live action movies are having a. Like Disney movies are having a moment. So Interesting. Yeah, there's always, you know, it, it. I was just thinking about that yesterday, how it's so funny that we just have this desire to recreate with real people. It's like. I don't, you know. Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Interesting. And then what is.
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Lindsay McMahon
What? Oh, do.
Michelle
You don't know?
Lindsay McMahon
No, I don't even know what that is.
Michelle
Oh, they're these. There are these things. They're kind of shaped. They. You put your fingers in the middle and you like twirl them around and it's just supposed to help with, you know, fidgeting. So they really had a moment a few years ago. It's just all these kids were carrying them around and so you could say fidget Spinners had a moment. Yeah, Lots of. I mean. Yeah.
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Michelle
I mean, Lindsay. Everything from when we were kids, Tamagotchis and.
Lindsay McMahon
Sure.
Aubrey Carter
Or you know what?
Lindsay McMahon
You know, it Makes me beanie babies. Also during the pandemic, a lot of things had a moment. Like adult coloring books, I think had a moment in the pandemic. I think you might have had one, Michelle.
Michelle
I did, I did. There's like two pages colored. Yeah, that's right.
Lindsay McMahon
You shared that with us on the show. But people did, because people were kind of losing their minds, right. Having to stay home and Covid and stuff. So. But now I don't think they're. I don't think they're as popular. I'm not sure. So these tend to be things that are trendy, maybe have a peak at a certain time, maybe based on conditions going on in the world. Right. Like Covid or just, I don't know, the weather or something. Or just based on the mood of the. Of the population.
Michelle
Right, yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
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Michelle
But there are other ways that you can use hat. Something is having a moment. So we're gonna get into these as well. So this is. It can also mean that you're really connecting with someone. So it could be. It could be maybe a bit romantic sounding, but not necessarily. It just depends on the context.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle
So here's an example. Don't disturb the kids. They're having a moment. I can't believe they're getting along. Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
And that could be right there. So in the case of the non romantic example, like just siblings, right. They hate each other most of the time. My brother and I hated each other most of the time, but that occasionally we would get along. And so you're like, don't interfere. Right, Right, right.
Michelle
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Let them have their moment.
Michelle
Right. Like, yeah, Yesterday my kids were. I don't even. It was wild. My son was gonna have a friend come over and we were waiting for that friend to arrive, and so they wanted to turn on the tv. And I said, no, you're about to have a friend. I'm not turning on the tv. So then they were just. I was just on the kitchen floor just like wrestling and it was very loud. And I just kind of. I. I just sat there because there was nothing I could do. And I just kind of sat there with this like, glazed look on my face because even though it was lo. Were getting along, so I can say they're having a moment. It's like, I'll take it if. As long as they're not, you know, fighting with each other. They're wrestling, but not fighting. So it's funny, I can say they're. They're having a moment, you know, or sometimes there Are these sweet moments where then it'll be like, oh, he's reading to her. And you're like, oh my God, look at this.
Lindsay McMahon
They're having a moment, you know. Yeah. That's nice. So it's kind of when something special is happening between two people, whether it's just siblings or whether it is like a bride and a groom. So here's an example of a romantic example.
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The bride and groom were having a.
Lindsay McMahon
Moment at their table and we didn't want to ask them or we didn't want to interfere. Yeah. And I know when you're, when you get married, like they like to build in moments where you, the, the couple can go off and just be alone.
Michelle
Right.
Lindsay McMahon
If you have a wedding planner or day of planner, they'll try to get you those moments because it is a very intense day. Right?
Michelle
Yep.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. Yep.
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Lindsay McMahon
All right, Michelle, we are back. So okay, this is cool. So there's two ways so far that we've talked about having a moment. Is there a third? Kind of.
Michelle
Yeah, yeah, these are really fun. So it could also just mean you're feeling strong emotions, right? So maybe you're sentimental, could be happy, could be sad, whatever it is. So for example, you could say, oh, I'm Having a moment. These pictures really bring me back.
Lindsay McMahon
Right. Or on. A few episodes ago, we talked about how we both cry at weddings, no matter what, even though we don't think we're going to. Right.
Michelle
Yeah. Yep.
Lindsay McMahon
Having a sentimental moment or don't talk now. This is my song. I'm having a moment. Right. So maybe that means, like, memories are flooding back to you. You're just really happy to hear this song come on the radio, right?
Michelle
Yeah, exactly. Well, that reminds me, there's an episode of Seinfeld where there's, like, somebody who has a. Like, I think Elaine is dating this guy, and the song always comes on, and he kind of goes into this trance whenever he hears it. And. Yeah, there are definitely. Do you have any songs like that where you hear it and it just really hits you?
Lindsay McMahon
I feel like a lot. I have a lot of songs like that because they remind me of time periods, you know, like from the 80s and the 90s, but no specific one. Maybe some Credence Clear Water brings back specific memories, but. Yeah. What about you, Michelle? Do you have a.
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A song that brings you a moment.
Lindsay McMahon
Every time it comes on the radio?
Michelle
Yeah, well, definitely. Absolutely. One that I think of just off the top of my head is that. Do you know Gavin De Gras?
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. Oh, I think I know the Chariot song.
Michelle
Yes.
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Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle
Yeah. So that definitely, like, it brings me back to. And, you know, notice usually the songs are having a moment about our songs from, like, when you were. Like when you were maybe a teenager, early 20, you know, that brings me back to just this happy moment I had driving in my car with the windows down. I had the music turned up. The other one is have it all by Jason Mraz.
Lindsay McMahon
Because.
Michelle
Okay, when I found out I was pregnant with my son, I heard that for the first time, and I just.
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Michelle
Oh, even then, yesterday. Sorry. One more is the song Candy Cane Lane. It's by See you. It's a Christmas song, and I heard it yesterday, and I almost cried because it brought me back to when my son was born. And we would always. It was around that time of year that Christmas music was playing, and I just. Oh, God, it's. I was having a moment. Oh, yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Y. This is great. Because every single one of our listeners listening today has. Has a song, and it evokes a moment. And now you guys have the language to explain. Like, maybe you want to stop talking to the person you're talking to. Right. Maybe you just want some quiet or you just want to be present with the song.
Michelle
Feel all the feels. Right? Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
So that's good. Or you don't want them to change the radio station in the car, let's say. Right. So this is what you could say. So really good.
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But there is another meaning still.
Lindsay McMahon
Phrase just keeps on giving.
Michelle
It's really a good phrase. You know what I was thinking? I thought having a moment is having a moment, this expression. But yeah, the last way we're going to talk about today is to say you're having a moment. It could be that you're flustered or you're acting unusual. So, for example, you could say, sorry, I'm having a moment. I can't find my keys anywhere and I'm freaking out.
Lindsay McMahon
So it's not always necessarily a good thing. You just need to pay attention to the context, the tone of voice, the vocabulary. Yeah, right. Or you could say to someone, okay, you're having a moment.
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Lindsay McMahon
Right. So where you're just asking the person to back off and you can see that they're having their own thing. Right?
Michelle
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Sometimes we create our own storms of emotion.
Michelle
Yes, yes, yes, yes, exactly, Lindsay. So these are. So just to review, you know, we had. We had four. So the first one is something's getting attention. The spotlight, the weighted vest, the fidget spinner, the Taylor Swift, wicked. Then once the other way, another way.
Lindsay McMahon
So when people connect. Right, Connecting, Whether it's like siblings or friends or romantically, bride and groom, that kind of thing. Then we had the strong emotions.
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Meaning when your song comes on the.
Lindsay McMahon
Radio, we have something to say now.
Michelle
Yep. And then the last one could just be feeling flustered. You're acting unusual. I'm having a moment. I need to think. Right? Yes, do.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah.
Michelle
Do you feel that any of these are, like, you use most in your life? Which one, like, feels most natural to you? Which context do you think?
Lindsay McMahon
For me, it's probably commenting on trends. Yeah. Like, yeah, adult coloring books or having a moment, you know, that kind of thing. I like to observe society and trends and, like, why is something trendy at different times? You know, like slap bracelets had a moment back in the 90s. You know, they were cool. But why did that go away? Or what were like, what was that about?
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Michelle
Yep. Yeah, exactly. I think so, too. It's just a great way to comment on society. What's going on, the trends. I mean, I even think about, like, have you heard of K Pop Demon Hunters? Yeah, yeah, that's what I meant. I've never watched it, but it's like, every kid for Halloween, you would go around and see everyone was dressed like a K pop demon hunter.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. That's so funny.
Michelle
So, yeah, I think. I think that usage is definitely having a moment. But let's do some role plays here. We're gonna not. We're not gonna use every single context, but we're gonna do short. Two short role plays.
Lindsay McMahon
All right? So here in the first one, we are trying to set up our friends at a party. And what do we mean by setup? Are we talking.
Michelle
See if they will see what they will date?
Lindsay McMahon
Let's see. Okay.
Michelle
Because we think maybe they'll be interested in each other romantically.
Lindsay McMahon
We think we have a match. Right.
Michelle
Okay.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, my gosh. They're talking. I'm having a moment.
Michelle
Look at them. This is totally going to work.
Lindsay McMahon
Oh, my gosh.
Michelle
It looks like they're having a real moment.
Lindsay McMahon
Yes. Okay, so this is funny. This is interesting, because I was not participating in that connection. Right. We were just on the side. We were observing. So why did I say I'm having a moment?
Michelle
Because you were, like, excited about it. Maybe you. You're just like, oh, I mean, it. It's always. It's always exciting if you set someone up and things look. Are looking good.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah. And just to. You know, we always like to look at body language, too. If you're on YouTube, you can see when I said that, I put my hand on my chest. Right. Like you're seeing. You've maybe created something, you know, and you're excited about it, and there's emotion there, too. So there you go. Yeah. And then you said, it looks like they're having a real moment. Right.
Michelle
Yeah. So this would be the second context. They're. They're really connecting. So. Yeah, that would be that context there. So let's do one more, and then we'll start to head out for today. So here we are, colleagues. Okay.
Lindsay McMahon
All right.
Michelle
Okay. So we have to recognize that our cartoon ads are doing really well.
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Lindsay McMahon
All of a sudden, they're having a moment. Now, this is definitely the trend. Meaning Michelle, right?
Michelle
Yep.
Lindsay McMahon
Yep. The weighted vest, the coloring books, the cartoon ads. Right. They are trending.
Michelle
They are trending. I love it. So, yeah, this is just. You can see this one phrase has so many different ways to use it. And they're all. They're all fun. I mean, they're. They all are pretty emotional. There's emotion behind them.
Lindsay McMahon
Yeah, I agree.
Michelle
And they can all kind of lead to more connection, too.
Lindsay McMahon
100%.
Michelle
Yeah.
Lindsay McMahon
Because I think anytime that we have words to describe an emotion we're experiencing or I don't know that you see a lot of people getting into something, for example, that leads to connection. Right. Anytime we observe an emotional phenomenon going on, that's connection right there. So we have the words to do it. Now, guys, go on over now for your next step. Go listen to 25:22, what to say when you lose your train of thought. I loved how authentic and human that episode was, Michelle.
Michelle
Yes, absolutely. I think that was you and Aubry. So that is just excellent. And guys, head on over and listen to that one.
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Michelle
Anything before we go? I think we've discussed it all. Really.
Lindsay McMahon
I think this is it. That that's it right there. I mean, observe life. And if you make these observations, you articulate what's going on in your mind, what you're seeing in the world, that brings you closer to the person next to him. To you, Michelle. Right?
Michelle
Absolutely. All right, Lindsay, this was a lot of fun. Glad we talked about this today. And guys, let us know how you end up using it.
Lindsay McMahon
Excellent. Talk soon. Bye.
Michelle
All right, bye.
Aubrey Carter
Thanks for listening.
Lindsay McMahon
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Hosts: Lindsay McMahon & Michelle Kaplan
Date: December 19, 2025
This episode centers on the multifaceted English expression "to have a moment." Lindsay and Michelle explore its different meanings, real-world applications, and provide listeners with lively, relatable examples. The conversation weaves in pop culture, personal stories, and practical advice—making it both educational and entertaining for intermediate to advanced English learners. The tone is warm, humorous, and conversational, with an emphasis on connection, not perfection.
“It's not just that people are participating in it. People are also making commentary on it… People are doing the thing, talking about the thing, and making content about the thing.”
— Lindsay (05:21)
Michelle’s real-life story about letting her kids just wrestle and get along:
"I just sat there with this glazed look on my face... I can say they're having a moment. As long as they're not, you know, fighting... I'll take it!"
– Michelle (09:14)
“Every single one of our listeners… has a song, and it evokes a moment. And now you guys have the language to explain…”
— Lindsay (14:52)
"It’s not always necessarily a good thing. You just need to pay attention to the context, the tone of voice, the vocabulary."
— Lindsay (15:47)
Setting up friends at a party:
Discussing work trends:
Lindsay and Michelle encourage listeners to notice trends and emotional moments around them—and to use “having a moment” to spark authentic connection. The episode ends with a friendly, upbeat note:
“Observe life… articulate what’s going on… that brings you closer to the person next to you.” – Lindsay (20:42)
Listeners are urged to try using these variations of the phrase in real conversations, boosting both their language skills and ability to connect with others.
Next Episode Recommendation:
Go listen to episode 25:22, “What to say when you lose your train of thought.” – Lindsay (20:29)