“The Big Desk” 6-30-26 - Becker Business

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Podcast: Becker Business
Host: Scott Becker
Episode: “The Big Desk” (June 30, 2026)

Episode Overview

In this episode titled “The Big Desk,” Scott Becker shares a reflective and personal story about status, humility, and leadership transitions in a business environment. Using the metaphor of inheriting and eventually relinquishing a prestigious office desk, Becker offers insights on professional growth cycles, the value of kindness, and the importance of handling changes graciously both on the way up and down in one's career.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

The Rise and Fall in Professional Life

Theme Introduction (00:30):
- “You have to know in whatever you do that you're going to go up and you're ultimately come down. …you better be nice to people on the way up because ultimately you're going to be coming down at some point.”
  Scott Becker underlines the cyclical nature of business success and the need for humility and kindness.

The Story of the "Big Desk"

Receiving the Desk (01:10):
- Early in his legal career, Becker describes being offered a large, impressive desk previously used by a retired (now deceased) partner:
  - “Leadership from the firm, not leadership directly, but, but administrative leadership, you know, called me and said, Scott, we've got this desk. It's a beautiful desk.”
- He recognizes that receiving perks and signs of status comes with an implicit understanding: as you rise, you’ll someday be succeeded by others.
- “You never want to be greedy about taking that stuff. You want to be very sort of cautious about taking stuff when you're on the way up...”

The Turnover – Passing the Torch

Losing the Desk (02:30):
- Years later, Becker illustrates the graceful transition when he’s asked to give up the desk and office for a rising, deserving colleague:
  - “Somebody says, you know, you’re not in the office very much anymore, which is an understatement... Can he get the desk? ...Can you get your office?”
- Becker notes how empathetic and respectful the process was:
  - “The thing that was beautiful about this... The partner who called me or asked me about it was so gracious about it, was so 'You don't have to do this. You can do it, but it'd be nice.'”

Acceptance and Perspective

Reflecting on Change (03:30):
- Becker finds humor and humility in not even remembering the location of his old office, showing passage of time and shifting priorities.
  - “When I went back to find my office, of course I didn't remember where it was, which is so embarrassing.”
- He reaffirms the cycle: those who now occupy prestigious roles are today’s contributors and leaders, just as he once was.
  - “This guy is getting my desk because he's now making the great contribution to the firm today that I used to make. …it's fantastic.”

The Importance of Kindness and Graciousness

Organization Culture (04:30):
- Becker extols the behavior of his colleagues for their tact and respect in both bestowing and reclaiming privileges:
  - “The way it was handled was so nice. On behalf of the firm that I just adore the people that did it on the front end and took it on the back end because they were so good about saying, here's the deal. And I understood that deal going in when I took the big desk.”
- He emphasizes gratitude for the people involved and for the positive culture that made the process amicable and memorable.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On Humility and Success (00:35):
“You better be nice to people on the way up because ultimately you’re going to be coming down at some point.”
On Accepting Perks (01:40):
“You never want to be greedy about taking that stuff. You want to be very sort of cautious about taking stuff when you’re on the way up…”
On the Hand-off (02:52):
“The partner who called me or asked me about it was so gracious about it... 'You don't have to do this. You can do it, but it'd be nice.'”
On Perspective (03:37):
“When I went back to find my office, of course I didn’t remember where it was, which is so embarrassing. But two, this is how it works.”

Key Timestamps

| Timestamp | Segment | Summary | |-----------|--------------------------------------------|-----------------------------| | 00:30 | Main theme introduction | Being kind on the way up/down | | 01:10 | Story begins: receiving the big desk | Perks and career growth | | 02:30 | Being asked to give up the office/desk | Gracious transition | | 03:30 | Reflections and continued cycle | Humility and legacy | | 04:30 | Praise for firm culture and people | Organizational kindness |

Conclusion

Scott Becker’s anecdote in “The Big Desk” is more than a story about office furniture—it’s a lesson in humility, the inevitability of professional transitions, and the immense value of kindness and respect in the workplace. By embracing both the receipt and handoff of status symbols with grace, he highlights how careers (and the perks that come with them) are borrowed, not owned—and how crucial it is to be remembered for generosity and decency, not just professional success.

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This is Scott Becker with the Becker Business and the Becker Private Equity Podcast. Today's story is the big desk. And so the story today is you have to know in whatever you do that you're going to go up and you're ultimately come down. And the real concept here is you better be nice to people on the way up because ultimately you're going to be coming down at some point and you. It's much better life if people are nice to you on the way down too and aren't cheering for your failure and demise. But here's the story with the big desk. So years ago, I was a young, growing lawyer at the firm I'm at still after 30 plus years, McGuire woods, the best firm on earth. My business was growing like crazy. I was doing great, my team was doing great. And some partner who was a retired partner had died in this partner, a wonderful person, but leadership from the firm, not leadership directly, but, but administrative leadership, you know, called me and said, scott, we've got this desk. It's a beautiful desk. And mind you, most everything was owned by the firm, not us as individuals. They said, scott, would you like this desk? It's a great desk. You're going to love it. And I took the desk, recognizing that I have to understand that at some point somebody's calling me to take that desk or take that, you know, office back, because you know that at some point if you're getting this text because you're on the rise and they call you, it's like, Scott, do you want those hockey tickets? Do you want those basketball tickets? You know, you never want to be greedy about taking that stuff. You want to be very sort of cautious about taking stuff when you're on the way up and stuff and all those things. But, you know, I did take the desk with the recognition that at some point that was going to come back around and someone's going to call me and say, can we have that desk? Can we have that office? And. And sure enough, you know, 20 years later, of course that happened where somebody called me and they did in the most gracious way you could ever do it. They said, scott, we've got this partner, he's doing great. He's a future leader. He's just fantastic. And he is, and he's literally fantastic. One of the highest ethical, most highest integrity people. And Best lawyers that I know. And somebody says, you know, you're not in the office very much anymore, which is an understatement. So it's a fair statement. Can he get the desk? And. And the thing that was beautiful about this. And can you get the office? I should say, can you get your office? We'll move you to another office. And God bless. And so there are so many pieces of this. One, when I went back to find my office, of course I didn't remember where it was, which is so embarrassing. But two, this is how it works. And as long as you understand it that this guy is getting my desk because he's now making the great contribution to the firm today that I used to make that, that he deserves it, and it's fantastic. And the partner who called me or asked me about it was so gracious about it, was so you don't have to do this. You can do it, but it'd be nice. And so. And we're not going to take away a big office from you. We're just going to put your big office, you know, in the closet. She didn't say that. That's a joke. The big office is still great and beautiful and all that stuff. And it's a remembrance of days gone by. But. But the way it was handled was so nice. On behalf of the firm that I just adore the people that did it on the front end and took it on the back end because they were so good about saying, here's the deal. And I understood that deal going in when I took the big desk. So that's the story today of the big desk in business. Thank you for listening to the Becker Business, the Becker Private Equity podcast. We hope you enjoy this as much as I enjoy retelling the story. And as much as I love the people that had these discussions with me, the person who's in that office now, the person who leads this group now, both were the best people ever, and I love it all. Thank you for listening.