Podcast Summary: "Are You A Charlotte?" Episode: "You Wear it Well…" Release Date: March 10, 2025
Introduction to the Episode
In the episode titled "You Wear it Well…," host Kristin Davis delves deep into the intricate world behind the iconic television series Sex and the City. Joined by co-star Cynthia Nixon and special guest Molly Rogers, the conversation navigates through the show's early days, its profound impact on fashion and women's narratives, and the personal anecdotes that shaped their on-screen personas.
Early Beginnings and Breaking into New York [03:20 - 07:15]
Kristin Davis recounts her pivotal moment when she moved to New York in 1984, a decision sparked by uncertainty and the need for a fresh start. “[...] I was living in London after I graduated from Carolina, and I didn't know what I wanted to do. And then I decided I needed to get out of England because I wasn't really legal. And I came to New York on Friday the 13th, 1984” (04:33).
Upon arrival, Davis sought employment in the fashion world by approaching Pat Field, a renowned stylist. This encounter led to opportunities in styling, commercials, and television, laying the foundation for her future role as Charlotte York.
Key Quote:
"I walked up to Pat, and I was wearing a paper dress. Oh, my boy George Dreadlocks." — Kristin Davis 05:34
Developing Sex and the City and Influencing Television Fashion [07:15 - 14:37]
The discussion shifts to the inception of Sex and the City, highlighting Pat Field's visionary approach in recognizing the show's potential. Davis shares how she was introduced to the script, emphasizing Pat's confidence in its uniqueness despite skepticism from industry insiders. “[...] Pat kicked her out” when an HBO executive doubted the show’s appeal outside New York (12:27).
Cynthia Nixon reflects on the meticulous attention to costume design, acknowledging that the fashion on the show became a character in itself. “People have said that the fashion was its own character. Do you feel that that's true?” (25:09). Davis concurs, adding that the integration of fashion with the characters' personalities was intentional and groundbreaking.
Key Quote:
"There were little clues. I love telling that story of when an HBO executive came into the wardrobe room... And she was like, no one is going to understand these. In Kansas. Pat kicked her out." — Kristin Davis 12:27
Behind-the-Scenes Anecdotes and Challenges [14:37 - 27:14]
Davis and Nixon reminisce about the early days of filming, sharing humorous and challenging moments. They discuss the logistics of managing multiple wardrobe units, the stress of maintaining character consistency, and the creative decisions that sometimes led to unexpected outcomes.
One memorable story involves a mix-up with a designer's garment, where an assistant had to retrieve a dress last-minute from Tulum to fit a shooting schedule. “[...] And Trey said, how could I have ever done what you Guys did without having Century 21.” — Kristin Davis 18:38.
They also touch upon the physical demands of wearing high heels, with Nixon candidly admitting the long-term effects: “... my right foot is still numb” (38:00).
Key Quote:
"We went out all. We were downtown people. And we saw those characters, and we were always big high heel, you know, it just was a natural inspiration from just being social." — Kristin Davis 08:18
Fashion as a Character and Its Cultural Impact [25:08 - 35:24]
The conversation delves deeper into how the show's fashion choices transcended mere aesthetics, influencing global fashion trends and empowering women to express themselves through style. Nixon highlights the meticulous efforts to source unique pieces within budget constraints, often requiring creative solutions like duplicating outfits for multiple shoots.
Davis shares anecdotes about iconic dresses and accessories, such as the Valentino dress worn during a pivotal gallery scene, and the collaborative efforts with designers like Manolo Blahnik to curate Carrie’s distinctive wardrobe.
Key Quote:
"There was a lot to dive into with the clothes. There was a lot to dive into with each of you, and there was a lot to experience in that setting, that location." — Kristin Davis 25:49
Navigating On-Set Dynamics and Personal Growth [35:24 - 48:36]
As the discussion progresses, Davis and Nixon reflect on the interpersonal dynamics among the cast and crew, emphasizing the collaborative spirit fostered by directors like Michael Patrick King. They recount instances of overcoming creative differences, handling intense filming schedules, and supporting each other through demanding scenes.
Nixon candidly discusses the emotional challenges of performing intimate scenes without modern-day intimacy coordinators, sharing her experience of seeking guidance to navigate her character’s complex relationships. “[...] I had to lock myself in my dressing room and call my manager back in LA” — Cynthia Nixon 44:59.
They also highlight the evolution of their professional relationships, from being under the radar to becoming household names, and the enduring friendships formed during the show's run.
Key Quote:
"We were in it to win it. It was exciting and we loved it so much as we still do." — Cynthia Nixon 51:12
Legacy and Continuing Influence [48:36 - End]
In the concluding segments, Davis and Nixon discuss the lasting legacy of Sex and the City, acknowledging its role in reshaping conversations around women's sexuality, friendships, and personal fulfillment. They express gratitude towards the fans, recognizing that the show's success was a collective journey.
Davis introduces the podcast’s mission to bridge the past and present, offering listeners exclusive behind-the-scenes stories and exploring themes that remain relevant today. Nixon echoes this sentiment, emphasizing the importance of sharing their experiences to inspire and connect with their audience.
Key Quote:
"I think the journey has been incredible. And, you know, we share it with the fans. Right. Because that they're part. They're part of the journey." — Cynthia Nixon 16:54
Closing Remarks
The episode wraps up with a heartfelt invitation for listeners to engage with future episodes, promising more in-depth conversations and untold stories from the Sex and the City universe. Davis and Nixon leave the audience with a sense of nostalgia and appreciation for the show's enduring impact on television and culture.
Notable Quotes with Timestamps:
- Kristin Davis 05:34: "I walked up to Pat, and I was wearing a paper dress. Oh, my boy George Dreadlocks."
- Kristin Davis 12:27: "There were little clues. I love telling that story of when an HBO executive came into the wardrobe room... And she was like, no one is going to understand these. In Kansas. Pat kicked her out."
- Cynthia Nixon 25:09: “People have said that the fashion was its own character. Do you feel that that's true?”
- Kristin Davis 25:49: "There was a lot to dive into with the clothes. There was a lot to dive into with each of you..."
- Cynthia Nixon 44:59: “I had to lock myself in my dressing room and call my manager back in LA.”
- Cynthia Nixon 51:12: "We were in it to win it. It was exciting and we loved it so much as we still do."
- Cynthia Nixon 16:54: "I think the journey has been incredible. And, you know, we share it with the fans. Right."
Conclusion
"You Wear it Well…" offers an intimate glimpse into the creation and legacy of Sex and the City, celebrating the show's trailblazing approach to storytelling and fashion. Through engaging dialogue and personal anecdotes, Kristin Davis and Cynthia Nixon honor their shared history while highlighting the cultural shifts they helped pioneer. This episode serves as a tribute to the enduring spirit of the characters and the real-life friendships that sustained them through the show's remarkable run.