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Kristen Davis
Hi, I'm Kristen Davis, and I want to know, are you a Charlotte? So when you think about. I mean, I have so many questions, I don't even know where to start. But, like, if you think about, can you remember before Miranda, and you would just go about your life and no one would recognize you or people would randomly recognize you from different things, what was it like in terms of being in the world?
Cynthia Nixon
You mean before our show?
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
Yes. I feel like, again, because I was in this pretty successful movie when I was 12.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
No, no, no. Little darlings.
Kristen Davis
Little Darlings.
Cynthia Nixon
Amadeus was a little darling later also.
Kristen Davis
I mean, Oscar.
Cynthia Nixon
Oscar, right. So I always had a certain very manageable number of people recognizing. But so it was, like, comfortable. It was like a little salt. Sure. It wasn't like an entire meatloaf. It was like a little salt. Right. Seasoning. And then. Do you remember when the show started to air and people started to watch it, more than half, like, three quarters of the people that would come up to us were black men. Do you remember this?
Kristen Davis
No.
Cynthia Nixon
It was so. I mean, fascinating. And I don't think it was just me because we've all. We all used to talk about it. It was wild. In the very beginning days, it was like, surely you're not our demographic, Right? What's going on?
Kristen Davis
But amazing.
Cynthia Nixon
But amazing. Oh, it was fantastic.
Kristen Davis
Maybe it was the guys who wanted to watch the boxing on hbo.
Cynthia Nixon
That's what it was.
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Cynthia Nixon
It was the live sports event. So it had a very male. And I don't know.
Kristen Davis
So let me ask you this, because this is something I think about when I watch it, like, in terms of the sexuality stuff, like the actual sex scenes, you know, And I struggled with this myself, which is coming up, is when I locked myself in the dressing room, but it hasn't happened yet. Did you think about. I mean, you were very fearless and unafraid at all times in the sex scenes to the point where I would be like, maybe I need to go when Cynthia is filming sex scenes so that I can tell Eichenberg, do not grab her breast like that. You remember this? I was like, why did he grab your breasts like that? You're just like, well, what are you talking about? I'm like, it's not attractive. It's, like, too hard. I need to tell him that. You were like, whatever, which I love about you, but did you think about, what are we doing here? Is this for the male audience or is this for the female audience? Do you know what I'm saying?
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah, I guess I always thought it was kind of. I always thought that it was for the female audience primarily, but I thought it was like. It's like, maybe this is a crazy simile, but it's kind of like birth control. Right. It's, like, really important for us as women to have birth control, but, like. And the guys are like, you've got birth control. This is fantastic. We can have sex. You're interested in having sex. Right. This is, you know, it's kind of like. I mean, I feel like it was so empowering, and maybe it was a little on steroids from the reality for most women.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
But it was happening out there. And so men, you know, I think for men, it was like a. Like, it was not only a wonderful peek into the secret world, which was fascinating.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
But it was also like, there is this very old. And it has some truth to it, but it's not the entire truth. Right. There is some sense of, like, women use sex as a tool to get commitment. Right. And it's like, for men to be shown this. This world and these people, it's like, actually, you know what? We also just really like having sex with you. Right, Right. It's sort of, I think, a wonderful thing for men to learn because they had been told the opposite.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
So many times.
Kristen Davis
That's true. And I do feel, unfortunately, weirdly, like that's still out there in a strange way.
Cynthia Nixon
Well, and it's not completely untrue. I mean, it's. Yeah. I mean, there are. You know, I mean, both things are true.
Kristen Davis
I guess that's true. I mean, the thing that's funny to me, though, is, like, if you think about then and then you think about now, like, you know, hookup culture, like, young hookups, it's very, very more advanced. Like the dating apps, you know, Tinder, whatever.
Cynthia Nixon
Much more so. Right, Right. Obviously, I don't know really anything about the hookup culture that's happening now. Right, Right.
Kristen Davis
I feel like I don't either.
Cynthia Nixon
And I guess my. My thing that seems to me different than our show. Right. Is like, women can and always have had a lot of sex, but I think not 100% of the time. But by and large, the sex that these four women were having was not. Was not to try and get men to like them.
Kristen Davis
That's a good point. Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
And so that's what I worry about. The Hookup culture now, it's like you think you're very liberated because you're having a lot of sex. But are you. Do you wanna be. Are you enjoying the sex?
Kristen Davis
Right. Are you having sex because you want to or are you having sex to try to get something.
Cynthia Nixon
To try and get sex? Like a different version of like trying to get a ring? It's like, does he like me?
Kristen Davis
Right, Right.
Cynthia Nixon
You know, will he. Will he not. Will he not call me if I don't?
Kristen Davis
Oh, my God. Yeah. Which is like. So Charlotte also with the. With the up the butt thing, right? Like she. Because she doesn't want to do it, you know? Right. She really likes that guy, right? You know, and then. And she thinks, like, he's just going to break up with her and not marry her or whatever. It's like so crazy.
Cynthia Nixon
Well, but it's both, right? It's interesting. It's like he. She worries he's going to break up with her if she doesn't do it. But also she's not really at the moment interested in it. Right. As a thing in and of itself. But also it's like, but if I.
Kristen Davis
Do do this, will he respect me?
Cynthia Nixon
Will he. He will never marry me.
Kristen Davis
Right. And also. Cause Samantha, very smartly in the car is like in the cab, she's like, you know, and. And you talk about the power dynamics, like, it's super fascinating, right? I mean, we're touching on all of it, you know, in such a good way that I do feel like is still true, you know, like, are you doing it? Cause you want to do it, but also you need to think about, like, someone's gonna give up the power and you might have more power, but like, it's super fascinating and still, I think so. Interestingly true.
Cynthia Nixon
Right, Right. And I think, you know, if you think about Samantha, who is like the most empowered, right. The most sexually free, but also just the most empowered, right? Yes, but there are, you know, you see the pain that she, like, particularly when she's dating Richard.
Kristen Davis
We haven't gotten there yet, but. Yeah, yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
Pain of that. That there is even for the strongest.
Kristen Davis
Oh, yes. Character. Well, even in valley of the 20something guys, you know, she's with the chef guy. Do you remember that? He's like lanky. He's got like long floppy hair.
Cynthia Nixon
And then she'll always be older.
Kristen Davis
Yes, Right. That cut. That cut for me, that cut deep, you know, I mean, it's so interesting how many small moments we have in almost every episode that I'm like, well, That's.
Cynthia Nixon
And that's the thing that was so great about the show, you know, is that because again, people saying, like, is it a feminist show but you're wearing high heels and sexy outfits, like, Right, Yeah, it's like one of the great things about the show is that all of the characters, not the least of Carrie, you know, are all deeply flawed and make bad decisions. And so, you know, I love Wonder Woman. I've always loved Wonder Woman.
Kristen Davis
Yes, we love that you love Wonder.
Cynthia Nixon
Woman, but I have my Wonder Woman backpack here today. But I know, and I have always known that Wonder Woman is a very two dimensional figure.
Kristen Davis
Good point.
Cynthia Nixon
She's perfect, right? She's loving, she's strong, she's. You name it, she's getting an A, definitely. And I enjoy her. But I understand she has no dimension and she's really not that interesting.
Kristen Davis
Right, right, right, right, right.
Cynthia Nixon
And that's the thing about all of our. Both in the writing and in the playing. The thing that you were talking about before, the contrary, you have the headline of who the character is, but right below the headline, they're all the contradictions and the price to be paid. Even, like, for Charlotte, Charlotte is trying so hard to buy into the fairy tale of being the perfect girl and doing the right thing and winning the gold ribbon of the perfect handsome husband in the ring. Right. But she, you know, but she's constantly having that myth kind of eaten away.
Kristen Davis
Most definitely.
Cynthia Nixon
And also when, particularly when she tries to get married and then doesn't work.
Kristen Davis
Out, the pie in the face. You know, Michael and I talked a lot about the pie in the face and how all of us get our own version of the pie in the face. We also talked about the complexities of the character because I do feel like there's this crazy thing about Carrie not being likable, which is, you know, kind of insane, because I don't know why we would still be, you know, like.
Cynthia Nixon
Well, but it's why it's so we're so lucky to have Sarah Jessica playing her. It's like, it's why we're so lucky to have you playing Charlotte. Because in someone lesser hands, she would have been more two dimensional. Right?
Kristen Davis
I mean, I think so. I all I remember at the time because, as you know, my life is not like Charlotte's life. No, basically at all. There are some crossovers, but I was never interested in getting married. So, like, that took a lot of work on my part to be like, ah, you know, But I do think, I mean, they didn't Know this, you know, like, this is kind of the magic. There's a certain element of magic in all of our coming together, you know, that they didn't. You know, like, we never read together. We never really met each other.
Cynthia Nixon
There's no chemistry read.
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Kristen Davis
So thank God it worked out right? But I do.
Cynthia Nixon
We do have these characteristics that are very good for our characters.
Kristen Davis
100%. We've got the characteristics, but then we're also very complex people and also very different people coming together from different places, which I think contributed in a positive way to what was on screen. You don't need to know that, Right. You just feel it when you're watching it.
Cynthia Nixon
Right. You know what my mother used to say about the show?
Kristen Davis
What?
Cynthia Nixon
She said, you know what I like about your show? I watch it, I can tell who everyone is. They don't all look alike. I'm not confused.
Kristen Davis
That's true.
Cynthia Nixon
I don't know what was.
Kristen Davis
I think she's talking about how television. Because I was talking about this a little bit too. Like, there was a homogeny, you know.
Cynthia Nixon
Like a. I mean, we're all white, obviously, and we're all of an age.
Kristen Davis
It's true. But see, even that was different, right? Because we were all of an age. There was no other show other than the Golden Girls, you know, which. I mean, people. I remember going to an interview, I can't remember. Oh, I do remember who it was. I shouldn't even say this, but I walk out, it's a guy, it's a late night thing. And he goes, oh, you know, you guys are the new Golden Girls. And I was like, mad. I was so mad. And I was like, now I'm gonna have to go through this whole interview mad. And then he asked me about penis size. And I was just like, what on earth? Like, I just remember getting put through so many bizarre, like, embarrassing and complex things where you would want to be like, do you not know that that's kind of, like, offensive? Like, I guess you're trying to be nice, but, like, really were the Golden Girls, like, really, like, okay, but that there was just nothing to compare us to. There was just nothing. There was just nothing. And because we weren't 25, and because there were four women, right, even though it wasn't clear at the beginning, but it became more and more clear, you know, that each of us were gonna kind of get fleshed out and have.
Cynthia Nixon
That and have our own lane, right?
Kristen Davis
And she would connect us, you know, with the voiceover and all that. Oh, let's ask you this. What did you think about talking to the camera?
Cynthia Nixon
I love the talking to the camera.
Kristen Davis
That's why we love Cynthia.
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Cynthia Nixon
Sarah Jessica always hated it.
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Kristen Davis
Why?
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Cynthia Nixon
I always. Whether it's on film or on stage, when a character turns and talks to me.
Kristen Davis
You love to break the fourth wall.
Cynthia Nixon
I like to do it myself, but I love to have it happen to me as an audience member. And, you know, you. Now, you see it's slightly different, but you see all those shows like the Office in Modern Family. Right. Where they're constantly, like, looking at the. Looking at the camera.
Kristen Davis
Right. Well, they're doing interviews.
Cynthia Nixon
They're doing interviews.
Kristen Davis
Documentary.
Cynthia Nixon
Right, right, right, right.
Kristen Davis
It's a cute little.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah, I never mind. I never mind it. I mean, I don't know.
Kristen Davis
I enjoy those.
Cynthia Nixon
I don't really miss it in our show. I don't really miss it once it's gone.
Kristen Davis
Right. No, I don't either.
Cynthia Nixon
But I. But I. I liked it. I liked it.
Kristen Davis
I think it's interesting. I think it was hard for Sarah, partly because she's in the scene.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And also because of the Matthew thing with it, which I didn't even remember, but it makes total sense. But, like, when you watch her, I think it's the pilot of the first episode, she's in a scene and then the guy gets in the cabin, she turns and talks to the camera. Like, it's a very weird.
Cynthia Nixon
I would have loved that. I never. I never got to do that.
Kristen Davis
But I wouldn't do that.
Cynthia Nixon
But I would love to do that. I mean, we would just.
Kristen Davis
We'd have our scene where we were talking to the camera and you're so funny in the pilot when you're talking to the camera. With the chicken.
Cynthia Nixon
With the chicken, yeah.
Kristen Davis
Oh. So.
Cynthia Nixon
But, you know, I think also I. I think it was her unhappiness and maybe other people's unhappiness with that that made it go away. But also when we used to do all those, like, man on the street. Woman on the street.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
Giving their opinion about whatever the subject at hand was. I feel like they partly cut those because they were just time consuming.
Kristen Davis
They were hard to do.
Cynthia Nixon
They were hard to do. And you always had to. Oh, we had to cast it and then find a location and shoot the.
Kristen Davis
It's true, right? It's true. I mean, that's why I love the basketball one, because they're in one place and it's all these different guys and.
Cynthia Nixon
It'S the guys in the episode. It's also not some random person that you're never gonna see again in the episode or anywhere else.
Kristen Davis
And that's a good point as well. Like as a, you know, convention or whatever you would call it, it was clunky in the beginning because like you had to of different people to come in and say X, Y or Z.
Cynthia Nixon
Whereas in the pilot. Right. It's like it's a way of being introduced to all of us. Exactly.
Kristen Davis
Which makes perfect sense. But yeah, it was hard to keep it going. It was hard to keep it going.
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Cynthia Nixon
From our conversations, like two things that occurred to me that I wanted to bring up. One was, you know, you were talking about the time when they asked us what was like the body part that we felt insecure about or would like to change or whatever. And you know, there were however many episodes there were before we had any female writers. We just had Darren and then we had Darren and Michael. Patrick.
Kristen Davis
Right. I think there was a female writer in la. I can't remember her name, Terry something. But we never met them. Right.
Cynthia Nixon
But so what I remember is there was, I don't remember what episode it is, but it's pretty early where we're, we're talking about blowjobs and who likes them and who doesn't like them.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Cynthia Nixon
And remember they came and interviewed us all. Do you remember this?
Kristen Davis
No. What?
Cynthia Nixon
Because they were, you know, they were gay men. So they have their own opinions about blowjobs. Right. And their own relationship to it.
Kristen Davis
Oh my God.
Cynthia Nixon
But they really, they were really kind of a little sheepish, but they felt like.
Kristen Davis
When you say they, do you mean Darren and Michael.
Cynthia Nixon
Darren and Michael. I remember Michael specifically.
Kristen Davis
Okay, okay.
Cynthia Nixon
But maybe they might have come. I think they might have come together. Wow. And asked.
Kristen Davis
Oh, I Don't remember.
Cynthia Nixon
And they wanted to know, like, I mean, the baseline question is, women enjoy blowjobs. Is it just something you just do to, you know, get along, you know, whatever? So they went. And then they put different things that people said or whatever, and not necessarily in the mouth of the person who had said it, but. Right. Cause they were like.
Kristen Davis
I remember this.
Cynthia Nixon
Cause I think every once in a while before we had female writers that were in New York, you know, it was like, really, should we have women here? We really should ask them, because we actually don't know.
Kristen Davis
I'm so glad that they did. On my flight yesterday, I was losing my voice while I was really trying to be on vocal rest. Cause I really wanted to have a voice to talk to you today. I'm. I'm watching Bluey's.
Cynthia Nixon
You're watching what?
Kristen Davis
Bluey. Do you know Bluey? Your kids are too old. Bluey is an Australian cartoon.
Cynthia Nixon
You mean like Blue's Clues?
Kristen Davis
It's new. It's really, really good. Cynthia.
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Kristen Davis
It's dogs. They're dogs.
Cynthia Nixon
Well, like Blue's Clues.
Kristen Davis
No, no, it's not like Blue's Clues. It is a thing. It's a phenomenon. My kids are fully obsessed. We've seen them all. But, okay. It's the type thing where I want to rewatch it.
Cynthia Nixon
Wow.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
Like spongebob used to be for us.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Cynthia Nixon
In the early days. Yes, early SpongeBob. There's nothing better. I think it's true.
Kristen Davis
SpongeBob had.
Cynthia Nixon
It was the one thing that our whole family, with all of our children at very different ages, we would all watch it.
Kristen Davis
It's a little lighter than spongebob. Cause spongebob has kind of a burst of humor underneath. This is more like somehow they're writing for the parents and the kids. It's really good. So I'm really. I'm watching that. Cause I'm watching something like a feel good thing. That's my feel good thing. And it's dark, you know, when everyone's sleeping around me. And these two adorable young flight attendants come up to me and kneel down. And I'm like, oh, God. You know, because I'm in the middle of a Bluey's. Right? So I pause. The Blueies. I'm like, yes. And they give me this note, and then they skitter off. And the note is so sweet. And I meant to bring it, but it basically says, we just want to thank you. Because we were raised, for better or worse, on Sex and the City. And I was like, it's so. Gives me chills. It's like, an incredible and bizarre thing to think about.
Cynthia Nixon
Well, right. I think we talked a little bit about, you know, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives together. Watching it being a kind of a springboard for talking about sex. And I think a lot of mothers and daughters, too.
Kristen Davis
So many.
Cynthia Nixon
And again, a great springboard for, like.
Kristen Davis
Absolutely. And who. I mean, it just boggles my mind to think about the origins of us. Right. And I mean, thank God we, I think, all had a sense of the wonderfulness, the power or whatever it was. And we were hoping that everyone else would also get it, you know what I'm saying? Like, and clearly, hbo, thank God, did and let us, you know, have the space to, like, grow and continue. And then the reviewers, you know, didn't really. Which was also really interesting. But we kind of also expected that. Right. Like, I remember being very worried before that first. Really, the first season. Yeah, yeah. I remember me and Sarah Jessica. Like, what are we gonna say? What are they gonna think? And remember how we did? Like, anyone wanted to talk to us, we talked to them. Like, we were like, we are. We're gonna get out there and work hard so that this is a success, you know? And we did, obviously. I mean, never have people worked harder, I don't think, for a TV show. You know what I mean? But. But it was bigger. It was. It felt bigger. I feel like it felt bigger in a way, because there wasn't anything like it.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
You know, like, it felt like we were part of something that was bigger.
Cynthia Nixon
And because we were on hbo, two things. We didn't have sponsors looking over our shoulder. Right. And saying, you can't say that. You can't talk about that. Right.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
And we. And because it was hbo, a different version, but a subset of that was like, it's a place where they would just let people with vision do their thing and not interfere.
Kristen Davis
Right. There were, like, very few notes.
Cynthia Nixon
Very few notes.
Kristen Davis
Just two that I know of. And one had to do with your storyline where you and Sarah Jessica. Carrie. You and Carrie. Sorry, I really mix this up sometimes. It's bad. Okay. It's bad. You and Carrie have some guy that you fight over. Do you remember this? It's not in the first season. I think it's second or third. And Carolyn Strauss was like, no, they will never be arguing over a guy.
Cynthia Nixon
Oh, it's not. The guy from the. When the guy I'm on the. Going on the date with dies. Right. It's not that. It's not Frenemies? Is it frenemies?
Kristen Davis
It could be frenemies. Because I think it changed right from the.
Cynthia Nixon
Because that's my friend Alana's husband, Dominic Famousa.
Kristen Davis
Right?
Cynthia Nixon
Yes, it could be that. Right. I think the idea that would make sense was she comes with me to the funeral of the guy that I was supposed to go on the date with, and I call and yell at his mother, and then she's like, he died.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
And then it's somebody that Sarah Jessica has dated or slept with in the past.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
And she tries to warn me off of him. And I was like, I like him.
Kristen Davis
Whatever. Right.
Cynthia Nixon
So that must be right, because at.
Kristen Davis
One version, there was like, an argument between you guys about it, you know, like a. Like a.
Cynthia Nixon
Like she still liked him or something. Or not.
Kristen Davis
Cool. Yeah. And Carolyn Strauss was like, no, they're never going to be doing that.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
You know, and then the only other note that I ever personally got. Well, actually, I had to reshoot the scene with the guy, the up the butt guy, because Darren told me that I was too upset. Because, you know, my thing in the.
Cynthia Nixon
Beginning with the guy on the bed.
Kristen Davis
My thing in the beginning with my two flats, you know, I only had two flats. I don't know what Miranda had.
Cynthia Nixon
I think I had nothing. I think I had nothing until I bought the apartment. And then I had a whole apartment.
Kristen Davis
Amazing. Amazing. Yeah, you're. You're quite out in the world, which I love. You know, you're walking, you're talking. You're with Skipper, you're with Carrie. Oh, we have to talk about you and Carrie. Yeah, we have to talk about you and Carrie.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
When you think about your relationship, the Miranda Carey relationship, I feel like. And in ways that I never really clocked, because, of course, I'm over there just trying to do my best as Charlotte. Right, Right. I'm not thinking objectively about everybody, but, like, it's such a through line and your walk and talks. And I remember when we're. When we're on and just like that I'm always like, darn it, they have another walk and talk and I'm not in it. Like, I'm always so sad. Do you know what I mean? But when I look back at the history of it, I'm like, of course they do. It's like a. It's like a touchstone for our whole entire being.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
Do you feel that way? I do.
Cynthia Nixon
I feel like I'm not sure I understand it. I feel like, you know, I feel like both Charlotte and Samantha have a thing that Miranda doesn't have. Which is they have a little bit of, like, I'm not gonna mess in your world.
Kristen Davis
That's true. Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
I see you doing something. I don't agree with it. I don't approve of it. I don't. Whatever.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
But I'm gonna respect it. I'm gonna respect it, or I'm just not gonna mess with it. I don't wanna have a fight with you. I don't wanna. Whatever.
Kristen Davis
Right. Not Miranda.
Cynthia Nixon
Right. Miranda. Right. And I think maybe it's because Miranda sort of came later to this idea of, like, a partner, children. Like a kind of an interior self, you know? So I think for a long time, Carrie was that person for her.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
That was like her for sure. Right. And so she fights with her the way you would fight with a spouse.
Kristen Davis
So true.
Cynthia Nixon
Right?
Kristen Davis
It's so true.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah. Like, Miranda doesn't feel like there is a politeness boundary.
Kristen Davis
No, she doesn't. And I think that's what Carrie likes and needs.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
You know, from the Carrie standpoint, like, here's someone who's actually gonna tell me what she thinks.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
She's not gonna tiptoe. She's gonna go right in there. Do you know what I mean? Not that she listens to you, but, you know, it's a really interesting dynamic.
Cynthia Nixon
But also, it's like the thing when Miranda disapproves of. It's very hard for Carrie to sort of, like, quiet that head in her voice.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
Because she thinks, oh, maybe she's right.
Kristen Davis
Yeah, definitely. Which is what's so great. It's such a great and interesting dynamic that rewatching it, I'm really much more aware of it than I used to be. In terms of, like, so many important things happen on your Guys walk and talks.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
You know, that affect. I mean, maybe there's listened to. Maybe they're not listened to. But, like, you're, like, thinking out loud and processing together. Together in a way. And even though you're very different, you meet kind of in the middle in an interesting, interesting way. You know, like, in terms of, like, kind of intellectually, but also emotionally. There's a exchange that I really love.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And it's partly because you are so different.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And you have a different point of view.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
But you're equals.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah. You know. Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Which is so great in so many ways. Where Charlotte's like, is my hair too shiny? At least that's how she begins. You know what I mean? But you guys, right away, right Away. I feel like it's very much.
Cynthia Nixon
Equals.
Kristen Davis
Kind of who respect each other.
Cynthia Nixon
She.
Kristen Davis
I feel like she needs your opinion. She needs it. You know, she's not gonna necessarily show you that.
Cynthia Nixon
Right.
Kristen Davis
But she's like, oh, you know, she very in her, like, way. Like, oh, you know this. And you're like, really?
Cynthia Nixon
I think. Right. I mean, I do feel like, you know, I always. I'm very into the Greek gods in high school and whatever. Right? No, and so it's so obvious. It's like. Right. Samantha is Aphrodite.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Cynthia Nixon
And you're Hera. Right? The goddess of marriage.
Kristen Davis
Right? Yes.
Cynthia Nixon
And I'm Artemis. Right. And then Carrie's. I don't know who's. But. But I mean, I think that that's a thing about Miranda is like, she's very like. That's the thing about Artemis. Like, she has her whole little tribe of women. And they're hunters and they're not Amazons, but they're kind of like Amazons and men are like, second tier. Do you know what I mean? So it's like our relationship is primary and it's why Miranda can get in there. I mean, with you guys, too. Miranda provokes you and, you know, all the pinnacle. I would just keep walking. Oh, no. Carrie says that, right? I would just keep walking.
Kristen Davis
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But also, like, my choice is my choice.
Cynthia Nixon
Yes, Yes. I choose my choice. I choose my choice.
Kristen Davis
I choose my choice. See, I don't remember them right. But she does.
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Kristen Davis
I can't really remember Miranda in the book so much like I do feel also like as much as I think about Charlotte not being fleshed out in the book, I don't really think anyone was that fleshed out in the book. In a way.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah, I mean I read the book and I liked the book, but I don't remember it hardly at all.
Kristen Davis
Like, I think we kind of just.
Cynthia Nixon
I remember it was hard to like the people.
Kristen Davis
It was hard to like the people.
Cynthia Nixon
It was really hard to like the people.
Kristen Davis
Michael and I talked about this. Like it was. You know, I do think that Candace was, you know, kind of reporting the things she was hearing were going on in this kind of certain group of people, like the finance Bros. And the. You know, it was a dark. As Michael put it, a dark kind of a.
Cynthia Nixon
And the men had a lot of power and money.
Kristen Davis
A lot of power and money. And there was kind of this.
Cynthia Nixon
And the women were wanting to be loved and wanting to be.
Kristen Davis
So Michael talks about when he came in that he didn't really know that world. You know, Darren knew it and Candace knew it, obviously, but Darren knew it and was bringing that. Like, when I watched the Modelizer, I had totally forgotten about that sex tape thing. Right. I was like, what on earth? Right now I'm 100% sure that that really happened. And Candace was just reporting about it. But, like, the fact that Carrie has to sit there and be like, oh, do you have a light? Like, it's so crazy. But then later, she does go to Samantha and say, like, oh, you know, you might not want to go over there, you know, And Samantha's like, I will. Which, you know, the thing I remember about the book. Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
Is that there are all these people and they're all alienated.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Cynthia Nixon
The men and women are definitely alienated from each other. They're working across purposes. They're not showing their hand. They're trying to win, but they're not win through. Let me tell you what I want.
Kristen Davis
Right, right, right.
Cynthia Nixon
Let me hear what you want. You know, and that there's no sense that I remember in the book of the women being allied with each other.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
And so I think that that's the. I mean, and the pilot, which I love the pilot, but the pilot captures much more of that sense of like, we're all ships that pass in the night and we can't help each other and we're all kind of doomed.
Kristen Davis
It's true.
Cynthia Nixon
Right. But that. That's the biggest switch that makes the show. The show is like we're having. We're all on our separate journeys, and they're often disappointing or worse, you know, harrowing in some way. But we. The thing that we are not in doubt of is our love for each other and our commitment to each other.
Kristen Davis
And the fact that we're family.
Cynthia Nixon
Right. And then we're always Gonna be there for each other.
Kristen Davis
Definitely.
Cynthia Nixon
And that, as opposed to men with. You might feel like you have to play a game that between the women, we tell each other what we think.
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Kristen Davis
Which is so, so great. I feel like that's almost possibly the ending, though I really hate to end because I could talk to you forever and it's so much fun. And I'd love to hear the other, like. Cause even though we were all went through it, everyone has slightly different.
Cynthia Nixon
Of the. Coming to it.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. Memories and coming to it and how you thought about it and what you think now when you look back, like, it's super fascinating. And we're obviously so incredibly lucky to be part of it and part of something that has been able to last this long. And I feel like the reason it's been able to last this long in its different carnations is the storytelling, you know, and the relatability and the kind of the core, you know, discovery or, like, search for answers. And, you know, like, Michael has his own viewpoint, as you know, about, you know, what our themes are or whatever. Right. I just love to talk about it because every time I talk to any of us, I learn more about it. And I feel like people obviously relate to it in different ways for that very reason.
Cynthia Nixon
I mean, when I watch the show having. You know, when I watch an episode, having seen it however many times before, the thing that always strikes me is how concentrated it is. The dense it is about how there's no wasted. There's no treading water, that it's so compact. And I think it's one of the reasons people do like to watch them again and again and again is there's every. There's multiple things going on every moment. And it's so beautifully, like, woven together. It's so the themes and the lines and the. It's like a perfect, you know, origami or something, you know, like. And so of course, it's funny and it's shocking and it's beautiful to look at, both in terms of us and the clothes and the cinematography and the city, but it's really that it's. It's dense. And I was. It's funny. Cause I was listening to a. On my way over here of Nora Ephron's first book, and she was talking in great detail about how she came to be a writer from the world of journalism and specifically from the world of the Post, which she said is a terrible newspaper. And also everything is really, really short. And she said it was a great training because I wasn't writing multiple pages. It was like. And I think. I don't know what there is about Darren and Michael, that maybe it was. That the show was 23 minutes or 27 minutes or whatever.
Kristen Davis
I mean, that's what Michael had come from. Right. Like true sitcom timing.
Cynthia Nixon
But that you have. Maybe if you had one main character, you could tread water a little bit more. But you have four.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
And to try and get four. And we always know this is an episode in which I'm heavy. This is an episode in which I'm light. You know, this is my episode. This is really not my episode.
Kristen Davis
Right.
Cynthia Nixon
But regardless, even if it's not your episode, you do have a storyline.
Kristen Davis
Right. And you're there.
Cynthia Nixon
And you're there.
Kristen Davis
You're present.
Cynthia Nixon
And so to be able to boil it down and make it be so economical, I think is like, everything has to do three things.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. And that's a really valid point. And I think also Wyatt stands up. You know, I mean, like, not every tiny detail will stand up. And some of it's nostalgic and some of it right.
Cynthia Nixon
And some of it's cringy. Right.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. But it's still fascinating. And that's, you know, an accomplishment. Now, I want to say something else. Since you're here and since we're on my podcast, and I can. I just want to say that I've said this in different settings. Meeting you and having you be with me through this whole thing and be my protector has been such a gift. You are such a gift.
Cynthia Nixon
You have been my protector in at least as many as I don't think so.
Kristen Davis
But you're sweet, and I'm so happy to have gone through this with you and to continue. To continue.
Cynthia Nixon
I cherish you. I love you.
Kristen Davis
You're my baby. Thank you for coming. We know you're not a Charlotte.
Cynthia Nixon
I'm really not.
Kristen Davis
We don't want you to be.
Cynthia Nixon
I'm really not.
Kristen Davis
It's cool.
Cynthia Nixon
I'm really not.
Kristen Davis
It's cool. I don't want people to feel like they have to be a Charlotte.
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Kristen Davis
It's just a jumping off.
Cynthia Nixon
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
It's a jumping off question. Yeah. In case I don't know the person.
Cynthia Nixon
Right, right, right.
Kristen Davis
But I know you. Thank you, Cynthia.
Cynthia Nixon
Thank you, Kristen Scott. Tom.
Kristen Davis
I wish. I wish that I wrote Kristen Scott Thomas.
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Podcast Summary: “Miranda Inside and Out with Cynthia Nixon” Podcast: Are You A Charlotte? Host: iHeartPodcasts (Kristin Davis) Guest: Cynthia Nixon Release Date: February 27, 2025
In this episode of “Are You A Charlotte?”, host Kristin Davis engages in an in-depth conversation with Cynthia Nixon, who portrays Miranda Hobbes in the iconic series Sex and the City. The discussion delves into their experiences before the show, the dynamics of their characters, and the enduring impact of the series on contemporary conversations about women and sexuality.
Kristin Davis opens the conversation by reflecting on their lives prior to starring in the show.
Kristin Davis [02:35]:
"Can you remember before Miranda, you would just go about your life and no one would recognize you or people would randomly recognize you from different things? What was it like in terms of being in the world?"
Cynthia Nixon [03:00]:
"Yes. I feel like, again, because I was in this pretty successful movie when I was 12... It was comfortable. It was like a little salt seasoning."
Cynthia reminisces about her early acting roles, notably in Little Darlings and Amadeus, emphasizing the manageable level of fame before Sex and the City.
The hosts discuss the unexpected demographics of their early fanbase, particularly the surprising number of black male fans.
Cynthia Nixon [03:47]:
"More than half, like three-quarters of the people that would come up to us were black men."
Kristin and Cynthia explore the fascinating reception, attributing it to overlapping interests such as live sports events that attracted a predominantly male audience.
Kristin addresses the bold portrayal of sexuality on the show and its intended audience.
Kristin Davis [04:16]:
"Did you think about, what are we doing here? Is this for the male audience or is this for the female audience?"
Cynthia Nixon [05:06]:
"I always thought that it was for the female audience primarily... It was empowering, though a bit exaggerated compared to reality."
They discuss the show’s aim to empower women through candid discussions about sex, balancing entertainment with meaningful dialogue.
The conversation deepens into how the show portrayed female sexuality as empowering rather than transactional.
Cynthia Nixon [07:25]:
"Women can and always have had a lot of sex, but by and large, the sex that these four women were having was not to try and get men to like them."
Kristin echoes concerns about modern hookup culture, questioning whether sexual encounters are driven by genuine desire or as means to an end.
The hosts compare the show's portrayal of relationships to today's hookup culture, highlighting shifts in societal attitudes.
Cynthia Nixon [07:54]:
"The Hookup culture now is like you think you're very liberated because you're having a lot of sex. But are you enjoying the sex?"
They reflect on the complexities of consent, power dynamics, and emotional fulfillment in contemporary dating versus the show's era.
Kristin and Cynthia analyze the intricate relationships between the show's characters, focusing on Miranda and Charlotte's interactions.
Cynthia Nixon [10:02]:
"The great thing about the show is that all of the characters are deeply flawed and make bad decisions."
They commend the show’s writing for creating multidimensional characters, using mythological analogies to describe their personalities and dynamics.
Revisiting the series allows Kristin and Cynthia to uncover deeper layers and appreciate the storytelling craftsmanship.
Cynthia Nixon [25:04]:
"How concentrated it is. There's no wasted, no treading water. It's so compact."
Kristin Davis [30:33]:
"But you're equals."
They discuss how the episodic structure ensures each character's storyline is meaningful and contributes to the overall narrative, enhancing rewatch value.
The hosts delve into the challenges of writing for an ensemble cast within the show’s limited time frame.
Cynthia Nixon [41:19]:
"We have four characters, and to try and get four storylines in is no small feat."
Kristin Davis [42:03]:
"And that's a really valid point. And I think also Wyatt stands up."
They admire the show's ability to weave multiple storylines seamlessly, attributing it to disciplined writing and strong character development.
Kristin expresses heartfelt appreciation for Cynthia, highlighting their enduring friendship forged through the show.
Kristin Davis [42:12]:
"Meeting you and having you be with me through this whole thing and be my protector has been such a gift."
Cynthia Nixon [42:51]:
"I cherish you. I love you."
Their exchange underscores the deep bonds formed among the cast, emphasizing mutual support and affection.
Wrapping up, Kristin and Cynthia reflect on the show's legacy and its role in fostering open conversations about women's lives and relationships.
Cynthia Nixon [38:15]:
"We are always gonna be there for each other."
Kristin Davis [38:41]:
"We're part of something that has been able to last this long in its different incarnations."
They affirm the show's timeless relevance and its success in creating relatable, enduring narratives that resonate across generations.
Notable Quotes:
Cynthia Nixon [03:47]:
"More than half, like three-quarters of the people that would come up to us were black men."
Kristin Davis [04:16]:
"Is this for the male audience or is this for the female audience?"
Cynthia Nixon [05:06]:
"I always thought that it was for the female audience primarily... It was empowering, though a bit exaggerated compared to reality."
Cynthia Nixon [07:25]:
"Women can and always have had a lot of sex, but by and large, the sex that these four women were having was not to try and get men to like them."
Cynthia Nixon [10:02]:
"The great thing about the show is that all of the characters are deeply flawed and make bad decisions."
Cynthia Nixon [38:15]:
"We are always gonna be there for each other."
This episode offers a profound exploration of Sex and the City through the eyes of its iconic cast members. Kristin Davis and Cynthia Nixon provide intimate insights into their characters’ lives, the show's creative process, and its lasting cultural influence. Their candid dialogue not only celebrates the series’ achievements but also underscores the personal and professional growth they experienced during its production. For fans and newcomers alike, this conversation illuminates the enduring significance of Sex and the City in shaping narratives around women, friendship, and sexuality.