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Sarita Choudhury
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Kristen Davis
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Kristen Davis
Hi, I'm Kristen Davis and I want to know, are you a Charlotte? Welcome back, everybody, to are you a Charlotte? Part 2. Thanks for joining us. Here we go. So Kerry's at home and she's, she's, she's. This is what I find depressing. So she says. I wondered, were we all just victims of conditional conditioned responses? Doomed to repeat the same unconscious relationship patterns? Were we all in fact just dating the same person over and over again? So depressing.
Sarita Choudhury
So depressing.
Kristen Davis
I mean, but so good.
Sarita Choudhury
Also so good. So good. It's almost like a thought that is pre therapy. Yeah. And more brilliant. Yeah. Do you know? Yes.
Kristen Davis
And I'm afraid the answer is probably yes.
Sarita Choudhury
Yes.
Kristen Davis
But then, and then we show we still have some people talking to the camera, which is also funny.
Sarita Choudhury
Which.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
It's like avant garde, weird theater land.
Kristen Davis
Totally.
Sarita Choudhury
But in dirty New York. So it kind of is cool.
Kristen Davis
Totally. Totally. And it gets better. Like, compared to first season, I think it's really better.
Sarita Choudhury
So much better. And it's a great device used well. But it's funny at the beginning.
Kristen Davis
It is really funny. Yeah. You're like, oh, my God, we're back to this. Okay. And then we see poor Samantha, who's in her very red bedroom. Golden red, hearing the people having the sex through the wall, which I was just like, oh, this is depressing me. This is depressing me. That's how I felt. Then Carrie says that she's feeling, quote, restless.
Sarita Choudhury
Yes.
Kristen Davis
Which made me laugh because she pauses ever so slightly before she says the word restless. You're like, oh yes, I know what she's saying. And then she calls Dean Winters character. Yeah, we're just going to call him Dean Winters. Yes, his name is John, which is kind of funny, but we'll ignore that. And, and she says something like, you know, can you come, come over or no, we're going to have drinks after work at 6:30.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Which is interesting. And he's like, seems like a very together. Like he said. I thought he was a finance guy. Later on we find out he's like a phone. Cell phone salesman.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah. Which that was shocking.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. You're like, you have to really go back in your mind. Like what is he actually talking about? Time. You're buying time. But remember back in the day where like you didn't want to use your minutes.
Sarita Choudhury
Oh, always.
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Right.
Kristen Davis
Oh no, right. You used your minutes.
Sarita Choudhury
I put in $50 a week ago.
Kristen Davis
That's what he did. That's what he did. I thought he was like a stupid stock sales when you first meet him.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah, right. And then it becomes a bit sadder.
Kristen Davis
Then it becomes a bit sadder when he doesn't like sushi too much.
Sarita Choudhury
I remember when he walks. Am I jumping ahead for the question?
Kristen Davis
You are, but I don't care.
Sarita Choudhury
He walks into the door into her apartment and you know what broke my heart? He was like something about, well, I have a dinner plans at 8. And she's like, oh no, so do I. And that's when you know how insecure both are. Because I think the problem is when you have someone you call just for sex, you are always checking to see. But are they in love with me? I think the truth of it is one of you wants a relationship.
Kristen Davis
See, that would be me. And that's why I don't have a fuck buddy.
Sarita Choudhury
Me too. That's why I don't. Because I always think, oh, I'm going to be like the other girls and pretend it's that. But of course I want him to be my boyfriend.
Kristen Davis
Right. When I look bad that you don't.
Sarita Choudhury
You don't exactly.
Kristen Davis
But it's too hard in the moment. Like I'm just can't. I just can't turn off the other things.
Sarita Choudhury
But I knew she was lying when she's like, oh yeah, no, I have.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
There was something in it. I was like, oh, that's so tenuous. Our little lies we tell to protect ourselves in dating.
Kristen Davis
Oh God, yeah, I know it was sad, but I also felt like, well, at least they're on the same page. I kind of Thought you're right. Right.
Sarita Choudhury
You're right.
Kristen Davis
Because we know Carrie's not in love with him. No. Even though she's going to give it.
Sarita Choudhury
Her best effort, there's something even about it. Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Which I liked. But then of course they mess it up, which was sad. So anyway, then we go. This was the weirdest storyline for me, for Charlotte. Because first of all, I remember nothing. Nothing of the any of this. Sometimes I'm like, I don't know what I'm gonna do when I'm watching. I'm like, I don't remember this. I don't know what I'm gonna do. Am I gonna have sex with these guys? I have no idea.
Sarita Choudhury
Is it cause it every day and.
Kristen Davis
Cause we're shooting twice, two at once, as you know. Right. And I mean, there are certain clothes that I remember. Like I have. There's a cream colored dress. I have it still in my closet. Sometimes I look at it and I think, like, when did I wear that? I don't know. I wore it in this episode. And there's a green sweater that I recognize and I have a picture of Cynthia and I like a continuity type picture, Polaroid from that restaurant scene. And I don't look happy. I don't look happy. So I think it was some stress going on in my life and lack of sleep, you know what I'm saying? So definitely the hours you guys did back then, totally bonkers. Totally bonkers. But I do love the weird storyline of Charlotte trying to be like a man and trying to double book herself. So great, so funny.
Sarita Choudhury
And it looks so modern. They look kind of like it's not that they could be right now.
Kristen Davis
Like there's something definitely.
Sarita Choudhury
I love that.
Kristen Davis
I loved it too. I was worried that I was gonna try to have sex with them. I was like, has Charlotte lost her mind? No, I know, but no, she hadn't. She was just trying to date them. But then of course it blows up in her face immediately, which is so perfect. So perfect. And the one guy with the floppy hair seems like he could have been a nice guy for Charlotte, but she's now ruined it trying to take her girlfriend's advice. You know what I mean?
Sarita Choudhury
So this morning I was thinking about that. I was like, wow, she took her girlfriend's advice and this happened. And then I was thinking, we need our girlfriend's advice. Cause it propels us. But the problem is we don't need to do the exact advice. I think we need to head somewhere.
Kristen Davis
I think we need to like take it in and filter it a bit.
Sarita Choudhury
In your yoga outfit. Like, oh, do you want to have dinner? I love that.
Kristen Davis
That was true.
Sarita Choudhury
That gave me hope. And I was like, oh, but then when you had to leave and I was like, oh, God, that's not Charlotte.
Kristen Davis
No. And I obviously made a choice to kind of that it wasn't Charlotte. You know what I'm saying?
Sarita Choudhury
Yes, exactly.
Kristen Davis
It's funny to watch your acting too. I'm like, oh, yeah, that is such a cute little fake scratchy throat I'm doing there. But that's okay. But the most.
Sarita Choudhury
I love that kind of attitude. I do. Because. Because there's something about this show that sometimes there's so much you have to do and then sometimes you literally. They're losing the light. And like any show, it's not unique in that sense, but because it's comedy, sometimes I find myself even playing Seema. There's a bit of egg on my face. I don't mind it because I realized for the pace of this show, you can't hit everything perfectly. If not, there's no humanity. So I almost like when I see something that you just said.
Kristen Davis
Oh, I think the egg on the face is integral. Integral needed. Yeah, definitely. And sometimes they write it, but then sometimes it's just there.
Sarita Choudhury
No, sometimes in group scenes, it's always there because of timing and very hard. And they're very hard and I'm learning to like them.
Kristen Davis
I'm glad.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah. Egg on faith.
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Sarita Choudhury
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Kristen Davis
Okay, so let's go back to the Carrie and John Dean Winters relationship. When they go on the date.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
It's just the saddest thing in the world. And I feel so bad for him because clearly they don't know anything about each other.
Sarita Choudhury
No.
Kristen Davis
Other than that they seem to enjoy each other in bed, you know, which is something.
Sarita Choudhury
And they know how to behave.
Kristen Davis
Right. They've got the rules, they've got a constructed situation. Then they go out of the constructed situation. It falls apart so quickly.
Sarita Choudhury
I mean, it almost looks like he's never been to a restaurant with I.
Kristen Davis
Oh, he wants a burger and he doesn't like sushi. I'm like, dude, you need to pretend to like sushi with Carrie. I know, it's sad.
Sarita Choudhury
No, it's so sad. That episode. You're right. I don't think any of the episodes had that feeling for me where I was like, I don't know what to do.
Kristen Davis
I know.
Sarita Choudhury
But it could be because you and I don't relate as much to this dilemma.
Kristen Davis
Maybe. Right. But I also think, I also think, I think it's because I think theoretically, like, structurally, we know, for instance, that the big Carrie relationship is gonna have highs and lows and all of the different things and sadness.
Sarita Choudhury
Right. Yes.
Kristen Davis
And we expect that. Right.
Sarita Choudhury
You're right.
Kristen Davis
But when we're outside of that, we are not expecting kind of a one off episode called the Fuck Buddy to have such sadness.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
I still am.
Sarita Choudhury
So.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
Because we expect that thing with Carrie's character and her arc, but it's like she was shocked.
Kristen Davis
Totally. It was like, she thinks it's all gonna work out.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah. And also because it's not. She's in love with him. It didn't have to go that far to work out. And he couldn't even get there.
Kristen Davis
No. I know. That's what's so sad. It's not even like we're expecting miracles. We're just expecting A dinner to go well and not.
Sarita Choudhury
It's like, the law of the universe. Don't mess with real feelings and don't invent fake feelings.
Kristen Davis
Yes. Don't try to put, like, a square peg in round hole or whatever that phrase is. It's gonna go wrong, Right? It's so true. It's so true.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Now, the one exciting moment of it all is when Miranda leaves the angry guy at the table. Do you remember? He's like. So he's trying to get. He's angry about literally everything. Like, at one point, she's trying to hail a cab, and he's like, you can't hail a cab on that side of the corner. And she's like, no, no, I have. And then he hails a cab, and then he kind of pushes her in the cab.
Sarita Choudhury
No, I know.
Kristen Davis
And then she's like, but I like it when he pushes me around in sex. Which, I mean, this is, like, such a big issue. We could have a whole episode. Totally.
Sarita Choudhury
The only. Thank God it's Cynthia doing it.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarita Choudhury
Because there's something about Cynthia that's just like, whatever. And then other times, she's like, no. And both of those qualities in her.
Kristen Davis
Could handle this 100%. You're not worried for her at all. You're not worried for her at all. And she's kind of like, why do I. I like it so much in sex, but nowhere else. Which is a good question. It's not really ever answered, but it's a good question to just leave out there. And so luckily, she says, you know, he's gonna find out if he makes partner. And then I'm sure he's gonna lighten up. So then he finds out he makes partner, and he's just bitching and moaning and bitching and moaning about, you know, hours, and she doesn't get the pressure on him and whatever. And then she just gets up and leaves. And it's super exciting and satisfying.
Sarita Choudhury
Super exciting. And it would. Do you know what it was? That even that relationship, it was like, wait, how did it get to that point? How did Miranda think that he was gonna change getting. Without seeing it? It was frustrating. It was frustrating just to go on that journey.
Kristen Davis
I agree. And that's why the episode's kind of sad. You know what I mean? That's why the episode, sadly, because, really, nothing works out that great. Poor Samantha tries to break down the wall between her and her neighbors, and it doesn't go well. Like, it's just sad all the way around.
Sarita Choudhury
And that even with Samantha, she'll take any sad situation and make it still like a bit of a hip thrust and she can't.
Kristen Davis
No.
Sarita Choudhury
So that's why it's sad.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. This reminds me of my mom at the time that we were doing the show. In the beginning, she was really mixed feelings about the show and it makes so much sense now. I mean, at the time I was just like, oh, mom, it's fine.
Sarita Choudhury
You know what I mean?
Kristen Davis
Oh, no.
Sarita Choudhury
But Kristin.
Kristen Davis
Right, but she was like, well, I just don't want to think that this is what, you know, dating is like for you. And I was like, it's not, you know, which in reality it kind of was. But I mean, not to this level, obviously.
Sarita Choudhury
No. And also, your mom is watching the show with the lighting and with everything. You weren't. You were doing the show and watching. So she was really seeing the whole New York.
Kristen Davis
Yes, yes. Not her world at all. And this reminds me of something that we wanted to talk about, which is the difference between the experience of making a show, then the experience of watching that same show that you made, and then hearing other people who were not part of the show discussing it and how completely dissonant it can be.
Sarita Choudhury
It is. You know, I never wanna come off as the. You know, when you're an actress, you think you get better at understanding this. Right? But I don't. This show, because it's such a cultural phenomenon, so people join in without you being in a discussion. The discussion begins.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarita Choudhury
So I'm learning this only in this show. But I think what's wild is the other day I was doing an interview and I, I think that's when it really hit me. I was like, oh, she's watching a show that I'm not watching.
Kristen Davis
Yep.
Sarita Choudhury
It just hit me finally. I've understood variations of that thought, but there's no way, when you do a read through that's in your head when you watch the show, the edits are like, oh, they chose that.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
We can't watch the show as it is. And because people either love or want to talk about or angry at some issue, they want us available. And I sometimes don't know what they're saying because I have not seen the same thing.
Kristen Davis
Definitely. Sometimes I don't know what they're saying either. Yeah, I'm just like, what?
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah, what?
Kristen Davis
Like, you know. And you'd think I'd be used to it after all this time, but I'm not.
Sarita Choudhury
But that's what always tell me about you. You've often said something that I'm like, oh, she's not used to it yet. Which kind of makes me happy that it hasn't. That you've kept this human. Kind of like, okay, what is this?
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
But also, it just shows maybe we're not supposed to be good at it. Like.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
You know, and sometimes I feel bad because, like, someone will ask me something and they have so much excitement.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
And I don't know what they're asking.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
Well.
Kristen Davis
Well, I think somehow we're supposed to be experts about their experience.
Sarita Choudhury
But, yes.
Kristen Davis
I mean, I do feel like we're experts about what we've made, which people seem to sometimes doubt, which is really interesting.
Sarita Choudhury
Right. Because, I mean, like, it should be easy.
Kristen Davis
Right?
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Which obviously it's not easy at all. But also, like, we're in it. I can't be objective.
Sarita Choudhury
Exactly. Also, we're insecure. We barely pulled it off. Yeah. So then when we're being asked about whether or not a bad thing.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
That was take number 17. And I. Oh, I'm so glad I'm not embarrassed by it. Like, you know, there's thoughts we have that are different.
Kristen Davis
And I also think. I think that. I think that we're in a crazy time, you know, culturally, in terms of the dialogue, or lack thereof, of true dialogue, maybe, like that there's, like, people are very, very black and white about things, you know, in terms of, like. I hated that. I love that. I hated that. I love that there's not actual conversations sometimes.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah. And it happens with us. Like, sometimes I'm in a conversation, even with a friend, and they'll bring up something that they want to talk about that isn't even in my scenes.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
And I'm not sure why they're asking me.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
But they care so much.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
And so I'm learning anyway. I'm learning because I never want. I'm always scared of coming off a bit like an asshole about my body. No, no, no. Because when it happens, people don't realize we get hurt.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
Like, I first get hurt.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarita Choudhury
Then I go, they don't mean it that way.
Kristen Davis
They don't mean it.
Sarita Choudhury
So then I try to understand it, but that takes time. And they're just, like, looking at me with this Weir brush.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
So.
Kristen Davis
But this is the thing. This is the thing that I. That I come back to. I mean, number one, we can't control how people perceive things. Right. We just can't. We just can't.
Sarita Choudhury
You have.
Kristen Davis
It's like a. It's like a 12 step type of a situation. Right. Like, you have to admit, like, I cannot control that. Second of all, we have to be able to create.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And we have to stay open to be able to create.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And that's not easy ever. And definitely not right now in time in our culture. So there's some protection that you need to create for yourself. And partly because of the podcast, I'm more out in the world of the conversation that I would normally be because I'm trying to kind of figure it out more and use it.
Sarita Choudhury
I love that you're being. How do I say this? You're being very. Like, whatever comes up to your brain is. I love that because it's the one thing you're not allowed to do with the show. Cause you don't wanna offend people. You don't. I kind of find that very refreshing.
Kristen Davis
Thank you. It's scary.
Sarita Choudhury
I bet it's scary. No, I bet it's scary because we mess up with people's names and.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
But look at the love. Even when we're talking about something that we're like, whoa, I still love it.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarita Choudhury
I'm not gonna talk about it. Right, Right. I mean, your British accent just came out.
Kristen Davis
I know. I love how your accent comes and.
Sarita Choudhury
Goes so much when I'm a bit jet lagged. When I'm tired, like, a full two words will come out and it's like a fish coming out of my mouth.
Kristen Davis
That I'm just like, no, all of it's good. All of it's good. This is what I love so much about you. Like, you could talk to Sarita about so many different countries that she's actually lived in. Like, it is.
Sarita Choudhury
Well, can I say one thing? Talking about countries. So I just came back and my friend Lorena is addicted to the show. Okay. Both the old and the new. And it's so sweet because when we're there, it airs Friday nights here airs Thursday. And every Friday we'd be at the beach and doing our thing and she'd be like, no, Sarita. We go, it's dropping. It's dropping now. And I was like, definitely. And she knows me so well. She goes, I know you're not as excited as me. And I was like, no, I may be more excited than you. And she goes, okay. I know. It's drama in head with the actors. I don't know. Okay, we're gonna go. And I watch Lorena watch the show, and it's like watching Spanish. Watch our show. Getting it. Getting it in a. I don't know it's an experience to watch this show abroad. Absolutely. And see the love and see the. I was kind of. And just hearing the comments, I loved it.
Kristen Davis
That's so nice. Yeah, it's so nice to hear.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah, it is.
Kristen Davis
I mean, we just have to do it and let it go out there and it's gonna do what it's gonna do. Right. And sometimes it's hard to remember that because obviously there's a lot coming at us, you know, but then I think that's also why, you know, we're together and we can be together in it all.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah, Right. That's how I felt coming here today. I was like, oh, I needed this and I haven't had this. We've done a lot of press. And I was like, even I can feel it now. Like, I don't even know. Usually I'm aware of my hair or my face or my. I don't.
Kristen Davis
I'm not really aware. Like, part of me thinks when I.
Sarita Choudhury
Watch it, it's gonna be like. But. But that's so rare, right. When you're in conversation on camera. Right.
Kristen Davis
Well, because this is what I love about podcasting, is that I wanted to have the flow.
Sarita Choudhury
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Right. And the only way to have the flow is to just go where it goes. So sometimes I apologize, sweet listeners, if I did not recap enough for you. Some people want more recap, some people want less recap. Right. But like, for me, the joy of.
Sarita Choudhury
This is being in it.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. With whomever has come to be with me.
Sarita Choudhury
No, I can't even remember what I thought we might talk about because I'm literally just following you, which is great.
Kristen Davis
It's a joy.
Sarita Choudhury
I love it.
Kristen Davis
Me too. I love it, too. And I love having you.
Sarita Choudhury
I love having you.
Kristen Davis
And I need to.
Sarita Choudhury
I love having you. I'm not having you. You're having me.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarita Choudhury
But boas, I love being here.
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Kristen Davis
I'm just gonna briefly touch on the fact that unfortunately, as far as we know, we do not get to go and be together for 18 hours a day.
Sarita Choudhury
I know.
Kristen Davis
Still sinking in.
Sarita Choudhury
Still sinking in.
Kristen Davis
Not 100% there.
Sarita Choudhury
Totally.
Kristen Davis
So sad.
Sarita Choudhury
So sad and so beautiful. You're almost saying it in the way I feel it. Not real words are coming out yet, right? It's true.
Kristen Davis
It's true. But also, I have been through this before where we're saying goodbye, but then we don't ever really say goodbye. And for me, we all are so alive in me. You know what I'm saying?
Sarita Choudhury
That's so beautiful. Crystal, don't you feel? I feel like also this is. It's so diff. My feelings are one and then there's yours, which is the first, and then a different iteration. And it's a lot. But I love what you just said, which is often when you think it's an end, it's not. Whatever that means, right?
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
And that just made me understand something right now. But. But I'm glad when you left that message for Nicole that didn't go. Yeah. That it allowed you to Cry?
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
Because sometimes don't you find it's when someone answers the phone that that's when you cry?
Kristen Davis
Yes. So maybe there's some kind of a trigger or something. And I think also because Nicole and I, you know, when she began the show was like when I had to cry for weeks with her, you know, so that cause of Beg's death. Right. Do you remember this? Yes.
Sarita Choudhury
Yes.
Kristen Davis
That was how we began our relationship. So I think there's also, like, this established freedom that I have with her to share those kind of deeper things. Right. And also I was just trying to check in on her. So then I was sad that she didn't get the message. Because I was trying to check in on her, though my feelings, like, poured out in the world.
Sarita Choudhury
I mean, now she knows it fully. Nicole.
Kristen Davis
Yes, yes, yes, yes.
Sarita Choudhury
But I think also it's interesting. Cause you had left me something and that just like just seeing your name. And then Cynthia did and then Sarah Jessica. And it was interesting because it allowed me. When I heard Sarah Jeska's. I was. It just allowed me to let it go. And also just think of you guys, because you. I don't even know how this was able to happen and how amazing it is.
Kristen Davis
It really is.
Sarita Choudhury
And you brought us on, which is so beautiful. But, yeah, I keep thinking of you guys and I keep thinking, oh, they must have so many different emotions, different days. And it's gonna take a long time for you to form a sentence.
Kristen Davis
For sure, for sure, for sure.
Sarita Choudhury
But it's nice. This is my first public.
Kristen Davis
You're doing great sentence with you.
Sarita Choudhury
Which is what A great place to do it.
Kristen Davis
I know it's a great place to do it because we're free and we're just ourselves. And there's no lens of any other, you know, journalist or whatever here. Obviously, it's just us. And I also think it's gonna continue to evolve. And I mean, I'm just so grateful that we were able to do the show we wanted to do.
Sarita Choudhury
Oh, Crystal.
Kristen Davis
And to bring you guys on, such incredible bright lights for us, like, inspiration for us, grounding for us. It was. I mean, obviously we love each other, but we love you guys, too, so much.
Sarita Choudhury
But, you know, and that's not a given.
Kristen Davis
Right?
Sarita Choudhury
I think when people don't. When people ask me about you or. And obviously I'm not gonna. I don't talk much about it, but. But the one thing I think that shocks them is when I'm like, they're really regular gals who are hardworking Actresses.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
Like they're actors.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. But really regular, right?
Sarita Choudhury
Really regular.
Kristen Davis
I know. It's funny.
Sarita Choudhury
You have real friendships between you three, and I think that just sounds like I'm lying. So when I say it's such a.
Kristen Davis
Cynicism, I think, sure. Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
And wouldn't it be fun the story was the opposite.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
So then when I say when they're like, how is it for you and for Nicole? And I say a similar thing, they must just be like, ah, she's a liar. She's just lying. And I'm like, I know you think. I'm like, but it really is true.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarita Choudhury
And it's shockingly beautiful.
Kristen Davis
I just want to say one thing. The eyepatch, I mean, it was funny in person, but, like, when I watched my birthday episode and Logan singing. And your reaction to Logan singing in the Eyepatch was so incredibly satisfying. Oh, and then to watch you guys make out in the cab, I was.
Sarita Choudhury
Thrilled with the eyepatch.
Kristen Davis
Thrilled. And the shot through the window.
Sarita Choudhury
Okay. That shot. Do you know how long I spent in that cab?
Kristen Davis
I can imagine.
Sarita Choudhury
But you know what comforted me the next day? Cause, like, I had the eye patch and the angle had to be right. Yeah.
Kristen Davis
It was cool.
Sarita Choudhury
And it was over and over. But do you know what was interesting? Gary from the crib. Yeah, Gary, he said, we got a good shot of you for that. And I go, did you? Because the bright lights of the city.
Kristen Davis
When I saw that angle, it was great.
Sarita Choudhury
It made me give in to when. Whenever I. Whatever I do next is just to accept when they say it.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. Because when you're doing it, you don't feel. I agree.
Sarita Choudhury
You've got, like, stuff.
Kristen Davis
Totally.
Sarita Choudhury
You're trying to hold in your stomach.
Kristen Davis
Totally. All of it.
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Barely.
Sarita Choudhury
And then you see it and you're like, they got your back.
Kristen Davis
It was fantastic. And I mean, Gary always has our back. Number one. Number two, it was so reminiscent of the old show. It was right.
Sarita Choudhury
Wow.
Kristen Davis
Like, high five.
Sarita Choudhury
You're so right.
Kristen Davis
Big time, baby. It was awesome. I mean, so many of your things are awesome. But it just came to my mind because at the time, of course, we shot the birthday party for like, three.
Sarita Choudhury
Weeks, three weeks, four weeks. I never even saw you there half the time because we shot individually.
Kristen Davis
I know, I know.
Sarita Choudhury
What a great episode. Babe.
Kristen Davis
I'm not.
Sarita Choudhury
That was a great episode. And you about.
Kristen Davis
But, like, your stuff was hard. It was hard.
Sarita Choudhury
It was made easier because Logan's actually very present. He's so a great.
Kristen Davis
He's so. Good one. He sings that song. People thought he was fake singing that. That was someone else singing, like. No, that's him.
Sarita Choudhury
That's him.
Kristen Davis
He's incredible.
Sarita Choudhury
He's incredible.
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Kristen Davis
I want him to be on the show, too. He can be catching up with friends. Logan calling. Logan. Marshall Green, we need you. All right. We could keep going. We could keep going. You can come back, baby.
Sarita Choudhury
I love you.
Kristen Davis
Please. I love you. Thank you for being here. She remembered. Thank God. So, Sarita, are you a Charlotte?
Sarita Choudhury
I never thought I was, but I feel like I might be.
Kristen Davis
I think you are.
Sarita Choudhury
I think I am.
Kristen Davis
I think you are. But you can be part Charlotte, part others, which I think you are.
Sarita Choudhury
Probably, Definitely. But I just want to say I am.
Kristen Davis
I love it. I love it. I love it. And I think you are because, like, as worldly and kind of sophisticated as you are, you're such, like, heart, you know, you're so open and leading with the heart in terms of, like, your actual life.
Sarita Choudhury
And I think there are certain, like, rules and what may look like prudish behavior that just come from protecting yourself and also religion and countries and nature that make you feel you're not as wild as people think you are.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Sarita Choudhury
And, you know, I do know.
Kristen Davis
I really, really know. I love you so much.
Sarita Choudhury
I love you so much.
Kristen Davis
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Date: September 18, 2025
Host: Kristin Davis
Guest: Sarita Choudhury
This episode of "Are You A Charlotte?" dives into Sex and the City Season 2, Episode 14, “The F*ck Buddy,” exploring its relationships, emotional complexity, and the personal resonance of the show with guest Sarita Choudhury (who plays Seema in And Just Like That...). Kristin and Sarita unpack the episode's key moments, reflect on the characters' emotional journeys, and candidly discuss behind-the-scenes experiences and the broader impacts of SATC both on culture and their own lives.
Timestamp: 04:17 – 06:21
05:14 – 05:35
05:54 – 08:19
08:22 – 10:24
10:46 – 11:44
16:39 – 18:36
18:43 – 20:00
20:45 – 25:45
25:33 – 27:00
27:17 – 28:21
35:16 – 39:27
39:28 – 41:22
On Dating Patterns:
On Pretending Not to Care:
On Fans’ Perceptions:
On Creative Vulnerability:
On Real-Life Friendships in the Cast:
On Accepting Imperfection:
The episode explored the emotional reality behind “no-strings” relationships, highlighted the personal stakes and vulnerabilities of both fictional characters and the actors who portray them, and celebrated the enduring connection among the cast and the global SATC fan community. Sarita closed out the episode with self-recognition:
Kristin summed up their bond: