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Foreign. Welcome back to BNI and the Power of One. We are back with your show submissions. So topics Questions submitted@bnipowerofone.com you can go there. Please do keep them coming in. It could be anything. It could be B and I related, could be generally business related. For the Business Matters episodes we do your weekly presentation for those episodes, whatever. I continue to appreciate everybody who can continues to do it and have this show be yours. This question came in, I'm going to jump it right to the top of the list. Seems a little bit more urgent. Some of these are topics, a lot of topics are repeat which is going to be completely natural and perfectly fine just because we've been doing it for so long. But sometimes some come in and you're like ah, that's like seems pretty urgent. So we're going to talk about this one. It's been asked to be kept anonymous which again is perfectly fine. And if you ever, you know, fear that if you were to submit a question, you know it would cause issues in your chapter, whatever if people knew who it was perfectly fine. Just say leave anonymous and we will. So the question comes from. Or the question is says hello, I really need to keep this anonymous. Which is perfectly fine. I run into this, I've run into this situation recently. How would you handle a situation where a BNI member is let go from their job in reference to them retaining their seat? Assume the person paid for the seat themselves. How long do they get to stay in the seat if they're unemployed in that profession? What if the person isn't telling anyone they've been let go? Thank you for your guidance. Any guidance you can provide. Okay, so general member policies. In the BNI policies everybody gets in their new member kit. Number two, members should represent their primary professional focus. This used to say their full time focus. I'm trying to see if they keep updating some of these and it's always interesting and just so general reference. Any policy change goes through the bni. What is the iboa, the International Board of Advisors which is members who are on that for review and everything else. They're part of that process. So it's not just some BNI person somewhere saying well this will be fun, let's make them do this. I'm trying to see if there's anything else. It used to say full time but this says should represent their primary professional focus because some people have side jobs or whatever and that's perfectly fine. But the point is you need to have one, you need to have a profession. That you're representing, you need to have a job. If it's, if that's the case. So how would I. Let's just talk about the first part. No matter who pays for the seat, nobody owns the seat, okay? There is no like real ownership of it. But what they do is they own the time. So in this case, let's say the member has been let go from their job with the company they were representing. So they were with ABC Company, they're no longer with ABC Company. Okay? That seat needs to be opened immediately because nobody has that seat right now. The first question is who owns the time remaining? That goes to whoever paid for the seat. So if the company paid for an employee to be there, the company does not own the time. This came up in one of our regions too where we've been running a pile around monthly memberships and the company was paying for the membership and thought they could just keep replacing the person going because they're like, well, we own the seat. No you don't. Nobody owns the seat. It's the member who got approved by the chapter that gets to represent the company there. The company can pay for it and they can own any remaining time. And it's monthly. There is no remaining time. But you pay for a year, six months in person leaves the company. If the corporation or the company paid for the seat, they own the certificate of credit of time. If the member personally paid for the seat, they own the certificate of credit for the time. So this person would have that time. And what needs to be said is, listen, we're going to freeze the time that you have remaining certificate of credit, drop you from the chapter. As soon as you line up another job. As long as the seat's still open, come back, apply and use that certificate of credit. There's no way to hold a seat that doesn't exist if somebody doesn't have a job or own the company to represent that profession. And I think it's highly unethical to pretend otherwise. It's, you know, any policy or anything in place, anything you do in B and I, I always go, you know, what we do for one, we have to be willing to do for all. And we're not going to let somebody else just come in and say, yeah, I want to be a member but I don't have a profession. It's even worse. And pretend that they still do when they don't. And it's not to try to be cold hearted or to say the chapter, maybe the chapter probably wants to help this person, but for the sake of the seat, the sake of the membership. There isn't a membership there without something to represent. And if you're not telling people that that's the case, you're really running some high levels of risk where somebody might refer that person. And when we talk about, when I talk about referrals, meaning I don't know what the profession is, but let's just say they were, they're a life insurance agent just because that's what I did and they're no longer with the company that they were with. But you're not telling me that. And I'm at a, you know, at a meeting with my client and I'm talking about all the reasons they really need to meet with this person to set up some pretty important, important key man life insurance policies and why this is a really big deal and how good this person is and why you should go with this person and not the thousand other companies they could go with. And I said get them all agreeing and I'm going to line you up and I introduce them to Joe Smith. And nobody told me Joe Smith doesn't do that anymore, isn't with the company. That's a problem on a lot of levels Right now I look really bad. I've spent all this work with my client to try to get them over, you know, to get them set up as a referral to Joe Smith. And a pretty touchy, Sorry, I have no idea what the profession is in this, but let's just use this one pretty touchy subject. Takes a long time. It's a lot of work to get the referral. I finally get them to agree, I go to, I go and connect them and now we're all just finding out Joe Smith actually doesn't do that anymore. Which again, what a waste of time. But also looks bad because I just referred somebody who got fired or got let go or left or whatever the reason is and I didn't know that. How did I not know that I'm referring this person? How can I. It is super bad. It's a super bad look and really a high risk look. And then you do that once in the chapter and things can really culturally struggle and fall apart. So how would I go about doing this? I would submit it directly to the membership committee and say we have a member who no longer is in the profession they are currently representing in our chapter, they are no longer with the company they're currently representing in our chapter and you need to do something about it. And if there's any kind of pushback and stuff, I would probably go to my director. You can even do that as a, as a sidestep if you want. Go directly to whoever your director of your chapter is and just say, hey, this is something aware of. Can you help bring this to the leadership team's attention so they can make the right decision and, and do what they need to do? And the answer is it's very simple. It's like there is no profession there, there's no seat there. And I would think that again, the chapter maybe wants to help that person. I get it. The person who knows why they got let go from their job. No matter what it is, it's probably not something they're super happy about. And so they're not, you know, maybe they don't want it to be super public and they don't want to deal with that kind of issue. But at the end of the day there's far more downside than upside and like pretending that it still exists and affects everybody in the group and it sets a really bad precedent. So go directly to your director or directly to your membership committee and you know, just say, hey, we have a member who's no longer with the company they're representing. They're no longer employed at all or representing the product or service they're representing and isn't telling anybody. We gotta, we gotta remove that situation. We gotta fix that situation for this, just for the betterment of everybody, including that person. Because it would also look bad on that person. Right. In my scenario I'm set you up with, you know, Jack Smith and da da, da da. And then I find out Jack Smith's not with that company and I'm going to be like, you didn't tell me, you didn't tell me you were no longer with them. How am I ever going to trust you with anything again? No matter what your next profession or company is. You couldn't even tell me like I just did all this and you made me look like an a hole. It's over, it's over. Like that will be one strain in a relationship that's probably not fixable. So yeah, that's how I would do it. It's a great again where I think one of the things that we're trying to be a little different, we'll talk about whatever this is a touchy one and hopefully not one a lot of us run into, but important to know and, and I appreciate you submitting it and hopefully this is helpful and if you get any follow up, reach out to me. I don't believe this is in one of my regions, so I can my hands are tied a little bit, but besides giving advice. But hopefully this was helpful. And if you got any topics, questions, etc. Go to benipowerofone.com and I'll talk to you soon.
