I sat down with McConnell and Kane to discuss how marriage impacts dating and relationships and all the various setups possible and then we dive into a discussion of Tinder that was sparked by an interview with Jordan Peterson on Femsplainers (linked below).

We also spent some time talking about the book, Selfie, which was a book club book for our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni that charts the evolution of the ideal self from the Greeks until the present moment of personal development, and even throws in some comparisons with Asia for good measure!

As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre educational and hilarious talents and you'll learn why we think Online game is bad for men, including:

Who McConnell would trade lives with
Kane's marriage setup (Yup, he's married!)
How to decide what you want then plan for the worst to get the best
Why it's harder to make changes in marriage than when you're dating
Kane on turbulence theory
How online game makes men weaker and women cheaper
How girls can use Tinder to their advantage
That great pictures can get you laid, but it's great social skills that get you a relationship
How women miss out on valuable social experience because of Tinder
How to be the best human you can be according to western civilization
The cutting edge of personality research---The Big 5 Personality Traits---model as a key and a map to yourself and others
and a whole lot more...

Mentioned in this session:

The Young Cub Gets Topped

http://redpoleq.com/podcast-27/

Our Interview with Ellie:

http://redpoleq.com/podcast-21/

Yumi From MySiliconeLoveDoll.com

Call Her Daddy

https://www.barstoolsports.com/shows/call-her-daddy

The Problems with Tinder - Jordan Peterson

https://youtu.be/hKUffHXOb8U?t=3885

Hannibal - Silence of the Lambs

https://youtu.be/WCSZfmbFJyQ

https://youtu.be/vNcoHQrveEQ

Hannibal: the Original OG and Scourge of Rome

https://youtu.be/T3jmhzO8YZE

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannibal

Selfie by Will Storr

Interviewed on the You Are Not So Smart Podcast

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The Big 5 Personality Traits

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits Take the Test!

http://understandmyself.com

Myers-Briggs

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers%E2%80%93Briggs_Type_Indicator Enneagrams

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enneagram_of_Personality

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