Bachelor Happy Hour: Behind the Scenes of ‘The Bachelorette’ | Happy Hour

Episode Date: January 20, 2026
Hosts: Charity Lawson & Rachel Recchia
Podcast: Bachelor Happy Hour (iHeartPodcasts/Warner Bros)

Episode Overview

In this candid, laughter-filled episode, “The Bachelorette” alums Charity Lawson and Rachel Recchia dive deep into behind-the-scenes moments from their respective seasons and the world of Bachelor Nation. The duo answers fan questions, reminisces about production chaos, reflects on regrets (and lack thereof), and reveals the real emotional journey viewers rarely get to see. With a mix of fun banter, honest admissions, and franchise gossip, the hosts promise — and deliver — plenty of “juicy behind the scenes tea.”

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Opening: The Reality of Post-Bachelorette Life

• Charity and Rachel reflect on the overwhelming fan support and tease at how the podcast will only get more “unhinged.”
  • “They have no idea how unhinged this is about to become.” — Charity (01:55)
• Rachel shares her 2026 New Year’s motivation: a “full wellness journey” and the “80/20 rule” of balance. Charity jokes about not working out, except maybe joining Equinox for dating possibilities.
  • “So that’s my goal this year, is to meet someone in real life and not on a dating show.” — Charity (04:07)

Bachelor Nation Social Life & Pop Culture

• Rachel attends the "Tell Me Lies" premiere, gushes about meeting cast (and possibly planning dinners or new friendships), and the hosts relate the show’s portrayal of “every girl’s college boyfriend” to their own pasts.
  • “I don’t know how they capture every single girl's college boyfriend so well ... so hard to watch back.” — Charity (05:40)
• They discuss watching habits (“I literally started half of episode one and I fell asleep. ... That’s my homework for tonight!” — Rachel, 05:25-06:46).

Rapid Fire: “Never Did I Ever” Bachelor Edition

Charity and Rachel reveal their real thoughts and second guesses about handing out roses and sending contestants home:

Regrets About Giving a Rose

• Both admit to regretting some rose decisions:
  • Rachel: “Oh, I have. Absolutely.” (07:33)
  • Charity hints regret relates to someone in her final four, but not for reasons fans might guess — she wishes she could have protected them more.
    • “I regret giving a rose just because I wish I could have protected this person more and not put them through what they went through.” — Charity (08:09)
  • Rachel jokes about grand gestures and regrets not sending Brayden home sooner.
    • “Brayden should have snatched the rose back, I think. ... Grand gestures are huge in that environment.” — Rachel (08:48-09:08)

Regrets About Sending Someone Home

• Rachel: Regrets “good Samaritan”/angelic contestant Josh Young left early, feels he “just did not get enough screen time.” They campaign for his return to Paradise. (10:12-12:33)
• Charity: Her regret is sending Jordan B. home on the first one-on-one, wishing she'd given him more time. Admits it took away from his experience (“I really, man, like, I took that whole experience away from him.” — Charity, 13:19).

Changing Their Minds at the Last Minute

• Rachel: Last-minute second thoughts about Aaron B., admitting confusion in the moment (16:49-17:55).
• They spill tea on Aaron B. dating Medina from Joey's season — charity saw them being "very lovey dovey" at “Golden After the Final Rose.” They credit Instagram DMs as the real matchmaking space in Bachelor Nation (“No, they love the DM. ... That’s what we should have a show on.” — Charity & Rachel, 18:23-18:42).

Struggling to Stay Present / Being “Belligerent”

• Rachel admits her least attentive moment was during the Barbie group date, thanks to a champagne overload:
  • “I was about to throw up on [John B.’s] leg ... I literally had to play it off ... could not have a conversation, truly.” — Rachel (21:01)
• The hosts and Gabby are “same Bachelorette, different font” — each a bit chaotic (“I don’t know how they picked three of us all consecutively in a row.” — Rachel, 21:37).

Memorable Makeouts: “I’m in Trouble” Moments

• Charity: Initially unsure about Aven, but after their first kiss, she knew—“Oh, yeah. Like, absolutely.” (23:31-23:44).
• Rachel: A hot tub makeout with Dawton was “the most sensational kiss of my life,” joking about staying in the hot tub despite rain and “sacrificing” her hair for love:
  • “For me to sacrifice that, that’s when you knew I was in love.” — Rachel (26:04)

Producer Drama & “Trouble”

• Rachel: No, never in trouble with producers.
• Charity: Yes, often felt producers wanted chaos; recalls the stress and confusion when contestants switched affections, her and Gabby being put in tough situations, and the pressure of a two-lead season.
  • “No one had any idea what was going on... it was just so much chaos.” — Charity (26:37)
  • “They were saying what they didn’t like about us and why they wanted to date the other. ... Me and Gabby were genuinely like, what is happening?” — Charity (28:26-28:52)

Watching It Back: Biggest Regrets

• Charity: Regrets how she handled the Xavier Fantasy Suite situation; feels she was too gracious and in search of “definite clarity” which might have let him linger on.
  • “One thing about me ... I have to have, like, as much as I can, which I know you don’t always get, like, definite clarity. ... I need to hear from your mouth verbatim, what is it that you like? I’m not trying to decode shit. I can’t do it.” — Charity (33:14-34:02)
• Rachel: Agrees, watching their journey back is much harder than people realize — they’re “winging it with zero guidance.” (36:46)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “There’s nothing I love more than spinning the block.” — Charity (06:27)
• On regretful roses:
  • “I have one that keeps me up at night, and it’s not even the one that people think.” — Charity (07:36)
• On production shenanigans:
  • “I wish that’s how I … I’m like…” — Charity, reacting to Rachel saying she was never in trouble (26:28)
• On the hot tub moment:
  • “It was truly giving The Notebook, but, like, a little bit of Love & Basketball edition.” — Rachel (24:02)
• On the unique challenge of being the lead:
  • “You can talk to as many Bachelorettes as you want, but you can never get the answers. It’s so true.” — Charity (36:46)
  • “You’re just winging it.” — Charity (37:09)

Fan Q&A Segment (38:12–42:55)

Rachel’s Hidden Singing Talent

• Dalton says Rachel is an amazing singer; asked about Broadway:
  • “That quite literally is the only thing I would possibly do. ... I just want to try it out and see if I like it.” — Rachel (38:52)
  • Rachel dreams of “Color Purple” and being mentored by Cynthia Erivo.

Did Being on The Bachelor Help on Perfect Match?

• Charity says her Bachelor experience helped her keep options open and not be “tunnel visioned.” She was the only one “who switched up” and “dated everyone.”
  • “I think a lot of people who haven’t done the Bachelor, they’re very, like, tunnel vision on, like, this is the only connection for me. They don’t give anyone a chance ... I was the only one who dated everyone, and I did date everyone.” — Charity (41:42)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• [01:46] — Hosts introduce the show & tease upcoming behind-the-scenes “chaos”
• [02:20–05:38] — Weekend catch-up: self-care, gym resolutions, TV show “Tell Me Lies”
• [07:27] — "Never Did I Ever": Regretting giving a rose
• [10:07] — Regretting sending someone home
• [16:49] — Changing mind about someone last minute; Aaron B. & DM Dating
• [19:41] — Struggling to stay present; boozy Barbie date story
• [23:04] — “I’m in trouble after a makeout” moments
• [26:19] — Ever felt in trouble with producers? The challenge of double Bachelorettes
• [32:46] — Biggest regret after watching show back; Fantasy Suite drama
• [38:11] — Fan questions: Rachel’s singing; Charity’s Perfect Match lessons
• [43:49] — Next guest tease: Kelsey Anderson, and end of episode

Tone & Atmosphere

• Warm, confessional, and a little chaotic—Charity and Rachel maintain a lively, self-deprecating, and honest energy.
• Banter and inside jokes abound, but the episode is remarkably open about the emotional highs and lows of being The Bachelorette, the difficulties of “winging it,” and the difference between reality TV and reality.
• Plenty of humor, especially around franchise traditions (Equinox as casting ground, DMs as paradise, hot tub makeouts, theme of “battery at 2%”), and moments of genuine vulnerability and self-realization.

For Listeners

Anyone curious about what really goes on behind the scenes of The Bachelorette — from regrets and producer plots to makeout confessions and why group dates get wild — will find this episode candid, funny, and revealing. Charity and Rachel cut through the TV gloss, admit their missteps, and celebrate the friendships (and chaos) Bachelor Nation brings.

Next Episode Teaser

Kelsey Anderson will join as their first guest, promising even “juicier” details—“we’re going to get all the info on her bbl.” Don’t miss it!

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