Episode Summary: "You Better Constantly Find Your Purpose"

Becker Private Equity & Business Podcast
Host: Scott Becker
Date: August 30, 2025

Brief Overview

In this episode, Scott Becker reflects on the often-overlooked emotional journey experienced by entrepreneurs and business leaders after major liquidity events—particularly those who sell their businesses. Inspired by a Benzinga article about the founders of Buddy Media, Becker discusses the enduring need for purpose, the myths surrounding financial windfalls, and the personal realizations that come with significant life changes.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Story That Sparked the Episode

• Scott references a story from Benzinga about the founders of Buddy Media, a business sold for around $745 million.
• The crux of the story: After selling, the founder confronted a loss of purpose, contrary to expectations of lasting happiness from financial success.
• Scott summarizes (00:18):

  "Essentially that person had to refine their purpose after selling the company. And I think this is one of the commonalities of founders."

2. The Human Need for Purpose Beyond Success

• Selling a business (or achieving a financial milestone) is not an endpoint, but a transition.
• Many expect relief, happiness, or contentment—but instead often experience emptiness or loss.
• Scott notes (01:06):

  "For most people that leads to a real sense of emptiness and a real sense of loss versus the happiness and contentment that you thought it might have."

3. Persistent Identity and Self-Image

• Money does not fundamentally change who you are or how you feel about yourself.
• Scott shares his own self-deprecating reflection, explaining that personal insecurities remain, regardless of financial success:
• (01:55)

  "You still don’t feel like...because I made some money that all of a sudden I’m 6’2”, 185 pounds, and just this beautiful person—just not. It doesn’t work that way."

4. The Reality Check: Money and Happiness

• Becker dispels common myths—citing online discussions that assume a certain amount of money brings peace of mind.
• He asserts, based on his experience and that of the article’s subject, that this is simply not true:
• (01:25)

  "I saw somebody post on Twitter today that if they had a million dollars, if they had $2 million...that they then would be clear enough peace of mind to be fine. And I can tell you from personal experience that is just not the case."

5. Notable Quote from the Buddy Media Founder

• Scott highlights a memorable quote from the Buddy Media founder after the sale:
• (01:35)

  "He found that after he sold the business for $745 million... he was the same ‘schmuck’—was the word he used—as he was before he sold the business."

6. Takeaway: Rebuilding Purpose After ‘The Exit’

• The episode ends with the imperative that everyone—in business, life, or retirement—needs to seek out purpose anew after any major life change:
• (02:35)

  "If you sell your company, if you retire, you better find purpose going forward because you're still the same person you always were, just without a company."

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• (00:50)

  "When you sell your business...and you may or may not get a lump sum of money...you find that you're still very much, very human and you still need to go forward and find purpose and what to do with yourself."
  —Scott Becker

• (01:35)

  "He was the same ‘schmuck’...as he was before he sold the business. And I think that's just right on."
  —Scott Becker, quoting the Buddy Media founder

• (02:15)

  "I just love the whole article."
  —Scott Becker

Key Segment Timestamps

• 00:00 – 00:18: Introduction & context; inspiration from Benzinga piece
• 00:19 – 01:06: The founder’s post-exit emotional journey; the universal search for purpose
• 01:07 – 01:55: The reality of money and self-image; Becker's personal anecdote
• 01:56 – 02:35: Quoting Buddy Media founder; the advice to always find purpose
• 02:36 – End: Name and details of the Benzinga article; closing thoughts

Overall Tone

Scott Becker’s tone is conversational, introspective, and relatable—mixing professional insight with humor and self-awareness. He’s candid about both his own experiences and the broader experiences of successful entrepreneurs confronting life after ‘the exit.’

Conclusion

This episode highlights a vital, rarely discussed truth: financial success or retirement does not solve deeper questions of meaning or self-worth. True fulfillment, as articulated through both Becker’s perspective and the Buddy Media founder’s story, comes not from the size of a bank account but from ongoing engagement with purpose and passion. If you exit a business or reach a milestone, remember to ask yourself: What’s next? How will you keep finding meaning?