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Charity
And I'm Charity. And today we have two. Two very special guests from Bachelor Nation. Some of my personal favorites. And they are straight off the grounds from Stagecoach. Everybody, welcome. Alex and Andrew. I looked at the opposite.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I was like, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Alex Godun
Thank you for having us, guys. I'm excited.
Charity
No, so excited. I'm like, truly, literally the only two people I want in these seats.
Alex Godun
Literally. I was telling Andrea today. I was like, charity is my twin flame. Like, you are just like.
Rachel
I see the connection.
Alex Godun
It's the Bob. But also, like, this weekend, I was like, oh, my gosh.
Andrew Z. Spencer
We just searching for. We gotta find Charity. Okay?
Rachel
And we have to talk about it.
Alex Godun
We have to talk about it. And if Rachel would have been there, I would have been looking for you too.
Rachel
You know, the one thing I wish I would have seen was this split kick in the air hitting Charity in the back of the head because I heard she was King Cuss.
Alex Godun
So you. You tell me. You go away.
Charity
No, it actually was insane.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I don't even know why my legs are high.
Charity
I don't either. And they were perfectly.
Andrew Z. Spencer
You ever see with cats, they don't want to be in the water. They, like, spread their legs super wide and Then like it barely grazed you.
Charity
No, it did. I had a very delayed. But it was like, I was like. I was like, what was that? Okay, so we were all at their house after the desert storm and just having, you know, vibes. Vibes are high. We were all just living, having the time of our lives. We're all on the front porch and just, you know, kicking it, doing whatever and Andrew, I don't even. Were you sitting on something? What were you sitting on? You were doing.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm telling you guys, I don't.
Rachel
It looks like you were levitating.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It was a good.
Alex Godun
Or like a decoration of some sort.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, it was maybe like a big vase or something like that.
Charity
Okay.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I was sitting on that and then I like just kick my legs up.
Charity
Just having fun.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I don't know. I was excited about something. We were playing this game. It was really fun.
Charity
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And I think I might have gotten like a really excited.
Alex Godun
Yeah, I got a little good rhyme. And you were like.
Charity
And I was sitting on the floor and then all I hear, like, not even hear. I feel something like grays.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And you know, Justin's gonna gas.
Charity
Correct.
Andrew Z. Spencer
He's like, oh, my God, how could you do.
Charity
And so. No, like a child. It literally was like a child, like, ow. I don't even know if it hurt. But I was like, ow. I don't even know if it hurt.
Rachel
Andrew, you hit me.
Charity
And he goes. He gets up and comes and like comforts me.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Did you see the three part pictures? There's like a time lapse of pictures
Rachel
and I had such fomo.
Alex Godun
Oh, no. You would have had fun. That was more fun than the festival.
Rachel
I know. I want to hear about everyone we saw. Where did you guys stay?
Alex Godun
Yes.
Rachel
There were a lot of bachelor people there.
Andrew Z. Spencer
A lot.
Alex Godun
We saw mostly everybody that I've ever met.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. So we had a deal with T Mobile and we're like. I mean, I looked at it, the list, and before I can even send a text, Joey's like, we're in the same house. Oh, shoot, we're in the house. So then we knew going in that we were going to see Joey and Kelsey. I didn't know Rachel was going to be there. And that was the first time we met Rachel. Rachel Kirkconnell. First time we ever met her. And it was so fun. We had like the first two nights sleepovers basically because her room was next door to ours.
Alex Godun
And then she was just Avatar. Like last Airbender.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, we nerded out. She's a. She's A, she's a dorky girl.
Charity
No, I love it.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Like, like that's in the best way.
Alex Godun
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Wait, that was so much fun in the house.
Rachel
Was it just you guys?
Charity
Well, that was bachelor, right?
Andrew Z. Spencer
That's bachelor.
Alex Godun
Other people. And then for some reason after the sandstorm, Charity came over. Cat Izzo. Who else? There was someone else.
Charity
There was so many people.
Rachel
I feel like Taylor, Frankie, Paul's guys.
Alex Godun
The nicest guy. You feel like you've known him forever.
Charity
Yes. So easy.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Justin was there.
Rachel
Justin straight off the plane from.
Alex Godun
I genuinely, when I like country this much. What's going on?
Rachel
Was this taken like a while ago? Because you were just posting from like
Alex Godun
literally from the Delta and then all
Rachel
of a sudden he like jumped out of the plane, landed straight at Stagecoach.
Alex Godun
Probably had a little detail like a.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, he went home and just drove. He's already in la. So that's kind of an easy.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Kind of make up.
Alex Godun
But I saw Jonathan too. Yeah, that was nice.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, you know, Bachelor nation stage coaches just goes hand in.
Charity
Oh, yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And like it should just be like an official event. I don't know why there's no bachelor nation house.
Charity
Come on now.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Because.
Charity
Hello. I literally thought about that this weekend. I said, well, you know, if y' all really want some good, put us in a house together.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Go get one of them campaigns.
Charity
Hello. It's really simple.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Y' all got it literally.
Rachel
Speaking of, was there anything of note that happened? Any drama, any funny story?
Andrew Z. Spencer
Honestly, the best vibes I've had in a long time. I think everyone was like clicking on all cylinders. It was, it was really nice for me especially.
Alex Godun
I feel like I'm always like, it's probably confidence issue, but I'm always nervous to go into these houses with, you know, you see them online and you're like, oh my gosh. So I was nervous, I will say. And I felt like meeting them. I was like, oh my gosh, she's so great. We vibed. Really vibed. Well, yeah, Yeah. I made friends that I knew we would be friends, but I didn't expect. I don't know. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, it was, it was, it was everyone vibes. It's like your whole for you page in one house.
Rachel
I'm like, I want to know everything.
Charity
No, I wish you were there, like,
Alex Godun
and you like learn things from people. Like Charity, I'm sitting on the couch and she's like, I don't think you know me that well. And I was like, I don't think I Do. And we had the best time ever.
Charity
Convinced. I was like, are we charity?
Rachel
Alex and Charity, One on one date at Sage. Coach.
Alex Godun
It was really. No. Basically, we were in the bathroom last night.
Andrew Z. Spencer
That was how it was, though. I was like that with, like, Joey. Joey. Like, Joey and I were, like, attached to the hip. And then Justin as well, hopped in there.
Rachel
Serene.
Alex Godun
Oh, my gosh. Forgot to say saw. Serene and serene.
Charity
Oh, my God.
Alex Godun
And Susie. No, literally everyone. Serene. Also.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Joe, grocery store. You can't be at grocery store. Joe.
Rachel
Gosh, did he come to hang out at the T Mobile house?
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, he didn't come to the T Mobile house, but we saw them all after.
Charity
It was good. Bob's are truly immaculate. I love it.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Well, Kelsey came in with two b. Two boxes of Fireball. These little shooters.
Rachel
Oh, wow. Okay, so next year, Fireball House sponsored.
Charity
Sponsored by Bachelor Nation.
Rachel
I'm feeling it.
Charity
I'm looking at all y'. All.
Rachel
A great combo.
Alex Godun
I feel like Coachella was a little hectic and I didn't get to see everybody.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. Except for that Sunday, though. This is where we. We bonded. We all bonded.
Charity
It was actually like, I. It was like divine intervention. I'm not kidding. We were. I had already knew I was going to try to find exactly them, but I was like, shit. We're like. We were like, a little late to the set because we went on the wrong side. We were with Tanner and his girlfriend Haley, and I was like, no, I need to find Alex. Like, I.
Alex Godun
Like, I'm here for.
Charity
Hello. For Alex. Really? And Subtronics.
Alex Godun
But wow.
Charity
We literally are walking back from the wrong side. We're, like, trying to run over to find Brian, and, like, Andrew comes out of, like, I don't know how, but he, like, finally. He's like, hey. And we're like, oh, my God. Like, it was literally the most epic moment we all walk over with, like, with Brian, it was just. It was.
Andrew Z. Spencer
The two first days were a little hectic, so, you know, we were just kind of like, everyone was trying to get into Bieber. And then, like, the next day was
Alex Godun
just, you know, a lot of whatever happens, happens. And we just got.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And then Sunday we're like, we're just gonna chill.
Charity
Best day.
Andrew Z. Spencer
We're just going to do it on Sunday. And then the best time. The best time.
Rachel
I need you to tell the story of what happened on your journey to get to Coachella, because I saw your story. What was happening.
Charity
Oh, my God. I completely forgot about that.
Alex Godun
Yeah. Try to buy it from the festival itself because if you buy from a third party seller, what happens? Especially I think it was a Bieber event. So everyone was like, the prices were just.
Andrew Z. Spencer
They were skyrocketing.
Alex Godun
Skyrocketing, exactly. So two days before the event, mind you, we have a non refundable house. Andrew calls me in a panic. I'm like getting my makeup done by Susie's friend. And you're like, our tickets got revoked.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. So I had, I bought tickets because I was just like, I need to see Bieber. Like, this is something that we both wanted to do.
Charity
Hello.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And we were like, we were like, last minute, we were just like, do we do it? Do we go to Coachella? And then we. I'm like, do it, let's do it. So we ended up doing it like two weeks, two weeks out, we bought tickets. And like two days before we're like departing, they're like, hey, sorry, your tickets have been canceled. We'll give you full refund and like a credit. Like, well, no, because we have our houses and everything. And then like I'm, I call them up, I'm like, what's going on? And they're like, hey, so your tickets have been rescinded. I was like, that doesn't make any sense. You can't just take back. There's no take backsies.
Charity
That's not in the policy.
Andrew Z. Spencer
That's not how it works. So I'm, I'm like getting, I'm like getting hot. And they're like, you can buy them back for about 13k. Said, okay, go, fuck off, buy them back for 13. And then I have to go find another. Like, I outsourced to another place. I'm like, I got to buy something quick because we already have like a non refundable house. So I get StubHub, buy the first ticket that I see, way cheaper than them.
Charity
Okay.
Andrew Z. Spencer
So then I get.
Alex Godun
He calls me, tells me all the whole story.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm going to make a video.
Alex Godun
And I'm like, no, I'm never spicy online.
Rachel
You did?
Charity
Yeah.
Alex Godun
I'm so upset. I was like, I can't let them, like, what happened? Especially like, we were very lucky. Again, I was telling you earlier, I have a platform and I can talk about it. And we were very lucky that I guess they felt bad because people were like shitting on them online and they gave us free tickets. But I'm always like, okay, what about those people that don't have a platform? That's. Yeah, I'm gonna make a freaking video. Yeah. So it can reach a lot of People, good girl.
Rachel
Did anyone reach out?
Andrew Z. Spencer
So I DM them, I've worked with them before and I was just like, hey, hey, hey, this, this. And they DM me back to like, hey, oh, we would like to give them to you for free, blah, blah. And we're like, oh, okay. And I'm like, why? And she's like, we saw Alex's video. I was like, hahaha, okay, thank you.
Charity
And you know what? And that's when it pays off.
Andrew Z. Spencer
There was a link above her video and there was just multiple people. They did this to me. This did this to me.
Alex Godun
And you know what? I will give it. It's not just that for Coachella or just like, yeah, other. Other tours, other concerts, but it's not just them. I will say it's any third party sellers. Yeah, there's a huge risk.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, yeah.
Alex Godun
And the. The buyer is not really protected.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. So yeah, that was hectic. We got the free tickets. Yeah, I sold the other ones.
Rachel
Did they upgrade you guys? I feel like that would have been a situation. They could have hit the upgrade, but. Glad you guys went.
Alex Godun
That was fun.
Rachel
Glad it all worked out. But that is crazy.
Alex Godun
So fun.
Andrew Z. Spencer
We got. Yeah, Honestly, that's exactly the kind of. We work in chaos though.
Alex Godun
Just like, I'm just tired.
Charity
You guys manage it very well.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, I mean it always ends up worth it at the end of the day. So like, you know, just stay calm. I always tell her to don't panic.
Alex Godun
Well, he lost his camera this weekend at Stagecoach now. But you're panicking. Look.
Rachel
Oh, and you can't really get those right now.
Alex Godun
You can't. It's, it's.
Rachel
I would have panicked.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It's probably at the compound. They're just. They haven't gotten back to me yet.
Rachel
That is a tough loss because there's like a camera, waiting lines. Yeah, it'll turn up.
Charity
That's all right.
Rachel
It will turn up.
Charity
Yeah, you might get a free camera. Anybody out there?
Rachel
Canon?
Andrew Z. Spencer
You know? Canon, are you out there? It's your boy, darling.
Charity
Okay. You guys also were at Get Real. I don't think we really got to talk about the orders of the events and everything that happened. So, you know, I'm just curious, what were your thoughts about the event? And then also we got a lot of shows to kind of get into that's coming.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I love Get Real. Like, this is my second time. Obviously there's only two times, but I just love the opportunity to just be in the same room as some of the people you see on TV or online and just kind of get a feel for, like, the whole process of how they're doing things. Like, we did watch them film. Like, the Naders are filming, I think. And I think, like, maybe Mormon wives are filming, but, like, just being in that atmosphere, it's just always been really cool to me.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And obviously you get to. You get, like, the drama firsthand.
Alex Godun
I was talking to a blogger at Saint Trojan, and apparently there's so much tea that happened at Get Real, and I was like, please give it to me. So I don't know yet, but allegedly.
Rachel
What happened?
Andrew Z. Spencer
I saw the. The Mormon wives.
Charity
Okay. Yeah. I think it was like, what was it the. Jesse and Marciano.
Rachel
Yeah, I saw that.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Rachel
And I messaged her and I said, good for you. I said, I'm happy for her.
Charity
It was very.
Andrew Z. Spencer
But then I saw her was with. She was with the bachelor dude from.
Alex Godun
She is with the bachelor dude. And I tried to look if it was AI, but it's real.
Charity
Honestly, trying to get that. The only right response.
Alex Godun
I thought it was AI.
Charity
I wish it was AI.
Rachel
No, because we need to tell you. We sat down with him on Happy Hour, and one of the first things he told us was that that was. That was a thing.
Charity
I was.
Alex Godun
Oh, he had to goes, I am in the. In the space.
Charity
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. No, wait.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Didn't he delete his post?
Charity
Apparently, so it's not there anymore. Oh, yeah. So I don't know why.
Alex Godun
He was there for the right reason.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I don't know why.
Charity
It's just all very strange.
Rachel
Well, we found out on Happy Hour. We were all about it, but then I saw her with Marciano, and I was like, I love them together.
Charity
It seems fun. I was like, you know, she's like, you know, they're. And he's already figuring things out.
Andrew Z. Spencer
She just get divorced two weeks ago.
Charity
Listen, hey, you get it how you live.
Rachel
Let's have fun.
Alex Godun
Honestly, you know, women break up way before the actual thing happened. So she was checked out for a long time. I'm sure.
Charity
So come on with the.
Andrew Z. Spencer
With the tea.
Alex Godun
Trust me.
Charity
But, yeah. So, I mean, I honestly, I'm like, I actually do. Like, I know Marciano is very polarizing, but I'm like, obviously, we met him on Vanderpump. So I'm like, I don't. I like the kid. Like, I'm like, I don't even know what to tell him. I'm like, I don't have any personal problems with him. But seeing that, like, in person, I was like, oh, I was like, oh
Alex Godun
well, like were they together? Is that what they were?
Charity
Oh, they were together. They were like very cuddly, very touchy. I wasn't.
Alex Godun
Okay, but where did the drama happen?
Rachel
That I don't know. I just saw them being very happy together and I loved it.
Charity
Yeah, I think that was like just like very public. Like after like they were already kind of teasing it a little bit. I think that was like them together.
Alex Godun
The bachelor guy posting that right after that.
Charity
That's what I'm saying.
Andrew Z. Spencer
So they probably. Or Jesse is her name. Yeah, she probably was like, take it down, take it down.
Rachel
No, honestly, I think she's like pretty open about like. Yeah, she's just having a roster.
Alex Godun
She's got a roster.
Andrew Z. Spencer
She's got her.
Alex Godun
And that's the thing. Listen, I think she said I don't
Andrew Z. Spencer
want to talk about or any.
Charity
Don't.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Don't be hyping up no roster around here.
Alex Godun
You know, they didn't have fun cuz they got married very young and now she's getting divorced. She should have.
Charity
Alice is for the girls. Did you not know that?
Alex Godun
No, of course.
Charity
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Charity
Bachelor in paradise, which is coming back.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No way.
Charity
I'm like our paradise couple over here. How do we feel about it?
Andrew Z. Spencer
I feel. I mean, that's good news.
Alex Godun
I'm excited to see what the format's gonna look like for season 11. Are they gonna continue with what we had or are they gonna just change it back to the og?
Charity
I don't think I ever got yalls thoughts. Did y' all like how this.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I love the challenges. That's like perfect. You need those, like relationship building challenges.
Charity
I agree.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Because then we. We connected off of that and we had so much fun because we love to play like games and like all that stuff you had to get. You get to see them in their worst, like their agony, their pain, you know, whatever. Like they just their discomfort.
Charity
Yeah.
Alex Godun
But what I will say though, I think because there was a lack of like character or relationship development, that's the only thing get to see as much
Charity
of like, just mix it better spawn.
Alex Godun
Out of nowhere, Alex and Andrew are like willing to get engaged and it's like. What?
Charity
No, actually.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, I know what you're saying. No, I agree.
Alex Godun
So that is kind of the. I would say the con that people.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, we still love a love story.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
In the day. Yes. I enjoy not sitting on that beach, you know, and just like, oh, so what color do you like? Or it's nothing to do. Also bring more people down. Like if there were More people on that season.
Alex Godun
Oh, it was.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, that would have created.
Charity
And that's the thing. I'm like.
Andrew Z. Spencer
But we also had the Goldens, which I adored them.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
They just need their own.
Charity
They need their own segment. Like, other side. Yeah, for sure. I like the intermingling, but it was very, for me, a little slim picking. Yeah. Just like, I'm like, oh, I don't really know if this was going to be ever, like really successful for them.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, no, no. They all knew coming in, unless they do more seasons, there's just enough.
Alex Godun
Yeah. Not enough seasons for that.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. Because a lot of them, they're like, oh, no, we're all just friends here. I'm just like, yeah.
Charity
I'm like, I think people are kind of getting past of like, okay, let's be play things by the. Also I feel like the golden want to play everything like kind of a little bit by the book, except Kathy and I love you, Kathy. I'm like, like, do not come. I love you, Kathy.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, they did it right, though. I mean, I feel like they were having fun. They were actually like just kind of doing stuff and like being active with it. Like trying to make a connection with someone, even if it's a younger person. Like Kathy, Kathy be flirting now. Hello. And April. April.
Charity
April, don't play April.
Andrew Z. Spencer
April gonna go get it, honey.
Charity
You said she gonna find a way somehow. Somewhat.
Alex Godun
Thank you.
Rachel
Okay, well, paradise.
Charity
Let's talk.
Rachel
Who would you guys want to see in Paradise?
Alex Godun
We talked about that. Yeah, I would love to see. I mean my girl Latia. I think that would be fun.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. Lat needs to get on there.
Alex Godun
Yeah. Latia and I feel like bringing like Rachel. Kirk Connell would be like, people would be tuning in.
Charity
That would be good.
Alex Godun
Really hot. I mean there's. Everyone is but. And I think Greg would be fun. A good add on and it would cause like you know, some, some.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, I, I agree. I mean, I think Greg. Greg would be great. And I'm always gonna plug my friends. I think back on there.
Charity
Oh, he's so funny.
Alex Godun
Oh, hilarious.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And I also would say I would. I'd love to see Grant on the beach too.
Charity
Okay.
Andrew Z. Spencer
He's a little Love island boy.
Charity
I don't know why I'm getting crucified by that, but I do.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm like, that man is comedy
Charity
in all fronts. Like, I'm like, we don't know what
Andrew Z. Spencer
we're gonna get with him.
Charity
And I'm like, I agree.
Andrew Z. Spencer
He's a good looking dude. I'm sorry. Let's not. Act like this man's not a good. Like a handsome dude.
Charity
Yes.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Put him on the beach. Let him work. He might find something.
Charity
And if he don't work, then that's on him.
Alex Godun
That's okay.
Andrew Z. Spencer
But you gave ample opportunity. Give him the opportunity.
Charity
I want to see. Who did I say I wanted to see? Oh, I want Victoria.
Alex Godun
Oh, yes. And Victoria Fuller. Yes.
Rachel
I don't know. She would do it.
Charity
I don't think she bit, but I don't know.
Rachel
She already did it.
Charity
Maybe also Miranda and Layla, I think, like, bringing a little bit.
Alex Godun
Yes.
Charity
That would be cool. They're already kind of like, you know, they're amongst us. I'm like, give us a little.
Alex Godun
That'd be so fun.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, yeah, no, yeah, get them in there.
Alex Godun
I was looking at who was, like, hitting on them. At the rule.
Charity
Exactly. No good guy.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Not a good guy.
Charity
No, no, no saying.
Alex Godun
Right.
Charity
I'm like, I'm. I'm so protective over Miranda now. Literally hung out with her at Coachella once, and I'm like, no, she the best guy.
Andrew Z. Spencer
She's my favorite one out of on the show.
Charity
Her head is on. Right?
Alex Godun
Oh, yes.
Charity
Sorry.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I said, hold on. You normal.
Charity
No, actually, though, I said, you got. You got some good.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, no, she's so sweet. She's like. And she's always on the phone with Latia or with Latia and her and
Charity
Latia, I'm like, they should come down as, like, besties.
Rachel
So.
Alex Godun
Yeah, that'd be iconic.
Andrew Z. Spencer
That'd be great.
Alex Godun
Okay, well, we good men, though. That's the thing. We're not gonna put the girls there just to kind of have.
Charity
So I'm like, okay, so some of Taylor got Taylor's guys.
Rachel
Okay, what about some of the Vanderpumpzila guys? We can start mixing it into the.
Alex Godun
Becomes. Perfect Match isn't what it is, but it works, right?
Charity
It would be. It technically would be like the Hulu version of. Yeah, it's like the Hulu version of Perfect Match.
Alex Godun
Okay. Were we filming at the same location?
Charity
No.
Alex Godun
You guys were not the one in Costa Rica, were you?
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, she was at the Escondida or something.
Rachel
Yeah, we were in Tulum.
Alex Godun
Oh, you were in Tulum.
Charity
Nice. You liked it.
Alex Godun
Fun.
Rachel
I did like it. Yeah. Besides, you know.
Charity
Yeah, I understood.
Alex Godun
Yeah, I saw.
Charity
No worries.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It was just not at all over there, let me tell you.
Rachel
What was it like? You've been to paradise. The original, and now you guys have the ac. What was that like having, like, a police choice?
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, it was huge. Having a better. Like, it was just. It was easier for you to attack the day and look better.
Charity
Oh, yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Feel your best with good sleep. Like, you know how it is at the other one. There's no. There's no doors. So, like, I had a. I had a snake above my head. I'm not gonna. You know, I'm not gonna throw it on the bus. Hazardous. Like, they had to come in bringing, like, a snake guy to come out and take the snake. He slept, right? Yeah.
Alex Godun
Oh, but it was.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It was cool. But at the same time.
Rachel
Hey, Andrew. Snakes at Escondida or bats in Costa
Charity
Rica,
Andrew Z. Spencer
I would take. They were bats. They fly low. I would take the bats or.
Alex Godun
Oh, 100. That's, like, the one animal.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, the snake. Yeah, I was. That was crazy. And then the crabs also in the shower at the same time. So it was.
Charity
I would make phenomenal tea. You guys would see me.
Alex Godun
But when it comes to that stuff,
Charity
I'm like, I would be in a nut. Another realm.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And then also. Thing about the new version, though, is that we, like, slept together every night.
Rachel
So isn't that nice, though? I think.
Charity
Is that not relationship building?
Andrew Z. Spencer
That's what I'm saying. It's like. That was.
Charity
I mean, like. You know what I mean?
Alex Godun
Hello?
Rachel
No, it really is. You talk at night.
Alex Godun
Your pillow talk.
Charity
Exactly.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And then just, like, touching someone, like, sleeping like that does a long. That goes a long way. You know what I mean? And obviously she wasn't who she was on the show, because now she's. How she sleep, I'm telling you.
Alex Godun
Oh. I was like, what?
Charity
No, it's okay. Dot would say the same thing, and that's fine. It is what it is.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, man. My baby. My baby.
Charity
No, they're so cute.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I really can't.
Charity
But. No, I agree.
Rachel
I mean, if they want engagements, I feel like that's the perfect way to get it. Is having that alone time 100%. Cameras, or did they keep the cameras on at night for you guys?
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, so there was a trick. You just pull your. Pull the blankets down if you want them to turn it away.
Charity
Hello.
Andrew Z. Spencer
They told you I show cheek, you show skin cheek. I'm like.
Charity
I'm like, that's what. Okay. That's what it did in Vanderpump Villa. Because I was. I was also very scared. I was like, well, you know, titties back to me.
Andrew Z. Spencer
The thing is, like, when you. When you have. What do you call it when you see the sheets moving? You could still kind of film that you know what I mean? But when you take the sheets off,
Charity
they're like, we can't.
Rachel
But wa. I was talking to Hannah G. And she said something like. She also thought that, like, during her season, but then they were, like, trying to air it.
Andrew Z. Spencer
So are they black boxing?
Rachel
I don't know. I think it is a big deal when you, like, spend the night with someone, and I like that they're finally allowing Bachelor to do it because we were so far behind the other shows. We're all doing it, and I feel like, in paradise, it was a big deal if you went to and they made it a thing.
Alex Godun
Like, I wouldn't have wanted to go and, like, be called out. Not called out, but, like, single.
Charity
Like, oh, they're going to the room.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Alex Godun
It makes it a negative thing. But we had to strategize because they did let us sleep together, but we had to strategize. So I was like, everyone was paired up in a way that, like, okay, if you sleep with your partner, then they're alone. Then my partner can sleep. And so it was kind of like a.
Andrew Z. Spencer
So you can get the room to yourself. So you're not, like, in the room with your roommate. And then they got their girl. You got your girl.
Charity
Like, love. I had individual rooms.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Like, no, but the way we traded
Charity
off, like, so that everybody would end up in a partner. Okay.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Charity
Genius. I know, because I would.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I thought they were gonna show some of that stuff, like, not, like, you're just, like, the planning of it. It was really funny.
Alex Godun
Yeah, that was fun.
Andrew Z. Spencer
You see people walking the hallway with
Charity
their, like, pajamas and pillows, going to slumber party. A little weekender bag.
Rachel
Next season, they should, like, stay in the room with their partner.
Charity
I think so.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Rachel
We can get some more engagement.
Charity
That's like, love is it. Love is blind.
Rachel
All the shows.
Alex Godun
All the shows.
Charity
Let's. Let me see how y'. All. Y' all live together.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. No. Yeah.
Charity
You brush your teeth in the morning.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, no, see.
Alex Godun
Let me see how you brush your teeth in the morning. That's real life, though. If we're gonna get engaged, we need to see all those.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Okay. So the only thing is, is, like, you know, at that early in the stage, I was ready to go back when, you know, I had the food there is great.
Charity
Yes.
Andrew Z. Spencer
So I don't want to be in the same room as my partner when,
Charity
you know, I knew when he was
Alex Godun
going, because I was like, where's Andrew?
Charity
I'm like, I wouldn't ask him. I. I need to Couple's perspective. I'm like, I'm very curious because I. I feel like I. I'm the same way for the first two weeks. But then I'm like, all bets are off. Hello.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm like, y'. All. Y' all are.
Charity
Sit on my lap, buddy.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Charity
But I just know a lot of girls are like, no, I can never. And I'm like, sorry.
Alex Godun
I'm like, sorry.
Charity
Duh.
Alex Godun
It's gonna be the rest of my life.
Charity
Hello. There's no way.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Turn the shower on. Like, oh, I'm gonna take a shower. Lock the door and then go back into the shower and be like, oh, it was a great shower. Hoping that it airs out.
Charity
I'm screaming.
Rachel
This is why you go to the bathrooms that are like, by the producer area.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, that's what I would. She was like, you were gone long time. I was like, oh, yeah, yeah. I'm just talking, talking to people. I can't.
Rachel
I can't. Like, they needed me for interview. That was a long interview again.
Alex Godun
It's like the fifth time today.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, I don't know.
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Charity
You guys obviously have both been traveling so much. Tell us about Yalls recent visits. Do y' all have anything coming up?
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, we been on a roll as of like, I mean for me, my pockets. We went from Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, Valentine's Day, her birthday.
Charity
Oh wow.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Here in Coachella and Stagecoach, like it's, it's been a non stop like cycle.
Alex Godun
I did ask you though not to bring paradise back again. But I remember I asked you, I said, are you a spontaneous person on Paradise? The first question and you said yes. I love a good, like let's pick up our bags and go somewhere.
Charity
Yes, yes.
Alex Godun
Whether it's like Paris like we did for Valentine's Day or even just like a little weekend getaway.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah, yeah. So I enjoy that too because sometimes you never know how you feel in that moment until you like you're there. I'm just like, hey, let's go here.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Charity
And usually they're always worth it.
Alex Godun
Like so fun.
Charity
Those are the best.
Alex Godun
Because I get so bored. I'm like, what's next? What do we have to do? Like I want to do like I'm always. I need something planned all the time.
Charity
Correct.
Rachel
Have you guys learned more about each other traveling?
Alex Godun
Oh, trust me. I feel like that's when the ugly comes out when you travel for some reason.
Rachel
It's so true.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I've learned it is a thing. I have another level of patience. It's like a. It's like A whole nother.
Charity
If Dalton was here right now, he should be, like, standing up, levitating, because, yes, brother.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It's like, yeah, there's patience. And then, like, when it's, like, so low.
Alex Godun
That's the thing.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Well, there's a lot we have to like. Like, make sure we have. You know what I mean? It's just. It's tough. But, like, you know, I've. I've learned to be, like, just to have, like, the grace in those moments.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And, like, what you're saying to me, you're not. You don't mean them. You know what I mean? It's just, like, it's in the heat of the moment type of thing. So I've learned just, like, continue just going through the airport.
Charity
I'm curious out of the two, because I'm like, I feel like I asked you guys this weekend, but who's the more anxious one? Like. Or.
Alex Godun
Oh, my gosh.
Charity
So I'm like, that's. And so you saying patience. I'm like, that's dot. Because he's so, like, chill.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Like, I'm not chill chill. But, like, I've learned to be, like, more.
Alex Godun
So we talked about this. This weekend or Coachella weekend. It's because we're. And that's the thing. So I. I'm very type B. He's very type B. I'm type C. Right. And type I'm type W. I'm like,
Andrew Z. Spencer
an A B. I'm like, right on the cusp.
Alex Godun
No, no, no. You lost your character camera this weekend. You are not. He's typing. Anyways. That's okay. Just for the purpose of the story. He's type beat. And the thing is, because we're so similar when we travel, we. We. We lack the same thing. So we'll forget things, we'll lose things, and we're not on time for things. So then I get up because he's very chills, like, ah, it's okay, babe. Like, and I'm anxious. I'm like, no, it's not okay.
Charity
Yeah, yeah.
Alex Godun
That's when I freak out. And I'm like, right, Right. Versus you're more like, oh, and you said do it in the same way.
Charity
No, he's.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Well, the things that, like, I would leave behind are, like, very small compared to her. She's like, I don't have my power passport.
Rachel
I'm just like, I think she has the 1%, like, battery trying to, like, scan her boarding passion.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Maybe she left her. She left her phone at the airport
Alex Godun
one time going to New York.
Andrew Z. Spencer
New York.
Alex Godun
So had to figure out on the phone, nice air. Like, if you're listening to this, the flight attendant. I love you. You saved my life. It was an overnight flight. Figure. So I went on my laptop online. Told you. Hey, I lost my phone at the airport in la. God, I don't. You called me in a cab when we. Okay, I got a cab to Greg's. Because you send the address, and I was like, memorizing it. Okay. Got in the cab, thought it was gonna be like 400. You know how they always tell you cabs in New York are 400 bucks? Anyways, we made it work. And then I spent Halloween with no phone. The whole weekend.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. And it turns out the whole time,
Alex Godun
it was at the. I went to the kiosk to talk to the person and she. He made a joke. He was like, oh, you're here. I was like, oh, no way. Set my phone down, make a joke, start talking. Kiki, leave. And then I get on the phone on the plane and I sit down.
Charity
I'm like, you don't have it.
Alex Godun
Where is it? So I'm like, I think it's outside. It was too late. They were like, no, we can't let you out. And then they were saying it was. Wasn't outside at the kiosk, but it was, so I found it.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yes.
Rachel
Wait, didn't something happen with the phone and a train? Like, you were on a train, you were, like, waiting.
Charity
That one was.
Alex Godun
Oh, he lost me in London and my phone was dead.
Charity
No, no, no, no, no. It's the one where his wallet got.
Alex Godun
Oh, well, then two stories. The one in London. He lost me in London. So he. We're on the train, he gets out fast. Cuz he's like, such in a rush. And I'm like, no, I think it's the other. As he says, that door closes, my phone is dead.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, the funny part is, what am I gonna do? Reach back to grab her arm? And that door came in so fast.
Alex Godun
And all I see is like.
Charity
I'm like, no, this is. Y' all are cinema. Like, y' all have a cinematic thing.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm like, oh, shoot. Should I wait for her?
Alex Godun
Yeah. Now it's like, do what? Is he gonna wait for me or come get me if I go? And then he goes, see?
Charity
And that's where you got to know your partner. You know what I mean? That's like. That's a real test. I'm like, okay, she left me.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I went after her and she. She went all the Way home, you
Charity
know, my ass is standing still.
Andrew Z. Spencer
That's what I thought. I thought the same exact thing I said. I said, alex is not gonna move. I know for a fact that I could just come like, she don't even turn off the lights. I gotta go get up out of bed if I'm already in bed versus,
Alex Godun
like, just turn off the. You know what he does, though? He plays rock, paper, scissors. You know, any guy would be like, you know what, my queen? I'll do that for you. No, no. He goes, rock, paper, scissors. And I think he, like, he's kidding. No, no. If I lose, I have to get up.
Charity
Okay, we're gonna transition to a game where we're gonna give you guys scenarios, and you have to tell us whether getting upset over it is petty or valid, which I think I'm like.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Charity
I'm like, I'm gonna try and play Guess what, you guys.
Alex Godun
Yes.
Charity
Yeah.
Rachel
I'm excited to see you guys. Answers.
Alex Godun
Okay.
Rachel
Okay. Your partner likes their ex's photo.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm not too upset about it.
Alex Godun
Zero upset. We're very on the same.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. We're not a jealous couple at all.
Alex Godun
Like, we. I saw his ex at Coachella, and it's. I'm like. I'm the one who's, like, waving her down. I'm like, come on, say hi.
Charity
Okay. But you guys have, like, a. I'm assuming, good history. Like, if. If.
Andrew Z. Spencer
With my ex.
Charity
Yeah. Because I feel like if.
Rachel
Okay.
Charity
I'm just like, you guys ended on, like. I feel like if I'm not waving.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, I should never have a bad breakup. It makes me feel weird.
Charity
That's good, because I'm saying I'm not waving to you if I don't like you.
Alex Godun
Sorry Is because we both agree, and it's. I know. It's very controversial.
Charity
No, it's healthy.
Alex Godun
It's healthy in a sense that, like, you've had a, you know, history with this person.
Andrew Z. Spencer
This was.
Alex Godun
This person was a big chunk of your life.
Charity
Yeah. Yeah.
Alex Godun
You know, it doesn't mean you have to talk to them every day on the phone. But you had history, and I can respect that. It's like, nothing can be changed.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Olivia Dean said it. You know, it's not wasted when it's shared, so.
Alex Godun
And I'm so comfortable in a relationship. And I know you would. You know what I mean? If you.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Alex Godun
Like.
Andrew Z. Spencer
And obviously, we're in the public eye. If I did that, I would be.
Charity
Yeah. Stupid.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Are you kidding me?
Alex Godun
Yeah. So that's the reason why liking A picture. It's like, oh, hey, we're still friends.
Charity
Okay.
Alex Godun
Yeah, but I know it's not everyone's cup of tea and people.
Charity
Yeah.
Alex Godun
But that's us. It works.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Charity
I'm like, if we. If great history, but if I. Oh. If not in a bed, I'm like, I'm so sorry. You will never see for me.
Alex Godun
Absolutely not. Absolutely not. I agree.
Charity
Okay. Your partner watches your story but doesn't text you back. Well, I do that.
Alex Godun
Oh, yeah. I'm gonna say, I'm like, so sorry. Sorry. I'm like, I didn't see it.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I wouldn't do that. But she does what she wants to.
Alex Godun
What do you mean?
Andrew Z. Spencer
Like, you. You be on when you in your. Your zone.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I just let you do your thing. Yeah.
Rachel
As you should.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I'm also not like, like, over harped over texting.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
We, like, we FaceTime and we just breathe.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
We don't even speak. So.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It's just like knowing we're. We're like, connected there.
Rachel
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah. Yeah. That's kind of how we are.
Charity
Yeah. Okay.
Rachel
They post a thirst trap, but never post you.
Charity
Mercy and grace.
Alex Godun
He tells me. He goes, no, there's too many. Couple pictures. Post. Post your ass. No, literally, he's like, he will be the one. Like, show your bum.
Rachel
I love it.
Alex Godun
I love it.
Andrew Z. Spencer
It makes me feel better. Like, damn, that's your girlfriend.
Charity
Hello. Hello. That's a picture that they got talking about.
Andrew Z. Spencer
That's my girlfriend. Yes.
Rachel
This next.
Charity
Which one? Oh, okay.
Alex Godun
I'm excited for this one.
Charity
I feel like. I feel like I know what they're.
Alex Godun
Okay, you guys tell us first what you think.
Charity
They eat your leftovers without asking. Y' all don't play about that.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, no, we don't.
Charity
Yeah, I know, I know.
Rachel
They're like ass pictures.
Alex Godun
Yes.
Rachel
Leftovers.
Charity
No, no.
Alex Godun
You do that so often where, like, I'll have. Because I'm. I have scarcity mindset. Okay. I have. Oh, no, no. So scarcity mindset that my plate is my plate. If you want food, go get yours. Like, pay for it or get it from the fridge. Like, that's mine. No, no, no. And takes big bites too.
Charity
He's like, I'm gonna eat.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I do that just to piss you off a little bit. I'm just like, wait.
Charity
Okay. No, I'm spot on because I figure I just.
Andrew Z. Spencer
She just likes the last bite. And that's what I'm just like. You know, when you're eating something, it looks. You know, it looks good. So she Was like, let me get that last bite. I'm like, literally the best part.
Alex Godun
And I'm so mean. I'll be like, I'll eat the whole thing, and I will share it, but it will be like the rest of, like, the pita that has nothing in it. I'll be like, do you want. Do you want the last bite?
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Charity
This last one's insane. And if you guys say. I'm gonna question you guys. This is crazy. They keep a roster of just friends. You side eye the. Sorry. You see me curious and, like, people.
Andrew Z. Spencer
We side eye friends, too.
Alex Godun
What does that mean?
Charity
I don't. They keep a roster of just.
Rachel
Okay.
Charity
Those people that are like, we're not anything more. It's just. We're just friends. But, like, it's a.
Rachel
As a woman, you'd be like, sorry.
Charity
I don't know how I feel about. Like, it's from my interpretation, it says they keep a roster of just. Just friends. So I'm assuming, like, maybe people that. To them, like, it could have been something, but it's like, no, we're just friends. But it's like, they're in.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Like, as a woman, if we broke up, they would be next in line.
Charity
It's like, I don't play that.
Alex Godun
No, we don't.
Charity
Yeah.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I feel like that's even stale as, like, a.
Charity
That's just weird.
Andrew Z. Spencer
As a romantic.
Charity
That's weird.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I feel like I need something fresh, something that just happens. Like. Yeah, I don't need. I can't go out. Like, oh, I've been waiting to take this out the refrigerator. No, I need to. I need to go.
Alex Godun
She.
Andrew Z. Spencer
No, I need to go get something new.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Charity
Special off the lot. Hello.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Charity
Yeah, I don't play that. Okay, well, you know what? This was great.
Alex Godun
That was fun, guys.
Charity
Even more. And I'm like, I feel like I know you guys, but I'm like, this is. This is good relationship.
Rachel
You guys are the best we've talked to this couple. Makes so much sense to me.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Yeah.
Rachel
Please come on again.
Andrew Z. Spencer
I know. Also, some people think, like, oh, wow. They're. They're always mad at me. I just like. Like when we explain our car. Oh.
Alex Godun
The dynamics.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Like, honestly, it's really.
Alex Godun
But it works the way.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Oh, I love it.
Alex Godun
Because we do. We will argue, we bicker. We're just very stubborn people. But at the same time, we don't. Like, you can look at a relationship. They don't. Bigger, but they're super jealous, and we're not.
Charity
So everyone has their thing. Everyone does. And like, that's what people have to realize is like take yourself out of other people's relationships.
Alex Godun
Exactly.
Charity
Because we're not in it. Whatever works for you guys probably ain't working over here.
Alex Godun
Exactly.
Charity
It is what it is.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Exactly.
Alex Godun
And it's over. Stupid stuff like, oh, you forgot your passport again.
Charity
Right. Okay, where can people follow you guys on social?
Andrew Z. Spencer
You can find me in Alex Godun's posts. A little tag there. That's cute. That'll be me. Andrew Z. Spencer.
Charity
He's like, go to my girl's page first.
Andrew Z. Spencer
Or TikTok. Same thing.
Charity
Perfect. Amazing.
Alex Godun
Yeah.
Charity
Okay, Rachel.
Rachel
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Episode Title: Alexe & Andrew: The Stage-Chella Tea and Their Relationship Today
Date: June 3, 2026
Hosts: Charity Lawson & Rachel Recchia
Guests: Alex Godun & Andrew Z. Spencer
This episode of Bachelor Happy Hour features couple Alex Godun and Andrew Z. Spencer, fresh from their whirlwind adventures at Stagecoach and Coachella. The hosts, Charity and Rachel, invite them to spill all the tea about the behind-the-scenes Bachelor Nation meetups, live festival shenanigans, and give fans a candid look into their relationship dynamics—from travel mishaps to couple routines and their views on love and drama in Bachelor Nation.
This episode offers fans a lively behind-the-scenes look at the intersection of festival fun and reality-TV relationships, as well as an honest glimpse into how Alex and Andrew navigate the realities of life together. Whether they’re defending their leftover lasagna or strategizing their way through festival chaos, their easy humor, mutual support, and laid-back approach to jealousy make them a refreshing Bachelor Nation success story.
Relationship wisdom, Bachelor Nation gossip, and hilarious mishaps—what more could you want from your Happy Hour?