BFFR Episode Summary: "Tinder’s Height Filter, Short Kings & First Date Red Flags"

Release Date: July 7, 2025

In the tenth episode of BFFR, hosts Sydney Leroux and Ali Riley delve into a mix of personal anecdotes, modern dating dilemmas, and heartfelt discussions, all wrapped in their signature humor and honesty. This episode, titled "Tinder’s Height Filter, Short Kings & First Date Red Flags," offers listeners a candid look into the highs and lows of life both on and off the soccer field.

Surviving "Naked and Afraid"

The episode opens with a lighthearted debate about who would last longer on the survival show "Naked and Afraid." Ali teases Sydney, saying, "You. I'm not a camper. I'm not a, like, build a fire type gal" (00:00). Sydney confidently responds, "I'll be naked, but I'm not going to be afraid" (00:12), showcasing their playful chemistry.

BFFR Moments of the Week

Ali introduces the segment by sharing their favorite BFFR moments, highlighting unique and often chaotic listener submissions. They reflect on family traditions, particularly their involvement in holiday 5Ks. Ali shares a nostalgic story: "My mom ran it when she was pregnant in July" (04:35), emphasizing the deep-rooted family bonds formed through these runs.

Sydney’s Speeding Ticket Fiasco

Sydney recounts a recent mishap involving a speeding ticket: "I got a speeding ticket heading to training" (05:00). She humorously details her frustration with the traffic school process, admitting, "I'm gonna forget to write this letter. Be for real" (07:42). The story culminates with her facing the possibility of having a warrant out for her arrest, blending humor with the realities of navigating bureaucratic hurdles.

Tinder’s Height Filter & Celebrating Short Kings

The conversation shifts to the evolving landscape of online dating. Ali brings up Tinder's new height filter feature: "Tinder is trialing a new feature. Users can filter out matches if they are above or below a certain height" (13:32). Sydney quips about the potential dishonesty on the platform: "Men lie. So I want to see your ID and then I'm going to take 2 or 3 inches off your ID" (13:38).

Ali and Sydney champion the concept of Short Kings, celebrating charisma and personality over physical stature. Ali shares an amusing story about a friend: "Lucas's friend said he's into short men even if it means flipping them over" (15:17), highlighting the unexpected depth and attraction beyond height.

Navigating First Date Red Flags

Delving deeper into dating dynamics, Sydney outlines her first date red flags: "I've been paying for men my whole life. I ain't paying for you, period" (17:00). She emphasizes the importance of setting clear boundaries from the outset, advocating for honesty and mutual respect in budding relationships.

Supporting Pride Month and the LGBTQ+ Community

Responding to a listener's message, Sydney and Ali passionately discuss Pride Month and their unwavering support for the LGBTQ+ community. Ali states, "We feel like we have the energy and we want to stand up for what we believe in, even if we aren't a part of the LGBTQ community" (36:32). They stress the importance of creating inclusive spaces and taking actionable steps to support equality beyond mere celebrations.

Listener Interaction: Favorite Things & Personal Reflections

In the "Last Call" segment, Sydney and Ali answer heartfelt listener questions. Ali shares what she loves about Sydney: "You're my shoulder to cry on. You're someone I completely trust, with my life and with my kids' lives" (39:07). Conversely, Sydney appreciates Ali's ability to bring joy and laughter during challenging times: "When we have challenges, you always know what to say to make me laugh" (39:07).

Closing Remarks and Future Plans

As the episode winds down, Sydney and Ali encourage listeners to subscribe and engage with their content across various platforms. They tease upcoming bonus content and express gratitude for their growing community, ending on a humorous note about their playful banter and mutual respect.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Sydney on Not Paying for Dates: "I've been paying for men my whole life. I ain't paying for you, period." (17:00)

• Ali on Tinder's Height Filter: "Tinder is trialing a new feature. Users can filter out matches if they are above or below a certain height." (13:32)

• Sydney on Traffic School Forgetfulness: "I'm gonna forget to write this letter. Be for real." (07:42)

• Ali Celebrating Short Kings: "Short kings, they'll surprise you." (15:17)

• Sydney on Supporting LGBTQ+ Community: "Having the power to, like, be yourself is something that I will always stand behind." (35:48)

BFFR continues to blend personal experiences with broader societal topics, making it a relatable and engaging listen. This episode underscores the importance of honesty in relationships, celebrates diversity, and highlights the deep friendship between Sydney and Ali, inviting listeners to join them in their unfiltered journey.