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Ina Garten
I'm Ina Garten. I love to invite interesting people to my house for good food, great conversation and lots of fun.
Narrator/Host
My friend Bobby Flay, the award winning chef, food network host, restaurateur and author, is joining me for an amazing day at the barn.
Bobby Flay
Invitation of a lifetime. I'm going to the Ina Gartens house.
Narrator/Host
I'm welcoming him with the with cherry pistachio biscotti.
Bobby Flay
You're gonna give me the recipe of this, right?
Ina Garten
I'll give you the recipe. Okay, perfect.
Narrator/Host
Then I'm showing Bobby how to make Irish coffee affogato.
Bobby Flay
This is the kind of fusion I like.
Narrator/Host
We're sharing confidences. We're getting deep ina career highs and lows.
Bobby Flay
People were getting up out of their seats in the middle of dinner and going home.
Narrator/Host
Then Bobby's showing me a simple and speedy Italian supper. Fettuccine with anchovy butter.
Ina Garten
Can I say what I always say, how easy is that? So glad you're here.
Bobby Flay
Oh, I'm glad because I'm staying the weekend.
Ina Garten
Bobby Flay just knocks me out. And when you hear his story, you're going to be knocked out too. He does restaurants, a lot of great restaurants. He does amazing TV shows. He does cookbooks. He's also a very good friend and I can't wait to spend the day with him. So Bobby asked me to make him a really easy dessert for a dinner party. So we're going to make together Irish coffee, avocado. And to go with it, I thought it'd be nice to have cherry, pistachio or biscotti. Biscotti are twice baked cookies. I've done the first bake and while I slice them for the second bake, let me tell you what I've done so far. The biscotti dough is easy. I just put 112 sticks of unsalted room temperature butter into the bowl of my electric mixer, along with a cup of light brown sugar, half a cup of granulated sugar, one and a half teaspoons of ground cinnamon, and creamed them all together on medium speed for 3 minutes until the mixture was light and fluffy. Then I turned the mixer to low and gradually added two whole eggs and one egg yolk plus two teaspoons of vanilla extract. Then I slowly added the dry mix, which is three cups of all purpose flour, one and a third cups of almond flour, a teaspoon of baking powder and half a teaspoon of kosher salt. When it was combined, I turned off the mixer, removed the bowl from the stand and added half a cup of shelled whole pistachios, half a cup of whole dried cherries and stirred the dough with a wooden spoon. Next I transferred the dough onto a floured board, rolled it into a ball, cut it in half, and with floured hands rolled each piece into a cylinder about 11 inches long and 2 inches in diameter and placed them both on a baking sheet three inches apart. I brushed them with beaten egg white, sprinkled them with a teaspoon of turbinado sugar and baked them at 300 degrees for 45 minutes. Then I let them cool for 30 minutes. So I cut the biscotti half inch thick at about a 45 degree angle and put them on a sheet pan. And now I'm just brushing it with egg wash. Just makes them nice and brown. I've actually known Bobby forever. We've both been on Food Network for so long. What's amazing about Bobby, when you go to his house. He's such an incredible cook. It's just intuitive. It's just such a pleasure to watch him work. And he's so happy doing it. Of course, when he comes here, I'm like a bundle of nerves because I want it to be really good. Okay, that's the egg white. Now I'm just gonna sprinkle em with turbinado sugar. Just get a little crunch on top. Okay. Into the oven 275 degrees for 45 minutes, and they'll be nice and crisp. I'm gonna turn them halfway through. And while they bake, let me tell you a little more about Bobby.
Narrator/Host
Bobby Flay is a multi talented chef, TV host, restaurateur, and author. He grew up on the Upper east side of Manhattan and at just 17 years old, got his first break at Joe Allen's famed restaurant and went on to study at the French Culinary Institute in New York City. At 25, he opened his first restaurant, Mesa Grill, winning the coveted James Beard Rising Chef award. Two years later, he has opened many successful restaurants all across America, serving up Spanish, French, Italian, and American cuisine. His incredible food network career has spanned over three decades, hosting wildly successful cooking competition and travel shows.
Bobby Flay
Grazie.
Narrator/Host
He has been awarded four Daytime Emmys, written 16 bestselling cookbooks, and is the first chef ever to receive a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.
Ina Garten
Wow. Bobby really is one of the hardest working people I've ever known. He's amazing. So I'm taking the biscotti. I'm just gonna put them on a cooling rack to cool until he gets here. Can't wait to see him.
Bobby Flay
I'm here at Ina's. I cannot wait. This is so exciting. Have a little conversation, cook a little food. All right, Ina, here I come.
Ina Garten
Okay, I'm ready to pull everything together for the Irish coffee affogato. Affogato's just ice cream and the hot espresso over it. But I'm gonna make an Irish coffee one. It's even better. So I'm gonna start with ice cream, Vanilla ice cream. And I have sweetened whipped cream. Cause can never have too much cream. So all this is really is whipped cream, vanilla and sugar, and it's gonna go on the top. Okay, next I need coffee liqueur and Irish whiskey.
Bobby Flay
It's good to be back. This is a special place.
Ina Garten
I think Bobby's gonna love this dessert. It's really easy and it's kind of a showstopper. I've made espresso for avogados.
Bobby Flay
Ina, Bobby back In this special place. I'm so happy to see you. Good to see you too. Thanks for having me over.
Ina Garten
I'm so sorry about Nach.
Bobby Flay
Yes, thank you so much.
Ina Garten
Nachos. Bobby's really famous big cat. And he was a big cat, right?
Bobby Flay
Yes, £21.
Ina Garten
Really?
Bobby Flay
Oh, yeah.
Ina Garten
But also he has a line of cat food named after him. Right.
Bobby Flay
So, you know, he inspired me to come up with a cat food line and it's called Made by Nacho, obviously.
Ina Garten
Made by Nacho. I love that.
Bobby Flay
In his likeness, his inspiration. Of course. I've been feeding or helping people like you have get dinner to their tables every single night in one shape or know one way, shape or form or another. Whether it's through my books or my restaurants, obviously through tv. And my cats are so important to me. Yeah, I have two. So I. So prior to Nacho's passing, I got a new one named Canelo, which means cinnamon in Spanish. And then I have.
Ina Garten
And they are cinnamon colored.
Bobby Flay
They. They are. And I have. I have another one named Stella.
Ina Garten
Yeah. Oh, oh, you've got a whole bunch of cats.
Bobby Flay
So we have Allspice, Canelo and Stella.
Ina Garten
Oh, yeah. So they have buddies, they can play around.
Bobby Flay
Absolutely.
Ina Garten
And they're happy when you come home, right?
Bobby Flay
Oh, for sure. And I'm happy when I get home.
Ina Garten
That's for sure, isn't it? That's actually what it's all about.
Bobby Flay
You're gonna make me cry before you even sit down and talk.
Ina Garten
Come on. You asked me to make you a really easy Italian dessert.
Bobby Flay
Yeah. You know, my dessert making skills are like, week.
Ina Garten
Well, this isn't baking. So you're good. Well, I made some biscotti, so I like the biscotti. Help yourself. So it's cherry and pistachio biscotti.
Bobby Flay
Okay.
Ina Garten
And it's gonna go with an affogato. And because you're Irish, I thought I'd make you an Irish coffee affogato.
Bobby Flay
Oh, I love that.
Ina Garten
How does that sound? Yeah, that sounds good.
Bobby Flay
A little bit of my blood, but also my desire. Exactly, exactly.
Ina Garten
So I'm just gonna do two scoops.
Bobby Flay
So we have vanilla ice cream. We have the cherry. It's cherry.
Narrator/Host
And what else?
Ina Garten
And pistachio.
Bobby Flay
Those are my two favorite things.
Ina Garten
Really?
Bobby Flay
I knew that.
Ina Garten
How did I know that?
Bobby Flay
Because cherries and pistachios, that Sicilian thing, you know, And I love that combination. Yeah.
Ina Garten
Oh, good. So this is vanilla ice cream. And I'm going to put a tablespoon of coffee liqueur on each one.
Bobby Flay
Lovely.
Ina Garten
Tablespoon of Irish whiskey on each one.
Bobby Flay
This is the kind of fusion I like.
Ina Garten
Is that correct? Italian and Irish.
Bobby Flay
Exactly.
Ina Garten
And two tablespoons of espresso. You know, just make it an espresso machine. A little whipped cream. Just because I can't help myself.
Bobby Flay
I love it. The biscotti are delicious, by the way.
Ina Garten
They're good, huh? Thank you. Oh, good. Thank you. And I put a little bit of chocolate on top. Irish coffee affogato.
Bobby Flay
I love it.
Ina Garten
How's that?
Bobby Flay
Can I give it a try?
Ina Garten
Of course you can.
Bobby Flay
Cheers.
Ina Garten
Cheers. How fun is this? Is it a good combination?
Bobby Flay
The whiskey and the coffee liqueur work really, really well together.
Ina Garten
Oh, good.
Bobby Flay
See, I knew Irish and Italian. They can get along. Exactly.
Ina Garten
That's actually pretty good, isn't it? You know, you don't remember this, but I remember when we first met. It was like 1999, my first book had come out, and you were already Bobby Fly. You had restaurants, you had cookbooks, you had TV shows. I mean, that was really early. That was incredible. And Jeffrey and I were seated at a table at Nick and Tony's, and you were at the next table. And I said to Jeffrey, that's Bobby Fly.
Bobby Flay
Really?
Ina Garten
I did, really? And I was just like. I pulled myself together and I thought, I'm just gonna go over and introduce myself. Cause we shared the same editor, right? Remember? And that was the first time I ever met you. And when I think back, I had just started, but you had already just done so much.
Bobby Flay
Yeah, but you. But you had the barefoot contestant. Yeah, of course.
Ina Garten
That's different.
Bobby Flay
It was great.
Ina Garten
Anyway. Are these the biggest biscotti you've ever.
Bobby Flay
Seen in your life? Yeah, but they're really good, actually. A lot of times when you see biscotti this big, sometimes they're a little bit dry. But this is fantastic.
Ina Garten
Thank you.
Bobby Flay
It's really great.
Ina Garten
Yeah. I hate when they break your teeth.
Bobby Flay
You'll give me the recipe of this, right?
Ina Garten
I'll give you the recipe.
Bobby Flay
Okay, perfect.
Ina Garten
Let's go sit and talk.
Bobby Flay
All right, let's do it. I can't wait.
Ina Garten
So nice having Bobby here.
Narrator/Host
Coming up, life changing breaks.
Ina Garten
I'm just going to cry. Look what that guy just did for you.
Narrator/Host
And breaking points.
Bobby Flay
I was like, wow, I guess this restaurant's over. We just opened.
Narrator/Host
Then it's a Bobby play kitchen takeover.
Ina Garten
If Bobby tells you to put all the chives in, you put all the chives in.
Narrator/Host
He's showing me how to make fettuccine and anchovy butter that's so delicious.
Ina Garten
My friend Bobby Flay is here spending the entire day with me, which is so great.
Bobby Flay
I love it.
Ina Garten
I don't really need to introduce him because everybody knows who he is. That's so nice. Do you remember your first show, Bobby's Grillin and Chillin'? I just happened to have seen it. You were wearing sunglasses and Bermuda shorts.
Bobby Flay
And now you saw this show.
Ina Garten
I did.
Bobby Flay
I'm so sorry for you.
Ina Garten
Oh, I thought it was great.
Bobby Flay
Hey, I'm Bobby Flay, and welcome to Grill and Chillin'. Okay, well, first of all, grilling and chilling. I'll just give you a little background on that. I know when that show was shot because my daughter Sophie, who's 27, was 10 days old.
Ina Garten
Oh, yeah.
Bobby Flay
And we shot it on the back lot of the Home Shopping Network, and we shot 42 shows in seven days. You have to remember.
Ina Garten
That's insane.
Bobby Flay
Before you got there, there was no editing. You know that?
Ina Garten
No.
Bobby Flay
You had to shoot TV live to tape.
Ina Garten
Wow.
Bobby Flay
That's why I shoot so fast these days. Same thing. Because I'm just always learning how to do it. I learned how to do it that way. So we had a hit. The commercial breaks, like, to the T, and it was like, me and this guy, Jack McDavid, he was like this country guy. I was the city guy. And they threw some food on a picnic table and, like, go. So you get all these ingredients going, and you let this cook down for a while. You want to let it cook for a good 25 to 35 minutes.
Ina Garten
Were you terrified?
Bobby Flay
I did have an anxiety attack the night before we started shooting, I would imagine. But it was really bad television. But I really believe it was so bad that it was good.
Ina Garten
You know, I. I think that you changed something in America, which is that you made it cool to be a chef, really. And I think you've changed an entire generation of boys who think it's really cool to cook and to be restaurateurs. And do you have a sense of that?
Bobby Flay
A little bit. It's interesting that you bring that up. I mean, I think years ago, I think now it's different. I think that obviously, with the Food Network and the popularity of just cooking in general across the country, you know, there's not so much that connotation, but early on, like, I would go to a football game and I'd see some, like, sort of, like, real rah rah guys, like, come up to me and be like, thank you so much for doing what you do. Like, you let it's cool. Now we can cook.
Ina Garten
Absolutely.
Bobby Flay
So there was definitely. There was definitely sort of a moment where, like, you know, guys weren't sure whether it was okay for them to say that they really like to cook for whatever reason.
Ina Garten
And now all of a sudden, it's totally cool.
Bobby Flay
Oh, yeah.
Ina Garten
I think people think you had a less traditional background, but the truth is, you grew up in the Upper east side of Manhattan. Your dad was a lawyer. Right. You went to Catholic school. I can't imagine you went to Catholic school. Every Catholic school.
Bobby Flay
Every Catholic school.
Ina Garten
Why did you get thrown out of all of them?
Bobby Flay
I just like to meet a lot of the different saints. Saint Ignatius, Saint Jean, Saint Vincent, Saint Monica's. There was absolutely no question in my mind, although it's not actually documented, that I had a learning disability at some level.
Ina Garten
Oh, isn't that interesting?
Bobby Flay
When I was in high school, I did no work. I had no interest in open. I went to a really good Catholic school called Xavier, which is where my dad went. I got thrown out after the first year. And my father said to me, if you're gonna quit school, like, you need to go get a job. Like, this is not. Just go hang out in the street corner with your friends and play stickball. And so he was partners with a guy named Joe Allen.
Ina Garten
Joe Allen had a fabulous restaurant in the theater district in New York, which everybody went to.
Bobby Flay
My father was partners with Joe, and so he was helping him run that restaurant. And the busboy had, like, a sick grandparent that he needed to go visit for two weeks.
Ina Garten
Yeah.
Bobby Flay
And my father called me up and said, get here. Now. You have a job for two weeks. So I did it for two weeks. And the busboy came back, and I was literally walking out of the front door. And the chef said to me, hey, Bobby, you want a job in the kitchen?
Ina Garten
I'm just gonna cry. Look at what that guy just did for you.
Bobby Flay
And so I took the job, and I started out, you know, in the pantry, so to speak, making salad dressings and learning how to cut things. And I realized about six months into it.
Ina Garten
Yeah.
Bobby Flay
I remember waking up, laying in bed right before work and staring at the ceiling and thinking to myself, I can't wait to go to work today.
Ina Garten
Oh, how fabulous.
Bobby Flay
So, you know, a year and a half later, Joe Allen came to me and said, there's a new school opening up downtown called the French Culinary Institute.
Ina Garten
Best school in America. Yeah, at the time.
Bobby Flay
And he said, why don't you go down there and take a look? And I said, Joe, I can't go back to school. And he said, this is different. He said, this is not classroom work. You're gonna have knives and you're gonna cook. I decided that I was going to go to the school. And on the very first day that I was supposed to go in and sign my loan for the tuition, Joe handed me an envelope and said, this is from me. You owe me nothing. I just want you to have this. And he gave me my tuition.
Ina Garten
What was an incredible thing to do?
Bobby Flay
No, it was an amazing thing to do.
Ina Garten
I'm a wreck just hearing it. I mean, that's really incredible, because it really means everybody's got to keep going. You got to keep trying things. You got to be exposed to things that you didn't even know you were interested in. And the one thing that clicks is the thing you should be doing.
Bobby Flay
Well, that's the thing. You just never know when it's going to happen.
Ina Garten
You never know when it's going to happen.
Bobby Flay
And my father, like, has said some, like, a handful of, like, very short things to me that I always have in the back of my head. And one of the things he said to me was, always do a good job, no matter what, because you never know who's watching.
Ina Garten
Yeah.
Bobby Flay
And that person can change your life forever.
Ina Garten
Yeah.
Bobby Flay
And he's right about that.
Ina Garten
Yeah.
Bobby Flay
I mean, he's his. His. I always reach. Reach for my dad's guidance when I'm looking for the fundamentals of life. So he'll say things to me like, don't try to make every nickel. Just make it good. And he'll say, just do the right thing. And I'll say, what do you mean by that? And he'll say to me, you know.
Ina Garten
Exactly what I mean.
Bobby Flay
Because you know. You know that you're doing the right thing or you're not.
Ina Garten
It's funny, I always say to myself, if you do something for the money, it never works out. If you do something because you love it, it always works out.
Bobby Flay
Yes.
Ina Garten
Like Jeffrey. Jeffrey originally said to me when I was singing by him barefoot, do what you love. If you love it, you'd be really good at it. And I thought, that's all you need to know. After culinary school, you went to work at Jonathan Waxman's restaurants. It was the beginning of California cuisine in New York, and he was huge. What did he teach you?
Bobby Flay
Jonathan was the first person to teach me what good food was. Flavor and technique, respect for the ingredients. These are all things that we hear now every day. It wasn't so much the case in the middle of the 80s. And I just remember even, like, just taking the corn off the cob. I was like, oh, wow. That's how you do it. I mean, you don't open up a bag. I mean, I was a kid of the 60s. You know, my mother used to make Mexicali corn and frozen corn in the bag.
Ina Garten
You know, my mother used canned corn, which was worse. Right.
Bobby Flay
So just the idea of this freshness and the way that you utilize it.
Ina Garten
Tell me what it was like opening your first restaurant.
Bobby Flay
I was 25 when I opened Mesa Grill.
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Wow.
Bobby Flay
I'll never forget the night we opened because it was the first day we went to war with Iraq. The first time. Wow. I remember at 6 o', clock, my business partner, Jerry Kretschmer, watched me put out the very first plate of food. And he said, congratulations. We just went to war. And people were getting up out of their seats in the middle of dinner and going home because they wanted to see what was going on, rightly so. And so I was like, wow, I guess this restaurant's over. We just opened, you know, but we had so much good pre. Press and prior to it that we got through that part of it.
Ina Garten
And then it got rave review from the New York Times.
Bobby Flay
Life changing.
Ina Garten
It's just totally chaos.
Bobby Flay
I've had more dreams and nightmares about New York Times restaurant critics than anybody else. And they can literally, you know, they say make or break. They can make or break.
Ina Garten
Literally make or break it.
Bobby Flay
Oh, yeah.
Ina Garten
How important are restaurant critics?
Bobby Flay
I mean, we. We have, you know, the New York Times restaurant critics. We have their photos, we have their aliases, we have their phone numbers, we have their email addresses. We have their wife's email address. We have their wife's phone numbers. We have it all. Because we want to know when they're.
Ina Garten
Coming in, when they're there, you know? Yeah.
Bobby Flay
You know, sometimes you catch them and sometimes you don't.
Ina Garten
So I always think that failure is a great teacher. Is there something that you had a really hard time with that kind of almost brought you to your knees that ended up being a good thing?
Bobby Flay
Brought me to my knees.
Ina Garten
Maybe not that dramatic.
Bobby Flay
I don't think. Well, I've always been a fighter. And so it's one of those things where I'll tell you something interesting about. About failure. Failure is a good thing. Failure is a very good thing to have in your life and your repertoire as long as you can get past it.
Ina Garten
Yeah. And that's what I think the difference between successful People and not successful people is they don't let failure stop them. They actually, when they hit a wall, they figure it out.
Bobby Flay
You know, interesting, I think, about failure and losing and things like that. I talked to Michael Simon about this, who's as, you know, a good friend of mine and yours as well. And he and I were always, you know, athletes as kids. Because of that, we really learned how to lose. And I think because you can't always win when you're an athlete, can't always win, so you lose a lot and you're taught to be a good loser, a good sportsman, so to speak, and shake hands at the end and all those things. And I think that that has really rubbed off on me. And when something doesn't go right, I shake it off and I try to do better the next time. Or if I'm on Iron Chef or beat Bobby Flay and I lose, I shake that person's hand. I congratulate them for doing a great job. There's no sore losing because the other thing that you have to remember is that especially on tv, people don't remember how you win, but they do remember how you lose. How you lose. Exactly.
Ina Garten
Must have been 10 years ago I heard you Guild Hall. I don't think you knew I was in the audience. And a young boy raised his hand, he must have been like 18. And he said, how do I get a show on Food Network? And you gave the smartest answer. I'm sure you've been asked this question a lot. Do you remember what you said?
Bobby Flay
I probably said, learn how to cook first.
Ina Garten
Exactly. So you don't just get a show on Food Network.
Bobby Flay
Well, going back to something my dad would always say to me, which is look at the big picture as opposed to instant gratification, right? So the big picture is this. If an 18 year old boy says to me, I want a show on the Food Network, let's say he's a phenomenon. And if you watch some of these people that are on TikTok and Instagram, et cetera, some of them are phenomenons, meaning they're really popular very quickly. Okay, that can happen for sure. But if, if I'm going to mentor this 18 year old person, I'm going to say to them, let's not try to get lucky, let's just be good and let's look for longevity. So if you take the time now and put in the work, create a foundation of something that you love to do that can never be taken away from you. And when you get the. And when you get the right opportunity, you will have the repertoire to go forever. Not for two weeks, not for two months, not for two years. Forever. And that's the difference. And that's why I think that I've had some success. That's been a long period as 40 years.
Ina Garten
Right. How long have you been. When did you first start?
Bobby Flay
Well, I, I. Well, I first started cooking when I was 17. I'm 58, so, yes, 41 years. I've been on the Food Network for close to 30.
Ina Garten
Incredible.
Bobby Flay
Yeah.
Ina Garten
You and I had dinner together. I think it was 2018. And you were going off for six weeks to Rome. And I think that trip really changed your life. How did it change your life?
Bobby Flay
So Monday through Friday, from, from 9:00am to. To noon, I would take Italian classes.
Ina Garten
Yeah.
Bobby Flay
And then I'd go have an amazing lunch somewhere, take a siesta, and then go to dinner. And that's what. That was my life for six, six weeks. It changed my life because I learned two really important lessons there. I learned that I could be alone and be happy. Wasn't sure.
Ina Garten
That's tough.
Bobby Flay
I wasn't sure.
Ina Garten
I'm not so good at that.
Bobby Flay
Yeah. And I learned that I did not have to work to be happy.
Ina Garten
Those are really good lessons.
Bobby Flay
Cooking in somebody else's restaurant is not work to me. It's discovery. It's playtime. It's like, it's learning. And so when I'm in. When I'm in the States, in New York, I'm running my restaurants and running my businesses. I'm running my production company, you know, And I think that I get. I get taken for a workaholic all the time because people see me working so much, and I enjoy my work. I love my work, but I don't need it to be happy.
Ina Garten
That's a great thing to find out. That was a really good vacation.
Bobby Flay
It was an amazing vacation. Those two, Those two things, really, it was nice. It was. It was nice for me to, To. To. To. To realize those two things. So what scares you besides New York Times, restaurant critics? What scares me?
Ina Garten
Wow.
Bobby Flay
That's a. We're getting deep. I know. I take solace in the fact that I have a skill that basically saved my life. I do get nervous sometimes that I'm not gonna be as good a cook as I was yesterday or that I'm gonna be left behind in being relevant. Because everything that I do, Travel, love, make a living, it all revolves around cooking. It's the way I show my adoration to people. I cook for them.
Ina Garten
So what are we cooking together?
Bobby Flay
Simple dish fresh pasta with anchovy butter and some chives.
Ina Garten
Oh, that sounds delicious. I love anchovies so you pick the right person.
Bobby Flay
Perfect.
Narrator/Host
Coming up, Bobby's Fast Fresh fettuccine made with my favorite ingredient tastes butter.
Ina Garten
Are you kidding me?
Narrator/Host
Is the perfect speedy supper.
Bobby Flay
You can make this any night of the week.
Ina Garten
He's just the perfect guest.
Bobby Flay
I'll be here cooking you breakfast every morning. It'll be good.
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Ina Garten
I'm spending the Day with Bobby Flay. How great is that? And you're gonna show me one of your favorite really easy pastas. Right?
Bobby Flay
So this pasta dish really could not be simpler.
Ina Garten
That works for me.
Bobby Flay
Some of the great pasta dishes of the world are incredibly simp. This one is fresh fettuccine with anchovy. Then basically that's the whole.
Ina Garten
Oh, that sounds stupid.
Bobby Flay
That's the whole game. I'm gonna start by making the bread crumbs. Okay. So the first thing I'm gonna do is I'm gonna crush some garlic. So the way I like to use garlic is almost always is I like to crush it into a paste. What I do is I chop it kind of coarsely like this, and then I crush it with the back of my knife. And then I take some kosher salt and spread it on top and just keep going. And then I take the back of.
Ina Garten
You don't want to bite into garlic. You just want to have the flavor of it.
Bobby Flay
I want the garlic to kind of melt away into the pan.
Ina Garten
Isn't this interesting?
Bobby Flay
Okay, so I'm going to take a little bit of love cooking with Bobby, a little bit of olive oil and then tiny bit of. I'm going to borrow a little bit of your butter here.
Ina Garten
Just a little.
Bobby Flay
Yeah, exactly. It's always your butter. And then we're going to let this melt and then we're going to take the bread crumbs. I'm sorry, we're going to take the garlic first as you saute the garlic a tiny bit. And this dish, this dish I'm inspired by a restaurant in Rome called Richoli. Richoli is a salumaria. It's got, it's got lots of like cold cuts, et cetera, cured meats, you know, marinated anchovies and things like that. But it's also a, you know, a full on restaurant. Very, very popular, very difficult to get a reservation in. But they make this anchovy pasta. They do it a little bit differently than I do because I've made it with the chef before. He throws the anchovies into the saute pan and then finishes it with butter. I make an anchovy butter. So basically it's all the flavors are together. But, you know, every chef does things differently.
Ina Garten
Same ingredients, different process.
Bobby Flay
Exactly. Right. We're going to take the garlic first as you saute the garlic a tiny bit. All right. So I just want, I don't want to. I don't want my garlic to get brown. Now we're going to throw in the Breadcrumbs.
Ina Garten
Is it breadcrumbs or is it.
Bobby Flay
It's panko breadcrumbs. Yep. A little salt and pepper texture. And then I just want to mix it together. And the thing that you want to do here is make sure that you cook them evenly. So we don't want to overcook them in terms of like, you know, over browning them, so to speak.
Ina Garten
You don't want any burnt flavor from it.
Bobby Flay
You just want the crunch of the breadcrumbs. Exactly. But you definitely want them to be crunchy. All right, you want to start with the.
Ina Garten
What am I doing?
Bobby Flay
All right, well, you're just going to take some butter. We have one and a half.
Ina Garten
All of it.
Bobby Flay
One and a half.
Ina Garten
Okay. And it's room temperature butter.
Bobby Flay
It's room temperature butter. And then we need six anchovy filets.
Ina Garten
Okay.
Bobby Flay
So you can see, like, how the breadcrumbs are starting to look golden. This is exactly what you want. Perfectly.
Ina Garten
Okay. How's that? Am I going to do it?
Bobby Flay
Some salt and pepper.
Ina Garten
And salt and pepper. Okay.
Bobby Flay
Yeah. And then you just. You puree until.
Ina Garten
Until they're all combined.
Bobby Flay
Exactly. Nice and smooth.
Ina Garten
This is why you want the butter to be room temperature.
Bobby Flay
Exactly.
Ina Garten
Those smell so good. You can really. Oh, and you're putting lemon in it, too.
Bobby Flay
Little lemon zest at the end. So it's lemon, garlic. That's basically it.
Ina Garten
Oh, it's better if you pulse it a little bit.
Bobby Flay
Oh, that looks good.
Ina Garten
So do you not want to see any anchovies at all?
Bobby Flay
It doesn't matter. It's totally fine. So then we have these beautifully toasted panko breadcrumbs. I think that's perfect. All right.
Ina Garten
Okay. How's that?
Bobby Flay
Can you give it a taste?
Ina Garten
Yeah. Tastes.
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Ina Garten
Are you kidding me?
Bobby Flay
Butter and anchovies.
Ina Garten
And salt.
Bobby Flay
Is the.
Ina Garten
Way you want it?
Bobby Flay
Yes. It's delicious. I mean, now, don't forget it's definitely has an intense anchovy flavor, which I think is good.
Ina Garten
Yeah. I don't think it's too much.
Bobby Flay
No, I don't think it's too much either. But what I'm really tasting it is for the salt content, because we put salt in there. Of course the anchovies are salty.
Ina Garten
Okay, next we're gonna make the pasta.
Bobby Flay
So we have some water boiling, and I'm gonna add some salt to that.
Ina Garten
Okay.
Bobby Flay
Do you wanna chop some chives?
Ina Garten
I'd be delighted to chop chives.
Bobby Flay
So I'm gonna start by putting the fresh pasta right into the salted boiling water. Rapid boiling and fresh pasta, as we know ina goes very, very quickly.
Ina Garten
So what are you talking about, three to five minutes?
Bobby Flay
Oh, no, I don't think so. I think probably around 90 seconds. Really? Yeah, Something along those lines. We still want it to have, like, a little bit of an al dente bite to it.
Ina Garten
And it's going to keep cooking.
Bobby Flay
It's going to. That's a really good point. It's going to keep cooking as we're. As we're folding in the anchovy butter and all that alike. So, you know, something around 90 seconds. But listen, again, I always tell people, and you know, when I'm walking around my kitchens and I'm talking to my cooks, like, I basically say the same two things all day long for the last 40 years.
Ina Garten
What are they?
Bobby Flay
I say, did you season it with salt and pepper on both sides? Let's say they're cooking a steak. Salt and pepper is like, the thing that comes out of my mouth most. And the other one is. Did you taste it? Because if you're not chewing in my kitchen, you're not cooking. You can't cook by eye. You can think, like, if you're making. Even if when you're making a salad and you're dressing it, you think it looks right. But just take a leaf and taste it. I'm gonna take now some of the pasta water to come with me into the pan.
Ina Garten
As Americans, we always made the pasta, and then we dumped the sauce on the top of it. And what Italians do is they undercook the pasta a little bit, put it in a pan, cook it with the sauce. And it gets absorbed into the pasta.
Bobby Flay
Exactly.
Ina Garten
It's like night and day.
Bobby Flay
And the pasta water that we use to cook the pasta has starch in it. Has starch in it. And so you might as well use it. Cause you've already made it.
Ina Garten
Thickens the sauce.
Bobby Flay
And it's free. All right.
Ina Garten
And it's free.
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Bobby Flay
It's free. Okay, so now take our anchovy butter, Chef. Yeah, we're gonna let the anchovy butter glaze the pasta. We're gonna whisk the anchovy butter into the pasta.
Ina Garten
It smells so good.
Bobby Flay
So what happens is the butter and the pasta water.
Ina Garten
Yeah. Make a sauce.
Bobby Flay
They make a sauce. You can see I undercooked the pasta just a tiny bit so that we can let this cook and become sort of part of the pasta itself. Okay, so now we're just going to add all these chives.
Ina Garten
All the chives?
Bobby Flay
Yeah. All of them or most of them. Okay, keep going.
Ina Garten
How about like that?
Bobby Flay
That's good.
Ina Garten
Is that good?
Bobby Flay
Yeah.
Ina Garten
Okay.
Bobby Flay
I know I made you nervous. I didn't.
Ina Garten
I.
Bobby Flay
You were like, wait, you want all these chives?
Ina Garten
If Bobby tells you to put all the chives in, you put all the chives in. Oh, how gorgeous is this?
Bobby Flay
This is so incredibly simple.
Ina Garten
Wow.
Bobby Flay
Toasted breadcrumbs.
Ina Garten
Can I say what I always say? How easy is that? Exactly. Oh, I love the lemon too.
Bobby Flay
Absolutely.
Ina Garten
That is stunning. I can't wait to taste this.
Bobby Flay
Sounds good to me.
Ina Garten
The texture, the flavor. You don't know the anchovies are in there, but it has a depth of. That's so delicious. I'm so making this.
Bobby Flay
And simple. You can make this any night of the week.
Ina Garten
Yeah. Let's go sit down.
Bobby Flay
All right.
Ina Garten
You really like to entertain, right?
Bobby Flay
I do.
Ina Garten
So do you like a big crowd or you like small dinners or.
Bobby Flay
You know, interestingly, I don't. I. I have a hard time cooking for four. It's just because I'm in the restaurant business, you know, So I need. I usually need like a dozen to feel comfortable.
Ina Garten
It starts out, I invite four or six and then I cook for a dozen. Yeah, I mean, that's a problem.
Bobby Flay
I have lunches at my house out here.
Ina Garten
Yeah, we love lunch.
Bobby Flay
And lunch is my. I love lunch. And usually I have them on Saturday afternoons around 1:30. It's sort of like what I like to do. And I invite, you know, friends and acquaintances and family, et cetera. Obviously you've been to a couple of lunch.
Ina Garten
I love your lunches.
Bobby Flay
I love that. I love when you cook.
Ina Garten
Everybody's hanging around the kitchen when you're cooking.
Bobby Flay
Yeah. And also once we sit down, it's all family style. It's all there and it becomes like this beautiful, leisurely three and a half hour, lots of wine, lunch.
Ina Garten
It feels like Tuscany or Provence. Bobby, just promise me you come back and make more pasta.
Bobby Flay
Oh, no, I'm not leaving. This is it. I'll be here cooking you breakfast every morning.
Ina Garten
You'll be good. Wouldn't that be great? How fabulous was that? If you loved this episode of Be My Guest, the podcast with me, Ina Garten. Please make sure to rate and review us on Apple podcasts. It would mean so much to me. Thanks. Cheers.
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Ina Garten
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Okay, how's this?
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Food Network | Sept 29, 2024
Ina Garten welcomes her longtime friend, renowned chef and television personality Bobby Flay, to her East Hampton home for a day of cooking, reflection, and conversation. The episode moves fluidly between hands-on kitchen segments (cherry pistachio biscotti, Irish coffee affogato, and fettuccine with anchovy butter) and warm, thoughtful discussions about Bobby’s life, culinary journey, career highs and setbacks, personal inspirations, and the lessons that have shaped him. It’s a celebration of food, friendship, perseverance, and savoring life—flavored with laughter and heart.
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Warm, honest, deeply personal, and sprinkled with laughter. Ina and Bobby’s longstanding friendship shines throughout, as does their mutual respect and shared passion for food and the connections it fosters. Their banter is cozy, inviting, and often gently self-deprecating—a perfect listen for food lovers and anyone seeking inspiration to pursue their craft and embrace life’s detours.