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Sharon Srivatsa
Hey, this is Sharon Trivatsa. Welcome back to the Business School Podcast. And in this episode I'm going to break down for you 16 lessons in under eight minutes, which means I wrote down several lessons that I've learned and normally whenever I find a great quote, a great learning, something that I learned that I could put into words because someone told me as a piece of advice, something that my coach shared with me, something that my mentor helped me drive, an insight, something that I read, something that I created, something that came to me, I write them all down. Today I was just meditating and reading what I wrote down And I found 16 of these 16 things that I pulled out that I wanted to share with you. And this is 16 lessons in under eight minutes. And it all starts right now. One thing is for certain, just because it's tried and true doesn't mean it's working right now. So the big question is this. Where can you learn what is working right now? The strategies, the tactics, the psychology, and the exact how to. How to grow your business, how to blow up your personal brand and supercharge your personal growth. That is the question and this podcast will give you the answer. My name is Sharon Srivata and welcome to Business School. Let's get right into it because I wrote down 16amazing lessons that I want to share with you and it'll go really, really fast. So let's get to it right now. Number one. How you prepare shows just how much you care. So good. How you prepare shows just how much you care. Number two, anything that should be done today shouldn't be put off for tomorrow. The easiest way to solve it, anything that should be done today shouldn't be put off for tomorrow. Number three. Spend your energy on things that make a difference. I've been thinking a lot about this. 1. Spend your energy on things that make a lot of difference. And the way to answer this is if you have something on your to do list and ask the question, does this make a difference? If you're like, eh, there's a good chance that you're just checking the box on that. Spend your energy on things that make a difference. Number four, Surround yourself with people who fight for you in rooms that you are not in. So awesome about friendship and loyalty and relationships. Number four, Surround yourself with people who fight for you in rooms that you are not in. Number five, the wise man does immediately what the fool does eventually. Very similar to anything that should be done today shouldn't be put off for tomorrow. Just a reemergence for myself the wise man does immediately what a fool does eventually. Number six. If you want to change what you do, change who you compare yourself to. So good. If you want to change what you do, change who you compare yourself to. Number seven. This is going to hit many of us really hard. If you don't focus on wealth, scarcity will find you. It's so true. But it's too hard for us to talk about this. If you don't focus on wealth, scarcity will find you. If you don't focus on wealth, scarcity will find you. Number eight. Figure out how to guarantee defeat. Then just do the opposite. Now you know what you must not do. Say it again. Figure out how to guarantee defeat. Then just do the opposite. Now you know what you must not do. Number nine. If you're looking for something special to happen, it's supposed to be hard. If you're looking for something special to happen, it's supposed to be hard. Number 10. Lessons in life will be repeated until they're learned. I really love this one. Lessons in life will be repeated until they're learned. A lot of people will tell me, I'm really afraid of the thing or really afraid of that thing. I'm really afraid this is going to happen to me again. But if you learn the lesson and you articulate it and you put it in language for yourself, it gets really, really part of your nervous system. Lessons in life will be repeated until they're learned. Quick sidebar. I was talking to my coach about this. She said something really powerful to me and she said, you haven't learned the lesson until you've put it into your own language yet. You haven't learned the lesson until you've put it into your own language yet. Meaning if you don't come up with a statement like this or a thought process like this. If you have not put language to the lesson that you've learned, you've not learned the lesson yet. Really great advice. Number 10. Lessons in life will be repeated until they're learned. Here is number 11. This is a Bernay Brown quote. In the absence of love and belonging, there is always suffering. Man, that hit hard. In the absence of love and belonging, there is always suffering. Number 12. I have never achieved a single thing in my life, comfortably. So good. I have never achieved a single thing in my life, comfortably. Number 13. This is probably one of the. My favorite quotes of all times. I don't know the author. I don't know where I found it, but I wrote it down. Gratitude helps you fall in love with the life you already have. Gratitude helps you fall in love with the life you already have. Number 14. We're going to talk about this for a second. Compliments are a gift, not a transaction. Compliments are a gift, not a transaction. When someone compliments you, when someone elevates you, when someone recognizes you and someone appreciates you and someone gives you that gift, Compliments are a gift, not a transaction. And how you want to think about it is, let's say someone brings you a gift. The thing you should not be thinking about is, man, I owe Sharon a gift back. Do not think about it that way because you take away from the gift. Compliments are a gift, not a transaction. Number 15. Love isn't there to make us happy. It exists to show us just how much we can endure. It's a Herman Hesse quote. This is so deep and so, so, so thoughtful. Love isn't there to just make us happy. It exists to show us just how much we can endure. Say it again. Love isn't there just to make us happy. It exists to show us just how much we can endure. Gosh, it's so powerful. It shows the power of love. It shows the power of relationships. It shows the power of loyalty. It shows the power of being in a tribe that loves you, cares about you, wants to support you. And it shows you that you could endure more. It also goes further to show you something that when you see somebody going through something difficult, when you see somebody that is needing support, you don't have to write a check. You don't have to buy them a meal. You just have to love them, be there for them. Because love isn't there to just make us happy. It exists to show us just how much we can endure. And number 16, you cannot be grateful for what you feel entitled to. That should hit you right between the eyes. You cannot be grateful for what you feel entitled to. If you feel entitled to your success, you can never be grateful for it. If you feel entitled to that award, you can never be grateful for it. If you feel entitled to making $20 million, you will never feel grateful for it. If you feel entitled to have a great family, you know, you can be like, I deserve that. The language of I deserve that. That doesn't serve me. Very interesting choice of words because it actually breeds entitlement. You cannot be grateful for what you feel entitled to. Love. These 16, I'm going to fire through them once more just in case it jogs the memory for you. Number one, how you prepare shows just how much you care. Number two. Anything that should be done today shouldn't be put off for tomorrow. 3. Spend your energy on things that truly make a difference. Surround yourself with people who fight for you in rooms that you are not in. 5. The wise man does immediately what the fool does eventually. 6. If you want to change what you do, change who you compare yourself to. 7. If you don't focus on wealth, scarcity will find you. 8. Figure out how to guarantee defeat, then just do the opposite. Now you know what you must not do. If you're looking for something special to happen, it is supposed to be hard. 10. Lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned. 11. In the absence of love and belonging, there is always suffering. It's Brene Brown. Number 12. I have never achieved a single thing in my life comfortably. Number 13. Gratitude helps you fall in love with the life that you already have. Number 14. Compliments are a gift and not a transaction. Number 15. Love isn't there just to make us happy. It exists to show us just how much we can endure. Herman hesse and number 16. You cannot be grateful for what you feel entitled to. I wanted to pack 16 lessons that I wrote down in under eight minutes for you. I hope this is helpful to you. I don't know if you are driving or working out, et cetera, and it's hard for you to go leave a review or things like that, but I bet one of these probably connected with you. So maybe take a screenshot, share this, tag me and tell people to listen to it and if it's one of these connected with you, but if you like this, just do that. That way I know if just take a screenshot, tag this, tag me. That way I know you like this and maybe I can make more like this for you. I spend a lot of time whenever I find something that is inspiring, thoughtful, I write it down and I think about it often. And when I meditate and think about this stuff I'm like oh cool, I should probably share it with you. So that's why I did this again. If you like this, please take a screenshot and tag me so I can make more like this for you. 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