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Sarah Jessica Parker
Hi, I'm Kristen Davis, and I want to know, are you a Charlotte? Welcome back, everybody, to are you a Charlotte? Part 2. Thanks for joining us. Here we go. All right, let's go back. Let's go back to this episode. But it is fun. One of the things that. Which is so obvious, obviously, but I'm just going to name it. One of the things that is joyful about rewatching this is that. Because we all know things that happen. Yes, you can go back, but we all have this vocabulary, which is kind of amazing.
Kristen Davis
Amazing.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And, you know, due to our writers. Writers are so important.
Kristen Davis
Yes. Oh, my goodness. Writers are everything. If it's not there on the page, there's nothing you can do.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I know. I mean, in the beginning of the show, Charlotte wasn't really on the page. And I really stressed, you know, quietly, because I didn't want to complain. Right. Like, I would just be like, oh, what am I? What am I doing right? And you're trying to bring so much. You're trying to bring subtext to, like, nothing that's really there. And then luckily, as it went, because also we were based on a column and a paper that was about gossip in New York, right? So, like, all of them had to be kind of fleshed out and deepened out. And obviously Carrie changed in her own way from the true Candice Bushnell. You know, they deviated pretty significantly. But I think for Charlotte, you know, until we kind of added some of our writers, and Jenny had grown up on the Upper east side and kind of knew that life. And Michael Patrick took some time. Like he said to me when he came on the show, which was first season, Darren brought him on to write. He said, I looked at your character, and I was like, I don't know what to write for. And then over time, of course, he was. It came to him and he saw me and her and the world and, you know, thank God. Thank you, Michael. Thank God it came to him. But it is interesting to look back sometimes. And I also think for myself, and you were younger than me, but the vibe still in the 90s in New York was that not necessarily like the Charlotte version of, like, Married with Children, but like, you were looking to get. Get coupled up. It wasn't necessarily clear yet that this kind of growing contingency of single women.
Kristen Davis
That's true.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Were going to be like, A power move or whatever. I don't know how to put it. But, you know, like, at a certain point in the 2000s, there would be. Like, at one point, they put the four of us on the COVID of Time magazine and they wrote, who needs a husband? Wow. I have it hanging in my closet. It makes me laugh.
Kristen Davis
That's amazing.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I know. And remember Ally McBeal.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Like that. There were a lot of kind of conversation around that.
Kristen Davis
Because the assumption before those conversations started was that is the goal. Even if you also work or whatever. Like, at some point you're gonna lay down your career to do husband, children, all those other things.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yep. It's so interesting to think about, but I see it in so many weird details when you look back at the shows. Like Miranda, I never thought of her, but the episode a couple of episodes ago was the Chicken Dance, where there's a wedding of her interior designer meets this guy that she has coming from London to visit. It's a long story. She has hopes for the guy, but then they fall in love at first sight and get married. And she reads the poem. Carrie reads the poem and cries because Big gets up and doesn't listen to her poem. It's very loaded. It's such a loaded. And then the best part for me is at the end, we're all standing there, we've gone through a whole drama at this wedding, and they throw the bouquet and it lands at our feet and we're like, okay, bye.
Kristen Davis
None of you pick it up. Oh, that's awesome.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I know. It's so great. But it's so funny to think that that was, like, new or whatever or different idea. Yeah, Fascinating. Okay, back to the episode. Here we go. Oh, yes, Roger's used. Poor Roger. And then. Oh, here we go with the Jason Theroux.
Kristen Davis
Yes, the Jason Theroux.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, my gosh. First of all, he's just so adorable and talented.
Kristen Davis
So cute.
Sarah Jessica Parker
God.
Kristen Davis
Oh. So funny and wonderful.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I mean, so funny and wonderful and like, just to watch his career. Another one where, like, you know, I mean, I don't know in his career what he'd done before or how we knew him, but he was definitely. Sarah knew him, I believe. And I think that what had happened with this episode was that they were hoping she would get Matthew. Oh. Cause couldn't you see Matthew in that part for sure? Right?
Kristen Davis
I mean. Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And I think that Matthew was like, no, no. And I think even Sarah was like, no. It's a little.
Kristen Davis
It seems weird. Yeah, it's a little weird. Like they don't.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I mean, they did Plaza Suite together, which is amazing, for sure.
Kristen Davis
But just like a one off. And particularly what this storyline is. No, that would be so uncomfortable. Yeah. And just, I think, distracting for the audience, too.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Absolutely.
Kristen Davis
They would spend all those scenes being like, oh, they're actually married.
Sarah Jessica Parker
That's cool.
Kristen Davis
Absolutely. I'm watching them through.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Absolutely.
Kristen Davis
You know.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yes. So I think we were like, hey, Justin, come back and just cut your hair and put on some glasses. So we meet Justin. They're adorable. They're both writers. They met at a PEN luncheon, which I love. And then she gives him advice about, you know, what he should or shouldn't wear. She says, never go sleeveless. He's gonna do a GQ shoot. Because she says no one ever gets nominated for a Pulitzer after they've gone.
Kristen Davis
Taking their shirt off.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Too funny. But then later on, he takes his shirt off and it's great. So thank God. But that's not at the photo shoot. So then we go, we meet the family. And this is kind of the background of the theme of the story, which is, are you dating the person or the family? Do you feel more strongly about the family than the person? Because you can tell once they get there. Not that she doesn't seem into him. She does.
Kristen Davis
She does.
Sarah Jessica Parker
But she really likes.
Kristen Davis
Is really something.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yes, they really are. And they're so kind of quintessentially New York. The dad is a professor at Columbia. The mom is a writer. Documentarian. Documentarian.
Kristen Davis
Documentarian.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Who reads Carrie's column, tells her she's an icon, which kind of cracked me up because it's Valley Valerie Harper saying it. I mean, I was like, wow. I don't remember any of this. This is amazing. And they have these kids, and there's a lot of good food in New York and chatter banter. Right. It's awesome. And you can tell that Carrie loves it. Oh, and the girls are named Franny and Zoe.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Which is Jericho.
Kristen Davis
Hysterical.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, my God. So funny. So funny. So then Carrie's obviously very seduced by that life, by the lifestyle and the kind of thoughtful, you know, conversation and characters and whatnot. Now we're back. We're at the park. We discussed the hitting on the head of the child, which is so crazy about the divorce.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, now we're at my house. I love that I'm suddenly just making everybody muffins. So Charlotte.
Kristen Davis
Because the muffin will fix that brother marriage problem.
Sarah Jessica Parker
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Kristen Davis
I'm so excited.
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Sarah Jessica Parker
So here I am with my brother. My poor brother who we're never gonna see ever again. It's so crazy to watch. But it's funny because I also felt like. Like there's like a weird vibe between me and the brother.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Do you know?
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Like it doesn't seem that comfortable. Like I'm kind of cheerful and trying to cheer him up, but it doesn't seem like we're super, actually.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. Have a real relationship.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Because he's like, you don't even know. You know, he's kind of like mad and like you don't even know. And I'm like, oh yeah. And then I love that. I do try to give him advice. Like, how hard did you try?
Kristen Davis
And he's like, when was the last time you had a long term relationship?
Sarah Jessica Parker
And I'm like, go.
Kristen Davis
Yeah, good call.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Good call, brother. That's put me in my place. But the adorable thing, I'm just gonna tell the whole storyline now because it is so hysterical. So we see the brother. I tell everybody about the brother, they make fun of the brother. Then I want to introduce him to my friends, meaning Carrie. And Carrie brings Samantha and I'm all like, weirdly. I mean, it's almost like a high school vibe.
Kristen Davis
Yes. Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right? Like it's not Charlotte at her most mature at all, you know, not at all.
Kristen Davis
Which I didn't mind because Family. Sometimes we do kind of regress.
Sarah Jessica Parker
That's a good point. No, that's very valid. It's very valid because I think also we were not afraid to show our characters bad qualities or whatever their shortcomings. So to speak.
Kristen Davis
So to speak.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Look how I did that. That was good. So Carrie brings him. Brings Samantha. And of course, Samantha takes one look at him and he takes one look at her. Next thing you know, it's the morning at my apartment, and I walk out and Samantha's there without any pants on, trying to find coffee filters. And I'm like, what are you doing there? And then she is oblivious and kind of adorable.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Like, trying to make coffee for all of us. It's so cute.
Kristen Davis
Yeah, cute.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I know. Shame in a way that Charlotte couldn't just be like, yay, Samantha's here.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
You know, it's great.
Kristen Davis
We can have breakfast together.
Sarah Jessica Parker
It's true. It's true. I kind of felt that way when I walked in. Like, it could have been adorable, but not for Charlotte, because Charlotte has judgments and rules. Absolutely. But then I say this very mean thing that she should be in the guidebook for New York because she's open all the time, which is like, ugh.
Kristen Davis
Ugh. Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Such a ick thing to say.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah. And luckily she leaves. And she does look really hurt.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. Very genuinely hurt.
Sarah Jessica Parker
She really does.
Kristen Davis
And your brother stands up for her and goes after, which is nice. Nice. Really?
Sarah Jessica Parker
That was really nice. And also then connects back to when he tries to say to me, you know, this is what really happened. I haven't had sex in two years, and she made me feel great.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And that does seem to land for Charlotte. Thank God. I feel like that's like a good moment of Charlotte learning something.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And so luckily, then I make muffins for Samantha and go to her door, and she luckily forgives me. I say, I'm sorry, and then she smacks me on the butt, which is something she always did. Which is interesting. That was Kim Adlib that she was very fond of. And I was always like, oh, but it was fine. It was kind of an interesting thing because it's like kind of a old fashioned masculine energy thing.
Kristen Davis
Yes, it is.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. And also, like a generational that you guys are friends, but also you're a kid too. Like. And definitely, definitely, definitely.
Sarah Jessica Parker
It's very. It's very loving and funny in a weird way. Unexpected and funny. And I also can. You can tell that I don't expect her to do it, which is also funny. Because she does do it off and on throughout the years. Now here, this is the whole thematic situation.
Kristen Davis
No. Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, good, good.
Kristen Davis
We're getting. Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Thematics are so good about the family. And I love this. Oh, this is. Oh, the Justin.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
We didn't talk about Justin's poor problem. It's not Justin, of course. It's the character. It's the character. So this is the sad, sad thing. And I felt so bad for Carrie and this whole storyline. I hadn't remembered this at all. Right. So I'm basically like a first time viewer. Because you're thinking, this guy's fantastic.
Kristen Davis
Yeah, he's adorable. He's a writer. His family is awesome. Yes. And yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And then they start making out in Carrie's kitchen. And then he, you know, ejaculates. I'm just gonna have to say it. So he has like, what's it called?
Kristen Davis
Premature.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Thank you.
Kristen Davis
Premature ejaculation.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Terrible.
Kristen Davis
It's terrible.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I know. And poor Carrie just looks like, kind of like. Oh, dear.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And then you can see that she's like, the wheels are turning, the wheels are turning. What do I do? How do I. And you know, at a certain point, once she meets the family, then she just wants to talk about the family. And then at one point he goes, I think this would be the next scene. He goes, oh, I don't wanna talk about my family right now. Cause they're kissing. Right. But she now is kind of infatuated with his mother in a way, which is adorable. But of course he wouldn't wanna talk about his mother. Oh, I love the part where he. So she has a scene with the mother played played by Valerie Harper, when Valerie Harper says, I always talked very openly to my kids with my children since they were two. And of course, as a mom, I'm thinking, like, that's amazing. She did that right? Then come to find out, Justin's character says Carrie, when Carrie tries eventually to talk to him about this, he goes, I'm so sick of talking about sex.
Kristen Davis
I was two years old.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right. And you're like, ooh, backfire. Yes, backfire situation.
Kristen Davis
But it's so sad too, because, you know, they try a few times and they keep running into the same problem. And eventually Carrie is like, we're gonna take it slow. And she's really trying to, like, not bail. You know, she's trying to actually. And he just cannot talk about it. He cannot deal. He cannot try to work it out.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And he seems mad mad, which is not good. That's the main problem.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Because my feeling is you can work on anything as long as.
Kristen Davis
As people want to open and communicate and. Yeah, yeah. But he can't.
Sarah Jessica Parker
No, no, he's mad. And it's so sad because he's there. He's shirtless. He's, like, so dreamy.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
He's just in, you know, but yet can't even talk to her about it. And he seems mad that she's trying.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And that's a terrible trait.
Kristen Davis
Yes. Yeah. No, that's just like, if you can't have communication, then that's. Yeah, yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
There's nothing you can do. No, no. And it's really sad. And then she realizes that she really has to break up with his mother. And that's so sad. And this is where we have your wonderful scene.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
So you guys go back. You go. We're back at the apartment with the family, and everybody's perched on, like, kind of small furniture.
Kristen Davis
Yes. Around this little living room. We're all just dotted around with our plates of.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah, yeah. It's so cute. And you are the girlfriend of.
Kristen Davis
I'm the girlfriend of Justin's little sister.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Got it, got it. Which is Franny or Zoe? Don't know.
Kristen Davis
One of them, I think. Zoe.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Okay. Got it. Yeah, one of them.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And you got. Did. Do they say you're going camping or something?
Kristen Davis
We're going camping. Well, Valerie. Valerie at one point is like, oh, whichever one it is tells me that you're going camping. Which I thought was really funny because even though this family is amazing and all the things, there's also is a sense that, like, that mother definitely inserts herself into her children's lives. And Sarah and I. She has this voiceover. Sarah and I had this moment of looking at each other and she has this voiceover where she says something like.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Because you're outsiders, we're outsiders.
Kristen Davis
Like, Gemma and I looked at each other like, the people. I can't remember exactly. Something like, we didn't have the passports and. Yeah. And there was a feeling of, like, even though it's amazing to have, like, a family like that, like, within reason. Like, at some point, the mothers do need to give their children the space.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Absolutely.
Kristen Davis
To run their.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Absolutely.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
No, it's almost too close.
Kristen Davis
It's almost too.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yes. I have a family. I know. Who's like this. And everyone. Every family member is amazing.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
But the boys in the family have challenges when it comes to the girlfriends in terms of everyone approving and. Or accepting. And I. I feel for them because, like, on the One hand. It's the closeness. Like, just as a mother, you look at that and you think, like, isn't that amazing to have your grown children so close? Right.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Doesn't that feel wonderful?
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
But then also, you need enough space.
Kristen Davis
That they can, like, like, make their own new life.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah. Like, try things.
Kristen Davis
Try things and choose people.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right. It's interesting.
Kristen Davis
And that, like, when. When Carrie then is like, I'm gonna leave because Justin Theroux is, like, banging around and basically having a tantrum about cream cheese.
Sarah Jessica Parker
He's having a grown, grown tantrum. And Rhoda, I most said Carrie is like, it's out there.
Kristen Davis
She's kind of trying to ignore him.
Sarah Jessica Parker
But he's like, where is it?
Kristen Davis
Yeah. So Carrie tries to leave and, you know. Know, Valerie Hopper's character, like, follows her and. And basically says, look, his last girlfriend was less discreet. And, you know, is. It's. I know, I know. The problem is in the irony that he's a short story writer.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, my God.
Kristen Davis
And Carrie's like, I cannot discuss this with you about anything.
Sarah Jessica Parker
It's like, no, that's mortifying. That's mortifying.
Kristen Davis
It really is.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah, I know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But I mean, this is the other thing that went through my head. I'm thinking to myself, like, the mom needs to get him into some therapy.
Kristen Davis
Yes.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right. Like, if she's in the middle of.
Kristen Davis
It, then she needs actually be productive.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And help the actual problem.
Kristen Davis
He needs talk therapy. And also, like, a doctor. A doctor to help work that out. There's things that can be done, right?
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah, I think there is.
Kristen Davis
I think there is.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Aren't there commercials for this, Ed? Right.
Kristen Davis
Yes, there are.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I don't know.
Kristen Davis
I mean, I don't know back in the day, but I'm sure. Right.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Back in the day, Right.
Kristen Davis
I am sure there are things that could be done.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Definitely something man out. Totally. Let's hope he got help in the future at some point. But then the sweet scene where the voiceover says, you know, I realized that I needed to break up with his mother. And she's basically trying to say, it's not you. You're wonderful. And then the mom is trying to fight for the relationship, and then she says something crazy like, 75% of marriages are sexless. And I'm like, oh, God, no.
Kristen Davis
I know. And I love Carrie's reaction to that. She's just like, we cannot be satisfied with those numbers. No. Like to just settle for that. It's like, no, no, no.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And I mean, on the other Hand Valerie Harper's saying, you know, that's not the only thing. And I think it's true. Right. Not the only thing.
Kristen Davis
It's not the only thing, but it is one of the things.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right. But it's also interesting if you look at the way that our characters all talk about sex, because obviously, that's part.
Kristen Davis
Of the thing that we do.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right. Which is freeing and am. But then it sometimes almost seems like the focus goes too much.
Kristen Davis
Too much to that.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right. And luckily, through Charlotte's whole marriage thing, yeah, we have. We. We have some growth in that area for her at least. Right. But everyone's different in terms of how important sex is to them or not. Or whatever.
Kristen Davis
That's right.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right.
Kristen Davis
Well, and also because the show is exploring, like, the starts of lots of relationships. That is an exciting part of the beginning of a relationship. Right. So there's a lot of focus on that at the beginning of relationship. And. And then, obviously, hopefully, everything evolves together.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Right.
Kristen Davis
But if that thing is broken at the beginning, Right. Then it's like, oh, then where's this gonna go? Because absolutely.
Sarah Jessica Parker
And especially if the person can't talk about it, like, the way that Carrie really tries, which I was so happy that she did because I didn't remember the storyline at all. Right. So I was like, oh, my God, what's gonna happen? She hung in there. Yeah, totally. She really tries. And maybe it's because she loves his family, but also, he's adorable and interesting.
Kristen Davis
He's so cute.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And what's weird is, like, on some level, it almost feels like he has a blind spot because this keeps. Ha. Like, this keeps happening. Right. But then he comes back in all, like, hottie and flirtatious and, like, let's, like, make a moment of this, which is gonna be done in 30 seconds.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Totally. It's almost like he's. He almost seems unaware.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Which is also interesting.
Kristen Davis
Yeah. But I mean.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I don't. You can tell. I'm debating what I should say now. I, I, I, I. I have had one relationship where this was kind of a problem. Not to the extent, because this is very extreme, this situation in the show. Right. But I did have one relationship. And, you know, sometimes I think, like, you know, should I say something?
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Or should I not? Should I?
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Am I okay? You know, you're just like, like, yeah, what? Am I okay with it? Am I not okay with it?
Kristen Davis
Well, and I think. I think not to make, like, gross generalizations, but I think as women, we are kind of. We want to facilitate People feeling good about themselves and sometimes we're like, maybe the fix comes in just like making things nice. Right. And then they'll create comfort and confidence instead of going right to the problem problem, which might make them feel insecure and then that compounds the problem.
Sarah Jessica Parker
No, that's so true. And that's what's so awkward. And I thought that the way did it in the show, he's so loving and sweet and that's why when he's just like, what? You know, and then she's like, we.
Kristen Davis
Have to talk about that.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Because it's pretty extreme. Yeah, it's pretty extreme. Yeah. My situation was not that extreme, but I also felt like the person that I was involved with had some understanding about it because there were things that he would do to like focus on me, so to speak. But I was like, that's too much focus on me.
Kristen Davis
Right? Yes. I want this to be like a communal experience.
Sarah Jessica Parker
But then in reality I thought it through and I thought, oh, that is kind of a mechanism to take the focus off this kind of thing. It wasn't as bad. It definitely wasn't as bad. But at a certain point I was like, this just weird. I don't feel like I can talk about it. And I mean, if you think about the show, that the show is trying to take like the lid off of all of the different things and say you can talk about it.
Kristen Davis
Talk about it. You can talk about it.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
And that that's the only way to, to try to solve anything.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Absolutely. I try to tell my 7 year old this, you know, like, we gotta talk about the feelings. You know, we gotta talk about the feelings.
Kristen Davis
Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
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Sarah Jessica Parker
Let's talk about what you're working on. Tell me everything. As I said, I'm a big fan.
Kristen Davis
Oh, you're sweet. Thank you.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Not even knowing that you had been on our show. I've just been a watching fan.
Kristen Davis
Thank you.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I didn't even think I knew that you were married to Alan. Didn't even know that connection. I was just like, she's amazing and so unique.
Kristen Davis
Thank you.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yes. And I love everything you've done because I think you get to play this like we touched on a bit. You get to play kind of more masculine characters, but you're yet this tiny little, you know.
Kristen Davis
Yeah, it's been a funny journey, but I mean, one that I've been grateful for because you do hear about women's roles being marginalized or whatever, and. But when you're given these roles of women who have kind of an eternal power, then you get to live that out.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Absolutely.
Kristen Davis
Those are interesting stories.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Good point.
Kristen Davis
So anyway, most recently, I don't know if you know the show for All Mankind. I'll admit that I wasn't familiar with it at all. It's this great sci fi show on Apple tv and the structure is very interesting. Each season jumps a decade. Oh, so it starts in 1969. It's a revisionist history of what if Russia got to the moon first?
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, wow.
Kristen Davis
Which launched this incredible space race. And then your main characters from season one, you get to watch them age throughout the course of their lives. It's very cool. So season. And so every season they have to bring in new characters because it's a full decade later and what's happening. And now we're on the moon, and now we're on Mars and now we're, you know. So I got to join in season five as one of the new main characters. Of season five. And I mean, there's so much storyline and everything, but it's coming out this fall. Oh, wow. Yeah. So I haven't seen it yet. Oh, my gosh. But I'm excited to see it.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
Coming out this fall.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Amazing. And tell us about Jon Hamm and Jon Hammond.
Kristen Davis
We love Jon Hamm. So. And then I've just signed on to do a limited series with Jon Hamm called American Hostage that's coming out on MGM plus. And it's very interesting story based on a true story. In the 70s, a man was taken hostage in kind of a public way in Illinois and asked the. The. The kidnapper asked to be interviewed live by kind of this famous Illinois radio journalist.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Wow.
Kristen Davis
And that man agreed to do it. And. And just like the role of journalism and the role of us as citizens, like what our place is in just helping.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Well, that's fascinating.
Kristen Davis
It's really, like, riveting.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, my gosh. I cannot wait to see that. How incredible. I have a really important question.
Kristen Davis
Okay.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Are you a Charlotte?
Kristen Davis
I don't think so. Really? I think I'm scrappy. I grew up scrappy.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Okay.
Kristen Davis
I grew up in like, Texas with, like, chickens in my backyard.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Oh, my God, I love that. But that doesn't mean that you're not a Charlotte because you are wearing a bow version.
Kristen Davis
I know. I did put on blouse on purpose just to like, tip it in that direction a little bit.
Sarah Jessica Parker
This was just your everyday everywhere.
Kristen Davis
No, I think. I think I'm a little scrappier.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Okay.
Kristen Davis
Than Charlotte. She was always so put together. That's true.
Sarah Jessica Parker
That's one of her homes.
Kristen Davis
And most days I do not look like this. Most days I'm. I mean, yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah.
Kristen Davis
I. Yeah. Most days I'm just a little. Yeah.
Sarah Jessica Parker
So, like, would you put yourself more in a Miranda? Kind of.
Kristen Davis
So I think I'm. I think I'm a little bit ambitious, like a Miranda.
Sarah Jessica Parker
I think I'm.
Kristen Davis
Maybe I'm just pieces, which is fantastic of all of them. I'm a little bit, like, scattered, like Carrie. I'm a little. I don't know. I think I like it.
Sarah Jessica Parker
Yeah, I like it. I mean, there are people who talk about that we're all parts of one woman, which I find interesting. And it depends who's saying that, whether I'm annoyed by that or not. Do you know what I mean? Because all women can be everything, right?
Kristen Davis
Of course.
Sarah Jessica Parker
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Episode: S2E15 “Shortcomings”
Date: September 25, 2025
This episode of Are You A Charlotte? dives into Sex and the City Season 2, Episode 15, titled "Shortcomings." Host Kristin Davis is joined by special guest Mireille Enos. Together, they rewatch and reflect on the themes of love, family dynamics, sexual honesty, and the evolution of women’s roles in society and on television. The discussion focuses on behind-the-scenes stories, nuanced character portrayals, and the episode’s enduring relevance.
For All Mankind:
Mireille discusses joining the acclaimed Apple TV+ sci-fi show for Season 5, which spans decades and explores alternate space history.
American Hostage:
Mireille stars in a limited series with Jon Hamm about a real-life hostage crisis involving a radio journalist.
“Writers are everything. If it’s not there on the page, there’s nothing you can do.”
—Kristin Davis (03:50)
“At one point, they put the four of us on the cover of Time magazine and wrote, ‘Who needs a husband?’”
—Sarah Jessica Parker (05:28)
“Are you dating the person or the family? Do you feel more strongly about the family than the person?”
—Sarah Jessica Parker (08:29)
“She should be in the guidebook for New York because she’s open all the time.”
—Charlotte, recounted by Sarah Jessica Parker (16:29)
“That’s the only way to try to solve anything. I try to tell my 7-year-old this...we gotta talk about the feelings.”
—Sarah Jessica Parker (29:01)
“All women can be everything. You can be also these other things.”
—Sarah Jessica Parker (38:12)
| Timestamp | Segment | |------------|-----------------------------------------------------------------| | 03:15–05:27| Writers and character development | | 05:27–06:46| Changing narratives for women | | 07:04–08:03| Behind-the-scenes guest star stories | | 08:28–09:51| The 'dating the family' episode theme | | 14:37–17:50| Charlotte's family dynamics; the Samantha scene | | 18:09–26:49| Carrie’s relationship arc and sexual honesty | | 27:00–29:07| Communication in relationships; personal reflections | | 34:13–36:49| Mireille Enos’s new roles: For All Mankind, American Hostage | | 36:54–38:12| “Are You a Charlotte?” self-identification game |
This episode offers an insightful and humorous look at how Sex and the City pushed boundaries, both on- and off-screen, by exploring themes that remain relevant—female friendship, social expectations, sexual honesty, and family entanglements. The chemistry and candidness between Kristin Davis and Mireille Enos, complemented by personal anecdotes, make this a rich and relatable discussion for both fans of the show and new listeners alike.