Bachelor Happy Hour: Allyshia Gupta – Dating, Rumors, and What’s Next | December 16, 2025

Episode Overview

In this lively episode of "Bachelor Happy Hour," hosts Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt catch up with Allyshia Gupta, interior designer and former "Bachelor in Paradise" contestant. The conversation spans Allyshia's take on dating post-Paradise, rumors around franchise relationships, insights into her upcoming HGTV Bachelor Mansion makeover show, and a deep dive into her design philosophy. Listeners get the real scoop on Bachelor Nation rumors, on-screen relationships versus real friendships, and what the future holds for the star guest.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Holiday Traditions and Living on the West Coast (03:54–08:39)

• Pets and Gift-Giving: Allyshia discusses her belief that dogs understand the concept of presents and shares anecdotes of including her dog, Bagel, in family gift exchanges.
• Relocation: She talks about living in LA after spending years in Florida, recounting her move post-college, and comparing climates and holiday traditions.
• Seasonal Affective Disorder: Joe and Allyshia bond over how lack of sunlight during winter triggers seasonal depression, reinforcing the preference for sunnier climates.

Notable Quote

“Something about not getting the sun... will put me in a funk.”
— Allyshia Gupta (08:18)

2. Love, Rumors, and Moving Forward Post-Paradise (08:45–13:47)

• Bachelor in Paradise Recap: Serena prompts Allyshia about the much-discussed love triangle with Kat and Dale, and recent rumors of Kat and Dale’s breakup.
• Allyshia’s Perspective: She clarifies she has no ongoing interest in Dale and emphasizes her intention to date seriously, looking for a “husband and family,” not casual encounters.
• Dating Life: Allyshia admits she’s not dating anyone, is selective and intentional about her choices, and prefers time with friends and family over uninspiring first dates.
• Dating Apps Woes: She reveals she’s banned from Hinge, speculating it’s due to an unsatisfied match, and interprets it as a “sign” her future partner isn’t there. She’s now on Raya but finds the LA dating pool challenging.
• Openness to the Future: Allyshia remains open to meeting someone, especially intrigued by the new Bachelor cast, alluding to a fresh set of possibilities.

Notable Quote

“I date because I want a husband. I want to have kids, I want to start a family. And I’m really looking for somebody who is qualified and also wants that in return.”
— Allyshia Gupta (10:19)

“I got banned off Hinge. Couldn’t tell you why... If I got banned from Hinge, I think that’s a sign that God’s saying your husband’s also not on there.”
— Allyshia Gupta (12:14)

3. Bachelor Nation Relationships: Real or “Online”? (19:52–22:41)

• Sean Friendship: Serena asks where Allyshia stands with former friend Sean. Allyshia clarifies they’re not on bad terms but grew apart due to mismatched values and a broken foundation of trust.
• Real vs. Perceived Connections: Allyshia notes a disconnect between real relationships formed on the show and the social media/fame-focused connections that persist afterward, expressing a preference for genuine bonds over online image.
• Franchise Influence: She calls out how post-show dynamics often prioritize maintaining a public persona, influencing who stays friends.

Notable Quote

“There’s almost like a double layer of relationships in Bachelor Nation… Real people, real relationships, but after the show there’s like a social media relationship.”
— Allyshia Gupta (21:21)

4. Would Allyshia Do More Reality TV? (22:41–24:49)

• Interest in More Shows: Allyshia expresses openness to returning to "Bachelor in Paradise," especially if it offers a more genuine environment for finding a relationship.
• Reflections on Her Experience: She explains that entering Paradise late put her at a disadvantage, joking that it felt more like a “game show” than an authentic dating experience, and she’d prefer the chance to start fresh and early.
• Learning from the Past: She suggests she’d approach a second shot with more self-awareness and a new mentality.

Notable Quote

“I would be open to doing Paradise again... I was really excited to have that opportunity and really thought I would meet a couple people that might turn into something serious. Unfortunately… I came in two weeks late.”
— Allyshia Gupta (23:28)

5. HGTV Bachelor Mansion Makeover: Design Dreams Realized (24:50–43:02)

• Pivot to Career: Allyshia shares her enthusiasm for starring in the new HGTV makeover show, revealing her professional background in interior design and architecture.
• Design Philosophy: She stresses that good design isn’t about sticking to one style but about blending multiple influences and honoring the original architecture.
• Current Design Trends: Allyshia is inspired by maximalism, Bauhaus, and brutalism, highlighting each style's influence (27:30–28:17).
• Competitive Confidence: With both Bachelor franchise and design competition experience, Allyshia jokes, “There’s no reason why I won’t win this show.”
• Collaboration and Challenges: She explains the difficulty of collaborating with non-designers on TV, balancing creativity and professional execution.
• Favorite Collaborators: Allyshia names Joan as a particularly inspiring and enjoyable co-star on the show.

Notable Quotes

“Any good interior design is never one style. It’s a combination of multiple… and that’s what makes designers complex and meaningful.”
— Allyshia Gupta (26:14)

“Brutalism is a type of interior design style... design based off function. Things were never meant to be beautiful — they’re meant to be functional and built like a machine.”
— Allyshia Gupta (27:32)

“I came in, I’m like, why — there’s no reason why I won’t win this show. Like, I can do this. I feel so confident. I know I’m good at this.”
— Allyshia Gupta (29:43)

“You get really fresh, cool ideas when you are coming from a place of perhaps less analytical background and more of just a creative mind… but the execution is where a professional will excel.”
— Allyshia Gupta (38:09)

6. Professional Life: Collaboration, Clients, and Reality TV (41:13–43:02)

• Business Structure: Allyshia owns her own firm and frequently collaborates with contractors, subcontractors, and specialists, emphasizing that professionals in her field know not to take feedback personally.
• Reality TV vs. Real Work: Working with “reality TV personalities” is different, as many lack professional detachment, which led to interesting dynamics and, ultimately, “better TV.”

Memorable Moments & Quotes

• On dating apps:
  “If I got banned from Hinge, I think that’s a sign that God’s saying your husband’s also not on there.” (12:14, Allyshia Gupta)

• On Bachelor Nation friendships:
  “There’s almost like a double layer of relationships in Bachelor Nation… after the show, there is like a social media or online relationship between people.” (21:21, Allyshia Gupta)

• On design collaboration:
  “It was important that my voice was heard. And that’s a really tricky line to kind of walk because people do get their feelings hurt...” (40:08, Allyshia Gupta)

• On professional vs. reality TV personalities:
  “The difference is I’m not used to a lot of reality TV personalities.” (42:14, Allyshia Gupta)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• Holiday Traditions and Relocation: 03:54–08:39
• Paradise Recap, Dale & Kat Rumors: 08:45–10:44
• Dating Intentions & App Woes: 10:44–13:47
• Bachelor Friendship & “Online” Relationships: 19:52–22:41
• Would She Do More Reality TV?: 22:41–24:49
• HGTV Makeover Show and Design Philosophy: 24:50–43:02
• Collaboration, Professionalism, and TV Personalities: 41:13–43:02

Episode Tone and Atmosphere

The conversation is candid, light-hearted, and often humorous, with hosts Joe and Serena keeping the tone warm and inclusive. Allyshia’s pragmatic yet optimistic approach to love, career, and reality TV keeps the episode engaging and inspiring. The discussion blends real Bachelor tea with practical life and career advice, serving both franchise fans and those interested in design and personal growth.