Podcast Summary: Are You A Charlotte? – "Everything’s GOLDEN with Mickey Guyton" (S3 E2 "Politically Erect")
Host: Kristin Davis (joined by Cynthia Nixon and guest Mickey Guyton)
Date: October 27, 2025
Podcast: Are You A Charlotte? (iHeartPodcasts)
Episode: S3 E2 – "Politically Erect"
Episode Overview
This lively episode welcomes country music star Mickey Guyton as Kristin Davis and Cynthia Nixon reminisce over "Sex and the City" Season 3, Episode 2 ("Politically Erect"), discussing its daring themes, pop culture resonance, and the ongoing impact of the show. The discussion seamlessly blends behind-the-scenes stories, reflections on the show's cultural relevance, and personal anecdotes touching on fandom, sexuality, boundaries in relationships, and women’s empowerment.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Mickey Guyton’s Musical Journey and Global Success
- Mickey’s recent experience: Mickey shares her time on China’s hit TV show “Singer” featuring top-notch performers and a staggering audience.
- “It was like singing at the Super Bowl every week. It was insane.” – Mickey Guyton [06:40]
- Cultural exchange & warmth: She and Kristin discuss Asian hospitality, the warmth of fans, and culture shock.
- “They started calling me ‘mama,’ … all the time. … It made me really think about Asian hate so much more here, because there’s a sweetness that isn’t always understood as a cultural phenomenon.” – Mickey Guyton [07:12-07:41]
2. A “Sex and the City” Love Letter
- Mickey as a lifelong fan: Although too young to watch during the original run, Mickey shares how SATC shaped her adulthood, laughing about memorizing lines and dressing up for the movies.
- “I've watched all the seasons since I was probably about 21. I’m 42 now, so it’s been a huge part of my life.” – Mickey Guyton [09:47-09:57]
- Kristin’s reflections: Kristin recalls the challenges and joys of making Season 3, which she considers the “heyday” of the show—long shoots, freezing days faking summer in New York.
- “I believe this week was a hundred hour week.” – Kristin Davis [13:03]
3. Revisiting “Politically Erect”: Then and Now
- Character spotlight – John Slattery’s role: The hosts fondly remember guest star John Slattery’s captivating performance as politician Bill Kelly, and how his charisma masked his character’s flaws.
- “Slattery’s charm is such that you don’t realize… you just don’t know what color the flag is.” – Kristin & Cynthia [21:26-21:33]
- Plot shock: They humorously confess misremembering the plot’s boundary-pushing moment—Carrie’s suitor wanting her to pee on him, not vice versa.
- “I thought…the way I remembered it…was that he wants to pee on Carrie. Right? But that is not what it is. He wants her to pee on him. What on earth?” – Cynthia Nixon [22:10]
4. Sexual Boundaries & Empowerment: Then vs. Now
- Openness vs. Comfort: The show’s willingness to talk about kinks is praised for being ahead of its time, segueing into personal anecdotes about sexual boundaries and the importance of consent for women.
- “Yes, let's not knock people for what they like. But…don’t do something you’re uncomfortable with. Women especially…do not do something that you are uncomfortable with, not ever.” – Cynthia Nixon & Mickey Guyton [24:11-24:38]
- Generational healing: Mickey explains millennials had to unlearn silence around discomfort, while Cynthia contemplates if her generation has caught up.
- “There was a lot of unlearning in my generation.” – Mickey Guyton [24:57]
5. Cultural Critique and the Double Standard
- Media attitudes: The group discusses how the series faced ongoing critical disdain for being a women-driven show about sex, highlighting double standards in media.
- “This is a show about women…there were still people who would write articles like, ‘well, this show is silly, but it's obviously caught on.’” – Cynthia Nixon [30:49]
6. Compromise, Authenticity, and Relationships
- Relating episode themes to dating today: The episode’s conflicts about compromise in relationships still resonate, especially in today’s polarized and dating-app-driven world.
- “Like, wanting to compromise, wanting to make it work, because I genuinely feel like people really do want to meet somebody…and to have to make those considerations…” – Mickey Guyton [48:32-48:41]
- Boundaries aren’t just for Carrie: Both women discuss their own unwillingness to compromise core values in relationships, especially as mothers.
- “I'm single, and…I’m like not willing to compromise.” – Cynthia Nixon [48:51]
- “Therefore, you're just like, I’m fine all by myself. … What else do you need up there?” – Mickey Guyton [49:00-49:22]
7. Behind the Scenes: Fan Favorites and On-Set Experiences
- Steve Brady & Miranda's dynamic: Deep dive into Miranda and Steve’s evolving relationship—uncomfortable sex scene stories, Eigenberg’s acting, and the joy and awkwardness of on-screen romance.
- “That is the scene when he holds her breast in a way I do not find attractive … I wanted to protect Cynthia better.” – Kristin Davis [42:13-42:38]
- “He’s so awkward and…it makes so much sense. … He’s just so real, and those sex scenes are so real-seeming.” – Kristin Davis & Cynthia Nixon [43:42-43:59]
- Actors’ vulnerability: Kristin shares how intense and unpredictable acting work is—including the challenges and sacrifices of filming the show.
- “You never know what's gonna happen ever. Ever, ever. … People think somehow that at some point that's not true. No, it’s always true.” – Kristin Davis [33:25]
8. ADHD & Creativity
- Candid conversation: The group candidly discusses their experiences with ADHD and how the disorder, while challenging, can actually fuel creativity and flexibility in artistic careers.
- “I think there's a lot to be said for the creative arts and ADHD working well together. Because also…it's so interesting. It's kind of a heightened world.” – Cynthia Nixon [39:00-40:18]
- “I can clean a whole entire house because I have ADD, because I go from room to room...three hours later, the whole house is clean.” – Mickey Guyton [39:10]
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
On Culture & Travel:
- "They started calling me 'mama.' ... It made me really think about Asian hate so much more here, because there's a sweetness..." – Mickey Guyton [07:12–07:41]
On Boundaries & Consent:
- “Women especially…do not do something that you are uncomfortable with, not ever, ever. Wherever the camera is, ever. Do anything that you're not uncomfortable with. You can say no.” – Cynthia Nixon & Mickey Guyton [24:38]
On Sex & Power:
- "Like, yes, I'm a politician who would like you to pee on me, but I'm still gonna dismiss you because you're just a sex columnist. Yes. Which is so ick." – Cynthia Nixon [31:15]
On Lasting Resonance:
- "I love that that became a thing. That's crazy...But it's a commitment that I'm happy to have. Right. Like, I'm. I feel like it's a rare, rare thing." – Kristin Davis [26:54–27:23]
Important Segment Timestamps
- [04:08–07:15]: Mickey Guyton shares behind-the-scenes stories of “Singer,” Asian fan culture, and life in Nashville.
- [09:39–10:07]: Mickey’s SATC fandom origin and how the show became part of her adult identity.
- [13:03]: Kristin on grueling filming schedules (“hundred hour week”) for SATC Season 3.
- [18:40–20:59]: John Slattery as Bill Kelly; breaking down his appeal and the complexities of his character.
- [22:10–24:38]: Discussion of consent, kinks, and generational shifts in openness about sexuality.
- [26:54–27:23]: Kristin on the legacy and personal cost (and privilege) of being “Charlotte.”
- [42:13–44:14]: Unpacking Miranda & Steve’s sex scenes—awkwardness and the actor’s authenticity.
- [39:00–40:52]: ADHD, creativity, and the arts.
- [48:32–49:22]: Relationships, compromise, and why raising kids as single women sets the bar high.
Tone & Style
The episode is warm, candid, irreverent, and empowering—just like “Sex and the City” itself. The hosts don’t shy away from vulnerability or humor, offering honest perspectives on sexuality, career challenges, and relationships while allowing room for laughter and personal confessions.
For Listeners Who Haven’t Tuned In
This episode is a perfect blend of nostalgia and relevancy—whether you’re a diehard “Sex and the City” fan, a newcomer wanting pop culture insights, or just here for stories about fame, personal growth, and the joy (and awkwardness) of being a modern woman. The chemistry between Kristin, Cynthia, and Mickey makes for an uplifting, illuminating listen that’s as much about self-acceptance and honesty as about television history.