Bachelor Happy Hour: Alexe Godin & Andrew Spencer – Life After ‘Paradise’ (December 26, 2025)

Episode Overview

In this episode of Bachelor Happy Hour, hosts Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt sit down for the first-ever joint interview with Bachelor in Paradise alums Alexe Godin and Andrew Spencer. The couples talk candidly about navigating life and love post-Paradise, the realities behind their relationship, the joys and challenges of long distance, and their thoughts on changes in the Paradise format. The conversation is lively, humorous, and introspective, with memorable anecdotes and reflections from both Alexe and Andrew.

Main Topics & Key Insights

1. Navigating Long-Distance Love

Discussion begins: [03:30]

• Current situation: Alexe is based in LA with frequent Chicago travel; Andrew is rooted in Chicago, and the couple often juggles long-distance logistics.
• Unexpected perks: Initially, Alexe expected to move in together quickly but discovered she enjoys the excitement that comes with times apart.
  "I thought when I first got off the show, I was like, we have to move in together by January. And then honestly, I've kind of liked the being away for a little bit and then getting together. I feel like it keeps the excitement and it's fun." – Alexe ([05:09])
• Staying connected: Lots of FaceTime, acknowledging that they've never gone long stretches without seeing each other; their current record is about a week and a half without meeting in person ([05:47]).

Future Living Plans

• NYC dreams: Both Alexe and Andrew express a preference for moving to New York together while Andrew maintains his Chicago place ([07:32]).
• Pets: The logistics of their pets and how their families help out, highlighting the blending of their lives ([08:08]).

2. Adjusting to Life After Paradise

Discussion begins: [08:24]

• Transition from show-to-reality: Discussing the challenges post-show when the "honeymoon" phase naturally fades, and real-life issues emerge.
  • _"You don't really get annoyed at each other on the show because you're just in this, like, honeymoon phase the whole time. ... We got into a lot of fights in that time period where we were just, like, trying to figure each other out, like the real us." _ – Andrew ([09:08])
• Humorous bickering: The now-infamous "sandwich fight" that became their first real bump, showing how everyday annoyances build real understanding ([09:31]).
• Conflict management: Quick reconciliations, never staying mad for longer than 30 minutes, with most arguments staying lighthearted.
  • "For the most part, they're just dumb arguments, and they're never like aggressive or malicious. Although, she does ... she likes to say, 'You're ugly,' when she's mad at me." – Andrew ([10:20])
  • "It's because you're too handsome that I feel like I need to humble you. That's why." – Alexe ([11:08])

3. Reflecting on Their Bachelor in Paradise Experience

Discussion begins: [16:06]

Second Chances & Expectations

• Andrew’s shift in outlook: Returning to Paradise with lowered expectations but decided to stay present and let things unfold naturally.
  • "I was kind of just hoping that I just get one last opportunity at it, you know? ... But you're always hopeful. Like me, you know, me, me and my freaking rom com lifestyle. I just won't let that part die out of me." – Andrew ([16:12])

Organic Connection

• Surprises and chemistry: Alexe wasn't certain she'd meet anyone she clicked with, but was happily surprised by Andrew's arrival and their chemistry.
  • "I was actually worried that I wasn't gonna like anyone... That was my biggest worry, that I wasn't gonna find anyone... And honestly, it happened as such a good surprise, like a pleasant surprise... I kind of knew that Andrew was gonna come. And I was like, ah, whatever. And the fact that I saw him..." – Alexe ([21:52])
  • Andrew had similarly heard Alexe “wasn’t interested in him,” but quickly sensed real chemistry upon meeting.
    "I immediately feel the vibes between us. So I'm like, okay, maybe this is something. There's something here. Like, she kissed my neck." – Andrew ([24:08])

Playful Moments

• Roleplay and quirky connection: The couple reveals how they keep things fun and light, improvising silly scenarios together over FaceTime.
  • _"I'm a little weird and quirky and, like, I love how he just jumps in with me. Like, yesterday, I'm driving ... and I'm like, let’s do improv right now in the car." _ – Alexe ([18:24])

On-Screen Competition

• Winning at Paradise: Both talk about “winning” the most meaningful competition – their relationship.
  • "We won the most important one, so there you go. ... But no, I actually crushed that competition, too. No one thought we were gonna win." – Alexe ([17:53])

4. Thoughts on Paradise Format Changes

Discussion begins: [25:02]

• Game show elements and money: Both express concerns that now that there are cash prizes, future contestants might join “for the wrong reasons.”
  • "If there’s money now, people are gonna know... are they going to go there for the right reasons? ... At this point, it’s a game show." – Alexe ([25:20])
• Format feedback: Andrew appreciates the new games and bonding opportunities but wishes there was more romance focus, with more contestants and longer stays.
  • "The one thing I would love, I loved about paradise is the love story... Like, don’t forget about your romance." – Andrew ([30:36])
• Overnight room preferences: They both prefer the open living arrangement, which led to deeper night-time conversations, rather than strictly “boom boom rooms” or isolated pairs ([32:26]).
• Favorite addition: Pelco (bedroom) footage was a fan favorite for giving viewers more personality and behind-the-scenes fun ([34:07]).

5. Personal Interests and Holiday Plans

Rom coms + Holidays discussions begin: [34:31]

• Romantic movies: Andrew recommends the new movie “Eternity,” praising its emotional depth and comedic balance ([35:02]).
  • "It will be a movie that'll go down as one of the best because it’s deep, but also has that comedic relief..." – Andrew ([35:04])
• Alexe’s taste: Alexe admits she’s more into classics like “The Grinch” and psychological thrillers than contemporary rom coms ([36:35]).
• Family holiday activities: They share upcoming plans: Alexe visiting Andrew in Chicago, hosting a family Christmas party with a humorous “Ultimate Influencer” challenge for relatives, attending a Bears game, and traveling to Tulum for New Year's ([39:40]).

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On long-distance romance:
  "I love a little bit of space at the same time, but ... we're always on FaceTime, like even if we're not even saying anything—and just like listening to her breathe." – Andrew ([05:46])

• On post-show reality:
  "Let's build off that. Let's just start from scratch. Let's re-date each other..." – Andrew ([09:08])

• On arguments and affection:
  "For the first time, I feel like I'm trying to work on my flaws." – Alexe ([09:45])

• On quirky fun:
  "I wanted the emotion, but just like, I've never had that and someone to match my freak, I guess. It's just, like, so fun." – Alexe ([18:56])

• On the Paradise experience:
  "You've seen everything happen. ... I just try to keep us the main focus, main priority." – Andrew ([20:55])

• On the future of the show:
  "I think the Goldens, I think they need their own paradise. I think that is something they need to do." – Andrew ([31:36])

• On the importance of real connection:
  "The one thing that people do want to see is, like, connections forming." – Andrew ([30:36])

Timestamps for Key Segments

• [03:30] — Beginning of group interview and discussion about long-distance
• [05:07] — Adjusting expectations of living together
• [07:32] — Long-term living and NYC plans
• [08:24] — Transitioning post-show and real relationship work
• [09:31] — First “real” couple argument story
• [10:20] — How they handle conflict and stay close
• [16:12] — Andrew’s second Paradise experience and lowered expectations
• [18:24] — On sustaining the fun: role play and quirks
• [21:52] — Alexe’s mindset entering Paradise and meeting Andrew
• [24:08] — Sensing real-life chemistry on arrival
• [25:02] — Thoughts and critiques about new Paradise format
• [30:36] — Missing romance on TV, and hopes for the franchise
• [32:26] — Housing setup on Paradise and overnight logistics
• [34:07] — Love for candid bedroom/“Pelco” footage
• [34:31] — Rom com favorites and movie recommendations
• [39:40] — Family holiday festivities and New Year’s plans

Summary Tone and Vibes

The episode strikes a playful, affectionate, and honest tone. Joe and Serena keep things energetic and easygoing with their guests, creating a space for Alexe and Andrew to reflect, tease one another, and share authentic relationship insights with humor and warmth. It’s a feel-good episode for fans who want a peek behind the Bachelor Nation curtain to see what a real “happily ever after” looks like—messy, playful, loving, and real.