Andrew Egger (3:54)

Yeah. Yeah. So just talk me through a little bit of the kind of then decision tree for the rest of the family for Emily and what were they looking at and essentially how have they decided to move forward?

Adrian Carrasquillo (4:06)

Yeah, it's one of the things we talked about. I think I would be so upset and so hurt that this is the country that I'm from and now I have to leave. And so it was sort of interesting the way she said it to me. She said like ultimately it was no decision at all. Like she said that they on their own would sort of be bad parents, but together that they're Perfect. You know, that he's sort of very playful and maybe doesn't have as many rules for the son and that she's very like, keep the trains running, but that together it's a family. Right. And so she said for that reason there was no question at all. I think in the dark moments when she went to the nine hour drive to gentle Louisiana. I mean, this is part of what the administration does as well, which is that these Louisiana detention centers, which are like, known for human rights abuses and also for being inaccessible, they want it that way. They want it to be difficult for family and lawyers to go find and track down the person that they're trying to ship out of the country. And so when she spoke with him, he thought he had lost his family. He thought she had given up on him because he didn't hear she was looking for him. She was trying to find out his ICE locator went dark and so she had no idea where he was. And then ultimately her decision was, I want to keep the family together. She had considered other countries, but she's going to go to Colombia and she's going to be with her husband, with her baby.

Andrew Egger (5:27)

That's such a, such an insane, insane story. I wanted to drill in on a couple of other little things here because one thing that really struck me was how you mention her father. I'll just quote from you here. Emily's father, a Vietnam veteran and a die hard Trump fan, got along well with Diego so well that he officiated at their wedding in January 2023. I think that's such a striking little detail of the way that kind of the abstract notion where Donald Trump's kind of broad strokes immigration policies still poll really well for a lot of the electorate. Yeah, of course, illegal immigrants shouldn't be here. They should be deported. And we should do that at scale and as quickly as possible. A lot of people kind of buy that in the abstract and at, you know, at the 30, 000 foot level. Who then when it comes down to the actual individual human beings involved, it feels, it feels very different for a lot of them.

Adrian Carrasquillo (6:24)

Absolutely right. I think that we have already seen, we've seen enough polling, we've talked about it ad nauseam. There was certainly anger about the way that Joe Biden handled the border and they wanted the border to be strengthened. But beyond that, there were so many polls and so many stories that have come out where Americans weren't really supporting some mass deportation effort that was going into schools or hospitals or churches or, or taking out their neighbors or the parents of their kid's friend from school. And so, you know, this is exactly that.

Andrew Egger (6:54)

Right.

Adrian Carrasquillo (6:54)

And I thought it was important to talk about the Trump supporters in her life that are sort of like, well, what's going on now? Her father, who clearly was a Trump supporter, a die hard Trump supporter, and ended up thinking that Diego was just an amazing guy and he was there for her when her father got a brain tumor and when he died last year. You know, that's family, right? That's, that's what we're talking about here. And just to see the way that, that this family has been affected and those ripple effects. Because then she also talked to me about a lovely Baptist couple, neighbors of hers that are 81 and 82 years old and didn't have kids of their own. And, and her and her husband were like kids to them. And he was showing, the husband had a garden and, and they just love the son. And she told me the wife has cried since she found out that they're having to leave. So, you know, again, just the way that these policies affect real people and those ripples that are now pulling in American US Citizens as well.

Andrew Egger (7:48)

I did want to ask also, just kind of from the opposite side of it maybe, I don't know if you'd call it devil's advocate or what, but when I, when I'm reading this story and I'm looking at, you know, that we're talking about a guy who has had, you know, a deportation order from a jud since, you know, long before Donald Trump got in, since, since the first Trump term really, and that, that has been just kind of like deferred. I'm just kind of like, as, as a layman, I see that. I'm like, well, that doesn't seem like a particularly sustainable or stable situation either. Right? I mean, to have this, the kind of preexisting system where, where the courts are kind of churning through these people and a lot of people are in kind of limbo and they're like, I guess it's fine for now. And I guess, you know, nobody's, nobody's deporting me yet. And I can continue to live my life and I can even, you know, continue to put down roots and things here. I, I don't know what to really ask about that, but it doesn't seem like the pre existing situation was exactly ideal either, right?

Adrian Carrasquillo (8:42)

No. I mean, there's a reason that Democrats and Republicans have agreed for a generation that the immigration system is broken. And when I speak to immigration lawyers about this stuff. They say there's a way to do this. You bring a lot of resources to immigration judges and to immigration courts, and then you're able to do the work that's supposed to be done for these incredible backlogs and things like that. I mean, it's like we always know this about Donald Trump. It's always just sort of like black and white, everybody's out. Well, these are these complex matters. And, you know, what he's done with immigration is just sort of like, chip away and destroy the foundations of things like asylum and legal immigration and different programs, refugee programs that he has just sort of decided that he wants to get rid of. And so, of course, you're right. There is the other way of doing this and following the law and sort of being smarter with an immigration system that perhaps is not as permissive and is about law and order. And then that's going to be hard, and that's going to. And then maybe the flip side of that will be that some Americans won't like the way that that's being done. But I think it's pretty clear that the sort of, you know, way that Donald Trump is doing everything with mass deportation has all of these unintended consequences as well.

Andrew Egger (9:54)

You don't really get into this in the piece, but it's the thing I've been noodling on with the, with the big, beautiful bill, you know, that. That has this massive expansion for, for border enforcement money in terms of hiring more ICE agents and creating more detention centers, and just a very small kind of marginal increase for the exact. What you're talking about right now, the backlog, the immigration judges to work through all of that. I want to get back, though, to the family, because obviously that's the main focus of this particular story is just kind of the human plight that these people are going through. And I guess just what's happening. What's next? I mean, like, like, they've. So they've decided that they're going to follow him to Colombia, as you said, logistically, what does that look like? I mean, I assume she is. She will still be. She and their, their son will still be US Citizens. Is it. Are there any obstacles on the other end for establishing residency there?

Adrian Carrasquillo (10:44)

Or.

Andrew Egger (10:45)

I mean, what's. What, what does their family kind of need to do in order to be reunited here?

Adrian Carrasquillo (10:50)

I think that Diego has been working on his side on the, you know, getting a job, getting a license. If the US had let him keep his license, it would have been easier in Colombia to get his license. He's going through six weeks of driver's ed. He got a motorcycle license. She got him a motorcycle so he can get around. She's getting a passport for her son. And so they're going to head there in June. So they're going to head there very soon. And you know, I will say that like I also have, you know, a part two of this Love in the Time of self deportation story coming out. Another family, a different they're going somewhere else. And it's not, you know, a Latino family. It's not a Latino immigrant. So, you know, again, it's like when you bring up the stuff of everything that's going on with this big, beautiful bill and how that's going to increase the detention resources and surge all these resources for mass deportation efforts, we know that everything that's going on is only going to get worse intent in terms of some of those unintended consequences. So on Friday, we'll have another family as well and what they're dealing with.

Andrew Egger (11:47)

Well, thank you for continuing to follow this story. Thank you for continuing to surface all of these, all of these stories of these people that we would. I mean, I feel like I write about national politics and if I didn't write about it, a million other people would write about it. And the stuff that you don't write about, if you weren't writing about it, who knows if we'd ever hear these stories at all. So thanks for doing it, Adrian, and thanks for coming on to talk about it.

Adrian Carrasquillo (12:07)

Thanks so much, Andrew. I appreciate you.

Andrew Egger (12:08)

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