Bawdy Storytelling – Episode 100: ‘Kinktacular Pt 1’ (Folsom St. Fair)
Podcast: Bawdy Storytelling
Host: Dixie De La Tour
Air Date: December 4, 2019
Episode Theme: 100th episode celebration with live-out-loud kink stories recorded at the Folsom Street Fair.
Tone: Candid, sex-positive, irreverent, and hilarious.
Main Theme & Purpose
This episode is a milestone celebration for Bawdy Storytelling’s 100th podcast. Host and sexual folklorist Dixie De La Tour curates her “favorite night ever,” Kinktacular at Folsom Street Fair, featuring live stories about diverse sexual kinks and adventures. Dixie discusses the impact of the show, overcoming perfectionism, and fostering inclusivity in the sex-positive community. Listener testimonials highlight the show’s reach and emotional significance.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Dixie’s Reflections on 100 Episodes and Podcast Origins
- Dixie shares her journey with podcasting—initial false starts due to perfectionism, depression, and technical issues, then returning after realizing the show’s importance to listeners.
- She reveals her struggle for “the perfect episode” and how live storytelling helps her combat perfectionism.
- The Kinktacular show at Folsom is chosen as her best night, representing what Bawdy is all about: wild, authentic, sex-positive community and storytelling.
“Night of show, wherever you are, that’s what you put on stage. And that deadline has been good for me because otherwise I would get mired down... Episode 100 is an episode that I wanted to be perfect.”
—Dixie De La Tour (04:44)
2. Listener Testimonials – The Power of Community
- Listeners describe Bawdy as “home” in isolated, conservative places, and as a source of belonging and self-acceptance.
- Stories about making friendships, finding community, and personal growth.
“Once a week, Bawdy reminds me that there are people like me out there… Bawdy is like home.”
—Blake (11:39)
“Being part of the Bawdy Storytelling world has given me friendships, given me flirtation, given me connections that just make my life better in general.”
—Listener Testimonial (33:55)
“Without you, I wouldn’t be able to masturbate… For the longest time, I just couldn’t. I was mortified of touching my own body. But thanks to Bawdy, I moved past that.”
—Listener Testimonial (54:26)
3. Rachel Lark – “My Vagina Is Eight Miles Wide” & “Pee On Your Mouth” (Live Musical Performances)
- Musical interlude: Rachel Lark brings irreverent humor and explicit lyrics (“My vagina is eight miles wide… everyone can come inside.”) (00:35)
- Later, she performs a playful, detailed, and hilarious song about pee play, personal boundaries, and exploration.
“I’m peeing all over your mustache. So tell me, how does it taste when I pee on your mouth?... I’m gonna get me an account on FetLife. I’m gonna pee on someone tonight.”
—Rachel Lark (14:07–16:45)
- Rachel applauds the on-stage sign language interpreter for improvising with her wild lyrics.
4. Cerulean’s Story – Discovering Ball Busting
- Cerulean recounts her curiosity about ball busting after seeing a comedic video, her struggles to find porn that matched her tastes, and efforts to learn about safety and technique on FetLife.
- She connects with “Alvin” via online ads—highlighting communication, humor, and mutual exploration in kink.
- The story emphasizes active consent, communication of boundaries, and the diversity of domming styles.
“But there’s people like Alvin out there, where they love their kinks and all they want is to do it with someone.”
—Cerulean (33:10)
- Notable moment: after an intense session, she insists on aftercare and cuddling, showing care for both partners’ well-being.
5. Bawdy Show Culture: Kinky Games, Used Panty Sales, and Social Mischief
- In-between stories, Dixie and the announcer describe “fucked up games” at the live show, like Bango (sexy bingo), OK Pervert (analog personal ads), and the infamous “used panty table.”
- Standout anecdote: a performer buys panties to sniff with his husband for intimate storytelling.
“So I thought I’d buy her panties and take them home and we’d sniff them and he’d tell me stories. And I’m standing there with a passel of ten people… I’m like, oh my God, that’s so beautiful.”
—Dixie De La Tour (38:27)
6. Dolan Wolf’s Story – Fisting, Bathhouses, & Exhibitionism at IML (International Mr. Leather)
- Dolan, a self-described ex-pat and former porn star, tells a hilarious, detailed tale of erotic adventure with his husband’s ex-boyfriend, Jeff, at IML in Chicago.
- The story mixes kink, humor, and insight into exhibitionism, communication, and public play.
- Vivid depiction of negotiating fantasies, adapting to public circumstances, and the thrill of a spontaneous audience.
“It swings between being more than I think I can stand and everything I want. And I’m using mindfulness practice to… both be aware that the audience is there and slightly tune them out…”
—Dolan Wolf (47:30)
- Climaxes in a bathhouse gym with an unintended sex show audience of over 100 men, ending with enthusiastic applause.
“I don’t know if you’ve ever come while something the size of a small chicken has been pumping in and out of your ass, but let me tell you, you make a lot of noise.”
—Dolan Wolf (52:15)
Notable Quotes & Moments with Timestamps
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“You know how you have that perfectionist in your head who was always saying, it’s not good enough… The one in my head is loud.”
—Dixie De La Tour (05:23) -
“My vagina is eight miles wide. Absolutely everyone can come inside.”
—Rachel Lark (00:45 — Song) -
“Every time I give a blowjob, I honestly just want to reach up and grab those balls. They’re right there.”
—Cerulean (24:02) -
“Is your penis turning white? … ‘Yeah, it does that.'”
—Cerulean, about being reassured by her partner (29:50) -
“Thank you for punching my cunt, sir.”
—Dolan Wolf (50:45) -
“Always leave the audience wanting more.”
—Dolan Wolf (54:15)
Timestamps for Important Segments
- Dixie’s intro & perfectionism: 01:44–09:55
- Listener testimonial (Blake): 11:18–12:21
- Rachel Lark musical performance #1: 00:35–01:18, and later
- Rachel Lark musical performance #2 (“Pee On Your Mouth”): 12:51–18:43
- Cerulean’s ball busting story: 21:48–33:34
- Listener testimonials interspersed: 11:18, 33:49, 54:26
- Live show games & panty table: 35:39–39:16
- Dolan Wolf’s fisting in the bathhouse story: 40:01–54:22
Episode Flow & Experience
- The skillful blend of vulnerability, humor, raunchiness, and warmth is quintessential Bawdy. Dixie’s monologue, audience interactions, and storytellers create a sense of being part of an honest, welcoming, delightfully “pervy” community.
- Listener testimonials deepen emotional resonance, showing the winding impact of a sex-positive space for self-acceptance.
- Stories move from musical kink comedy to personal exploration and full-on kinky exhibitionism, with authenticity, laughter, and consent at the core.
Summary Table of Main Stories
| Segment | Storyteller/Speaker | Theme/Highlight | Timestamp | |-------------------------|------------------------|-----------------------------------------|---------------| | Musical Opener | Rachel Lark | “My Vagina Is Eight Miles Wide” | 00:35–01:18 | | Dixie’s Origin Reflections | Dixie De La Tour | Podcast journey, perfectionism, Folsom pick | 01:44–09:55 | | Listener Testimonial | Blake | Podcast as “home” in conservative area | 11:18 | | Musical Interlude | Rachel Lark | “Pee On Your Mouth” song | 12:51–18:43 | | Ball Busting Story | Cerulean | Consent, kink exploration, boundaries | 21:48–33:34 | | Community Testimonial | Listener #1 | Self-acceptance, friendship | 33:49 | | Show Games & Panty Sale | Dixie & Announcer | Bango, OK Pervert, used panties | 35:39–39:16 | | Fisting/Bathhouse Story | Dolan Wolf | Exhibitionism, public kink, IML Chicago | 40:01–54:22 | | “Masturbation” Testimonial | Listener #2 | Overcoming shame, self-enjoyment | 54:26 |
Final Thoughts
Episode 100 of Bawdy Storytelling is a rich, riotous celebration of authentic sexual storytelling. Through Dixie’s curation, hilarious musical performances, vulnerable storytelling, outrageous live show hijinks, and heartfelt testimonials, listeners feel the impact and liberation of radical sex-positivity and community. This episode exemplifies Bawdy’s self-described identity as “The Moth for pervs” and sets the stage for more kink-filled stories in Part 2.
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Next Episode Preview:
A tease of stories about being tied up and water tanks, promising even wilder true tales in Kinktacular Pt 2.
“Stuff happened in that show that I just sat there and went, did that actually just happen?”
—Dixie De La Tour (59:34)