Transcript
Ryan Sean Adams (0:02)
C. T Wen is a philosopher of games. He is the author of a new book called the how to Stop Playing Someone Else's Game. T. Welcome to Bankless.
C. Thi Nguyen (0:11)
Hello. I have no idea what I'm doing here. I was going to ask you this in the pre show, but, you know, I'm. I. Maybe we should ask it here.
Ryan Sean Adams (0:20)
Like, do you know what? Do you know what's amazing? I enjoyed your book so much and I've enjoyed some of your previous writings because so much of what we talk about on Bankless, which people think of Bankless as a crypto podcast. But what is crypto? It is finance. It is money. What is money? What is finance? It is a game. So much of crypto takes place on another game engine that we call social media. Twitter X. It's all games all the way down. Got it. So this is why I feel like there's so much to learn from you, Ashley.
C. Thi Nguyen (0:51)
T. Excellent. Then you do not have the wrong person. I'm not walking into the wrong room.
Ryan Sean Adams (0:59)
No. This'll be a lot of fun. I want to talk to you about games and social scalability and all of the interrelated things. But actually, maybe the place to start, give this some salience for Bankless listeners is the way you start your book. There's a story in the first chapter of your book about someone that I personally identified with and maybe some Bankless listeners might identify with as well. This is a student. She's an overachiever. She's obsessed with her body mass index, her gpa. She's the child of immigrants. She. Her parents pushed her to get 4.0s through school. She's a competitive golfer trying to get in the most highly ranked prestigious university. Basically, life gave her a set of these scoring systems and she was trying to optimize for a high score throughout all of the systems that she was engaged in. And what snapped her out of it? The idea that you promote that these things are games, many of these systems that she's engaged in, the rankings, the metrics. If she could step back and get some distance from them, if she could start asking questions about these systems rather than just accepting them. She changed her phone background to this constant reminder. Is this the game you really want to be playing? I really enjoyed that because it's a question I think that has some salience for everyone listening. Is this the game you really want to be playing? Why is that an important question to you?
C. Thi Nguyen (2:21)
T. So, God, there's so many. There's so many ways to talk about this. Maybe the Most important thing for me, and this applies both to games, to real games and to games, game like systems outside is the idea that we have a significant choice in the games we play. We can pick the games we play, we can pick which scoring systems we engage in and we can pick and fine tune and tailor them. We can shift and move them around. And I think, like, I've been trying to figure out for a while. I wrote this book in part because this student wrote that me, that email after I gave an early talk version of this, a lot of, a lot of this material. And I was trying to figure out what is it about the framing of how I was talking about things that was really impactful. And I think it's that we know in our hearts that we play games for fun, for enjoyment, for richness, for satisfaction. And then if a game, if a game like pulls us in and then we. And if we fight all our might to like max out that score and then, and then we end up with like misery and sorrow. I think it's really intuitive to think to yourself, like, no, you screwed up, right? Like, I. I've had this experience a lot. Fly fishing. This is. There's one mode of fly fishing I engage in which is dry fly fishing, which is like very, very difficult, very weird. The point is to get a trout to eat your fly off the surface of the water. It's incredibly beautiful to me. It's incredibly satisfying. It's hard as hell. You actually have to stalk and sneak and like move through the undergrowth and you like, see a trout and then you like sneak up on the bank and you cast this delicate little cast, like to the trout that you see. There's another mode of fishing that I don't enjoy. Enjoy. Some people really enjoy. It's called Euro nymphing. You're basically like bouncing this heavily weighted fly along the bottom. You can't see it. It's kind of exhausting. I find it miserable. Some people love it, but you catch a lot more fish. And one of the things I've been running into a lot of the times is a certain kind of person. I was about to say dude, and I stopped myself. But I should just say, like, everybody I met, like, this is in fact a dude, a certain kind of dude who's like, you got a Euro nip. It's such a better way to catch fish. And then they're like, I hate it. It's like, it's miserable. I just don't dry. Fly fishing is so much more fun, but you gotta do it because you catch more fish. It's so much more efficient. And I'm kind of like, we're letting the fish go, man. Like, this is a game. This is a catch and release game. Like, you go out, you catch some number of fish, and. And then you let them go and you go home, and what is the goddamn point? Right? And I think, like, this is. There are times when you're forced to do something because you need to survive. But there are other times where we make these choices. And I think, like, this is. This is like. I think a lot of the times we don't even realize we're making a choice. We think it's forced on us. I think the. The dude that I'm thinking, there's a specific guy I ran into just miserable on the side of the river, just, like, hating his fishing and thinking he had to do this, that he thought it wasn't a choice. He thought he had to optimize for this particular score. And I don't know. That seems to miss the point of the whole thing. Yeah, that's why it's important to me.
