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Narrator
In evangelical homes across the United States, sex outside marriage is a sin against God. So when Abby becomes pregnant at 16, her devout parents hide her away at the Liberty Godparent Home, a little known facility for pregnant teens on the campus of Liberty University. The home says it helps girls decide what comes next, whether that's parenting their babies or placing them for adoption. But inside the facility, the girls hear a different message. God wants their babies to go to more deserving Christian couples. From Wondery Liberty Lost is a new podcast about a startling true story of young love, coercion, defiance and the dangerous resurgence of maternity homes in a post roe America. Some girls will find the strength to fight back. Others will have no choice but to give in. And some, like Abby, will turn their grief into resistance, taking a stand against the system before more mothers lose their children to adoptions they never wanted. You're about to hear a clip from Liberty Lost. Follow Liberty Lost on the Wonder Yapp or wherever you get your podcasts.
Nathan
Wondery.
Abby
Abby and Nathan are waiting for the signal. Any moment now, the ceremony will begin.
Abby's Mother
You feel this tension, this unknown of what ifs.
Abby
Both of them are trembling, but they've made sure to look their best. 17 year old Abby spent the morning carefully curling her long brown hair.
Abby's Mother
I wanted to look good and be a good old Southern girl like I was raised to be.
Abby
And 19 year old Nathan's in a crisp white button down with freshly cropped hair.
Nathan
The only haircut I've ever paid for in my entire life I got before that.
Abby
Through the door they can hear the crowd growing. Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, they're all here to see Abby and Nathan walk down the aisle. Finally, it's time.
Abby's Mother
We walked out the doors and I was just like the grand reveal.
Abby
Family and friends turn to get a better look. Abby and Nathan walk side by side. In his arms, Nathan holds their son who was born just 11 days ago.
Abby's Mother
And I'm walking down this aisle and I remember feeling like everyone in the room wants me to be excited for this.
Abby
Abby and Nathan both come from evangelical families. Their baby was born outside of God's union. And now Abby's parents have told them it's time to correct their mistake. At the end of the aisle, a petite blonde southern woman in her mid-30s and her dark haired husband are waiting for them. Or rather, they're waiting for Abby and Nathan's son. And that's because today's celebration is not a wedding.
Abby's Mother
I was being punished and being told I wasn't worthy of getting to be the one who had him be his mother.
Abby
And this couple waiting for them at the end of the aisle. They've been chosen to be the baby's parents, whether Abby and Nathan like it or not.
Abby's Mother
And so I'm disgusted in my body, every step I take forward, just horrified by what's occurring.
Abby
They reach the end of the aisle, and Nathan forces himself to gently place his son in the couple's arms.
Nathan
I remember being like, I want to burn this place down.
Abby's Mother
I just watched them holding him and felt empty inside.
Abby
Everyone praised Abby and Nathan, and the couple posed for photos, the newborn baby between them. There's cake, gifts, and speeches.
Nathan
This is so wrong. This is, like, so dark. It's so evil. Like, this ceremony is like a fucking joke.
Abby
This ceremony, this fucking joke. It's a celebration of something that was part of American life for decades. Back in the 50s and 60s, young women who got pregnant out of wedlock were forced to leave their homes and then secretly place their babies for adoption. But the truth is, it's still happening all over America. And it's all part of a grand plan to reshape the country in God's image.
Narrator
Because the true Christian home that produces successful children must be headed by a godly husband. One man for one woman for one lifetime. And no sex, period, outside of marriage.
Abby
And to make sure the nation has the right kind of mothers.
Abby's Mother
They all saw how much I loved him. They didn't have to take him from me. They knew I didn't want them to.
Narrator
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Podcast Information:
The episode opens with a vivid portrayal of evangelical families' strict views on sexuality and motherhood. In these communities, sex outside marriage is deemed a sin, and young pregnancies are met with severe repercussions.
Narrator [00:00]:
"In evangelical homes across the United States, sex outside marriage is a sin against God."
At the heart of the narrative are Abby, a 16-year-old girl, and Nathan, a 19-year-old young man, both from devout evangelical families. Their lives take a tumultuous turn when Abby becomes pregnant outside of wedlock.
Abby [01:09]:
"Abby and Nathan are waiting for the signal. Any moment now, the ceremony will begin."
Timestamp: 01:09
Abby's parents, adhering to their religious beliefs, decide to hide her away at the Liberty Godparent Home, a facility affiliated with Liberty University. Officially, the home assists pregnant teens in deciding between parenting or adoption. However, the reality is starkly different, as the facility operates under the guise of enforcing religious doctrines.
The narrative intensifies during the depiction of a clandestine ceremony where Abby and Nathan are forced to relinquish their newborn son.
Abby [02:04]:
"And I'm walking down this aisle and I remember feeling like everyone in the room wants me to be excited for this."
Timestamp: 02:04
Abby’s Mother [03:10]:
"I was being punished and being told I wasn't worthy of getting to be the one who had him be his mother."
Timestamp: 03:10
The ceremony masquerades as a wedding, but its true purpose is the forcible adoption of their child to "more deserving" Christian couples. Parents and relatives are complicit, attending to witness the event, which is socially lauded despite its underlying coercion.
Nathan [04:10]:
"This is so wrong. This is, like, so dark. It's so evil. Like, this ceremony is like a fucking joke."
Timestamp: 04:10
The episode draws parallels between the historical practices of the 1950s and 60s, where unwed mothers were compelled to place their babies for adoption, and the current resurgence of similar practices within evangelical circles.
Abby [04:18]:
"This ceremony, this fucking joke. It's a celebration of something that was part of American life for decades. Back in the 50s and 60s, young women who got pregnant out of wedlock were forced to leave their homes and then secretly place their babies for adoption. But the truth is, it's still happening all over America."
Timestamp: 04:18
This resurgence is portrayed as part of a broader agenda to "reshape the country in God's image," emphasizing traditional family structures and stringent moral codes.
Narrator [04:52]:
"Because the true Christian home that produces successful children must be headed by a godly husband. One man for one woman for one lifetime. And no sex, period, outside of marriage."
Timestamp: 04:52
The personal toll on Abby and Nathan is profound. They grapple with feelings of shame, helplessness, and defiance as they navigate the oppressive system imposed by their families and religious community.
Abby’s Mother [05:10]:
"They all saw how much I loved him. They didn't have to take him from me. They knew I didn't want them to."
Timestamp: 05:10
Abby’s internal conflict is palpable as she confronts the loss of her child and the erosion of her autonomy.
The episode culminates with a poignant depiction of Abby's struggle and the broader implications for mothers caught in similar circumstances. It highlights the ongoing battle between individual desires and systemic control within certain evangelical frameworks.
Narrator [05:24]:
"Binge all episodes of Liberty Lost early and ad free on Wondery plus. Start your free trial of Wondery plus in the Wondery app, Apple podcasts, or Spotify."
Timestamp: 05:24
Coercive Practices: The Liberty Godparent Home symbolizes the coercive measures taken by certain evangelical communities to enforce strict moral codes, particularly concerning unwed pregnancies.
Historical Continuity: There's a disturbing continuity between past and present practices regarding forced adoptions, highlighting the persistent control over women's reproductive rights.
Emotional Turmoil: The personal narratives of Abby and Nathan shed light on the deep emotional and psychological impacts of such oppressive systems on young individuals.
Societal Implications: The episode underscores the broader societal implications of allowing such practices to persist, emphasizing the need for awareness and resistance against coercive adoption systems.
Notable Quotes:
Abby:
"This ceremony, this fucking joke. It's a celebration of something that was part of American life for decades."
Timestamp: 04:18
Nathan:
"This is so wrong. This is, like, so dark. It's so evil. Like, this ceremony is like a fucking joke."
Timestamp: 04:10
Abby’s Mother:
"I was being punished and being told I wasn't worthy of getting to be the one who had him be his mother."
Timestamp: 03:10
For those seeking to understand the intricate and often painful intersections of religion, morality, and personal autonomy in American history, "Liberty Lost" offers a compelling and thought-provoking exploration.