Mike Winger (49:12)
I want to find the exact passage. So Matthew 10:14, Jesus sends out his disciples. I'll back up a bit and we'll read a little section. He. He actually does multiple sendings. There's multiple times Jesus sends his disciples out into crowds. The final time, he sends them out into the whole world and he's sending all of them out. One time he sends out 70. In this case, he's just sending out 12. So these 12 Jesus sent out, instructing them go nowhere among the Gentiles and enter no town of the Samaritans, but go rather to the lost sheep of the house of Israel. Again, after Jesus resurrection, he's like, go into the whole world. This is specifically Israel related. And he says, go to them and proclaim as you go, saying, the kingdom of heaven is at hand. So step one with somebody, you proclaim the actual gospel. This is the reality. Jesus is the savior of the world. You really have sinned. You really need to have faith and trust in Christ, his death and resurrection, that you might be forgiven, that you can know God, that you can experience God, that you can be indwelt by the Holy Spirit. You need to get to the gospel itself, the sin and the Savior and the response of faith. So he says, the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Tell them this and he empowers them. Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse lepers, cast out demons. You receive without paying, give without pay, so they're not to have their hands out like people owe them for these ministry things that they're doing. Acquire no gold or silver or copper for your belts, no bag for your journey, or two tunics or sandals or staff for the laborer deserves his food. So they weren't to be self provided for, but they weren't to ask for money. This I take side issue here as not a statement of how every missionary is supposed to go out. I will take nothing with me and I will not ask for payment for anything I do and will just watch God provide. That is not a standard plan for missions. That is not. What this is, is a singular moment where he sends out the 12 and he's using a specific plan for a very short term mission trip to teach them lessons about reliance upon God and about God's provision. Later he'll send them out and he'll say before I told you, don't get money for your belts, don't get extra stuff for your journey. God's gonna provide. And then later, right before the crucifixion, he's like, hey, I told you before, don't do this. Now I'm telling you, if you don't have a sword, go get one. You basically get ready and hunker down. Things are about to get rough and dangerous. And so I'm saying this is a temporary instruction. This is not a general instruction for missions. But he tells him this and he says, and here we'll get to where it answers your question, I think. And whatever town or village you enter, find out who is worthy in it and stay there until you depart. As you enter the house, greet it, and if the house is worthy, let your peace come upon it. But if it is not worthy, let your peace return to you. And if anyone will not receive you, verse 14, very important, if anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town. Truly I say to you, it will be more bearable on the day of Judgment for the land of Sodom and Gomorrah than for that town. Because they're having like the apostles show up with signs and wonders and miracles and they're still rejecting. If you have somebody who's utterly rejecting and they know it's true, you can shake the dust off your feet and you can walk away and it is not your Responsibility. Now, I'm not saying you don't care that shaking the dust off your feet is not, I'm sick of you. This is how we often use the kind of picture in modern times. I'm sick of you. It's actually about responsibility, not about care or concern. It's, I'm not responsible for you. I'm shaking the dust off my feet because it's not clinging to me. Because I am not accountable for that decision you just made. I share with you, I preach to you. The only other things you can do, obviously you can pray for them, obviously you can seek to minister to them. You can even try to build relationship. But I've watched many Christians spend a thousand hours evangelizing someone who doesn't want it and doesn't care and never moves when they could have just said, okay, you're not interested, I'm moving on. And they could have evangelized a thousand people instead of one guy for a thousand hours. And so I think it's okay to shake the dust off your feet and move on. God respects their decisions. You can too. Now, getting text updates about Todd White from someone. I'll have to look at that afterwards. Number five, Salt light says, peace to you, Brother Mike. I'm a former military and have a desire to go back to an elite unit. However, I feel anxiety leaving my wife and daughter for periods of time. How do I reconcile this? Well, the anxiety may be justified as far as, like, the question of whether it's biblically permissible for you to leave at all. Can anybody be in the military where you're leaving for long periods of time because that's the job you have? I think the answer there is, yes, it can happen. There's an interesting law in the Old Testament. Maybe I can find it. It's about when you first get married. Ah, Deuteronomy 24. 5. Yeah. I do not have Deuteronomy memorized, so I'm grateful for being able to search it. Deuteronomy 24, verse 5. Put it on your screen. When a man is newly married, newly married, he shall not go out with the army or be liable for any other public duty. He shall be free at home for one year to be happy with his wife whom he has taken. What is the implication? It is, after a year he may have public duties he has to do. He might go out to fight in the army, but for this one year he doesn't. And so I would say, not that this is a law for all people for all time, but there's a principle behind it that I think can apply to your scenario, which is upon first getting married, you don't just bail, right? Spend that time, build your home, get things situated. And then if you do have this sort of the kind of job that pulls you away, then you get pulled away. But you are mindful of the impact it's going to have in that season of life on your family. And you can talk to them about it and ask them about it and say, what do you think about this? Have open conversations, give them permission to tell you. The other concern, though, just as any husband would have to ask, is, okay, maybe in principle, it's not wrong inherently for me to be gone for, like, maybe even a couple months or a few months at a time because I'm doing this work. That doesn't mean, though, that it's healthy in my marriage for my wife and my kids. And that's a question everyone, every guy would have to ask is like, how are they doing? Every dad, every father, every. Excuse me, Husband should be kind of like assessing their marriage and their. Their situation on a regular basis and just going, like, how's everything going? Are things going good? Are we handling things well? Are the needs being met? And you'll often find that things are not going good or not well in some areas, or needs are not being met, but it's healthy to make those assessments. So that's a decision I obviously can't make for you. In principle, the option seems to be possible. Yes, you work, and that's just the nature of your job. You're traveling. But it may or may not be good in your marriage, in your family, and that's a decision that you'd have to work on. Let's see, number six, by the way, I'll add one more scripture. The guy who doesn't take care of his own household. Worse than an unbeliever, it says. So that's the thing. Am I still really taking care of them, or am I looking at them and I'm going, this ain't working. This just ain't working. The way she is, the way I am, the way the kids are, it's just not working. Then you got to do something else, because they are a much bigger priority than your. They're a much bigger priority than your career, for sure. All right, number six, Kara, or Kara says, what are your thoughts on second Timothy 2, 24, 26, and how does it inform your soteriology? Thanks. So for those who don't know, soteriology is a fancy word for Your beliefs about how people get saved and what happens when they get saved. So it's the ology of soter or salvation theology. So salvation theology as opposed to like say trinitarian theology. Or you could have just general theology in a much larger sense. Soteriology. Let's look at this passage. 2 Timothy 2, 24, 26. I'll read these verses. And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome, but kind to everyone. Let me make sure I'm in the right one. Yeah. Must be quarrelsome. Must not be quarrelsome, but kind to everyone. Able to teach, patiently enduring evil, Correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth. That I think is what you're highlighting. And that they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil after being captured by him to do his will. So we are to do this is like a cause and effect. Okay. Or potentially cause and effect. Let's look at it this way. You're going to be this way towards these opponents. These are unsaved people you're dealing with specifically. Right. That they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil. Okay, let me back up here's questions on this passage. Are these people going from a state of not saved to saved? That's an important question. If it's they're caught, their snare of the devil could be referring to someone who's actually saved. Could be referring only to unsaved. If it's referring to both saved and unsaved, it's not really a soteriological claim as much. The next question would be, what is the cause and effect relationship of. I'm handling my opponents well and that that is somehow part of God leading them to repentance. God is granting them repentance. Now if there's a causal relationship to how I handle them and their repentance, then you would think that that leans away from like a Calvinist theology. If there's a causal relationship there, it's not just coincidental, Then you would think that that would lean away from Calvinist theology, which is just regeneration and then faith. It's like the only causal factors are God regenerates you and then you believe. But then there's this. What might I think a Calvinist friend of mine would highlight? God may perhaps grant them repentance. Oh, so repentance is something God grants them and he may do it and he may not do it. All that to say, I don't think this passage gives you enough information to have like a strong. My soteriology comes from this passage and is fully established by it. I think it could be interpreted in a couple ways and that what you would really need to do is continue to develop your understanding of soteriology with other passages. And what probably most people will do is they'll read this soteriology they already have into this passage. So God may perhaps grant repentance. I'm going to read Calvinism into that if I'm a Calvinist. If I'm not a Calvinist, I'll be like God. Granting people repentance doesn't mean God is causally regenerating them before faith, making them repent. He granted them repentance. He didn't force them to repent. I could argue that way, but the phrase itself doesn't, I don't think, force one interpretation or the other by itself. What we do know is this. This is how you should deal with people in general. You generally should be dealing with people like this. Now what is the exception? People like to say that Jesus's exception was to religious people. I don't think that that's fair that when he was harsh with people, when he wasn't kind, you might even think he was quarrelsome because he like picked fight sometimes with some of these guys. So when was he not this people like to say it was with religious people. I think that that's a misnomer. I think everybody was religious back then. Everybody wasn't religious people. It was leaders. I think that he picked fights with leaders because leaders have a stricter accountability. I myself am a leader. You do not need to be as gentle with me as you are with your neighbor, with the guy down the street, with the person you're preaching the gospel to, with correcting a person in your congregation. When you're dealing with a leader, the stakes are higher. The impact they have on other people is bigger. And so then, I don't know, it's just on my mind because I was doing this earlier, just now with at if wasn't in leadership, if he wasn't on a microphone, if he was just some guy in your church saying wild things, you pull him and say, hey man, let's talk about this. But when he's harming other people beneath him with these types of things, you have to level up. I think that's biblical. I think that's what Jesus did. Not your question. Just on my mind because I just did that and I thought this verse, people would be like hey, Mike, how does that apply to what you just did? That seemed like a useful thing to do. So sorry if that feels like a disappointing answer. But I do think most people will just read their soteriology into this passage more than they will get it from it. There are other passages that are more clear. I would say that number seven, Beulah land. Sorry, I do not know what you're saying. How do we reconcile Jesus being called Everlasting father in Isaiah 9, 6? Thanks, Mike. Oh, you're all very welcome. I actually have a thing on this, and I don't have it all in my head right now. Just human limitations. There's a whole thing on this. Maybe I'll do it around Christmas time, you know, because then people are gonna be singing those songs. Everlasting Father. There. There's a whole thing on this. I will. I'll try to do it this year before Christmas. I know, guys, that sounds like forever away, but that's just my life. But the passage in question here, I can give you kind of a summary. I'm trying to remember the details. There's some research I did on this. I just don't have it in my brain. Okay, so for to us a child is born. This is a famous passage which is applied to Jesus as prophetically being about the Messiah. So for to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government shall be upon his shoulder. I love that. A child is born and a son is given. For God gave his only son to the world, and the government shall be upon his shoulder again. He will. He's the King of Kings, right? And his name shall be called. And there's a bunch of things. His name is called Wonderful Counselor. Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. And then it goes on prophetically, the increase in government and peace. There'll be no end. On the throne of David he'll sit. This is like the world ruler, the coming Messiah. So what is he called? He's called Wonderful Counselor. Right now, some people relate that to the Holy Spirit, interestingly, Mighty God. Some would relate that to the Father. Maybe others are trying to find other definitions there of Everlasting Father. Is that about the Father is a prince of peace? Is this Unitarian? Is it saying that Jesus is the Holy Spirit? He's also the Father. He's also the Prince of Peace. And maybe Mighty God is. He's like all three is at one. And it's actually Unitarian. I don't believe that's the case. So I think that's a False interpretation of the passage. And that's not how the New Testament interprets it. Jesus has never called the Father in the New Testament. He repeatedly refers to the Father as being different in some ways than Himself. And he's his Father, my Father. He actually prays to the Father. It's not me with two puppet doing this. Like, I'll call this one Jesus, and I'll call this one the Father. And I'm like, holy Father, thank you for showing these things to my disciples that they may know you. And I'm like, and you, yes, Son, I am well pleased. This is the picture of the Incarnation on Unitarianism. It doesn't make sense. No, I don't think that's it at all. Strong New Testament passages refute the idea that Jesus is the Father in the trinitarian sense of being God the Father. But he's God. He's clearly God. That phrase, mighty God, clearly he is referred to as God here. His name shall be called Mighty God. And there's a whole study on that. Okay, what else could everlasting Father be referred to be referring to? One trail to chase down is the concept that this could be Father of Eternity, that it's not he's the Father categorically. It's meaning that he's eternal. It's speaking of not his identity as Father versus Son versus Spirit or something like that, but it's speaking about his eternality. The Son is born and he is from Everlasting. He is eternal. That and so one in one other translation possible, Father of Eternity. I'll dig more into that before. By Christmas time, when you guys are all singing these songs, I'll do something. All right. I know there's more that should be said, but that's what I've got for today. Number eight. All right. Hi, Mike. Thank you for your ministry. Fruity Pebbles. Asking this question, what are your opinions on best practice for meaningful church membership? For a specific example, should baptizing someone immediately make. Make them a member? Okay, so I don't know best practices. To me, that's a high standard. But I can say some things that I think are healthy things that I see happening in churches now. I was part of Calvary Chapels for many years, and I was never a member of the church in an official sense. Like, I never went through a process and then became a church member. That is not true. Now I'm over at a church where I'm actually a member. Okay. So I went through the membership classes. I signed the Statement of Faith, and I thought that Process was awesome. Okay. Being someone who early Calvary days, I would have been suspicious of membership. I would have thought of membership as, like, religious control. And that's how it was couched, even from some of the leaders in the movement. But what they'll do is then they'll send a members list, because they have to legally send a members list into the government to show that they're a real church. Like my ministry. This is not a church. I have no members. If you're a church, legally, you want to be a registered church, you have to have actual members. So they get around this. Calvary chapels get around this. Many churches probably do by just submitting the names of whoever has tithed, maybe regularly or maybe once, I don't know. So they submit these names as members of the church, which seems questionable to me, because these people, are they members of your church or not? Our church has no membership, and they're like, hey, government, these are our members. That seems a little fishy to do that practice. I'll just put it out there. But now I'm no longer suspicious of membership. I think that it's a healthy thing. I think it's a good thing. And I have a number of reasons why, and it took me years to come to that conclusion. So one of the reasons is church discipline. The Bible actually demands church discipline. And you can see the desperate need for church discipline in churches where it's not just kicking people out. Church discipline isn't just kicking people out. The hard part of church discipline is not that part. That's hard, but it's not the hardest part. The harder part is you're actually confronting sin amongst the people that are in your midst and trying to bring them to restoration in their walk with God and to overcome sin. That's discipleship, man. That is powerful. That sanctifies the entire congregation, which, when you know that can't be tolerated. But we love you. Let's help you overcome this. Let's go to you and confront you in a spirit of gentleness, seeking to restore you. That's the thing that gets missed often when there isn't actual official membership, because there's no leverage. There's no final sense of we can actually ask you and we'll ask you to leave, but we don't want to. You are part of us, and we want to restore you. Membership helps that. Now, how does membership have to happen? Oh, there's a number of other things. I'll give you more benefits if you do membership in the way it was done recently. A Few years ago or whenever it was me and my wife did it. The process was we sat down and we went through the statement of faith for the church and for the denomination, the EV Free. And so we go through the statement of faith and then I'm asking questions. I was like, hey, the statement of faith says this here. I could sign it if we mean this. I couldn't sign it if it means that, you know, And I'm like asking those kinds of questions. And we're working through it with the elders. They're there. You're getting a personal relationship with some of the elders that are right there in the presence. The pastors we use, we usually use the word elder, which I like because that's a biblical term. But with the pastors of the church, it's not Mormon guys, don't worry. And we're talking with them, we're asking questions, we're getting our thoughts answered and, and it's teaching theology. There's someone who may have been at Church for 30 years and they've never really learned good theology. They just know Bible stories. And so that church membership process is the time to catechize your members to teach them theology. So they walk through a several week class where you're learning theology and all that. Now that's official belonging in the local church. That's not the same as saying you are now a member of Christ's body because you're actually officially in the heavenly sense, you're a member of the body of Christ the moment you get saved. And baptism is a public affirmation of their accepting you into the body of Christ. We don't need church membership in that official sense that I'm describing here. If we just treat baptism, local church baptism, as official membership, where we just say, hey, we catechize you because we're not going to baptize you unless you know the gospel. So we give you the gospel, we make sure you know it, then we baptize you. You're officially part of us. We will officially remove you if need be, but we're going to also disciple you and care for you. If we treat baptism like that, maybe we don't need as much of the membership stuff, but man, there was such great benefit in doing the classes and doing the catechesis stuff that was in there. I know that sounds like a Catholic term. It just means you're teaching them through the basics of the faith. It's not a Catholic term. It doesn't belong to Catholicism. That's really good. That's really Good stuff. Lots of good things that come out of that. And maybe that's what's needed. If your church is too big for everyone to know everyone, then you got to have some sort of more official process for people, I think, because otherwise they just come and they show up and then they go to get baptized. And what happens is they go to a pastor and they go, hey, I want to get baptized. And then you're like, oh, let's meet once or twice and we'll talk about it. Maybe we'll just meet once, you know, the gospel. And they go, yeah, yeah, yeah. And you're like, they're not really getting the theology that we think they need, so there should be something, something to give them more. You know, some churches, Calvary's, and they've done this for many years. Calvary. This was a very good thing. New believers classes, they would have new believers courses where people would go, new Christians would be encouraged, go through these classes. We're going to talk about basic theology, we're going to talk about basic Bible study. What is the Bible? How do you read it? We're going to go over all those types of things. It was super good and super healthy. And so we need to teach the theology to people. We need official. For them to belong to the church in some capacity. And we need the ability to excommunicate. And if you have official belonging and a genuine ability and willingness to kick people out and to say you officially don't belong, then what automatically tends to happen is discipleship in the middle of that. Right. Because that sets the stage for true. I think discipleship, it's a good thing. So if you're part of a church and they have membership but you have not done it, I think you should. And worst case scenario, you find out, oh, they're actually teaching things I can't even agree with. Well, you better find out that now. All right, Number nine, Second Peter three nine says, Google it. Or no, that's your name. Okay. Does Hebrews 2:16 imply fallen angels can never be forgiven? If not, what else could it mean? So thankful for your ministry. Keep fighting the good fight. Thanks, man. I do appreciate that. Or woman, whichever one you are. Okay. Hebrews 2:16. For surely it is not angels that he helps, but he helps the offspring of Abraham. All right, we gotta back up. We gotta back up. Whoa, I backed way up. I'm going to go back to verse 10. Okay. Talking about Jesus. Obviously it says it was fitting that he for whom and by whom. Actually, no, I need to back up more. Because the Incarnation is important to understand what we just read all verse nine. But we see him who was, for a little while, was made lower than the angels, right? So he wasn't made an angel. He was higher than the angels. And then he was made lower than angels, namely Jesus, crowned with glory and honor because of the suffering of death, so that by the grace of God, he might taste death for everyone. Jesus was made lower than angels. He was made into human. His human death was vicarious in part because he is human. Now he's also God. He never ceased being God, but He took on humanity. So he has two natures, right? The divine nature and human nature. So he tastes death for everyone, everyone being people, because he took on our form. For it was fitting that he for whom and by whom are all things. Excuse me, let me read that again. I think I have King James in my brain again. For it was fitting that he, for whom and by whom all things exist, in bringing many sons to glory, should make the founder of their salvation perfect through suffering. For he who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why he is not ashamed to call them brothers, saying, I will tell of your name to my brothers in the midst of the congregation. I will sing your praise. And again I will put my trust in him. And again, behold, I and the children God has given me. Since therefore, the children share in flesh and blood, that is humans, so all the contexts of people who are getting saved, those are humans. He took on human form to save humans. Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, flesh and blood, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is the devil, and deliver all those who, through fear of death, were subject to lifelong slavery. For surely. For surely it is not angels that he helps, but he helps the offspring of Abraham. The help is salvific in this case. I think that it is implied in this passage because Jesus helps and saves humans and he had to take on human flesh to do it. He had to die a human death to save a bunch of humans. And then it says, he's not helping angels. The statement here is that the salvation Jesus offers through the cross is not available to angels. Not available to angels. Now, you could, if you wanted to do wild theological speculations which you have to be cautious with, but you could say, well, maybe angels don't have Jesus as a path to salvation, but maybe fallen angels have some other path back into the grace. Of God or into the. Into, you know, the kingdom. I think that not only is that raised, like, serious concerns about. So they have sins that are somehow atoned for apart from Jesus, like that. That seems like it raises some serious theological problems. I would not want to suggest that. But also we have this revelation stuff that we read about later where it looks as though Satan and his angels. I mean, it more than looks. It says they're all going to be cast in the lake of fire and they're all cast down. They're all kicked out. They're not part of the kingdom. So we have the fall. We have him and his people, who actually Satan and his crew are targeted for destruction even in the death and resurrection of Jesus. So he's not atoning for them, he's judging them, in a sense, through that. So I think the answer to your question is that this passage means. Let me read it one more time, make sure I got your question right. Does it imply fallen angels can never be forgiven? Yes, basically. At least that they won't be forgiven. There's nothing available for them Now. Maybe someone says, well, that's wrong. That's evil. If anybody feels that in your heart right now, well, that's wrong. I want to caution you that it's actually a red flag that you should really pay attention to because perhaps some part of your heart is actually thinking you deserve the grace of God. And when you heard angels don't have it available to them in the same way it's available to you, you felt like that was wrong. Because somewhere in your heart you think you deserve God's grace. Which is a great irony, because if grace is grace, you don't deserve it. You don't deserve it. God would be righteous to not save us. He's gracious and loving to save us, but he's under no obligation to save anybody. That kind of entitlement is not biblical, although it can happen in our hearts. And it's cool to see the red flag and go, wait a minute. I felt bad for angels. Like, I can't believe God doesn't give them a chance. Like, why not give Satan a chance to be saved? I don't think he does. I don't see it in scripture in any way. And it seems like it's implied that that's not there. But to feel that that is somehow wrong is revealing that there's an entitlement in my heart in relation to the gospel of Christ. I'll bet you also have a problem with hell. You probably feel there's A good chance. And this doesn't mean you're not saved. No, this is about assessing our beliefs and our feelings to see if they're biblical. A very healthy thing to do as a Christian. But you may have a problem with hell where you're feeling like it's actually sort of unjust. It feels unfair that God would punish people with hell. And I'd say, oh well, you're just not perceiving the actual grace of God. You think it's not grace. You think it's just kind of he's being nice. And so that's a biblical thinking problem that you may have. One can also point out a significant difference between angels and us angels. So we start Adam and Eve in the garden, innocent and unaware. And then they not unaware of anything, but unaware of the stuff that they became aware of when they ate of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Whereas angels came from in the presence of God, full time, worshiping God, knowing God, experiencing God in his incredible glory, and then chose to fell. So the nature of that fall was different. It was different. It wasn't eating of tree deception. Some desire that was there, but it was like a willful I'm going to rebel against the God that I know that is true. There's more knowledge that was there. So there's one difference that's there. Anyway. Question number 10, anonymous question says, I often obsess over others opinions of me and seek emotional validation deeply. How do I become freed from the need to be validated by others and is there a way to satisfy that need in the Lord? Great question, great question. I often obsess over others opinions of me and seek emotional validation deeply. How do I become freed from the need to be validated by others? And is there a way to satisfy that need in the Lord? I'll answer in reverse. Is there a way to satisfy our needs to be validated in the Lord? I think biblically there is. There are many examples of those who live to please God and they don't live to please man. Let me give you a quick verse on this. Galatians 1:10. This is where Paul is talking about how he lives and it shows this juxtaposition. And this is where you realize there's actually some really dangerous traps in your sense for need for validation in our modern sociological way of looking at things we might think of. My need for validation is like, oh, I struggle with the need for validation. It may actually be worse than that. It might be that this is a very dangerous trap that will cause you to do some really bad, regretful things. And this verse will maybe help show that. Paul says, if we, even if we are an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to the one we preach to you, let him be accursed. And by that he means you're accursed to damnation, spiritual damnation, as we have said before. So now I say again, if anyone, anyone that could be an apostle. Yep. This is a Sola scriptura passage. Absolutely. People try to laugh when I say that. And I'm like, it is. It is. You can laugh all you want. Paul himself is tested by the gospel, which is enshrined now in Scripture, that sola scriptor, man, if anyone is preaching to you a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be accursed. For am I now seeking the approval of man or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. That is the verse. My desire for validation will put me at odds with my service of Christ. That's the nature of things. This is why repeatedly God tells them in the Old Testament, he tells his prophets, like, don't be afraid of their faces. I remember telling myself this as a younger minister in church. I would be up preaching, and I was, here's the thing. If you've never taught in church or been on stage, there's something you have to understand is you see their faces and people, it's like they don't notice that you're seeing their faces when you're preaching. They're just watching. But they're often not very aware that you're watching their facial expressions, even as you teach. Now, some pastors, they get past this by just always looking above everybody or past everybody, because it's, like, distracting. But I remember reading in the prophets, reading, don't be afraid of their faces. And I thought, I need that word, because I was just nervous. And I was nervous that what I shared was being evaluated and my presence and whether I said or the way I look and everything's being under a microscope, and it just felt weird. But I knew that I had something that I'd studied in the Word, that I'd prayed over for many hours of just preparation and prayer and study. And I wanted to bring it. I thought it would benefit the people, but I didn't know the people would like it. And that was a concern. And that was something you have to overcome to be a pastor. You have to share the things, whether they like it or not and deal with the fallout. There's times where as a pastor you'll share stuff and it will cause turmoil and cause some issues and you just have to. You got to do it anyway. So that conflict gives you this passage, that kind of conflict. If I were trying to please men, I wouldn't be a servant of Christ. Now why do I please men? Is it because I love men? Oh, that's what I'll tell myself. I just love people so much. But I'm actually trying to please them so that they'll be pleased with me. That's the reason why. And that's the validation often we're seeking is I'm looking for people to be pleased with me. And this leads me into all kinds of compromise where I do things that pleasure them but do not pleasure God. So, yes, you already know the answer to this. It's baked into your question. You already know it. How do I become free from the need to be validated by others? And is there a way to satisfy that need in the Lord? That's exactly it. You go, I'm going to live to be pleasing to God, fully pleasing to him. And I'm not going to evaluate whether or not you're even pleased with me. It's enough for me to know that God is approving of me. That's all I need. And if the whole world loves me and the Lord is thinking, you're really blowing it. I don't approve of that. That matters more. That matters more. So that's a long haul thing. You said you often obsess over others opinions of you. One thing that will help you is step out and do the right thing in circumstances where people don't like you for it. And then you'll get used to it over time. This has been my experience. You get used to it over time. You just grow more and more okay with it over time. There's times where it will really bother you. And you go to the Lord and you say, lord, show me if there's something I've done that was wrong here. They're upset with me. I think I did the right thing. I think I honored you in this. If I'm in error, show me, Lord, because I want to please you. But if they're just mad at me for doing what's right, they did that to Jesus, they did that to the apostles, they did that to the prophets. Doesn't make me Jesus or an apostle or prophet, but their examples show me that, that I should not let this slow me down. Every Christian Needs to be armed with the ability to have people who really don't like you and act cruel to you when you're doing the right thing and you're okay with it. That's very important. Very, very important. So march towards that. Move towards that. It'll take time. Read the Scriptures, read the prophets, read Jeremiah, read what they went through and learn from those examples. Okay, there's a bonus question for today. I haven't read it yet. I don't read any of these until I get them sent because they're live. Questions. This is. Bonus ones are usually just for fun. So you guys know. So who is your favorite Lord of the Rings character and why? Who is your favorite Lord of the Rings character and why? Oh, that is a hard question. That is a rough one. I feel like I most closely identify with Treebeard because he's the one who said he's the int. Who said that. It takes a long time to say anything in Old Entish, and we don't say anything unless it's worth taking a long time to say it. I feel like I identify so much with that. Favorites. Okay, well, the books and the movies are all very different. Like, I really like Faramir in the book. In the movie, he's cool, you know. Well, it's not the same. Most of the characters I like, I actually like Aragorn better in the movies than in the book. As far as character goes. Favorite character in the movies, it's split. One of them for sure is Sam. Yeah, like Sam potatoes. Boil them, mash them, stick them in a stew. That's a good one. Let me think. This is important stuff, guys. I'm gonna take a while to answer this question. Let me think. Let's ponder this stuff. Yeah, Faramir I like a lot in the books. He has this thing from like, Denethor, his dad, where he's just like, super insightful. He listens carefully, figures things out, and it's kind of a cool thing. Yeah, it's not Tom Bombadil. I'll tell you. I'm gonna irritate some of. Some of the real book fans. Tom Bombadil, I don't understand him in the story like a lot of people. Maybe that's my literary ignorance. I don't get it. I've heard the explanations. It just doesn't land for me. Yeah, yeah. I'll just. I'll go with. I guess I'll go with Sam. Why not? Why not go with Sam? Stalwart, self sacrificial, courageous and humble. Sam I like him and I'm going with you. Right? Okay, guys, that's it. I'm going to close this thing in prayer. I'm not going to give you guys more updates right now. There's tons of things that are cooking right now. And it will come out as it comes out. The agenda and goal behind all these videos I'm doing about COVID up culture and stuff is for the blessing on the body of Christ. And it really is changing things. I keep hearing reports denomination. I know of a denomination that is like looking at changing their policies on stuff internally after this stuff is coming out that I'm aware of. There's other individual churches. Things are shifting and changing in some great ways. And it's because I think that trust that I had is being rewarded. Not just me, there's a bunch of people doing the same work I'm doing. Right? The trust that we had is being rewarded. That if we could just expose these things as scripture tells us to, that the church will take the momentum of that and they will start self correcting. And in some cases it means people will leave ministries or ministries will shut down, like Todd White's ministry should shut down, in my opinion. But in other cases, maybe there will be like radical reform where there can be internal transformation and that things will look different in the future. And there will be that real genuine humility, ownership and transformation. And that's awesome to think about. So let's pray. Father, we thank you for your word. It is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path. And it tells us to do in simple words, to do things that some cases we're not doing. And we pray that you'd help us all to see it. We just humbly pray right now, Lord, each of us. Open up our eyes to see in your word the obvious issues that we're facing personally in our lives, in our marriage, in our singleness, in our family, in our walk with you. The obvious things show us again through the scripture those things that we might head off disasters from happening in the future by just responding now to the simple correction of your word in Jesus name. All right, y'. All. Lord bless you. See you guys. No, next Friday we're not. There's no stream next Friday. There is gonna be the one after that. I believe. But I think. Or am I out of town? I might be gone for two. I'm gonna be doing the Blessed God Summit with Ruslan the 6th or 7th of March. 6th and 7th of March. You can check that out. Bless God summit. You can Google it if you want to see. That's down in San Diego. All right, take care.