Podcast Summary: BILFPOD with Mara Dorne
Episode: Pretty Girls Don’t Just Dance; They Control the Music
Date: January 15, 2026
Guests: Gianna Ferrazi & Jocelyn Delgado
Episode Overview
This lively episode of BILFPOD, hosted by Mara Dorne, features Gianna Ferrazi and Jocelyn Delgado—best friends, business partners, DJs, and entrepreneurs. The trio dives into the guests' journey from child modeling to DJing, the challenge (and fun) of being women in male-dominated spaces, navigating entrepreneurship, and how they've supported each other's endeavors every step of the way. The pulse is energetic, real, and sisterly, emphasizing both ambition and unbreakable friendship.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
Origins: From Modeling to DJing (01:07–02:42)
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Early Connection:
- Gianna and Jocelyn have been best friends for 12 years, meeting through child modeling and casting classes. Their mothers became friends first, solidifying their own bond.
- Quote (Gianna): "We were besties from the moment we met each other..." (01:39)
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Discovery of DJing:
- Inspired by frequenting events featuring mostly male DJs, they taught themselves to DJ, practicing at house parties before booking their first real gig.
- First major venue: Flynn’s, where they've played every summer since 2019.
- Quote (Gianna): "Since then we've been [at Flynn's] consistently every sing...everyone loved us." (05:27)
On Balancing Multiple Hustles & Entrepreneurship (03:02–06:58)
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Professional Lives:
- Gianna: Model, founder of a skincare and false eyelash line, recent college graduate eager to reinvest in her businesses.
- Jocelyn: Real estate license holder, in school, soon returning to the property business.
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Entrepreneurial Motivation:
- Both credit each other for their drive and willingness to try new ventures, always acting as each other's "number one fans."
- Quote (Gianna): "We're each other's number one fans. We push each other to do the best that we can." (07:12)
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Support Systems:
- Their entrepreneurial spirit is fueled by mutual encouragement; parents (especially their moms) attend their gigs and are a positive influence.
Experiences as Women DJs in a Male-Dominated Scene (09:01–15:42)
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Genre Preferences:
- Jocelyn gravitates toward Latin beats and EDM (notably Sarah Laundrie), while Gianna enjoys house, rap, and pop, giving their sets broad appeal.
- On balancing sets: "We balance each other out. Whatever I don't like, she fills in, and vice versa—we cover all the bases." (Gianna, 09:09)
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Perception and Stereotypes:
- Often underestimated or mistaken for “the girlfriends” rather than the talent—especially when accompanied by male friends or partners.
- Common reactions: Surprise at their DJ skills, sometimes backhanded:
- "Oh, you're actually really good." (Jocelyn, 14:28)
- "If I have my boyfriend with me, they look to him. I’m like, no, me." (Gianna, 13:52)
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Advice to Women Entering Male-Dominated Spaces:
- "If you're gonna do something, be good at what you do...so nobody underestimates you." (Jocelyn, 14:53)
- Host Mara: "You can't go in there half-assed. You gotta perfect your craft." (15:11)
- "You have one set, and that's your showing. If they didn't like you, they’re not going to book you again." (Jocelyn, 15:27)
Memorable & Embarrassing Moments (12:37–13:30)
- DJ Set Mishap:
- At a venue, both started jumping with the crowd; their laptop, not on a stand, vibrated off and unplugged mid-song, stopping the music instantly.
- "The entire place started shaking...our computer fell off the entire deck and unplugged and the music stopped." (Gianna, 13:22)
Aspirations & Influences (10:22–18:13)
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Dream Venues:
- Ibiza, Miami nightclubs (11, Space), and Las Vegas pool parties top their professional bucket lists.
- "I would love to go to Ibiza." (Gianna, 10:29)
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Festival Loves:
- Huge fans of EDM and rap festivals—EDC, Rolling Loud—though their DJ work has sometimes kept them from attending.
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Dream Collaborations:
- Would love to work with Dom Dolla, John Summit, and Sarah Laundrie.
- "Dom Dolla would be sick. John Summit, Sarah Laundrie, yeah, a couple." (Jocelyn, 17:57)
- In pop, Gianna is a fan of Tate McRae (who she plans to see in concert).
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On Creating Original Music:
- Both want to eventually release their own album but are searching for time in their schedules.
Friendship & Future Vision (12:04–20:27)
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Enduring Partnership:
- Both value their DJ journey as a way to ensure lifelong closeness—even while living in different states.
- "You have to hang out with me because we have a DJ [gig]." (Gianna, 12:33)
- “It's like an unspoken bond...you’re not going anywhere, bitch, you're friends forever.” (Host Mara, 12:37)
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Relationship & Life Goals:
- Jocelyn: Single, wants eventual marriage but prioritizes success and happiness in her 20s.
- Gianna: Hopes to see her boyfriend propose soon, wants to keep growing her brands and DJ career.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- Jocelyn: “If you're going to do something, like, be good at what you do...so you don’t ever have somebody underestimating you and be right.” (00:18 / 14:53)
- Gianna: “Fake it till you make it…just have the confidence and dance...and everyone else will have fun too.” (08:44)
- Mara (Host): “Brains, beauty, DJs—like, is there anything you both don't do?” (15:43)
- Jocelyn: “All I want is to be happy in what I did and with how I spent my 20s.” (19:41)
- Mara (Host): “You have one shot at making a first impression.” (15:11)
- Funny host banter about being the “creepy mom” groupie at Ibiza or crashing their gigs (10:34).
Timestamps for Key Segments
- Origin Story & Friendship: 01:07–02:42
- First DJ Gig & Flynn’s residency: 05:11–05:37
- Business Ventures (Skincare, Real Estate): 05:45–07:03
- Support System & Family: 07:18–08:38
- Female DJs & Industry Stereotypes: 09:01–14:33
- Embarrassing DJ Mishap: 12:37–13:30
- Advice for Women in Male-Dominated Fields: 14:53–15:42
- Dreams & Aspirations (Venues/Festivals): 10:22–11:49, 18:11–19:03
- Relationship Status & Future Vision: 16:06–20:25
Where to Find Them
- Gianna Ferrazi: @giannaferrazi
- Jocelyn Delgado: @jocelyndelgado
- Joint DJ Instagram: @jdngf (joint DJ projects, bookings, and flyers)
Next for the Duo
- Upcoming residency at Flynn’s (returning for the fifth summer)
- Private parties in Long Island and New York City
- Future album and original music production in the works
Tone & Style
The tone is fun, candid, and empowering, filled with supportive banter, humor, and the infectious energy of three women championing each other’s hustle.
For those who missed the episode:
This conversation is an inspiring glimpse into modern millennial (and Gen Z) entrepreneurship, friendship, and the unapologetic pursuit of creative passions—heels, headphones, and all.
