
On this week’s episode, co-hosts Sequoia Holmes and Ryann Graham discuss two of the biggest staples of pop culture of the early 2000s, MTV’s TRL and BET’s 106 & Park.
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Sequoia
Foreign. Welcome to Black People Love Paramore, a pop culture podcast, not about the band Paramore, but about the common and uncommon interests of black people in order to help us, the blacks, feel a little bit more seen. Amen. Today we have me, Sequoia and Ryan.
Ryan
Me, Ryan, Ryan.
Sequoia
Freaky Friday, we have me, Sequoia and Ryan. And per usual rate review, do all that comment.
Ryan
Talk to us.
Sequoia
Love talking to you guys. Truly in the comments is so fun. So comment to us. Do all those things. You know what we're here to talk about today? Oh, you know what? I actually wanted to introduce a new segment, and I feel like I should have prepped you for this.
Ryan
You didn't.
Sequoia
But please, I love us prep you for this. It's a new old segment, so.
Ryan
Okay.
Sequoia
A segment we used to do that we no longer do.
Ryan
I probably. Okay.
Sequoia
That you can easily jump into.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
What is the white song of the week?
Ryan
Ooh.
Sequoia
The song week that black people would like that we're trying to put you on. You know what I mean? Like what black people? What do we like? What do we like?
Ryan
Okay, let me go through my.
Sequoia
It can be nostalgic.
Ryan
It can be.
Sequoia
It can be. It can be current. Mine is current. I can go first. You.
Ryan
You go first. I want to see something really quick.
Sequoia
Mine is Midnight sun by Zara Larson. I. Oh, it's. She.
Ryan
It's her new album.
Sequoia
Her new Never ending Midnight Sun.
Ryan
You can stop.
Sequoia
That's how she sounds. Oh, so good.
Ryan
I believe, I believe that. Yeah, I believe that.
Sequoia
It's, it's, it's, it's really.
Ryan
It's that good.
Sequoia
It has dopamine in that song.
Ryan
Really?
Sequoia
Yes.
Ryan
Oh, if only Namani also had.
Sequoia
Wow. I'm sorry. I didn't have to be shady. I'm sorry.
Ryan
There's no shade. She's fine. I feel no way about nobody.
Sequoia
But she wasn't in fifth harmony.
Ryan
Zara Larson was not. I, I. She is just like a Swedish or something.
Sequoia
She's like some European Swedish.
Ryan
I knew she was like some European girls.
Sequoia
She came out of nowhere, but, like, feels like she's been around for forever. She's like. I've heard the name Zara Larson for a long time, but I never knew who she was. Never really. I couldn't name a song.
Ryan
You know what it is? She actually must have the same agent as Rita Ora because.
Sequoia
And read it. Like, how do y' all stick around, like, constantly. How do you constantly. Working, getting around.
Ryan
And I don't know anybody who's like, you Know what? I'm about to put on that new Zara. Can't never hurt someone.
Sequoia
And they always got something new.
Ryan
Booked constantly.
Sequoia
Booked constantly and busy.
Ryan
Hey.
Sequoia
It's insane.
Ryan
Need that agent. I. I'm like, currently listening to It's Toro Imois. Wait.
Sequoia
Oh, that's my midnight song. Sundance.
Ryan
The way you say it sound like an early 2000s.
Sequoia
It's a very hyper. Is very Kelly Clarkson when she was working with. I'm not Kelly Clarkson. Kelly Rowland when she was working with.
Ryan
Oh.
Sequoia
Yeah. When she was in that era. It is exactly. Yes. So that. It is so, so, so I must.
Ryan
Listen now because I love that.
Sequoia
Have to hear it. I'm gonna play it after you all because it is.
Ryan
That sounds fun. If it's that type of music.
Sequoia
It is that. It's exactly that.
Ryan
That is very fun.
Sequoia
You know the feeling that it'll listen.
Ryan
It is rub.
Sequoia
Jump around like you're jumping. You're happy.
Ryan
I hope so badly that we're coming back around because obviously I pray the.
Sequoia
Recession will get us there.
Ryan
Oh, my God. Recession. Pop is back in the. I'm so, so ready for recession. Oh, my God. Gus is like very activated.
Sequoia
All right, you see somebody outside? I'm trying to think.
Ryan
What is the name of this song? It's a song I heard in the movie very recently. Oh, can't get enough of this girl. I think that's what it's called. Can't get enough of this girl. It's like an old early 2000s, like, pop song. I heard it in a movie. Twinless. It's about this. This guy who loses his twin. And so like that people who like, are. They're in a support group for people who lose their twins. It is a dark comedy. It's up in the best way. It's a really good movie. But one of the scenes, they're driving, listening to it and it feels like.
Sequoia
It'S just the girl.
Ryan
It's not that song, but it's like very.
Sequoia
That just the girl I'm looking for.
Ryan
It reminds me of that. Like. So they're jamming up to the cars or road tripping. Love it.
Sequoia
I loved the click 5.
Ryan
Is that who sang that song?
Sequoia
That was the click 5. I only know that song. I literally don't know a single other song. Hope I don't want anyone else. She's a mystery. Now we going to get demonetized on YouTube. Oh, wow. We got demonetized for the songs turning 18. Cuz I was.
Ryan
Cuz we sang too much.
Sequoia
I was. I Was doing too much.
Ryan
That's what I did. I did nothing.
Sequoia
They said, get out. You. You sounded too similar to way too similar. Obviously, I was rapping 303.
Ryan
I want to go into it. I won't, but wow.
Sequoia
Yeah. It was just like, oh, did you. 303?
Ryan
I 303 way hard. It's crazy, you know?
Sequoia
Did you?
Ryan
Yes. I thought it was so different in high school because I was like. I listened to like, three or three. They came to my college. They were one of our campus. Like, really? Yeah. It was like past bands, you know? I mean, like when your student union brings bands. They were one of the bands we brought, and they were great.
Sequoia
They were past the prime, but it's still fun. I'm not your boyfriend, baby. Whoa. You really did 303? No, that's the one. I got in trouble rapping.
Ryan
What was. Was it paved with gold?
Sequoia
303, I call it.
Ryan
What the. Yeah.
Sequoia
No, I thought that was rap.
Ryan
Yeah, it's rap.
Sequoia
I thought that was rap.
Ryan
The thing is, I've said this before. I feel like if Lizzo is a rapper, which some people consider, then so is kesha. So is 303.
Sequoia
So is Kesha. So is Fergie.
Ryan
Same type of rap.
Sequoia
Three. Oh, three. Yeah.
Ryan
Oh, yeah. I love 300i 303. Real hard.
Sequoia
Yeah. Oh, I threw out three. I had.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
Both albums. Hard copies. The first one with the. The blue. Yeah.
Ryan
And then the blue and the.
Sequoia
And the gold. And I had both. Yes.
Ryan
Oh, God. Anyways, sorry. I love it also. That's my wide of the week. Whatever. The white song of the week. Go through 303's two albums.
Sequoia
I'm telling you.
Ryan
Discography. Crazy.
Sequoia
It is good.
Ryan
Very good.
Sequoia
It is very good. You know, they have a lot more albums than that. They had one before that blue one. They had one before that blue one. And they had one since that gold one.
Ryan
I believe you're lying.
Sequoia
No, I know.
Ryan
Yes.
Sequoia
I found out they had one before that blue one when I was doing the songs that turned 18 this year.
Ryan
Oh, is it just three? Don't trust me.
Sequoia
Oh, my God.
Ryan
They also did the Helen Keller moment.
Sequoia
Trust me.
Ryan
No, they have music still.
Sequoia
They do.
Ryan
Wow.
Sequoia
And they still perform. I just saw a video out right now. 2025 type release in July. That's crazy.
Ryan
Insane.
Sequoia
That's crazy.
Ryan
Who knew what? I don't. I don't want to know what 303 sounds like.
Sequoia
I'm okay. I'm actually really okay.
Ryan
And also. But I'm Hey, I bet you guys are out there and you're. Good for you, Good for you, good for you.
Sequoia
Keep making your art. I love that for you.
Ryan
I love that.
Sequoia
But, yes, we're here to talk about TRL. Yeah. And 106 in park.
Ryan
God. So basically we're gonna relive our after school activities.
Sequoia
I only.106.
Ryan
That's kind of crazy.
Sequoia
Yeah. I did not TRL whatsoever.
Ryan
I can't tell if you mean, like, literally whatsoever. Like, you never once, like. Let me just. What was your channel? My MTV and V or. Sorry. My MTV and bet were 24 and 25. So you can just flip back and forth.
Sequoia
Interesting. I don't remember. I don't remember which. Which numbers they were.
Ryan
I remember.
Sequoia
I only remember which numbers. Disney channel. Nickelodeon were 37 for Nickelodeon, 43 for Disney Channel.
Ryan
Mine were 49 for Nickelodeon, 70 for Disney. Yeah. And then 58 for Cartoon Network.
Sequoia
Well, I never cared what was on Cartoon Network.
Ryan
It was too boy. I'm sure.
Sequoia
Way too boy. So I was like, yeah, I keep it cool.
Ryan
Don't you know, I didn't watch Eddie. That is disrespectful. That was for slow kids. Don't.
Sequoia
Wait, who said? Somebody said somebody looked like Ed and Eddie the other day. Oh, they said. Kendra from Unknown Caller. Did you watch that Netflix documentary?
Ryan
Oh, my God.
Sequoia
They said that the mom look like Ed. They said you look like Ed and Eddie. Oh, my.
Ryan
All of them. She looks like Ed. Ed and Edd.
Sequoia
Wow. Yeah.
Ryan
It's crazy because I. Before I watched it, I just saw.
Sequoia
This might have been Mel Mitch that said that on Tick Tock. She's so funny.
Ryan
That is funny. Oh, my God. Sorry. That documentary is crazy. And I'm sorry. We can talk about that off camera because I might also have thoughts. We are. We're way off topic.
Sequoia
But.
Ryan
No, no, no, no. Crazy to me that you never flipped over to TRL because TRL was so iconic. I don't remember which came first.
Sequoia
It was. I mean, I'm sure TR came first. TR has. Has 18 seasons and it premiered on September 14th, 1998. Yeah, 106. And park has 14 seasons and premiered.
Ryan
I think, straight up, 2000.
Sequoia
Okay.
Ryan
I think.
Sequoia
Yeah, I'm not. I'm not seeing the date here, but yeah, I guess.
Ryan
I mean, because it ended in like, 14. No.
Sequoia
Yes. Yes.
Ryan
So then probably, yeah.
Sequoia
14, 2014. BT cancel one of Susan Park. Yeah.
Ryan
But yeah, so then TRL comes first. And I think when I think about, like, like watching tv.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
I watched MTV shows In a way that I never watch BET shows.
Sequoia
Ye know, I did watch both.
Ryan
I can't think of. Oh, I did watch College Hill. But like, I watch College. That was great with reality.
Sequoia
She used to fight. They used to show the fights. They busted old girl on her forehead. I saw blood splatter.
Ryan
That was in Jamaica or something like that.
Sequoia
It was in the Virgin Islands, I believe.
Ryan
And I think that might have been. Was that the last one? I think that was when they were.
Sequoia
Like, we have to cut this off. I don't think so. I don't even think so. But I'm not. Not positive, but I don't even think so.
Ryan
But I think because I watched MTV shows, I TRL more just. It was like a natural. Like, oh, I'm watching next. I'm watching. Blah, blah, blah.
Sequoia
And then TR did watching Parental Control Room Raiders.
Ryan
All those things.
Sequoia
Oh, my God.
Ryan
Like, before Pop the Balloon, you had Room Raiders. All of those shows are based. There's no way that those shows are not just reincarnation of MTV shows.
Sequoia
I forgot all about those shows. But also I was on BET watching College Hill. Baldwin Hills was that early enough.
Ryan
Part of me feels like Baldwin Hills was late. That's what I'm saying. I think someone. And maybe they weren't. Maybe I was. Maybe I was late. But I'm just thinking of like, I. I'm. I am. I'm a little bit older than you. Not too much. We can. And so, yes, I was. I think I probably tapped into MTV and BET just like. Like a touch before you did.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
And so I fell hard into just mtv. I think it was peak MTV culture. Like, I was watching spring break and I think it just made TRL fun.
Sequoia
That's fair.
Ryan
Like watching. I think I used to really be like. Like, dang. I never went to New York in high school. And I wish I would have because I think I would have stood up. I think I would have been like, let's go to trl. I'm sad that that experience doesn't really exist anymore.
Sequoia
I know the kids are missing out on digital third spaces too. Whoa. Yeah. Like, we're missing out on third spaces as a whole. Because that was where I spent all of my time after school I would go. I would go home after school and immediately turn on 106 and park.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
And everybody did. So, like, you know, it wasn't like I was rare. It was like, then I could talk to people about it the next day at school.
Ryan
Did you also? I actually have distinct memories of going to My friends houses because like sometimes our parents wouldn't be home. So we would just like have like a 106 or TRL party. Like I remember going to my friend's house after school one day and we would watch 106 Park.
Sequoia
So fun. Like so as an only child, I did not have that experience.
Ryan
I mean I didn't do it.
Sequoia
Allowed to come in my house, you know, like, no, my mom did not. I mean people were allowed to come home, but not like I never had any friends over after school ever.
Ryan
That seems so wild.
Sequoia
I never went to any friend's house after school either. What it was like not part of my. My mom was like, I'll be there to pick you up at 3pm and you only. Thank you.
Ryan
Those other kids can walk.
Sequoia
No, she may not come. No, none of that was your mom.
Ryan
Your. Your mom wasn't a stay at home mom.
Sequoia
She was.
Ryan
Oh, okay. I don't think I realized that. Okay then that makes sense. Yeah, yeah. No, my parents.
Sequoia
That sounds really fun.
Ryan
It was fun.
Sequoia
That feels like my dream. Like I would love that type of shit as a kid.
Ryan
It was fun. It was like, like I remember like we would sit and watch and talk about what the ever was going on. Like it just felt very much like before Twitter or before like facetime. We will be sitting and watching. Like I distinctly remember watching. I remember watching the premiere of Fergie's London Bridge because it was her debut album. I was a huge Black Eyed Peace fan.
Sequoia
I loved it. What year was that?
Ryan
2006. It was.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
And I was like. It was crazy. I remember being at like we were visiting my uncle. He lived in Shreveport, Louisiana. We went to his house and I distinctly remember being like, we have to get back because Fergie's out.
Sequoia
And were you closeted at this time? Not well. Everybody had to know. Said, can we get back for who?
Ryan
My uncle was like, we gotta get back. This little. He wants to see.
Sequoia
My God.
Ryan
He didn't say that. He would have never said that. But could you imagine? Yeah, I sure did. And I remember making my cousins sit and watch. Wow. This trip. I'm thinking back to this trip and it's coming back to me. We watched it and then I remember downloading that song. And we went to a skating rink in Shreveport. Louis. Which was fun.
Sequoia
This is such a black. Like this is such a black. Including Fergie. This was such a black ass experience.
Ryan
It was great. And like it like, yeah. Roller skating in Louisiana. And I remember again, I thought I was so Different. I. I didn't like the music they were playing at the skating rink. It probably was great, but I really wanted to hear Fergie's album and I wanted to hear Gwen Stefani's Rich Girl Period. And so I demoed it.
Sequoia
And you had your headphones on.
Ryan
And the skating ring. Headphones on. Skating to.
Sequoia
Again.
Ryan
I was so gay.
Sequoia
Oh, my God. That's.
Ryan
It is. The memory is coming back to me right now thinking about it. But, like, great. It was a great time. Rich girl, great music video. And also, wow. Like, think about that. Like, TRL and 106 and park both presented music videos. This was like, pre YouTube.
Sequoia
Yeah, it was for YouTube. I think YouTube came out in 2006. I'm not mistaken.
Ryan
Right.
Sequoia
So it was like.
Ryan
It wasn't a music video. No.
Sequoia
Nobody cared. Yeah. About what?
Ryan
I'm just realizing, like, oh, this is. This was our YouTube.
Sequoia
This was our YouTube. Wow. And this is why people had to engage in payola so deeply, because no artist had any control over their music. Like, you couldn't upload it to YouTube and, like, you had to pay somebody to get you on TRL.
Ryan
Crazy.
Sequoia
Or. Or the radio or 106 and park.
Ryan
That's crazy. I've never thought about that until this moment. And I'm like, yeah, truly, like, we. That specific time for us, it was like us watching music videos, us watching the quote, unquote, YouTube of today. And I feel like it is such specific time that I. I remember, like, in preparing for this episode, I felt so nostalgic because it just. It's such a specific time that, like, our parents didn't have and no one else have. Like, you know, we are the only kind of, like, generation to have.
Sequoia
Wow.
Ryan
Something so specific.
Sequoia
Do you consider yourself a zillennial?
Ryan
I do. I think, because, like, I feel like, yeah, I'm. I guess I'm like the oldest of those millennials.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Where does it start?
Sequoia
Allegedly, the girlies tell me that it starts in 1995.
Ryan
That's where it's the lineal.
Sequoia
That's what they claim. I'm 94. I'm. I'm. I said I'm doing. I'm in there, you know. Okay.
Ryan
I will add, hey, you're a year away. So I'm like, you literally are. But I think that there's something about being in LA where we stay younger and then we also are in media. So, like, we kind of have to stay young.
Sequoia
100.
Ryan
And so, like, I think, right. If I talk to my friends from back Home in Missouri. Who, like, are not as tapped into like, like, pop culture. They are probably way more squarely millennial than I am.
Sequoia
1,000%. 1,000%. Okay, so there was TRL, there was 106 and park, both music video countdown style shows where all of us will gather after school. Sit together or by myself. If you were being an only child, your mom. No.
Ryan
Could you imagine ladies just sitting there?
Sequoia
Yeah, my mom did love music and music videos. So, like, if she was not cooking dinner, she wasn't busy. She would definitely, like, tap in and be like, oh, what's, what's, what's good? But I'll be standing up teaching myself the dances for like, like, music videos and all the stuff. It was such a good time.
Ryan
I'm trying to remember, obviously, 106 in park, being on BET and then like, being for hip hop in R B. Did they ever play, like, anything that was not. I'm trying to. Yeah, even. Yeah, Popish. Like, I mean, they probably.
Sequoia
The closest I think they got is like, Danity Kane damaged. I remember that being on one on six in park. My heart is. Damn it.
Ryan
Oh, no. Love the song. You don't have to remind me.
Sequoia
My heart is. Can you fix an H A I T? Cause it's D A N A G E D. Can you fix my H E A I T And tell me are you up on the challenge? Cause my heart is damaged.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah. Hey, I was in it, baby.
Sequoia
Yeah. Damaged, yeah. Damn. So anyways, I think that's as close as they got to, like, pop. And you know that was Diddy, right?
Ryan
Exactly.
Sequoia
So I'm sure he was heavily pulling some heavy strings behind the scenes to get whatever the hell he wanted on. You know, they probably also played like. They probably didn't have to play because Danny strings was big.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
I imagine they would have also played like, dream.
Ryan
I don't remember no dream.
Sequoia
He loves me.
Ryan
No, I know he loves me now.
Sequoia
Because that was also diddy.
Ryan
I agree with you that I understand the thought, but I think that because they are white and nobody was black. White.
Sequoia
White. Yeah.
Ryan
I think it would be harder to be on, like, certainly, because I'm like. Do you consider that song to be, like a crossover?
Sequoia
It's a little hip hoppy. I wouldn't say it's hip hop. Sure, it's a little hip hop.
Ryan
It's hip hoppy in the way they're like. Like, to me, Christina Aguilera will make more sense to play. I don't know that she ever appeared.
Sequoia
On I Can't imagine that.
Ryan
But to me, that makes more sense. Like that dirty era.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Because she was like, such a big star, for sure. Where it's like, this is good for us to have her on the show, you know?
Sequoia
I'm so sorry. You know what? I just thought about that one song by Ludacris that was about Run Away Love God, Jennings.
Ryan
Mary J. Blige.
Sequoia
It was Mary J. Blige, right?
Ryan
Is that who it is? Life. Jennings must be alive. Must be. Was 19 years old looking for a man Trying to feed her soul Ex.
Sequoia
Take his deep breath and think before you let it go what a time.
Ryan
God.
Sequoia
No songs were on.
Ryan
Absolutely. Because little Kiki Palmer was in the Runaway Love music video.
Sequoia
She sure was in the Runaway Love music video.
Ryan
She ran away because she got pregnant, I believe.
Sequoia
Yeah, she did.
Ryan
Kiki Palmer. She was. I remember it.
Sequoia
Yes. Whoa. That's insane.
Ryan
But, yeah, I do remember those distinctly. Being on a 106 and park, you know, it's weird. Like, I think I TRL'd more, but the hosts of 106 and park feel way more iconic to me, and I don't think that that is factually true. Carson Daly is the only one that I can't remember.
Sequoia
Yeah. Were there other one ones?
Ryan
Yeah, tons. Again, none of them, like. And I. No disrespect to them. I obviously, they're talented in their own right. I just feel like, to me, I don't know why 106 and Park Ho. Stuck out way more.
Sequoia
100. I think it's because they were always like. It was like, oh, it was Free and aj and then it was Roxy and Terence, and then it was Bow Wow.
Ryan
I only know him in name, but.
Sequoia
I know I don't swear Tigger hosted Rap City Cena.
Ryan
I never Rap City.
Sequoia
That's the one thing about City. Barely. I did Rap City because my older brother. Rap City. Right. I just said I was the only child. Older half brother.
Ryan
Hi, guys. Gus is, like, also wants to be on the mic.
Sequoia
He really wants to be. Sorry.
Ryan
No, he's fine.
Sequoia
Okay. He's fine. Great.
Ryan
But I like the thing about. I think Rhapsody felt like, you know how you didn't. Boy, that felt too bad.
Sequoia
City was really. Boy, I will say. And I felt that way as well. So my brother would turn it on. I'd be like, like. Like that Jay Z meme where I'm, like, trying to get into it. I'm like, yeah, yeah. That's aggressive. Like, the boys on here, like, really rapping at each other. It feels like, I don't know, I'm.
Ryan
Trying to remember the format of Rhapsody. Like I just remember the theme song, Rap City. That's all I remember. I and I. When I tell you that's all. I don't remember the format.
Sequoia
I remember there being a microphone.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
That like hung. I think so.
Ryan
It's like Freestyle Friday sort of live.
Sequoia
I think Freestyle Friday was a segment on Rhapsody. If I'm not, oh, if I'm not mistaken. Hey, now, don't give me the line.
Ryan
Hey, hey. Confidently wrong. I love it.
Sequoia
Hello, Freestyle. Let me see.
Ryan
Because I remember Freestyle Friday and I remember there would be like champions and that was always fun. I do think that that on 106 and park was always fun.
Sequoia
Oh, that was on. That was, that was 106 in park. Yeah. Freestyle Friday was a recurring segment on BET's Hip Hop Show Rap City, though it is more more famously associated with 106 in park.
Ryan
So they must have picked it up.
Sequoia
And put it on because I certainly do remember it on Rhapsody and I barely remember it on one Park. I don't think I liked. Interesting. I don't think I liked the Friday freestyle.
Ryan
It's interesting to me because you're like a rap like, you're likes rap.
Sequoia
I don't think I've ever really liked battle rap like that. Oh, battle rap. I'm like, interesting. I think y' all are kind of scaring me. Scaring the hoes now. Scaring the ho.
Ryan
I know. I do feel that I will say they were kind of like. It was, it was mad aggressive. I liked watching it, but I do feel like it, it was a tonal shift in the show where I was.
Sequoia
Like, like, oh, the voice stuff is happening. I do remember there was a, a white boy that got really far on Freestyle Friday. I can't remember his name, but I remember there was a white boy that got really far on Freestyle Friday. Somebody's going to tell us.
Ryan
Sure. Right.
Sequoia
Somebody's screaming it right now.
Ryan
Yeah, I, I, I, I remember they would be like. Cuz they would come back week after week and they were like, was there. I don't know if there was like a belt. I just remember. Yes. I distinctly remember liking there was a belt. Yeah, like, and they would.
Sequoia
It was like a championship type of thing.
Ryan
Like, I distinctly remember that.
Sequoia
And that was fun.
Ryan
I, that I like something about these shows. I think it's kind of like what Lizzo was saying about how like, everything's so algorithm driven now. I think shows like this gave us a Like you were like a meeting point. Like we all would sit and like we were all watching the same thing. We're all listening to the same people. And like, it's like we don't really even. Because music videos obviously still happen today. The VMAs literally just happened for sure. But it is very possible to be a notable pop star. Somber winning VMA's last night. And I'm like, I'm sorry, is that correct?
Sequoia
I don't know a single song. The. Our 23 year old board op at SiriusXM is always talking about Somber.
Ryan
I'm like, like, I don't know.
Sequoia
I don't know who you're referencing.
Ryan
Are you sad? Is that what you're telling me now?
Sequoia
Yeah, because I'm like, I don't know what you're talking about.
Ryan
It's so real.
Sequoia
Sorry.
Ryan
There were a couple artists last night where I was like, oh no.
Sequoia
Yeah, I'm aging out.
Ryan
Or people presenting. I was like, what the is that?
Sequoia
Never heard of her. I don't know.
Ryan
But yeah, I. I think that, like, I think that was a part of the nostalgia in thinking about this episode was like, oh, it reminded me of a time where we felt like we had community.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
In music in a way that I don't. Obviously there's still fan bases that. But something about the fan bases now, they don't. They don't feel this. Does that make sense? It feels as opposed to being like we are a community of music lovers.
Sequoia
100. I think that's why when you think about like summer 2003, you know exactly what it sounds like.
Ryan
Crazy in love.
Sequoia
Crazy. That's the primary one. Right. I'm trying to think of like, just give me the light. Was that summer 2003? You know, like it's around. You know what that time sounds like? Music sounds like so much stuff. There's just so much right now.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
You know, like it was radio before and it was like, oh, yeah, I know all of these songs now. I look at the top 10 songs and I'm like, I know three maybe. And only a snippet from Tik, right.
Ryan
Like, yeah, I know this exists. And it's one of those things where like those songs stay longer and so they get like more and like, I'm not trying to knock the songs, but because the songs say, I think they stay the top 10 because there's so many more people listening to so many more things that like, like these things are just kind of like what everyone is listening to or like, yeah, yeah. It's because everyone's in their own little silo. So like the. Yes, you are the top song, but it's because everyone is listening to something else.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Not because everyone is listening to you.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
It's just. Yeah. I don't know. It's interesting and I think I miss these kind of like shows. I really, really do.
Sequoia
I agree. Do you know there was a Canadian version of trl?
Ryan
I didn't. Where did it. Where was it?
Sequoia
I'm trying to think of called. It was called the Much Countdown. Much Music was their version. They didn't have mtv. They had Much Music. And the Much Countdown.
Ryan
The channel was called Much.
Sequoia
Yeah, they did not have mtv. The Canadian equivalent was Much Music.
Ryan
Okay, but you. I'm trying. Is that an abbreviation or. It's literally Much Much.
Sequoia
As a music.
Ryan
Music channel.
Sequoia
A lot of music.
Ryan
No, I think it's Music channel Mu C H. Much. No, they're saying there's so much.
Sequoia
There's so much. Yeah, so that was their version.
Ryan
Wow. Okay, sure.
Sequoia
Oh, wait, is this. Oh, it started before, oh, 1996. That sounds like that was like one year before TRL.
Ryan
Somebody went up north and said, you.
Sequoia
Know what, you know what the Canadians do with the moose? You know what the moose people do? The they doing up there? They got a music countdown that I think we could, we could make some money off of.
Ryan
They got a little biracial man, and.
Sequoia
I think we should do that as well. Okay. There's a few iconic moments from TRL and 106 in the park, but let's start with TRL. Okay, so Mariah Carey serving ice cream. I had not seen that one until I was prepping for the show. It didn't seem like she was having a manic episode, but apparently she was having a manic episode.
Ryan
Right. So like this is around the time she was releasing Glitter. I don't remember if Glitter was already out or she was like in she. Either way, big promo mode for this movie. In context, like when you're watching it live, it doesn't feel that crazy. It is weird cuz she shows up in like this oversized T shirt and then she starts to strip on stage. And like Carson is like. And you think he's acting? He's like, oh, what are you doing? Showed up.
Sequoia
Yeah, yeah.
Ryan
Like it feels like TV thing.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
But then like a couple of days later, like Mariah is checked into a hospital for I think what they call exhaustion, but like celebrity kind of going.
Sequoia
Nuts type of thing going through it.
Ryan
But yeah, so we Find out that Mariah Carey is like having an episode and like she just got a lot of pressure from this movie. The movie's not doing well. The. The album doesn't do well. And then 911 happens. So like it's just like she was just not having a good time.
Sequoia
Didn't Glitter drop on the same day? The movie dropped on the same day.
Ryan
Album dropped the same day. Album came out on Tuesdays, movies on Fridays. So this was Tuesday album. Cuz there's like the famous video of like the Twin Towers burning. And then someone pans down and it's Glitter.
Sequoia
Oh my God.
Ryan
It's funny. But yeah, glitter drops on 911. She has a breakdown. She's giving out ice cream. The ice cream looks nasty. They keep showing.
Sequoia
It looks like it has blood. It looks like it's bloody.
Ryan
I'm assuming it's just melted, but it's red. I'm pretty sure she literally like got a ice cream. Like she just bought a thingy and brought it in from like. I remember listening to like the story of Mariah Carey and they talk about this period in her life and she called trl. Like she was like, I'm coming. Like they. So the producers knew. I don't believe Carson actually knew. She was like, I'm coming to tr, blah, blah, blah. And then they just kind of like put her out there quickly, like let her go and let her run and then tell Carson.
Sequoia
Carson, you know, pissed off. I would be if I was Carson.
Ryan
Oh, to be like the host and be like. What do you mean be like, y'.
Sequoia
All just let her on the stage. Y' all didn't tell me nothing. Like didn't give me any helicopter. Like they said. Oh, Ryan. Carrie's backstage, by the way. Surprise. Guess. No, nothing to promote Glitter, her new album.
Ryan
Yeah, no, they were like, sorry. And then she just kind of walks on.
Sequoia
That's insane. I'm sad that Glitter didn't do well because it really is an iconic title. It kind of. Glitter is a really fun album name. It tells you the vibe that you're about to experience. Like Girlhood 2000s.
Ryan
It is very girlhood. Very true.
Sequoia
It is.
Ryan
Yeah. That's fair.
Sequoia
I wanna, I would want parts, but.
Ryan
I've never seen it and maybe it is good. Maybe it holds up. I've never heard or listening.
Sequoia
I get it mixed up with Honey.
Ryan
Okay. Yeah, I don't. I don't even think they have the same.
Sequoia
No, I get it mixed up with Sparkle.
Ryan
Also different. Sparkle is based on Whitney Houston Yes. And also based on a musical from like a Broadway musical.
Sequoia
Sure, but you see, that's the same. That's the same.
Ryan
I do, I do understand. Glitter, dust, sparkle.
Sequoia
Right? So there was the Mariah Carey serving ice cream moment. Eminem took over. TRL saw that.
Ryan
Sure, sure.
Sequoia
This as well. He refused to play any other music, Only played his own.
Ryan
What did he call it? And then he called it something. He called it. He changed the name of it.
Sequoia
Who knows?
Ryan
Or maybe it was MTV as an em.
Sequoia
Like mtv.
Ryan
Right.
Sequoia
He said, he said no more NC Sick. No, right, right, right, right, right. Like in sync and 98 diseases.
Ryan
Yeah, of course. Cuz he was a bad boy.
Sequoia
Right. And he hated all the little pop boys. He was a bad boy.
Ryan
Right, but also music. Not pop music capitalist, but okay.
Sequoia
Dirty pop. Why did he sound like that?
Ryan
I don't know. And why does he have a Vanguard award? Let's talk about that.
Sequoia
I would love to understand why. Justin, can you. I can't name me one Justin Timberlake music video that is not Cry river river and not Cry me a River.
Ryan
I can't think of one.
Sequoia
I literally, I literally cannot think of one.
Ryan
I think I. I have to believe Suit and Tie has a video.
Sequoia
Oh, I can picture it.
Ryan
It's not iconic, I'm saying. I can't even picture.
Sequoia
He's on a stage. It's in black and white. He has on a tux or whatever. He has a microphone. He's doing, you know, the little Justin Timberlake neoing. And he's kneeling. Okay. He's chucking and driving around the microphone.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
Jay Z comes on with his sunglasses, you know.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
You tell your mama we go father there as a couple. Yeah, you ain't doing it. You got a son. I'll show you how to do this, huh?
Ryan
I hate it a lot. Yeah, sure, sure.
Sequoia
Not iconic anyways, but you know, MTV will be mtv. Hey, sure will Vote or Die campaign. So. Yeah, you know what? Both, Both MTV and BET106 in park and TRL was heavy on the. Yeah, vote. Vote or die.
Ryan
This was Obama. Was this Obama?
Sequoia
Certainly not.
Ryan
Oh, it's Bush.
Sequoia
This had to be.
Ryan
This is cuz V. But it had to be like 04. So that's Bush and Drone Carry or who's the other one? Who do you run against? It is John. Al gore was the first time. I think Al Gore is 2000.
Sequoia
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ryan
I think John Car second. And I guess if you just go. And to be fair, hey, we were children quite literally and So I. I.
Sequoia
Don'T blame y' all listening were more. More children if that not born right.
Ryan
I don't blame Kiki Palmer for not knowing who the vice president was because.
Sequoia
I wouldn't recognize him. I know.
Ryan
I do know.
Sequoia
I know a name.
Ryan
You don't know what he looks like. No, I immediately. Okay, that's. That's off topic.
Sequoia
Hold on. Let me make sure. Let me just.
Ryan
You know what Dictati looks like. I feel like.
Sequoia
Let me tell you something. If you put this photo of this man in front of me and said, who is this? Your guess will be as good as mine. I would have raised a piece of an idea who I was looking at.
Ryan
I don't. I don't know why I know that. I just. Just distinctly know what who Dick Cheney is.
Sequoia
I would have not a clue. These get old. He 84.
Ryan
Also that. I think that was him when he was young. He looks like Mitch McConnell.
Sequoia
He looks like Mitch McConnell.
Ryan
Okay, sure. Never mind.
Sequoia
It doesn't matter anyways.
Ryan
But yeah. Voter die. They really weren't trying. Hey, get us out and voting.
Sequoia
Did he did.
Ryan
Wow. And look at him now. Well, he got acquitted.
Sequoia
This. You know what?
Ryan
I don't know. I have conflicted. Did. Did he got off. Did he not. Am I wrong?
Sequoia
He got acquitted on all of the Right. Yeah. All of the more charges.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
Destiny Child has two iconic performances. One on TRL, one on 1, one on 106 and park.
Ryan
And for different reasons.
Sequoia
For very different reasons. So they start off the TRL performance and they're in the hallway. There is a marching band like a black ass HBCU marching band about this.
Ryan
Planted the seed.
Sequoia
Okay.
Ryan
She said, yeah.
Sequoia
And they. They hitting them drums.
Ryan
And then pan. You see Kelly, Michelle, Beyonce stand.
Sequoia
Can you keep Walk, walk, walk, walk, walk. Kelly's in the middle, hips galore, swaying back and forth hair. They look like they're having so much fun being in a girl group look like it was so much fun at this time.
Ryan
You don't think now no Cat looks like they're having fun. That Gap. That Gap ad is fun. I should say.
Sequoia
You know what I think because. Because Cat's Eye was formed on reality tv, we can see how much work it takes to get there. And it doesn't look fun anymore. When Beyonce was being abused to try to be a better to try to run up as a child with heels on.
Ryan
We didn't see it.
Sequoia
I didn't know anything of the like. All I know was that there was a star in front of me.
Ryan
The work. Work.
Sequoia
And that I wanted to be a part of that.
Ryan
Real, real fair.
Sequoia
Yeah. Yeah.
Ryan
And also, I guess, you know what, they're probably having so much fun because unlike, I guess a lot of girl groups are kind of formed. They. They were friends. Childhood friends.
Sequoia
Exactly. So it's like, of course I'm doing.
Ryan
This with my best friend.
Sequoia
I can't believe they like stayed friends.
Ryan
Yeah, I love that.
Sequoia
What? No, I'm just shocked.
Ryan
I do love it.
Sequoia
I'm just like shocked.
Ryan
Since children literally like babies truly.
Sequoia
But I mean, they stay friends with everybody.
Ryan
Someone can always send your luggage.
Sequoia
Girls time ended.
Ryan
But yeah, I like they, they not only walk down the aisle, they get on stage. Stage sing it. And you pointed this out.
Sequoia
The original key voices in the high ass. Original key voices was up here we.
Ryan
Are and dancing in heels. And also they're doing this on like a. It's a Tuesday afternoon.
Sequoia
Tuesday after through literally 3:00pm like, hey, the sun is still out, right?
Ryan
Well, and they're like, we had to have full beat.
Sequoia
They have camera ready. Full beat. Lace front forming glued down, down. You guys want to try and do this promo with British accent sense?
Ryan
Yeah, yeah, of course.
Sequoia
Let's do it. Okay. Okay. Ify you go, boy.
Ryan
Bro. This is TV Chef Fantasy league.
Sequoia
Fantasy league. Okay, Sierra. We take cooking competition shows and treat them like fantasy sports, like a newscaster.
Ryan
Very posh.
Sequoia
Right now we're doing the great British.
Ryan
Bake off or the Great British baking.
Sequoia
Show if you're listening from the U.S. oh, that was really soothing. You chose like a prim and proper thank you out in Abbey. You okay? If you. I think you have the best accent. You want to take us home?
Ryan
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Sequoia
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Ryan
So the other thing the show gave us is like, like performance is just like on the regular. This was like a weekly thing. Someone was performing all the time.
Sequoia
You had to be performance ready. You had to be performance or not.
Ryan
You had to be.
Sequoia
You had to be performance ready.
Ryan
And people today are not. And I think that's why the pop stars today are just not. They don't pop the way they used to. Because I'm like these girls not even just. I mean obviously destiny shot is a specific thing. But I think anybody at any moment had to be ready to go to TRL and perform live.
Sequoia
And similarly you have to be ready to sing live at any. Any point there I was just watching like compilation of interviewers like the Barbara Walters and all those people who would interview the. The celebrities and they'd be like, can you give me a little whatever. And they would always do it and they would eat the down. You know, Christina Aguilera used to live for those moments. I watched her. She said, yeah, I think I could do what a girl wants. Yeah. 100 what she was giving. And the girls today. Can't, could never, won't, could never. The only ones that I believe in that maybe could do it. Chapel could do it. She would not.
Ryan
She wouldn't. She could.
Sequoia
She could.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
She would not. Ariana definitely could also.
Ryan
Wouldn't.
Sequoia
I don't. And I feel like I think she'll be annoyed. I think she might. But I think she'd be irritated.
Ryan
Yeah, that's fair. Fair.
Sequoia
Whereas the girls loved it for the. For the sport they were in it.
Ryan
To be fair. I think Christina. Because that was also. And I do wonder how real the beef I do wonder how real the beef was. The Christina of it all. I wonder if it was like. She's like, I'm gonna show you. Because Brittany can't.
Sequoia
No.
Ryan
Straight to Brittany. But like Christina's like, I know what she can't do.
Sequoia
I think the beef was manufactured to a degree. But I do think it was Christina being like. And I'm more talented. So.
Ryan
And I'm gonna at any chance I can prove it.
Sequoia
I'm gonna show you. Yeah. Because as Brittany's spirits to sing down like this live right now. And she's going to say.
Ryan
Which would also be iconic. Really good.
Sequoia
Thank you.
Ryan
Thanks. But it's funny cuz like I've in watching this TR or on. On 106 in Park, Chris Brown, they had one of his baby interviews.
Sequoia
And I was like, oh baby. He sang too. And it was so cute. I know. And that used to be like. That used to be required. Like it wasn't like, like it was like, expected. You're a singer, right?
Ryan
So, so sing.
Sequoia
What's the problem?
Ryan
Which is crazy to think that, like, why would you be annoyed being asked to sing? Like, well, I mean, you do sing.
Sequoia
Hello. Why, why would, are you not a singer? I'm so confused. Did somebody ask me to hop on the microphone to talk?
Ryan
I'm like, well, this is my job. This is what I, I love a hot mic.
Sequoia
Give it. Thank you.
Ryan
I, Yeah, I wonder. Yeah. I, I, I, I have. I'm trying to figure out my thoughts around it. I think, I do think that there's a level of, like, people get into music now. Maybe not for the same reasons. I do think people still love music, obviously, but I do think that, like, there's something else about it now that is just so much more present and accessible and visible in a way that I think back then there was a lot of, like, groundwork. You could, in your bedroom right now, become a singer.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Back then you had to really want it.
Sequoia
Yes. It was almost like, like it was like a sport in and of itself. Like you had to train in the same way that an athlete does. Whereas right now you absolutely don't have to do any of that. You don't even have to have the talent.
Ryan
Right. And, and I will say that because I. There are people who are talented who have not done the things. But it's. You're right. You're saying it's not even a requirement.
Sequoia
No, it's not a requirement at all. It's like, oh, that's really nice to have. And I think that's why we're so impressed or why I'm so impressed by a Tate MC Craig who can. Okay. Who can dance, you know, because the girls don't. The girls really don't. You think Chapel can dance? No, Ariana can't dance. For real. She can.
Ryan
I mean, you know what?
Sequoia
Wicked shocked me, cuz I've never seen her move that much.
Ryan
Yes, I, yes, sorry. I do think that there's something musical. The. She would have theater kids. Of course.
Sequoia
Of course she, she does a little.
Ryan
Yeah. But yeah, you like Tate. Whereas Tate's dancing is distinctly.
Sequoia
She's a trainer. She literally has been trained to dance.
Ryan
She's a dancer.
Sequoia
She was a small, small child, you know, and the girls just don't have that level of performance value right now.
Ryan
Right.
Sequoia
But everybody did then, right? It was like a requirement. Christina Aguilera, Britney Spears, Destiny Child, everybody. It's like, you're gonna dance TLC even before then. Like, everybody was gonna dance except for Aaliyah. She didn't have to because she was cool.
Ryan
Did she not die dance?
Sequoia
She did, but it wasn't like. It wasn't like the other girls, really.
Ryan
Aaliyah, I have the disillusion.
Sequoia
Aaliyah is. Aaliyah is Rihanna.
Ryan
You know, she was gonna be.
Sequoia
Rihanna does dance, but, like, can dance, but isn't like, giving you a. You're not about to get a full.
Ryan
Rihanna is selling the dance.
Sequoia
She sell like, she's like, yeah, I can do this and I can wind my waist. I'm like, whatever. And I am very cool. And you're gonna be enchanted, you know?
Ryan
Similarly, Tyler feels like that to me too, where, like, she is very ent. Like, when you're watching her, you're like, I can't stop watching.
Sequoia
Yeah. No, Tyler.
Ryan
Oh, no. I'm like, seeing her life change my.
Sequoia
Is that Illuminati? Oh, something is too enticing.
Ryan
Yes. It's. Seeing her life really made me. Cuz before I was like, oh, whatever. And then I was like, oh, I can't. It feels good. It's like you're underspelling.
Sequoia
I'm like, really a siren.
Ryan
Like, wow.
Sequoia
Away from this girl.
Ryan
And I don't know why.
Sequoia
I want my. My mind back. You've taken it from me, and I want it back.
Ryan
Wow. But yeah. But yeah. Sorry. We were on Dusty's Child and so the flip side.
Sequoia
So the flip side of their 106in park performance. Cuz it was the same song, I think.
Ryan
No, it wasn't.
Sequoia
Soulja.
Ryan
I just didn't do this.
Sequoia
I get Lose my breath and Soldier mixed up. Cuz they came out around the same time.
Ryan
That is the most insane album.
Sequoia
Came out around the same time.
Ryan
What does that have to do with.
Sequoia
They came out around the same time.
Ryan
Okay. What is that? They don't sound. They are liter. Different vibes. They're wholly different vibes.
Sequoia
Anyways, no, so.
Ryan
So every time. Britney Spears is. Every time and Toxic are on the same album.
Sequoia
Same know Every time. Every time I see you.
Ryan
Yeah. Same album, same song. You would not get those confused.
Sequoia
Soulja and Lose my Breath are similar in tempo. They're not. Yes, they are.
Ryan
I need a soldier. Are you kidding? They're not.
Sequoia
Well, you got it. I'm the hottest around.
Ryan
They're not.
Sequoia
I got a soldier.
Ryan
I.
Sequoia
They wore the same.
Ryan
You're moving the goal and sure.
Sequoia
Me trying to find it right.
Ryan
They.
Sequoia
They did the same thing. They wore the same. I don't know.
Ryan
Sure got It.
Sequoia
So they did soldier on 106 in part work. And they start out standing, like, on the stage. It's the three of them. They're doing, you know, the cube. They take a couple steps forward and Michelle hits the. Hits the floor. Wow. And they continue on. Beyonce look back said, get the up. Well, like, didn't say, but very much get up.
Ryan
Like, it's so funny. Like, at the time me. I mean, like, this was pre beam, but, like, it would have been the equivalent of a meme.
Sequoia
Oh, yeah.
Ryan
It was viral before viral. Like, everyone talking about. About it at school. The poor. I think that is when the. This sucks. There's a. I don't know if it still exists. There was a website called poor Michelle.com where they always would. This was the start of it where they showed that clip. And then you would just be a string of, like, her being on a lower podium, her being like. It was like, all the things that. Like how. Like, oh, my God.
Sequoia
I don't know.
Ryan
I hope that someone has taken this down.
Sequoia
I really hope I'm about to look poor michelle.com. is it still up Verifying you're human. Oh, no.
Ryan
They got rid of it. But yeah. So basically, like, this meme before meme, it was just like a string of all the kind of like, oh, poor Michelle. And like, it sucks because I'm like, all these women are incredibly talented. In the 2025 of it all, no one in Destiny's Child was untalented.
Sequoia
No.
Ryan
And, like, the thing about it is, like. Like to think about how talented Michelle and Kelly had to be to be next to Beyonce, I'm like, it's just. You're next to Beyonce.
Sequoia
I know.
Ryan
Like, and I. I feel like I remember thinking, like, oh, Beyonce didn't care about her falling. I'm sure she did. She's just like, we have to do performance.
Sequoia
Get up, girl. I don't know what I would do.
Ryan
Be helping you slow the whole thing down. But it was kind of.
Sequoia
It was. It really was. But I feel bad because Michelle talked about it recently, I believe, and she was saying how people still talk about it as, like, one of the main things that they remember.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
And I feel bad about that. It's like.
Ryan
And I think when someone asked her about it, she was like, I have done. She literally, like, listed. She, like, I've done, like, all the other things I've done. And that is still the thing you want to talk about. Like, and I feel for her. Like, I'm like, girl, at this point, it was 20 years ago.
Sequoia
Yes.
Ryan
I felt Beyonce has fallen on stage. I'm sure Kelly has fallen. I'm like, girl, I'm not the only person who has fallen, certainly. And I'm like, yeah, I, I. She's a Broadway star.
Sequoia
Oh, yes.
Ryan
Michelle's on Broadway.
Sequoia
Yes. She's very good.
Ryan
I saw her in Death Becomes Her. She's very good.
Sequoia
Oh, she's London.
Ryan
No, no, no. This was in New York. She did do Roxy Heart in Chicago.
Sequoia
In London.
Ryan
It's also been met, but either. Yes, but it was funny at the time.
Sequoia
Not going to lie. Another good moment. Raven Simone telling the audience, y' all don't buy my music.
Ryan
Are they always in that studio putting up music when nobody buys.
Sequoia
Oh, my God. And the audience had, like, a weird response. They said. And then somebody was like, I buy. You know, somebody, like, applaud or something. She was like, you don't buy my music. Shut up. You lying. Okay.
Ryan
And now I won't.
Sequoia
And now I won't. Yeah. Now I had a weird experience with you. I don't know. Raven is a Sagittarius, I believe Eve.
Ryan
Oh, that tracks.
Sequoia
Let me check. Raven's birthday is. But I'm like, 80. That she's a Sagittarius.
Ryan
Wow. That makes a lot of sense, because I feel like Raven was one of those people, like, seeing her on Disney. Her in real life feels drastically different. Like, she's not. I don't. She's not unlikable in real life. She's just so much more prickly in real life, where her on the show.
Sequoia
Seems so, like, so warm.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
Likable. Yeah. No. 100%.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
She's a Sagittarius. Yeah.
Ryan
It makes sense. Yeah. She's very, like. Oh, for sure feels.
Sequoia
She said, I'm gonna say what I say when I. And I meant when I said, what.
Ryan
Is Zendaya a Leo?
Sequoia
If I had to guess, I would guess Capricorn.
Ryan
I was gonna say cancer.
Sequoia
She's a Virgo. I'm almost.
Ryan
Oh, she is a Virgo. Actually, I do. Yeah, she is. Of course she is.
Sequoia
Yeah. Who. What else happened? So there was a Raven moment.
Ryan
You showed me this. You reminded me of this.
Sequoia
Oh, my God. Genuine pony performance. This is the performance where it's free and AJ hosting at the time. Time. And AJ's like, oh, genuine was supposed to perform, but he had, like, a health scare backstage. Like, something's going on. Not sure what's going on. And then they rush Genuine out onto the stage on a gurney, and he's Uncovered on the gurney wearing his red. All red.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
The leather. Right moment and they want to do the heart thing on them.
Ryan
Defibrillator.
Sequoia
The defibrillator on them.
Ryan
Not real though. The thing is they don't actually have one.
Sequoia
They just put that he, you know, know comes up and then he jumps up. You're right. Let's do it straight into it.
Ryan
Same.
Sequoia
Yeah. That was hilarious.
Ryan
Crazy.
Sequoia
That was a good black ass time camp. That was. It really was. It was. Who says straight men kidnapped should couldn't be camp. And I'm gonna say why?
Ryan
Hey rappers. Straight men, boys do have fun. You can have fun.
Sequoia
Get back to it.
Ryan
Get back to.
Sequoia
Get back to it. I really do miss red pill right now. Oh, is that why I. I fear maybe I think it's the male loneliness epidemic of it all.
Ryan
That they can't have fun.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
I don't.
Sequoia
They too worried about how to control women in order to get them.
Ryan
What does that to do with loneliness?
Sequoia
They're lonely cuz they can't get and cuz they friends don't. They don't want to talk to their friends cuz that's soft.
Ryan
Oh, okay.
Sequoia
They want to talk to and have sex with women.
Ryan
Oh.
Sequoia
And they can't do either. Oh and since. So then they have to read a bunch of content and listen to a bunch of podcasts about how to get women trick women into. Oh, you know, because. Yeah. How to get them. Yeah. How to manipulate them into falling for you.
Ryan
It's so crazy that we're now getting on a tangent. Whatever. Because I'm like, do they ever investigate does this man have a woman? I think that's always my thought. The man I'm listening to.
Sequoia
They always do. They always have like they always. Oh, they're always touting around. Around some.
Ryan
Oh well, you know. But sorry, it's. That's not Instagram saying do one more level of thinking. Like I just need you to think like one more layer of like all right, this girl's with. With this man. Is she?
Sequoia
I agree. I agree. Personally.
Ryan
One more layer of questions.
Sequoia
Right. And would she be with him if he stopped throwing a bunch of money at her?
Ryan
Right.
Sequoia
Because that's also part of the allure is like well, I'm gonna show you how to get rich and how to get.
Ryan
And also like he's getting rich off of you.
Sequoia
Off of you, dummy.
Ryan
Right now.
Sequoia
Right? Right now he's not rich and he has no. So now.
Ryan
So what are we doing?
Sequoia
So he's you.
Ryan
Yeah, he's You.
Sequoia
Without you.
Ryan
Yes. And the only way you can do this is it's like a pyramid scheme. It's an mlm. Because then you have to start doing this.
Sequoia
So then you have to start scamming the likes of you to get money in order to get insane. Yeah, okay.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
There's that. Anyways, in the Terence and Roxy era, right?
Ryan
This is where I checked out.
Sequoia
Okay, so you weren't terr.
Ryan
Okay.
Sequoia
Okay.
Ryan
Terence. I distinctly remember him as a person. I think by this time, I was starting to fall out of it.
Sequoia
Okay. So there was this one really awkward moment. There was always speculation that Terence and Roxy were dating.
Ryan
Oh.
Sequoia
And he makes this really off Joke, mind you. 106. Mark was live, right. There's like, Yeah, I don't think I knew live. Yeah. Yeah. And so they're clearly throwing little jabs at each other, like, for this one specific episode. And really, like, okay, like, this is weird tension. And then he makes this one comment about her body. I don't remember the exact comment, but he says something about her body, and she storms off the set. She just walks off live.
Ryan
Oh, my God. No, I did not know that this happened. Drama.
Sequoia
It was. Did she come back even? I think, after the commercial break, like, she, like. She, like, heard it, like, scoffs and, like, like, what walks off. And then Terrence, like, he, like, holds it down by, you know, by himself for the next little amount of time before they, like, cut to the next whatever situation. It was crazy.
Ryan
That sounds mad.
Sequoia
And he, like, made an off comment once. She walked off, too. He said something like, oh, somebody's sensitive or something.
Ryan
You know what's crazy? Like, I. I'm having, like, a flash of something. Like, I feel like I remember they were, like, standing somewhere, and I do think I distinctly remember him, like, kind of turn. Turning towards her, saying something and then anyway and going back to it.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
I feel like I have seen this clip. It's coming back where I'm. Yikes. Embarrassing or, like, weird. How do you have a career for that? Like, he's gone on to the acting.
Sequoia
This was his job. And Also, this was 2000, you know, like, making comments about women's body was, like, acceptable at this time. Yeah. And, you know, they were like. It was good for ratings, more or less. It was like, oh, are they. Will they, Won't they? Like, what's going on with them? Yeah.
Ryan
Yikes.
Sequoia
Put her on.
Ryan
Poor Roxy.
Sequoia
I know. And then he went on to start hanging out with Michael Jordan and what, Dating an influencer named Golden Barbie.
Ryan
I am so sorry. I. The last thing I remember him is in Think Like a Man. He. He's. Is he not?
Sequoia
I actually don't know what Terrence does now. I have no clue. What? Terrence? What? Terrence Howard. Terrence J. Does.
Ryan
J. Howard. He's Terrence J. Howard. Is he not?
Sequoia
Is he.
Ryan
I'm asking.
Sequoia
No, I don't think.
Ryan
Did I add the Howard?
Sequoia
I think you. I think you.
Ryan
I'm just combining Terrence J. Howard.
Sequoia
I think you might have made that up.
Ryan
Just making that up. Him hanging out with Michael B. Jordan feels weird because isn't he older? He feels he's too old for Michael B. Jordan.
Sequoia
You know why? He's 43.
Ryan
And I feel like Michael Jordan 38.
Sequoia
6.
Ryan
He's 30.
Sequoia
He might be 40 even at this point.
Ryan
I don't believe that yet. Wow. I don't think I realized that.
Sequoia
Age. 38. Yeah.
Ryan
Oh, okay. They're closer than I thought.
Sequoia
They're five years apart.
Ryan
For some reason, I thought. When I think of. I think because Terence was famous earlier.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
He seems distinctly older than Michael B. Jordan does to me.
Sequoia
I get that. Yeah.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
Anyways. Yeah. I don't know what happened to Terrence, but yeah. That day, Roxy was not. Not playing with him at all. Had it.
Ryan
Imagine being at your job and you like, now what? Now I can't yell back because then I'm a.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
Now I'm fired.
Sequoia
I wonder if Roxy's race was ever.
Ryan
She. Ambiguous. I remember her being ambiguously Latina.
Sequoia
Ambiguous to me. Roxy Puerto Rican. Yeah. Certainly ambiguous to me.
Ryan
Oh, it's giving. Is she related to Rosia Rosio? What is the actress? What is not Rosie O'Darce.
Sequoia
Oh, Rosario Darcy.
Ryan
No, not her.
Sequoia
Dawson.
Ryan
No, but I mean, she does. There's an actress who I think's name is Rosie. Rosie something. I think it's Rosie Donald. Shut the. You know, Rosie Diaz. And I wonder if that's her mother. I legitimately think that's Rosie Diaz's name.
Sequoia
Okay.
Ryan
But if that does not show up under Roxy, then that's not her mother.
Sequoia
I'm so sorry. Her. I just googled her race.
Ryan
It's.
Sequoia
And her ethnicity, and it is still very.
Ryan
Is it like that ad Beyonce did where for Pantene where she was like, I'm Creole and also three parts native and French. Remember that? There was a whole series of Pantene commercials where they.
Sequoia
I remember Beyonce. Pantene commercial. I. I don't remember that.
Ryan
They talked about their race and she said, like, seven things. I'm like, now, girl. Ms. B. Ms. Ma'.
Sequoia
Am. It says Roxy Diaz is of. Of Honduran birth with Chilean descent.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
Okay. Okay. Openly discuss being of Mayan descent as confirmed by a DNA. So she was not black.
Ryan
Can you not be? Do you have to be black to be on 106 park, you think?
Sequoia
To be on BET to be black Entertainment Television. I would like a black female host. Yeah, yeah, I would. I would for sure.
Ryan
Personally, I feel you at least Afro Latina if we at least, you know.
Sequoia
At least visibly black to some where. I'm like, oh, yeah, get free was black.
Ryan
Is black.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
And like, like, notably, distinctly, like, she looks like a black woman.
Sequoia
Yeah. Get a. A la negra if you wanted to.
Ryan
Wow.
Sequoia
You know, cross over.
Ryan
Who very black. Like, yeah, Amar. Like, until I hear her name, I'm like, I just. It's a black lady, right?
Sequoia
Amar. Yeah.
Ryan
Wait. Oh, yes. I feel like that was the One thing about 106 in park is that their host stuck out in a way.
Sequoia
The TR host did not stick out.
Ryan
I agree, cuz, like, and then. Oh, then Bow Wow became the host. Did he host it with Sierra at.
Sequoia
One point in time or was.
Ryan
He probably was just hosting.
Sequoia
Probably was just. Exactly. She probably was just hosting it. They were there and you know, there was. They were dating. I don't know. They're dating at that time.
Ryan
Right?
Sequoia
Cuz I feel like they were dating well before he started his hosting career.
Ryan
What a track record of dating for this lady. I'm thinking about the fact that she dated Bow Wow is insane.
Sequoia
Bow wow future Russell. God really smashed her out. The trench is good.
Ryan
He said, you know what? You've suffered enough.
Sequoia
I'm so sorry. Come on, baby, let's get you. Let's get you a home.
Ryan
Maybe he does reward his strongest self.
Sequoia
He does. Cuz she had to be strong. They said that. Oh, my God. They were saying that, man, that. That man, that woman had a penis. She was. She was already towering over small little Bow Wow Wow.
Ryan
I mean, her and Rihanna used to beef about the like, good luck.
Sequoia
Good luck booking that stages of what you speak is so crazy.
Ryan
It's funny. I saw someone tweet the other day was like, see Rihanna? I wish that. I think they were referring to Nicki Minaj. But they were like, I wish Nicki Minaj could be more like Rihanna. She's always uplifting younger artists. And I'm like, y' all don't know.
Sequoia
Y' all are new here. Y' all are very much new here.
Ryan
Bully.
Sequoia
Yeah. Actually, Rihanna was willing to take it there every time. And still to this day, I fear if you push her.
Ryan
I agree.
Sequoia
In a live situation, you're gonna.
Ryan
You're gonna get it. Just a mother. And off the Internet.
Sequoia
Off the Internet, they told her her baby, give me your password. You won't be logging back in, cuz I'm out. For me.
Ryan
Y' all want to talk about people being mean girls? Rihanna is a mean Girl.
Sequoia
Girl. Okay, 106 and Park. Most played music videos.
Ryan
Wait, what were they? This is good information. I don't know.
Sequoia
Know. Put it on Me Ja Rule featuring Lil Mo. Put it on me, girl Put it.
Ryan
On me, girl Put it on me. That's insane. That it's number like crazy. Too high for me.
Sequoia
Let Me hold you by Bow and Omaran.
Ryan
Knowing that Jermaine Dupree made the show, you taught me that.
Sequoia
Hello.
Ryan
Made. Makes sense. That's Paola.
Sequoia
That's My Name by Bow wow.
Ryan
Oh, are they all just Bow Wow.
Sequoia
Songs at this point? Two. Two of them. Yep.
Ryan
What's. That's My Name Sing it. I don't remember exactly.
Sequoia
I'm sure I know it.
Ryan
If I heard it, I legitimately can't even think of how the song would go.
Sequoia
Me neither. Let's find out.
Ryan
Are Bow Wow and Amarian still friends?
Sequoia
You know, probably not. Tbh. You know, egos at this time were. Were astronomical.
Ryan
Oh, no, they just did a tour together. Did they not do lovers?
Sequoia
Oh, they did. It wasn't lovers and friends. It was something similar. Yeah, it was that other one. It was there.
Ryan
Millennial.
Sequoia
Millennial. The Millennium Tour. Oh, do you pay for YouTube?
Ryan
No. Someone has, like, yesterday. Someone's like, pay for the. I'm like, what the. Who's paying for YouTube Premium?
Sequoia
That's cr.
Ryan
You do.
Sequoia
No. Oh, Garrick does What? Oh, Bow Wow Wow. Yippee, yo, yippee. Yay. Hey, where my dogs at? Bark with me now.
Ryan
Out the gate. He was, like, sponsoring this little person. I'm like, that song's not a hit. That song's not bad.
Sequoia
That song's not a hit. Is insane.
Ryan
You think it's a hit?
Sequoia
Yeah, it was. It was an urban hit. An urban radio hit. Yeah, it was. Thank you.
Ryan
It went number one on the urban chart.
Sequoia
It really did.
Ryan
I believe that.
Sequoia
Foolish by Ashanti.
Ryan
I believe it. Sure love that song.
Sequoia
Be without you, Mary J. Blige. That feels random.
Ryan
I don't. I don't. That song was.
Sequoia
No, it was everywhere. It just feels like. It feels distinctly different from the rest of these, like, the rest of these have a summer vibe, aside from bow wows.
Ryan
That's my name.
Sequoia
Yes.
Ryan
But I think that song was Mary J. Bl. Cuz I forget what album that was. But that was like. And forgive me for I was a kid when Mary J. Was a baby.
Sequoia
I agree.
Ryan
But that was like Mary J. Bl, like, crossover. Like white people in that song. So I think that's why that's.
Sequoia
I can't be without you, baby, not do. I saw somebody list. Draw out a list of medium singers, singers who, like, can't really sing that well, but, like, can hold the tune. Mary J. Blige is on that list. And I said, absolutely.
Ryan
That is fair.
Sequoia
When people list her as one of the best singers of all time, I am so confused by it.
Ryan
It just makes me stop listening.
Sequoia
I'm so over it.
Ryan
You know what people, like, try to give you, like, here. Blah, blah, blah. They try to give you credible things and then they name. You're like, all right.
Sequoia
You're like, that's what I'm dealing with. Yeah.
Ryan
Like, okay, I don't believe anything you said.
Sequoia
Yeah. I don't. Yeah. If you tell me Mary J. Blige is one of the best singers of all time.
Ryan
Stop.
Sequoia
I'm like, what do you mean? You mean best musicians? Like, you really enjoy her music of all time? Like, okay. One of your favorite musicians of all time. Best singers of all time. Feels really silly.
Ryan
Like, we.
Sequoia
But okay.
Ryan
I would give you. Most unique. I would give you. I would. I'm not. I would give you. You could say. I would like. Sure. I cannot argue with that.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
Best.
Sequoia
Hello. Crazy Britney Spears. I would also describe her as a medium singer. Singer.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
Maybe even less.
Ryan
I. Yeah. I'm like. She kind of continued whisper singing.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
She's a daughter of Janet.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
Who also. Yeah. Kind of whisper.
Sequoia
Medium singer. Yeah, for sure. For sure.
Ryan
Singing a vibe. Rihanna singing. I don't call her medium.
Sequoia
A vibe. She's singing, say, medium for Riri lover Aaliyah. Medium. Sure. Yeah. Yeah.
Ryan
Yes.
Sequoia
Anyways, how do we.
Ryan
Yeah. What are the rest of these songs?
Sequoia
That's it.
Ryan
Oh, Mary Bl.
Sequoia
Put it on me. Let me hold you. You. That's my name. Foolish and be without you.
Ryan
That's kind of crazy. That is a kind of all over the place list. Foolish doesn't feel the same as be without you. It's some. It's not as summery.
Sequoia
No.
Ryan
See, my days ago. That feels summary too. I love that song. God. Sorry. It's just it's so nostalgic to me.
Sequoia
Oh. Other highly played videos.
Ryan
Oh, there's more.
Sequoia
Huh? There's. So there's. So these are the retired hall of fame. Hall of Fame.
Ryan
Oh, so retirement. Like they played it too much and they like we have to put.
Sequoia
It's getting so silly. Three of these are Bow Wow songs.
Ryan
So. Okay. There we go. Right.
Sequoia
None of which I could tell you what they sound like paler. Take you home, bow out. Bow wow. Thank you. Bow wow. The.
Ryan
Is that so. Wait. Thank you Might have been during. Which we didn't talk about. Cuz the first time I checked that of 106 in park was 911.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
And I think they got sad and thank you. Feels like maybe it was one of those songs.
Sequoia
Yeah. Also when Aaliyah died, they also got really long time. I remember that TR tribute too. They brought in like a bunch of people like DMX and the Brat and. Yeah. And Timberland, of course. And just like a lot of people that they brought in more than a woman. By Leah.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
Differences by genuine. I don't know the song Naked by Marcus Houston.
Ryan
Why does that sound vaguely familiar?
Sequoia
Naked? I'm not sure about naked.
Ryan
I don't think I know that.
Sequoia
My Baby by Lil Romeo.
Ryan
Sure. I'm surprised they even made this baby.
Sequoia
Give me one more chance.
Ryan
Come on.
Sequoia
Give me, give me. I don't know.
Ryan
Guess.
Sequoia
I guess. Yeah.
Ryan
Okay.
Sequoia
Love by Kisha Cole. Love.
Ryan
It's still a hit to this day. That one holds.
Sequoia
It's because people love to sing along with that one. I'm sure. I'm sure. People TV screaming.
Ryan
Good thing. The camera off.
Sequoia
That's generous. Yeah. Oh, I forgot. On Block by Kisha Cole on Twitter. Years ago. From like years, years, years ago.
Ryan
Funny.
Sequoia
And I don't. I don't even think I added her. I think I just said that she couldn't sing. I think I told you. And I looked up and somebody was talking. I said, I can't find her Twitter.
Ryan
So. Well, they were like, she hates you.
Sequoia
Yeah. Holiday Inn by Chingy.
Ryan
Oh, God. Great song.
Sequoia
Yeah. What you doing at the Holiday? He's a St. Louis native. That's Missouri. That's your next of the woods.
Ryan
And then Missouri. Famous Missouri.
Sequoia
One Call Away by Chingi, which I love. Only one call away. Look all over me and you were my baby.
Ryan
Who's singing with him?
Sequoia
Jason Weaver.
Ryan
Sure.
Sequoia
You know who that is?
Ryan
No. He is. He's Mufasa.
Sequoia
Smart guy. Older brother. Yes.
Ryan
You've told me this. You have a crush on him. I remember this yesterday.
Sequoia
Jason Weaver. Yes.
Ryan
Wow.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Where the is he today? Is he alive?
Sequoia
I don't know. I hope he's okay. I mean, I'm assuming he has to be.
Ryan
If he's not in the news for doing something crazy, he's probably fine.
Sequoia
He's fine because the Lion King, he got royal. They got a royalty deal off that.
Ryan
Oh.
Sequoia
Like his mom made sure that that contract was like, he is fine.
Ryan
He's definitely fine. Yeah. Maybe that's what he's like. I'm shutting the up sitting down now.
Sequoia
Something I feel like is missing from this list is Pulling Me Back by Chingy and Tyrese.
Ryan
So when you were saying the. Whatever that last song was, I was starting to sing.
Sequoia
Every time I try to leave, something keeps pulling me back, me back, telling.
Ryan
Me that was Tyrese.
Sequoia
Oh, yes.
Ryan
Wow. I forgot that was him. Is it. Whose song is it? Chingy and Tyrese is just singing.
Sequoia
It's. I think it's Tyrese.
Ryan
That big?
Sequoia
Yeah, Tyrese was big.
Ryan
I mean, sweet lady, the way you started. You.
Sequoia
You. I did. I did.
Ryan
Your cadence was.
Sequoia
Lady.
Ryan
The is.
Sequoia
Lady.
Ryan
That is not the melody.
Sequoia
It wasn't at all. It was sweet.
Ryan
That's also not it. It's sweet lady.
Sequoia
I'm starting off on the first lyric.
Ryan
Oh, okay.
Sequoia
Sweet lady.
Ryan
I don't know what this is.
Sequoia
I want you to be my lady. Lady. Okay, Sweet lady.
Ryan
That's where I'm at. I don't know what the that first thing was at all.
Sequoia
I'm screaming. Okay, now I'm looking at the TRL list, and I'm sure it's just a bunch of the most iconic videos from MTV's TRO, which is silly. Baby. One more time, I'm assuming.
Ryan
What? As if. What's McConnell? Slavery. He's not on there. Then they're wrong.
Sequoia
Okay.
Ryan
Slave for you is a great video.
Sequoia
I love that music video. Oh, I love that. I don't like that song. I've never liked the song.
Ryan
Oh, I do. It makes me feel bad.
Sequoia
I always like that music video.
Ryan
I'm conflicted.
Sequoia
I know. Never really felt that conflicted about it to be. Oh, but I do.
Ryan
But I understand.
Sequoia
I do understand.
Ryan
I was like, damn, I love it. Oh, okay. You're right. That video is very fine.
Sequoia
Yeah. No, no, no. The music video is great.
Ryan
I just like that one part. That eight count.
Sequoia
Yes.
Ryan
That when she breaks.
Sequoia
And I remember she was sick. I remember hearing that she was sick. Yeah.
Ryan
Cuz they. That was when MTV used to do the behind the Scenes. And they show that she.
Sequoia
And that's why everybody looks sweaty and stuff. They were like, sweat them up, up. Because she's sick. Yeah, she gave that quick. And she gave it.
Ryan
She did a one take.
Sequoia
Now watch me. So good.
Ryan
So good.
Sequoia
Hey, y'. All. Yeah.
Ryan
Yeah. Still played at weddings for sure. Great song.
Sequoia
Survivor.
Ryan
Yeah. Yeah. Oh, my God. Wow.
Sequoia
Dirty Christine Aguilar. Dilemma. Kelly Roland. This is one of these songs that I never could hear again in my life. It was so overplayed. It was so oversaturated.
Ryan
I'm like, I liked it at the time. I agree. I don't ever need to hear it again.
Sequoia
I always liked at the time and I don't ever need to.
Ryan
If I'm going to hear something like that, I'd rather hear my boo.
Sequoia
And I don't want to hear that one. I never want to hear that one again.
Ryan
You don't like Alicia Keys?
Sequoia
I don't. Less than medium singer. Okay. D plus, C minus. My God. Beyonce. Crazy in love.
Ryan
Sure. Of course.
Sequoia
I write sins, not tragedies. Now I do like that. TRL definitely had a mix of genres.
Ryan
Yes.
Sequoia
I didn't realize that.
Ryan
Oh, my God. I didn't get trl. Was everybody.
Sequoia
Another song that I could never hear again in my life. Yeah. By Usher.
Ryan
Oh, I agree. My God. Any basement party, it was the worst. You know what? For the best of times, we had a good music. For college parties, we also had a lot of. Like that.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Like something about the algorithm is that we were avoiding things like that. You won't get a happy today. You can't get a happy.
Sequoia
God. That's all. I actually feel disgust thinking about. Yeah. And thinking about happy. I can't.
Ryan
Same with that troll song from Justin Timberlake.
Sequoia
I got that sunshine in my pocket.
Ryan
Hate it.
Sequoia
I have never personally purposefully found that song. And why do I know it like, you know?
Ryan
Both of those songs are from children's movies.
Sequoia
Avoided it.
Ryan
Both of those are still literally from children's movies.
Sequoia
Made its way back to me. Anyways.
Ryan
Hellscape.
Sequoia
That's really it. The MTV and the trl. It was.
Ryan
It was a distinct time. Very far.
Sequoia
It was a distinct time. Oh, TR was the videos that aired the longest on the top 10. Okay, wait. There's a separate list for that.
Ryan
I'm sure. What are they?
Sequoia
It is. Baby. One more time.
Ryan
Of course.
Sequoia
Real Slim Shady.
Ryan
Of course.
Sequoia
I want it that way. Bye. Bye, bye. Oh, dirty.
Ryan
Oh, yeah. Not that. But yes.
Sequoia
Bod Tidba Show Me by Kid Ross.
Ryan
Let me See it.
Sequoia
Look at the way that that's filled. Bod Tiba.
Ryan
I don't. I don't know what that is.
Sequoia
I've never heard of her. Bod Tiba.
Ryan
I don't think I know the song. Is that a typo?
Sequoia
I don't know. Crazy in Love by Beyonce. Yeah. By Usher. What's my age again? Blink182 and hey, yeah by Outcast Biba. What is that? How does it go? Do we. Will we recognize it?
Ryan
Probably have to. If it's that big. I don't. I don't. I didn't want to hear anymore.
Sequoia
I didn't want to hear any more of that.
Ryan
Whatever the that was.
Sequoia
Is that the. Just keep going, rolling maybe.
Ryan
I think that that's something else, but that would be. That would make sense.
Sequoia
Just keep rolling, rolling.
Ryan
Sure, sure, sure.
Sequoia
Wait. Thoughts on the Downfall former okay, TRL Downfall. Former host Carson Daly described the media atmosphere after his departure from TRL in an interview with TV Guide. MySpace was sold, he says social networking took off. The technology went crazy. The whole tectonic shift of mass media. There was a lot of reasons why TRL became the kind of different show after I left. I don't necessarily think it had anything to do with me leaving as much as it had to do with the changing landscape. And we continue to see that.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah. It's like the tiktokation of it all. Like, our attention spans are shorter, we're more segmented. And like what we're saying earlier, we're not. There's no kind of monoculture and there's no meeting place for a TRL type of thing.
Sequoia
Right.
Ryan
Because we want what we want. Right. I don't care about your thing. I don't want to find new things. I want what I like.
Sequoia
The only other thing I feel like music was more segregated at the time. Although it wasn't more siloed, it was more segregated.
Ryan
I agree.
Sequoia
Like, black people listen to black music music, which is why BET was a thing. And white people listen to white music for the most part. Yeah. Like top 40 music.
Ryan
So much so that like they would make songs with like, where they would have a rapper featured to be played on urban radio. Pop stars would to be played on urban radio and then on top 40 stations, they would just cut the rap.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
Even things like, like, even like tlc, which obviously was a crossover band about that. They would like there would be certain stations that we would have that would be like, oh, they're playing a hip hop so song or a song I'm like, oh, I can't wait for the rap.
Sequoia
Rap. Right.
Ryan
And they would not play it cuz it's not urban radio.
Sequoia
Wow.
Ryan
Even think about like TLC's no Scrubs. The. The rap does not get played on certain radio stations. Like they would just go straight into.
Sequoia
So true.
Ryan
Yeah. I'm saying like that you know who.
Sequoia
Really bridged that gap is Mariah Carey.
Ryan
Yes.
Sequoia
She really bridged that gap. She worked with rappers and like put them on her music in a way that they couldn't cut. Their verse, you know, was like very intertwined.
Ryan
Like this is it. Yeah. But yeah, no, I.
Sequoia
He.
Ryan
Carson D is definitely right. And I think that like this was such a specific moment in time and it was. I'm. I'm grateful that we kind of like came up in that space. I think it was a fun time.
Sequoia
To be a kid. Very fun. I'm really grateful that I did not grow up in the tik tok era.
Ryan
Seems harder.
Sequoia
Seems harder. Definitely. It seems harder on the mental health. Seem harder on the well.
Ryan
And just less. I don't want to say less fun. I'm sure everybody has fun. I'm sure people are having fun. But for sure I think you're fun. Less room to play. Play and experiment.
Sequoia
Mistakes for sure. Yeah. Also less cultured. I will say like my niece wholeheartedly does not know music outside of the music that she listens to.
Ryan
Oh.
Sequoia
You know, whereas we. I know my parents, I know music from the 60s, I know music from the 70s, 80s, 90s. I was born and you know, I know music 30 years before me and 30 years after me. But I feel like my niece only knows, like she won't know.
Ryan
Right.
Sequoia
If I play Bob Marley, she's not going to know the song until it.
Ryan
Becomes a tik tok trend.
Sequoia
Until becomes the TikTok. And she's like, oh yeah, I know the song. But I'm like, that's crazy to me. I feel like we're really losing recipes. For real. Not to sound like old head, but I'm like, damn. I'm actually feeling like we're losing recipes. It's scary. Yeah.
Ryan
And less interest to try.
Sequoia
Yeah. 100. Like even when I play stuff in the car, if it's not me prefacing it like, oh, this is a pop girl that I think you will like.
Ryan
Yeah.
Sequoia
She doesn't want to hear it. She's like wild. Yeah. Anyways, that's really it.
Ryan
I know.
Sequoia
Yeah.
Ryan
I mean it was a fun to walk down memory lane. Did not Know that that was Minnie Rippleton. A B did not know about her having cancer.
Sequoia
Oh, is that the song about her?
Ryan
Song is about her dying and she's saying I don't want to walk down memory lane. Yes, it's quite sad. Quite sad song.
Sequoia
Well.
Ryan
Well, yeah. TR's fun though. Yeah, Very, very fun time.
Sequoia
Of course. Everything was a good time per usual. You can find us on social media at BPL pod. You can email at black people love paramore gmail.com new name. Yes. Y' all told me not to which. Which really tripped me up. Yeah. So I'm like, well then you going have to tell your friends about the show.
Ryan
Make up.
Sequoia
Then you're going to have to tell your friends about the show. We're going to have to up the popularity. Like something has to give, baby girl. Cuz right now I'm thinking, I'm thinking it's going to be called like exclusive. I'm thinking not exclusive. I came up with this in the shower today because I have several iterations but sure. What I came up in the shower today was the pop girls or the pop culture girls.
Ryan
G R O L S. Yeah, but.
Sequoia
Then I was like, does that sound just like gay black men?
Ryan
So I was going to say girls.
Sequoia
Right? And I'm like, no, but it's black people. The girls and the gays. Really?
Ryan
Yeah, yeah.
Sequoia
You know, so then I don't know that sound.
Ryan
Yeah, no, that just makes me think gay. Gay. My son moves. You don't know. You don't know that meme, do you?
Sequoia
You what? Me?
Ryan
My son moved to the city and now he's gay.
Sequoia
No. Gay. Okay, never mind.
Ryan
Doesn't.
Sequoia
Am I not an ally? I don't know.
Ryan
That one's. That's pretty white gay. So I can see why you wouldn't know that. That's an early YouTube. White gay.
Sequoia
So I know that. I do know Fred and I know shoes.
Ryan
Shoes is fun. Did you know that he edits? You do know this. He edits for the Try guys.
Sequoia
No, I didn't know that.
Ryan
The name of that actor. I shouldn't know his name. But yeah, he's like. He works at the Try guys.
Sequoia
Yeah. What? Yeah. Wow, that's. That's incredible. I saw that he performed at 5.
Ryan
He did, yeah, Yeah.
Sequoia
I thought that was very cool. And the crowd was not hype enough.
Ryan
Again, losing recipes because I'm like you.
Sequoia
Exactly.
Ryan
You don't understand when the Internet was weird.
Sequoia
Understand how viral that was in 2007.
Ryan
Before viral was a thing. He's the reason we have viral shoes.
Sequoia
The m shoes suck.
Ryan
These shoes suck so good. Oh, God.
Sequoia
So anyways, that's really it.
Ryan
Yeah. Viral made me think of Carson did. This is. I'm tying it in T. Find it.
Sequoia
I'm finding it.
Ryan
I'm finding it. Crank. That first viral song who? And they did go on 106 in park. And I'm like, it is crazy to think that, like, that was probably the beginning of the end because, like, he was. I'll give soldier boy his credit there.
Sequoia
He's the reason.
Ryan
He's the reason I'm like, he was the first kind of viral song to, like. He was the one who kind of infiltrated this system.
Sequoia
And the reason is you. And the reason is you.
Ryan
Yeah, he infiltrated the system by having a song that was not mainstream but, like, had to be recognized on tv. And then since then, everyone's like, I can be famous on my own.
Sequoia
Wow.
Ryan
Soldier boy's fault.
Sequoia
Everything is that man's fault.
Ryan
I wouldn't give him that much credit.
Sequoia
That's a his fault anyways. Okay, that's it. Bye, guys.
Ryan
Bye.
Date: September 18, 2025
Hosts: Sequoia Holmes, Ryann Graham
In this nostalgic, lively episode, Sequoia and Ryann dive deep into the after-school TV rituals that shaped a generation: MTV’s TRL (Total Request Live) and BET’s 106 & Park. They reflect on the cultural impact of these music video countdown shows, swap funny personal stories, compare how race shaped music TV, and reminisce about iconic moments, performers, and hosts. The show explores generational shifts in music consumption and shines a light on how TRL and 106 & Park created unique, now-lost communal spaces for Black youth and pop culture fans alike.
A. Mariah Carey’s TRL Breakdown (25:18–27:52)
B. Eminem Takes TRL Hostage (28:03)
C. Destiny’s Child Performances
D. Raven-Symoné Calls Out Her Fans (45:09)
E. Genuine’s “Pony” Stunt (46:15–46:59)
F. Rocsi & Terrence J On-Air Tension (49:04)
On shared music experiences:
"Before Twitter… we would be sitting and watching." – Ryann (12:09)
On Destiny’s Child’s performance stamina:
“Original key, voices was up here… and dancing in heels. And also they're doing this on… a Tuesday afternoon.” – Ryann (33:19)
On kids today not knowing variety in music:
“We’re really losing recipes for real. Not to sound like an old head, but I’m like, damn. I’m actually feeling like we’re losing recipes.” – Sequoia (70:15)
On 106 & Park's hosts' cultural impact:
“The hosts of 106 and Park feel way more iconic to me.” – Ryann (19:02)
On performance demands for artists then vs now:
"People today are not… the pop stars today are just not. They don't pop the way they used to." – Ryann (36:12)
On celebrity beef & viral moments:
“Rihanna was willing to take it there every time. And still to this day, I fear if you push her…” – Sequoia (55:26)
On the rise of viral music & the end of monoculture:
“Crank That… that was probably the beginning of the end… He was the first kind of viral song… since then, everyone’s like, I can be famous on my own.” – Ryann (73:16)
The hosts blend sharp cultural critique with hilarious, affectionate nostalgia. Their banter is peppered with in-jokes, pop references, iconic song snippets, and authentically Black Gen Y/late-millennial energy. The tone is fun, irreverent, and inclusive—while reinforcing the show’s mission: to investigate and validate the full spectrum of Black pop interests.