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The Axcos reporting that you might open as soon as tomorrow could happen.
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But Iran says it still needs guarantees from the US as they negotiate with Oman. Where does that leave the conflict? And is a deal actually close? And how women can lead the fight against authoritarianism. Journalist Linda Robinson joins me on her new book spotlighting the female leaders on the front lines of the fight for democracy. Then the rise of plastic survival surgery and why we should be worried. I speak to the New Yorker's Gia Tolentino about the beauty standards changing our psyche.
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Journalist Idris Kalun examines New York City Mayor Zoran Mamdani's affordability agenda. Welcome to the program, everyone. I'm Bianna Golodrigo, New York, sitting in for Christiane Amanpour. Once again, confusion reigns over the Strait of Hormuz. President Trump promised again this week the vital shipping lane will open, quote, very soon. Take from that what you will. The problem is the US Is not negotiating directly with Iran. Tehran is speaking to Oman and says that a deal on the Strait is close, but that agreement would not automatically reopen the strait. First they want the US to meet certain guarantees. Let's go to our correspondent in the region for more on this. Jeremy diamond is joining me from Tel Aviv. So Jeremy, Iran says that they are close to reaching a deal with Oman. What are these guarantees that they're demanding from the White House before that happens?
Jeremy Diamond
Well, it seems like these negotiations between Iran and Oman are really going to change the pre war status quo as it relates to the Strait of Hormuz. In fact, so much so that you're now having maritime shipping groups warning that any potential imposition of tolls and fees going forward, particularly if it was agreed to by not only Iran, but Oman as well, and perhaps even some international UN Related organizations, then that could really create a very dangerous status quo, not only for the Strait of Hormuz, but potentially for other shipping lanes around the world. But the real question now is whether or not this potential deal that could emerge over the Strait of Hormuz between Iran and Oman, whether it will be something that will be acceptable enough to the United States that President Trump can come out and proclaim that the Strait of Hormuz is open once again, even if it is in a very different way than it was pre war. But that that effect effectively allows both of these sides to go back to the ceasefire that had previously been agreed to and then proceed with negotiations on the many other points, including, obviously, the nuclear point that ultimately need to be negotiated between the United States and Iran. But it's also important to note that the Iranians said even a deal with Oman over the Strait of Hormuz won't necessarily be enough to get that shipping lane back open. Iran has said that the United States must also end its naval blockade on Iranian ports and remove sanctions that had been reimposed after the ceasefire began to fall apart. So a lot of complicating factors here, including obviously the fact that it doesn't seem like the US And Iran are actually speaking to each other right now, despite some of what President Trump and other American officials have suggested, but a very complex situation, one where we're starting to see a potential off ramp that's presenting itself. But again, one that could really change the status quo for a long time to come.
Bianna Golodrigo
Regardless of where things land, Iran clearly wants to ratify control over the Strait of Hormuz, and that's something that they didn't have control over February 27th before this war began. Jeremy, let me ask you about another point of contention there, and that is the fragile state of talks between Israel and Lebanon. They were scheduled to happen in Rome, but over the last 24 hours, Israel conducted an operation in Lebanon saying that they were targeting Hezboll. The result was that two Israeli soldiers were killed. Where do things stand at this point? Are these talks ongoing in Rome at this point?
Jeremy Diamond
Well, yesterday it seems like they did get derailed by events on the ground in Lebanon. Today, those negotiations appear to be back on between Israeli and Lebanese government officials, an indication of the political will, perhaps, on both sides to actually move forward with these negotiations. Also, of course, of the US Pressure being brought to bear on the Israeli government to pursue this negotiating track. What happened yesterday is that the Israeli military said that two of its soldiers were killed, four were seriously wounded when they entered what the military described as a booby trapped building, an improvised explosive device going off. Not clear when that explosive device was actually placed in that building, but Israel called it a, quote, blatant violation of the ceasefire and proceeded to carry out strikes on the Lebanese city of Tyre and several other villages in southern Lebanon. At least eight people have been wounded by those strike, according to Lebanon's news agency. But the talks appear to be back on track today. Again, important to note that Hezbollah is not part of these negotiations and they have disavowed them completely. In fact, what these negotiations have produced so far are a few pilot zones in southern Lebanon where the Israeli military has withdrawn from a couple of villages in southern Lebanon. The Lebanese military has then gone in and the goal is that they would hold those areas and prevent Hezbollah from re entrenching themselves there. Lebanon is trying to get additional areas to be included as part of this pilot program. Israel wants to see proof that Lebanon is actually effective at keeping Hezbollah out of these areas. That's the primary issue being negotiated right now. No indication as of yet of whether or not there is progress there, but certainly the talks are back on track,
Bianna Golodrigo
at least somewhat reassuring. Jeremy Dimon from Tel Aviv, thank you so much. Well, there is no denying that authoritarianism is growing and with the rise of strong men comes a surge in misogyny. Our next guest argues that attacks on women and attacks on democracy are deeply intertwined. But there are leaders fighting back from Taiwan to Eastern Europe to Barbados. In her new book, Women in Power, foreign policy scholar Linda Robinson profiles the female leaders fighting for democracy, and she joins me from Washington. A very thoughtful and interesting argument you're making in this book, Linda. Welcome to the program. And you met with, we should note, in writing this book and profiled a number of very, very influential female world leaders. But let's start with the central claim of this book, and that is the decline of democracy has coincided with stalling gains for women leaders around the world. And you're saying that's not a coincidence but rather a feature. Autocratic leadership. That's quite a provocative thesis. What led you to it?
Linda Robinson
Well, thank you, Bian. I'm delighted to be with you. And let me just explain very briefly that more countries today are authoritarian than democratic. And this trend has been ongoing and part of it is a decline in representation and rights. So they are intrinsically linked. I'LL just mention what's happening to women's leadership in parliaments around the world. Their share has stalled at 27%. They're half of the population, so that's far below parity. It's even worse in the case of women presidents and prime ministers where their numbers have dropped. There are only 25 of them in the world today. And the number of women in cabinet positions has also dropped. So the reason I argue these are connected is part of this authoritarian wave actually has an explicitly anti woman narrative to it. They seek really to embrace the idea of women going back to home, to the home, concentrating on family. There's a very strong normalization of violent and punitive measures against women, including the denial of the right to vote for women, that it should be the male head of household. So you see this coming out in every region of the world and including in the US So let's talk about
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some of these women who you profile. And let's start with Maya Sandhu. Not just because I was born in Moldova and have interviewed Maya a number of times as well. She is very impressive and has overcome quite a few hurtful hurdles from next door there in Russia with Vladimir Putin, whether it's energy, blackmail, disinformation campaigns, repeated Russian violations of Moldovan airspace. In fact, it is the Ukrainian army that's combating Russia now for five years. That is also the last line of defense for Moldova. All of this as she is trying to push through European accession into the EU and fight corruption at home. What is she doing that's working?
Linda Robinson
Yes, thank you so much. And this is really the flip side of the assault on women in politics. Women are fighting back and women are fighting not only for themselves but for democracy. And there's no better case than Maya Sandu. And I do know of your background. I'm happy that I was able to go to Moldova, travel around, meet with ministers and of course spend time with her. And she's really been, I would say, the the preeminent woman leader fighting back against authoritarianism. Russian hybrid warfare, as you mentioned, has been leveled at her for years. She's won two elections as president and she's really solidified the defenses of the country by starting the first cybersecurity agency, passing disinformation laws, cleaning up corruption with judicial reform. And she's also worked against Russia's efforts to steal the vote through massive fraud and divide the population by working in the Russian speaking minorities, using the Russian Orthodox Church, all of these kinds of hybrid warfare tactics. And she really has prevailed and she's just opened talks to join the European Union. And that's the ultimate security guarantee for a tiny country like Moldova. And I think that they're on track by the end of her term, very likely to win accession to Europe, which she has built ties with reoriented trade, energy from Russia over to Europe. So they're well on the way. Though it's by no means a done deal because Russia continues to attack them.
Bianna Golodrigo
Yeah, a tiny landlocked country there, one of the poorest in Europe, and nonetheless, she perseveres. Another country I'd like to raise here is Iceland. They have topped global rankings for gender equality for more than a decade. It's produced multiple women leaders across the political spectrum there. Earlier this year, Christiane spoke with Iceland's president, Hatla Thomas, and here's what she said about this phenomenon.
Ari Shapiro
I hope the next phase for us in Iceland will be about bringing boys and men to the table even more actively. And it's still a fact in the world we live today that over 90% of all positions, be it head of state or CEOs or chairmans of boards, they're still men. So even if women have made great progress, and in Iceland, we certainly have, we have not closed the gender gap anywhere in the world, and we are very far from a gender balance in leadership the world over.
Bianna Golodrigo
What do you think of her argument that male allyship is so crucial and starting as young as possible is the best avenue?
Linda Robinson
Yes, I think this is a very important recent development. And I've been to the Reykjavik Global Forum, which is a wonderful forum, where they're bringing this issue up and trying to bring men around the table. Because the thing about women's equality and gender equality is it's not a zero sum game. It's really about bringing women in rather than who loses. And this is, I think, the need to have male allies to support that goal. And my hope is that all husbands, fathers, brothers, sons can embrace that for their family members who happen to be female. I've written many books about war, special forces and other national security topics. I hope the men who read those books will give them this book a read and see just how important it is to have the women and what they're contributing, not just for women, but for their entire societies.
Bianna Golodrigo
Someone else who you profiled who has also been fighting Russian hybrid warfare, whether it's when she was the first female Prime Minister of Estonia and now the EU's top diplomat, is Kaya Kallas. She has made a name for herself not only Pushing back against Russian aggression, but also in defense of Ukraine and democracy throughout Europe. But some member states are now proposed to stripping her of some of her foreign policy powers and are advocating or arguing to handle it themselves directly. Is what's happening here a case that you were highlighting about gender? I would say priorities and men wanting to call the shots, or is this a typical political scuffle amongst leaders?
Linda Robinson
Well, I would like to mention her standout role as Prime Minister of Estonia, but to answer briefly, what's going on in her current role as the foreign policy chief of the European Union? I think they're trying to look for a more streamlined approach as Europe becomes clearly the leader of the fight for democracy. And she's been very thoughtful, I think, in her responses that the EU can certainly improve its processes. There is some tussle back and forth between who should be leading on what issues. But she has really led foremost, as you mentioned, in pushing back against Russia's aggression. She led when she led Estonia, they were the highest contributor to Ukraine per gdp. And she also was defending the need for Europe from very early days to coordinate and bolster its defense and fight for accountability for Russia's war crimes. So she has been unrelenting in the need to have a strong defense against aggression. And she's been very clear, partly because the Baltic countries are on the front line. Her mother and grandmother were both deported to Siberia and she is, I think, a leader for the next decade. Shewhatever role she occupies, she speaks her mind. And I have to say, as a center right politician, and I looked at leaders across the spectrum, she was adamant when she formed her cabinet that she would have 50% women in the cabinet. She also championed gender equal marriage, the second country in Eastern Europe to do so. So it shows that you can be strong on defense, but also for gender equality. There's no contradiction.
Bianna Golodrigo
What about some of the conservative female leaders that we've seen have prominent roles in foreign policy, not only in their own countries, but on the global stage, and that's either the new Prime Minister of Japan, Giorgia Meloni in Italy as well. How do they rank?
Linda Robinson
Yes, well, I think Takechi Sanaida, take the Japanese first woman prime minister first. She came out right away in defense of Taiwan against saber rattling from China. She's been very clear about that as a conservative to help defend the region against Chinese encroachment and their constant aggression in region. Also, she's, I think, not known as a feminist, but she's standing up. She did do a joint press conference with Giorgia Meloni, talking about the need to have European defense and aid to Ukraine. So I think you see these leaders forming common cause. In the case of Giorgia Meloni, the Italian Prime Minister, she's a very interesting character, certainly not a feminist, but she has stood up, she was attacked by deepfake porn, the ways of delegitimizing world leaders who are women. And she has also, I think, definitively broken with Trump and his demeaning behavior towards women leaders. So she's evolved from being a Euro skeptic to being pro Europe for aid to Ukraine and sanctions on Russia. So I think she is a leader in evolution. Although you do point out there are are right wing leaders who are women. And I certainly don't argue in my book that women are all good leaders or all democrats, but certainly as a proportion of the population, as half of the population, they have as much governing talent as men do. And I think in many cases they're change makers who rise up in protest movements and calls for defeating aggression and corruption.
Bianna Golodrigo
Changemakers in multiple ways, whether it's having a baby while in office, as was the case with Jacinda Adern in New Zealand, and also when you look at female leaders speaking out about being groped, something so many women around the world encounter on a daily basis, and something that even Mexico's new female president, Claudia Sheinbaum, couldn't escape. And she spoke out against that as well. You close your book with Mia Motley, and she is the Prime Minister of Barbados, the first woman to hold that job. She really became a champion of climate change. How big of a role has she played on that front?
Linda Robinson
Thank you so much for raising both those points because women are much more likely to speak out against unacceptable behavior now than before, and that is absolutely critical. Mia Motley, I close the book with her. I think she's a powerful case of leadership from the global south and their existential challenge really is climate change and inadequate and inequitable financing for combating it. And she formed the Bridgetown Initiative, won significant changes in international financial practices and helped to reverse the current situation where in the developing countries they're a net exporter of capital rather than receiving financing. And as the front line against climate change, we need to do better. She has also been a champion of international governance reform at the UN and elsewhere. And I think we'll have her voice on the world stage for quite a while to come.
Bianna Golodrigo
So you cover women. Asia, Latin America, Africa, the Caribbean, Europe. A glaring omission, of course. The United States in the final closing seconds here, are you more optimistic about the United States electing its first female leader?
Linda Robinson
Well, I did have planned a Kamala Harris president chapter, but that did not come to pass. I think that we have women governors of our states at a higher number than before. There's a very low and dropping percentage of Republican candidates for office in the Congress. That is, I think, the really severe weakness. And we need a new generation of leaders willing to step up and serve. I think we'll eventually get there. But the US has always been in the middle of the pack on gender equality and we have a difficult political system first past the winner take all elections. So we need to look at electoral reform to make our country more representative.
Bianna Golodrigo
Same goes for the United Nations. We should know which has never elected a female secretary general either. Linda Robinson, Fascinating conversation and book. Really appreciate the time. Thank you.
Linda Robinson
Thank you so much.
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And do stay with cnn. We'll be right back after the break.
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It's the Song of the Summer episode.
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Oh, boy.
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Song of the Summer.
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So what does it mean to be beautiful? Well, society has always valued beauty, but in recent years, something has changed. As we gaze into our phones and the endless scroll of social media, we're inundated with examples of augmented and artificial beauty setting unrealistic standards. Standards. But how does this impact self worth? And what does it mean for how we see ourselves and one another? In her latest essay for the New Yorker, staff writer Gia Tolentino stares into the algorithmic abyss even as it Stares right back at her. And she's not the only one. She joins me from New York. Gia, wow, you have written quite the talker here. And I think you speak, albeit much more eloquently, in this essay for so many men and women who are just stunned by what not only artificial intelligence, but also Instagram and other social media apps have done in this space and how they've evolved. And it's important to note that it was seven years ago that you coined Instagram face and asked what would happen when the algorithm started shaping real faces. Well, this essay is your answer. You write that today's faces are, quote, more technically beautiful, but more spiritually unattractive. And you say that everything is hot, but nothing is erotic. So what was that moment when you were looking at your phone and put it down and said, I need to write about this?
Gia Tolentino
You know, this is something that. This sense that we have, that the world that is mediated by the phones disincentivizes the real and the physical, and that we are sort of surrounded on the phones with increasingly perfected faces, increasingly perfected everything, and that somehow this feeling of dread and dissociation is rising up within us. I just. It was earlier this year, and I was like, this is quite obvious. I think it's something that many people speak about every time we watch a red carpet. The fact that the most visible faces in our society are drawing away from the human. The fact that AI is, you know, there's this rise of this technological paradigm in which whatever is human is, you know, is presented as inferior because it is imperfect. You know, there's a real way that this is manifesting within our consciousness, within our interpersonal relationships, within people's relationships to their own body, to the passage of time. And, yeah, I felt that it was at least worth writing about.
Bianna Golodrigo
And facelifts and cosmetic surgery obviously have been with us for decades now. I mean, the technology has evolved, as has the science. But you argue that the face is separating from. From the person and the person from the soul. So how has the facelift itself become the focus, and how has that changed?
Gia Tolentino
Well, so the facelift in 2019, like you said, I wrote about this thing called Instagram face, right, which is where the most visible faces on our phones, which tended to be white female influencers on Instagram, they started to look like each other. And now we can see the ramifications of that, where if you ask AI to generate a picture of a woman, 98% of those images will be of a white woman, a thin white woman. A conventionally beautiful white woman. Right. Like these things crop up in the realm of social media and then have real lasting consequences because of the way the inner, the architecture of the Internet works. And so now Instagram face, you can get injectables on Klarna in any strip mall, in any small to midsize city. And the most wealthy and beautiful, professionally beautiful people in our culture are getting facelifts instead. And you know, this will trickle down for the next decade. You know, we now it's hard to get exact numbers on how prevalent exactly plastic surgery is in the United States because people define it differently. But one kind of proximate thing of interest is that the Reddit sub forum for R plastic surgery, it has almost as many weekly visitors as the Reddit sub forum for R. Right. This is an increasingly, this is an increasingly interesting pastime that people have taken up. And you know, traditionally the face, we look to each other's faces for a mark of life, for a mark of temperament, for a mark of personality. It's, you know, from ancient philosophy, it's just very obviously the portal to our humanity, the portal to the soul. And I think within the last 10 years it's been the face, particularly the female face face. But now of course the male face too has been reconfigured as like a consumer guide and a disciplinary manual. And you know, and that, that's, that's new, that's different. And the way that it's become generalizable with social media is different.
Bianna Golodrigo
And facelifts and tweaks, Botox, what have you, that had always been synonymous with just slowing down the aging process. So you would imagine that whether it's a celebrity or a whole high profile individual, that they would undergo these procedures when they're in their 40s, 50s, 60s, and that still happens. But there's also a new phenomenon of sort of preemptive anti aging care. And more and more people in their 20s and 30s are taking drastic measures with their face. Talk about that, that.
Gia Tolentino
So from 2019 to 2022, the number of people age 20 or under who are getting Botox or other injectables increased 75%. Right. But Botox used to be injectables. All of this used to be the province exclusively of sort of the coastal elite, et cetera. And now like I was saying, you know, these, it's, it's kind of a generalized pastime. You can, you know, it crosses political affiliations, rural, urban, you know, international. It's kind of a generalized pastime. And there was this idea that one could get preventative Botox, sort of this proactive thing to kind of gentle tweaks. All of these ideas were introduced very gently. But I think we can sense that this has morphed into this idea. I mean, in my piece I mentioned this 14 year old who went viral for her anti aging skincare routine on TikTok. An idea has quickly been supplanted, the idea of kind of proactive maintenance, that aging itself in any form at any age should be treated like it's a disease. Right. It's the, you know, the idea of proactivity morphed so quickly into the idea that time itself cannot be seen to manifest on a face and any line is aberrant and any mark of age should be proactively treated. And, and I think, you know, this has, this is on some level, this is a surface thing we're talking about, right? This is a superficial thing. But there are real existential consequences to what this visual attitude has done. And I think that, you know, I think especially women, but I think all people, we can feel the effects of this becoming sort of normalized in our culture.
Bianna Golodrigo
And vote has called 2025 the year of plastic surgery transparency. So you do have more celebrities and more influencers, I guess, being more open about the procedures that they've had. Kylie Jenner, you note in this essay as well, is honesty a better alternative than just not addressing what in many of these cases are drastic changes?
Gia Tolentino
Well, it is funny, right, because there is this thing so Instagram face. It was, you know, there were these kind of ostensibly non violent procedures, these small injectable tweaks that you could get and then you could be back to your office an hour later. But you could tell, you could tell that the face had been changed. Now with, you know, the new guard of what is happening with celebrities are, you know, these, these facelifts which are kind of extraordinarily violent, but they, they're not obvious what's, it's not obvious what's happening. And to your point earlier of it going younger and younger, I was sort of, I was googling facelift in my 30s. Should I get a facelift? I'm 37. You know, I searched on my phone, I searched it on my husband's phone and, and I found it remarkable that, you know, but plenty, I found plenty of things saying yes, great idea, maybe a mini facelift even. That's pretty normal for 30s. And if you don't want to do that, just do Botox and filler instead, right? Like There was no. There was no if. There is no visible argument for, you
Bianna Golodrigo
don't need to do this, you know,
Gia Tolentino
you don't need to do this, you know, but, but, but. So now, now that the actual work of the facelift, now that it is less obvious, there's this kind of countervailing desire to get people to disclose what they've done. But in my piece, I sort of, kind of feels like a land acknowledgment. To me, when celebrities acknowledge their plastic surgery. It's sort of like you were shouting out the oppressive system just before you were about to commit an act that then upholds and is guided by the oppressive system. You know, ostensibly, I guess it's better, you know, I guess I would prefer that people be honest if it's that versus dishonesty. But, you know, there's. It kind of is just this cycle of mutual escalation where this is normalized and the disclosure itself begins to have this moral valence attached to it, this pro social, you know. Well, at least they're disclosing it. At least they're being honest. And then the actual paradigm itself just stands unchanged.
Bianna Golodrigo
Well, some of this terminology is all new to me as well. I mean, what you just described about sort of this violent facelift that's meant to look more natural. That's the deep plane facelift, but something that I had no idea was a thing until recently. And it was like my teenage son who mentioned knowing about it or I heard it in conversation that he was having with someone else. Looks maxing. What is that?
Gia Tolentino
So women have, Due to misogyny, women have been, you know, there has been this extraordinary pressure on women to be beautiful, you know, this. To capitalize upon their looks to. There's this way in which women are expected to be pretty as kind of a barrier of entry to humanity. This is kind of. And in the last decade, you know, this part has to do with all the culture wars of the 2010s, of the rise of things like dating apps which allowed, you know, men and women to both openly scrutinize each other with contempt. You know, with the rise of mainstream feminism, all of these things kind of coalesced. And a reactionary core of men's rights activists, you know, kind of correlated with the incels, all of these wonderful political developments of the Internet in the 2000 and tens. There's this niche of them that call themselves looks Maxers. And there is the most famous one, his name is Clavicular. His real name is Braden Peters. He got famous for this, starting in his teens, hitting his jaw with hammers, injecting himself with peptides, microdosing meth, all of these things to make himself more conventionally beautiful. It's as if, basically it's as if this group of kind of right wing reactionary young men have kind of taken up the false and kind of horrific requirement on women to be beautiful. They have taken it up themselves with maximum toxicity to themselves and others. And you know, they've taken up beauty work and there's, you know, there's this hardcore of misogyny that runs through it where they kind of celebrate men for this beauty work, this artificiality, while denigrating women for being fake and doing the same.
Bianna Golodrigo
Yeah, and again, clavicular, someone I hadn't heard of until just a few months ago as well, you mentioned that him starting to alter how he looks at the age of 14. He said that he's likely infertile due to long term steroid and testosterone use. And he also told the New York Times that knowing he can have sex, sex matters more than the act itself. So what does all of this mean in terms of dating intimacy? I mean, they were always seen as going hand in hand, someone wanting to look good so that they can get into a relationship and fall in love. And that doesn't seem to always be the natural goal.
Ari Shapiro
Now.
Gia Tolentino
I know it's funny to think of the crude days of my millennial young adulthood as kind of, of preferable when people would try to be more beautiful so that they could maybe have a higher chance of meeting someone at the bar that night. Right. There's what is, what's happening. That, that quote you read from Clavicular, that sex itself would serve him nothing as opposed to the knowledge that he could have it. You know, it's, it's part of, you know, the overarching thing that I was writing about, which is that there is, there is a pull away from the human and the physical. There's, you know, both, both of one's actual self and the actual self of other people. There's a pull away from imperfection when actually imperfection is the mark of humanity. Right? There's, there's, there's this withdrawal of our comfort and our eagerness for what is actually human and what is real and what is flawed. You know, and this is happening in the realm of AI. This is happening in the realm of what you see with young people and the way that they are dating, the way that they are thinking of sex, the way that they're thinking, thinking of socializing the way that they're thinking, that straight young people are thinking of the opposite gender, the way they're thinking of their own beauty. I wrote that part of it seems that what's eroticized is not the unmediated attention of another, but the collective disembodied attention that one can receive through a screen. Just overwhelming. There's just pull away.
Bianna Golodrigo
Well, at the end of this report, you ask in the essay, can I save myself? And I think that's a question that so many people that are familiar with this phenomenon that you've just written in this essay are asking as well. Maybe we'll have you back on to get your answer to that, to see
Gia Tolentino
if I've saved myself.
Bianna Golodrigo
Thank you so much. Gia Tolentino learned so much from this as well as always from you. Thank you.
Gia Tolentino
Thank you so much for having me.
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And we'll be right back after this short break.
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He's an expert in bioethics and the
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country, but I'll give you some examples
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of things that are sometimes discussed in the literature. So sex reassignment surgery is an interesting example. Thailand has long been, I think, ahead of us in sex reassignment surgery. And many people think that that's a great place to go for that. India has often been a leading center for cardiac, but the US Is very good at cardiac, too. But when someone's thinking about cardiac, that's a possibility. Listen to Chasing Life streaming now, wherever
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And now democratic socialism is making gains this election cycle in the United States. And nowhere is that more evident than in New York City, where Mayor Zoran Mamdani has built his early agenda around rent freezes, city run grocery stores and universal childcare. In his latest essay, the Consumer Socialism Trap, Idris Kaloon, a staff writer at the Atlantic, examines what he calls a new form of socialism focused on lowering the cost of living. He spoke with Michelle Martin about how these ideas are resonating with voters and why he's not convinced they can deliver on all of their promises.
Audie Cornish
Thanks, Bianna Idris Kahloon, thank you so much for talking with us.
Ari Shapiro
Thank you for Having me.
Audie Cornish
So if people are following politics, then they will have observed that a number of candidates generally considered of the left, New York City, maybe Mayor Zoran Mondani, Seattle Mayor Katie Wilson in Washington D.C. the mayoral candidate Denise Louis George, are running on sort of a vaguely similar platform around, well, they would say affordability, but you have a different name for it, I guess, lowering the cost of everyday life. You're calling this consumer socialism. So could you just briefly describe what do you mean by that and how is that different from the socialism that many people either love or hate, depending on their point of view?
Ari Shapiro
Yeah. So traditional socialism is all about seizing the means of production, ending capitalism as we know it. And consumer socialism is something that's different. And what I mean by that is that it's not about ending capitalism as we know it, but it is about socializing the cost of consumption, meaning that certain sets of goods that are deemed essential, housing, childcare, healthcare, are said to be too important to be left to the market and therefore need to be subsidized through, through for all, really, through a state program. And what's new about these candidates that you mentioned is that they are trying to do this now at the city level. And this is just an experiment that I think, you know, we will see how well it goes. But it's definitely caught on.
Audie Cornish
And why do you think it's caught on? What do you think about. It's resonating.
Ari Shapiro
I think people are upset about affordability. That's been true for the last few years. People have been upset ever since COVID and the inflation that it caused. We've seen that that message has gotten put in political use over the last few years, whether Republicans are the ones who are running against candidates. Democrats are going to be doing it now. And there is this argument that actually all we need to do is just set, you know, the rent lower. All we need to do is, you know, subsidize childcare and we can fix this. We can found government run grocery stores and we can fix this problem directly without having to resort to the market.
Audie Cornish
And how is this different from the, I would say the democratic socialism that exists in parts of Europe. Healthcare, for example.
Ari Shapiro
So that is definitely what people aspire to. They point to Scandinavia, they point to countries like that, and they say that this is just the model that we're doing. And there are a few important differences. So the most important that comes to mind is that in Scandinavia, taxes are very high for everyone. If you are a working class person, you are paying 40%, maybe 50 depending on how much you are earning, earning to taxes to fund these universal programs. The way that American politicians talk about these programs is that you won't have to pay for it unless you're extremely wealthy, unless you own a second home in Manhattan or you are a billionaire or a multimillionaire. You know, all the money that is necessary can be raised on the backs of those people. And you know that that's not the Scandinavian model. And so that is, that is one reason that I think that the promises that are being made at the city level might not totally pan out because you have kind of broad based social program that you're going to be rolling out on a very narrow tax base, on a tax base also that's quite mobile. So that's one difference. I think the second is that people tend to think of, and you know, Scandinavia is a very nice place to live. People there are very happy. But it's certainly a market economy. It is certainly a capitalist economy. There is no, you know, it might be democratic socialism in the sense of the safety net is very, very large. But you know, these are countries that, that, that, that depend on the prosperity of their businesses in order to sustain the lifestyle that they have.
Audie Cornish
You're being very nice now, but you're a little snarky. In your piece in the Atlantic, you say consumer socialism tries to have it all, universal social provisions without universally steep taxes. It retains, like other forms of socialism, a supreme optimism in the ability of state planners to shape markets. Where the old central planners failed, the new ones think they will succeed. Is the key difference the fact that, that taxes are high and they think that they can sort of concentrate the cost of this on a small group of people. Or is it something else?
Ari Shapiro
Yeah, no, I think the tax problem is specific to the Scandinavia comparison. But rent freezes are something that almost no economist agrees is a good idea. What happens when you set prices below what the market will sustain? You cause shortages. And you see that already in New York. There is a lot of rent control in New York. There's a lot of rent stabilization in New York York that has not made prices lower. It has encouraged people to stay in their units. San Francisco, this was a well studied program of rent control that was launched that just has, it's a bit like squeezing a balloon. You can, you can cause rents to be lower in specific units, but everywhere else rents increase. And so the solution to the housing affordability crisis is building more housing. It's not freezing prices. And similarly, if you look at the intervention that are being Planned with grocery stores, for example. Groceries are very competitive, very low margin business. The problem with affordability in groceries is not that there are simply too many profits. Profit margins are 2 or 3%. So there's this kind of optimism that if only the government could intervene in these affairs and could only set things, then things would work properly. And I don't think that that's going to be true at all.
Audie Cornish
Why can't they just try things though? I mean, it seems to me that there's a real sort of a different attitude about innovation and government than we have about innovation in say, technology, for example, I mean, driverless cars. Right. You raised that a couple of decades ago. People would be like that's crazy or that's some, you know, like that's some sci fi stuff. But we do it or at least it's in the offing. So why can't people similarly sort of innovate with something in government or try, just try.
Ari Shapiro
I think that they should. I think that like it's really important for government to fund basic research and you know, encourage scientific development and innovation and all of these kinds of ideas. And one of the great things about America is that many states can try different things and we can learn the results. And I guess what I'm saying is that we, we do have some worked examples of rent control and in cities and it hasn't worked quite as well. We do have, you know, and it's one thing to innovate when there is a clear failure. So for example, the military runs grocery stores in its own basis because that is, that is, you know, it needs to do that. And in rural parts of America there have been experiments with government run grocery stores to meet a market failure. And I guess in this case I don't disagree with governmental innovation at all, but I do want it to run in the same direction of what we've learned from prior experiments as opposed to, you know, just saying, well, this time it'll be different because we have the right intentions and the right will.
Audie Cornish
Housing is a big part of your argument. Housing and supply is essential to that. Right. But that takes a long time. You can't just throw up housing and people need relief. Now what's so terrible about offering a short term solution while you're developing a long term answer?
Ari Shapiro
Yeah, so this is an argument people make that one thing that Mamdani has promised and that Janice Lewis George in Washington D.C. has promised is that yes, there will be rent freezes now, but this is going to be an exchange for exactly as you said we're going to build a lot more housing and we're going to fix things the marketized way. Way. What I would say is, you know, if that does happen, that will be at least half good. If this is a temporary measure only to get us to the point where we build enough housing that, that prices settle on their own, that that could be good. But my worry is that it is very easy to freeze the rent. That has already happened in New York. It is much harder to actually get the gears of government on, on, on unwound so that you can build more housing. And, and that, to my knowledge, hasn't really started happening in New York. As you say, it takes time. So that would be my worry. These problems have built up over 30, 40 years. They are encoded in the laws of cities that make it very, very hard to build. And the temporary measure, I worry it works as a one way ratchet. And so what is imposed today, you see this with New York's rent controls, right? They're very extensive. They're very hard to dial back in the future.
Audie Cornish
Future childcare. What about that?
Ari Shapiro
These socialists like Mamdani, Janice Lewis, George Democratic socialists, et cetera, they want universal childcare and they want IT to be 7% is the maximum that every family would pay. And beyond that the government would subsidize that. I think we have to be careful with the design of the policy as well. So Quebec, for example, implemented universal childcare that was free, the point of dollars per day. And a lot of people did immediately get childcare and female labor supply. The amount of women who are working in the labor force increased a lot. What we also saw when economists looked at the results in the long run was that the kids who went to those programs had negative outcomes, they had worse behavior, they were more likely to go to jail, they had worse educational outcomes. Why was that? Because the quality of the care that they were given was not high enough to improve their life outcomes.
Audie Cornish
But the main argument you make is that a lot of these programs that universalize a benefit end up benefiting middle and upper income families more than the people who need help or perhaps need that help the most. But the other argument there is that's how you create buy in. I mean, there are social programs in this country that everybody pays into and everybody benefits from, you know, like Social Security. And part of the reason it has the kind of support that it has, it's something that everybody feels invested in because everybody participates in it. Right? So that's the argument. The part of the problem with the argument is that this country is lacking social cohesion at the moment. What would you say about that?
Ari Shapiro
So let me answer in a slightly tangential way, which is to say that, you know, one thing that I believe America has too much of and could ameliorate quite easily is child poverty. So the number of kids who live in poverty in this country is exceptionally high, given how rich we are. Are the solution to that, that a lot of economists like that I believe in is an expanded child tax credit, basically a sufficient number of cash that's given to families that enables them to live above the poverty level. We experimented with that during the Biden years. In 2021, we passed this expanded child tax credit, which had the effect of slashing child poverty in half. And to my mind, that was great as public policy outcome. What I was extremely surprised by was how unpopular that program was throughout its existence. It was not considered a very popular program. It was seen as too much spending. And that disappointed me because I think the outcomes were very clear, very immediately observable. But it got trapped in the kind of partisan divide that so many things do. And I guess I wonder if this policy would suffer the same fate. And so, so, you know, for me, different families have different desires for how they want care to be done. Some want a center based care that allows, you know, that requires payment. Some would prefer a grandmother or parent to take care of those persons. And my view is that if people say that they want children to be taken care of by relatives because they have one nearby, that we shouldn't only force the subsidies into center based care and we should also offer at least an equivalent amount or something like that to those people who are actually using relatives to care for their children.
Audie Cornish
It just seems to me that the thing about these candidates, as flawed as you may think their sort of programmatic ideas are, at least they're asking the questions, and why isn't that we aren't as a society asking those questions more broadly, why can't they ask these bigger questions?
Ari Shapiro
I think they can ask these questions and I can critique them. And I think that the answers that they are posing to these affordability questions I don't think will be the final solutions. And I think that they have the risk of making things worse. And that's why their interventions in the housing market, et cetera, if you have something that is already expensive and you just impose a subsidy and you don't consider expansions of supply, what you will do is you will increase the price that is paid both by the Government and eventually by ordinary people. And so these interventions I think are attractive, but I don't think ultimately they are the right policy solutions.
Audie Cornish
The other question I have is you focus on the cities because the cities, city leaders and potential city leaders are the ones posing them. But you also raised the Biden era child tax credit increase, which suggests that if you broaden these ideas out that you can have more successful outcomes. Why do you think that's not happening? At least it's not happening at the moment, is it? The label, like socialism is so demeaned, it has such a negative connotation in this country that people aren't willing to discuss these things or just what's your theory about it?
Ari Shapiro
So I think that on some of these problems, you don't need the socialism label. And actually a lot of regional compacts will be good. So for housing, for example, New York City exists in a region, New Jersey, et cetera, Westchester, all those places. And if building only happens in one of those places, but Westchester says we're not building anymore, that's a problem. And so in that case, you do need a kind of regional compact in order to deal with the housing, housing problems. Same with San Francisco, Marin county and the places that surround it there. So I think that actually you would actually improve things a lot if you said that we are going to bind housing policy decisions and make these counties build more housing and that that would go a long way to fixing a lot of the problems that we're talking about here. That doesn't require you to be a socialist or a capitalist or even to, you know, to argue about these things. But that would be an example of effective policymakers.
Audie Cornish
So before we let you go, if there was one thing that you would ask policymakers to focus on, what would it be and how would you want them to approach it?
Ari Shapiro
So just generally when they approach policy, I think that they have to always consider the unintended consequences of their actions. So you establish a policy goal, you say, okay, we're going to subsidize, we're going to relieve all student debt, debt. What is the consequence of that action in the long run? What does it mean that people who've accrued this debt no longer pay it compared to people who did pay it? What does that mean? I think that is the first thing that I would argue. And then I guess the second, just on a concrete policy matter is a lot of this dysfunction is rooted in housing. And the solution to housing being expensive is to build more of it. And that's just an economic law of gravity. And you can try to legislate ways to fight against it, but you're not going to win. I think that's maybe if there's one piece of advice that I give, it's that.
Audie Cornish
Idris Kulhum, thank you so much for talking with us.
Ari Shapiro
Thank you for having me.
Bianna Golodrigo
And finally, above and beyond, a 97 year old British woman has broken her own Guinness World record for the oldest female female wing walker strapping herself to the top of a biplane for the sixth time. Yes, sixth. Betty Bromidge first set the record four years ago when she was a Sprightly 93. The flight raised money for the stroke unit at Chelnam General Hospital where she was treated last year. Way to go. I love this story. All right, that is it for us for now. Thanks so much for watching and goodbye from New York.
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Date: August 6, 2026
Host: Bianna Golodryga (in for Christiane Amanpour)
Podcast: CNN Podcasts' Amanpour
This episode dives into some of the most urgent topics in global affairs and culture today. The lead story covers the delicate negotiations around reopening the crucial Strait of Hormuz, with Iran-Oman talks potentially reshaping geopolitical balances. The program then transitions to the intertwined rise of authoritarianism and misogyny, with author Linda Robinson profiling women leaders fighting for democracy worldwide. Journalist Gia Tolentino discusses the surge in plastic surgery and its cultural implications, while the episode closes with a look at "consumer socialism" in American cities and a heartwarming human-interest segment.
[01:43–07:22]
Key Point:
Negotiations between Iran and Oman could lead to the reopening of the Strait of Hormuz—a vital shipping lane. Iran demands that the US end its naval blockade and lift sanctions before a full reopening.
Insights:
Memorable Quote:
"It seems like these negotiations... could really create a very dangerous status quo, not only for the Strait of Hormuz, but potentially for other shipping lanes around the world."
— Jeremy Diamond, [02:55]
[04:55–07:22]
Key Point:
Negotiations in Rome between Israel and Lebanon were disrupted by military action—involving casualties and airstrikes—yet talks have resumed, highlighting persistent regional instability.
Insight:
Memorable Quote:
"Hezbollah is not part of these negotiations and they have disavowed them completely."
— Jeremy Diamond, [06:30]
[07:22–21:38]
Guest: Linda Robinson (author, "Women in Power")
The episode explores the link between the global backslide of democracy and increased misogynistic, anti-women policies. It profiles inspiring women leaders who are pushing back against these tides.
Democracy & Women’s Rights Decline
Quote:
"More countries today are authoritarian than democratic... women's leadership in parliaments around the world... has stalled at 27%... there's a very strong normalization of violent and punitive measures against women."
— Linda Robinson, [08:29]
Profiles of Female Leaders
Maya Sandu (Moldova):
Fights Russian hybrid warfare, reins in corruption, pursues EU membership, and modernizes Moldova’s defenses and institutions.
"She’s really been... the preeminent woman leader fighting back against authoritarianism."
— Linda Robinson, [10:28]
Iceland:
International leader on gender equality; emphasizes importance of male allyship.
"It's not a zero sum game... the need to have male allies to support that goal."
— Linda Robinson, [13:16]
Kaja Kallas (Estonia/EU):
Leads on defense, pushes for gender parity, pushes back against both Russian aggression and gender-based discrimination.
"There’s no contradiction between being strong on defense and supporting gender equality."
— Linda Robinson, [15:45]
Giorgia Meloni (Italy), Sanae Takaichi (Japan):
Conservative women in power who defy easy categorization; show that women leaders are not monolithic.
"I certainly don't argue in my book that women are all good leaders or all democrats, but... they have as much governing talent as men do."
— Linda Robinson, [17:45]
Mia Mottley (Barbados):
Global South champion on climate change, initiator of international reforms.
"I think she’s a powerful case of leadership from the global south and their existential challenge really is climate change."
— Linda Robinson, [19:32]
The USA’s Lag in Female Leadership
"The US has always been in the middle of the pack on gender equality and we have a difficult political system... we need to look at electoral reform."
— Linda Robinson, [20:44]
[22:52–37:44]
Guest: Gia Tolentino (The New Yorker)
Algorithmic Standards & The "Instagram Face"
Spiritual vs. Technical Beauty
"Today's faces are, quote, more technically beautiful, but more spiritually unattractive. Everything is hot, but nothing is erotic."
— Gia Tolentino, [23:58]
Facelift & Cosmetic Surgery Trends
Preemptive anti-aging and cosmetic tweaks are normalizing surgical interventions for ever younger people.
Facelifts are more advanced, more common, and performed at younger ages.
"From 2019 to 2022, the number of people age 20 or under who are getting Botox... increased 75%."
— Gia Tolentino, [28:28]
Plastic Surgery Transparency & Social Pressures
"It kind of feels like a land acknowledgment... you are shouting out the oppressive system just before you were about to commit an act that then upholds and is guided by the oppressive system."
— Gia Tolentino, [31:50]
"Looksmaxxing" and Online Incel Culture
Extreme male pursuits of beauty drawn from misogynistic subcultures.
Worrying disconnect between self-image and in-person connection; authenticity is devalued.
"It's as if this group of kind of right wing reactionary young men have kind of taken up the false and kind of horrific requirement on women to be beautiful. They have taken it up themselves with maximum toxicity to themselves and others."
— Gia Tolentino, [33:15]
Impact on Intimacy & The Dehumanizing Effects
The pursuit of digital attractiveness is crowding out real-life intimacy, vulnerability, and connection.
"What’s eroticized is not the unmediated attention of another, but the collective disembodied attention that one can receive through a screen... There's just pull away."
— Gia Tolentino, [36:49]
[38:52–54:46]
Guest: Idris Kaloon (The Atlantic)
Rise of "Consumer Socialism" in US Cities
Leaders push policies like rent freezes, city-run groceries, universal childcare—not about ending capitalism, but socializing essential consumption.
Distinct from traditional socialism, these programs rely on targeting the well-off for funding, rather than broad-based high taxes.
"It's not about ending capitalism as we know it, but it is about socializing the cost of consumption."
— Idris Kaloon, [40:11]
Feasibility & Pitfalls
"The solution to the housing affordability crisis is building more housing. It's not freezing prices."
— Idris Kaloon, [43:34]
Social Program Design & Public Support
Universal benefits often disproportionately aid the middle/upper class, creating support but raising efficiency and equity concerns.
Previous US policies like the expanded child tax credit slashed child poverty but struggled with popularity due to partisan divides.
"It was not considered a very popular program. It was seen as too much spending."
— Idris Kaloon, [49:16]
Policy Recommendations
Policymakers must anticipate unintended consequences.
Housing affordability requires supply-side solutions, not just subsidies or controls.
"A lot of this dysfunction is rooted in housing. And the solution to housing being expensive is to build more of it. And that's just an economic law of gravity."
— Idris Kaloon, [54:26]
[54:49–55:23]
A lighthearted closing: 97-year-old Betty Bromidge breaks her own world record as the oldest female wing walker, raising funds for health care.
"Way to go. I love this story."
— Bianna Golodryga, [55:10]
"Authoritarian leadership has an explicitly anti woman narrative... including the denial of the right to vote for women, that it should be the male head of household."
— Linda Robinson, [08:29]
"There is this way that the world mediated by the phones disincentivizes the real and the physical, and that somehow this feeling of dread and dissociation is rising up within us."
— Gia Tolentino, [24:20]
"You can try to legislate ways to fight against it, but you're not going to win."
— Idris Kaloon, [54:34]
This episode stands out for candid, incisive conversation about power—be it geopolitical, social, cultural, or within our own bodies. The tone is both probing and empathetic, with a focus on nuance and the interplay between macro trends and individual experiences.
"Straight Talk on the Strait" showcases the interconnectedness of global conflict, political currents, social innovation, and personal identity—reminding us that big-picture forces, from oil politics to Instagram filters, shape our societies in visible and invisible ways.
Recommended for: Anyone interested in international affairs, gender equality, cultural analysis, and civic policy innovation.