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Episode Title: We'll Do It Live! — Steve Schirripa
Date: March 26, 2026
Host: Bill O’Reilly
Guest: Steve Schirripa
Episode Overview
This episode features a candid and wide-ranging conversation between Bill O’Reilly and Steve Schirripa, acclaimed actor best known for his roles on The Sopranos and Blue Bloods. Schirripa opens up about his tough upbringing in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn, the unlikely road to acting stardom, behind-the-scenes realities of hit TV shows, maintaining humility in the face of fame, and the importance of charity work. The dialogue is warm, honest, and peppered with humor and memorable observations about show business, New York City, and family.
Key Discussion Points and Insights
1. Steve Schirripa's Upbringing and Family Background
[00:36 – 05:19]
- Mixed Heritage: Steve’s mother was Jewish (the Bernstein side) but “raised kind of like by Italians,” embracing Italian culture and food, while his father was Italian.
- "My mother was raised kind of like by Italians. So she was, she fit right in...But I had a whole Jewish side of the family…it was great. And I'm very proud to say I'm half Jewish." – Steve Schirripa [01:31]
- Childhood Struggles: Grew up in a poor, working-class home with a father he describes as a “bad guy, small time gangster,” and a mother who held the family together.
- "My father was below working class. He was a small time want to be gangster and did not...He sat on the couch literally for 30 years." – Steve Schirripa [02:13]
- No Forgiveness for Father:
- "Did you forgive your father in the end?" – Bill O’Reilly [02:53]
"No. I still hold it against him. He's been dead for 20 something years." – Steve Schirripa [02:55]
- "Did you forgive your father in the end?" – Bill O’Reilly [02:53]
- Mother’s Emphasis on College & Responsibility:
- "My mother badgered that we're going to college... She put that into me...I went to John Jay, played basketball..." – Steve Schirripa [04:02]
2. The Unlikely Journey to Acting
[05:15 – 08:21]
- No Childhood Dream of Stardom:
- "Did you have in the back of your mind that you wanted to be a performer?" – Bill O’Reilly [05:15]
"No. Never. Not in the least bit. I never knew what I wanted to do. I just knew to look people in the eye, be honest, shake their hand, that is." – Steve Schirripa [05:19]
- "Did you have in the back of your mind that you wanted to be a performer?" – Bill O’Reilly [05:15]
- Early Vegas Years: Delivered pizza, was a bouncer, managed a comedy club—opportunities came more through personal connections than ambition.
- First Steps in Acting:
- "...I'm doing this little short film, you know, why don't you come...Kevin Pollack, he said, come on, do an HBO special. I played a bouncer...Literally a cliche. I got literally high from doing it." – Steve Schirripa [06:49]
- Serendipity and Friendships: Success came by "being a good guy," not chasing opportunities, emphasizing genuineness and loyalty.
3. Inside The Sopranos
[08:21 – 18:35]
- Touring and Lasting Legacy:
- Schirripa and Michael Imperioli have toured internationally sharing behind-the-scenes stories, underscoring the show's enduring relevance.
- "We did 14 shows in 10 cities...27,000 tickets. Telling stories, funny, behind the scenes stories. All positive." – Steve Schirripa [08:33]
- James Gandolfini as Leader:
- "Complete pro. Always, always trying to help you...He's yelling at me, screaming at me. He's trying to get me where I need to be. Once I do that, the scene's over. I one of the guys, you know, he's just trying to help." – Steve Schirripa [09:21]
- On-Set Dynamics & Work Ethic:
- Very little ego, family-like atmosphere, fun but all business; Gandolfini worked long hours, was always supportive.
- "Nobody could come in and be disrespectful to one another. That wasn't flying either." – Steve Schirripa [10:59]
- Fan Encounters & Humility:
- Schirripa remains approachable, grateful for fan support, critical of celebrities who "can't be bothered":
- "If 99% of the fans are nice, why should I be (rude)?" – Steve Schirripa [12:40]
- "I'm a nicer guy now than I was probably when I was younger. I mean, I've been very lucky...There's luck involved, right?" – Steve Schirripa [12:23]
- Schirripa remains approachable, grateful for fan support, critical of celebrities who "can't be bothered":
- Gandolfini’s Passing & Show’s End:
- Gandolfini’s death was sudden and felt deeply by cast and friends; discusses intense workload and speculation about storylines echoing personal lives.
- "He went, took his son to Italy and he died of a heart attack...I was stunned. My legs came out from under me." – Steve Schirripa [16:34]
- Gandolfini and David Chase’s Relationship:
- Mutual respect but some tension toward the end, stemming from burnout and possible overlaps between real life and show narrative.
4. Transition to Blue Bloods & Differences from The Sopranos
[19:07 – 24:29]
- Different Show, Different Culture:
- The Sopranos was shot like a movie with uncompromising scripts, while Blue Bloods was a network show, more structured and collaborative.
- "On the Sopranos, you had no input what was on that page. You better say end of story...Tom had a lot of input [on Blue Bloods]." – Steve Schirripa [21:27]
- Comparison of Showrunners:
- Tom Selleck had more power and input at CBS, contrasted with Gandolfini’s flexible but script-bound approach at HBO.
- End of Blue Bloods:
- Attributed to cost and network’s changing priorities, with references to increased “wokeness” and discomfort around traditional themes.
- "They were too woke. They didn't like the tradition...They didn't like the prayer. That's what people liked about it." – Bill O'Reilly and Steve Schirripa [23:14-24:01]
- Family and Values on Blue Bloods:
- The centrality of family dinners, tradition, and praying on the show reflected popular appeal, and resistance to changing elements fans loved.
5. New York City, Politics, and Safety
[24:46 – 27:38]
- Views on City’s Leadership:
- Criticizes mayors de Blasio and Dinkins as detrimental to the city, discussing how changes in law enforcement priorities impacted daily life.
- "He destroyed the city. It was like him and his wife were just waiting in the wings...things go to shit. Right. Almost immediately." – Steve Schirripa [25:39]
- Safety & Common Sense:
- Emphasizes safety as the foundation for city life and prosperity.
- "For me, the biggest thing, Bill, anywhere is the safety of the citizens that you can go out. Because it all trickles down." – Steve Schirripa [26:08]
6. Fatherhood, Privacy, and Grounded Family Life
[28:42 – 32:17]
- Book on Parenting:
- Wrote Big Daddy's Rules. Raising Daughters Is Tougher Than I Look about the importance of staying close to kids and using common sense.
- "Common sense. Got to stay close to them, got to know what they're doing." – Steve Schirripa [29:00]
- Celebrity & Family:
- Daughters remain unaffected by his fame; family life is centered around normalcy, privacy, and shared values.
- "They could care less. They're very proud of me...They're not affected by any of that stuff." – Steve Schirripa [30:02]
- Wife Laura & Longevity:
- Married 37 years, wife not interested in showbiz glamour, runs marathons, family stayed rooted despite success.
7. Relationship with Fans and Fame
[32:17 – 38:59]
- Fan Interactions:
- Not bothered when fans call out character names—sees it as part of the job and a mark of good fortune.
- "They say Anthony or Bobby, especially the younger kids. Bobby Bacalot. It really doesn't bother me." – Steve Schirripa [32:35]
- Charity Work:
- Garden of Dreams Foundation and Garden of Laughs events at Madison Square Garden and Radio City raise millions for children in challenging situations.
- "Every dime goes where it's supposed to go. I'm very proud of this." – Steve Schirripa [35:24]
- Self-Perception and Confidence:
- Candid acceptance that not all actors will like him, recognizes jealousy in the business, attributes his longevity to hard work and staying true to himself.
8. Stories from the Old Days: Vegas, Sinatra, and Bouncing
[43:17 – 48:00]
- Early Jobs as a Bouncer: Both O’Reilly and Schirripa reflect on being bouncers in the 1970s and ‘80s, sharing colorful memories of clubs, “Go Go girls,” and their approach to the job.
- Vegas Stories & Sinatra Encounters:
- Schirripa tells a vivid story of meeting Frank Sinatra at a private party, including the cherished photo his wife took—revealing both the glamor and the humility with which he regards such experiences.
- "...we went, we were invited to a party...Sinatra's coming. Come on, get dressed. Got out of bed...He was great. Yeah, great to me. I got a great picture. That's the one person I had to have a picture." – Steve Schirripa [46:25-47:56]
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- "The more that I got into being a father, I'm saying, how could you allow this to happen? ...I had two daughters. I have a responsibility. I gotta take care of these two." – Steve Schirripa [03:05]
- "I've never met someone for (networking) or went to lunch...If I liked you, I liked you." – Steve Schirripa [05:35]
- "Jim (Gandolfini) was always a pro...not without problems...but not on the set. Never." – Steve Schirripa [10:35]
- "I'm a common sense guy. You do something wrong, you get in trouble for it." – Steve Schirripa [27:31]
- "My daughters to this day want to go on vacation with us. And they're both married now, so now I got, you know, we got the whole group." – Steve Schirripa [29:30]
- "You say, 'Why'd you get the role and not me?'...I've worked extremely hard. But I came to New York for a wedding. I was working as the entertainment director... I just figured I'd grab a couple lines...I had a big house on an acre of land, big job." – Steve Schirripa [37:36; 38:59]
Timestamps for Key Segments
| Time | Segment | |-------------|-----------------------------------------------------------| | 00:36–05:19 | Family background, childhood, college | | 05:15–08:21 | Journey to Las Vegas and start in entertainment | | 08:21–19:45 | Inside The Sopranos: casting, Gandolfini, touring, fans | | 19:07–24:29 | Blue Bloods, TV industry contrasts, CBS changes | | 24:46–27:38 | New York politics, city safety, changing urban life | | 28:42–32:17 | Parenting, raising daughters, family fame | | 32:17–38:59 | Fan relations, character names, charity work | | 43:17–48:00 | Old Vegas, bouncing stories, Sinatra meeting |
Overall Tone and Takeaways
The conversation is respectful, humorous, and thoughtful. Schirripa's grounded sense of gratitude and pragmatic outlook shines as he reflects on his journey, relationships, and charitable activities. O’Reilly consistently steers the discussion towards “No Spin”—straight talk, authenticity, and everyday wisdom. The episode offers not only showbiz stories, but a master class in resilience, humility, and common sense both on and off screen.
Recommended for:
- Fans of The Sopranos and Blue Bloods
- Listeners interested in NYC and entertainment industry stories
- Those seeking inspiration on rising above adversity and staying grounded amidst fame
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