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Alicia
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Andrea Gunning
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Alicia
When it started to go a little too far, he would sometimes show up the studio wearing bandages on his hands. And he would say that he was mastering how to manipulate and start fire from his hands. Foreign.
Andrea Gunning
I'm Andrea Gunning, and this is Betrayal, a show about the people we trust the most and the deceptions that change everything.
Alicia
The students reached out to me, and they were the ones who told me they got out of a culture.
Andrea Gunning
That's Alicia. It isn't her real name. We've had to anonymize everyone in this episode, and you'll see why in a minute.
Alicia
Oh, my goodness. I don't know where to start. Let's go to the beginning, I guess.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia grew up in the 80s in a chaotic home. One of her parents struggled with addiction. So Alicia ended up helping raise her older brothers and. And in a way, raising herself.
Alicia
I pretty much had to be the provider, maybe cook food or meals as much as I could, so that was a little stressful as a younger kid.
Andrea Gunning
When she was seven years old, her dad signed her up for dance, and it changed her life.
Alicia
It definitely saved me.
Andrea Gunning
In one of her very first classes, Alicia remembers feeling out of place.
Alicia
I was the little scraggly kid in the back. It was funny because one time I went to class and I was wearing jeans and I was, like, mortified because I didn't have my tights or anything.
Andrea Gunning
But the dance instructor put Alicia at ease.
Alicia
She made me feel seen and like it was okay. And, you know, I was just there to dance and no one was looking at me to try to judge me. She was awesome. And then after that, I was hooked.
Andrea Gunning
That instructor became a mentor.
Alicia
She stayed my role model all the way through my dance career at that studio until I pretty much graduated high school.
Andrea Gunning
It was a classical studio. So Alicia trained in ballet, tap, and jazz. From age 7 on, she joined every class she could.
Alicia
It was a way for me to escape what was going on at home. It was my way to walk into the studio and just be somewhere else and be something else. I was able to escape through the music, through the movement. It just became my safe space.
Andrea Gunning
When she went off to college, she kept dancing and eventually she began teaching.
Alicia
Became this full circle moment of being able to do the things that my mentor had done for me. Give that back to a kid that might have not felt seen.
Andrea Gunning
She returned to her childhood studio after college.
Alicia
I wound up Venturing back to my old studio that I originally grew up at, I wanted to make kids feel empowered, to make them feel good about themselves, express themselves in the ways that they needed.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia had dozens of students. One of the standouts was a young dancer named Kim.
Alicia
One of our students was Kim. I started working with her when she was 12 or 13 years old. I remember her being this fun, quirky, sassy girl.
Andrea Gunning
But Kim was incredibly talented.
Alicia
She just had this natural ability to her, this natural flexibility that people only dream of. She was always really willing to, like, work hard. And I knew she would go far. I knew she was going to make it.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia took her under her wing. That year, Alicia met another dancer we're going to call Kevin. He was Alicia's age, just finishing college.
Alicia
Kevin was cute and I thought it was pretty impressive to see someone that could dance as well as he could. He had that natural ability and that natural talent, and there's something attractive about that, like especially seeing a guy dance in that way.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin wasn't trained in a classical studio. He was mostly self taught and he was mesmerizing.
Alicia
His specialty was hip hop. So all the traditional styles of hip hop, which would be breaking, popping, locking, b boying, it was something that was new to me, being more of a traditionally trained dancer. And he definitely made it seem effortless.
Andrea Gunning
They started off as friends, taking classes, going out and bonding over their tough childhoods.
Alicia
He would ask me questions about my upbringing and wanted to know a lot about what happened growing up, and he was very attentive with that. I told him my life story and that I didn't have the best upbringing and how I had to grow up pretty quickly. And then it turned out that he wound up having the same type of family issues.
Andrea Gunning
They both had a parent that struggled with addiction, and Kevin seemed genuinely interested in hearing about Alicia's background. Alicia was amazed to meet someone who shared her love for dance and also had a traumatic upbringing.
Alicia
For the first time, I felt seen and I felt heard in a way that others couldn't really understand. And it felt very validating. But I didn't pick up on his signals about, you know, getting a little bit more than just friends.
Andrea Gunning
After a few months, Kevin confessed his feelings for her. He bought flowers, wrote love notes, and made mixtapes.
Alicia
He even got me this necklace. It was like a little diamond pendant necklace that he said symbolized me shedding my last tear and that he wouldn't ever hurt me so I would never have to cry again. And that's when I took the leap. Of faith. And we started up the relationship. He just seemed like this very kind, very sensitive person and he seemed like a hopeless romantic, despite all the mistreatment that he experienced at home. So it was pretty much the same thing as me.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin had big career ambitions. This was the late 90s, and he wanted to work with pop stars like NSYNC and Britney Spears. But he was struggling to find long term work. So Alicia brought Kevin into the studio where she worked to teach hip hop.
Alicia
I approached the studio owner and he thought that it would be a good idea. So Kevin had a couple of classes to start with and he was great at it.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin's classes became a hit. Alicia's student Kim enrolled. Kim had her sights set on becoming a professional dancer. And Kevin saw the same potential in her that Alicia did.
Alicia
They started to have a bond and a relationship and he wanted to help her as well.
Andrea Gunning
The studio was like a little family. Mentoring Kim and students like her brought them closer. Kevin and Alicia spent every day, all day at the studio. She was really falling for him.
Alicia
He would bring out the best of me and he let me be myself. Like I was able to be fun and quirky and he encouraged that. You know, I never felt self conscious around him. He would always look at me in ways that made me feel like I was the only person.
Andrea Gunning
A few years into their relationship, he surprised her with a trip to New York and made a reservation at a famous restaurant, Windows on the World. It was on the top floor of the World Trade Center. And that night at dinner, all of.
Alicia
A sudden he got down on one knee. And then I look up behind me and my best friend's standing there recording. And he popped the question. He was very nervous, but he said that he wanted to be my partner for the rest of my life. I don't know if I even remember hearing the rest of what he said because I just started crying and I was just overwhelmed with joy. And it just felt like such a special moment.
Andrea Gunning
She felt like she was marrying her best friend. Getting married.
Alicia
I always pictured having somebody that is going to make me feel safe because that's something that, you know, just growing up with childhood trauma is one thing that you don't always feel all the time.
Andrea Gunning
The wedding day was emotional. Even though Kevin had a tense relationship with his family, they all came to celebrate him.
Alicia
I started walking down the aisle and I saw him. I became emotional because I could just see our future together and us building this great family and he started getting emotional. So it was just us trying to get through our Vows and being so choked up. I was a little embarrassed by that because I thought I could try to compose myself. And you don't want to have, like, an ugly cry in your wedding pictures. But it almost felt like that.
Andrea Gunning
Some of their dance students even came to the ceremony, like Kim and her mom.
Alicia
Just looking out and seeing her and some of the other students that were so excited for us to get together, it was great to be able to include them in that.
Andrea Gunning
Once they were married, Alicia encouraged him to visit his parents more often. They didn't live far, but Kevin still harbored resentment about his childhood. When he was around his family, he was a shell of himself, and he.
Alicia
Would sulk and he would change his whole personality on the way there because he was upset about even having to go there, and he was going to have to put on a fake face and pretend that everything was okay.
Andrea Gunning
So they kept their visits to holiday weekends.
Alicia
Those were the only times that we would go over there.
Andrea Gunning
But when he was at home with Alicia, Kevin was animated and loving. They started daydreaming about raising kids together.
Alicia
He always knew that I wanted to have kids and have a family of my own. That was one of the things that we always talked about.
Andrea Gunning
They already knew they both loved kids. They were surrounded by them every day. One of their star students, Kim, had become Alicia's teaching assistant, and Kevin was helping Kim get her dance career off the ground.
Alicia
So we kind of played the dual role of mentoring her, and then eventually she started assisting some of his classes as well.
Andrea Gunning
By this point, Kevin had been with the studio for years.
Alicia
He just became this staple at the studio, and all these kids just flocked to him, you know, for guidance and inspiration. The kids loved him. The parents all loved him. But there was one person that didn't quite love him, and that was my mentor. They didn't seem to be clicking for some reason, and I thought that was unusual. They just were not really on the same page.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin's theory was that this older teacher was jealous of how popular his classes were.
Alicia
And not too long after that, that's when one of the kids started saying something to their parents about a conversation that Kevin had with them in the classroom.
Andrea Gunning
A parent complained about something Kevin said to a student. We don't know what it is. Because Alicia never got the full story. Kevin denied saying anything inappropriate, but the studio owner decided to keep an eye on Kevin. And a few months after that, the.
Alicia
Owner decided that he was going to let him go. He said that there were some artistic differences and that it was Time to part.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin called Alicia outraged.
Alicia
Kevin pretty much made me feel like they were ganging up on him and that no one understood him. And they were jealous.
Andrea Gunning
It seemed like a horrible misunderstanding. And she believed Kevin when he said this was rooted in jealousy, especially considering.
Alicia
The parents and the kids were still very supportive of Kevin. They couldn't believe what happened and they started attacking the studio owners, saying to him that he didn't know what he was doing, he didn't know how to conduct business. How can he let him go?
Andrea Gunning
At first, Alicia assumed she would keep her job and Kevin could find a new place to work. But for him, this was a matter of right and wrong and he wanted Alicia to be on his side.
Alicia
He said this environment was supposed to be my second home and like my family and look how they're treating my husband. So I had no other choice but to support him at that time. So then I had to leave the studio as well. I was heartbroken because here was this community that just felt like such a safe space for me, someplace that I grew up at for pretty much my whole life. At this point, everything that I had worked hard for, you know, now it's all gone.
Andrea Gunning
Heartbroken, Alicia turned in her keys and left the studio she'd grown up in.
Alicia
At the time, I felt very hurt because I felt like no one really came to me and said anything. Looking back, I realized the only version of the story I was getting was Kevin's story. So of course I'm going to believe him. He's my husband. But he was hiding something from me. Something bigger, something darker.
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Andrea Gunning
After Kevin was fired from the studio, his favorite students rallied around him. He'd been working with many of them for years and they wanted to keep taking his classes. The next step seemed obvious for Kevin and Alicia.
Alicia
That's when I was saying to him, oh, I always wanted to open up my own dance studio. I decided that hey, now we had the opportunity to create that safe space of our own so we can do it the way that we wanted to. Why not just give it a go?
Andrea Gunning
Their own studio. It would be a pre professional program. No expensive costumes or recitals, just dance.
Alicia
We turned this pretty empty warehouse, which was 6,000 square feet, into this beautiful studio.
Andrea Gunning
They wanted to prepare kids for real careers in dance. And Kevin was perfectly positioned to make.
Alicia
That happen since he was one of the only male hip hop dance teachers at the time. We wound up establishing his own hip hop company.
Andrea Gunning
They had 100 students. Upon opening, many of his former students put down a deposit to join Kevin and Alicia's new studio, with Kevin being the lead instructor. They needed a plan for oversight and safety for everyone's sake.
Alicia
I had observation windows, I had cameras, because you always want to make sure that the parents feel comfortable and feel safe, especially with a male teacher, because, you know, you always hear stories of different things happening, and I never wanted that to ever be an issue. He never wanted that to be an issue. So I always had those things in place so we didn't ever have to worry about that.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia was thrilled when Kim came on board to help them open the studio. Kim was now a college student and she became their first employee.
Alicia
She started out helping me with the front desk, doing those types of things at first. Then we started to get her some classes of her own since she didn't really have that before. And we definitely became a lot closer.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia managed the business while Kevin worked tirelessly to recruit a hip hop crew. And when the group was assembled, it was undeniable. The crew had the it factor.
Alicia
Once we got up on our feet, his hip hop crew started doing a lot of performances all over the area. These kids were really turning heads and winning a lot of different awards and were pretty much neck and neck with some professional dancers on the scene. And they would get recognized because they were so young at the time and people couldn't believe how good they were.
Andrea Gunning
The kids in Kevin's crew ranged in age from 13 to 19.
Alicia
They were a bunch of kids who came from diverse backgrounds who all were able to rise up above adversity and beat life's obstacles.
Andrea Gunning
Within two years, the kids were winning national titles, booking huge auditions, even making it onto TV shows.
Alicia
I didn't even expect it to blow up the way that it did, especially around this particular crew. I felt like I was on cloud nine. Things were coming together, so it was just thrilling to be the studio owner. Like, it felt really good.
Andrea Gunning
In the chaos of starting a new business, Alicia and Kevin's marriage started to drift.
Alicia
There wasn't any intimacy. I was realizing that we were more friends than anything, more like business partners than a married couple.
Andrea Gunning
Along the way, Alicia had put one of her own dreams to the side.
Alicia
At this point, I am now in my 30s, and I just wanted to go back to the original goal of having children of my own.
Andrea Gunning
But Kevin seemed more interested in his crew than starting a family with Alicia.
Alicia
So there came a breaking point, and I built up enough courage and strength to have that conversation with him.
Andrea Gunning
She finally sat him down and told him that she wanted to separate. She was bracing for his emotional reaction, But Kevin seemed completely unfazed.
Alicia
He pretty much just looked at me and said, okay. I'm like, what? How is that possible? I couldn't believe it. I'm like, well, maybe he didn't hear me. Maybe it just didn't hit him. I just couldn't believe it. And then he said, okay, well, what do you think I should do? Just move out? I said, okay. Yeah. I guess I was just still baffled at the fact that he was just so calm about it. And he just said, okay.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin moved out that night, and they stayed amicable through the whole divorce process. It was shockingly easy.
Alicia
After we decided to. I almost had a sense of calm come over me, and I started to realize that I didn't need to still be in a relationship with him in order to keep the studio going.
Andrea Gunning
The dance students and their education was the most important thing to both of them. There were only a few uncomfortable moments. Like with Kim, it was a little.
Alicia
Awkward for her to be in the middle of our split because she was really good friends with him. She just became a little bit more distant.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia felt as though Kim was picking a side, and she noticed that with the students, too. She chalked it up to them processing the divorce.
Alicia
But then all of a sudden, like, a lot of the kids were starting to fight more, and there was a lot of, like, tension, and there just seemed to be something that was off.
Andrea Gunning
Then one day, one of the younger students came to Alicia to talk one on one. The girl was in Kim's class.
Alicia
So I had a student approach me and wanted to talk to me. She started saying that she didn't like the way that Kim and Kevin were acting and what they were doing was disgusting. How could they do something like that? And I really wasn't sure what she was talking about, But I let her vent, and I just listened to her, and I tried to just let her Finish what she was saying while not giving away the fact that I didn't know any of this at the time.
Andrea Gunning
What she was trying to tell Alicia.
Alicia
Was that Kevin and Kim were together.
Andrea Gunning
In the moment. Alicia maintained her composure. She didn't want the student to think she'd done anything wrong by coming to her.
Alicia
I just told her, don't worry about it, we'll figure it out.
Andrea Gunning
After the conversation ended, Alicia was shaken. She assumed the girl must be confused. Kevin had known Kim since she was 12 or 13. They even had her at their wedding.
Alicia
I couldn't even process the thought of them being together. Like, the thought of it just made me sick. I just didn't understand and I didn't know if it was even true.
Andrea Gunning
But her gut told her to check the security cameras, so she did, starting with the previous night.
Alicia
It was a late night session. Everyone was hanging out in the lobby. And that was the first time I noticed him. He was, like, rubbing her back, but the way that he was doing it, like, very, like, loving that kind of thing. I was like, okay, whoa. So I was freaking out. It made me start to question everything. I was furious. I was nauseated. I didn't know what to think or.
Andrea Gunning
What to do at this point. Kim was in her early 20s. Kevin was nearly 40. So Alicia felt like she couldn't do anything about it.
Alicia
I just had to maybe even step back at this moment and say, okay, well, we're all adults here. Like, she wasn't a minor or anything at the time, and she was a young adult and what am I going to do?
Andrea Gunning
Kevin and Alicia's divorce had been finalized a few months prior. For her own sanity, she needed further confirmation that this was really happening. So the next night, she followed them.
Alicia
After rehearsal, I waited in my car and I followed them to the diner and I waited there until they finished eating. So I literally sat in my car, like in the side parking lot, waiting for them to come out. And when they came out, they started to embrace, and that's when they started to kiss. It was true. I just couldn't wrap my mind around the fact that this person who I had mentored from such a young age was now with my ex husband.
Andrea Gunning
It wasn't just betrayal. It was something deeper. It was a contamination of her whole reality. The past 10 years with Kevin, their business together, it all started to look different.
Alicia
There's no words to describe the feeling of him being with somebody that we both mentored. It was creepy and disgusting.
Andrea Gunning
She couldn't go to Kevin because now she didn't trust him. She was questioning everything. So Alicia reached out to a trusted former student who was now an adult.
Alicia
I asked her how long Kevin and Kim were together and her whole demeanor completely changed and she just let out this big sigh and she said, it's been some time now. It's been probably going on for several years. She said that it was something that was just not spoken of, but it was known. It was kept a secret for so long. But now that I knew about Kevin and Kim, then that's when it seemed like the right time for people to come and start telling me more.
Andrea Gunning
Word spread among former students that Alicia knew about the affair, and one by one they started contacting her.
Alicia
The students reached out to me. They were the ones who told me all about what was happening.
Andrea Gunning
What was happening went far beyond Kevin and Kim's relationship.
Alicia
They were telling me that they got out of a cult.
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Every age.
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Andrea Gunning
After she found out about Kevin and Kim's affair, it was like the levee broke. Former students, who Alicia thought had left the studio on good terms, began telling her about an entirely different side of Kevin, one that was completely hidden from her.
Alicia
They were telling me that they got out of a cult. A cult?
Andrea Gunning
That word hit Alicia hard. It seemed Kevin had gone to extreme lengths to keep Alicia in the dark. Now she had to get to the bottom of what was going on. So she began asking, asking former students what happened.
Alicia
And then I started to piece a lot of the story together.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin told his crew that he used to be a backup dancer for Britney Spears and other pop artists, which wasn't true.
Alicia
He would pull up a video and basically someone was standing there in the background and he would say, oh look, that's me.
Andrea Gunning
It was an incredibly powerful lie because the students all dreamed of an opportunity like that, and it made them want to do anything to impress him. Then Kevin would initiate what he called life chats. He would approach a student after class to talk about their goals and dreams. They would be flattered that he Was interested in them.
Alicia
And after that, he would talk to them a lot over the Internet through Messenger. He would get them to open up to him and tell him everything he needed to pretty much understand who they were.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin tailored his influence to each student. He became whatever that student needed most.
Alicia
Some people needed a best friend, Other people needed a therapist. Other people needed someone they can confide in. Then a father figure for some, because some of them come from broken homes. So then he would become that.
Andrea Gunning
He would shape shift into whatever each student needed him to be. After that connection was established, Kevin wanted to be in constant communication.
Alicia
It became like a 247 connection with him. Like, he wanted them to always write back if he texted them or if they had group chats going. And he had a lot of different chats and different side conversations going on all the time. So they never really had any real privacy because he would always be involved. And then he would get really upset if they never texted back or they didn't respond.
Andrea Gunning
He made it clear to the students that he could make or break their careers. And when they wouldn't reply to his.
Alicia
Texts, he would tie it into, well, if you have an agent, then, you know, you have to be able to respond right away or you lose your job. So then it just became a normal thing.
Andrea Gunning
Then he started controlling what they wore and how they looked.
Alicia
He would try to change the way they were dressed, and some of them needed to develop a little bit more and change their look or their style or their hair or whatever. He would relate it back to. That's how it is in the dance industry. And then he would find ways to use more of the manipulative tactics.
Andrea Gunning
Manipulative and highly inappropriate tactics. Because after he had emotional control over the students, Kevin started talking to the kids about sex and their sexuality. He said it would help them become a better dancer. And keep in mind some of the students were as young as 13.
Alicia
He would say that they needed to learn how to masturbate, and he would teach them how to do that. He would show them the pictures and the videos to clarify what he meant, and then they had the report back. So he can tell them if. If they did it right and if what they're experiencing was right. He was able to tie that all back to dance because it would make them able to express themselves. And, you know, it was normal because you wanted to be able to do that as an artist. He said that it would help them to be a more sensual dancer.
Andrea Gunning
He started manipulating their romantic and sexual relationships with each other.
Alicia
He Started to encourage them to date each other. He would set up different group chats with different people to have them talk about sex and getting together. He would even drive students over to other people's houses for them to have sex so they weren't of age because they weren't driving at the time. So he would drop them off. A lot of times he would drive students home from dance. They would get permission from their parents, and those were the drives that some of them said that they felt uncomfortable in a way where, you know, like when someone's trying to hit on you or trying to suggest something, like, they kind of got that feeling, but they just didn't engage in that. But they felt like if they were to give a green light, something could have happened.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia was deeply concerned if Kevin ever touched them inappropriately. But when she asked the students about it directly, they all said no.
Alicia
He would tell some of them, I know two in particular, that he was their soulmate and that they were twin flames, and they had a deeper connection. Like, he was the only person that would understand what they went through from their past life experience.
Andrea Gunning
Past life. Not as in their past a few years ago, but as in a lifetime they lived before this one, One that only he could see, one where they were always meant to find each other.
Alicia
He was morphing into all these different Personas, from the good mentor to the peer to, you know, the father figure to the friend, to now, all of a sudden, this enlightened figure, the light warrior.
Andrea Gunning
Kevin told the students he was a light warrior, that he had superhuman abilities, that he had a divine power.
Alicia
He would sometimes show up the studio wearing bandages on his hands, and he would say that he was mastering how to manipulate and start fire from his hands. Another time, he showed them a video of him, supposedly to turning on a street lamp with just his mind. There were times where he would make them stand outside and look at these lamps to see if they can do it, too. One time, he came into the studio in a wheelchair because he said he was very weak from controlling things with his mind.
Andrea Gunning
He also claimed to have visions.
Alicia
He would tell them he could see when they were having sex because he can see their auras. He would encourage them to try things with each other, and he was the puppet master making a lot of that happen.
Andrea Gunning
By the time Alicia learned the full extent of it, Kevin wasn't just a dance coach, he was a prophet. And she started to understand why the students had stayed silent for so long. Their whole world was tied up in the dance crew.
Alicia
A Lot of them said that they've invested so much time and money that they felt like they couldn't leave, and then they would lose all their friends and everything they ever known.
Andrea Gunning
To keep the kids quiet, Kevin used threats and intimidation. He made sure that the cost of leaving wasn't worth it. Leaving meant exile. Kevin also made them believe that leaving the crew or breaking his rules would ruin their chances of dancing professionally.
Alicia
After they were telling me all these stories, it made me face what was happening. And then I realized, wow, like he is. He's pretty much a monster and he cannot be around these kids. That's when I decided I needed to go and talk to a lawyer.
Andrea Gunning
She got a recommendation for a criminal lawyer and drove to his office right away.
Alicia
He basically told me that I probably should shut the studio down immediately. So I left his office. I immediately contacted my father. I told him a little bit what was going on.
Andrea Gunning
Her dad met her at the dance studio.
Alicia
He came and he helped me change the locks. I grabbed all the stuff, like the files and the stuff to contact families and parents and anything I can get my hands on. And it was early afternoon. I remember it clearly was a Friday. And I know he comes to the studio around four, and sometimes he might come a little bit early. And I was literally shaking. And I grabbed what I could and I put a sign up on the door saying, we are no longer in business. And then I ran out of there. I don't even know how he made it to my car because I thought I was going to pass out because I was so petrified that he was just going to pull up and see me and chase me down. Once he saw that sign on the door, I had no idea who he was or what he was capable of.
Andrea Gunning
She drove home and a few hours later, Kevin called, confused. When he asked what was going on, she just said, sentence, you can talk to my lawyer.
Alicia
And that was the last time I ever talked to him and had any correspondence with him.
Andrea Gunning
After she closed down the studio, Alicia braced herself for calls and emails from the parents of her dance students. But to her surprise, she was met with radio silence.
Alicia
That's the part that I still don't understand, that no parents really came to me or said anything.
Andrea Gunning
It's possible the parents didn't turn to Alicia because they thought she was in on it or at the very least, turning a blind eye. She knew she'd done the right thing by closing the studio.
Alicia
Once I closed down the studio, it finally gave permission for the ones that were struggling to leave the Ones that were coming to me saying they weren't sure they wanted to leave. So it finally gave them the opportunity to leave and disconnect from him.
Andrea Gunning
But Kevin still had a grip on a devoted circle of students.
Alicia
He still had a handful of loyal followers. So he basically had them do all his dirty work. And they were calling me and texting me, telling me how awful I was and how could I do this to them, and that I was an awful person. I was so heartbroken hearing those things, I could cry. Now, actually, the only thing I could say to them was that I was sorry and that one day they will understand.
Andrea Gunning
She couldn't undo what had happened, but she wanted to make it right and to keep Kevin from ever doing it again. Alicia and her lawyer took the case to the prosecutor's office. She started at the beginning with the revelation that Kevin and Kim were together.
Alicia
And I could immediately sense that he felt like, oh, you know, she's just upset because, you know, the situation happened and they weren't together. I felt like he wasn't really listening to me. After that.
Andrea Gunning
She wanted to make it clear that this wasn't a case of a messy divorce.
Alicia
So after that conversation, I immediately wrote an email explaining everything that I was finding out. I gave him a list of names and different people that he could reach out to and talk to as far as students.
Andrea Gunning
Some students even reached out to the office directly to share their stories, but they never heard back. After a few months, Alicia's lawyer came back to her with bad news. The prosecutor's office wouldn't be taking the case.
Alicia
I'm like, what does that mean? Like, I don't understand what that means. Like, how are you not interested in something that seems so significant, especially with kids, involved minors, teens? And he said they only go with cases that they feel like they can win. And they came back and said that it seemed mild on the list of sex crimes to them. He said if he was playing devil's advocate, that I came across as an ex wife scorned who was trying to take down her husband and was jealous of him being with a younger woman.
Andrea Gunning
She was stunned. She thought about the students talking to the police. But then her lawyer explained the prosecutor's.
Alicia
Office was the say all, end all. They were going to be the ones that would bring about charges.
Andrea Gunning
So Kevin was never charged for anything. Even though Kevin was telling kids to masturbate or manipulating them into having sex with each other, the prosecutor couldn't charge him with a crime. And for a few months after the studio closed Kevin was able to keep his crew going out of his own space.
Alicia
He was pushing really hard with this new business that he had created with them. And they all had to recruit 10 new people. And if they weren't recruiting that, he was flipping out. And they didn't want that, because, like I said before, if you're on his bad side, you're on his bad side.
Andrea Gunning
Slowly, his remaining students began to leave. And when they did, the other students would direct them to Alicia.
Alicia
I was able to let them know that they were safe and that they can leave and that it's going to be okay. And one of the students who had sent me the text of telling me that I was the most awful person wound up texting me. And she apologized, and she said she's so sorry for everything that she said to me. And I said to her, like, I'm so sorry. It's not you at all. I was the one that should have been there for you.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia's entire career had been about providing a safe space for kids through dance, a place for expression and growth. Kevin had taken all that was good and pure about that purpose and ruined it. Alicia felt like the only good decision she'd made in the end was, was to immediately close the studio.
Alicia
I felt completely embarrassed at the fact that I couldn't see these types of behaviors that were happening right underneath my nose. And I know a lot of it isn't my fault, but it just really broke my heart for them.
Andrea Gunning
In the few months after the studio closed, students continued leaving Kevin's crew. It sent him into a tailspin. He moved back in with his parents. Apparently, Kevin was in such a dark place that one day his sister reached out to Alicia. She wanted to meet in person to better understand what was going on with her brother.
Alicia
We weren't that close, so it just came out of nowhere that she actually wanted to meet up.
Andrea Gunning
The two women agreed to meet for coffee. Within the first few minutes, Alicia realized Kevin's sister had no idea what happened with the studio.
Alicia
She basically was just sitting there looking at me, confused. I told her a little bit about the story of what I'd been learning about Kim and Kevin and their relationship. That's when she just started to cry and break down. She didn't really understand what I was saying, and she was like, I can't believe this is happening. And that's when I started to ask her questions about him.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia knew Kevin had a fractured relationship with his family. When they were married, they only saw his parents and siblings a handful of times. Sitting with his sister, it was clear she needed to start from the beginning. So Alicia brought up Kevin's past and his difficult childhood.
Alicia
And then I said to her, well, what about your dad? Like, your dad's an alcoholic. And, you know, he was talking about all these times that he was in these fights with him, and. And he even told me about a surgery he had to go have because he had a broken rib from being kicked down the steps. And she said, whoa, whoa, whoa. What are you talking about? My dad isn't an alcoholic. Like, he doesn't drink at all. And she's like, I can tell you, like, we had a really good upbringing. We had a good childhood. He had everything that he needed.
Andrea Gunning
Back when Alicia and Kevin first met, he told her about his traumatic upbringing and his alcoholic parent. It bonded them together because Alicia also had a troubled childhood with an alcoholic parent. But now she discovered that shared experience was fiction, a long con.
Alicia
He pretty much formed this Persona that would trauma bond with me and match all the things that I went through in order for us to become relatable, for us to become closer.
Andrea Gunning
It was the same same thing he'd done with the students. He told them whatever they needed to hear to trust him. This revelation brought a clarity about how deeply disturbed Kevin really was. Their entire life together was one lie built upon another lie. The only thing Alicia could do was rebuild a new life. Alicia went to talk to that old studio owner, the one who had fired Kevin years ago. It was also the studio where they'd met Kim back when she was 12 or 13.
Alicia
So when I asked him about Kevin and Kim, he said that there were rumors that they might have been together when she was underage. So regardless of whether he did anything physically with her, that coercive control definitely started way back when she was young.
Andrea Gunning
Alicia sees Kim as Kevin's victim. She always has.
Alicia
It breaks my heart to know that he did that to her, and she was so special to me.
Andrea Gunning
In the years since Kevin and Kim got married and divorced, Alicia tried to go back to teaching dance at her old studio, but it was never the same.
Alicia
So I started trying to focus on what I can do to maybe help make the dance industry a little bit better.
Andrea Gunning
Today, she wants to help other studios catch what she didn't see.
Alicia
I want to spark a deeper conversation about the dance industry and how victims of abuse have gone through similar things in a very unchecked, highly unregulated system.
Andrea Gunning
And she teaches Pilates to senior citizens.
Alicia
That was a good way to give back and feel like I'm doing something positive while I'm working on trying to make change in the dance industry.
Andrea Gunning
We end all of our weekly episodes with the same question. Why do you want to share your story?
Alicia
I wasn't able to have children of my own, so this is why this is such a passion project for me. Now. I want to help other students, other children feel seen, validated, and then create a safe environment for them to be able to enjoy dance. Because dance is something that is so powerful and it could be such a beautiful thing when you're able to express yourself freely and have a safe environment. This is my way of taking control of the situation that happened with me and making it into something positive.
Andrea Gunning
On the next episode of Betrayal Weekly.
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Episode Title: Alicia | Betrayal Weekly
Date: September 4, 2025
Host: Andrea Gunning
Podcast: iHeartPodcasts and Glass Podcasts
This episode of Betrayal: Weekly features the harrowing story of "Alicia" (a pseudonym). It’s a powerful, first-person account of how Alicia, a lifelong dancer and studio owner, discovers her husband’s web of manipulation, lies, and abuse at the center of their shared dance community. As students reveal the extent of his control, Alicia must confront the destruction he wrought—transforming her safe haven into what her students describe as a cult.
The episode explores themes of trust, gaslighting, coercive control, manipulation within youth mentorship, and Alicia’s journey from confusion and heartbreak to action and advocacy.
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[54:21] Alicia says she sees her advocacy as a legacy for the children and students she could never have herself. She aims to prevent abuse, help students feel safe and validated, and push for positive change in the dance industry.
“This is my way of taking control of the situation that happened with me and making it into something positive.” – Alicia [54:21]
This episode is a wrenching exploration of how predatory control systems can hide in passionate, creative spaces—illustrating the ripple effects of betrayal and the courage it takes to confront both the abuser and systemic failure.
Note: This summary preserves the integrity, tone, and key details as shared by Alicia and host Andrea Gunning, offering a powerful resource for those unable to listen to the episode.