Podcast
Aussie Mindset Mentor
Hosted by Selina Iddon · EN
Aussie Mindset Mentor
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What you resist, persists
Dec 27, 202300:09:54Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon explores the theme of resistance through the story of Briar Rabbit, discussing the burden it brings and the freedom found in letting go. She reflects on embracing kindness and strength, especially during festive seasons, and concludes with a call for understanding. Everyone has areas of our life we resist in various ways. Whether you simply gives some things a low priority or you outright wish some things in your life were different, this episode gives an insight to finding freedom and peace in regards to them. (0:00) Introduction and welcome (0:42) The story of Briar Rabbit and the lesson of resistance (3:23) The burden of resisting change and the freedom in letting go (5:06) Believing in inherent kindness and embracing strength (6:00) Reflection on resistance during festive seasons and finding new freedom (7:42) Inviting kindness and understanding (8:59) Final thoughts and farewell
Transcribe →Confidence - want more? (72)
Sep 25, 202300:10:22Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon delves into the foundational aspects of mindset, emphasizing the importance of daily practice in building confidence. She examines the negative consequences of low confidence and how it affects our lives. The discussion shifts to the influence of others and strategies for rebuilding confidence. Aligning the subconscious with personal goals is highlighted as a crucial step in this process. Selina wraps up with closing thoughts, summarizing the key points, and leaves listeners with a message of kindness. Confidence is belief in ourselves and our ability. Appropriate confidence is such an important quality. This episode simplifies and justifies why we all deserve to be confident. (0:10) Introduction and mindset foundations (1:00) Daily practice and fueling confidence (2:47) Consequences and impact of low confidence (5:33) Influence of others and rebuilding confidence (7:14) Aligning the subconscious with goals (8:42) Closing thoughts and recap (9:42) Podcast closing and kindness message
Transcribe →Get results by taking away, NOT adding more. (71)
May 21, 202300:10:16Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon welcomes listeners back and introduces the concept of "more is less," focusing on understanding true confidence. She discusses identifying self-sabotage and the dangers of constantly seeking more. Using an analogy of height and self-worth, she explores the idea of removing protective layers to reveal authentic confidence. Drawing on Brian Tracy's philosophy, Selina emphasizes believing in one's potential. She encourages letting go of past memories and recognizing the changing nature of feelings. The episode concludes with the notion that fulfillment often comes from removing rather than adding, and wraps up with final thoughts and a farewell. From our first days at any school we are rewarded by proving we have added to our knowledge; so, understandably we feel to achieve results and reach goals then we must add to our knowledge or add to our skills. Unfortunately as adults outside of institutions, this can move us further from our goals and what makes the difference is what we take away. This podcast explains what I mean. (0:00) Introduction and welcome back (0:28) Concept of more is less and understanding true confidence (1:34) Identifying self-sabotage and the pitfalls of seeking more (2:43) Height and self-worth analogy; Removing protective layers (5:12) Brian Tracy's philosophy and believing in your potential (7:03) Letting go of past memories and the changing nature of feelings (9:02) Seeking fulfillment by removing, not adding; Final thoughts and goodbye
Transcribe →The danger of Empathy (70)
Jan 30, 202300:15:31Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon delves into the differences between empathy and compassion, starting with a high court judge's experience. She explores the healing process and distinguishes between these concepts, highlighting the importance of compassion over empathy. The discussion covers how compassion, curiosity, and courage interplay, and warns against the unhealthy aspects of empathy. Selina illustrates empathy's pitfalls with a movie example and discusses avoiding responsibility. She advocates for shifting language from empathy to compassion and underscores the power of language in leadership. The episode concludes with insights on compassion leading to fulfillment, wrapped up with closing remarks. Compassion is powerful and both admirable and effective qualities of great leaders, empathy however is the opposite. "Empath" is becoming a more popular word for relating to oneself as a good quality and this podcast questions that.I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode, particularly if you can think of an example when empathy would be healthy. Email me at selina@equestrianmindset.com.au (0:00) Introduction to empathy versus compassion and high court judge's experience (1:15) Healing process, distinction, and aspects of empathy versus compassion (2:03) Compassion, kindness, and its removal from personal beliefs (3:25) Compassion, curiosity, and courage (4:38) Unhealthy aspects of empathy and shifting focus (6:11) Compassion in understanding and courage in unique experiences (7:40) Empathy, comfort zones, and ego-driven empathy (9:04) False empathy and movie example (10:48) Empathy as unhealthy and avoiding responsibility (11:56) Changing language from empathy to compassion (12:28) Power of language in leadership and identity (14:21) Compassion leading to fulfillment and closing remarks
Transcribe →The cost of Worry (69)
Nov 20, 202200:08:16Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon begins by welcoming listeners and introduces the topic of managing worries. She guides the audience through the process of identifying and evaluating worries, emphasizing the use of impact and probability scales. Selina discusses how these tools can aid in regaining happiness and improving job performance. She highlights the significance of taking baby steps and the positive effects of sharing kindness. The episode provides practical strategies for overcoming worry and concludes with a focus on incremental progress and compassion. We all worry at times, however how much is too much? Have you ever stopped to actually objectify worry? It makes managing it so much easier. (0:00) Introduction and welcome (0:22) Identifying and evaluating worries (3:06) Combining impact and probability scales (5:23) Regaining happiness and managing job performance (7:11) Importance of baby steps and sharing kindness
Transcribe →How words affect your happiness (68)
Oct 11, 202200:09:20Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon welcomes listeners to an exploration of the power of language in coaching and its evolution over time. She examines the impact of societal pressures and mental health on the transition from "need" to "want." The discussion extends to achieving happiness and fulfillment through the intelligent use of language. Selina introduces a language challenge focused on eliminating withdrawal words, encouraging a proactive mindset. The episode concludes with closing remarks and an invitation for listeners to share their experiences. What if you could become happier by simply changing some words you use? Humans have been given a most precious give, one that sets us apart from all other animals - complex language. Like any powerful thing, how we use it determines the results we will get. (0:00) Introduction and welcome (0:24) The power of language in coaching and its evolution (2:33) Societal pressures, mental health, and the shift from "need" to "want" (5:11) Achieving happiness and fulfillment through intelligent language use (6:44) Language challenge: Eliminating withdrawal words (8:49) Closing remarks and invitation to share
Transcribe →Fastest way to personally grow and succeed (67)
Sep 8, 202200:10:36Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon begins with a warm welcome and introduces the concept of doing more to achieve goals. She emphasizes the importance of friends, coaches, and an outside perspective in personal growth. The discussion highlights the necessity of taking new actions for rapid development. Selina invites listeners to shift from multiplying tasks to adding meaningful actions, illustrating how kindness can have a multiplying effect. The episode concludes with closing remarks and a farewell. Change and growth is required for success above where we are now. Whether it is for happiness, wealth, health or other, despite what most of us have been taught, the usual work harder, longer, faster approach is actually slower when it comes to our one self. (0:00) Introduction and welcome (0:25) Discussing the concept of doing more and achieving goals (3:41) The role of friends, coaches, and an outside perspective in personal growth (6:37) Taking new actions for rapid growth (8:16) Invitation to stop multiplying and start adding (9:33) The multiplying effect of kindness (10:18) Closing remarks and farewell
Transcribe →How to use the word Always (66)
Aug 26, 202200:07:59Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon begins by examining the impact of the word "always" and its role in shaping perceptions and highlighting red flags. She delves into the truth behind this seemingly innocuous word and its potential to lead to self-sabotage. By reframing "always," Selina offers strategies to overcome negative thought patterns. Practical examples are shared to encourage listeners to change their usage of the word, fostering a healthier mindset. The episode concludes with closing remarks and a reminder to spread kindness. The word Always can empower or limit you in a damaging way. How do you use it? (0:10) Introduction and examining the impact of "always" (1:57) The truth, perception, and red flags of "always" (3:44) Reframing "always" and overcoming self-sabotage (5:11) Practical examples and encouragement to change usage (7:34) Closing remarks and spreading kindness
Transcribe →Perception of time (65)
Aug 24, 202200:08:44Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon opens with a warm welcome and introduces the concept of time, emphasizing the importance of living in the moment. She highlights how investing time wisely contributes to a quality life and helps break cycles of regret. The discussion shifts to making a difference and finding joy in the time we have, underscoring the value of being of service to others. Selina stresses the importance of acknowledging oneself and spreading kindness, wrapping up with reflections on how these actions enrich our lives. Time doesn't go fast or slow - that's a perception. Let's consider the reality of time and the impacts of our perceptions. (0:00) Introduction and welcome (0:29) Concept of time and the importance of living in the moment (3:41) Investing time for a quality life and breaking cycles of regret (5:04) Making a difference and experiencing joy in the time given (7:03) Being of service, acknowledging oneself, and spreading kindness
Transcribe →Swap these two words and Free yourself
Jul 5, 202200:05:26Tap to summarizeSelina Iddon introduces the episode by delving into the power of self-description and the constraints imposed by labels. She explores the importance of understanding and embracing personal preferences, highlighting the joy that comes from doing what you truly enjoy. Selina encourages listeners to rethink fixed identities, promoting a dynamic approach to self-discovery and personal growth. Language is an expression of what is inside us and it's a two way door. By swaping out some words we can impact how we experience the world on the inside.Today's episode is a door to feeling free. (0:10) Introduction and welcome (0:26) The power of self-description and the limitations of labels (2:10) Understanding and embracing personal preferences (3:00) The joy of doing what you like and rethinking fixed identities
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