
In honor of NYC Pride Weekend, baker Justin Burke talks about Potluck Desserts: Joyful Recipes to Share with Pride.
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David Fuerst
This is all of it. I'm David Fuerst in for Alison Stewart live from the WNYC Studios in soho. On today's show, pastry chef and baker Justin Burke is here to talk about his new cookbook Potluck Desserts Joyful Recipes to share with Pride. Kaz Alexander is one of the co chairs of NYC Pride. He joins us to talk about all of the events happening in and around the city this weekend. Plus, we round up some of the best beaches in our area. We want to know about your favorites, so keep that in mind. That's the plan. So let's get get this started with a little Fire Island History. For more than three quarters of a century, the Fire island beach town Cherry Grove has been known as an LGBTQ haven where people can get away from it all and be themselves. It's one of a handful of LGBTQ vacation spots and resorts that first became popular in the pre Stonewall era and now it's the focus of a lot of attention as part of the Cherry Grove Archives Collection summer programming. A new podcast called Queer Grove documents the area through the voices of those who kept its legacy alive. Then there's Making Miss Cherries, a documentary that follows a drag performer as he Competes in the 2022 Ms. Cherries All Stars Pageant that has its premiere next month. There's also a limited edition photo book of the Safe Haven Exhibition focused on the Cherry GR community. Joining us to discuss all of this is the host of the Queer grove podcast, making Ms. Cherry's filmmaker and Cherry Grove Archives Collections Creative Director, Parker Sargent. Welcome to all of it.
Parker Sargent
Thank you for having me on to talk about my favorite place on Earth.
David Fuerst
Favorite place on Earth? What better way to set it up than that? I mean, there's a lot going on here and you are wearing a lot of hats. All episodes of the Queer Grove Podcast are available now wherever you listen. Listen to Podcasts that premiere of Making Miss Cherries that's taking place at the Cherry Grove Community House and theater on Saturday, July 26. First of all, how did you get involved in documenting all of this history?
Parker Sargent
Well, I kind of happenstanced onto Cherry Grove and to becoming involved in the history of the space. Basically it started with my wife and I, in our transition, wanting a place to go where we could be on the beach as trans femmes. And we didn't feel comfortable doing that anywhere, you know, Long Long island beach, whatever, where people would go. We just didn't feel comfortable. And so I happened to be watching pbs. There happened to be the documentary Ocean Meets Sky. It just so happened to be right at the part about Cherry Grove. It just so happened to be talking about the invasion, which just so happened to be a week from the day I was watching it. So me and my wife, it screamed to us, we've got to go on this day and experience this event, but also be able to go on the beach and feel comfortable. And we went to the Invasion of the Pines, a wonderful event that happened.
David Fuerst
Talk about what that is. Yes.
Parker Sargent
So the Invasion of the pines started in 1976. It happens every year on July 4th. And it began as an act of protest because generally people think of Fire island as gay. They think of the whole of Fire island as gay. But there's 17 communities and only two of them are queer. So that's Cherry Grove, which originated first, and then Fire Island Pines, which is right next door to us. So we're sister neighboring communities, but very different. And that was true in the 70s. That is true in some ways today. So a very popular drag performer in Cherry Grove named Terry Warren tried to go over to a restaurant, restaurant in the Pines to have dinner. She was what we would probably today consider a trans woman. And but, you know, we can't put labels on people that didn't have those labels. But looking back and seeing how she presented herself, I feel confident that she would probably be trans today. She went over dressed in what was called drag, but it was really just her being herself. And she was refused service at the restaurant because it was said to be, we are a family establishment. She came back to the Grove, started telling her friends, very well known community member named Tom Hanson, better known as Pansy, he decided, let's go over there and sort of protest. Because it became sort of outrageous to people in Cherry Grove that another gay community would be discriminating against someone who's queer. So that is really where the invasion started, as an act of protest. Since then, it's just a massive party with hundreds of people that do every form of drag, be it frumpy or fishy. Everything is just. It's an explosion of celebration on July 4th weekend and drag and Cherry Grove and the Pines kind of coming together as a queer force.
David Fuerst
We're gonna get into more of the history. But, listeners, are you a member of the LGBTQ community? When did you first learn about Cherry Grove and its legacy as a safe haven? Have you been to Cherry Grove on Fire Island? Tell us a fond memory you may have of visiting the island. What makes Cherry Grove so special? We want to hear your stories as well. You can call or text us the number. Excuse me, I know the number. 212-433-9692. Once again, that's 212-433-WNYC. Or you can also reach out on social medialovelnyc. And yeah, more history on Cherry Grove. First of all, exactly where is it located On Fire Island.
Parker Sargent
We are in the most perfect spot on Fire Island. Fire island, of course. Right. The island itself is sort of shaped like a boomerang, and so we are right at the. The curve of that boomerang. And so we get the best sand on our beach. Beautiful pink courts, our dunes, because of we are a place of volunteerism. Everyone is very involved in Cherry Grove to keep it running, to keep all of these different activities, like the archives, but also our dun. We protect our own community by building up our own dunes. And so we have beautiful beaches that are very popular for visitors, but also for homeowners like myself. It can be very private and very communal.
David Fuerst
Well, while we're talking about the history on the island, let's talk about who lived there before European settlers arrived in the region.
Parker Sargent
Right. So we have, as we go into. Into the podcast, there's this concept of, you know, where does the story start? Even as queer people? So we can start where we start to know that queer numbers are happening in Cherry Grove. But really, to understand the space and to understand ourselves, we need to go all the way back, right? What. Who was in this space? And so we have a whole episode of the podcast where we just go back to our indigenous ro talking about the different tribes that lived on Long island that, of course, became Fire Island. Fire Island's just a sandbar off of Long Island. But that didn't happen until, I think, 1694 with some big storms. So then that became a separate beach. So we go into that in the show. Who were the first indigenous people? Then we start to go into what we call the founding families, which were the first families that began to develop Cherry Grove specifically as a more living community.
David Fuerst
Well, let's listen to a clip from the podcast. This is from an episode of Queer Grove. This is Jeremy Dennis, a photographer and an enrolled tribal member of the Shinnecock Indian Nation in Southampton Explaining that during the summers, native people would canoe from place to place and swim and fish while living as nomads in the European.
Parker Sargent
Eyes, I think it was a good thing that we were nomadic because wherever we were at in any given moment, it was seen as empty and free for the taking. But for us, it was giving the environment an opportunity to replenish and regrow. And we would never harvest anything until depletion or until extinction. And so that was something that as soon as Europeans arrived, it became a problem. Before Europeans arrived, we would just have hundreds and thousands of square acres of land to wander and kind of harvest whatever we needed. And it would always be there and we'd be familiar with those lands.
David Fuerst
And Parker, this is a history you really delve into in the podcast.
Parker Sargent
I think it would be irresponsible for us not to. And while I am the host of the podcast, it is crafted by the entire Cherry Grove archives collection board, as is everything we do. We all, as a committee, kind of decide what stories do we want to tell, how do we tell them. And so it was certainly important to us. Whenever we have an exhibition, we always make land acknowledgments. But when we decided to do this podcast, it was really important to include that part of our history and, and sort of deal with our queerness is not solely about being queer. It is about these communities that become ours. Where do we get them from and why? And so then how do we respect the space when we continue to use it?
David Fuerst
We're speaking with Parker Sargent, host of the Queer Grove Podcast, and we'd love to hear from you. The number to call once again is. Oh. Oh my goodness, I lost the number. This is terrible. The number should be written on my hand at all times. The number is 212-433-9692. And let's hear from Allison. Calling in now from North Stamford. Welcome to all of it.
Allison
Oh, thank you so much.
David Fuerst
Did you want to talk about a memory or visit going to Cherry Grove perhaps The first time you went?
Allison
The first time I went, I was in high school. I grew up on Long island and I came out in high school actually my senior year and this was back in 1980, 81. And we used to have to go to private clubs and Cherry Grove was spoken about and it was a safe haven for all of us. A place where we could go to be ourselves and enjoy each other's company and, and have fun and be, you know, typical 20 year olds and, and, or teenagers, you know, and rented homes there. And I Just, you know, it was an amazing experience for me and very freeing, and it helped me to become myself.
David Fuerst
Hmm. Did it feel like, you know, what we've been saying, a safe haven for you?
Allison
Absolutely. You know, I. Even in the bars, we were raided, you know, in clubs on Long Island. I was arrested, followed by a police officer just coming out of a club. Thank God. I hadn't had any drinks or anything. So, you know, we experienced those types of things. But at Cherry Grove, we did not. Not until, like, in the 2000s sometime. There was some of that when there was more of a police presence, when more straight people started coming, thinking it was anything goes, and started taking advantage, unfortunately.
David Fuerst
Well, Allison, thank you so much for joining the conversation today. And, Parker, what about some of those thoughts?
Parker Sargent
Cherry Grove is a safe haven. It's been a safe haven since the 1940s for queer people. And a lot of times when I'm interviewing people, I like to ask them, do you think that we still need Cherry Grove as a queer safe haven? Because a lot of people perceive that as queer people, we can be queer anywhere. I think we're really seeing the reality of that in the last year. So it is still needed for queer people, but also for any marginalized group. People of color, women, trans people. We still need a space where we are protected and we are surrounded by our community. So the same thing that people were experiencing in the 40s, the same things that she was just talking about experiencing when she came out from Long island as a teenager, it's still there. And people are still having that same freedom and liberation feeling when they get to the space.
David Fuerst
I'd like to. We're getting a lot of calls and texts right now. Here's a question that comes up on this one text. Can the guest talk about the terminology queer? Many, many Cherry Grovers are deeply uncomfortable and skeptical of that term. They say, we prefer the term lesbian. So can you address that term?
Parker Sargent
Right. So I think that this is an ongoing conversation that we certainly do have in Cherry Grove, quite often just one on one conversations. But I think a larger conversation, when we went into even naming the podcast, it would be what would we call it?
David Fuerst
And Right, because that's right in the name that there.
Parker Sargent
Exactly. And. And there are people, when they see it, they go, whoa. Because queer really was. It was hate speech. And it was. Anytime you heard that word, it hurt someone. I think that that has shifted so dramatically with the way that people are identifying now. So a lot of people in the LGBTQIA spectrum are not just elle they're not just G. I am a T. I spent a lot of time as a G. I still get credit for all the work I did. So we are all part of the spectrum together. And so how do we identify ourselves without doing that whole Alphabet soup every time we talk about our community? For most young people, it is to use the word queer because it encompasses all of us. It's it. Queer is everyone. And maybe it's a reclaiming of the word. Right? So taking something often times marginalized people will do that. They'll reclaim a term. And so that is very much the spirit of why we use the word queer, because it is meant to encompass everyone. Because it's not just about the gay men, it's not just about the lesbians. It's about all the people who are in those spaces in between.
David Fuerst
And you sound very open to the discussion as it continues to evolve and other viewpoints emerge.
Parker Sargent
For sure. This is how we, especially in Cherry Grove, operate our community. It's all, like I said, very volunteerism. We're all very involved. And so we talk with each other on the boards, we talk with each other at meetings and unfortunately, Facebook too.
David Fuerst
Well, we're going to continue this discussion in just a moment here on all of it. We're speaking with Park Parker Sargent, Cherry Grove Archives, excuse me, Archives Collection, Creative director, host of the Queer Grove podcast, also maker of the making Ms. Cherry's documentary. We continue this conversation next here on WNYC. If you want to join the discussion, 212-433-9692. This is all of it on WNYC. I'm David Furri, first in for Alison Stewart. We're talking about the history of Cherry Grove on Fire island and speaking with Parker Sargent, the creative director of the Cherry Grove Archives Collection. And we're also taking your calls. The number 212-433-9692. And Parker, I have to have you respond to this text here. This is what it says. I've been going to Queer Fire island for over a decade, multiple times this summer. It is a singular place, perhaps globally, where all things are homonormative as opposed to heteronormative. Academic words aside, it's fun, it's weird, it's beautiful. One thing I'd like to add to your discussion, the two gay destinations, Cherry Grove and the Pines, are sometimes at odds with one another, but are mostly symbionic sisters. Is there any. Oh, this is how they finish. If, if there are any hoity toity Pines boys listening. Cherry Grove is Awesome. And we should show it more respect. Signed, Kyle from New York.
Parker Sargent
Hi, Kyle. So, yeah, Kyle's right. We're queer. And that is why, again, we use the word queer. Often people look at the Pines as a certain kind of. It is gay. Actually, that's the best way to describe it. It is gay male Orient. Cherry Grove is not. It is largely populated by lesbians, drag queens, trans people, wonderful straight community members that have been there for years. We really are more of a mix. But I will say all those Hoity Toity Pines boys know that because they all come over on Friday night to go to the underwear party and have fun and come to Floyd's on Saturday morning to get breakfast. So people come to Cherry Grove if they're staying in the Pines. We are. We are where you want to be if you want to have a good time.
David Fuerst
It all gets resolved over breakfast. That's how it works. Well, thank you for that. Let's take another call. Amy in Manhattan. Welcome to all of it.
Amy
Hi, thanks for having me. I was just calling with a memory. I've been going to Cherry Grove with a dear group of good friends for over a decade now. Every summer we stay in the same house that we sublet from a group of gay men that are wonderful, have become friends. And so I've been through, going out there, through all the stages of life, really partying it up and having more calm times lately. But I love what you said, Parker, about we're all on the spectrum together. It really is like all different versions of queer people being themselves and finding a place of belonging and joy and relief from just more constrained spaces, even from even being in the city. But my favorite memory is three years ago on Pride. Typically I want to be in New York City in Manhattan for the Pride Parade for the Queer Liberation March. I have a seven year old, she was four. And we decided to stay in Cherry Grove over actual Pride weekend. And it's actually quite quiet because most of the queers are in the city doing all the parties and they have a really sweet little parade in Cherry Grove that was my favorite Pride by far, with kids and elders and the local fire department and just, it's, it's, it is so charming and, and wonderful and I highly recommend it. So, Amy, it's not a lot of family friendly opportunities there, I mean, meaning for kids. And this was just perfect.
David Fuerst
Amy, thank you for that. And have you ever seen that parade, Parker?
Parker Sargent
I am going to be part of it this weekend for the Cherry Grove archives collection. Yeah, we do it every Year, because we don't have cars. We have little go karts. The businesses do, and they allow us to commandeer them, and we dress them up and we parade all through town. Everything in Cherry Grove is a fundraiser. As I said, it's all volunteerism to keep everything going. So, you know, even that is a way for us to kind of get people involved and to get people excited about the community. And the more they care about the community, the more they take care of it, the more they come back and the more chances we have at keeping this a queer, safe space.
David Fuerst
And we're going to take another call in just a moment. But. But for those who have never been to the island, can you describe the look, the architecture for us?
Parker Sargent
So, again, each community is very different. I don't spend a lot of time in the other communities. I've visited them to do lectures about Cherry Grove history, and they can look similar but very different to us. Other communities are more regimented, more traditional, cedar shake sort of looking beach houses. Cherry Grove, again, wonderfully unique space. So we have small houses, but they're all different, and everyone names their houses, and that's been a tradition for years. They make house signs and have big parties. You know, come to west side Story, and it's just part of our culture to. To have that unique flair. So we're kind of like this jewel box of beach houses.
David Fuerst
And we talked about some of the history earlier, but how did this hamlet on Fire island develop a reputation as a getaway spot for the LGBTQ community?
Parker Sargent
You know, long story short, I think it's just that there were theater people in the 40s who were finding a space to come out in Ocean beach and other communities. And then Cherry Grove itself started to develop because of the hotel. And so I think what the queer visiting people found in Cherry Grove was that there wasn't as much ruling and maintenance of that straightness on the other side of the island. And so they just started to come to Cherry Grove more and more, and it just grew. It became a haven for people each season, theater people, because it's so close to the city. And of course, in the 70s, it just exploded. There were just such. It was such a place of creativity and sexuality. And so naturally, it just. That's really, I feel like where it became the folklore, that folklore that is part of being queer. There's Fire Island. There's always Fire island in your mindset. Somewhere it comes up. And so I think that's because of.
David Fuerst
The 70s, we're talking about Fire island. And Memories of Cherry Grove right now with Parker Sargent, the creative director of the Cherry Grove Archives Collection. And let's take another call. 212-433-9692. Max in Chelsea. Welcome to all of it.
Max
Hi, David. Hi, Parker. Thanks for taking my call. And Happy Pride, everybody. I am not the kind of gay who goes to the Pines. I'm the kind of gay who goes to Cherry Grove. I'm not hoity toity either are my friends. And I started going back in 2017, and I have to tell you, the first thing that struck me was a sense of community. When you walk the streets of Hell's Kitchen or different neighborhoods, there's a certain pretension that you feel. But when you walk those little boardwalks, those charming boardwalks of Cherry Grove, everyone, regardless of time of day, you look each other in the eye, you say, hello, good afternoon, and there's this sense of community and love that you don't really feel. You kind of wish you could bring it back here to the city. And with regards to safety, we definitely still need a fire island for queer people because there's a certain sense of everyday awareness. When you're holding your hand with your partner, if you're walking anywhere in the city, you're always kind of looking over your shoulder. You have spatial awareness. When I'm on fire island, particularly Cherry Grove, I could just get lost and, you know, rub suntan lotion on his back or, you know, do a little kiss here and not wonder, did someone look? Is someone gonna say something? Is someone gonna do something? It's just liberating. And you could finally just let your guard down. So Cherry Grove is definitely a special place. And we also named our dog Cherry.
David Fuerst
I mean, letting your guard down, that's. That's an incredible feeling.
Parker Sargent
As a trans woman, I do not feel safe in America. I live on Long Island. I live in a pretty nice area. But there is still a sense of discomfort that didn't exist maybe two or three years ago. People really started to be more open and more embracing, and you can feel that closing those doors, closing those doors of empathy and generosity. And all winter, I had a very somber winter, of course, as most people did, I think, in America and most people listening to this program and. And when I finally got to go back and open our house in April and be around queer community, even though there was few of us out there, it felt so wonderful. It just felt so great. And every weekend when I get to go back, it's such a cherished privilege that I get to have of safety.
David Fuerst
I want to take another call. This from Claude in Manhattan who has a comment that I really want to bring into this discussion. Claude, welcome to all this of it.
Allison
Yes, nice to be here with you. First of all, I want to endorse the idea of queer as nomenclature, which I've always tended towards. I'm a 35 year resident in the Pines and I just want to mention that I really love Cherry Grove and I go there often. And I think that some of the comments that came on today are not up to date with what the Pines has become. And it goes both ways. You know, people in Cherry Grove kind of complain about the Pines and people in the Pines complain about Cherry Grove, that they're this way, they're that way. We're one community. We should stop that.
Parker Sargent
That earlier, what I mentioned, what's so great about the Invasion of the Pines is that it really is a representation of that, that unity. Because for whatever reasons, and it's changed over the years since the Pines was created, whatever reasons people will have through the decades of, oh, we're different for this reason or that reason, we are queer again, we're, we're all in that spectrum. And you know, I think calling Hoity Toity, maybe that's a little disrespectful. I think that we are all queer and I revoke my Hoity Toity statement. But to say they are different communities and they exist in different ways, but they coexist with each other. And I think for Fire island, if you want to have the Fire island experience when you're young, it kind of starts in the Pines and then you visit the Grove. We have less houses to rent, so there's less opportunity for people to come in on a, on such a large scale as the Pines. So I think most people start in the Pines and then they fall in love with the Grove. But there's always going to be a symbiotic relationship between the two communities.
David Fuerst
And let's hear it for both. As we're speaking with Parker Sargent right now, let's take. Oh, let's hear from Lynn in Parsippany, New Jersey. Welcome. Do you have a question or a memory?
Lynn
I have a lot. I have a memory. I have a great memory of being there. I was there in the 80s with my boyfriend. Can you hear me?
David Fuerst
Oh, yes. Hello. Yes.
Lynn
Okay. And we're straight. We're both straight. We had a boat in the Pines and we would, you know, go to Cherry Grove on Saturday night and have a great time at the bars and the dance clubs. And I didn't feel out about it, that I do belong. And I love the fact that these couples could walk and show affection and not be afraid. And it was just a wonderful experience. I mean, Invasion of the Pines, just amazing. You know, it was kind of like a Mardi Gras atmosphere. And if I had to say anything about the differences between the two towns, I would say Cherry Grove was like the Village, and maybe the Pines was the Upper west side. But it was just great experience. And I liked the fact that. Excuse me, my voice is a little friendly.
David Fuerst
Yeah. But I think you're bringing up some beautiful thoughts there and touching on some of what we've heard today. Right. Safe Haven, a place where you can let your guard down. And using the language we just heard, not be afraid.
Parker Sargent
When I interviewed Joel Kim Booster, the writer and star of the film Fire island, he told me about how his husband and he joke that when they want to have a kid, they'll leave the Pines and come to Cherry Grove. And it's because we kind of. I said we're kind of like the suburbs, the gay suburbs of Fire island, because we have that mixture and everybody there feels safe. And that's been happening since the 1940s and the 1950s. That's why we created this beautiful book, Safe Haven, that documents that early time in Cherry Grove. And you can get the book by visiting our website, www.ctarchives.org.
David Fuerst
Well, you have a lot going on and. And as we're wrapping up right now, can you just touch on a couple of these projects? There's a film, there's a podcast. Just lay it all out there for us.
Parker Sargent
Sure. So our really only big event that we're doing this summer is our annual or bi annual archive show. So that's a whole weekend where you can come, you can see displays about different subjects of Cherry Grove. We're talking about the fire department, we're talking about shows that we've done, we're talking about house blessings, and you can look at photo albums. People are very tactile, we've noticed, so we love to bring out the photo albums and let people go through those. And we. That weekend we'll also be premiering our film Making Miss Cherries, a documentary about the drag competition that happens in Cherry Grove. That'll be a big thing. You can either join us in the theater in Cherry Grove or you can live stream it with us again. That's available on our website. And the other thing that we'll be doing all season is Having walking tour exhibitions of different artists. We're featuring three different artists, photography, who have contributed to the archives and also to the history of Cherry Grove. That is Warren Boyd Wexler and Susan Kravitz.
David Fuerst
You are busy. And all episodes of your podcast Queer Grove.
Parker Sargent
There's more to come. Actually. There's seven, I think are released now, but we have many more to come. Actually.
David Fuerst
This is an oral history. This is different from film and book and everything else. This is a completely different oral history of the Grove.
Parker Sargent
And really taking from the 10 years of interviews that I've done with people, usually I'm doing a film about something specific like, like in the Meat Rack, which is about the meat Rack. And so I'm only gonna pluck out a little bit of an interview with somebody, but I interview them for like an hour, especially if they're older members of the community. So I get so much information from them. So this podcast was a way for all of us on the board to sit down and go, what is the story we want to tell about Cherry Grove? And then use all these voices to tell the story.
David Fuerst
Well, I feel like I'm keeping you from all of your work that, that you have to do. Thank you so much for joining us today. I'm sorry, so sorry if I didn't get to your call. I know there's a, a lot of other calls coming through. We've been talking about the legacy of Fire island with Queer Grove podcast host, Making Miss Cherries filmmaker, and Cherry Grove Archives collection creative director, Parker Sargent. Thank you for joining us.
Parker Sargent
Thank you for letting me talk about Cherry Grove.
David Fuerst
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Podcast Summary: All Of It
Episode: Crowd-Pleasing Desserts to Share with Pride
Release Date: June 27, 2025
Introduction
In this engaging episode of All Of It, hosted by David Fuerst in place of Alison Stewart, listeners are invited to delve into the rich history and vibrant culture of Cherry Grove, a longstanding LGBTQ haven on Fire Island. The episode features insightful conversations with Parker Sargent, the host of the Queer Grove podcast, filmmaker of Making Miss Cherries, and Creative Director of the Cherry Grove Archives Collection. Through a blend of historical exploration and personal anecdotes, the episode underscores the significance of Cherry Grove as a sanctuary and cultural hub for the queer community.
Exploring Cherry Grove's Legacy
Parker Sargent kicks off the discussion by sharing his personal connection to Cherry Grove. He recounts how his and his wife's journey as trans femmes led them to discover Cherry Grove, particularly after watching the PBS documentary Ocean Meets Sky which highlighted the community's inclusive spirit. This serendipitous exposure sparked their participation in the annual "Invasion of the Pines," a vibrant celebration that began as a protest against discrimination within the Fire Island communities.
Parker Sargent [02:54]: "We got to go on this day and experience this event, but also be able to go on the beach and feel comfortable."
The "Invasion of the Pines" originated in 1976 as a response to Cherry Grove residents witnessing discrimination in neighboring Fire Island Pines. Over the decades, it has evolved into a massive celebration featuring diverse forms of drag and communal festivities, symbolizing unity and resilience within the LGBTQ community.
Historical Insights and Indigenous Roots
The conversation takes a profound turn as Parker emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the indigenous history of Fire Island. He introduces Jeremy Dennis, a Shinnecock Indian Nation member, who discusses the nomadic lifestyles of native tribes before European settlement. This segment highlights the sustainable practices of the indigenous people and the profound impact colonization had on their way of life.
Jeremy Dennis [09:14]: "We would never harvest anything until depletion or until extinction. And so that was something that as soon as Europeans arrived, it became a problem."
Parker underscores the responsibility of preserving and respecting this layered history, ensuring that Cherry Grove's narrative encompasses both its queer heritage and its indigenous roots.
Listener Stories: Personal Memories and Experiences
The episode becomes interactive as listeners call in to share their personal connections to Cherry Grove. These testimonies offer a mosaic of experiences that illustrate Cherry Grove's role as a safe haven.
Allison from North Stamford [11:22]: Shares her first visit in high school during her senior year in 1980, highlighting Cherry Grove as a liberating space that fostered her growth and self-acceptance.
Amy from Manhattan [19:42]: Describes a family-friendly Pride weekend in Cherry Grove, emphasizing its inclusive and charming atmosphere that contrasts with the more hectic city celebrations.
Max from Chelsea [24:37]: Expresses the deep sense of community and safety in Cherry Grove, where individuals can express affection freely without fear of judgment or prejudice.
Lynn from Parsippany, NJ [29:18]: Recounts joyful memories from the 1980s, appreciating Cherry Grove's welcoming environment for both queer and straight couples.
These stories collectively highlight Cherry Grove's enduring legacy as a place of joy, acceptance, and community support.
Terminology and Community Dynamics
A significant part of the discussion addresses the evolving terminology within the LGBTQ community, particularly the use of the term "queer." Parker acknowledges the discomfort some members feel towards the term, explaining its reclamation and inclusive intent.
Parker Sargent [14:51]: "Queer is everyone. And maybe it's a reclaiming of the word."
This dialogue reflects the dynamic nature of community language and the importance of embracing terms that foster unity and inclusivity.
Additionally, Parker touches upon the relationship between Cherry Grove and Fire Island Pines, describing them as "symbiotic sisters." While each community has its unique character—Pines being predominantly gay male-oriented and Cherry Grove more diverse in its queer representation—they complement and support each other, enhancing the overall Fire Island experience.
Current Projects and Future Endeavors
Parker provides an overview of ongoing projects aimed at preserving and celebrating Cherry Grove's heritage:
Annual Archives Show: A weekend event featuring displays on various aspects of Cherry Grove's history, including the fire department, local shows, and house blessings. Interactive photo albums allow visitors to engage tangibly with the past.
Premiere of Making Miss Cherries: A documentary focusing on the 2022 Ms. Cherries All Stars Pageant, set to premiere at the Cherry Grove Community House and theater on July 26.
Walking Tour Exhibitions: Showcasing the works of artists like Warren Boyd, Wexler, and Susan Kravitz, who have contributed to both the archives and the community's artistic landscape.
Release of Safe Haven Photo Book: A limited edition collection highlighting Cherry Grove's role as a sanctuary for the queer community.
Ongoing Queer Grove Podcast Episodes: With seven episodes already released and more on the way, the podcast serves as an oral history archive, capturing personal narratives and collective memories.
Parker Sargent [33:00]: "This podcast was a way for all of us on the board to sit down and go, what is the story we want to tell about Cherry Grove?"
These initiatives demonstrate a proactive approach to safeguarding Cherry Grove's cultural heritage and fostering community engagement.
Conclusion
This episode of All Of It offers a comprehensive exploration of Cherry Grove's pivotal role within the LGBTQ community. Through historical recounting, personal stories, and discussions on contemporary projects, Parker Sargent effectively conveys the essence of Cherry Grove as a bastion of safety, creativity, and inclusivity. Listeners gain a profound appreciation for the community's past struggles and triumphs, as well as its ongoing efforts to preserve and celebrate its unique culture.
For those interested in learning more or participating in upcoming events, Parker directs listeners to the Cherry Grove Archives Collection website: www.ctarchives.org.
Notable Quotes
Parker Sargent [02:21]: "Cherry Grove is a safe haven. It's been a safe haven since the 1940s for queer people."
Allison [12:36]: "At Cherry Grove, we did not [experience police raids] until the 2000s... It was a wonderful experience for me and very freeing."
Max [24:37]: "When I'm on Fire Island, particularly Cherry Grove, I could just rub suntan lotion on his back or do a little kiss here and not wonder... It's just liberating."
Parker Sargent [16:30]: "Queer is everyone. And maybe it's a reclaiming of the word."
Lynn [29:32]: "We had a boat in the Pines and we would... go to Cherry Grove on Saturday night and have a great time... I did not feel out about it, that I do belong."
All Of It continues to be a vital platform for exploring and understanding the multifaceted nature of culture and its communities, celebrating diversity, and fostering meaningful conversations.