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Episode 60: Does it matter what the world thinks? A conversation with Dr. Tal Becker
Host: Haviv Rettig Gur
Guest: Dr. Tal Becker, Vice President of the Shalom Hartman Institute
Date: November 16, 2025

Episode Overview

In this powerful episode, Haviv Rettig Gur and Dr. Tal Becker examine one of the most fundamental and emotionally charged questions facing Israel and world Jewry: Does it matter what the world thinks about Jews and Israel? Against a backdrop of unprecedented anti-Israel sentiment and antisemitism in both the West and the broader world, they dig deep into the history of Zionism, Jewish identity, and the tension between agency, hope, realism, and existential threat.

The conversation moves from personal frustration and cynicism to the enduring resilience and ongoing aspirations of the Jewish people and Israel—offering both sobering analysis and a fierce insistence on hope.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Strange Moment: Strength and Vulnerability (07:27)

• Becker reflects on Israel’s paradoxical position: militarily strong, possibly more secure in the Middle East than ever, but feeling existentially vulnerable in global public opinion, especially in the West.

• Quote:

  “Almost it feels like we are more challenged in the West right now than we are in the Middle East.” —Dr. Tal Becker (07:55)

• Shift in calibration: Traditionally, Israel looked to the West for legitimacy and security but felt physically vulnerable in its region; now, the reverse.

2. The Tensions Inside Zionism (09:00)

• Haviv and Becker explore the duality:
  Zionism as both an urge to “normalize” Jews among nations and an existential response to perpetual threat; between rejoining the world and shielding from it.
• Core contradiction: Zionism’s pursuit of acceptance and exceptionalism, its hope for “normal” sovereignty vs. ingrained pessimism about other nations’ willingness to accept Jews.
• Quote:

  “There is that element of Zionism which is hard to avoid, which has in it a kind of basic pessimism about the world.” —Dr. Tal Becker (10:02)

3. Emancipation, Liberalism, and the Social Ghetto (11:59 – 16:36)

• Haviv recounts Herzl’s insights:
  Jewish emancipation in Europe—removal of legal barriers—led not to acceptance but to a new kind of “social ghetto,” a retaliatory organization of society around pushing Jews back to outsider status.

• Quote:

  “Emancipation created the insane kind of antisemitism we know today.” —Haviv Rettig Gur, paraphrasing Herzl (12:20)

• Conditionality of Jewish acceptance:
  Even liberal France demanded Jews erase collective identity—being accepted only if indistinguishable.

• Becker’s response:
  The true test of any society is its ability to deal with difference, not just tolerate but celebrate it.

• Quote:

  “What the Jews have represented for so much of their history is the question about whether societies can deal with difference... In a way, what Israel represents in the Arab and Muslim world is whether the Arab and Muslim world can cope with difference.” —Dr. Tal Becker (17:12)

4. Liberalism, Progressivism, and Nationalism (18:50)

• Becker distinguishes:
  The current problem isn’t with liberalism or nationalism themselves, but with their distorted extremes—progressivism (demanding conformity) and ultranationalism (intolerant of diversity).

• Quote:

  “We’re desperately trying to save liberalism from progressivism and save nationalism from ultra nationalism. Because the sweet spot for Jews is... true liberalism, you celebrate difference.” (18:56)

• Agency and fatalism:
  Zionism shouldn’t cede to a story of helplessness or surrender; neither anti-Semitism nor world hostility is all-encompassing. There are always new opportunities to build alliances and improve the situation.

5. Unprecedented Scale of Anti-Israel Protests (22:15–25:54)

• Haviv’s frustration:
  The current anti-Israel/Gaza protest movement is unmatched in size, duration, and global coordination—no other conflict has elicited similar outrage, revealing a double-standard rooted in antisemitism.

• Quote:

  “Nothing has ever compared to the regularity, to the duration, to the coherence...The march itself is pure antisemitism because it can only ever happen with Jews.” —Haviv Rettig Gur (24:20)

• Becker’s pragmatic optimism:
  Giving up, or adopting a posture of “fuck you” to the world, would be both strategically and morally self-defeating. Jews and Israel need friends and allies, and must not limit their aspirations to survival alone.

• Quote:

  “The essence of Zionism is that the Jewish people have agency... not just about creating this kind of shtetl that is very well-armed.” (26:57)

6. Three Perennial Jewish Questions (28:30)

• How will we be safe?
  How will we be accepted?
  How will we be exceptional?

• Becker:

  • All Jews and generations struggle with these in different ways.
  • The error is believing Israel “solved” all three. Rather, Israel is the best place to struggle with them.
  • Antisemitism will not disappear; normalization and struggles for legitimacy are ongoing.
  • Quote:

    “Israel is not the solution to the Jewish people's problems. It is the place where the Jewish people are best equipped to deal with those problems.” (30:33)

7. Agency, Aspiration, and Not Surrendering to Antisemitism (32:38–34:55)

• Becker’s imperative:
  Jews must never accept marginalization as “untouchable” outsiders. Protests and hatred, though real, do not define all of society or all of world attitudes.

• Quote:

  “With your agency comes your promise and your potential, and don't give up on your agency. Don't let your enemies define the outer limits of your possibilities.” (33:25)

• Battle for the Jewish spirit:
  Survival is essential, but flourishing, aspiring to be more, and hope are central to Zionism and Jewish history.

8. A Jewish (Not Naive) Optimism (36:45–39:37)

• Becker contrasts naive vs. Jewish optimism:
  Not “the glass is half full,” but: we have the opportunity and capacity to ‘add water to the glass’ despite the dangers.
  Quote:

  “Zionism is also about hope. Zionism is also about doing the impossible... To take this view of, ‘well, nothing you can do about it,’ is rejecting a gift that we've been given.” (37:54)

• Haviv’s own line:

  “This is the strongest generation of Jews there has ever been... so we have absolutely no right to complain.” (38:50)

9. Universalism and Realism in Jewish Tradition (39:37–41:11)

• Universal aspiration:
  Jewish tradition includes both fierce particularism and a call to improve humanity; realism means not being Pollyannish about threats, but not forsaking ideals.
• Quote:

  “Our role in that is to be the fighters for the kind of society that is good for us but also... good for the world.” (40:17)

10. Trade-offs, ‘Trudging,’ and Moral Agency (41:11–42:42)

• Becker and the wisdom of Dan Shiftan:
  There are no “solutions”—only trade-offs, trudging better or worse. The Zionist gift is the ability to keep working at improvement.
• Quote:

  “Thomas Sowell said there are no solutions, there are only trade offs.” (42:31)

11. The “Permanent Possibility of the Presently Unimaginable” (42:42–47:00)

• Hope vs. Despair:
  Despite deep, structural opposition, unpredictability means possibility—both for good and bad. Time is on the side of those who “use time well.”
• Quote:

  “Do we know the outcome? Nobody knows the outcome. But I find tremendous strength and optimism in the practice of being able to get to work.” (47:35)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• The Office of Agency:

  “The idea that we would intellectualize ourselves out of the thought that we could make things better and just give up is a denial of the gift we have been given.” —Dr. Tal Becker (37:54)

• Zionism’s Task:

  “Zionism might be pessimistic about the world, but it's optimistic about Jews, and it's optimistic about what Jews can do in the world to improve the world.” —Dr. Tal Becker (35:04)

• Survival & Flourishing:

  “For Jews, there's no such thing as mere survival. Survival itself is a massive goal worthy of elevating. It is a moral imperative.” —Yossi Klein Halevi, as quoted by Becker (34:40)

• Historic Perspective:

  “We live at a time in Jewish history that pretty much any generation of Jews would trade with ours even today.” —Dr. Tal Becker (37:25)

• Practicing Hope:

  “Time is on the side of those who use time well. So just get to work. That's what Zionism gave us” —Meir Dagan, as quoted by Becker (47:09)

Key Timestamps

• [07:27] – Israel’s strength vs. vulnerability in global opinion
• [09:00] – Zionism’s foundational tensions: normalization vs. catastrophe
• [11:59] – Emancipation, social ghetto, and the mutation of antisemitism
• [16:36] – The “problem” of liberalism and difference
• [22:15] – Unprecedented anti-Israel protest movement
• [25:54] – Becker: Why “fuck you, world” is not a viable Jewish or Zionist stance
• [28:30] – Three perennial Jewish questions: safety, normalcy, exceptionality
• [32:38] – Becker: Agency, optimism, and not accepting marginalization
• [36:45] – Jewish/Israeli strength and the imperative to hope
• [42:06] – Trudging, trade-offs, and the Dan Shiftan philosophy
• [47:09] – “Time is on the side of those who use it well”

Tone and Energy

The conversation is at once candid and searching: Haviv brings a bracing honesty and sometimes biting cynicism; Dr. Becker matches with layered historical insight, firm optimism rooted in pragmatism, and soulful encouragement not to give in to despair or fatalism.

Summary

This episode is a masterclass in Jewish historical consciousness and the ongoing struggle for agency, dignity, and hope in a world that often feels hostile and irrational. The message: It matters deeply what the world thinks—not for validation, but for our capacity to survive, to flourish, and to shape our own destiny. Though beset by outsized hatred and challenge, Jews and Israel remain possessed of unprecedented power, resilience, and the undying imperative to hope and act.

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