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Kylie
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Rachel
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Rachel
So let's get into it.
Unknown Female Host 2
Have you, like, discussed this with Susie? Because I'm like, that is actually so crazy. I didn't realize the similarity. And they in paradise together reconnecting. Like, you guys have a similar track.
Kylie
We really do. So I would. I was with Susie during Zach and Katie's wedding back in November and we had conversations about it because I was still kind of in the thick of it with Aven and she had, I think recently ended things with Justin. So I was just getting her advice because I'm like, if anyone understands this dynamic, I truly feel like it's you. She. She was like, kylie, no. Like, I feel like I'm looking in a mirror because chips are so similar. She's like, I know it's going to be hard. You feel like you kind of have like soul ties to him. But in the day, like when you kind of relinquish that, you're going to realize you're going to feel so free in the best way possible. Like no shade towards Justin. Or even. But like, truly it's for the best. So. Yeah, I just have a lot of respect for her and I know the feelings that she had towards Justin. So I think I'm okay. But great does not my guy.
Rachel
That makes sense.
Unknown Female Host 2
Oh my gosh. I'm literally having like a come to about like, how similar this is. And I'm glad you had her to lean on because people, a lot of people can't understand like, what it's like meeting someone and having them promise you a future in front of millions of people. And then all of a sudden now it's ending and now it's not. Like, that's crazy. And I'm glad that you guys were able to connect with that.
Kylie
It's so hard. You know, we make it through every single day.
Unknown Female Host 2
Yes, we do.
Rachel
I'm like, curious because like, we can like obviously get off of Aven and you guys in a second. But like, was there ever like, conversations about like marriage or like, how did he feel about that? Because I think like the audience obviously how paradise ended, there was like, speculation of like, oh, I don't know, like, if he wants to like, commit. Because he was very like, okay, no, no proposal. But like.
Unknown Female Host 2
But like almost a proposal, right? Yeah.
Rachel
So it's like he was there, but like, not quite. What did that look like when you guys obviously returned to real life and gave your relationship another chance?
Unknown Female Host 2
Yeah.
Kylie
Yeah. Rachel. I felt like I was you.
Unknown Female Host 2
We have talked about that. Yeah.
Kylie
Like, I was like, okay, well, think about Rachel right now. I think for him, when it came. I don't want to speak for him, but when it came to, he takes marriage very seriously. So do I need to. He's. He kind of holds lot of weight to an engagement. And at the end of the day, paradise was very short. There was no opportunities for like us and each other's parents and things like that. So he just didn't want to make that big of a commitment without doing like major life things. Obviously I understood that in a sense. But I'm like, when you know, you know. And in that moment, even leading up to our recent breakup, like, I felt like I knew that he was my person. But yeah, when we, obviously we took the next step of living together and we had those conversations. He wants kids, he does want marriage. And I do truly feel like with the right person, he will settle down and he will commitment. But I just feel like there's so much that went on in our relationship. It just constantly felt like an uphill battle and we were good and Then something would happen, and then it just felt like we were starting from scratch. So I think there was just a lot of damage that was done that he necessarily couldn't get over, and it did make him fearful. Okay, if I do make this final commitment with her, like, are we ever going to be able to just stay on the right track for. For long term? So, yeah, we had the conversations. I thought it was going to happen. I did picture life, like, I would work in the hospital and I would see all these couples, like, having babies, and I'm like, oh, my gosh. I know even it's going to be such a good dad. So I can't wait to experience that with him. Yeah, no, I do think he's going to make the right person, be so happy and commit to them, have marriage, have the kids. Like, I do see that for him. And he's going to be a great dad. He is a good person.
Rachel
Ye.
Kylie
He just wasn't my person and I wasn't his. And as hard as that isn't, as crappy as that is, like, I know we're both happy. We're both going to be okay. And. Yeah, person for us.
Unknown Female Host 2
Was there ever a point where you guys got close to an engagement again, like, in paradise in the real world?
Unknown Female Host 1
Yeah.
Kylie
No. I mean, so I recently. Not recently. About a year ago, I was at a Lakers game with Tyler Norris and then his now wife, Alyssa. And Alyssa comes up to me, and she was like, oh, my God. Like, even was talking to Tyler about rings, and I was like, what? Like, I was so hyped because, I mean, this was. I had just met Even's parent. No, his dad. I met his mom a while ago, but I just met his dad in Boston and his stepmom, and everything went so well. Like, I loved his family. I saw myself, like, truly fitting in. And then after that, Alyssa comes to me telling me that he's looking at engagement rings. I'm like, oh, my God.
Rachel
Like, I'm.
Kylie
I brought that up to him and he was like, oh, no. Like, I wasn't mean that I was looking. I was just, like, saying, like, oh, yeah. I mean, if we're gonna stay together at this point, like, I might as well start, like, looking. And I was like, oh, well, you definitely burst in my bubble. I'm not that excited anymore. But, yeah. So I don't know. I guess that was the closest that we got to it. We never went, like, ring shopping or had any, like, plans to do that. But, I mean, at that point, it was like, Two and a half years. So I was hoping in his brain that. Yeah, yeah. But I don't know.
Unknown Female Host 2
Also, I feel like because Tyler is one of his best friends and Tyler was so ready to settle down. He found someone. He's in that stage of his life. Do you think that influenced him at all? Like, do you think he's anywhere closer to being really ready? Yeah.
Kylie
So it's not just Tyler. Like, a lot of his friends back home in Boston are all settled down, married, and even starting to have kids.
Charity
Interesting.
Kylie
Yeah, you would think. But even is like, through and through his own person. He's not going to let. Clearly, we, like, I maybe Rachel, but I like, begged that man to propose to me and he did it. At the end of the day, even going to do what even wants to do. So I don't think anything is going to influence him. But I do truly feel. I honestly think the next girl that he dates will be his wife. And that is so.
Unknown Female Host 2
Really.
Kylie
Yeah, that's so, so hard for me to say because, like, at the end of the day, like, my other ex, like, I've only had two boyfriends. Like, my other ex, if I he got married, I think they're about to have a kid and it didn't bother me. But, like, with even, like, there was so much of life that we experienced together just so to see that with the next person, it's gonna be hard, but I'll be happy for him no matter why.
Unknown Female Host 2
Why do you say that? Why do you think it's going to be the next person?
Kylie
I think with even like, it's like the taxi cab theory. I think the next person he dates, he's going to just be like, kind of just go all in and take what you learned in our relationship and kind of flourish that. And he did say that, like, he was going to truly work on himself and 100% realize, like, what he wants when it comes to his next relationship. So I don't think it's going to be a position where he just, like, settles and just dates anyone to date. So I think. I think the next person is going to be a lucky girl. And I think he's truly going to. To find his person. But I don't know. I guess we'll see.
Unknown Female Host 2
Because you talk so highly of him and you're saying, like, your last ex is married with a child and it's not affecting you. Aven, obviously, like you said, has some work to do. If he does that work and let's say a year from now comes back and like puts that in front of you. Would you, would you ever open the door again?
Kylie
I don't think so. I think I have. We have opened the door so many times. We have tried so, so many times. So I just don't think, like, obviously never say never, but I truly just don't think he's my person at the end of the day. Like, the things that he, he holds such high value to is just completely different than what I, that is important to me and that's just never going to change, unfortunately. And you. I don't want to ever change a person to make me make them fit my mold, but there has to be type of compromise for it to work. And I don't think there's going to ever be enough compromise on both of our ends for there to be longevity. But like I said, like, I, If Avon called me today and he was like, kylie, I'm in an emergency. I need you to come help me, I would drop everything and I would be there for him because I have so much love for him. I have no ill will. And I, like, I truly want him to live his best life. I want him to fight, I want him to be in love. I want him to because I know how much love he has to give. Like, he is a good person despite his transgressions. Like, he is a good person person, but he's just not my person. And it, and that is so sad to say and it sucks and I wish, but I just like, I can't even hold a little space in that door to leave it open because for myself and for my dignity and for everything, I have to fully shut it. Because I'll never move on if I don't. And it's time, it's truly time to move on.
Rachel
God is doing a work on you, Kylie.
Unknown Female Host 2
I think this is so relatable. Like, so many people will listen to this and have that. I think everyone's fear is like, what if I never truly get over that person? But the fact that you're really deciding that the things you want are the most important is so huge. And hearing you say this, I think a lot of people are going to benefit from hearing this.
Rachel
No, I think you, you literally just said it, Rachel. It's like putting your needs and like sometimes people don't, like, they lose themselves in relationships and like, that's just something that like falls to the wayside or they think they're being selfish by doing that. But it's like you being able to realize that obviously during. But then like now, after. While you're going through this, like, grief process of it all is, like, so telling of just, like, who you are in your character and just, like, honestly, like, how. How well you're healing in all of this. Because a lot of people would just, like, question that and just also question, like, well, why wasn't he, like, able to do this for me? Or, like, why not? And it's like, it's not even about that at that point. At some point, you have to stop asking yourself, like, why? And just realize, like, this is just what's being put in front of me. And you have to accept it and understand that if it does change, it might. But there's a big risk that it may not change. And you coming to terms with that for yourself, most importantly, is so huge. So, so proud of you, Kylie. I really am. Like, just hearing you talk, I'm like, this is lovely.
Unknown Female Host 2
Yeah.
Kylie
No, and obviously, like, I didn't just wake up. This did not happen overnight. It's.
Rachel
Yeah.
Kylie
So many days of crying and going to therapy and just, like, honestly begging God, like, okay, why did this not work out? I did question myself, like, why am I not worthy enough? Why am I not enough? But when I kind of flipped it and I was like, okay, no, it's not me. It's just, like, to our core, we're just so different. And no matter what we do, no matter how hard we fight, like, it's just not gonna work out. And that's.
Rachel
Yeah.
Kylie
But. Yeah, no, I. I mean, like I said, I had a dream about him last night. So, like, every day is different. It's still hard, but I'm. I think what makes me kind of get through each day is I'm so excited for. I love what I'm doing right now, who I'm doing it with, and I'm just, like, ready to see. Okay. Like, I question. I'm like, okay, I wonder what my next boyfriend's gonna look like or what, what our relationship is going to be like. So I'm just excited and I'm hopeful.
Rachel
I can't wait for all my friends to be just booed up.
Unknown Female Host 2
And I know, Kylie. I feel like, Taxi Cab. I feel like it's gonna happen for you. Like, I have this feeling like, it's gonna be, like, you immediately, because I think there is, like, what Charity said. There's so much to say that you stayed and you put in so much work privately. Like, this wasn't even for the world. And I think it's going to be rewarded. And I know you're gonna find the
Rachel
perfect partner in the best way.
Unknown Female Host 2
Literally.
Kylie
Thank you. No, I'm so excited. I just hope it happens sooner rather than later, but I'm gonna be patiently waiting until then.
Unknown Female Host 2
Me too.
Rachel
No and I me three.
Unknown Female Host 2
I'll be perched. Thanks guys. I might slide into some DMS for
Rachel
you because honestly I'm not like I'm
Unknown Female Host 2
going to work charity's like in your Instagram like setting up.
Rachel
Oh I'm like actually like I'm gonna be a problem but like the best
Kylie
problem like if you guys could help me. Like my Instagram is my Instagram giving relationship. Like what is it? Like, I don't know. But I just, I just.
Unknown Female Host 2
I think people just thought you were still with Avid.
Kylie
Yeah. So I'm here to tell the world I'm very. I am ready to move on. I'm work on myself and bomb ass girlfriend. So yes, take it while you can.
Rachel
I love this period.
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Rachel
Okay, Kylie, we are going to transition to a fun little game segment. We are going to play a game and you are going to tell us which is worse in your opinion and why. There is no depends or maybe or what ifs. Okay.
Kylie
Okay, I can do it.
Rachel
Okay, so the first prompt is they still follow every X or every X still follows the
Kylie
they still follow every ex. Because I'm like, why do. Why are you even so curious? You know, and I have a little PTSD with this because there were some following of the exes and still liking pictures and I'm just like, for what? Like why? What?
Rachel
Hello.
Kylie
And I don't follow any of my exes anymore. So I'm just like, if I can do it, you can do it too. Like you're a big boy.
Rachel
Agreed.
Unknown Female Host 2
Okay, next one. They post thirst traps or they like thirst traps.
Charity
Mercy.
Unknown Female Host 2
They're both pretty bad.
Kylie
They're both pretty bad. I would say they like thirst traps.
Rachel
Hello. Because I'm like post yours.
Kylie
Are you liking a girl that is half naked? Like, what about you like that so much when you have a loving girlfriend at home? Like, what I can give you all of that and more. Like, why are you. No, like, come on now.
Unknown Female Host 2
And it's like, we can see it. Like, do they think that we can't see your name and others.
Rachel
That is really the thing. It's like, I'm sorry, May Instagram never take that feature away? Because, no, we're doomed.
Unknown Female Host 2
But it always shows the person that you need.
Rachel
No, it's, like, the most traction with. Literally, I'm like, what do you mean? That would never be my portion. But, like, I'm just like, no.
Kylie
Yeah, so, yeah, definitely, because I'm just like, for what?
Rachel
For what? Like, my new vocal stuff.
Kylie
For what?
Rachel
Okay, the next one is they overshare your relationship online.
Kylie
I think not posting your partner publicly is worse. I had a little bit of an issue with this. Obviously, there was some ptsd, because the first time I posted, even it didn't go that well. But then we were kind of deciding back and forth of, like, okay, should we post each other? Should we not? But then our relationship was rocky, so then maybe we did it. I don't know. It was just a lot. I was more for it. He wasn't. And I was like, okay, well, if you're not scared of anything, like, if you have nothing to hide, like, why are you scared? But, yeah, so if I have a man, my man better be posted me loud and proud, letting all the little girls know.
Rachel
Correct?
Unknown Female Host 2
Absolutely.
Kylie
Yeah. Because I'm like, why wouldn't you? You. And especially being in, like, a space, like, with Ava and I. I mean, social media is a part of our lives, so it was so, like, I was living a double life because I was, like, posting, and I was living with a man but never showing him.
Unknown Female Host 2
And you guys would be, like, at the exact same place. Yeah, I'm, like, clicking through stories like, I've already seen this view from each other.
Kylie
Exactly. It's. It was so weird, and I felt like I truly wasn't able to share my life. And even. And I did so many cool things. Like, we went on so many trips, and, like, we weren't able to post about it, and it just kind of sucks. So, yeah, I'm gonna. I'm gonna show my man Loud and Brown, and he better do the same.
Rachel
Absolutely. I'm right there with you.
Unknown Female Host 2
Okay, next one. They check your location or they check who is viewing their stories.
Kylie
Okay, wait, so they're checking to see who's viewing my stories?
Unknown Female Host 2
So what's worse, they are constantly checking where you are.
Kylie
Okay.
Unknown Female Host 2
Or they're constantly checking who's viewing their stories that they post.
Kylie
Why do they care? Honestly, why they should care about seeing their stuff is me. So definitely, like, no, like who? Yeah, because you only do that when you're single. You post something specifically for certain people and you're pulling for hours. Mind you, Instagram used to add a feature, search the name so I don't have to sit there and like, scroll for hours to see if my man or my crush is watching it. So, like, yeah, that's my location all the time. I have nothing to hide. Half the time I'm in a fast food drive through, asleep on my couch. So, like, I have.
Unknown Female Host 2
She's delivering babies and sleeping and sleeping.
Kylie
So my life, like, I'm your sim. Like, it's very boring to you. I'm very sorry.
Rachel
I'm hollering, oh, my God.
Kylie
Yeah.
Unknown Female Host 2
Yeah. And, Kylie, welcome back to the world of having to, like, scroll through a million people to see because it's difficult and it's so hard.
Kylie
The most humbling thing is when you spend like 30 minutes looking and then the person that you're looking for, never washing. You're just like, no, true.
Unknown Female Host 2
So it's like, why'd I post?
Kylie
Why'd I even.
Rachel
Yeah, like, not miss that. I do not miss that. I'm so sorry, Charity.
Unknown Female Host 2
It's rough out here.
Rachel
I know, but I'm like, the way I just live in peace now. Truly.
Unknown Female Host 2
She doesn't even check who's viewing. She's. And by.
Rachel
Yeah, God willing. Okay, the next one is. Oh, this is crazy. They pose every fight or subtweet every fight.
Kylie
I would say subtweet. Like if. If you're gonna say something, stand on ten toes and say it. And at me, like, don't be subtweeting me. Making subliminal messages. Like, let the world know. If you want to let the world know. Let the world know. Yeah, like, also, too. Why are you post business on the Internet? Which crazy. I have done that before. But, like, it was, you know, I had reasons to post my business.
Unknown Female Host 2
I feel like you were standing 10 toes.
Kylie
You're doing exactly what I'm like.
Unknown Female Host 2
So all you've done is state the facts.
Rachel
I think it was just stating the facts. It was justified.
Kylie
It was justified. I'm telling myself that you gotta stand down, let the world know.
Unknown Female Host 2
Absolutely. They accidentally like their ex's photo or accidentally send them the same exact text. A text.
Charity
Crazy.
Unknown Female Host 2
How do you accidentally send a text?
Charity
Yeah, correct.
Rachel
I'm like. Like the photo.
Kylie
Yeah, like the photo. All day long.
Unknown Female Host 2
Both are.
Kylie
Yeah, but texting nobody, like that was. And like why is she at the top of the phone so you even have the opportunity to accidentally text her?
Rachel
Like there is no such thing as an accidental text.
Kylie
I think I'm so like, like I'm jaded because I've heard all the excuses, I know all the things. Putting the phone down, not being able to have access to my exes. But like, no, I don't want any of that. I need full transparency. And like if you have wondering eyes, please wonder far away from me because I don't want any. So when it comes to like cheating or like being sneaky or like texting people, you're not supposed to, like, I have no part of that and I will immediately.
Rachel
Hello?
Kylie
Yeah. No, it's so icky to me. So icky.
Rachel
I agree.
Unknown Female Host 2
And everyone else relationship, the phone password. I better know it like immediately.
Charity
That's the thing.
Rachel
It's like guys don't realize when like girls go through stuff like this, that's like really traumatic. Baby, I work for the CIA. You're not getting nothing over on me. No, truly, like I am head of the CIA. Like I will get out in two seconds. Like you better just be transparent.
Kylie
But for me, like I am so forgiving. And call me dumb or maybe naive, but even after everything that happened, never had the location, never went through the phone, allowed him to go out with his friends till, you know, all hours of the morning. So like, even though he kind of broke that trust, I knew I had to rebuild that trust because you were never going to work. I can't like constantly be worried about him. Like if we're going to be together, I'm going to trust him. We're going to keep it pushing. So I can't decide in my next relationship if I'm gonna be as chill because that clearly bit me in the butt. But yeah, no, there, there's gonna be some check ins next time.
Rachel
No, for sure you're a better woman
Unknown Female Host 2
than me about this. Like the way I would have to be with you.
Rachel
Like you can't come.
Kylie
Like you don't even understand how, like if I told you be like, huh? And I'm like,
Unknown Female Host 1
yeah, but that's your mature.
Unknown Male Host
Yeah.
Unknown Female Host 2
And I think the next relationship you're going to be with someone and you're not even gonna have to question where they are.
Charity
That's what I'm saying.
Rachel
You're just gonna, it's gonna be so like effortless. Like you won't even want to know. Like you know What? I mean, like, there will be no desire to. That's how I know that, like, I'm at peace. Because I'm like, my brain doesn't even go to think that, you know.
Kylie
Exactly.
Rachel
I don't have to.
Unknown Female Host 2
Yeah.
Rachel
Amazing.
Unknown Female Host 2
Yeah. Okay, I like this question. They use couple TikTok trends constantly or they refuse to take photos together.
Kylie
They refuse to take photos together. I will say, though, like, I love, like, my hot girl Instagram vibe. And when I do have a boyfriend, like, I still want it to be hot girl and then have just, like, a splash of, like, my relationship. But then the day, like, that's my platform and, like, it represents me. Like, it's not like, me and my boyfriend's Instagram. So I. I'm down for a little couple posts, but not 24, 7. I'm good with that. But then you not wanting to take a picture with me at all and post it. Oh, no, Bab. Like, why are you trying to hide me? What, you want to hide all this? Are you kidding?
Rachel
No, for sure.
Unknown Female Host 2
Agreed.
Rachel
Okay, last one is they spend five hours a day on social media or insist social media is evil.
Kylie
Honestly, the greenest flag is a man not having an Instagram. So if they're spending five hours a day on scrolling, like, yeah, what are you doing? Like, yeah, go to work, get a job, go to the gym. Like, yeah. No, like, you have no Instagram or you have 50 followers. Perfect.
Unknown Female Host 2
I love last post in, like, 2021.
Kylie
Yeah, that's my man.
Rachel
I will say the hack now is like, Kylie, on your next day, you gotta ask them, can you pull up your average screen time for social media apps? Let's see. You know, let's see, let's see.
Kylie
Oh, that's when you'll know that's all you.
Unknown Female Host 2
Oh, my gosh.
Kylie
Okay.
Unknown Female Host 2
Well, Kylie, thank you so much for coming on and being honest. It's been so amazing. And I just want to make announcement to every man ever that the DMs are officially open. Yes. And for these men, where can they find you on socials? And for everyone else.
Kylie
Yeah. So I'm on Instagram. I think my name is, like, Kylie with three E's. Marie. And then I'm on Tick Tock. But really, I'm basically just on Instagram. So go ahead and slide on in because I lied in boys. No, I'm excited. No, thank you guys so much for having me. I needed a good, like, tea time with my girlies, and you were the perfect two to do that with, so.
Rachel
No, you were so amazing. Kylie, we're so proud of you. Like, you know me, like, very, very proud of you. And I'm so hopeful and optimistic for this, like, next era and chapter in your life. And I'm gonna be there every single step of the way. So, fellas, if you don't come correct, I mean, Godspeed. Godspeed.
Kylie
Don't forget about that wedding invite.
Rachel
Oh, I won't. Don't you worry. I'm working this weekend. Hello.
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Rachel
Oh, my God. Rachel. I am like, I cannot believe that we just got that in the best way because I'm so proud of Kylie. I obviously met Kylie on my season of the Bachelor, and just to see where she is now, like, it sounds crazy saying, like, oh, it's such a transformation, but it really is. Like, I mean, just how well spoken she is now. Not that she ever wasn't well spoken, but just like. Like, to hear her, like, openly talk about this. Openly talk about, like, her wants, her needs, like, knowing her worth and, like, who she is and what she brings to the table. It's really day and night, and I'm like, I'm just. I'm like a proud sister right now.
Unknown Female Host 2
I know. And I'm so happy a. Because you guys are so close. And the fact that she was able to come on and really talk about where she is now, and I think it takes a lot of courage. Kylie obviously has been through a lot with Aven. She knows that the public has an opinion, and she's been privately working on this for so many years, years. And to finally now come out and be like, listen, he is not my person in the nicest way.
Kylie
I just.
Unknown Female Host 2
It shows how mature she is and how much love she actually did have for him. I'm just, like, in shock at the fact that she thinks there could ever be a man that she would dm that wouldn't propose on the spot.
Rachel
Okay, I will say. And I'm like, I love you, Kylie. But that's her. Like, to me, I'm like, that's her biggest flaw. I'M like. Like, she does not realize how, like, beautiful of a person she is inside and out. Like, truly, like, Kylie would not hurt a fly. Like, she's gorgeous. Like, so hot. Like, I'm just like, Kylie. Like, come on, now, be insufferable. Like, I mean, I am insufferable, but, like, I would also be insufferable if I was you. Like, you would never see the end of me.
Unknown Female Host 2
No, like, really, because, first of all, like, we have to talk about her glove is fantastic. But. But her in paradise. Three years ago, every single man, when I tell you I watched this front row seat, came down the stairs and wanted Kylie. Kylie had a man. And I would love for her to go back to paradise and to have every man come down and steal her. And even if she. She had a guy, she's like, you know what? I'm gonna explore it because I think she deserves to feel so wanted. She, like you said, she's stunning, beautiful, gorgeous. Just gonna be a doctor delivering babies, crazy. Loves her family. Like, could you imagine a better package? Like, you just, like, cannot.
Rachel
No, you know what? And, like, you talking about paradise, I just have so many ideas and thoughts of, like, what I need it to be for this. Tell me, because I feel like, granted, y' all season was incredible, but it was too nice. Like, I'm not gonna, like, lie. Like, it was.
Unknown Female Host 2
It was my friend island.
Rachel
And I'm like, I don't want that. You know? Like, I was really hopeful that even though you guys were all friends, which is why I was doing my diligence, I came off. My season was like, here's the rundown.
Unknown Female Host 2
Like, okay, you tried.
Rachel
I did. I was like, okay, so you guys are all, like, just on your best behavior. This is nuts.
Unknown Female Host 1
The girls are such good girls.
Unknown Female Host 2
To the fact that they were like, if someone had even expressed interest before they met the man, they were, like, so respectful of it.
Rachel
Right? But it's.
Unknown Female Host 2
You came down. You're like, okay, what are we doing?
Rachel
Right?
Unknown Female Host 2
I was trying to do that. But even, like, hearing to this day, like, Kylie be so respectful of a connection that happened three years ago where everyone, I feel like, has fully moved on. It's like, it is a testament to, like, how good your guys's friendship is. But like you said, next season will not be friendship.
Rachel
No, I need. I need mayhem. Like, I think that's what bachelor knee. Like, I don't know. Like, you know, we tried, but, like, I need it on paradise because, like, that's the format that, like, you know, I feel like, it comes in its best way just because of, like, the nature of it. Like, granted, Bachelor bachelorette season can get messy, but it's, like, not. That's not its core. Like, paradise. It's meant to be. It's meant to be. So I'm like, I need her down there. I need her all eyes on her. I need another baddie walking down. I need to see the battle of the baddies. Like, you know what I mean? I just want. Nonsense.
Unknown Female Host 2
I need to see men crying over the fact that for a date. And she said, yes.
Rachel
Precisely.
Unknown Female Host 2
I want a man being like, I want to get engaged to you. And I want Kylie to be like, well, I'm still gonna, like, explore. I'm gonna explore because I deserve to see if I have a connection there.
Rachel
Correct. And I need to see which man can handle that, which is going to be a little sad about that and act out. So, you know, like, I just. Next. Next season of paradise will be it. Mark my words. If I had anything to do with
Kylie
it, which you should.
Unknown Female Host 2
I also.
Rachel
Hello. I need to be in the boardroom. You need to be pretty sure nobody listens to me. I'm telling you, I'm the agent of it. I know what it needs to be.
Unknown Female Host 2
Charity needs to be the EP on this. But I also, like, really would love to see Kylie in a relationship that she can live out publicly.
Rachel
Yeah.
Unknown Female Host 2
I feel like we've missed. And Kylie is missed. Like, she said sharing so much of her life makes. Because of, like, hiding something. And I can't even imagine that feeling.
Rachel
Like, what do you mean? I'm in Turks and Caicos and I can't post where I'm at with my man.
Charity
Are you crazy?
Rachel
What do you mean?
Unknown Female Host 2
That's like.
Rachel
Like, that makes me so sad. Makes me so sad. And I'm like, you know what? I'm a spiteful person that I'm like, okay, bet. Like, I'm gonna post it anyway. Like, let's see what you do. You know what I mean? And I'm like, Kylie's so nice. Like, I just. I am so excited to see her flourish. That's, like, all I care about. Like, this year is going to be so good for her. Like, I. I feel it in my bones.
Kylie
Like, me too.
Unknown Female Host 2
I think that taxicab theory is going to happen for her.
Charity
Correct.
Unknown Female Host 2
She's done.
Rachel
She has no. She has no idea what's coming. Like, she really does it, which I love. I love that.
Unknown Female Host 2
Okay. The taxicab theory. I learned it on Sex in the City and the Taxicab theory is that women will go through their life with this list of things that they want and when they find that man, they settle down. Men can go through life and meet their dream woman who has every single quality, but if he's not ready, he won't settle down. Then one day his taxi light will go on and he might meet someone that isn't his dream woman or that doesn't have these qualities, but he's ready to settle down. So he just settles down.
Rachel
Just settles down.
Unknown Female Host 2
And it's so interesting because I think women go through life truly wondering, is this real? And do men actually just settle when they're ready?
Rachel
It's. It is. So I. I feel like it's been proven time and time again how real and true that theory is, that I'm like. Unfortunately, I'm a believer of it.
Unknown Female Host 2
Like, and I think that's why so many women like Kylie have said that, like, their biggest fear is watching a relationship that they put so much work into and that someone. They feel that they put positive changes. Yeah. Into the world and then watching them give it to someone else because their taxi lights on, like, it's night. Like, that's why she's having nightmares, because that's a nightmare. No.
Rachel
1,000%. And it literally, like, I'm.
Kylie
So.
Rachel
It's like, build a man. Like, I'm not going to build. Like, if I'm. If I have to build a man, it's going to be mine. And granted, I already don't want to do that, but what I'm certainly not going to do, like, respectfully, I'm not building a man for him to go take everything that I poured in and do it. It elsewhere.
Unknown Female Host 2
No, like, terrifying.
Rachel
And that happens so many times. Like, it is actually crazy how many times it happens. How many times I've seen it happen with my friends. How many times. Hello, with me. So it is what it is. Like, taxi cabs and men.
Unknown Female Host 2
Oh, my gosh, this is just such a crazy situation. And it feels crazier the fact that no one has spoken about it for three years. Years. But we all, like, kind of knew.
Rachel
I think that's the thing. I think we were all just, like, especially, like, our, like, inner friends, like, just respecting that and respecting her wishes. But I don't even think it was her wishes. Like, I think, like, she probably had this desire to want to be in a place where she can, like, obviously live her life to the fullest and not, you know, hide parts of it. But also, she just loved him so Much that she. She really just went with what he ultimately, I think, desired and wanted. So.
Unknown Female Host 2
I know. Yeah, I know. It's so hard to make kind of, like, I feel it because I'm like, I care about Avid. Like, she cares so much. And it's like, I. Wishing him all the best. Like, Truly, I've, like, been in her position where I'm, like, it just want the best for you, but I'm so happy she's gonna get the best for her.
Rachel
This is why I feel like, also how she talked about it and just, like, where she's at, that is how I know for a fact that, like, all good is coming back to her. Because, like, like we said, it just. It came from such a mature place. But also just that, to me, is, like, good energy. Like, that's good energy that she's putting out about, like, her past trials and tribulations, truly. And now, like, granted, they're no longer together, but she wishes him well. And I know, like, whether or not he wishes her well or not, I don't really know, like, the ins and outs, but, like. Like, she's confidently speaking that and she's confidently putting that into the universe and the atmosphere. So I just know it. It's. It's making its return back to her.
Unknown Female Host 2
It's coming, and I can't wait to watch it on the beaches.
Rachel
I literally can't.
Unknown Female Host 2
Or at your wedding.
Rachel
At my wedding. The dance floor will be. It's gonna be sickening.
Kylie
Who?
Unknown Female Host 2
The man is beautiful. Can we talk about, like, we have discussed that. Shane is a beautiful man. Kylie is so stunning. That would be an outrageous.
Rachel
I actually, it would make me, like, nauseous, like, looking at them, like, in the best way. I'd be, like, in a trance looking at them because they're right. I'm, like, both beautiful.
Unknown Female Host 2
I feel like they have to do that just so I can watch.
Kylie
Beautiful.
Rachel
At this point, I'm like, truly, just for the plot. Like, you know what I mean? I don't ever, like. No, let me not say I don't ever suggest things for the plot, but, like, I need it for this plot. Like, for this year at least.
Unknown Female Host 2
How do we. How do we make sure he hears? Should we just send Shane this podcast?
Rachel
Yeah.
Unknown Female Host 2
Yeah.
Rachel
No, literally, we will. I will.
Unknown Female Host 2
No more time.
Rachel
Like I said, I am working.
Unknown Female Host 2
There are also some gorgeous men on Taylor Season. Like, she truly could.
Rachel
I'm trying to think it would be, like, her, like, her type. I genuinely don't know.
Unknown Female Host 2
Better.
Rachel
Someone. Yeah, she needs someone that's Very, like, very family oriented. I know. She likes like tall.
Unknown Female Host 2
There's a lot of tall men on that season.
Kylie
No, I.
Unknown Female Host 2
There are family oriented men. Love their faith.
Rachel
Oh, what's his name? No, I don't. I mean, he's a great guy, but I don't think him and Kylie, like Lou. I don't see them matching. Like, but it could. I know. I don't. I do. I like. I do too. But I'm like, maybe for Kylie, but who knows?
Unknown Female Host 2
Honestly, we're gonna have to meet them in person. And matchmaker. That's. That's.
Rachel
Honestly. Let's do a little segment. We got time.
Unknown Female Host 2
Kylie, the Bachelorette. Like, we can do it here.
Rachel
Let's get creative.
Kylie
Hello. Okay.
Unknown Female Host 2
Well, I could talk about this for hours. Thank you guys for listening.
Rachel
You guys can follow us at Bachelor Happy Hour and Bachelor Nation and make sure you rate review, subscribe wherever you
Charity
listen to your podcast.
Rachel
We will see you guys very soon.
Unknown Female Host 2
Bye.
Unknown Male Host
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Rachel
Which means it's time to decide if you want to go blonde, maybe become
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Kylie
This is an iHeart podcast. Guaranteed Human.
Release Date: June 24, 2026
Hosts: Charity Lawson & Rachel Recchia
Guest: Kylee Russell
Podcast: Official Bachelor Nation Podcast by iHeartPodcasts & Warner Bros.
This episode features the second part of an intimate conversation with Bachelor Nation alum Kylee Russell, focusing on her breakup with Aven, the process of moving on, and the infamous "taxicab theory"—the idea that men often settle down when "their light goes on," regardless of the partner. Hosts Charity Lawson and Rachel Recchia encourage an honest discussion about heartbreak, personal growth, self-worth, and navigating new beginnings after public relationships. The latter half transitions to a lively "Which Is Worse?" dating dilemmas game.
Comparing Experiences with Fellow Alums ([03:55]-[05:01])
"She was like, Kylie, no. Like, I feel like I'm looking in a mirror because our stories are so similar... when you kind of relinquish that, you're going to realize you're going to feel so free in the best way possible."
— Kylee ([04:35])
The Emotional Toll of Public Relationships ([05:01]-[08:01])
"He holds a lot of weight to an engagement. And at the end of the day, paradise was very short... There was just so much that went on in our relationship. It just constantly felt like an uphill battle and we were good and then something would happen..."
— Kylee ([06:06]-[07:48])
Life After a Serious Relationship ([08:07]-[12:55])
"Even is like, through and through his own person. He's not going to let—clearly—we, like, I, maybe Rachel, but, I begged that man to propose to me and he didn't."
— Kylee ([09:45])
Shutting the Door for Good
"We have opened the door so many times... At the end of the day, the things that he holds such high value to is just completely different than what is important to me. And that's just never going to change, unfortunately."
— Kylee ([11:27])
"I can't even hold a little space in that door to leave it open, because for myself and for my dignity... I have to fully shut it. Because I'll never move on if I don't. And it's time, it's truly time to move on."
— Kylee ([12:27])
The Grief Process and Personal Growth ([12:55]-[15:45])
"A lot of people would just... question like, well, why wasn't he, like, able to do this for me?... At some point, you have to stop asking yourself why and just realize, like, this is just what's being put in front of me. And you have to accept it."
— Charity ([13:19]-[14:19])
"So many days of crying and going to therapy and just, like, honestly begging God, like, okay, why did this not work out... But when I kind of flipped it and I was like, okay, no, it's not me. It's just, like, to our core, we're just so different."
— Kylee ([14:24])
"I'm just excited and I'm hopeful."
— Kylee ([15:00])
Openness to New Love
"I'm here to tell the world I'm very—I am ready to move on, I'm working on myself, and bomb ass girlfriend. So, yes, take it while you can."
— Kylee ([16:23])
Kylee, Rachel, and Charity play a humorous and revealing round of relationship "would you rather" scenarios, leading to candid admissions and laughs. Key takeaways:
Following Exes on Social Media
"Why are you even so curious?... Like, if I can do it, you can do it too. Like, you’re a big boy."
— Kylee ([22:28])
Posting/Liking Thirst Traps
"Are you liking a girl that is half naked? ...when you have a loving girlfriend at home? ...Why are you—no, like, come on now."
— Kylee ([23:09])
Not Posting vs. Oversharing Relationship
"If I have a man, my man better be posting me loud and proud, letting all the little girls know."
— Kylee ([24:03]-[24:45])
Checking Location vs. Checking Story Views
Subtweeting vs. Posting Fights
"If you're gonna say something, stand on ten toes and say it. And at me, like, don't be subtweeting me."
— Kylee ([27:27])
Accidental Like vs. Accidental Text to an Ex
"I need full transparency. And like if you have wandering eyes, please wander far away from me."
— Kylee ([28:21]-[29:07])
Screen Time & Social Media
Refusing Couple Photos vs. TikTok Trends
"But then you not wanting to take a picture with me at all and post it. Oh, no, babe. Like, why are you trying to hide me?"
— Kylee ([31:01])
Password Transparency
([38:59]-[46:41])
Rachel and Charity reflect on Kylee’s growth:
"Just to see where she is now... Like, to hear her, like, openly talk about this, openly talk about, like, her wants, her needs, like, knowing her worth and, like, who she is and what she brings to the table. It's really day and night."
— Rachel ([38:59])
Paradise & Friendship Dynamics:
The Taxicab Theory Explained ([44:44]-[45:30]):
"Women go through their life with this list of things that they want and when they find that man, they settle down. Men can go through life and meet their dream woman who has every single quality, but if he's not ready, he won't settle down. One day, his 'taxi light' will go on and he might meet someone that isn't his dream woman... but he's ready to settle down, so he just settles down."
— Unknown Female Host 2 ([44:44])
Kylee on closure and self-respect:
"I can't even hold a little space in that door to leave it open, because for myself and for my dignity... I have to fully shut it."
([12:27])
Charity, affirming personal growth:
"At some point, you have to stop asking yourself why and just realize... you have to accept it and understand that if it does change, it might. But there's a big risk that it may not change."
([13:19])
Rachel on social media detective skills:
"Guys don't realize when, like, girls go through stuff like this, that's, like, really traumatic. Baby, I work for the CIA. You're not getting nothing over on me."
([29:21])
On the importance of sharing relationships publicly:
"I'm gonna show my man Loud and Proud, and he better do the same."
— Kylee ([25:08])
Rachel on support for Kylee’s next era:
"I'm so hopeful and optimistic for this, like, next era and chapter in your life. And I'm gonna be there every single step of the way. So, fellas, if you don’t come correct, I mean, Godspeed. Godspeed."
([33:10])
| Time | Segment / Highlight | |--------------|------------------------------------------------------------| | 03:53–05:01 | Kylee discusses parallels with Susie, heartbreak advice | | 05:29–08:01 | Real talk about marriage, commitment and breakup with Aven | | 09:37–12:55 | "Taxi cab theory," Aven's path, shutting the door for good | | 13:19–15:16 | Self-worth, healing, and honoring personal needs | | 22:03–32:29 | "Which Is Worse?" relationships game | | 38:59–46:41 | Host reflections on friendship, growth, & relationship theories | | 44:44–45:30 | Definition & debate of "taxicab theory" |
Warm, supportive, humorous, and honest—with the hosts and guest balancing vulnerability, real talk, and playful banter. The advice and insights are heartfelt and highly relatable to anyone navigating heartbreak, dating, or self-worth after a public breakup.
For Bachelor Nation fans and new listeners alike, this episode offers rare depth, empathy, and camaraderie—making it a perfect companion for anyone seeking guidance or solidarity in post-breakup life.