Betrayal: Weekly – Episode: RE-RELEASE: Donielle Pt. 1 & Pt. 2

Introduction

In this re-release episode of Betrayal: Weekly, host Andrea Gunning delves into the harrowing yet inspiring story of Danielle Oliver Chauvet. Originally aired in two parts, this episode combines both segments to provide listeners with Danielle's comprehensive journey from marriage bliss to unimaginable betrayal and her subsequent path to healing and resilience.

Background and Marriage Bliss

Danielle grew up in a tight-knit family in California, where trust and faith were foundational values. Her parents' respectful and happy marriage served as her role models, fostering her trusting and easygoing nature.

Danielle (04:46): "Family is very important to me. We were just over at my parents, all of my siblings, and we all just get along really well."

In high school, Danielle was popular and engaged in a promising relationship with her boyfriend, Billy. Their bond seemed unbreakable until circumstances led Danielle to move to Hawaii due to her father's military job. She later pursued her education in Illinois, where she met Chad Rutherford at a Bible study group.

Danielle (06:41): "He was raising his hand and answering the questions like right away. And he was answering the way I would have answered those questions, right in line with the way I believed."

Their relationship blossomed rapidly, leading to a grandiose marriage proposal orchestrated by Chad during a dinner theater performance. Danielle was immediately convinced that Chad was the one she wanted to spend her life with.

Danielle (09:07): "I was 100%, this is the one that I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with."

After their marriage, they moved to Chad's hometown of Erie, Illinois, a small community where Chad was well-regarded. They were active members of their church, leading Sunday school and immersing themselves in community life. Danielle embraced her role as a stay-at-home mom, homeschooling their six children and managing the household with diligence and creativity.

Emerging Red Flags and Initial Betrayals

Despite the seemingly perfect marriage, subtle signs of Chad's deceit began to surface. Danielle noticed unusual behavior, such as Chad working late from his basement office, maintaining a disheveled appearance, and citing various emergencies to explain his absences.

Danielle (12:32): "I had to move to Hawaii because my dad was working for the military and we moved there."

One alarming incident occurred during a family vacation when Chad disappeared in the middle of the night, citing an urgent task at Walmart. His vague explanations and mysterious actions started to erode Danielle's trust.

Danielle (23:04): "So I started being like, where did he go? There was no note as far as he left somewhere. He didn't leave a message on my phone. He was just gone."

Chad's evasiveness and lack of transparency led Danielle to seek counseling, both individually and as a couple. However, Chad resisted further counseling, claiming it was pointless, which deepened the emotional distance between them.

Danielle (17:13): "I didn't want the word divorce to come up in our marriage. Like when I made a commitment in our marriage at the wedding ceremony, my promise was a promise."

The Night of the Raid

On February 8, 2017, Danielle's life took a dramatic and terrifying turn. While preparing for a family dinner, police and FBI agents stormed her home, pointing guns at her as they searched for Chad. The authorities were investigating the kidnapping of an elderly couple from their church, a crime directly linked to Chad.

Danielle (43:22): "Something's happening and I have no idea why. There's state police in my house with a gun pointed at me."

Confused and fearful, Danielle was interrogated about the missing couple and questioned about any hiding places in her house. It became evident that Chad was the prime suspect in the abduction.

Unveiling the Betrayal

As the investigation unfolded, Danielle discovered the full extent of Chad's deceit. His basement office revealed a web of lies, including fraudulent financial practices. Chad was never a certified financial advisor; instead, he had been embezzling funds from elderly clients, including his own parents and grandmother.

Danielle (61:06): "He charmed elderly people into letting him be their financial advisor, where he would skim from their accounts for years."

The most shocking revelation was the construction of a secret dungeon in one of Chad's rental properties. This hidden room was meticulously designed to hold captives, equipped with steel trapdoors, soundproofing, and restraints.

Danielle (58:26): "The only entry and exit to that dungeon room was through a steel trap door with a lock on the outside in a closet hidden under a dresser or something."

Chad's meticulous planning and the discovery of his dark side left Danielle grappling with betrayal and disbelief.

Chad's Arrest and Aftermath

Chad's arrest came after a high-speed chase ended in a crash. Police found him injured behind the wheel of a stolen Chevrolet Caprice. Despite hopes of finding the victims alive in the trunk, only Chad was apprehended. Upon returning to one of his rental properties, police uncovered the secret room and rescued the kidnapped couple, who had endured days of torture and restraint.

Danielle (50:57): "From what the judge said when he sentenced him, he wanted people to know this is not acceptable in society. Like, it's heinous. You can't just do that type of a crime and get away with it."

Chad was charged with felony home invasion, aggravated kidnapping, and unlawful restraint, receiving a life sentence without the possibility of parole.

Healing and Moving Forward

In the aftermath, Danielle faced the daunting task of rebuilding her life as a single mother to six children. She confronted feelings of self-blame and struggled with trust issues, both in herself and others. Through therapy and personal resilience, Danielle began to understand the manipulative tactics Chad employed, such as gaslighting and creating confusion to maintain control.

Danielle (78:22): "If my husband can pull the wool over my ass so easily and I thought that he was an amazing person, does that mean that this amazing person can also pull the wool over my eyes?"

Danielle found solace in her faith and entrepreneurial spirit, starting a business selling knitting patterns and working as an online English tutor. Her journey towards healing also led her to reconnect with her high school boyfriend, Billy. Their rekindled relationship provided Danielle with a renewed sense of hope and trust.

Danielle (82:35): "We were just, like, being there for each other, you know, I kind of wanted to uplift him and make him come out of the hole that I felt like he was about to go into."

Their unconventional wedding ceremony, held between Thanksgiving dinner and dessert, symbolized rejuvenation and the triumph of love and trust over betrayal.

Danielle (67:14): "If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal team or want to tell us your Betrayal story, email us@betrayalpodmail.com that's betrayal p o-mail.com we're grateful for your support."

Key Takeaways and Insights

1. Trust as a Foundation: Danielle's story underscores the fragility of trust and how easily it can be shattered by those we hold dear. Trust is the invisible force that holds relationships together, and its betrayal can lead to profound emotional devastation.

2. Signs of Manipulation: Chad's subtle manipulations, such as gaslighting and creating unnecessary conflicts, highlight common tactics used by individuals with narcissistic tendencies to maintain control and hide their true selves.

3. Resilience and Healing: Despite the immense betrayal, Danielle's journey demonstrates the power of resilience, support systems, and personal strength in overcoming trauma and rebuilding one's life.

4. Seeking Help: Danielle's decision to pursue counseling, even when met with resistance, emphasizes the importance of seeking professional help when navigating marital challenges and personal trauma.

5. Forgiveness and Boundaries: Her ability to forgive Chad while establishing boundaries showcases a healthy approach to moving forward without enabling or re-engaging with past abusers.

6. Empowerment Through Storytelling: By sharing her story, Danielle provides hope and inspiration to others facing similar betrayals, highlighting that recovery and happiness are possible even after profound personal upheaval.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Danielle (04:46): "Family is very important to me. We were just over at my parents, all of my siblings, and we all just get along really well."

• Danielle (09:07): "I was 100%, this is the one that I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with."

• Danielle (17:13): "I didn't want the word divorce to come up in our marriage. Like when I made a commitment in our marriage at the wedding ceremony, my promise was a promise."

• Danielle (23:04): "So I started being like, where did he go? There was no note as far as he left somewhere. He didn't leave a message on my phone. He was just gone."

• Danielle (35:28): "If we have you as the president, then it's better for taxes because you're a woman."

• Danielle (43:22): "Something's happening and I have no idea why. There's state police in my house with a gun pointed at me."

• Danielle (61:06): "He charmed elderly people into letting him be their financial advisor, where he would skim from their accounts for years."

• Danielle (78:22): "If my husband can pull the wool over my ass so easily and I thought that he was an amazing person, does that mean that this amazing person can also pull the wool over my eyes?"

• Danielle (82:35): "We were just, like, being there for each other, you know, I kind of wanted to uplift him and make him come out of the hole that I felt like he was about to go into."

• Danielle (83:10): "Knowing that you're not alone is so helpful. That's huge for people who gone through stuff like that."

Conclusion

Danielle Oliver Chauvet's story is a powerful testament to the enduring strength of the human spirit in the face of deep betrayal. Through her unwavering faith, resilience, and the support of her loved ones, Danielle not only survived but also found love and happiness again. Her narrative serves as both a cautionary tale and a beacon of hope, illustrating that even after experiencing profound deceit and manipulation, it is possible to rebuild one's life and trust in others.

If you or someone you know has experienced similar hardships, Danielle's story underscores the importance of seeking support, trusting your instincts, and believing in the possibility of healing and renewal.

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Credits

Produced by Glass Podcasts in partnership with iHeart Podcasts. Executive Producers: Nancy Glass and Jennifer Faison. Hosted and Produced by Andrea Gunning. Written and Produced by Monique Laborde and Ben Federman. Associate Producers: Kristen Melchiori and Caitlin Golden. Audio Editing and Mixing by Matt D'Alvecchio with additional support from Nico Aruka. Theme composed by Oliver Baines. Music Library provided by Mib Music.

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