Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, lost or just worn out. You’re missing that spark, that fire you had at the beginning of the year. I definitely hit that wall myself just a few months ago and ReFIREment is the process I used to help me rediscover my passion and my fire and today, others tell me how peaceful, surrendered and relaxed I look.

If you’ve never heard of the term ReFIREment, this is the last of a four part series, helping you gain your passion back after a season of setbacks. The four steps are:

Unplug: disconnecting from external resources temporarily
Unlearn: reevaluating & challenging existing ideas, beliefs and concepts
Rest: experimenting with and understanding ways to deepen your rest
Relearn: incorporating new practices and beliefs to set you on a new path

Today, let’s go deeper into step three: RELEARN.

And as I’m recording this in early November 2020, it’s seven plus months since I made the decision to unplug to begin this journey. What are my results so far?

My life is very satisfying. I have more discernment and boundaries around what is most important in my life. I no longer drift along with the waves of circumstances. I now bless and release negative people from my list of acquaintances. And for a recovering people pleaser, that is a huge improvement in the quality of my life.
I have rediscovered my passion for teamwork and collaboration, which have been the hallmark of my career. I’ve realized that I’m not as effective as a lone wolf and how much I love helping others grow and prosper within the context of a TEAM you LOVE.
Our monthly business income is now 4x what it was before I stopped working in April. And we’re only scratching the surface of what is possible.
This morning as an example, I set a personal record for the amount of deep sleep in a night, beyond anything I thought possible a few months ago. And my body has already released 22 inches of girth during this lengthy process of unlearning. As I enter this season of relearning, I’m excited about what’s to come.

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Other practical resources to help you ReFIRE mentioned in this series:

Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep & Dreams by Matthew Walker
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Busy World by Cal Newport
I've Been Thinking...Reflections, Prayers and Meditations for a Meaningful Life by Maria Shriver.