Podcast Summary: Are You A Charlotte? – Episode: Secret Sex with Shmuel (Glenn Fleshler)

Introduction

In this compelling episode of "Are You A Charlotte?", hosted by Kristin Davis of iHeartPodcasts, Davis welcomes a very special guest, Glenn Fleshler, renowned for his role as Shmuel in the iconic series Sex and the City. Released on May 5, 2025, this episode delves deep into Glenn’s journey in acting, his experiences on set, and the enduring legacy of Sex and the City.

Guest Introduction

Kristin Davis opens the conversation with enthusiasm, highlighting Glenn's notable work and current projects.

Kristin Davis [00:59]: "This is Glenn Fleshler and he played Shmuel."

Glenn Fleshler [02:17]: "You guys, it's so exciting to talk to Glenn."

Early Career and Path to Acting

Glenn shares his early days in acting, attending NYU and navigating the challenging world of off-Broadway shows and regional theater. He candidly discusses the struggles of balancing passion with financial constraints.

Glenn Fleshler [04:02]: "I went to acting school at NYU and found myself very in debt and trying to work my way out of that by doing off Broadway shows and regional theater, which is a fool's errand."

Casting in Sex and the City

The conversation shifts to Glenn's casting in Sex and the City. He recalls the audition process and the unexpected opportunity to join the groundbreaking series.

Glenn Fleshler [06:39]: "I simply went to the audition thinking there's no way in hell they're going to cast me. I think it was Michael Patrick King. Maybe just him. I don't remember. But I just did a very simple audition, and I got the role. I was so shocked."

Kristin reflects on their time together on set, sharing humorous anecdotes about their first meetings and scenes.

Glenn Fleshler [07:55]: "You basically. My first TV job was like having to make out with you and smoke cigarettes all night."

On-Set Experiences and Character Development

Glenn delves into the nuances of playing Shmuel, a character that initially seemed underwritten but evolved significantly over time. He discusses the challenges of being typecast and his desire to diversify his roles.

Glenn Fleshler [04:56]: "As a character actor, you kind of want to do different things. But I've noticed in my career that you go through these little mini runs where it's like, oh, now I'm playing all these killers."

Kristin and Glenn reminisce about the show's early days, the creative process, and how the characters found their depth as the series progressed.

Glenn Fleshler [09:01]: "In the beginning, no one knew what we were doing, including kind of ourselves. ... I was just trying to, you know, fit it off because I certainly was not one of these Manhattan women in any way."

Impact and Legacy of Sex and the City

The episode highlights the profound impact Sex and the City had on both the cast and its audience. Glenn reflects on how the show remained relevant and continued to attract new fans years after its original airing.

Glenn Fleshler [13:05]: "People would want to talk about that, and they'd come up to me and say things like, are you Mr. Pussy? Are you the dildo guy?"

Kristin emphasizes the show's role in shifting narratives around women and relationships, making it a cultural staple.

Transition to Broadway and Current Projects

Glenn discusses his transition from television to Broadway, working alongside luminaries like George Clooney in Good Night and Good Luck. He shares insights into the differences between live theater and TV acting, as well as the challenges and rewards of performing on Broadway.

Glenn Fleshler [19:41]: "Good Night and Good Luck. It's been quite a ride. I haven't been on stage for 10 years, so."

He praises George Clooney's professionalism and the enriching experience of working on a Broadway production.

Glenn Fleshler [20:35]: "George, I was like, he's gonna be great and he loves to have a good time and so smart and so smart, funny and serious at the same time."

Reflections on Acting and Career Choices

Glenn reflects on his diverse acting career, spanning theater, film, and television. He discusses the importance of versatility and the personal fulfillment that comes from exploring different facets of acting.

Glenn Fleshler [25:38]: "I eventually got to Broadway with James Earl Jones, which was of course a dream and a miracle."

Kristin acknowledges Glenn’s dedication and the mutual respect between them, highlighting how their paths have intertwined since their time on Sex and the City.

The Enduring Connection with the Audience and Cast

Glenn shares heartfelt moments about fan interactions and the lasting connections formed through the show. He emphasizes the unique bond actors share and how Sex and the City continues to resonate with audiences worldwide.

Glenn Fleshler [43:16]: "I have some great experiences, but I ended up cranking out six Broadway shows in five years."

Kristin highlights the show's ability to evolve and stay relevant, which Glenn attributes to the dynamic writing and character development.

Glenn Fleshler [24:18]: "We have had this one thing that has just, like, lived and lived and lived."

Conclusion

As the episode wraps up, Kristin thanks Glenn for sharing his invaluable experiences and insights. Both express their appreciation for the enduring legacy of Sex and the City and the meaningful connections forged through their work.

Kristin Davis [43:42]: "And thank you for coming on the podcast."

Glenn Fleshler [45:34]: "It was a no brainer. I'm thrilled to see you and thanks for having me."

Notable Quotes

• Glenn Fleshler [06:39]: "I simply went to the audition thinking there's no way in hell they're going to cast me... and I got the role."

• Kristin Davis [09:01]: "In the beginning, no one knew what we were doing, including kind of ourselves."

• Glenn Fleshler [19:41]: "Good Night and Good Luck. It's been quite a ride."

• Glenn Fleshler [24:18]: "We have had this one thing that has just, like, lived and lived and lived."

Final Thoughts

This episode of "Are You A Charlotte?" offers an intimate glimpse into Glenn Fleshler’s career and the profound impact of Sex and the City. Through candid conversations and shared memories, listeners gain a deeper appreciation for the dedication and passion that fueled one of television’s most beloved shows. Whether you're a long-time fan or new to the series, this episode beautifully captures the essence of collaboration, growth, and the enduring power of storytelling.