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Jesse Itzler
I was talking to my friend Rich, who worked for a hedge fund on Wall street and he was like 23 years old or something. And I'm like, rich, how's everything going? He's like, oh, great, it's got my holiday bonus. I'm like, oh, what was it? He goes, $3 million. And then I was thinking to myself, I love Rich. But Rich couldn't tell me where the ocean is right now and we're in it. It made me realize, like, rich can make $3 million. I can make $3 million. If so, and so can run a marathon. I can run a marathon. If that guy can run 100 miles, why can't I run miles?
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Cody Sanchez
Welcome back to the Big Deal podcast. I'm Cody Sanchez and this is for those of you who don't want to just be rich, but free and are willing to do what it takes to get there. Okay, this week we've got Jesse Eitzler. This man is an absolute legend. He is married to famously Sarah Blakely, the founder of Spanx and now sneaks her new company. He started Zyco Coconut Water Co. Which sold for hundreds of millions of dollars. He started Marquee Jet, which sold for billions of dollars to NetJet. He started more companies than he can remember that are multi million dollar companies and a few others that are eight figure a year companies. The weirdest part though is he's so humble and he lives his life by this code that I find fascinating. The code is essentially this. How can we create a life so good that we look back on it and every single year we think that I lived it with adventure. So I hope you guys enjoy this conversation as much as I do. He's also kind of hysterical and a beautiful storyteller. But before we get into the interview, I want to share a quick business tip that I've been thinking about a lot lately. It's Eliminate automate, Delegate. Famously Tim Ferriss. But if you assess the tasks in that order, your business runs 10x more smoothly. I learned it from him and I'm still doing it today. I'm always looking for tools to help eliminate tasks, automate them, and then make the delegating them easier. So one of those tools is Riverside, the sponsor of today's podcast episode. Not only can it record 4K videos and audio remotely to ensure your podcast quality is top notch, but it also drastically improved my team's editing speed with the text based editor. So it basically transcribes your footage, removes silences in one click, and creates short clips just by Selecting the text. Even better. If you make a flub, which I never do, obviously, then you can delete the sentence in the transcript and it will delete it from your video instantly. Riverside has an in platform editor where you can upload your own content too. So it's not just footage recorded on Riverside that gets the special treatment. So how do people find new podcasts? Often from seeing clips online. Riverside understands this, and that's why I love their AI magic clips, which analyze moments in your podcast that have the most potential to get traction online. So this saves hours of listening to your podcast for the 50th time to find the perfect clip. Riverside got you covered, so don't waste your time doing what Riverside can do for you. I got you guys a deal.
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Unknown
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Cody Sanchez
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Unknown
If I'm not wrong, you have run a marathon in a coconut inflatable sack. Buffett, you were a rapper, sang jingles, and also seemed to have a penchant for, like, running up to famous people, getting them to do certain things. And I was just wondering, do you not care what other people think?
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Jesse Itzler
You would be doing all the same stuff before if the Internet wasn't here. I didn't have a choice. Like when I was, you know, making my way up in the business world, we had to do anything we could to get, like, attention without clicks. So it was just the marketing and the way we went about everything was totally different. So, like, you know, you mentioned running a marathon in a coconut. I was in a coconut package, like a bottle of our package. And I had six friends. We were six pack and Gatorade had paid like a bazillion dollars to be the title sponsor of the New York Marathon. And our company was doing like a million dollars, like 2 million in sales. Like it was nothing beverage. And we're like, we gotta, you know, we ambushed the New York Marathon. Basically, we ran as. But you had to do those things back then to stand out. So.
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Unknown
Yes, but are you ever freaked out when you do things like that or just go, fuck it, I'm here.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah. I mean, I think if you want to be an entrepreneur, part of being an entrepreneur is you have to get over the fear of being embarrassed. You know, it's like the best gift you can give yourself in anything, entrepreneur or not. Once you get over the fear of being embarrassed, it's so liberating. And the only way to do that is to put yourself in situations that are embarrassing.
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Unknown
What was like, the first one that you did that was like. Do you remember, like, back in the day where you're like, oof, yeah. What was it?
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Jesse Itzler
I was. I was 15 years old. So I grew up in New York in the 80s when, like, I know, like, when breakdancing and hip hop was just coming on the scene, I was in New York. It was the heartbeat of everything. And I know I don't look like it, but I got into breakdancing and I was like. I said to my friend who was like, my partner in this, Myron. I'm like, man, let's go to Washington, D.C. there's no way the kids in D.C. are as good as us. Like, we're from New York, you know? So I convinced my sister, who just got her driver's license, to drive us down to Washington, D.C. from New York City. And we had this boombox, and the whole ride down, I was flipping out. I'm like, we're gonna get out of our car and set up a boombox in a parking lot somewhere in Georgetown. I was just nervous. And what if we're not good? What if kids are better than us? What if no one shows up? And all these thoughts that we all have about center around self doubt. So anyway, so we get out there, we put the boombox down. He starts doing his thing, I start doing my thing. A crowd forms around us, and we take off our hat. We're collecting money. It's, like, working. And at the end of three hours, we had, like, 80 bucks, and I paid my sister for the gas, and we split, like, you know, I think we split 80 bucks, like, $40 to Myron, $40 in singles to me. I, like, stuffed my pocket and I ran over to my. Counted all the money. Then I, like, put a. Counted all the money again, and then I gave him a bear hug, and I'm like, myron, we're fucking rich. But it was the first time in my life that I was like, if I could get over that fear and get rewarded, then, like, whoa, you know, Like, I just got paid, even though I was really scared. And it doesn't sound like a meaningful lesson, but it was for me at 14, because I was like, all right. Butterflies are okay.
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Unknown
That's such a. Did it ever not work out for you to do something really scary?
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Jesse Itzler
A million times. I've been booed off stages. I mean, I had Cody. I had a record out, like, you know, right after college, I signed to a record label called Delicious Vinyl, and there was a magazine called Rap pages, which is like a big hip hop magazine in the early 90s. I get off a plane and I look to the. To the left of me and there's a magazine rack in the airport. And I'm like, I'm on the COVID of rap pages. So I flipped out. I'm like, how can no one tell me that? Like, they didn't even call me and tell me. So I bought like the thirteen magazine I'm sending to everyone on the fucking cover of rap pages. And as I'm going to check out, I'm like, you know, I want to read the article. So I go to open it up and it says, are white rappers ruining hip hop? And I was on the. I was the COVID child of that. So, I mean, like, I've had an egg on my face, you know, and it was just.
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Unknown
So you still buy them?
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Jesse Itzler
What's that?
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Unknown
Did you still buy the magazine?
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Jesse Itzler
Hell no. I was so mad at the writer, I was embarrassed. I thought everyone in the world was looking at me like, that's the kid that's ruining hip hop. That's the kid. But no one cared, you know, I did a show. I had a song that I did for the Denver Broncos when I was writing sports songs, which is something that I did. They won the super bowl. So I performed it at the super bowl. There were 675,000 people there and I forgot the words.
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Unknown
Oh, no.
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Jesse Itzler
So, I mean, but that's part of, you know, look, if you want to have an exceptional life, you got to put yourself in exceptional situations. And it doesn't always work out, you know, but you have to put yourself in those situations.
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Unknown
You do that a lot?
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Jesse Itzler
A lot. I still do it.
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Unknown
Your life. Well, one, it kind of makes sense because you have this big ass calendar that's huge that I used, which is, I think when I first started going back and forth with you.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
I was like, this is so weirdly cool. I put up this big, huge calendar and I blocked off all of the days on it that I wanted to have my. You call it masogis.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
And it totally changed our year and we actually ended up doing a bunch of stuff. I work too much, so sometimes I just end up being in a spreadsheet all year. And then all of a sudden you're 85. And I'm not 85, but I'm 38. I'm like, oh my God, what did I do this year? I just, I just did business.
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Jesse Itzler
Right.
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Unknown
And so it seems like that's always been part of your Life inserting that. Is that true? Like, how do you live an exceptional life?
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Jesse Itzler
Well, first of all, to your point, most people spend so much time, you know, scheduling their workdays. You know, every Monday through Friday is like appointments, schedule, zoom call, whatever, and very little time scheduling their personal life. Like, when are we taking trips? When's date night? What races am I doing? What concerts am I going to? So their calendar fills up with work stuff. And I think it's really important to prioritize yourself first. And when you have this, the big ass calendar like that we have, you know, we're all visual so you can see all 365 days of the year on one calendar. You can see where your time's going and you can also track towards your goals. So I think that a calendar is one of the, if not the most important, planning tool people can have in business, in their personal life. As far as. What was the question?
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Unknown
Well, actually I have a follow up now. So if you're going to schedule your life, how do you use the Big Ask calendar? Lots of people have goals, goal setting. You have some weird ways you do it. How do you do it?
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Jesse Itzler
Well, the first thing is I put all the things that I know that are important to me on my calendar first. So for example, I take a one on one trip with my kids that goes on the calendar. Stuff that I'm doing with my wife, with Sarah, like our trips or big events that I know. I have spring break trips, family trips like that. If that doesn't happen, something else your calendar is going to fill up. But then I have three rules that I do. So one is what you just mentioned, which is we tweaked the definition of this, but there's an old Japanese ritual called the masogi. The way we've interpreted is you do one big year defining thing, a year that really defines your year. And it has, and it has to be big. So, like, you want to have something to show for your year at the end of the year. You don't want to be like, if I said to you, like, what'd you do in 2021? Like, you should be able to be like, oh, I launched my podcast or I quit my job, or like something like, what are we, what are we all working for if we have something to show for it. Yeah, so one big year defining thing. Last year for me, I rode my bike across America, like, big. And. But think of it this way. If you're 35 or 36 and you live to be 86, 50 more years, you'll have 50 year defining things. That's a hell of a life that you've done versus I didn't schedule it. The second thing that I do every year, so that goes on my calendar first, when I know what that is this year, like rim to rim to rim, like your husband did, was something that I put on my calendar in that regard. The second thing is every other month I try to take a little mini adventure. So and it could be just instead of doing something that I normally wouldn't have done on a weekend, so instead of watching the Georgia football game, maybe I'll take my kids fishing, maybe I'll visit my college roommates, maybe I'll go to a lecture, but I want to have six. And again, the reason there is you live 50 more years, that's 300 mini adventures you wouldn't have had. 50 year defining things and 300 mini adventures. Like you're starting to shape an insane like being 85 and be like, look what I did versus man. I work my ass off, man. So that's the reason. The third thing is I just create. We're all the number one thing that we can do to have a better life is have winning habits, winning routines, winning mindset, those three things. So I try to have good habits. I try to add every quarter or so a new winning habit. And that could be as simple as, I'm never going to be late for a meeting. I'm going to drink more water. I'm going to drink 100 ounces of water a day. I'm going to add a 10 minute a day meditation practice. It's a probably. So that's how my calendar starts to fill out. And then I work around it.
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Unknown
So basically it's like immediately you throw.
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This huge thing on the wall, you look at it so it becomes visual. And then it's color coded so you make sure you can see really easily. Oh man, I thought I had all these adventures, but they're actually not on there.
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Jesse Itzler
Well, yeah. And again, like, you know, I want my calendar to be fun. I want it to be to, you know, like light it up. It's a work in progress. Throughout the year, I'm adding to it as things, you know, speeches and travel. I keep adding to it, but making it color coded. When I look at it, I think in pictures. Most of us do. So when I see it and I'm like, wow, I have a lot of exciting travel coming up versus like I got to scroll through my bone to do that. It's not the Same.
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Unknown
That is true.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
You know what else is interesting with that is then you start to think about it as exciting as opposed to. Sometimes I look at my calendar, I get overwhelmed. I'm like, oh, my God, I have so much I have to do, as opposed to I get to do it. You have kind of a ridiculous mindset. Like, when I see all the things you just got back from Running man, which you put on, which is like, what, a couple hundred people in sort of a remote location. We wanted to come, but I had something else going on. Plus, I suck at running. So small side note. And you have like. Is that the same one? You have, like, 100 saunas and the. Or is that a different one?
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, we had a thousand people there.
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Unknown
Okay.
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Jesse Itzler
It's a three day, like, wellness festival in the middle of Georgia, and it's kind of like the Woodstock of wellness. There's speakers and breakout sessions and music and bands and sauna. We built the world's biggest sauna. It's almost 5,000 square feet. We get a couple hundred people in it with a DJ and we have yoga sessions. So I need things. I work hard and I have kids and I have a wife. And, you know, like, that whole work, life balance thing, I need things that I'm excited for on my calendar. It makes me show up better at work. It makes me show up better as a dad, as a husband. If I know, like, look, I can work my ass off for the next 90 days, but then I'm taking a trip to Florida, or I have this guy's trip that I'm doing. It helps me.
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Unknown
Somebody was telling me the other day it was about content. And they were like, there's so many young people today that want to be, quote, unquote, famous, that want to create really cool things on the Internet, but they haven't actually lived much life. And so when you haven't lived much life, there's not that much to create about, right? And they're like, if you want to create incredible content, live an incredible life. And it doesn't have to be like a fancy one. I mean, half the time you have an event at your house where you just run up and down a hill like three bajillion times. And it's called Hell on a Hill, right?
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, I do. To your point, I was just at Running Man. I was talking to my friend's son, and I asked him, he's, you know, in his mid-20s now, maybe even a little older. And I said, what are you doing now? And he goes oh, he, like, lights up. He's like, oh, I have the dream job. And I'm thinking like, whoa. You know, I'm like, what do you do? He's like, I worked at chairlift at the local ski resort in Colorado. And I was like, oh. He was like, no, you don't understand, man. It's unbelievable. He's like, you know, I get to meet everybody there. You know, I get to ski an hour a day. We get together as a group after. So, like, to him, he has the dream job. He runs the chairlift at the local ski resort, which is amazing. Like, people think you have to have these. Be the CEO of a mega company or climb Mount Everest to have these incredible lives. Like, no, you have to be around people you love doing things you love to do and feel accomplished. If you do those three things, you really checked all the boxes, you know, and he did, and he's doing that right now. It was really, really, like, kind of eye opening for me. Like, when he said, I was like, you know, you can learn something from everybody, man. Not, you don't have to be famous. You don't have to be an influencer. There's lessons everywhere. I'll give you an example. My dad died two years ago, and I woke up on the anniversary of his death and I got a text from a girl, Maureen, who I'm friends with, but not like, we don't go to dinner. We're like, we're friends, but we're not like, super close. And she just wrote, I know it's a two year anniversary of your dad's death. She wrote me this really nice note. I have 10,000 plus people in my contacts. She was the only text that I got. And so I called her and I asked her about it. I was like, maureen, how'd you remember? She was like, oh, I have a list of monumental events, good and bad, of people in my life by month. And the days of those anniversaries, I just reach out to them. I'm like, that's brilliant, because I'll never forget that. So I call that Moe's rule. And I have rules that I've named after. Not no one. Maureen's not even on Instagram. I have rules that I've named after people in my life that have given me these lessons that now I'm doing that, you know, And I have, I have so many of those.
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Unknown
Whoa. Well, the other thing that's interesting about you is you're not like, so many people who have a lot of money. There's Not a lot of pretense there. You throw a ton of events, and it doesn't seem like the thing that really makes you happy has a lot of zeros associated with it. Maybe flying nicely one way or another.
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Jesse Itzler
I mean, flying definitely is amazing, and that's a huge perk. I remember Warren Buffett saying, that's, like, the one thing I'll never get rid of is his private jet. Yeah. I mean, like, I still have very much so, like, an underdog mentality. I still feel like. I mean, I spent so many years sleeping on couches, so many years hustling so many doors in my face, so much rejection, trying to make payroll, not being able to. I've. I've been like, my whole 20s was like that. My whole. I spent 20 years in that environment, and it's never left me. So I still. You know, I've been to restaurants so many times where, like, just freaking out when I hand them my credit card that it's not gonna work, that I still. I'm still traumatized, but I still get that to this day.
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Unknown
Do you really?
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Jesse Itzler
All the time. Every time I pull out a credit card, I'm like, oh, my God, is this gonna work now? But now I'm like, if it doesn't work, it's not really a big deal because. But yeah. And so that never left me and Sarah's. I think Sarah, she was never. She was so mission driven. Always about making products that women love.
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Unknown
I mean, so you don't end up feeling rich even when you have that.
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Jesse Itzler
Amount of dollars, you know, My life is exactly the same. I still like to run. I like to take saunas. I love to go to, like, I still coach my kids. I don't miss anything. My friends are the same. Like, everything is the same. It's just bigger. Like the swimming pool. I have a swimming pool now. I have, like, you know, the house is bigger, but it. But. But the problems are the same.
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Unknown
Yeah. What?
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Jesse Itzler
The problems are the same. Like, you're.
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Unknown
Don't the problems get bigger?
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Jesse Itzler
In some ways, it depends on how. What your relationship with money is. So a lot of people have. You know, when you think of relationships, you think of them in terms of, like, people. What's your relationship with your husband or your parents or whatever. But people don't think of their relationship with time and with money. So you have to have. And that's really important. So, like, Sarah always says, money's fun to make, money's fun to spend, and money's fun to give it away. And the Best thing about it is you get to treat the people you love the most to the things that you love to do and do it with them. And that's really been the best gift about it. The other great thing is that it's opened up. It's given us an opportunity to meet so many cool people that we wouldn't have had, and it makes everything easier. But kids still have glitches, still have social concerns, still have, like, you know, like, you know, you still have to stay healthy. It's so.
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Unknown
Yeah, but, you know, what's interesting about you is you have a lot of examples of you meeting famous people, celebrities, when you were young and didn't have much of anything, right? So, like, for somebody who's young, listening to this and thinking, yeah, it must be nice. You know, they're at this level. He's done all this stuff. What would you tell somebody who's young and wants to work for, learn from a successful person? And maybe. When did you do that?
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Jesse Itzler
Well, now you can have virtual mentors. You can get mentored by anybody, virtually just by watching them. But I was a big observer. I was sleeping on my friend's couch in Burbank, California. I slept on 18 different friends couches that put me up. I wasn't homeless, but I got out of college. My parents, I was on my own, and my friends were putting me up. I'm trying to figure it out. For two years, I'm couch to couch to couch. I'm in Burbank. We go to the Beverly Hills Hotel for lunch. And I'm looking around and there's the head of Warner Brothers, you know, movie division, and the head of the biggest advertising agency, and this actor and this athlete. And I'm like, you don't have to have a hotel room to go to lunch here. Like, you could just get a salad and like an iced tea for $18, and I could sit here for three hours. And that became my office. So I would leave the couch, put on a shirt like this, drive to the Belville's hotel, eat a salad like a couple days a week, almost every day. And I would observe, I would be like, how do people greet each other? Like, not. I mean, not like, you know, I wasn't, like, taking notes, but I was very observant. And I was also getting my face out there. I was, hey, I saw you here last week. But tell me what. I was just starting conversations.
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Unknown
Interesting.
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Jesse Itzler
And it, like, it trained me to because, like, my dad owned a plumbing supply house. We didn't talk about Money. We didn't talk about business. I had no training. I had to, like, observe people that were, you know. So that put me in the room. I was. Proximity. I was in the room. And then when we had Marquis Jet, which is my first successful, second successful company, but the biggest, we flew 3,000 of the who's who of pop culture, entertainers, CEOs, whatever. I was 28, 29 years old when we started the company. And I was obsessed, Cody, with their habits. So, like, I would ask them, like. And I became, you know, I would go to the airport, greet them for a plane. I was. It was my company. So I would ask them questions like, where do you love to vacation? Where do you guys vacation? You know, and if I was more comfortable and had a good enough relationship over time, what do you do with your money? Like, what do you do when you get $8 million? No, seriously, what do you do with it? I had no clue. So I would ask a lot of questions, and I got obsessed with their habits. What time you guys. Can I ask you a crazy question? What time do you guys get up? What time you go to bed? Do you guys read newspapers? Like, if you were me, what newspapers would you. I was just asking questions. And then I would try some of the things they said. Some work, some didn't. But, you know, it's interesting. Like, in your 20s and 30s, for most people, you're going to make five to 10 times more money in your 40s and 50s than you will in your 20s and 30s,' because you'll have more contacts, you'll be better at whatever it is you do. You'll be much better. You'll know what mistakes to avoid. And I think a lot of people now see people on the Internet getting rich really quick. It takes time. First of all, I don't even know if they're getting rich. Like, they're showing that they're getting rich or they're showing a picture in front of a plane, but who the hell knows what's going on? So that's another thing you have to be careful of. And that's, you know, you can't. That's their story. Who knows if it's what's. There's no one fact checking that. But in your 40s, you know, you have all this. It's different.
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Unknown
So.
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Jesse Itzler
And it takes time. Like I was saying, when we had Zico coconut water, which we sold to.
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Unknown
Coke, and how big was that company?
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Jesse Itzler
Something like maybe close to 100 million when we sold it.
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Unknown
Holy crap. And that's.
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Jesse Itzler
We Got it up there. We ramped it quick.
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Unknown
Biggest company after Marquis.
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Jesse Itzler
Marquis was. I mean, Marquis. We did like 5 billion in sales.
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Unknown
That's so wild. Yeah, but like really small margins. What were margins on private jets or was that pretty big?
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Jesse Itzler
The way that we started the business is. So we had no aviation experience, very little business experience, and not a lot of money. Like, I think we raised $4 million from friends and family, which. To start a jet company. Doesn't make any sense. The way that we started out, we were. NetJets was. Our parent company was providing us with the airplanes and they were carrying the paper, meaning we didn't have to like buy the planes or lease them. They were holding paper on that stuff for us. So, like when we had an order, we could pay them. And we were just. We were commissioning it on. We were commissioning. Charging more for time on their plane.
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Unknown
So you basically arbitrage the rate between what NetJets would charge a customer.
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Jesse Itzler
We were drug dealers. We were buying a lot of drug, a lot of time on the planes. We were chopping up into smaller increments and charging more.
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Unknown
Love that.
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Jesse Itzler
And we were selling 25 hour increments in Jet cards. So we were.
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Unknown
Yeah, we were the first people to kind of think about doing it that way, right?
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, we were doing it before that.
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Unknown
Everybody thought, no, we have to have these long leases or it has to be individual. You're like, wait a second, why can't we just cut it with some lactose powder?
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Jesse Itzler
I remember sitting with my partner, like, our average sale was people were spending about $250,000 a year. They didn't have to, but like on average a year with us on jet time. So we were just like, if we could get to 4,000 customers, we'll be doing a billion a year. And like, we were just like, all right, how do we. We just left. It's like sitting there like, how do we get to 4,000 customers? Well, let's hire a hundred sales reps that could. That could find 40 people each. That was basically like, commission only. Yeah, commission, yeah.
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Unknown
You're basically like, find a bunch of.
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Jesse Itzler
But we did. But they did it. Those hundred people were able to. You know, we built up this, this customer list. So. But anyway, that was like. Felt like it feels like a lifetime ago.
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Unknown
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Was 50 Cent your intern?
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Jesse Itzler
Yes.
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Unknown
What is that story?
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Jesse Itzler
So I was managing Run DMC. I was managing Run DMC in the mid-90s, early 90s, and Jam Master J, the DJ for Run DMC, who was.
- [28:35]
Unknown
Oh, I remember.
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Jesse Itzler
Who was killed.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
He came in to my office and he's like, I'm working with this kid. He's a boxer, he wants to be a rapper, and he wants business experience. He goes, but he's really good at writing songs and stuff. I was writing songs for sports teams, like theme songs. He goes, he'll come in the studio with you and help you out and do some stuff. But in exchange, he wants to, like, this is insane. Now that I'm thinking about it, this is fucking insane. But he wants business experience. So Curtis came in and he worked with me for like a year and a half, and then he became 50 cent.
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Unknown
That is wild. Did you know that he was, like, really talented when you met him? Were you immediately like, oh, yeah, he's got it?
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Jesse Itzler
He.
- [29:23]
Unknown
No, he was just like a normal intern.
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Jesse Itzler
I'm like 23 years old and this kid's coming in. I have no idea. I don't have a crystal ball. So you have to imagine there's a thousand people that are struggling artists or wannabe artists, you know, getting into rap. Everyone's trying to get a deal and this and that. And this kid comes in, he's got his boxing stuff, and I'm like thinking, like, all right, cool. Like, it wasn't even on my radar, you know, Like, I'm like, Just cool. Come. Yeah, you can. And. And then, like, looking back on it, he became, like, an international megastar. Here's the coolest thing. Eight years later. So he goes. I don't. There's no contact. After, like, you know, he goes and becomes this huge star. We're going crazy in the office. Like, we're like, holy fuck, that's Kurt. Like, we're going nuts. And we're, like. In a great way, like, we feel like we're all celebrating.
- [30:21]
Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
But I have no contact with him. And then we start Marquis Jet. Every day, I would get a list of who's flying on our planes. And I would, like, look. Just look at who are the guests? Who's on each flight? Maybe someone I know. Maybe someone interesting. I see that he's a guest on one of our planes. So I called the pilot, and I was like, can you leave a note for 50? And said, 50? It's Jesse Itzler from Alphabet City. That was the name of our company that he worked at. You're never gonna believe this, but I own the company that you're flying on right now. And then the next day, he wrote into all of his contracts, he would only fly with Marquis Jet. Is that insane?
- [31:02]
Unknown
That's amazing.
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Jesse Itzler
Amazing.
- [31:04]
Unknown
It's really fun to hear about celebrities these days. It's pretty easy to shit on them. But so many people I've met of, like, all of the people that I would look up to in the world are incredible humans. And part of me thinks that that might be more common than people think.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, I agree with you. You know, there's a lot of. You get disappointed by people, too, in business. I've been burned. I've been disappointed. I've been surprised. I've been stabbed. But in general, I agree with you. People in general want to help people and are good.
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Unknown
Yeah. If you go back to thinking about some of those instances, what do you think of, like, what was the biggest failure you've had in business?
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Jesse Itzler
I had a company called Sheets. They were these, like, oral, dissolvable. So like a Listerine strip that you put on your tongue, but they were infused with caffeine, so they were. It was like, basically like drinking a Red Bull, but you put it on your tongue, and it just goes right into your bloodstream. And, like, you get this burst of energy. And at the time that we launched it, Five Hour Energy was selling 10 million two and a half bottles of Five Hour Energy a week. So the category was huge. And I'm like, we're gonna. We're gonna. They're at. We're gonna put them out of business. And I was so sure. We just sold Zeko to Coke Marki and just gotten sold. Like I was. It was a good. A lot of momentum for me. And I'm like, so we started this company called Sheets. I partnered with LeBron. I brought in a lot of celebrities, a lot of star power. I took in money from everybody I knew. Cause I'm like, give me 10 grand. And I wanted to be a hero. You're gonna get an island back. Like your 10 grand is gonna turn into an island. And we're all gonna be neighbors because of this strip. And I had. I would back to back big wins. And I believed it. I was so sure. And we did a focus group. It didn't go well. And like, I just. Anyway, it didn't work because at the end of the day, it was super bitter. And your product has to be good. It doesn't matter who's endorsing it, who's in the commercial, how good the packaging is. People have to buy it. You have to give them a reason to buy it. And then they have to buy it again and they have to tell friends. And they didn't buy it again. And they told friends, oh, I don't like the taste of it. So it did. So it didn't work. And the hardest part of that was I lost, you know, like money for, you know, I lost the most money by far. But, you know, like, that hurts, you know, like still seeing people that gave you money even though they could afford it. And everyone knows when you make an investment and then people like, well, why don't you just pay him back? That becomes weird, you know, like, there's some weird. It just. It was just. It was a tough time. I still think about it. I literally still think about it. And it was, you know, 20 years ago.
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Unknown
Yeah, I think it's really hard for people to understand if you have good moral character, losing somebody else's money is worse than losing your own. Like it is. I had an investment company for a long time and we were in the cannabis space and we invested in all of these startups in cannabis. And from like 2016 to 20 or 2016 to. To 2019, we killed it. We just made so much money. We like 3x the fund gave it all the investors back their money. Then the second fund that we did was right when Covid hit. And we kind of. Before COVID we thought, we're going to raise all this stuff and they're Going to legalize this shit. Like it's going to be legal. And it didn't end up getting legalized fast enough. And Covid hit and I thought we were going under. I thought we were dead. And I remember Chris, you know, my husband, who you met at the time, we were just sitting in California and I was like, I don't think there's anything I can do. My grandmother's money is in this because same thing, I was like, we are legal weed dealers money. And I was like, fuck, I'm going to lose everybody's money. And I didn't have enough to repay it. I mean it was hundreds of millions of dollars. Thank God the government deemed it an essential service. In retrospect, yeah, it kept our companies afloat. In retrospect, I'm not even sure though that I'm happy I was in cannabis. Like I kind of think.
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Jesse Itzler
Right. The reason why you can't repay it is, you know, first of all, that sets, that sets the precedent that anytime you raise money. What if I want to raise, I want to build a spaceship to the moon. I need to raise a bazillion dollars. Well, the expectation is you pay. It didn't work. We're going to get our money back anyway, that you're going to pay everything back and every loss back. So that's one of the reasons. And there's a variety of reasons, but it's.
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Unknown
Well also it can create fake guarantees. So you up to lawsuits and 100%, you know, so there's a lot of reasons why sometimes legally you're not even allowed to in the docs. And then who's to say what the actual cost is of money from an opportunity cost perspective, it's really messy. But I do think, fuck, if you're in the game, you've lost some money at some point, unfortunately.
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Jesse Itzler
But if you're taking in money, you have to understand it comes with responsibility. It comes with responsibility to report, you know, to, to have some kind of, you know, to have to be transparent. And it just, it's just you lose your own money. Yeah, it's one thing when you lose someone else's money, it's tough.
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Unknown
Well, you know what I think is interesting too is like I think you're one of, probably one of the best marketers out there. Pre Internet in such interesting ways. But to your point, you can't really market a non incredible product. And you had a little formula there I really liked, which maybe was something like if you want to create a really viral product or if you Want to create a product that continues to sell forever, they have to buy the product, they got to buy it again and then they have to tell a friend. And a lot of times people leave that last part off. Like, is that your formula for creating winning products or how do you think about creating winning products? Because he got a pretty good hit ratio.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, I mean, I think things getting shared, friend to friend is really important still. Even with the Internet. Oh yeah, Spanx exploded. Friend to friend, girlfriend to girlfriend. I think that's a really important element. PR is a really good way to get to reach a lot of people and get validated and back. I'm talking about like when we were starting out when there was no Internet. If you could get an article, something placed about your company, that was a great bang for the buck. Now you can do it, you know, by viral posts that are free but without the Internet. That was a good, a good resource.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
But yeah, I think people talking about it is really important.
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Unknown
How many million dollar businesses have you started that have hit seven figures? Do you know?
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Jesse Itzler
Like top, just top line?
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
Oh, a lot.
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Unknown
What do you think's a lot?
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Jesse Itzler
I've never thought about, I don't know.
- [38:05]
Unknown
What about eight figures?
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Jesse Itzler
How much is eight figures?
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Unknown
That would be like 10 million or more.
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Jesse Itzler
Oh, a handful.
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Unknown
Yeah. And then two that were nine figure.
- [38:18]
Jesse Itzler
Companies north of 100.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
That's wild. It's probably pretty rare error, right?
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Jesse Itzler
I've also had 20 companies that didn't work, you know, so it's. I had a lot of balls in the air, but I've been doing it for 30 years. Yeah, but I'm tired now.
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Unknown
I don't believe you're tired. You're just at a three day running band event you put on with the world's biggest sauna.
- [38:39]
Jesse Itzler
That's true, I'm tired. But like the energy to start a company brand new, like the energy, like you know what it takes to start a company. Like the amount of your soul that you have to pour into it. And the amount of caring at this point in my life would take away what I could give to my kids. Like, I don't have that much caring in me, you know, like it's capped. And when I was single and young and in my 20s and 30s and even like young kids in my 40s, it was different. But in your 50s, you know, when you're 56, man, you look at things, you look at time differently. Cause you're like, shit, in 14 years, I'm 70. That's fucking nuts. That's freaking me out. So then I'm like, all right, five, 14 years to be 70. Do I want to start another company? For what? To have, like a bigger plate of brown rice? Like, what? For what? Or do I want to, like, take those 14 years and load them up with adventures with my friends and the people like my kids and have like an epic decade and a half of. Because I was just water skiing with my kids this summer. And like, there were no 70 year olds water skiing on the lake.
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Unknown
That's true.
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Jesse Itzler
There were no 70 year olds at Running Man. There were no 70 year olds. As you get harder, like, as you get older, the, you know, your. Your window to do things closes. Closes. Starts to close, though.
- [40:07]
Unknown
Do you see Larry Ellison lately? 81. Have you seen this guy?
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Jesse Itzler
Larry Ellison's on a whole nother level.
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Unknown
He looks incredible.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, he looks younger than people in the world. There's 8 billion people. There's one Larry Ellison.
- [40:19]
Unknown
We're not going to be him.
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Jesse Itzler
We might, but I mean, you know, for the masses, it's hard.
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Unknown
It's a good way to think about it. So what do you think it takes to actually start a really successful business?
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Jesse Itzler
One is enthusiasm. I think you have to have a lot of enthusiasm around not just the product that you're selling.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
But also like the process of being an entrepreneur. You know, like it's. That means a sacrifice. When you're friends at the bar for happy hour, you might have to go back to the office to do something like that. You have to be willing to do all that. You have to be customer focused and really think about and product driven. The product has to be good. I think it has to be fun. You want to make money, you want to have fun, and you want to have fun making money. And you have to be different. You know, Sarah always says entrepreneurs do one of two things. Either they create something brand new or they make something that exists better. So what are you doing? Are you making something brand new or are you taking something that's out there and just making it better? And I think it has to be authentic to you. I think how you stand out, everything is. All categories are so crowded right now. There's so many because the barrier to entry is so low right now. So you have to stand out.
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Unknown
I read a fascinating statistic the other day that only 3% of Americans own a business. That of the 3% that own a business, only 10% will ever hit a million dollars. That of those that hit 10 million, that's 0.4%. So 0.4% of the 3% ever get to eight figures? I thought that was pretty.
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Jesse Itzler
Hold on, I gotta put that on a. I gotta like, I need like I gotta.
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Unknown
Yeah, you need your big ass calendar before I board edition.
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Jesse Itzler
I need the big ass calculator for that. Yeah. So what's the net? The net net is.
- [42:15]
Unknown
The net net is that most people underestimate how hard it is. That not. And how do you define hard? Because words mean things and often we don't define things very well. So it's not just grit. It's actually just mathematically difficult. And so.
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Jesse Itzler
But think about this. Now my math might be wrong on this because I haven't been getting a lot of sleep. I think there's 18 million millionaires.
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Unknown
That sounds right.
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Jesse Itzler
In this country.
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Unknown
That sounds right.
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Jesse Itzler
So if you take. There's every year four million people born. So by the. So at 80 million people under 20 years old. So that means that there's about one. One in 11 people are a millionaire that are like over 20. I'm close. Something like that.
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Unknown
Okay, check us on the Internet. YouTube will.
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Jesse Itzler
Something like that. Something. But here's my point. If like 1 in 11 or something like that, people over 25 or 25 to 7, whatever are millionaires and you lined up, you know, 11 people in the room, or 20 people, whatever the exact number is. I want to get the math right on it. That's like. Doesn't make it sound like it's so hard.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
Do you know what I mean? Like I would think like, oh, one in a thousand people are millionaires. But it's not like one in. It's like one in 18 or so. Like one in 11 or one in 18, something like it's low.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
As adults become millionaires. So it's like I remember. I remember. By the way, I might get canceled. That math might be way off. But I remember the statistics. The bottom line is, what I'm trying to say is it's not like a needle in a haystack. No, it's like there is a. To become a millionaire in this country. There's a path. I remember when I was 22 years old, Cody, I was playing basketball in this basketball with a bunch of guys in New York City and I met my first millionaire. I met my first millionaire. Now there were millionaires in my town probably. But I didn't know. I was a kid, but the first person that I knew my age, like a contempt, like someone was a millionaire. And I couldn't believe it because I was making, like, 12 grand, you know?
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Unknown
Totally.
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Jesse Itzler
I'm like, I couldn't believe it. And then, like, three months later, I went away for Thanksgiving with four guys. We went to Jamaica, and I was talking to my friend Rich, who worked for a hedge fund on Wall street. And he was like, 23 years old or something. And I'm like, rich, it has everything going. He's like, oh, great. It's got my holiday bonus. I'm like, oh, what was. He goes, $3 million. I was like, you need 3 million. And then I was thinking to myself, I love Rich, But Rich couldn't tell me where the ocean is right now. And we're in it. Like, he made $3 million. I'm gonna make 3 million. It made me realize, like, the fucking rich can make $3 million. I can make $3 million. If so. And so can run a marathon. I can run a marathon. If that guy can run 100 miles, why can't I run 100 miles? Like, once you see it, you know, we put so many limitations on ourselves.
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Unknown
I think you're right. Well, and on top of that, I mean, I bet most of those millionaires made their millions working with or for somebody else. I think also, I'm a big proponent for you should always try to get some equity, try to get ownership in things. I love people buying small businesses. That's sort of my shtick, because that's how I've made my money. So you always have, like, a bias. I'm like, I did it that way. Anybody could do it that way. But another thing that I try to give a lot of credence to is like, I bet you have minted so many millionaires. Not you. They did it for themselves, too. But through creating these big, huge companies.
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Jesse Itzler
I have. I have. But more importantly, I've had an army of people that worked for me as interns, as employees that have gone on to do insane things.
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Unknown
That's interesting.
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Jesse Itzler
You want the list?
- [46:21]
Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
So Kenny Austin, who worked with me, was one of my partners, but, like, at Marquis Jet, went on to create Tequila Avion that sold. He created Proper 12 with Connor McGregor that sold for over, you know, for hundreds and hundreds of millions of dollars. He created and partnered with the Rock on the rocks Tequila. It's worth over north of a billion dollars. I mean, just Jennifer Lopez hit after hit. Adam Tishman, who is my intern, created Helix. This mattresses sold for hundreds of millions of dollars. Farah, left, who is my intern, she now runs Clutch, one of the biggest sports agencies, if not the biggest in the world. LeBron and probably one of the most powerful women in sports. So, you know, 50.
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Unknown
Why do you think that is? Why?
- [47:10]
Jesse Itzler
Because people are observing. Coaches are important. I still have coaches. I just. I have a swim coach. I have.
- [47:19]
Unknown
You had a Navy SEAL coach.
- [47:21]
Jesse Itzler
I had because I wanted to get better at memorizing names. I wasn't great when I met people at remembering their names, so I brought a coach in to help me with that. I've had sales coaches. I've had coaches in so many areas of my life because I'm not great at everything. I want to go to people that are amazing at what they do. I live with Goggins. I lived on a monastery to get better at my spirituality. Like, investing in yourself to get better is so important. And so I think that if you're working at an organization, two things. One, I think you should make yourself irreplaceable. That's really important. Then you have the leverage. Like, you can't even fire me. I know everybody, every customer. I'm unfirable. Now you have some leverage, which I think is really important. And you should learn network and sponge as much absorb, especially when you're young, as much as you can. Do everything, learn everything. Gandhi said it best. He said, learn like you'll live forever. Live like you'll die tomorrow. So you want to learn and keep getting better, you know, and as many things as you can.
- [48:31]
Unknown
Did you. Do you have a particular way that you lead people? What do you think it is? Is it either you select these people who are going to be high performers and so you have a selection bias, or do you have a particular leadership style that you think enables other people to become something bigger?
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Jesse Itzler
I think that you have to put confidence in. Like, I'm. There are so many better. I. Honestly, Cody, I'm. I'm like back of the pack entrepreneur. I know. I really am. There's so many amazing entrepreneurs. Like, I don't even put myself. I'm not. That's not my strong suit. It's not. It's not. I've had wins. I've had great partners. I've had good ideas. Right time, right place. Like, a lot of things happened, but there's so many. I still go to so many entrepreneurs for advice, but I am good at. At giving people confidence and belief. And that's really important because if you have to believe in the end of your story, like, if you're single, you have to believe he or she's out there. If you're going for a job Interview. You have to believe like I'm the one that's going to get this job. If you're applying to a college, you have to believe like, oh, the acceptance race is 1 in 80. I'm that one. I'm that one. You have to have like insane conviction. And I'm really good at breathing conviction into people.
- [49:53]
Unknown
Oh, that's so good. Do you breathe it into yourself and.
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Jesse Itzler
If so how self talk you like in the mirror going no, but just like you got this and like you know, I have really good self talk. There's not a lot of I can't that comes out of my kids mouths or my mouths or. We're really, Sarah and I are really particular about how we, our family speaks.
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Unknown
What would that look like? So if you're trying to raise children who believe in themselves like that, what does that look like? What are examples?
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Jesse Itzler
Well, first of all we praise the effort, not the result. You want to praise the effort to get your kids to want to put max effort in, let them experience disappointment and then correct them. Oh dad, I can't, I can't, I can't jump off this diving board. Like well, if you say you can't, you're never going to do it. So you have to reframe it, you know, tweak it. But it's true of it. It's true of everything. You know that the words that you speak are really important.
- [50:57]
Unknown
Yeah. My husband always says words mean things and he means that when we talk about stuff between each other, like it's really important that we both think about what we say and then we understand what the word means to each other because oftentimes you don't even realize that I would.
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Jesse Itzler
It's true. I was doing like a math problem with my daughter. We were going through her math homework and like she got the first five, then we got the math to question six and she's like, oh dad, this is, this is hard. Let's just, we'll skip that one. Let's go to the next one. And like I think most, I think like most of my childhood maybe, you know, my parents wanted to make things as good as they have a. Skip it. We don't skip things. Like you get a chance to like skip. You know, coming up with the packaging for this widget company is really hard. Let's skip the packaging. Like no, my daughter's name is Tepper. Tep. Let's sit here and figure this out before we go to question eight. Let's sit on, let's stay on Seven. I know it's hard, but it's on the paper. It was assigned to us. It's in front of us. So we're gonna have to figure this out. We're not skipping it and going to eight. I didn't say it in that tone, but those kind of lessons were, like, you know, I think are important.
- [52:14]
Unknown
Do you talk like that between Sarah and yourself? Like, when it comes to partnership, do you help your partner speak that way to each other? And if so, how do you do that in a relationship? Or do you both come fully baked?
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Jesse Itzler
Every partner is so different. So you know this. I'm a support system for my wife, like, and she's a support system for me, but my needs are more ego based, you know? Like, I need to be told, like, you did a great job, Jesse. Like, you clean the dishes and like, oh, I didn't. I didn't just clean the dishes. The dishes are fucking spotless. Like, I need to be. Can you say that, Jesse? The dishes are spotless. You're the best dishwasher in the family.
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Unknown
So you.
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Jesse Itzler
I need that.
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Unknown
Yours is words of affirmation, Right?
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Jesse Itzler
So I need affirmation. And she's completely different.
- [53:04]
Unknown
What does she need?
- [53:05]
Jesse Itzler
She. She. She needs more. She needs to be heard. She needs to be heard.
- [53:13]
Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
So I need to be a bit more of a listener. And then. And then periods. Yeah. Yeah.
- [53:19]
Unknown
Yes.
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Jesse Itzler
Okay.
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Unknown
Interesting.
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Jesse Itzler
We were married for 18 years, so now I know.
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Unknown
Now you're. You've got it down. Mm, Interesting. So what was it like in the beginning? Like, I know every relationship.
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Jesse Itzler
Yesterday.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
We were in. We were in the steam. I went in the steam room with my friends, and then Sarah went in there, and she couldn't figure out how to. How to shut the steam off, so she left the door open and all the steam flew. It was all over. The steam room was like. It's like. It's like the. It's, like, massively powerful. It's like it's blowing steam the whole. I'm like, upstairs, I was like, fuck is steaming in here. So I go down through the steam, and Sarah's in there, like, la dee da. I'm like, sweetie, shut the door. And she's like, I can't. She's like, I don't know how to shut the fucking steam. Like, she was pissed, and I'm trying to shut it off, and I can't shut it off, and the steam is going everywhere, and I'm. And we're, like, arguing over it. And then, like, she was. I was Pissed at her and how she handled it. And she was yelling at me, and I'm yelling at her, and then, like, we went on our merry way, and then I called her and I'm like, I'm not mad at you. I'm not even mad at you. Are you mad at me? She's like, I was mad at you, but I'm not mad at you now. So, like, you know, you have to. In relationships, it's okay to get mad, but we're married, so I'm not going to stay mad at her. That she left the door open and the whole house is molding it now.
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Unknown
I'm not upset at all.
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Jesse Itzler
I'm not mad at her. I'm not even thinking about it a day later.
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Unknown
Quick, FYI, we've got just a few months before my first ever book is.
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Out in the world.
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If you want to preorder it for yourself or anyone you love, you can do that in the link in the show notes or you can search it online. It's called Main Street Millionaire. You'll love it.
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I think it'll make you a lot.
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Of money, and I hope you guys preorder it.
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Chris and I have been married for four years, together for seven, but we've known each other since we were 12. And I was married before, so I fucked it up once, and it's, like, very big on my list of do not fuck this up again. And I think one of the things that I love talking to people about, have been married for a while and have kids is, like, the real of it. Because, you know, we have a therapist. That was one of my things. Like, with my first marriage, I tried to make that happen, and he wasn't.
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Jesse Itzler
I like the word coach. You have a coach?
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Unknown
Yeah. Yeah, exactly, we have a coach. Although our coach is doing this thing lately that I hate. I don't know if yours have ever done this. She's like, now I want you to stop, and I want you to think about, where do you feel it in your body?
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Jesse Itzler
That's a therapist. Oh, God.
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Unknown
I about died last week. I'm like, and especially Chris, former Navy seal. You can only imagine what his face looks like. And then she says, I'm sorry, I won't say her name because she's great in many ways. But then she says, I know you feel hot in your body. You feel heat. I want you to ask the heat what it wants to tell you. I was like, I have to leave. I have to leave this zoom call. And that was not very helpful for me.
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Jesse Itzler
I have a hard time in that room. No, I'd have a hard time.
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Unknown
So what kind of coach do you guys have you ever used in your marriage? Have you ever.
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Jesse Itzler
We have on very rare occasions.
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Unknown
Interesting.
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Jesse Itzler
On more specific topics. Yeah, yeah.
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Unknown
But it's almost like, hey, we're not communicating well here. So we want to communicate better.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah. Like. Or we have. We disagree on this.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
On, you know, on this particular thing. Let's go to a specialist. So for us just to be. It was like food, you know, like I was a vegan vegetarian. I eat super clean. Sarah has. Eats a whole different lifestyle the way she eats, which doesn't bother me at all. It doesn't bother me one bit. But now we have four kids. So how do we want to feed and raise our kids when it comes to food? And early on in the relationship it was. I was all the way over here and she was all the way over here. And that created a lot of, you know, an uncomfortable environment because guess what, you have to eat. And we're eating three times a day. So we're having a thousand meals and you know, they're eating one way or I want them to eat one way and Sarah wants them to eat another. So we had a, we had to. Right. Size that. But you have to get in front of the problems. It's like Crisis Management 101 is you get in front of the problems. You know, you can't let a small problem become a bigger problem. It doesn't magically disappear.
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Unknown
What does that look like? To get in front of a problem.
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Jesse Itzler
You have to, you have to confront it and be like, and be solution driven rather than just ignore it. You know, humans, I'm non confrontational. So for most things I'm like, I just don't, I'll just, It's not a big deal, I don't know. But it doesn't go away.
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Unknown
Right.
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Jesse Itzler
Unless you, unless you address it.
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Unknown
Yeah, that's a good point. And you guys met later on in life, right?
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, we got married. I was 40, she was, Sarah was 37.
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Unknown
And you. So what I find interesting, obviously young people today are getting married later than ever, to a lesser degree than ever before. And I found when Chris and I came together that sometimes when two humans are so fully baked, there's hard parts about that. Because I'm like, no, no, no. I'm like a full adult human. I have operated like this for 31 years. I'm pretty good.
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Jesse Itzler
Right.
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Unknown
Were there ways that you came together to compromise that you think were helpful? And necessary. Because you, I imagine, are a strong personality. She imagine I was a strong personality. And you're gonna have to figure out how to compromise somehow.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah. The one thing is, we were very aligned. We're very different. Very different in certain regards. But the one thing that we are very aligned on is values. And I think that's, like, super important. Before you get married, you don't talk about, like, food. Do you want your kids to be raised religious? Do you want your kids to go away to summer camp when they get older? If you can afford that, do you want to. You know, there's a lot of things that we didn't discuss, like, ever. And then, like, you have children, and you're like, wow, we never even went over, like, our. How do you want to discipline the kids? Do you want to spank the kids? Not spank the kids. Do you want to yell at them? Not what's our discipline protocol? Like, we didn't go over any of that stuff, so we didn't have. You don't have a choice. You have to get aligned on that stuff.
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Unknown
What do you think is important for, like, a couple coming together?
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Jesse Itzler
Values is really important.
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Unknown
And how do you define values? Is it your political party? Is it your religion?
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Jesse Itzler
No, just, like, how you treat people and what matters. What doesn't matter, you know, values, more like the hierarchy of what's important and what's not important. Values and family and traditions in taking care of your parents. Like, just core values is really important. Yeah.
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Unknown
You know, I read a study the other day that increasingly, young people, specifically women, which is interesting, but young people today don't want to marry or date somebody of the opposite political party, which I think is such a mistake, because my parents were both, you know, one of each. And I do think in many ways, we're forgetting this opposite attracts thing. You know, I was hanging out with a guy who I really admire a lot and have become buddies with, Sean Rad, who started Tinder. And it was interesting. He was saying that one of the byproducts of Tinder is this, is that increasingly in Tinder, you can determine exactly what you want in a human.
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Jesse Itzler
Right?
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Unknown
And so because of that, you won't ever even get served what you might need. You only get served what you think you want. And a lot of us don't even know what we want.
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Jesse Itzler
Right.
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Unknown
And I thought that was really interesting, because I find if you and Sarah are really different, Chris and I are really different, I'm not sure we ever would have gotten matched on an app. Because aren't there a lot of studies.
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Jesse Itzler
About, like, marriages that last longest are? I remember reading this. I could be wrong, but I remember reading that opposite more than, you know, similar.
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Unknown
That's what they say. Yeah. It's more of two parts fitting together.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
And you guys have some really cool stuff you seem to do as a family that I've just seen on social. Like, I remember seeing a sign that you have for all the things you want on your birthday and all the things Sarah wants on her birthday. What's the deal with that?
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Jesse Itzler
Father's Day and Mother's Day.
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Unknown
Oh, that's what it is.
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Jesse Itzler
Father's Day and Mother's Day. She gets to make a list of how she wants her special day to be. And it was like, she wants to talk for an hour. It was all the Sarah things. And then mine was, like, all the Jesse things on Father's Day. Like, I want to eat fruit, I want to run. I want to take a sauna. You know, I made a whole list. So. Our lists were so different. They were so different.
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Unknown
But do you find some joy in coming together on the day? And you're like, I want to listen. Ready, go.
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Jesse Itzler
Of course. And, like, listen. The other thing about marriage is I found that you have to let your partner be who they are. If Sarah loves to eat French fries and do that, do it. If I took that away from her, she would resent me. So she lets me do the things I love to do, and I let her do the things she loves to do. And we come together on the values and the stuff that we do together.
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Unknown
Yeah. You know, that was one of the best things, Chris.
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Jesse Itzler
Sarah's super fun, by the way. I bet she looks someone like. It's not hard. I mean, it's. She's so fun. She's funny, you know, she. She's a great mom. She's a great business person. She gives great advice. She cares. I've lost my dad, my sister, and my mom in the last two years. So having someone there, you know, is really important. And she was super supportive. Those are the things that, to me, are really important for what I need in a marriage. And I like to have fun. You want your house to be a place of fun.
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Unknown
I get that vibe.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, we check that box.
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Unknown
Yeah. But I do like this idea of Chris always when we first started out, you know, when you start dating somebody and they want you to hang out with all their friends and their family and go do all these activities. In the beginning, I thought, yeah, like, that's what you're supposed to do. You have to come do all this stuff that my family wants to do that I want to do, because we're now in a relationship. And Chris actually taught me a lot about. Do you like, do we. Is this a. What is need? Like, what is that word? And at first it bothered me. I was like, oh, I want them all to like you and I want them to do whatever. And he's like, do. I don't care. So, like, do you care? Because then maybe we could do something.
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Jesse Itzler
I think every marriage. Listen, I'm not a marriage expert at all. I've only been married once. Next book. I don't even know if I'm good at it. I really don't even know if I'm good at it. You have to interview Sarah. I don't even. No, I'm doing the best that I can do, but I don't even know how good I am. I'm probably like eight. But every marriage is different, you know, couples have different needs, circumstances are different. I don't think it's like a one size fits all at all. You do what works for you and for your family and for your family unit. And that's based on years of family traditions. It's based on the personalities that are married. And don't worry about what everybody else is doing. What works for you guys. Do you like watching Netflix every night and that's fine. Do you like, you have to do what works for the unit?
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Unknown
Yeah, I agree. I think sometimes, though, it's hard when you haven't had a role model like your kids, I think will probably be quite lucky to see the two of you and how you are in a marriage together and get to take what they like and what they don't. And I think Chris's dad always said it best, or Chris always says it best to his mom and dad. He says, thanks for me. Up enough to be a Navy seal, but not to be a stripper.
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Jesse Itzler
That's good.
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Unknown
I kind of like that because we're all going to do that to our kids and they're going to resent something, I'm sure. But I do think it's nice that you guys share some of this stuff because when I was a kid, like, this is the class I wish we would have had. It's my most precious thing is being married to Chris. Like, I feel very lucky about that. But I didn't really know what I was doing for a long time, and I think I was a nightmare sometimes. So I think it's cool that you share a bunch of this stuff on the Internet and you do it very much. You don't have a lot of I do this. So you should do that in your vocabulary that I've ever noticed.
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Jesse Itzler
No, I mean, because I don't think I'm in a position to tell people that. I can tell people what works for me and show them what I do and they can choose to do that or not, but yeah, you gotta be careful, man. Like when you give advice to people, you know, like, you got it, it comes with, like I said, it comes with a lot of responsibility. We're both in a space where in personal development or whatever you want to call it. And you got to be careful.
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Unknown
Yeah.
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Jesse Itzler
People like listening and like you got to give them. So I try to just be like, this is what I did and this is what I'm doing. And show, don't tell. It's like with my kids, I'm not telling. I'm their dad, I'm not their coach. So I have to show them. You know, if I go outside and it's pouring rain out at 7am and my kids say, and I come in, I'm like, oh, I don't care about the rain. I run every day. It doesn't matter. I don't look at the weather. I'm going no matter what. So why would I look at the weather? Then they now have that same thing. Like, you know, like, oh, it's freezing. My kids don't care. It does. Has no impact on them because they see it from me all the time. Cold, plunging, sauna running. Like all they see it.
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Unknown
Some. One of my friends said entrepreneurship is a trauma response.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
Do you think that's true?
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Jesse Itzler
It can be, yeah. Yeah.
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Unknown
Was it for you?
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Jesse Itzler
I just started so early. I don't have a choice, you know, like, I didn't want to work for anybody. I just always wanted to. Like I had three goals. I wanted to be able to. I said to myself, if I could work like 50, 50 weeks a year on my own stuff, but make enough money that I could take a two week trip, it's worth it. I'm like, if I could take a two week trip, Are you kidding? So that was like one of the goals that I had. The second goal is I wanted to make enough money that I could have a swimming pool. I'm like, if I could have my. I don't have to go to a public swimming pool. I could go on my own. Pool would be the coolest thing. And then I Want to be able to grow my own fruit. Those are like my. Those were my business goals. And then when I had those, I crossed them off and I made new goals. And I've always been doing that. I've always been like, kind of after I hit the goals, making new goals, and the bar kept going higher and higher.
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Unknown
That's so interesting because I think a lot of times when people set goals, they set a really big first one.
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Jesse Itzler
Which is fine. Which is fine. Mine weren't less about goals and more about, like, a wish list. Like, I think it's important that people have. Like, if I gave you $10 million tomorrow, or anyone listening, are you crystal clear on what you would do with that money? Like, what would you do? You should. What are you working for? You should have an idea of what do you want. I had a friend of mine that was going through a tough time, and I said to him, I was like, brian, man, if I wired you $10 million, what would you do? He's like, oh, I would move to California tomorrow. And I'm like, that's great. Why? He's like, oh, I always want to live in California. And he's like, in his mid-50s. I'm like, Brian, no one's wiring you $10 million. If you want to go to California, figure out a way to go move to California. I think, like, a lot of people, a lot of the things that we want to do, we could probably do now.
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Unknown
Yep.
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Jesse Itzler
You know?
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Unknown
Yeah. Okay. I want to close out with a few little rapid fire questions, which are, what do you think the secret is to staying in love while running multiple businesses? These are questions people asked from the group.
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Jesse Itzler
Really?
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Unknown
Yeah. What do you think the secret is to stay in love?
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Jesse Itzler
I assure you that did not come from a man.
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Unknown
It was probably a woman.
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Jesse Itzler
So read to me again.
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Unknown
What is the secret to staying in love while running businesses?
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Jesse Itzler
Just like, my wife has a hashtag, JustLoveHim. Just love her. You have to just let your partner be who they are and, you know, do what they like to do. You can't, otherwise it creates resentment. But communication is really important, you know, not like just transactional communication like, hey, Chris, did you take out the garbage? But more like, chris, how you feeling today, man? Like, what's going on? You know, I think is really important.
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Unknown
What have you spent the most money on ever that made you the happiest?
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Jesse Itzler
These are great questions. I just bought a farm, but up until that point, and that made me really happy because as the goals got bigger, the wish list that was on my wish list, and I bought an rv. Those two things made me insanely happy because they're, like, great memory makers for my family. But up until then, I really didn't spend money on anything. I don't. I don't have a lot of wants. I like bikes, so I collect bikes. I love buying bicycles and saunas. I have a great bike and sauna collection. I don't have any fancy art. No fancy watches.
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Unknown
Yeah, that's right.
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Jesse Itzler
I don't really have a lot of. I don't really. I like to. I'm pretty simple.
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Unknown
Are you gonna put, like, some goats and horses?
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, we got goats. Chickens. Yeah, I love goats.
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Unknown
Interesting. You're gonna get the funny chickens with, like, the hair and the hairy feet.
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Jesse Itzler
I'm getting all of it.
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Unknown
A good friend of mine, Tim Kennedy, is like, the hardest man ever. Do you know Tim?
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Jesse Itzler
I think I do, yeah.
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Unknown
He's incredible. He's a former. No, no, current God. I always mess this up. Either an army ranger or a green brain. But he wrote the book Scars and Stripes.
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Jesse Itzler
Okay.
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Unknown
Anyway, he's based here. He's incredible human, but he's, like, obsessed with chickens. He's like the most murdery man that is obsessed with protecting his little flock.
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Jesse Itzler
Stop it.
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Unknown
Yeah, it's the cutest thing ever.
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Jesse Itzler
I love that.
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Unknown
Yeah. So he sends me chicken videos all the time. Incredible thing. Oh, this one was interesting. How do you give a speech to get a standing ovation based on our conversation before?
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Jesse Itzler
I think it's really important. The way I approach it is I want to make people laugh. I want to leave people inspired and give them actionable takeaways to make something better. And I want to make them cry. When I say that, I mean, like, I want to make them emotional is a better way to say it than make them cry. I'm not trying to make people cry. That came out the wrong way. Emotional. Like, there has to be an emotional. A good speech is a big emotional closing and gives people actionable takeaways and entertains them. Those are the three things that I think are the most important things you want to entertain, inspire, give them takeaways and have a big emotional close.
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Unknown
Do you have a good joke in it?
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Jesse Itzler
Humor is really important, too. But I tell a lot of stories, and just by that are funny. Yeah, stories are usually funny.
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Unknown
Yeah. And you have a dj. That's what you do.
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Jesse Itzler
When I write a speech, I want to make sure that there's enough humor throughout it, because humor and stories are going to keep the Audience engaged.
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Unknown
Yeah. I also read a study. They make you remember things better. Like 30% better recollection.
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Jesse Itzler
But Cody, the most important thing is to tell stories in a speech that only you can tell. So if I say, hey, you have to get comfortable being uncomfortable. A million people can say that. But if I say, you know, I rode my bike across the United States of America. And let me tell you what I learned about being uncomfortable from like, you know, it's unique to me. It's a story that only I can tell and that, that is really important in giving talks.
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Unknown
Yeah. You seem like a story collector.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, I am.
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Unknown
You know, and your life is kind of a. A version of that. This one was interesting. Have you ever done Brazilian Jiu Jitsu?
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Jesse Itzler
I love to. I haven't. I took Krav Maga, but I never did Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
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Unknown
So Krav Maga is like the Israeli martial arts. Like you can.
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Jesse Itzler
Because you can learn. What's good about Krav Maga is you can learn the basics and the foundations in like 30 hours.
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Unknown
Whoa.
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Jesse Itzler
As opposed to. But yeah, I would love to do that. I haven't done it yet.
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Unknown
We have a big audience of people that are obsessed with bjj.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Unknown
And they ask this question a lot, which I think is funny. And, and I think the last one is, you know, if you were chatting with somebody who is young, Jessie, today, world's a lot different. But what would you leave them with?
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Jesse Itzler
God, Cody. Jesus. These are like, these are really good questions. And the way you said it, you said, what would you leave them with? Like you said it. Like I like, don't fuck it up.
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Unknown
That's what I'm saying here. You know, you get one shot.
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Jesse Itzler
I just think, you know, this is an obvious answer, but we have one life. For me, I don't want to be 85, 90 years old and look back on my journey and be like, I was the 80% version of myself, you know, like, I don't want to be. No one wants to be the 80% version of themselves. So I think it's really important to live a life that prevents that, you know, that you're excited about you're writing, you know, you're the author of your story and that you're writing a really good story that you're proud of. I'll leave you with this story. So my parents passed away. When your parents pass away. My parents lived in a house. My brother and my sister and I decided to sell my parents house. Like we weren't going to keep it. So what happens is someone comes in, like, we sell the house, but now we have to get rid of all the 90 years of possessions that are in the house. The silverware, the mirror that's on the wall. You know, everything has to go so that the new owner comes into a house with nothing in it. So the estate people come and they start, you know, pricing out the couch. We'll give you this for the couch. We'll put this in an auction. We'll give this, we'll donate this. They go through everything. And then the guy comes and he goes through the pictures, and we'll give you 500 for this. This goes here. We'll sell this. And then the book guy comes and we have like, my mom had, like a thousand, like, so many books. And he's going through the book one by one, writing how much they're worth and this, what they're going to do with the books. And then a couple of hours in, he hands my brother a book and he says, you need to see this. So my brother opens it up. It's not a book. It's a hollow, carved out book with a safe in it, like out of a Mission Impossible James Bond movie. So he opens it up. It's hollow. There's some old credit cards from 20 or 30 years ago that expired. And there's a note. And the note says, if anything happens to me, here's a combination to the safe, here's an address. You're the only one that has this combination. So my brother calls me up, he's like, we have a situation. Like, he's like, maybe mom left us Apple stock. I don't know, what, like a $2. And then I said, what's the address on the note? So he gives me the address. I'm like, that's my house in Connecticut. I wrote that Note to Mom 25 years ago when I bought this house. And I had some valuable stuff in the safe in case something happened to me. So that week happened to be Labor Day weekend. So I was at the house in Connecticut. So I went down to the safe, I opened it up, and in the safe, this is a true story. In the safe was a book, and the book was an autobiography that my grandfather wrote in 1974. And so I read the book, 54 pages, and it's for. It's. We could do a whole other podcast episode on it. But he really left all these lessons through his autobiography for his kids, his grandkids and generations. And my father. You know, my parents are Gone. My grandfather's gone. But the stories live on forever. And the, you know, the stories that we create. You just went through a whole hour. I don't even know how long we could have been here. 15 minutes or two. I have no idea.
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Unknown
Three years.
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Jesse Itzler
But all the stories that we went through. Oh, the Marquis jet running in this costume and the Zico costume, and, you know, the thing was Saturday. All these. All these little. They're just stories that we've collected. They're nothing more than. It's all going to go away. Everything's going away. But your legacy is the stories that you create that you pass down to your friends, family, kids, or the book that you leave in the safe. And that is what I would say, like, at the end of the day, you know, what is that book going to look like for you in the safe? You know, like, what are the stories that are going to be in there? And how do you write the best ones? And it's not going to be the Zoom calls. It's not going to be that. It's going to be what's on your calendar in yellow that you're excited about. You know, that you look back and be like, yeah, Chris did Rim to rim to rim. If you ask him, Kris, name 10 things you did in 2024, he probably could. Like, what did you do in January? I have no fucking idea. But he'll never forget Rim to Rim to Rim.
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Unknown
You're so right. So do you. Are you gonna write a book like that for your kids?
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Jesse Itzler
For sure. But I'm also. I am a story. Like, I am in. So deeply invested in spending my money on experiences. Like, I am so deeply invested. I'm going on a sauna tour of Finland with 10 friends in February. I rode my bike across America with 10 friends last year. I, you know, I'm going on trips with my family. Like, I went. I got scuba certified with my son. I've been to Africa and Fiji, all with my family over the last six months. And New Zealand. Like it. Because that's what I want. Yeah, that's. That's everything now. Easy for me to say, right? I have the ability to do it, and I can afford to do it. But even when I was 21, sleeping on couches, I was going to Coney Island's Polar Plunge, which was free. I was going to free stuff in New York City. I was going to the rallies. I was going to this. I was out there. I wasn't sitting on the couch watching the Kardashians. I was out 14 D.C. yeah.
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Unknown
Breakdancing. Which actually made me.
- [79:54]
Jesse Itzler
Nothing wrong with the Kardashians, but I wasn't doing that.
- [79:57]
Unknown
No, I think.
- [79:58]
Cody Sanchez
I think you're right.
- [79:58]
Unknown
I remember I threw my first protest when I was 15 and I want to throw up.
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Jesse Itzler
Would you protest?
- [80:04]
Unknown
Yeah.
- [80:04]
Cody Sanchez
You haven't thrown a protest yet?
- [80:06]
Jesse Itzler
No.
- [80:06]
Cody Sanchez
Gather on the bucket list. 20, 25.
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Jesse Itzler
Will you come?
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Cody Sanchez
I'm in. I will hold the sign.
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Unknown
I'll make the signs. I protested our. I was on student government and the dean of the school, or the principal. That's what you called it back then. The principal wanted to get rid of half of our. What's that called?
- [80:25]
Cody Sanchez
Where you go in between classes.
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Unknown
Like the time.
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah.
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Cody Sanchez
Not recess.
- [80:28]
Jesse Itzler
Yeah, Whatever it is.
- [80:30]
Cody Sanchez
And I said, that's ridiculous.
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Unknown
We need that time.
- [80:33]
Cody Sanchez
We sit in these chairs all day.
- [80:34]
Unknown
I need to be connecting with people.
- [80:35]
Cody Sanchez
We have things to do. And so we threw a protest and.
- [80:38]
Unknown
Invited the news sources. But it's funny to look back in retrospect on sides.
- [80:43]
Cody Sanchez
Yeah. But you know what cost me?
- [80:46]
Unknown
Nothing. I'll remember it forever. And I think that's a beautiful thing for people to realize today. It's not just about the bank account that you have at some point. It's this story bank that you have.
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Jesse Itzler
Right. It's true.
- [80:57]
Unknown
Jesse, you're the man. Thank you, Cody.
- [81:00]
Jesse Itzler
Thanks for having me, man.
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Cody Sanchez
It's so good. That story. Obviously more inspiration than. I don't know, I got in a four year college degree. So if you also are getting inspired to do better, be better, hit that subscribe button. Share this video Share the audio let's get more people into this wild world where we actually believe you can do things as opposed to have to be told what to do every second of every day. I hope you guys liked this podcast. Let me know in the comments on YouTube. We read every single one. I read every review you guys leave. So please comment or leave a review so I can hear what you liked about this podcast or not. And we keep making it better for.