Bachelor Happy Hour – "Nicole Knows What She Wants!" | October 3, 2025

Episode Overview

The episode features Nicole, a contestant on "The Golden Bachelor," joining hosts Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt to talk about her experiences on the show and in life. Nicole opens up about her journey to the Bachelor Mansion, her personal growth through past marriages, her approach to relationships, and how she developed connections with others on the show. The conversation is candid, lively, and insightful, with Nicole sharing wisdom on going after what you want—both in love and life.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Nicole’s Background and Journey to "The Golden Bachelor"

Nicole's Roots: Grew up in Champaign-Urbana, Illinois, later lived in various parts of Chicago and New York before settling in Miami. (01:01–01:47)
Move to Miami: Originally moved for her second husband; post-divorce, chose to stay because she loves Miami’s vibrancy and climate. (01:57–02:11)
Support from Family: Nicole’s children, both in Chicago, supported her decision to join the show. Her daughter even helped her binge previous seasons for preparation. (02:39–03:10)
How She Got Cast: Encouraged by friends at her yoga studio, who felt she’d be perfect for "The Golden Bachelor." After some research, Nicole applied herself and was selected. (03:27–04:17)

Unique Qualifications and Life Experience

Self-Awareness through Relationships: Nicole cites her two marriages and divorces as formative, making her uniquely qualified for a deeper, more conscious relationship. (04:23–05:33)
Personality: Describes herself as bubbly, not shy, and genuinely seeking love—yet realistic about making friendships on the show. (04:23–05:33)
On Relationship With Exes: Maintains wonderful relationships with both former husbands, especially the second. (06:06–06:16)

Manifestation & Mindset Going into the Show

Manifesting Her Spot: Nicole visualized being on the show, crediting her yoga and personal growth practices for helping her "call in" the opportunity. (06:36–07:51)
No Nerves, Little Drama: Nicole approached the experience with minimal anxiety, comfortable with her intentions and not a "drama girl." (07:51–07:56)

Nicole’s Type & Chemistry with the Lead (Mel)

Not Her Type, But …: Mel wasn’t Nicole’s usual type, but his looks and energy attracted her. Her "type" is typically tall, slim, intellectual guys with a nerdy vibe. (08:05–09:09)
Age Preferences: Prefers age-appropriate, "hot 60-year-olds"—not interested in much younger men, emphasizing generational compatibility. (09:29–10:25)
Quote: "I want a hot 60-year-old. Thank you. Yes, I do. Because I like to be able to share our music, our generation." — Nicole (10:10)

Health, Yoga, and Lifestyle

Yoga Practice: Practices yoga almost daily for mind, body, and spirit balancing. Calls yoga "like therapy" and swears by its benefits. (13:51–14:07)
Diet: Vegan for 19 years, adds in some salmon for health; follows longevity science and prioritizes humane and planet-friendly choices. (14:08–15:29)
Quote: "[Yoga] keeps you limber, keeps you mobile, keeps your brain clear…Spiritually, it keeps you centered. I think it's like therapy. You know, I think yoga saves." — Nicole (13:53)

Night One Impressions & First Moves

Stepping Out of the Limo: Focused on being present and calm, but nerves took over and she remembers little about the moment except throwing Mel a football. (15:29–16:29)
First Night Dynamics: Appreciated Mel’s vulnerability. Got early one-on-one time, then relaxed the rest of the evening as others waited. (16:32–17:36)

The Podcast Controversy & Mel’s Apology

Initial Reaction: Nicole was initially upset by Mel’s controversial podcast remarks, even considering asking for him to be replaced. Ultimately was moved and reassured by his heartfelt apology to the women. (17:51–18:48)
Quote: "The apology was...so heartfelt and so humbling. That and his humanity really showed right off the top." — Nicole (18:18)

House Dynamics, Friendships, and Surprises

Bonding with Other Contestants: Instant chemistry with fellow contestant Maya, grew close to Carol, Cindy, Jerry, Roxy, and others. (19:11–19:52)
Night One Eliminations: Shocked by certain eliminations, especially Maya ("How do you let Cindy Crawford go home?"). Says every rose ceremony surprised her. (19:55–20:25)
Chemistry Awareness: It was clear which women had strong connections with Mel, and Nicole felt she was among them, which led to tension with others. (20:45–20:55)

The Pool Party Incident — Assertiveness and Backlash

The Kiss and the Fallout: Nicole initiated a poolside makeout with Mel, sparking jealousy and coldness from others. She balanced wanting friendships with going after her own journey. (21:09–22:13)
Quote: "However, I will tell you, I could have cared less what they thought." — Nicole (22:08)
Peer Support: Ironically, critics came to Nicole for confidence and strategy advice; she coached them on how to stand out. She valued being able to help, even if it could risk her own standing. (26:39–29:36)
Advice from Kathy: Kathy advised Nicole to focus on her own story rather than helping others, but Nicole didn’t feel threatened by supporting her "sisters." (27:55–29:36)

Group Dates & Deeper Conversations

Winning the Group Date Rose (Comedy Roast): Nicole’s humor and confidence landed her the group date rose. (29:36–29:43)
Asking the Tough Questions: Nicole pressed Mel about his divorce, not shying away even as he hesitated; her persistence paid off with real answers. (29:43–31:11)
Quote: "He's at the beginning of that journey, and so he still has trouble, I think, at times fully expressing himself or feeling comfortable. So...I kept bringing it back and bringing it back. And he really did answer my...questions and he did. He did." — Nicole (30:16)

State of the Game — Nicole’s Place and Observations

Feeling Confident: At Episode 3’s end, Nicole felt solid about her connection with Mel, placing herself in the "front section" of contenders. (31:26–31:38)
Other Strong Connections: Sees Carol and Mel as natural together, acknowledges chemistry with Cindy, and mentions admiration for Jerry. Expresses confusion over some of Mel’s choices but supports the other women. (31:39–32:48)
Quote: "I wasn't insecure about helping them...That's what you do with your sisters." — Nicole (29:28)

Looking Ahead – Teasers for the Rest of the Season

Hints for Viewers: Nicole teases "twists and turns" and an unforgettable time coming up on "The Golden Bachelor". (33:05–33:16)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Nicole (on her type): "I love a nerd. Yeah, I do. But also, you know, handsome, but a nerd and fit..." (09:03)
On what she wants: "I want a hot 60-year-old. Thank you. Yes, I do." (10:10)
On yoga: "I think it's like therapy. You know, I think yoga saves." (13:53)
On the pool party fallout: "I could have cared less what they thought." (22:08)
On helping her competitors: "That's what you do with your sisters." (29:28)
On Mel's podcast controversy: "At first, my impression was, 'he's got to be replaced.' ...but the apology was...so heartfelt and so humbling." (18:07–18:18)
On asking Mel about his divorce: "He is not...I know he's on a personal growth journey...so I kept bringing it back...And he really did answer my...questions and he did. He did." (30:16)

Timestamps for Key Segments

Nicole’s background, family, and move to Miami: 00:54–02:16
Getting cast on the show: 03:24–04:17
Relationship history and unique qualifications: 04:23–05:48
Maintaining good relationships with exes: 06:06–06:16
Manifesting and mindset: 06:36–07:51
Discussing “her type” and attraction: 08:05–10:25
Yoga, nutrition, and lifestyle: 13:47–15:29
Limo entrance and first impressions: 15:29–16:29
Reacting to Mel’s podcast remarks: 17:51–18:48
Friendships and surprises in the house: 19:11–20:25
Pool party drama and fallout: 21:09–22:13, 25:21–29:36
Winning the roast group date & grilling Mel about his divorce: 29:36–31:11
Teasing the rest of the season: 33:05–33:16

Overall Tone

The interview balances humor and depth, filled with Nicole’s unapologetic self-confidence, her empathetic mindset, and her ability to maintain perspective both as a competitor and as a supportive friend. The episode offers both behind-the-scenes insights and personal takeaways for fans of the Bachelor franchise or anyone interested in life, love, and reinvention in midlife.

Bachelor Happy Hour – "Nicole Knows What She Wants!" | October 3, 2025

Episode Overview

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Nicole’s Background and Journey to "The Golden Bachelor"

Nicole's Roots: Grew up in Champaign-Urbana, Illinois, later lived in various parts of Chicago and New York before settling in Miami. (01:01–01:47)
Move to Miami: Originally moved for her second husband; post-divorce, chose to stay because she loves Miami’s vibrancy and climate. (01:57–02:11)
Support from Family: Nicole’s children, both in Chicago, supported her decision to join the show. Her daughter even helped her binge previous seasons for preparation. (02:39–03:10)
How She Got Cast: Encouraged by friends at her yoga studio, who felt she’d be perfect for "The Golden Bachelor." After some research, Nicole applied herself and was selected. (03:27–04:17)

Unique Qualifications and Life Experience

Self-Awareness through Relationships: Nicole cites her two marriages and divorces as formative, making her uniquely qualified for a deeper, more conscious relationship. (04:23–05:33)
Personality: Describes herself as bubbly, not shy, and genuinely seeking love—yet realistic about making friendships on the show. (04:23–05:33)
On Relationship With Exes: Maintains wonderful relationships with both former husbands, especially the second. (06:06–06:16)

Manifestation & Mindset Going into the Show

Manifesting Her Spot: Nicole visualized being on the show, crediting her yoga and personal growth practices for helping her "call in" the opportunity. (06:36–07:51)
No Nerves, Little Drama: Nicole approached the experience with minimal anxiety, comfortable with her intentions and not a "drama girl." (07:51–07:56)

Nicole’s Type & Chemistry with the Lead (Mel)

Not Her Type, But …: Mel wasn’t Nicole’s usual type, but his looks and energy attracted her. Her "type" is typically tall, slim, intellectual guys with a nerdy vibe. (08:05–09:09)
Age Preferences: Prefers age-appropriate, "hot 60-year-olds"—not interested in much younger men, emphasizing generational compatibility. (09:29–10:25)
Quote: "I want a hot 60-year-old. Thank you. Yes, I do. Because I like to be able to share our music, our generation." — Nicole (10:10)

Health, Yoga, and Lifestyle

Yoga Practice: Practices yoga almost daily for mind, body, and spirit balancing. Calls yoga "like therapy" and swears by its benefits. (13:51–14:07)
Diet: Vegan for 19 years, adds in some salmon for health; follows longevity science and prioritizes humane and planet-friendly choices. (14:08–15:29)
Quote: "[Yoga] keeps you limber, keeps you mobile, keeps your brain clear…Spiritually, it keeps you centered. I think it's like therapy. You know, I think yoga saves." — Nicole (13:53)

Night One Impressions & First Moves

Stepping Out of the Limo: Focused on being present and calm, but nerves took over and she remembers little about the moment except throwing Mel a football. (15:29–16:29)
First Night Dynamics: Appreciated Mel’s vulnerability. Got early one-on-one time, then relaxed the rest of the evening as others waited. (16:32–17:36)

The Podcast Controversy & Mel’s Apology

Initial Reaction: Nicole was initially upset by Mel’s controversial podcast remarks, even considering asking for him to be replaced. Ultimately was moved and reassured by his heartfelt apology to the women. (17:51–18:48)
Quote: "The apology was...so heartfelt and so humbling. That and his humanity really showed right off the top." — Nicole (18:18)

House Dynamics, Friendships, and Surprises

Bonding with Other Contestants: Instant chemistry with fellow contestant Maya, grew close to Carol, Cindy, Jerry, Roxy, and others. (19:11–19:52)
Night One Eliminations: Shocked by certain eliminations, especially Maya ("How do you let Cindy Crawford go home?"). Says every rose ceremony surprised her. (19:55–20:25)
Chemistry Awareness: It was clear which women had strong connections with Mel, and Nicole felt she was among them, which led to tension with others. (20:45–20:55)

The Pool Party Incident — Assertiveness and Backlash

The Kiss and the Fallout: Nicole initiated a poolside makeout with Mel, sparking jealousy and coldness from others. She balanced wanting friendships with going after her own journey. (21:09–22:13)
Quote: "However, I will tell you, I could have cared less what they thought." — Nicole (22:08)
Peer Support: Ironically, critics came to Nicole for confidence and strategy advice; she coached them on how to stand out. She valued being able to help, even if it could risk her own standing. (26:39–29:36)
Advice from Kathy: Kathy advised Nicole to focus on her own story rather than helping others, but Nicole didn’t feel threatened by supporting her "sisters." (27:55–29:36)

Group Dates & Deeper Conversations

Winning the Group Date Rose (Comedy Roast): Nicole’s humor and confidence landed her the group date rose. (29:36–29:43)
Asking the Tough Questions: Nicole pressed Mel about his divorce, not shying away even as he hesitated; her persistence paid off with real answers. (29:43–31:11)
Quote: "He's at the beginning of that journey, and so he still has trouble, I think, at times fully expressing himself or feeling comfortable. So...I kept bringing it back and bringing it back. And he really did answer my...questions and he did. He did." — Nicole (30:16)

State of the Game — Nicole’s Place and Observations

Feeling Confident: At Episode 3’s end, Nicole felt solid about her connection with Mel, placing herself in the "front section" of contenders. (31:26–31:38)
Other Strong Connections: Sees Carol and Mel as natural together, acknowledges chemistry with Cindy, and mentions admiration for Jerry. Expresses confusion over some of Mel’s choices but supports the other women. (31:39–32:48)
Quote: "I wasn't insecure about helping them...That's what you do with your sisters." — Nicole (29:28)

Looking Ahead – Teasers for the Rest of the Season

Hints for Viewers: Nicole teases "twists and turns" and an unforgettable time coming up on "The Golden Bachelor". (33:05–33:16)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Nicole (on her type): "I love a nerd. Yeah, I do. But also, you know, handsome, but a nerd and fit..." (09:03)
On what she wants: "I want a hot 60-year-old. Thank you. Yes, I do." (10:10)
On yoga: "I think it's like therapy. You know, I think yoga saves." (13:53)
On the pool party fallout: "I could have cared less what they thought." (22:08)
On helping her competitors: "That's what you do with your sisters." (29:28)
On Mel's podcast controversy: "At first, my impression was, 'he's got to be replaced.' ...but the apology was...so heartfelt and so humbling." (18:07–18:18)
On asking Mel about his divorce: "He is not...I know he's on a personal growth journey...so I kept bringing it back...And he really did answer my...questions and he did. He did." (30:16)

Timestamps for Key Segments

Nicole’s background, family, and move to Miami: 00:54–02:16
Getting cast on the show: 03:24–04:17
Relationship history and unique qualifications: 04:23–05:48
Maintaining good relationships with exes: 06:06–06:16
Manifesting and mindset: 06:36–07:51
Discussing “her type” and attraction: 08:05–10:25
Yoga, nutrition, and lifestyle: 13:47–15:29
Limo entrance and first impressions: 15:29–16:29
Reacting to Mel’s podcast remarks: 17:51–18:48
Friendships and surprises in the house: 19:11–20:25
Pool party drama and fallout: 21:09–22:13, 25:21–29:36
Winning the roast group date & grilling Mel about his divorce: 29:36–31:11
Teasing the rest of the season: 33:05–33:16

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Bachelor Happy Hour – "Nicole Knows What She Wants!" | October 3, 2025

Episode Overview

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Nicole’s Background and Journey to "The Golden Bachelor"

Unique Qualifications and Life Experience

Manifestation & Mindset Going into the Show

Nicole’s Type & Chemistry with the Lead (Mel)

Health, Yoga, and Lifestyle

Night One Impressions & First Moves

The Podcast Controversy & Mel’s Apology

House Dynamics, Friendships, and Surprises

The Pool Party Incident — Assertiveness and Backlash

Group Dates & Deeper Conversations

State of the Game — Nicole’s Place and Observations

Looking Ahead – Teasers for the Rest of the Season

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Timestamps for Key Segments

Overall Tone

Summary

Bachelor Happy Hour – "Nicole Knows What She Wants!" | October 3, 2025

Episode Overview

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Nicole’s Background and Journey to "The Golden Bachelor"

Unique Qualifications and Life Experience

Manifestation & Mindset Going into the Show

Nicole’s Type & Chemistry with the Lead (Mel)

Health, Yoga, and Lifestyle

Night One Impressions & First Moves

The Podcast Controversy & Mel’s Apology

House Dynamics, Friendships, and Surprises

The Pool Party Incident — Assertiveness and Backlash

Group Dates & Deeper Conversations

State of the Game — Nicole’s Place and Observations

Looking Ahead – Teasers for the Rest of the Season

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Timestamps for Key Segments

Overall Tone