Choking in Golf: The Scott Becker Story 9-22-25 - Becker Business

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Episode: Choking in Golf: The Scott Becker Story 9-22-25
Date: September 22, 2025
Host: Scott Becker

1. Episode Overview

In this episode, Scott Becker steps away from his usual business and investment topics to share a personal and lighthearted story about “choking” during a crucial moment in his golf club’s tournament. Through self-deprecating humor and relatable frustrations, Becker weaves themes of accountability, coping with failure, and the sometimes irrational instincts we have when things go wrong.

2. Key Discussion Points & Insights

Scott's Tournament Experience

Making the Semifinals:
Becker expresses surprise and pride at making it to the semifinals of his club tournament.
- “I was so proud of myself. I made it to the semifinals of our club tournament, which I know is so first world and so embarrassing.” (00:12)
Facing a Better Opponent:
He admits playing against an opponent “much better than me,” emphasizing the challenge and his underdog status.
The Choke on the 18th Hole:
The story centers around the 18th hole, where he needed only to get the ball on the green but failed due to a poor shot into the sand trap, followed by another unsuccessful attempt to escape the bunker.
- “All I had to do was get on the green and I put the ball in the sand trap and then didn't get out of the sand trap and voila, my chance at the finals is gone.” (00:35)

Emotional Response & Coping Mechanisms

Initial Blame on Equipment:
Becker humorously recounts how his instinctive reaction was to blame his club.
- “My first instinct is of course that the club that I was using... that there is something wrong with the club and I need to replace the club.” (01:00)
Shopping Therapy:
He jokes about planning to visit golf stores to look at new clubs as a way of coping, even while acknowledging it's a distraction.
- “My first thought is that I am immediately taking the car and going to PGA Superstore or the Golf Galaxy. That this club deserves a lot of the blame.” (01:10)
Moment of Reflection & Accountability:
He ultimately accepts personal responsibility.
- “Then of course I reflect, I realize that that is not the problem, that I am the problem. I am the problem.” (01:25)

Honest Self-Assessment and Humor

Acceptance, Not Avoidance:
Becker points out he avoided unhealthy coping strategies (like drinking or lashing out), and jokes about needing a “12 step program for golf.”
- “I was pleased. I got some fire... I didn't kick the dog, I didn't get intoxicated. So I viewed that as a win.” (02:10)
- “I do need a 12 step program for golf. It is what it is. It was a depressing Saturday.” (01:50)
Self-Deprecation and Humanity:
He humorously refers to himself as an “idiot” for likely buying new clubs anyway, despite knowing it won’t fix the core issue.
- “But I probably will buy and look at, you know, some clubs anyways because I'm an idiot.” (02:22)

3. Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On Accountability:
“I realize that that is not the problem, that I am the problem. I am the problem.” — Scott Becker (01:25)
On Golf-Related Retail Therapy:
“Today is Monday and it will probably happen finally at some point to salve my wounds, even recognizing that I'm the problem, not the club is the problem, I probably will take a step out to the PGA Store or Golf Galaxy to look at clubs because I just can't help myself.” — Scott Becker (01:40)
On Perspective:
“I didn't kick the dog, I didn't get intoxicated. So I viewed that as a win. I didn't even take my anti-anxiety drug. So I feel like I handled the loss as well as could be handled.” — Scott Becker (02:10)
Self-Awareness:
"I've not yet hit rock bottom. But I do need a 12 step program for golf. It is what it is." — Scott Becker (01:50)

4. Timestamps for Important Segments

00:12 – Scott introduces his personal story of making the semifinals.
00:35 – Description of "choking" on the 18th hole and tournament exit.
01:00 – Blaming the club, Opus wedge from Klua, and thoughts of immediate replacement.
01:25 – Moment of reflection, realizing personal responsibility.
01:40 – Coping with loss via planned golf store visits.
01:50 – Humor about needing a 12-step program for golf.
02:10 – Reflecting on handling the loss well.
02:22 – Admitting likely to shop for clubs anyway.

5. Tone & Style

The episode maintains Scott Becker’s trademark candor, humor, and humility. While the topic is lighter and more personal than his typical business-focused material, it resonates with anyone who has coped with disappointment—especially in highly personal pursuits. Becker's willingness to laugh at himself and draw parallels between personal pitfalls and broader life (or business) lessons is both engaging and relatable.

Bottom Line:
Scott Becker’s golf mishap offers a refreshingly honest look at how we process minor (yet meaningful) failures, default to blaming external factors, and eventually circle back to personal accountability—often with a little humor and self-indulgence thrown in.

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This is Scott Becker with the Becker Private Equity and the Becker Business Podcast. We generally talk about business, investing, startups and a lot more. Today's discussion is Choking in Golf. So here's the deal. And I know this is so shallow and nobody cares, but I was so proud of myself. I made it to the semifinals of our club tournament, which I know is so first world and so embarrassing. Played against a guy who's much better than me. Got a bunch of strokes, made it to the 18th hole and then I completely choked. Just completely choked. Anybody who plays golf at my level can relate to this. It's behind the sign Trap, sand trap. All I had to do was get on the green and I put the ball in the sand trap and then didn't get out of the sand trap and voila, my chance at the finals is gone. I'm no longer going to play golf in October. It is what it is. I was pleased. I got some fire. So here's my instinct. I miss a shot like that. My first instinct is of course that the club that I was using, it's an Opus wedge from Klua, you know, 56°, that there is something wrong with the club and I need to replace the club. So this is my first thought, is that I am immediately taking the car and going to PGA Superstore or the Golf Galaxy. That this club deserves a lot of the blame. Then of course I reflect, I realize that that is not the problem, that I am the problem. I am the problem. Finally, of course at some point, today is Monday and it will probably happen finally at some point to salve my wounds, even recognizing that I'm the problem, not the club is the problem, I probably will take a step out to the PGA Store or Golf Galaxy to look at clubs because I just can't help myself. Again, I realize this, I've not yet hit rock bottom. But I do need a 12 step program for golf. It is what it is. It was a depressing Saturday. I didn't kick the dog, I didn't get intoxicated. So I viewed that as a win. I didn't even take my anti anxiety drug. So I feel like I handled the loss as well as could be handled. But I probably will buy and look at, you know, some clubs anyways because I'm an idiot. Thank you for listening to the Becker Business Podcast and the Becker Private Equity Podcast. We'll be back with you with more serious podcast about the H1 visa visa program, H1B visa program, Magnificent Seven and a lot more. Thank you for listening.