Podcast Title: Are You A Charlotte?
Episode: Peach of an Episode with Tamara Tunie… (S2 E6 "The Cheating Curve")
Release Date: July 21, 2025
Host/Author: iHeartPodcasts

Introduction

In this episode of "Are You A Charlotte?", host Kristin Davis invites special guest Tamara Tunie to delve into the nuances of their experiences on "Sex and the City", particularly focusing on the episode titled "The Cheating Curve". Together, they reminisce about memorable moments, behind-the-scenes insights, and the enduring impact of the show on conversations about women and relationships.

Guest Introduction and Connection

[03:09] Kristin Davis:
“Welcome everyone. We have the amazing Tamara Tunie joining us. She plays one of Charlotte's power lesbians and you will know her from Law and Special Victims Unit.”

Tamara Tunie brings a wealth of experience, having portrayed the medical examiner in "Law & Order: SVU" across 230 episodes. Her multifaceted career in acting and directing adds depth to the conversation.

First Impressions and On-Set Memories

[07:51] Kristin Davis:
“I remember coming to read for the role and seeing Sarah Jessica come by to greet us. 'I just thought, yeah, that's classy.'”

Tamara shares her initial interactions on set, highlighting the camaraderie and professionalism among the cast. They discuss the unique environment of filming in New York City, balancing theater and television work.

Behind the Scenes of "The Cheating Curve"

Art Gallery Scene

[15:05] Tamara Tunie:
“I love that the show begins with the power lesbians, which I love so much.”

They dissect the iconic art gallery opening scene, praising the directorial choices of John David Cowles. The gradual filling of the gallery with characters symbolizes the emergence of diverse voices and perspectives.

Flea Market Conversation

[30:05] Tamara Tunie:
“Samantha says, 'Men cheat the same reason why dogs lick their balls because they can.'”

The duo explores the philosophical debate on what constitutes cheating, emphasizing the subjective nature of the concept. They reflect on how these discussions remain relevant decades later.

[33:24] Kristin Davis:
“In a perfect world, that would be fantastic.”

This quote underscores the idealistic yet challenging nature of maintaining personal integrity in relationships.

Carrie and Big’s Relationship Dynamics

[40:38] Tamara Tunie:
“She's looking at him with such passion but trying to keep a lid on it.”

Kristin and Tamara analyze the evolving relationship between Carrie and Big, highlighting moments of vulnerability and growth. They discuss how their on-screen chemistry laid the groundwork for future developments in the series.

Themes and Social Commentary

Empowerment and Representation

[13:52] Kristin Davis:
“You know what I mean?”

The conversation delves into how "Sex and the City" broke societal norms by openly discussing topics like women's sexuality, relationships, and empowerment. Tamara emphasizes the show's role in "freeing women to speak more freely."

Cheating and Conscience

[35:47] Tamara Tunie:
“You carry it, whether you get caught or not.”
[35:51] Kristin Davis:
“Whether you get caught or not.”

They discuss the moral implications of cheating, stressing that personal conscience plays a crucial role in how individuals navigate their actions, regardless of external judgments.

Legacy and Impact of the Show

[60:01] Tamara Tunie:
“It is amazing.”

Reflecting on the show's enduring legacy, Kristin and Tamara acknowledge the initial skepticism regarding its syndication potential. They celebrate how "Sex and the City" defied expectations, influencing contemporary media and paving the way for more diverse and women-led narratives.

[62:32] Kristin Davis:
“That's a really good point.”

They commend the shift in leadership dynamics within the entertainment industry, advocating for more women and people of color in decision-making roles to continue the progress initiated by shows like "Sex and the City."

Final Thoughts and Conclusion

[63:00] Tamara Tunie:
“All right. I like that. Happy note to end on.”

As the episode draws to a close, Kristin and Tamara share heartfelt reflections on their journey with "Sex and the City." They express gratitude towards the fans and acknowledge the unpredictable nature of the entertainment industry. The conversation ends on an optimistic note, celebrating the show's lasting influence and the personal growth experienced by its cast.

Notable Quotes

• Kristin Davis [07:51]:
  “I just thought, yeah, that's classy.”

• Tamara Tunie [15:05]:
  “I love that the show begins with the power lesbians, which I love so much.”

• Tamara Tunie [30:05]:
  “Samantha says, 'Men cheat the same reason why dogs lick their balls because they can.'”

• Tamara Tunie [35:47]:
  “You carry it, whether you get caught or not.”

• Kristin Davis [13:52]:
  “You know what I mean?”

• Tamara Tunie [60:01]:
  “It is amazing.”

• Tamara Tunie [63:00]:
  “All right. I like that. Happy note to end on.”

Conclusion

This episode of "Are You A Charlotte?" offers an in-depth exploration of "Sex and the City" through the eyes of Kristin Davis and Tamara Tunie. Their candid discussions provide valuable insights into the show's creative process, thematic depth, and its significant role in shaping modern conversations around women's lives and relationships.