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Hi, friends. This is the finance episode. Everything I've learned the hard way about money and all my little tricks around, everything to do with finances. To preface this, because some people are going to get real upset because I don't play by the book. Life has never played by the rules, so I learned to stop playing by them. I'm not going to be talking about anything illegal, but I'm going to talk about all of the things from my financial life, from being broke dick to being where I am now, chilling, doing great. So this is not me telling you what to do kinda, but this is everything that I do and have done from the start to now. And this is everything I wish I knew sooner. Fixing bad spending habits and bad financial habits is harder than quitting drugs. From my own personal experience, I don't know what it is. Getting money right in your head is harder than quitting a substance. And I'm talking a lot of different ones. Not the crazy, crazy shit, I ain't never been on that. But finances are no joke. And it's so much more emotional and so much more stressful than people think and like explain online. So I'm going to tell you like from the core of it and also help you with the emotional pieces of it because it's a pain, it's a weird comfort. Bad spending habits and bad relationships with money is a comfort. And for me also money and food, the way that I approach each one, mirror each other. So my eating habits got better when my money habits got better. And it went the opposite way too. The better I got with money, the even better my relationship to food got. It's a weird thing about restriction and when to spend, when to eat, when to not, you know, when to save, all that. So let's do this, let's jump into it. I made a big list of everything. So we have like five Areas I'm going to hit. I'm going to talk about debt first. I'm going to be real with you and I'm going to hit you in the chest a little. It's okay. You be fine. Then we got budgeting, saving, how I use credit cards and the points on all of them to get a bunch of free shit. And then I'm going to talk about investing because I'm not the type that wants to invest into all this S&P 500 and retirement when I'm 60 and be rich. I want to be rich now. When I was 24, I was saying that now that I'm 26, I'm great. I got rich before my 50s. So this is not me telling you what to do. Like I said, it's just what I do. But anybody who knows more than me, comment and tell me if you know more things I could cheat around and get around. Tell me, let me know. Okay, first section is debt. Oh, I'm mainly going to be talking about credit card debt. If you're in credit card debt, quit, you broke. Credit card debt is the one thing you can't be playing with, and you should never carry a balance on a credit card. And the reason a lot of people feel comfortable doing it is because they don't understand interest. So with your credit cards, if you have $1,000 statement and you owe $1,000 at the end of the month, if you pay off 900 of it, you're like, okay, cool, I paid off 900. I'm only going to pay interest on the 100. No, credit card companies charge you interest on the amount on the statement. If it's not fully paid off, you're getting charged interest on the full thousand. It doesn't matter if you only got 100 bucks left. If that doesn't trip something loose in your head. I don't know what to tell you. You're getting like, that's one thing to get is like all these companies and the credit cards. Everybody's trying to get you when it comes to money because they want to make money, too. Stop getting got. Stop letting these people get you. Okay? You wanted to splurge. You had like a bender or you had like a spiral moment and you're like it. And I bought this thing. Okay, you're allowing these banks and these companies to take advantage of you when you're weak and emotionally vulnerable. You do something and then they're going to compound on top of it. Yeah, you're going to pay us extra because you got Weak for a second. Don't let them do that. Turn this into an ego game if you actually want to beat debt. Like if you want to stop going into credit card debt, play the game, get your ego involved. Have one with this. This is what did it for me. But I never ever carry a balance on a credit card. And the way that I look at credit cards is if I don't have the money in my checking account, I'm not putting it on a credit card. So don't buy things that you can't afford. It's not free money. You're basically like borrowing money and you're not giving it back. So yeah, you're going to get slapped with interest. But I'm now luckily in a position where I don't handle my finances anymore. I don't pay my credit cards. I got a team of people who do it for me. It's great Chef's kiss, but when I was paying my credit cards, I paid them every single week just out of paranoia. And a lot of people say, oh, you should carry a little bit of a balance, it helps with the credit. I never listen to that. I don't care. I'm not like, it just stressed me out so bad. Every week I was paying the fucking things off max. Every two weeks I was paying them off. That's just how I got into the routine of not overspending and watching the numbers. Cuz if you ain't got the money, don't spend it. But when I said if you're in credit card debt, you're broke, you are student loans, mortgages, cars, everything else like that, that's a little different. I have a couple things I'm going to say after my little rant about the credit card debt. It's so common now. Everybody really is in credit card debt. I don't care how much society normalizes credit card debt. It's fine, it's fine. Just treat yourself, get what you want. No, don't normalize being in credit card debt because it's gonna sneak up on you and it's gonna you. Like I said, they don't charge you for the amount that you paid off. They charge you for the whole thing you owed if it's not fully paid off. So keep that in the back of your head. I'm talking live like you're broke. Why you going out doing things you ain't got no money if you're in credit card debt. No, you don't get to do. And my approach mentally with this is the same as When I'm dieting or trying to do certain hit certain fitness goals, I have that harsh mentality around eating and also spending. If you want to get a grip on it, there's no other reality. There are so many reasons why people are in debt. There are things that are not your fault, but you have to take responsibility for the place that you're in. If you're in debt, nobody's going to come take it off of you. If you overspent that credit card for whatever reason that is justified in your head and whatever reason other people could look at you and say, I fully understand it. Nobody's going to look at you and say, I fully understand this one thing happening. And then you got stuck in credit card debt for a year. Irresponsibility with money is like something people don't want to talk about. But I'm a no approach to everything in life, especially when it comes to money. Like, people have a lot more money than they think. They just don't have awareness of their spending. It's like when you first start learning how to count calories. You're like, damn, I didn't realize I was being so careless. Get your eyes on your budget. Get your eyes on what you're spending too, and start looking at how careless you've been. It's not your fault. There's no one to teach us this shit. And if you're in a bad financial spot, okay, don't beat yourself up for what you've done in the past. Just change going forward. I'm not over here to, like, bully you and abuse you, because like I said, no one teaches us this shit. We got trigonometry in high school. There's so many things you're not taught in life. So there is a big period of everyone as an adult trying to figure it out. And this is what I figured out that worked. So I'm going to share it. But you being in debt is nobody's responsibility but your own. Certain circumstances will push you into bad financial spots. You can get out. It's just not going to be fun. And the worst, worst thing is when life or something bad happens and it puts you in a financial pit. The last thing you want to do is be like, okay, this unfair thing just happened and now I'm gonna have to go live like, I'm absolutely broke to get out of this debt. You're allowed to be pissed off, you're allowed to be angry, but there's no justifying your way out of it. You gotta pay it off. So Like I said, medical bills, those will get you medical bills and other types of debt, like student loan debt, are all different. With medical bills. I'll give you a couple of pointers because I was a nurse, I still am a nurse legally. But if your medical debt has been sold to a debt collector, you can fight that. It's a HIPAA violation if you want to. I'm not going to push you. Do what you want. But go Google some, go learn some things, go research some things. You might be able to get some debt taken care of. Also with insurance companies and any kind of medical debt, ask and demand an itemized list of what the charges are and what the money's for. And if you don't recall getting certain treatment or certain things that they're saying you got when you were at the hospital or going to certain visits, decline it, dispute it, fight it. There's no, like, harm in it. And trying to fight it and get your bills knocked down, buck back. All these people who are trying to buck you, student loan stuff, call them after a few years and see what. I'm not telling you what to do. Go Google it, go research it. But these are options you got. So someone just says, oh, you owe this amount of money, fight it with them. See what you could bargain, see what you could haggle. And you might be able to get it brought down. One more thing I also want to point out is I'm not someone sitting over here who has like a giant trust fund. And I have, like, people to help me. Like, I don't have to budget and deal with it. I've been broke before. Like, my first 40 episodes of my podcasts are only audio. The first almost year of my podcast was only audio because I couldn't afford camera equipment. I couldn't afford the mic. This is like 5, 600 bucks. I don't know much. It is now. I bought it years ago, but I couldn't afford the stuff at the time. When I first moved to Houston and left my hometown a few years ago and started my podcast and was doing all this, I was eating chicken and rice and canned vegetables for months. I know what it's like to struggle. I know what it's like to be pissed off and irritated and have to live like that. But it's very character building and it makes you very resourceful and it's kind of fun and low key. I miss those times like, I miss those days. Now I'll never be in that position again because I'll never allow myself to. I've Set myself up financially where no matter what, I'll be fine. But I kind of miss that, like the set yourself up mode. There's more I'm going to get into about the living broke stuff to get yourself into a secured spot. But let's move on to budgeting and my whole perspective on that. So I heard about that whole, like envelope thing long time ago. I forget who it was. I don't remember who it was online. Somebody's talking about, oh, the envelope thing. You make a envelope and you get your cash from your checks every week and you separate your money with different things for your bills. I liked that I did that. I opened seven different checking accounts and I used the envelope method with the different checking accounts to store money away for different things. And all your bills that you have make different categories for each one. But one really, really big extra envelope I always add is piss away money. So every time you get paid, every time you get some money, you divide it up into your little categories, add money into your piss away account so you have money to piss away. It's like when you go out and you see something, it's like, I want that. And then it's not the constant, oh, no, I can't have this, can't have that. You have money to piss away and you have money. If you want something stupid, you can go buy something stupid. And it's the little things that make you happy. Money makes you happy. Buying certain things brings you joy. There's a little ghost that I have that I bought when I was in Houston and it was $20 back then. Me buying that ghost for 20 bucks, I think it was 25 bucks. It was like, damn, But I have my little piss away money spot. So I pulled the 25 bucks out there and bought myself a little ghost. That little ghost. I still have it. I put it out every Halloween. Makes me so happy. There are going to be things that just make you happy for no fucking reason. Buy them, have money set aside to buy them. I used to have envelopes so detailed out when I had hair. I would get my hair cut every week. I put 50 bucks a week in the envelope to have for my haircut. Like I would separate my money boots. Like, it was very organized, very nice. But the thing that it did to me mentally and the reason I like this method is you're preparing and you feel prepared for bills and expenses. You're not a victim to them. You're not just getting bitched around by constant things popping up. Oh, I got to pay this I got to pay that. And you're just like confused and you feel like I just can't get ahead. So putting the money aside and splitting it up in different checking accounts or the envelope method, it makes you feel more prepared. But there's a big emotional shift that has to happen. I don't want to get too spiritual into all this about the whole thing with money. I have other episodes that are a little more spiritual about money, but that's a big thing, is preparing. Now. The other thing with the checking accounts is I cut up the credit cards for all of them except my main checking account, like my spending one. And then I had my other debit card for my business checking account. The reason I only had the one debit card is because when I wanted to buy something, I had to go in and transfer the money out of my piss away account and put it in there. Or if I had a certain bill come up, I had to transfer the money from that thing to the checking account to pay it. So I only was spending out of the one account, but I had the other one set aside and that's how I put the money in and move it around. This is also very self esteem building when you have something that you need money for and you're like, wait, I can go to myself for it and I can go to one of my other accounts and I have the money for here, I'll just transfer it over. Boom, I gave myself money. You become a lot more confident and you feel more stable in life because you're not like having a bill pop up. You're like, ah, what do I do? Who do I go to? It's like this frantic. You don't have that because you already got the money set aside. So it's self esteem building when you know you got your own back and it's like, hey, hey, my other account, look at me. And one thing not a lot of people say is how isolating it is when you're trying to get your finances in check and you're trying to fix the way you spend money, maybe save a little money, maybe get out of debt. It is very isolating. And the point that I'm going to bring up with that is you don't have to stop going out with people, being around people, going to eat, be strategic and be smart. And one thing with me being Albanian that was very hard is when the bill comes at a restaurant, usually I was always the one to pay. With my family, with my close friends, yes. But with friends, guy friends, other girlfriends, it's like, it was hard for me to say that the bills are separate. If you cannot lay down the boundary and tell your friends that the bill is separate. If you can't let yourself stop being taken advantage of by people that you don't care about more than everybody else. So you got your inner circle and then you got like the second layer of the circle. Don't be buying people drinks, don't be buying people dinners. Don't be doing none of that. If you can't lay down the boundary, remove the temptation. If you can't say the checks are separate, you pay for what you got, then don't go. Same thing with food. If you can't be around cake and say no, then get rid of the temptation. Don't even have it around. It's like the same thing with food. Like I said, it mirrors. But that's one thing that helped me a lot is removing that obligation and just like committing like, okay, yeah, it's gonna be uncomfortable for a little bit from my cultural background to not take care of the bill. But it gets easier when you're dealing with Americans. It's fine. They, they, that's their normal. So it's not like a big deal. And you might feel like it's a big deal to only pay for yourself with like distant friends or like just whatever, like party friends, whoever. But it's not going to be that uncomfortable and everybody's going to kind of get it. And also if people start not wanting to hang out because, yeah, you got to float your own bill. You just weeded out a fucking mooch. So good job. One thing I will say about budgeting that a lot of people do not agree with is when it comes to a car, a lot of people get so mad and pissy. They got like a hard on for telling everybody, get a piece of car, don't have a car. Note, don't, no, okay, get the nice car, get the reliable car. Don't be getting nothing fancy. Crazy. But buying a newer car, get it under warranty. Get a car under warranty for a while so you don't got no expenses with it. You don't got to worry about is the going to start is whatever. You could find ways to make more money to cover the car. I bought a car in 2019. That was the 2019. I think it had like 3,000 miles on it. I had a Chrysler 3 hundreds. I'll finally tell y'all what I drove for a while. I had that car for five years even when I started making money. Before I moved to la, I still didn't upgrade my car. When I was in la, I was driving to Chrysler, didn't care. It was still nice. It was the leather, all black, tinted out windows. I love the car. I had a lot of memories with the car. But yeah, in LA I had that like doubt and like the insecurity because everything's about the money and the cars and over there. But I didn't care because I knew how much I was making. One, but two, the car was paid off. So I was like, why am I gonna go get a nice car and go to la? Are people gonna ding it up and it up? You got a valet everywhere you go, park on the street, all these crazy people around all the time. I'm not taking a nice car out there. And then when I got to Texas again, when I came to Dallas and moved here, I still waited a little bit to find the exact car that I wanted. Then I went and custom built my dream car, which is insane, but I didn't get money and then immediately go jump to upgrading a car. My point here though is reliable cars are important. You don't want to be dealing with every month, two months, 500 bucks, thousand bucks to fix something else on the fucking car just because you want a lower car note. Get a car that's under warranty. Don't be buying no name brand fancy shit. It's not a big deal to have a car that's not like super name brand whatever. Just have it under warranty, make sure you're good. It's not going to be an expense, it's not going to be a headache. And you got a little confidence when you're driving around you're like, yeah, okay, it's reliable. It's not dinking and dudding and stuttering every time I pull up. But that's one thing that I personally get a lot of peace of mind with is a car that I don't feel alone to deal with the costs of. If something happens like, yeah, it's under warranty. The manufacturers help me pay somebody's bills. Yeah, not just me, because I wanted to have no car. Note girl, okay, now let's move on to saving money and my whole outlook on that. So when I was in my like living like I'm broke period, even when I started making a little money, I was still living like I was broke because I was saving a month of expenses. So I at all times in the past, if you want to start, I'll tell you like how it went. So the first time I did it, I had a month set aside all the money it would cost for me to live, eat, and pay all my bills for one month set aside in a separate savings account. Then I built it to three months. I have that account at a whole separate bank. That is money that I have set aside and hidden that I can't access. It's not, like, fresh in my head. Every time I pull up my one banking app, it's not there. I got a bunch now, but, like, at the time, I would like. If you start now, save a month of all of your expenses and put it in a separate bank and just leave it there in a savings account so, you know, you got the comfort if everything goes to. Or if something goes wrong. I can live for an entire month. I have 30 days to figure something out. The peace that you get, the confidence that you feel, just the relief of having that money in the side. Then build it to three months. Have three months of your expenses because you become free and you're able to walk away from anything. So if you got some going on at a job you don't like, you got the balls now you can afford to walk in there and walk off, be able to walk away from anything. And this is how you can set yourself up financially. To be able to do that, I would say have a minimum of six months of your bills set aside. Eventually I'd say, like, get to three months, and then you could be a little bit more relaxed with how fast you build it. But I have a year at all times now you just walk around with the peace of knowing everything I've got now. Okay, if something goes wrong, I can survive for a month. I've secured myself that confidence gonna radiate. It's gonna change. Like, just the everyday anxiety that you feel and the stress that you feel after you get out of the debt and you got that one month, please. And then you bump into three months, please. You're gonna, like, be able to afford to be yourself when you do that, because, you know, you got yourself you can say no to. You don't want to do or say no to certain treatment that you get or have to deal with because you need money. So you kind of set yourself free. Okay. So separate from that account, that's just your expenses on the side. That's what I like to do. In the accounts that you have, like, at the one bank that you like, and you got all the ones listed out your little envelope. Method with all your checking accounts. Great. Have a separate savings account. In there, I'd say minimum five grand. Emergency fund, emergency anything. You could start off with a thousand bucks. That's just an emergency fund. If something happens or comes up, that's not a savings account. That's an emergency, like, for an unexpected expense. So let's say you got the car or deal you over here, you budgeting, you're living, like, according to your budget, and you're like, okay, something just happened with the car or some random expense just came up, and it's a thousand bucks. If you got the thousand bucks sitting in the emergency fund, you don't feel it, don't sweat it, don't think twice. You pay it, you're done. As annoying as it is, that's the reality of life. Unexpected expenses come up all the time. So I'd say keep the emergency fund. Thousand bucks minimum, bump it to five once you can get there, but just don't look at it. Okay? Then you're gonna have another savings account where you put, like, just for your personal savings. Cute. Have a little extra savings for whatever the you want to do. A really big thing that helps me with saving money is dropping subscriptions. Random things that you subscribe to that you forgot about. Go clear them out. There's a lot of apps you can use. A couple of them have sponsored my podcast before. They didn't sponsor this episode, but I like Rocket Money. There's plenty of ways to go clear out all your subscriptions. Go on your phone and do it, and then go on your PayPal and then go on your, like, bank and see what you can see that you're subscribed to. Go clear all that shit out. Get rid of it. Another thing where I'm talking about with all of the savings accounts, the budgeting, everything that you've got laid out. Your little envelope theory. Okay, theory. Your little envelope plan. This is you showing yourself how to handle money and deal with money. Because you now have a plan. When unexpected money comes in, you know where to put it. So if you're still trying to build that first, all the bills, the one month of bills separate, you know where to put the extra money. Once that's covered, you got a month of all your expenses in that separate bank. Great. After that, any money that's unexpected or random that comes in, put it in the emergency fund. Once that's built, you put it in your savings. Once you're comfortable with your savings account, put it in your piss away fucking pile. This gives you confidence with how to handle and deal with money. It also is a Big vibrational, spiritual thing, emotional thing. And as soon as I got a grip on all of this, my diet switched. Like, this isn't even part of it, but I'm just saying observations like the way that it went for me, diet got better and that started making more money. The more that I managed it and felt confident receiving the money and spending money like you feel confident with spending money because you got it all separated. You're not over here victimized. Oh, I just keep getting blindsided, hit upside the head over all these bills. You're comfortable letting money go because you prepared for it. You're also comfortable with getting more money because you've set up stability for yourself of where to put it. And you're making yourself feel secure. You can use money to bring yourself certain feeling states and to cause certain feeling states. If you want to feel stable and secure. Organize the and get comfortable with letting it go and letting it come back in. Now let's talk about the credit cards and the credit card points and what cards I use and how I use the points. Because I'd be getting a lot of for free. Like I told you on my last episode the other day, I bought myself a PlayStation with all the points that I had. I bought a bunch of best buy gift cards and got a free PlayStation 5 Pro. First thing I'm gonna call out is the whole American Express thing. People are dumb. They don't know how to use it. Like, you need to like card max with the points and the more money you make. I always thought like, oh, rich people don't care about the points. They do. And if you do it right, you can do it right. It's a missed opportunity if you're not doing it. If you Elon Musk, who gives a damn about a point? But everybody could benefit from the points. With American Express, the platinum card is $695 a year. To have the card, you get a lot of benefits for having it. You can go Google them, whatever. But with American Express Platinum, it's 5 times points on flights and hotels, but you have to book them through the American Express website. One mistake I made, so I have that card only for travel and hotels. I didn't get the Platinum card until before last tour. Last year I had plenty of money. I had plenty of reason to get it. The points didn't make no sense. I wasn't traveling like that. So once I had the need for it, I booked all my travel for tour on the Amex and I got five times the points back with the Gold card, the American Express gold. That one's $325 a year. Well worth it because you get like 100 something dollars in Uber credits for both of the cards. American Express Gold, you get four times points at supermarkets and restaurants. With the Platinum one, you only get one point per dollar. So when people go to a restaurant and they slap down the Platinum card, they think that they. Oh, like a lot of people just try and flex. Like, oh, I have the Platinum. Like you're dumb. You dabble. You need the gold one to go out to the restaurants. You get four times points back. That's like 4% cash back. Supermarkets too. Go grocery shopping. Put the on there. It stacks up more than you think. So hotels and flights are on the Amex Platinum. Groceries, restaurants, Amex Gold. And that feeling of slapping down a metal card. Nice. I like the Gold one more. I just think it looks better. But the Platinum is more of a flex. If you got the black card, hit me up. The other card that I use for every purchase, that is not those two categories with those two cards, the Capital One Venture card, that's the one that I use for every other purchase because it's two times points that you get. They say that it's miles. They say it's a venture card. They say you can redeem the points for travel. No, I'm about to get to my trick with redeeming the points. But the Capital One card, the Venture One is, I think it's $95 a year. They give you $120 credit just for having their card for TSA. So TSA PreCheck is free. So if you already buy TSA PreCheck and pay for that, you might as well just buy the card, it's cheaper. And then get the TSA for free and then have the two times points on the card. You see what I mean? Be smart about it. Look at what you get with all the credit cards. And if you don't have high enough credit to get certain cards that are like I'm mentioning, you can look at all the rewards and start looking at which one you can get right now that has the best output. But the whole thing with the rewards one with the American Express, the Platinum, there's a lot of really, really good deals that you get. Also. The Gold has a lot too. But one that I use every single time it comes up is Aversace. If you spend 700 bucks, you get $150 credit from American Express. So you get 150 bucks off basically. And they have that for all kind of stores. So that's a big way to save a lot of money. A lot of cards have them, too. It's not just the Amex, but the Amex has the best wins. Now, when you're redeeming the points on your credit card, redeem them for gift cards. They have gift cards that are digital that you can get sent to your email immediately. The main ones that I get gift cards for is Instacart, Uber, because you can use it on UberEats and Uber. If you're gonna buy furniture on Wayfair, they got Wayfair gift cards, they got Amazon gift cards. If you need equipment, they got Best Buy, they got Apple. My main thing is any repeated expense that I have, I use Instacart every single time I order groceries. That's just free when I get the gift cards. So if once a month I get a $200 gift card, that's 200 bucks knocked off groceries. So it stacks. But when I say redeem the points for gift cards, if you redeem the points for statement credit, it's not usually as high as a conversion like you get. So go peruse the site. If you've been wanting to buy yourself something, you want to buy something, design it. They have Neiman, Marcus, Sachs, Nordstrom, they got all those brands and all those companies in the gift card category. Also with travel, when you redeem the points with booking flights through the Capital One card or the Amex cards, it's better when you convert it to cover the flight or the hotel when you book it through that. So don't be using the points on your credit card for statement credit. Stupid mistake. One more thing I'm going to mention for anyone who's in the public eye, whether you're just on social media like your little influencer, or you're higher up or you're rich, if you just got money, you need to pay for a credit lock for sure. So no one can open shit in your name. No one can run your credit without you approving it. That's something you got to watch out for. If you're trying to rebuild your credit, people are going to be running it. It's not really going to be useful unless you have someone that's trying to steal your identity or you have a lot of money. If you're in a very toxic relationship and finances have gotten involved and it's gotten twisted and it's gotten bad, that's a way to secure yourself as a credit lock. So that's something I didn't know until I got to a certain point and the people that I work with business wise were like, hey it. Yeah, we setting you up with that. I was like, okay, cool. So I want to tell you, okay, now let's talk about investing. First thing you should be investing in before you go into stocks and all this crypto bullshit. You need to be investing into getting your time back, invest money into buying your time back. So couple ways that I do it, cleaners, housekeepers, car wash, people that come to your house and clean your car for you. You ain't got to drive nowhere, you ain't got to worry about it. It's just done automating and getting things done for you, buying your time back. Ordering groceries. I do it every single time. You rarely catch me at the grocery store unless I'm desperate or I hit my pen a little too much and I wanted to go play in Target. Like I don't usually go to the grocery for a lot of reasons and it saves you a lot of time. Headache, travel, dealing with stupid ass people wasting your time. You should be investing, getting your time back and be consistent and be able to afford that before you over here trying to invest into long term things are going to make you money. Invest into. You can be rich when you're 60. Oh my God. That's my outlook on it and that's what I do. Another thing that I am big on investing in is premiums for YouTube because I'm not watching ads. Your attention and your time is very valuable. Why are you over here watching an ad? I paid a 9.99amonth, whatever it is, 15 bucks, I don't care. The Apple music, the Soundcloud premium, the Spotify Premium, YouTube Premium. I pay for all of it because I'm not listening to ads. I don't want that going in my head. I want to choose what I listen to and watch. Not be fed like ads and crap. Like be respectful of your time. If you got a little extra money, pay for that. It's useful. Another one is Instacart plus and Uber plus. Uber one, whatever the hell it's called. It saves you a bunch on fees. So pay for the premiums before you start investing into the S and P. But that's the thing about the next point I have is the whole S&P 500. Investing in the stocks, investing in crypto. I don't understand it, I don't get it and I don't care truly. Because I've been around, met and seen a lot of people who are all in this investment space and they are broke dick. Like, yeah, they was living large. They was doing great. A lot of these little influencers, like, oh, I'll teach you how to invest, bro. I'll teach you to teach you that. Look at them all now, where their Lamborghini Uruses go. I don't trust the whole, like, learning from people to invest and buying a course and all that crap. I don't personally concern myself with it. The whole thing. Everybody's shoving it on everybody's throat. You need to be investing, you need stocks and shut the fuck up. Enough. I want to like, bark at that in the back of your head because I don't want you worrying about it. Don't stress about it, don't think about it. You'll know when it's time to invest. I could be a full dumbass and be missing out on a lot of money. I really don't mind. I don't care. I've turned down so many opportunities of like, brand deals, partnerships, all this crap. Yeah, I could have much more money, but, like, if I'm not even desperate enough to sell out for it, I'm not going to stress myself out playing in the stock market. I'll go to casino before I do that. On the topic of investing, I do like to invest in goals and things that you want to do. So I'm big on like, committing hard and investing. So the pain of quitting is harder than continuing when you have a goal or something. So I have a nutrition coach again. I hired him. I'm getting back on my. My birthday's coming up, I'm trying to go to Cabo, trying to be on the beach. So I gotta get my body right. I've been slacking for a little bit, but I hire a nutrition coach when I'm ready to get back in the groove of buy a more expensive gym membership, buy clothes to work out with, buy equipment. If you want to, like, start doing something, making something, buy a laptop. And if you want to start making content or doing things, buy the equipment. Like, fork out and like, be nauseous at how much you just invested into your goal because it's like it's going to piss you off every day when it just sits there. Like you buy camera just sits there and you just look at it and you walk by, you're like, that's two grand every fucking day. I just got to look at is your choice if you make it be a waste of money or not. So I'm very big on investing in your goals and investing money where it, like, hurts a little, pisses you off, so you're forced to kind of like, act and do what you're supposed to do and do what you're trying to do, make it harder to quit. So that's a big thing where I say, yeah, invest. And speaking of investing, I'm going to talk about investing in business events and business seminars. Save your fucking money. I paid $5,000 recently to go to a business event of people that I trust and look up to and have helped me a lot. I love their free content, their books have been great. When I got to the event, it wasn't really for me, it wasn't really what I needed or wanted. When I did the phone call to like be approved to go, the person assured me, yeah, that's exactly. We can help you with all that. The event turned into them just upselling you into a 35, 000 thing where you work with them one on one twice a year, every six months. And then it's like, oh, if you don't buy it today, we're gonna charge you 45, 000. I hate that. I say it's a waste because I'm not gonna let it be a waste. I've let it, like, kick me into overdrive and piss me off. Where I'm gonna make it worth it. I learned a couple of things, but not $5,000 worth. And like networking and connecting, save it. Don't worry about the business events. Read the books, watch the videos, watch the free shit, go to your little Barnes and Noble, go on Amazon, buy some books, read as much as you can, consume as much as you can and act. You learn more by doing like, I am glad that I went. I learned my lesson. I paid five grand for the peace of mind. I ain't going to no like that again. Most of it's just like trying to upsell you into something else. Another thing with courses, a lot of people online, oh, I make a million dollars a year. Buy my course. I'm going to teach you exactly how. Don't get caught in all these scams and schemes and all this. People who are really making a million dollars a year are not going to be making a course to tell you how to do it. They're busy making the money. If you see somebody who's like, oh, my course is going to help you be a millionaire, Just know that you buying their course is their income. That's how they allegedly make the million. A lot of these people lie about the numbers that they, that they make and they lie about their income because they want to upsell you. And then a lot of people, you'll get into their course and then it's just how to do what they just did, which is sell courses to people on how to make money. And that's your income. It's a pyramid scheme from hell. There's more than you think, there's more than you realize. So my rule of thumb is, when you see somebody online, if their free content has not changed your life or helped you or improved something, there is a 100 chance nothing behind their paywall will help you either. If it's all just an act to, like, get you to buy something, you're gonna know. So if they're not genuinely trying to help with free, they're not going to try to help you. Their goal is making money. They're trying to loop you in, not post things that are going to help, you know, go on Google. I never will tell you, go on Reddit, but go on Reddit, go look up some forums, go look up some reviews about certain people's courses before you buy them, and you'll see who's full of shit from other people who have paid the money. So my last section for this whole topic about finances is about shopping and travel, how I save money with both of those things. But I'm not posting it here because I don't want y'all getting all the information bumping me at the sales I'm trying to get into. Okay, I'm going to post that on my sub stack. And I know I just talk about people with courses. The substack's not a course. That's my private group where I hang out and go live and post details like this that I don't want everybody knowing. It's like the close knit, like Leo community. So if you want to join, I'll put the link in the description. But that's all I got for this week's episode. If you liked it, leave this video, a thumbs up and comment. A money emoji. I always say comment a certain emoji at the end of the episodes. So I like to see who makes it this far. So comment A little money emoji, A little money bag, little something. If you're listening on the audio version on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, leave this podcast a 5 stars rating and hit the download button. It helps me a ton. For real, hit the download button. I'd prefer that over the five stars. Thank you. Love you as always. Everything you need for me will be in the description where you can keep up with me. I have been posting a lot on Tick tock my whole meal plan that I've been doing. If you want to like eat along with me because I got two weeks worming Cabo I gotta look good but everything you need for me is in the description. Also working on some new merch I switch manufacturers and the journal I've talked about the journal for a while that I'm gonna make perfect I had to switch people we in a whole new design process but trust and believe it's coming. My version of a gratitude journal and my version of other things are coming too because I don't like that whole today I'm grateful for deep shut the up. Ah I'm so excited for the journal. I just need to get the right person who can make it. But that's it for this week. Thanks for hanging out. Love you so bad. Everybody be safe. Take care of yourself. Get your money right, get your finances right. I just told you how I'll talk to you guys next Sunday.